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90 Day Fiancé Season 12 Episode 2
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00:00:00Previously on 90 Day Fiance.
00:00:03Is this possibly the one?
00:00:04This is the one.
00:00:07Even though I work in bridal, my love life isn't a fairy tale.
00:00:11At first, I was like, we're going to get married
00:00:13as soon as you get to the United States.
00:00:14But now, reality's setting in.
00:00:17An executive from New York meets a hotel entertainment worker.
00:00:21Hi!
00:00:23It's vast differences.
00:00:25Sometimes I feel like I have real life problems.
00:00:27And, like, you know, he tells me about his problems,
00:00:30and I'm like, that's not a problem.
00:00:32I have a lot more at stake here.
00:00:39We make out.
00:00:41I have intrusive thoughts as part of my OCD.
00:00:44And when I get drunk, I really want to make out
00:00:47with everyone I know.
00:00:48I was a little bit crazy the past two months.
00:00:51I, like, kissed me more while drunk again.
00:00:55Josh says he can't see himself married to me if I keep doing this.
00:01:00Did you tell Josh about this?
00:01:05Yay!
00:01:06That's a great party last week.
00:01:08Oh, yeah.
00:01:08I don't tell my fiancee Annabelle every single thing
00:01:12that goes on at the parties.
00:01:14I was in bed with you when you were with Annabelle.
00:01:17Man, it's not going to happen when she's here.
00:01:19You do know when she gets here,
00:01:20we are actually going to have a conversation.
00:01:22There's no way around that.
00:01:25Every prophetic word you spoke on my life is coming to pay.
00:01:31God has given me multiple gifts,
00:01:34and Maxwell is the man I have been waiting for.
00:01:38But there's still that stereotype of Nigerians being scammers.
00:01:43OK, sweetie, what they say?
00:01:45Not for the kid one.
00:01:47There's nothing that can be done.
00:01:48I'm not accepting it.
00:01:50I don't know how the devil snuck in,
00:01:54but I know one thing.
00:01:56He got to leave with that darn visa.
00:01:59And that's for sure.
00:02:04I took the wrong way, but I came back around.
00:02:10All of the hard days are over now.
00:02:15All right.
00:02:16Daddy's going to get Mommy Bell.
00:02:17Are y'all excited?
00:02:19She'll be here.
00:02:20We got finished cleaning up.
00:02:22Daddy'll be back tomorrow with Mommy Bell.
00:02:23Love is a fire burning in my heart.
00:02:27I got back my rhythm.
00:02:28I won't stop.
00:02:30There ain't no stopping this change.
00:02:32Y'all are going to be lucky if you get to stay in the house.
00:02:35Yeah, she might throw y'all out.
00:02:37We're going to have to brush you more.
00:02:39We're going to have to knock.
00:02:40See?
00:02:40Come on.
00:02:41Get down.
00:02:42That's what I'm talking about.
00:02:44Annabelle does not like dog hair.
00:02:46My fiance Annabelle literally is a clean freak.
00:02:49Get down.
00:02:50Stay off the couch, bud.
00:02:53I answer the phone.
00:02:54She's got a broom in her hand.
00:02:56You know, she's washing dishes.
00:02:58When I, you know, she's doing laundry.
00:03:00I mean, she keeps it immaculate.
00:03:01Golly.
00:03:03Look at all this hair y'all got.
00:03:05You're going to get me in trouble.
00:03:09It's just me and the dogs at my bachelor pad.
00:03:12And, you know, I'm more of a robo vac every now and then.
00:03:17And, you know, dust on really special occasions.
00:03:20And, you know, but Annabelle, it's like a daily thing for her.
00:03:25She even tells me she's allergic to dog hair.
00:03:28And she's not allergic to dog hair.
00:03:30She just doesn't want it everywhere in the house.
00:03:34OK, I got to get going, guys.
00:03:35About time.
00:03:37Daddy will be back tomorrow.
00:03:41So, yeah, it's going to be an adjustment for both of us.
00:03:44But her plane arrives soon.
00:03:46So the only cleaning I'm thinking about is her scrubbing me in the bathtub tonight.
00:03:50Ha, ha, ha, ha.
00:03:55Off to St. Louis.
00:04:01Couple hours.
00:04:03I'll be at the airport.
00:04:04You know, I don't know how it's going to go.
00:04:05It's definitely a long time coming.
00:04:08I'm still not feeling real good about the Nicole thing.
00:04:12I mean, that's my fear is me tell her that I cheated on her.
00:04:16And, you know, that's what Nicole's going to tell her, even though, you know, in my mind it's not.
00:04:21But, you know, when that word comes out, you know, I don't know how she'll perceive it.
00:04:27Maybe at a party on the lake or something, I kissed a chick or had a few too many.
00:04:33We're just having fun.
00:04:34And to me, that's not cheating.
00:04:36That's having a good time.
00:04:42There's a lot going through my mind and a lot of what ifs.
00:04:45Maybe my ex-wife, Nicole, is just bluffing and just trying to get my goat.
00:04:50But on the other hand, what if she's not and she's really trying to break up my marriage?
00:04:56This spot's kind of narrow.
00:04:59See if I can get out.
00:05:01I've been married twice.
00:05:03This is going to be my third.
00:05:05And it's really hit my wallet.
00:05:08So either Annabelle's going to be my partner forever or we're just not going to get married.
00:05:16I don't even know where the rivals come in.
00:05:20Keep reaching for that good life.
00:05:25Cause I believe it's coming soon.
00:05:29Oh, 454.
00:05:32Okay, we're good.
00:05:34It's getting kind of hard to breathe.
00:05:36My stomach's hurting.
00:05:41I mean, she's changing her whole life to come be with me.
00:05:44So, you know, I'm excited.
00:05:46I'm going to say I'm sweating.
00:05:50I don't think it's that hot in here.
00:05:52I'm just like.
00:06:20I'm just like.
00:06:24Oh my God, baby.
00:06:29Oh, baby.
00:06:32I miss you so much, baby.
00:06:34I miss you too.
00:06:42You okay, baby?
00:06:44Hmm?
00:06:45Yeah.
00:06:46You okay?
00:06:47Mm-mm.
00:06:48You look pretty.
00:06:49Mm-mm.
00:06:50You don't look like you've been flying 30 hours.
00:06:53You know how bad I look when I get off the point.
00:06:56Huh?
00:07:00I am Annabelle.
00:07:02I am 54 years old from Iloilo, Philippines.
00:07:06Oh, Lord.
00:07:09I'm crying.
00:07:10I got you some flowers.
00:07:11Oh, thank you.
00:07:12Does it smell good?
00:07:14Yeah, thank you.
00:07:16I'm feeling emotional because it's been two years we didn't see each other.
00:07:21I feel very happy to see him.
00:07:23But I was surprised when I see him again.
00:07:26Oh my God.
00:07:30His body is a little bit big again.
00:07:35We need to go for walking and Zumba together.
00:07:39God, I miss you so much, baby.
00:07:42I miss you too.
00:07:44Oh, Lord.
00:07:46To get to this day, it's almost surreal.
00:07:48It's like I got to pinch you and I got to pinch me because it almost feels like...
00:07:53This is the moment of truth.
00:07:54It just doesn't feel like it's real, baby.
00:07:56It's taking so long, right?
00:07:58Yeah.
00:07:59Crazy, baby.
00:08:00Crazy.
00:08:02I can't wait to kiss this.
00:08:06You're in the airport, baby.
00:08:09Want to go get your bags, baby?
00:08:11Yeah.
00:08:12Can't wait tonight, baby, to get you to the room and get in the bed with you and love all
00:08:18over you.
00:08:19And I miss that so much the last two years.
00:08:22I like that.
00:08:23I'm going to use this later.
00:08:28Okay.
00:08:29Well, we can definitely arrange that.
00:08:33Oh my gosh.
00:08:34I can't believe it.
00:08:42Do you want to sing the national anthem with me?
00:08:45Um...
00:08:47Yes.
00:08:48Oh, okay.
00:08:50I can't believe it.
00:08:52I can't believe it.
00:08:55I can't believe it.
00:08:58I can't believe it.
00:09:04If you add a hand trouver now.
00:09:15I can't believe it.
00:09:20I am so cocky.
00:09:24I want to sing it to me.
00:09:28so i arrived in the states and uh katie's got a hotel room which frankly i'm quite happy with
00:09:35because i was worried that um we might be sleeping in the car or worse so i'm really glad that
00:09:42we
00:09:42can just be us and kind of reconnect and be with each other oh those cheetos do not smell lovely
00:09:54okay well don't we you smell bad i do i i definitely smells bad actually my mouth smells bad yeah
00:10:04like
00:10:04your breath oh i'm gonna clean my teeth good my hands are cheeto dust forever
00:10:11katie has since i first met her she was and continues to be as the probably the bluntest
00:10:18person i know i have this mental image of a tasmanian devil like in the flesh
00:10:27i'm thinking crazy it's not bad though it's just wild
00:10:31you want to talk about him no i was just like oh we should be naked while driving and i
00:10:36was like
00:10:36wait i think that's illegal to be naked while driving is that a state law i don't i don't
00:10:43that's public nudity is that that might be legal in the uk but it's not legal here
00:10:47there's no badness in katie uh she is a menace only in the most comical ridiculous sense
00:11:11what are you doing you meant it i'm scratching your beard it's a sweaty head
00:11:17you know my hand is really sweaty sorry i went to be fair i put on a lot of hand
00:11:21sanitizer
00:11:24look surprise we're at a hotel it doesn't suck
00:11:28nice
00:11:37excited look it's working here it's colorful isn't it yeah i like it it's very like portland vibes
00:11:48okay here's the room
00:11:53this is lovely
00:11:56this looks super comfortable do you want to see around do you want to see yeah i worked so hard
00:12:01on
00:12:01this this morning i but then i kind of gave up halfway because oh i love it i was running
00:12:09out of time
00:12:11oh you must be tired yeah you must be tired too
00:12:22katie has this wonderful kind of uh ability to go from being quite blunt and brutal to being the
00:12:30sweetest softest sentimental person uh and it comes out in things like decorating the hotel room or
00:12:37decorating me at the airport and it just it just makes me melt inside i'm just like oh i love
00:12:42you
00:12:44i was so stressed out about having sex now i'm tired why are you stressed out um i was just
00:12:51stressed
00:12:51because i feel like we've had problems with these um what are you feeling wanted and i was worried when
00:12:56you came here you wouldn't want to have sex and that would just like set the mood wrong and then
00:13:00wait to be awkward and then our chemistry would be dead yeah i mean i feel like the main thing
00:13:08is
00:13:08getting rid of all like the the stressy kind of work kind of you know wait until like we're settling
00:13:15down
00:13:16and really focus on us i just was having a really hard trust and let that would actually happen when
00:13:23we
00:13:23get here i just want to feel like you want me i know i need to focus on you more
00:13:28um should we both make
00:13:33commitments and maybe one commitment you can make is to not keep kissing other people
00:13:44i think that she makes out with people partly from insecurity and partly i think she gets
00:13:54a bit of a uh an impulsive rush from playing with fire i think she also knows that it's hurtful
00:14:01and i
00:14:01think she knows that it's not right and that's why i'm patient because i think her heart's in the right
00:14:07place but i could very well say i've don't like this and here's an ultimatum stop it or i'm leaving
00:14:15i don't know i like i want to feel wanted you know we think in very different ways yeah very
00:14:22often and
00:14:22so if we can start out aligned i think that's the best start we could we could kind of hope
00:14:29for
00:14:32i think sex is an important part of what we're talking about i think that it's intimacy and loving
00:14:38and i don't feel loving if we're not having sex i mean i don't feel loving when you're playing with
00:14:46other guys like i think at least they want to have sex with me
00:14:52honestly i'm like worried things won't change
00:15:01let's call poppy i'm here handsome i'm debbie and my fiance's name is mido and he's an egyptian
00:15:10movie star i love you
00:15:14he's already asking if i would be willing to like move move where hollywood new york
00:15:23i can't help but worry that mido's just coming over here to become a star
00:15:29i really want to see what this attorney gonna say if the appeal is an option there's nigerian men
00:15:34here in the united states there are but that's not the one for me it's not a realistic relationship
00:15:42but she thinks so i'm worried about your safety i mean what if the embassy they know something that we
00:15:50don't know
00:16:05oh if i was a dog wouldn't wear no button-up shirt morning good morning how are you i'm good
00:16:13how are
00:16:13you doing this morning and i'd get all the plays i could fall so i'm just chasing my tail
00:16:21good girl a little bit in your spot honey that's the life for me that's a good girl okay
00:16:30hey hi how can i help you i'm debbie i'm 55 years old and i'm from new orleans louisiana
00:16:38come on good girl i am an insurance agent it's a pretty monotonous day in and day out career
00:16:59i am in charge of writing new business good morning hi this is debbie we have metrics that we
00:17:08have to hit every day i was going over that quote that we did for your auto insurance walking someone
00:17:14through a claim anything that you can think of in the course of an insurance policy we want to make
00:17:20sure that you are absolutely covered with all of your coverages and your deductibles from 500 to a
00:17:25thousand state of louisiana allows for a five-year interval for an accident it would be very important
00:17:31for you to carry higher bodily injury coverages but outside of work my life is way more exciting
00:17:40six years ago i decided that i was going to take a trip to egypt with my daughter and ended
00:17:45up meeting
00:17:46the love of my life my fiance's name is mido he is 41 years old and he's an egyptian movie
00:17:56star
00:18:00mido is an actor and a model i mean look at him
00:18:05he has a fantastic smile an absolutely gorgeous face and he has a charm and a wit about him that
00:18:12makes
00:18:12all his physical attributes electrifying mido is famous
00:18:22on social media he's got hundreds of thousands of followers people know who he is in egypt
00:18:31so what kinds of movies and tv has mido done in egypt
00:18:38mido's and honestly he doesn't show me his work i don't know why i've asked him to send me like
00:18:46reels of stuff that he's done but he says i'm not going to understand what they're saying
00:18:53so he keeps telling me i'll show you when i arrive and i'll explain to you what's going on
00:18:59but he's got hundreds of thousands of followers so
00:19:04obviously he's built up some sort of following
00:19:13let's call poppy let's call poppy come on
00:19:20hey baby
00:19:22i'm here
00:19:24handsome
00:19:26okay let me see
00:19:31oh my gosh
00:19:33your pyramid is not finished yet okay
00:19:39the funnest thing about mido is that we just have a really good banter
00:19:49but at first when i met mido he annoyed me
00:19:54i was on a trip with my daughter devin to egypt and he was our tour guide
00:20:01he said probably one of the cheesiest things possible he called me cleopatra or
00:20:08some goddess i don't remember which one but it was enough that i was just like oh god
00:20:16and then my daughter leans over and she's like he's flirting with you and i went
00:20:24no she was like mom he's flirting with you and so we climbed into the great pyramid of khufu
00:20:34and when we were climbing down he kissed me
00:20:39and i was really kind of like shocked being single for so long i kind of didn't know what
00:20:45to do with it you know he's younger than i am very handsome he's very charismatic it was just
00:20:54something that i didn't know if it was real
00:21:00you know
00:21:01are you nervous for your trip a little bit a little bit
00:21:15what are you going to be packing
00:21:20baby we have tuna fish you don't need
00:21:26english from my tuna fish speak arabic that's different i miss you i miss you too
00:21:33can you bring me headshots yeah definitely send me some more of your modeling shots so i can print
00:21:42those okay okay when mido gets to america his um expectation is he definitely wants to be an actor
00:21:52and he wants to be a major actor i love you
00:21:57bye-bye and that's also a great fear because what if he arrives here and after two months realizes
00:22:06this is not going to be the place of opportunity is he going to be happy here
00:22:27he's really photogenic so he still wants to do the acting thing when he gets here that's the plan
00:22:33i don't know that the acting thing is really going to go anywhere personally i love this one
00:22:41he's so photogenic this looks like uh an amateur photo shoot thing for like abracombie and fitch or
00:22:49something what do you think of mido's headshots
00:22:55he knows how to find the light in pictures
00:22:59to me they don't really scream for like professional actor headshots they look like
00:23:04instagram model i wish this one wouldn't have chopped the his head off i'm trying to be supportive
00:23:13but he's already asking if i would be willing to like move move where hollywood new york
00:23:25he wants to he wants you to move to hollywood with him his first priority should be focused on the
00:23:33relationship with you he's very talented he loves the camera the camera obviously loves him too
00:23:45he just needs a reality check because i know that there has been a lot of weird sketchiness going
00:23:54on let's be real here i know mido is semi-famous on social media but he does not post me
00:24:05on social
00:24:06media at all he says that social media is for work and i don't get as upset that he doesn't
00:24:15post about
00:24:15me it's when he posts with other women that gets on my nerves i need to hear him more and
00:24:27see him
00:24:28yeah act like not acting acting but see how he does the relationship is going to have to be more
00:24:36important than the dream like if he walked it exactly so to me i don't really care what you do
00:24:45so long
00:24:45as what you do makes you happy i know that but i still i'm still mom i still want you
00:24:55and your brother
00:24:55to be able to look at me and say i'm proud of my mom we are and i know y
00:25:06'all are grown and i know that
00:25:08y'all are on your own but at the end of it all if i don't make y'all proud
00:25:18my mom is a very strong woman but that strength only goes so far so i really do genuinely hope
00:25:27that
00:25:27mito's intentions are pure i mean this is already crazy enough
00:25:34okay it's okay but it's true
00:25:40she really truly does deserve happiness and a good healthy relationship i can't help but worry
00:25:46that mito's just coming over here to become a star
00:25:55oh i'm out my divorce with my ex-husband michael was challenging for the kids i don't want him to
00:26:02replace his dad yeah if the kids tell me this is not what they want then i'm gonna have to
00:26:08call it
00:26:08what i know i've crossed some boundaries in the past while like drunk and i just want to be
00:26:16really transparent with you it's the respect thing and like when it's people like whilst we've been
00:26:21together that's not cool
00:26:51got it
00:26:54I am a ninja.
00:26:56So I have 50-50 custody with my ex-husband, Michael, for the boys.
00:27:01And that's what allows me to live in Pennsylvania and then work in New York City.
00:27:07I live as a high-powered career woman.
00:27:11And then I go home and, like, you know, I'm your basic baseball and football mom and picking up the
00:27:16kids, cooking dinner, getting them to all their events.
00:27:19And I don't have time for Edward.
00:27:20And that's when he typically feels not paid attention to.
00:27:23And he gets angry.
00:27:24That's one of the fights that we really have on a frequent basis.
00:27:28And when he sees me in action, I hope that he understands why I have, you know, neglected to call
00:27:34him sometimes or I'm just too tired at the end of the night to get on a phone call.
00:27:41I'm very grateful for the opportunity to still get to spend some time in New York.
00:27:46But I personally don't like the hustle and bustle of every single day.
00:27:50Like, I'd rather, like, come back to Pennsylvania and relax.
00:27:58So this is my neighborhood.
00:27:59You could take a look around.
00:28:00I love the streets are tree-lined and the neighbors are really nice.
00:28:04But mostly that it's super quiet and it's quite a shift for me.
00:28:09But it's just like a happier place to be than New York City.
00:28:19Derek, Cole!
00:28:21I kind of separate my mom life versus my career life.
00:28:25Cole, it's my pig.
00:28:27I...
00:28:27Derek is the oldest and he is currently 11 years old.
00:28:32And Cole is the younger one and he's 10.
00:28:35All right, so...
00:28:36All right, I'll go first.
00:28:37Okay, go.
00:28:38They don't even look like brothers.
00:28:40They look completely opposite.
00:28:43Got it.
00:28:45Derek is my little athlete.
00:28:47And Cole...
00:28:49No!
00:28:51...is more of my artistic child.
00:28:54Loves art, loves music, loves creating things.
00:28:58Wait, do I have a PI already?
00:29:00Yeah.
00:29:02I'm out.
00:29:04But for me, I love having the contrast in their personalities in my life.
00:29:09And Derek wins.
00:29:11I missed on purpose, actually.
00:29:13Good game.
00:29:14Good game.
00:29:14Good game.
00:29:15Nice job.
00:29:17Prior to Edward, I've never let the kids meet a boyfriend in person.
00:29:24So, this is one of the biggest changes that we're ever going to experience, you know?
00:29:29It's...
00:29:30It's been like a rollercoaster of emotions every single day.
00:29:35All right, so...
00:29:36We know Edward's going to be here in a couple days, so, like, I just want to, like, lay out
00:29:40what's happening exactly.
00:29:41Because our lives are changing.
00:29:43Yeah.
00:29:43You know?
00:29:44Mm-hmm.
00:29:45So, how's everybody feeling about that?
00:29:46Uh, when you first told me, um, that Edward was moving here, I was, like, super excited.
00:29:55Yeah?
00:29:55What excites you about having someone live here with us?
00:29:57Dog.
00:29:58Dog.
00:29:58Oh, because I promise you a dog when Edward gets here?
00:30:00Yes.
00:30:01Mm.
00:30:03Well, we'll see.
00:30:04We'll see.
00:30:05We've been talking about this for, like, six months.
00:30:07I keep promising.
00:30:08We can keep pushing the date back.
00:30:10I didn't even know they were dating for, like, until, like, last year.
00:30:15So, it's only been, like, a year since I've known him, and he's just coming to live with us.
00:30:20So, it's just, like, a, like, a weird reaction in my body.
00:30:25Well, I have a question.
00:30:27Yeah.
00:30:27Like, when Edward comes, like, here, will he have, like, money?
00:30:32That's a good question.
00:30:34He had a job when he was there, right?
00:30:36Yeah.
00:30:36So, where did he work?
00:30:37He worked at a hotel.
00:30:39Fancy hotels?
00:30:40Like, resorts?
00:30:41Or just, like...
00:30:41Yeah, like a resort.
00:30:42But here, we don't have, like, all-inclusive resorts like they do over there.
00:30:46And, you know, that skill set isn't really useful here.
00:30:50Is he going to get an allowance?
00:30:52Fuck.
00:30:53Probably.
00:30:54I mean, I'm going to have to, like, help pay for things for him while he gets settled here.
00:30:59But, you know, the paychecks there, like...
00:31:01Let me put this into perspective.
00:31:02The amount of money that we would, like, a normal person maybe here would get for, like, one week is,
00:31:11like, what Edward would get in his country for, like, a whole month.
00:31:15Do you know what I mean?
00:31:16Mm-hmm.
00:31:18I'm, like, a bit, like, nervous.
00:31:20Yeah?
00:31:21Because, like, it's just going to be, like, another guy coming to live with us.
00:31:24Mm-hmm.
00:31:25Like, I'm not really ready because, like, I met him, but I don't know him.
00:31:29Yeah.
00:31:29That's, like...
00:31:30It's a little scary.
00:31:31Mm-hmm.
00:31:31Yeah.
00:31:32I mean, like, I don't want him to replace his dad.
00:31:36Yeah.
00:31:39I mean, I think that you have to remember, like, your dad's always going to be your dad, right?
00:31:42Mm-hmm.
00:31:43And nobody's ever going to replace him in life.
00:31:46And Edward is kind of just going to be here as, like, another adult to love you guys and play
00:31:50with you.
00:31:51I'm definitely going to say, like, take it slow.
00:31:55Not, like, coming in and, like, being, like, oh, hello, hello, my son.
00:32:01Mm-hmm.
00:32:02You know, I want to make sure that, like, you feel comfortable.
00:32:05So I'm going to have a conversation with Edward.
00:32:07Because if you're not happy in any way, then this isn't going to work out for all of us, you
00:32:11know?
00:32:11Mm-hmm.
00:32:12My divorce with Michael was challenging for the kids.
00:32:17Mostly for Derek.
00:32:18He was a little older than Cole.
00:32:20And because of that, the boys are the number one priority in my life.
00:32:25Making sure that they feel comfortable is critical to me.
00:32:31Nothing comes above them.
00:32:33And in the 90 days, if the kids tell me this is not what they want, then I'm going to
00:32:37have to call it quits.
00:32:38And that's just a lot of pressure on me to try to make a lot of things work in such
00:32:42a short amount of time.
00:32:44Well, let's stay positive.
00:32:47All right.
00:32:47All right.
00:32:48Mm-hmm.
00:32:54Is it your desire
00:32:57To fool me twice too many times?
00:33:03Did you want cream?
00:33:05Yeah.
00:33:05There's, like, heavy cream in the fridge.
00:33:07Can you just pour some in it?
00:33:09Thanks, babe.
00:33:11Brain on fire
00:33:13You got me flying and in circles
00:33:20How'd you sleep?
00:33:22I slept so well.
00:33:25You woke up early.
00:33:27Yeah.
00:33:27Because we totally just passed out.
00:33:29I woke up at, like, 6 a.m.
00:33:31Was that about it?
00:33:32I did, too.
00:33:32I woke up when you woke up.
00:33:33Yeah.
00:33:34And then we were just kind of like...
00:33:39Well, that's...
00:33:41Sorry.
00:33:43Me and Josh had sex.
00:33:46We didn't have sex that night.
00:33:47We had sex in the morning because I was dead.
00:33:49And he was dead also.
00:33:50But, yeah, I just want to feel like this again.
00:33:55Last night, you were just like,
00:33:56I'm ready.
00:33:57Which made me happy that you...
00:33:59Yeah, you like that.
00:34:00I really like that you were...
00:34:01That's just what I like.
00:34:02That you're able to, like,
00:34:04Tell me that you want me.
00:34:05Yeah.
00:34:06I think it's that kind of, like,
00:34:07Open conversation that
00:34:10We just need to keep doing.
00:34:11And, like,
00:34:12It's on me and a big way to, like,
00:34:15Say that to you.
00:34:16Because I know that
00:34:17You hearing that helps.
00:34:22I know that, like, with Katie and I,
00:34:24When we don't have sex,
00:34:25She closes up a bit.
00:34:27And I don't have that same reaction.
00:34:30But I know that sex is so important to her.
00:34:32So I feel that she's, um...
00:34:36I think, a bit more relaxed today.
00:34:38And, um, that's good.
00:34:39I want my other half to feel relaxed.
00:34:42I felt, like,
00:34:44Like, just totally different
00:34:45To how I've felt over the past, like,
00:34:48However long, um...
00:34:50Why do you think that is?
00:34:51Just, like...
00:34:53A big thing is not having, like,
00:34:55Immigration looming over.
00:34:57Because, like,
00:34:58Pretty much every thought
00:34:59I've had over the past year
00:35:01Has been, you know,
00:35:04Whatever I'm thinking about
00:35:05And then,
00:35:06Immigration.
00:35:07Like, it's just with you all the time.
00:35:09And now that it's happened
00:35:11And I'm here,
00:35:12It's just a massive weight
00:35:13That it's gone.
00:35:15And I think that
00:35:16When I'm stressed,
00:35:18Sex is, like,
00:35:19Another thing on the to-do list.
00:35:20Now it feels like
00:35:22Something I want to run into
00:35:23Because the stress is going away.
00:35:25Does that make sense?
00:35:27Yeah.
00:35:27I think that's good.
00:35:29Yeah?
00:35:31Love you.
00:35:33Love you.
00:35:35I definitely feel more connected to Josh
00:35:37After having sex.
00:35:39It feels like we're in a good place.
00:35:41And so,
00:35:41I'm hoping that in the next 90 days
00:35:43We'll be more sexually compatible
00:35:46And ready for marriage.
00:35:56So, where are we going?
00:35:57Uh, this way.
00:36:00I'm excited to show you
00:36:02Around the neighbourhood.
00:36:03Nice.
00:36:04I think Portland is just so beautiful
00:36:06From what I've seen.
00:36:07Ah!
00:36:12That's cute.
00:36:13There's a goat.
00:36:16Hello!
00:36:17Hi!
00:36:18This is very cute.
00:36:20Hi!
00:36:21I'm not feeding you.
00:36:22Aw!
00:36:24No donuts.
00:36:26No donuts.
00:36:28I love...
00:36:29We should watch a goat someday.
00:36:30Yeah.
00:36:31It has a collar, like a dog.
00:36:33I feel like that's very Portland
00:36:35It's like urban goat farming.
00:36:37Yeah, it's so cute.
00:36:39Okay, anyways.
00:36:41So, what do you want to do tonight?
00:36:43Um, I have a surprise
00:36:45Welcome party planned for you.
00:36:49Yeah, I wanted to tell you
00:36:50Ahead of time.
00:36:51Yeah.
00:36:51Surprise parties are weird, but...
00:36:53Yeah.
00:36:53Who's going to be there?
00:36:54Um, I think it's just like
00:36:56Running Club people.
00:36:57Christine, Claire, Danica, Eddie.
00:37:01Like, um, let me think.
00:37:03It's like Mark, you know,
00:37:04Like how we're dated.
00:37:06Like, casually dated.
00:37:07Well, I know the story of Pac.
00:37:10Okay, so you remember.
00:37:14I think I've made out with
00:37:1590% of the single men
00:37:17At the Run Club.
00:37:21Have any of these makeouts
00:37:22Happened after you already
00:37:24In a relationship with Josh?
00:37:25Yeah, some of the makeouts
00:37:27Have happened after I met
00:37:30And was already in a relationship
00:37:32With Josh.
00:37:35I know I've done things
00:37:36That haven't been fair to you
00:37:37Like, in the past
00:37:38While, like, drunk
00:37:39And crossed some boundaries
00:37:41So I just, like, wanted to, like,
00:37:43Start off Portland.
00:37:44Just, I don't know.
00:37:46I just want to be
00:37:47Really transparent with you.
00:37:49Like, I'm not really
00:37:50A jealous person.
00:37:51It's the respect thing.
00:37:52And, like, when it's people
00:37:53Whilst we've been together
00:37:55That's not cool.
00:37:58It's really hard for me
00:37:59To resist kissing other people.
00:38:01Like, the compulsion part of OCD
00:38:03Is, like, you do a thing
00:38:05To, like, neutralize the obsession.
00:38:07But then when you do the compulsion
00:38:09It actually makes it all worse
00:38:10And then it turns into a
00:38:12Time-consuming, stressful,
00:38:15Useless cycle.
00:38:17I know that Josh forgives me
00:38:19When I make out with people.
00:38:21But I'm, sometimes I'm worried
00:38:22Oh, is this the last time?
00:38:24Like, I don't think I could
00:38:25Do it every week.
00:38:26Or, I don't even want
00:38:27I don't want to do it every week.
00:38:29But I don't think I could do it, like,
00:38:30For the next, like, few years
00:38:32And have him forgive me every time.
00:38:34I feel like I'm in a good
00:38:35Headspace with us.
00:38:37Like, especially after last night.
00:38:39Because I know I've been
00:38:41Particularly unhinged
00:38:44In London.
00:38:45Yeah.
00:38:46And I'll try to let you know
00:38:47Before we start drinking
00:38:48What kind of headspace I am in
00:38:50In the future.
00:38:52I feel like I've come to the U.S.
00:38:55Willing to, like,
00:38:55Have a new chapter with Katie
00:38:56And move forwards.
00:38:58And we've got these 90 days
00:38:59To prove to each other
00:39:02That we're here
00:39:02And we're here with, like,
00:39:04Meaning and intent.
00:39:06Katie needs to settle down a bit
00:39:08And have some level of stability
00:39:10Or this relationship
00:39:12It won't work.
00:39:13And I think she just needs to
00:39:15Curb the bull
00:39:31The love that you're laying down
00:39:36It is a part of the other side's plan
00:39:43We won't run, we won't hide, we won't live like a broken angel.
00:39:57All right, mom.
00:39:58I'm about to go see that attorney about Maxwell.
00:40:02So you think the attorney going to be able to work things out?
00:40:05I don't know.
00:40:06I hope so.
00:40:07How is Maxwell handling this situation?
00:40:09I mean, he devastated.
00:40:10You know, he already started the moving process.
00:40:14You know, he got his stuff ready to go.
00:40:16You know, he done made his plans, he done told his family.
00:40:18So right now, I'm just going to talk to his attorney and see what options they give us.
00:40:25It never crossed my mind for a second that that application would be denied because I have God on my
00:40:31side.
00:40:32I feel very upset, enraged, and angry.
00:40:36Well, if this attorney don't work, who would you do next?
00:40:39I don't know.
00:40:40We're going to have to get some advice from them.
00:40:42The appeal would be the best option, and we can get another person to interview them.
00:40:47And then hopefully, we don't have to restart this process over again.
00:40:51So I guess I'm going to head on out.
00:40:53I don't want to be late.
00:40:54And then I got to pick up Rod.
00:40:55Where Rod at?
00:40:56At the coffee shop, honey.
00:40:58But I feel like he'll have good expertise on, you know, trying to help me navigate everything.
00:41:02Yeah.
00:41:02Yeah.
00:41:03He will, yeah.
00:41:06Rod is my god brother.
00:41:09So we have a really close relationship, like almost as if he was my real brother.
00:41:14And he treats me as so.
00:41:17Is Rod overly protective of you?
00:41:19Rod is crazy.
00:41:21So I kid you not.
00:41:23Hey, Rod, I'm outside.
00:41:25I'm over here to the left.
00:41:26And I hope you got me some coffee.
00:41:27Okay.
00:41:28All right.
00:41:28Bye-bye.
00:41:30When I first told Rod about Maxwell, he was a little confused, I think, as far as like,
00:41:38how did you meet this man?
00:41:40And then Rod is stuck on Nigerians or scammers rather than looking at the one person who is
00:41:48Maxwell.
00:41:49What up, Rod?
00:41:50Hey.
00:41:51Hey.
00:41:52You okay?
00:41:54Yeah.
00:41:59I'm glad you were able to go with me today.
00:42:01I really want to see what this attorney going to say if the appeal is an option.
00:42:05Mm-hmm.
00:42:08Tell me.
00:42:10American men, you just gave up.
00:42:16No, I'm not saying I gave up on American men.
00:42:19There's Nigerian men here in the United States.
00:42:22There are.
00:42:24But that's not the one for me.
00:42:27But to go back to all the guys I tried to hook you up with, all these type of guys
00:42:33that
00:42:33wasn't, you had a big, tall list.
00:42:35And this guy is none of that.
00:42:38So...
00:42:38Oh, don't do that.
00:42:39Now, he's most of that.
00:42:42As far back as I can remember, I've had this list of characteristics I want my husband
00:42:48to have.
00:42:48I had an AOL account when I first made that list.
00:42:51So you know how old that was.
00:42:54Every time that I would come in contact with a guy that, like, had a flaw or something I
00:42:59didn't like, I'll just keep adding and adding to this list.
00:43:03Honey, that list was everywhere.
00:43:07Like, the list was everywhere.
00:43:09Do you have that list?
00:43:11It's on my phone.
00:43:12Oh, go get it.
00:43:13Get it, girl.
00:43:14Go get that list.
00:43:14Oh, okay.
00:43:15Well, hold on, girl.
00:43:16It's stuff every man just about should possess.
00:43:21So here we go.
00:43:23First, no smoking, no drinking, no kids.
00:43:27Great job.
00:43:28Has ambition.
00:43:29I don't want him, like, just so diehard God that you can't have fun.
00:43:33You know?
00:43:34Understanding.
00:43:35Organized, because I'm not organized.
00:43:37Athletic built.
00:43:38Great lover.
00:43:40I don't like men with big feet.
00:43:44Um, wealthy, knows his purpose, good hygiene, good hair, pretty teeth.
00:43:50I put love God again, so I guess I just really want that to be on the list.
00:43:54But that's just part of it.
00:43:55It was long.
00:43:58It was long.
00:43:59Like, one of my friend's mom was like, girl, you need to burn that list.
00:44:04Like, get rid of that list.
00:44:05You'll never get a husband like this.
00:44:06What's you more worried about the list than me?
00:44:08Well, I'm worried about your safety.
00:44:11This is a scary situation for everybody.
00:44:14And then the man...
00:44:15A scary situation for everybody, a scary situation for you.
00:44:20Let's just keep it real, you know?
00:44:22It should be a scary situation for everybody.
00:44:25Because there's so much unknown.
00:44:27It is a lot of unknown.
00:44:29I mean, what if the embassy, they know something that we don't know?
00:44:36Aisha's biological clock is ticking, and she thinks she should be married by now.
00:44:40And I think she's rushing into this.
00:44:43I don't really know the guy, so I don't want to say that he's a bad guy.
00:44:48But it's not a realistic relationship.
00:44:50But she thinks so.
00:44:53I'm just trying to protect you, but I don't know.
00:44:56I don't know.
00:44:57I feel like this ain't the time for protection.
00:45:00I feel like this is the time where it needs to be support.
00:45:04Looking out for your well-being and support.
00:45:09I feel like Rod has lost his mind by questioning my choices.
00:45:14It's hurtful that he does not think that I'm wise enough to make good decisions.
00:45:21And we already have enough problems with this denial.
00:45:24So the last thing I need is Rod saying, nay, nay, nay.
00:45:29Are you determined to get your man to the U.S.?
00:45:31Oh, 100%, 110%.
00:45:36Maybe the way that I thought it was going to be done is different than what God had planned.
00:45:42But at the end of the day, I'm getting Maxwell to the U.S.A.
00:45:46I don't know.
00:45:47Everything is just a question mark for me.
00:45:49I mean, what is the rush?
00:45:51What is the rush?
00:45:55All the sugar slipped in my coffee cup
00:46:00You're the sweet, warm dough
00:46:03I can't get enough
00:46:05Hey, pretty precious
00:46:06Hey, pretty girl
00:46:08What's that little girl doing?
00:46:10Is she being snuggly?
00:46:11There you are
00:46:13Poppy doesn't want you sleeping in the bed
00:46:15Me don't want you sleeping out in your own spot
00:46:18What?
00:46:19Okay, we're going to find a spot just for you
00:46:22I'm your chicory mama
00:46:25I don't take long to brew
00:46:30There's a chicory mama
00:46:34Where's that big girl?
00:46:36Where's my pretty girl?
00:46:38All right, sweetheart.
00:46:38I'll be home in a little bit.
00:46:40Little bit.
00:46:42Mito has set rules for a little bit
00:46:44that she cannot sleep in the bed with him.
00:46:49I mean, in the Muslim faith
00:46:52dogs are not to be inside your home
00:46:56It's haram, is what they say
00:46:59They're looked at as dirty
00:47:02Little bit has spent every night of her life
00:47:04with me in my bed
00:47:07So I don't know how them two are going to fight that out
00:47:16But I mean, I have not shared a bed
00:47:19or lived with a man
00:47:21in almost 20 years
00:47:22So the dog is the least of our worries
00:47:35Girl, how's it going?
00:47:37It's so good to see you
00:47:39I know, oh my god
00:47:40How's it going?
00:47:42It's going pretty good
00:47:42And how about you?
00:47:46What's going on, Debbie?
00:47:47When I tell you everything feels like
00:47:49it's coming 150 miles per hour
00:47:52Well, because it is
00:47:54What's going to be like the sleeping arrangements
00:47:56in the apartment?
00:47:57Like, is
00:47:57Devin's on the couch for now
00:47:59Does he know y'all are going to be sharing a bedroom?
00:48:01Yeah, he
00:48:02I think he does
00:48:04I mean, unless he wants to sleep on the air mattress
00:48:07So y'all have never slept in the same bed together?
00:48:10Him being Muslim
00:48:11There's like some pretty tight parameters
00:48:14of pre-marriage and post-marriage
00:48:17So what do Muslims believe
00:48:18that you're allowed to do before marriage?
00:48:21Nothing
00:48:21So you guys have straight up never had sex?
00:48:25Never
00:48:26Is he a virgin?
00:48:31Whoa
00:48:34Wow
00:48:37Mito is a 41-year-old virgin
00:48:41He's going to kill me for saying that
00:48:44I mean, have you ever
00:48:46ever, like, kissed?
00:48:47Yes
00:48:48Okay
00:48:49At first, because he abstained
00:48:53I didn't think that he was interested in me
00:48:55until he explained to me
00:48:58he had never been with a woman before
00:49:00I just found the whole situation so bizarre
00:49:04because how do you believe a 30-something-year-old
00:49:08that's telling you this
00:49:09from the U.S.?
00:49:11Where are you going to find that?
00:49:14Or at least you're not going to find somebody
00:49:16that's going to admit it
00:49:19How old is he?
00:49:2041
00:49:22Wow
00:49:24And I know
00:49:25I've actually had people tell me
00:49:26I don't believe you
00:49:29Why were you surprised?
00:49:31Because I'm a slut
00:49:34Sorry
00:49:37When I hear that somebody
00:49:39is 40 years old
00:49:41and a virgin
00:49:43I'm kind of skeptical
00:49:45I mean, 40 years?
00:49:47Really?
00:49:49It's so unlikely
00:49:50that they even made a movie
00:49:51with that title
00:49:54I just want to make sure
00:49:55I have this straight
00:49:56You're going to be marrying somebody
00:49:57in like
00:49:58Two and a half months
00:49:59Two and a half months
00:50:01that you haven't physically seen
00:50:03or touched
00:50:04in three years
00:50:06And you're going to sleep
00:50:08in the same bed
00:50:08with him for 90 days
00:50:10and not have any sex?
00:50:12That's the goal
00:50:14Well
00:50:14Is it attainable?
00:50:16I have no idea
00:50:18I give it up on the third date, girl
00:50:20I don't know how you're going to do it
00:50:22How do you feel
00:50:23about how stable
00:50:25your relationship has been
00:50:27over the last six years?
00:50:29Like, have you felt like
00:50:31Yep
00:50:31I mean, we're in it
00:50:33So, I mean, at this rate
00:50:35Yeah
00:50:36You guys had a rough patch
00:50:38Catechopal
00:50:39There were some times
00:50:40when y'all were not
00:50:41all lollipops and rainbows
00:50:43Yeah
00:50:43No, that damn social media
00:50:45With that girl
00:50:46That social media
00:50:47That girl
00:50:48Yep
00:50:48That girl
00:50:51I can't believe
00:50:52I got to talk about this bitch
00:50:54Um
00:50:55I'm like
00:50:56grinding teeth
00:50:58to even have to bring her up
00:51:02And she's not
00:51:03anywhere near him anymore?
00:51:05Not that I know of
00:51:06And it's been over a year
00:51:09So we actually broke up
00:51:11for a while
00:51:12He was posting
00:51:14with this one Egyptian actress
00:51:16that's very famous
00:51:19He thinks that I'm being ridiculous
00:51:21And that this is just work
00:51:23And that's his friend
00:51:26I'm not dumb
00:51:28I can definitely read a situation pretty well
00:51:32And if something doesn't feel right
00:51:36Something's not right
00:51:38I mean, I'm not deluding myself
00:51:41to think any of this is gonna be an easy walk
00:51:44I'm worried
00:51:45The biggest thing that I'm worried about
00:51:47is you getting hurt
00:51:48We know that you're in this for love
00:51:51But we don't know him
00:51:53Yeah
00:51:53At all
00:51:54So we have no idea
00:51:55what his, like, agenda is
00:51:59I think from the beginning
00:52:01It's been a lot of blind faith
00:52:03With the acting
00:52:05With the
00:52:06The abstaining
00:52:08With the social media battle
00:52:10So I really
00:52:11Really, really am concerned
00:52:14But then people write books
00:52:16about stuff like this
00:52:18I may get lucky enough
00:52:20and have the dream
00:52:22May not
00:52:26But I also might
00:52:28And why not take that chance
00:52:32This is gonna be a real trip
00:52:34It's gonna be a real trip
00:52:36It's gonna be a hard one
00:52:46A clean man is a sexy man for me
00:52:49Okay, let's clean your ass
00:52:52Even if I take a poop
00:52:54Annabelle is trying to get me in the shower
00:52:58You get this one?
00:52:59I'm excited
00:53:00Tonight
00:53:00I just like his penis
00:53:03A bad smell
00:53:14I think I'm right up here, babe
00:53:16I think that's one
00:53:17That's not it, no
00:53:19Okay
00:53:20But it's over here somewhere
00:53:21In the Philippines
00:53:22It's very different
00:53:23They're all little trucks
00:53:24Aren't they, baby?
00:53:25Everybody here's got big trucks
00:53:26Philippines, little
00:53:27This one, babe?
00:53:28Your truck?
00:53:29Yeah, right here, baby
00:53:32Thank you
00:53:33You're welcome
00:53:44It's my first time to ride in the big truck
00:53:47Very nice to ride in the big truck
00:53:50Smooth, very smooth
00:53:54In the Philippines
00:53:55Bang, bang, bang, bang
00:54:00Oh, so you see at the left
00:54:02That's the St. Louis Arch
00:54:05They call that the gateway to the west
00:54:07Because coming from our way
00:54:10All the settlers would cross the Mississippi River
00:54:12And they'd go west
00:54:13It looks amazing
00:54:16It is
00:54:16It's like your gateway to your new life in America
00:54:22All right, I think this is it, baby
00:54:25It looks kind of like a church or a castle, doesn't it?
00:54:28Mm-hmm
00:54:28Very nice
00:54:29I don't know if I got in the parking spot right or not
00:54:39Wow, this looks amazing
00:54:43Wow
00:54:44Hi
00:54:44Welcome to Gothic Heights Inn
00:54:46How's it going?
00:54:46What's your name?
00:54:47I'm Shay
00:54:47Hi, I'm Ken Hill, welcome
00:54:48Nice to meet you
00:54:49This is Annabelle
00:54:50Hi, nice to meet you
00:54:51Hi, nice to meet you
00:54:52Hello
00:54:52Welcome
00:54:52This is a former Methodist church
00:54:54That's been converted to a four-bedroom inn
00:54:57Wow
00:54:59I wanted Annabelle to feel special the first night
00:55:03So, you know, I got this room
00:55:04And I just wanted to show her how excited I was for her to get here
00:55:09I like it
00:55:10It looks like old charts
00:55:11I knew you'd like the stained glass
00:55:15It's my first time to see a hotel with charts
00:55:19So you guys are staying in our botanical suite?
00:55:22Let's go
00:55:22Can I show you?
00:55:23Yeah, sure
00:55:24We'll just follow you, sir
00:55:24But I think the things we might do tonight aren't really appropriate for a church
00:55:30So we might have to turn the Jesus pictures around so he's not looking at you
00:55:35You do it
00:55:43Wow
00:55:47Oh, dang
00:55:49Look at the bath
00:55:50Look how big the tub is
00:55:52Wow
00:55:53Big bath
00:55:54I need you to make him
00:55:56Get the water going
00:55:57A clean man is a sexy man for me
00:56:00I'm not going to touch him if he's dirty
00:56:04I can't wait to scrub
00:56:06Are you ready?
00:56:07Oh
00:56:08Yeah
00:56:09I clean it good
00:56:11His ass
00:56:12His ball
00:56:13His egg
00:56:14What can I call it?
00:56:16Egg no ball
00:56:16Okay, let's go
00:56:19I clean his penis
00:56:21I clean his penis
00:56:21And I rub it good inside
00:56:23I don't like his penis
00:56:26A bad smell
00:56:27I don't like his penis
00:56:29I don't like his penis
00:56:30A bad smell
00:56:30Tsunami here
00:56:31Tsunami?
00:56:32No, it's good
00:56:33It's hot?
00:56:34Yeah
00:56:37I started from here
00:56:39At the back
00:56:40Oh
00:56:42Good?
00:56:43Yeah
00:56:43And the armpit
00:56:45And it's in the chest
00:56:48Especially here
00:56:51This reminds me of the Philippines
00:56:53Yeah
00:56:54Scrubbing me right when I met you first time
00:56:57That's why you fall in love with me
00:56:59You get this one
00:57:02Driving
00:57:02I will last good
00:57:04Get scrubbing
00:57:05You know what I said?
00:57:06Getting
00:57:07Keep scrubbing down
00:57:08Everybody's going to have to get in there with me
00:57:11Right?
00:57:12Yeah
00:57:12I'm excited tonight
00:57:15I'll have to admit
00:57:16It was kind of a turn on
00:57:18First time I met her
00:57:19But she's since then
00:57:21She's got a little more comfortable with it
00:57:22And you know
00:57:23I have to tell her
00:57:24Just calm down
00:57:25And you get real fast
00:57:28She scratched me several times
00:57:30Like where it hurt
00:57:32And left a mark
00:57:35Okay
00:57:36Let's clean your ass
00:57:37And then you're going to get me your ass
00:57:39Even if I take a poop
00:57:41Annabelle is
00:57:42Trying to
00:57:43Get me in the shower
00:57:45Or wet rag
00:57:46And I'm like
00:57:46That's not
00:57:47That's not what we do here
00:57:49The Philippines
00:57:50After you poop
00:57:51You wash with water
00:57:53Toilet paper works good too
00:57:55But we can't take a bath
00:57:56Every time we use a restroom, baby
00:57:58Can I check your toilet, babe?
00:58:02Oh, yeah
00:58:04Okay
00:58:04How do they look, babe?
00:58:07Long, but
00:58:07It's still
00:58:10Toenails
00:58:11It's very important
00:58:12To cut it
00:58:13If his toenails
00:58:15Get too long
00:58:15He scratch on my legs
00:58:17They look good?
00:58:18Yeah
00:58:18I don't mind you
00:58:20Clipping my toenails
00:58:21Because it's definitely
00:58:22Something I don't enjoy doing
00:58:26I want to try some champagne, baby
00:58:29Oh
00:58:30Oh, baby
00:58:35It's my first time in America
00:58:36But you want to get my face
00:58:39Enough, baby
00:58:40Thank you
00:58:41Okay
00:58:41Bottle back to you
00:58:47Okay
00:58:47Yeah, very good taste, baby
00:58:50Yeah
00:58:52Mmm
00:58:56Tastes good
00:58:56Let me taste the champagne, babe
00:58:58Mmm
00:59:00Mmm
00:59:01When it comes to sex
00:59:02Usually Annabelle tells me
00:59:04What to do
00:59:06What she wants
00:59:07Oh, yeah
00:59:08Yum, yum
00:59:09Yum, yum
00:59:10This one
00:59:11Yum, yum
00:59:14I am 54 years old
00:59:16But
00:59:17But
00:59:18My sex drive
00:59:19Is like a 25 years old woman
00:59:22Of course
00:59:23It's been two years
00:59:25I did not make love to Shea
00:59:27It's time to get dirty
00:59:29Mmm
00:59:30Sounds interesting, man
00:59:39I miss you too much, baby
00:59:41I miss you too much, baby
00:59:47Oh, baby
00:59:51Mmm
00:59:52That'd be
00:59:52Mmm
00:59:53Yum, yum
00:59:55I miss you too much, baby
00:59:57Yeah
00:59:57And every able body
00:59:58Say
01:00:00Amen
01:00:02And amen
01:00:03Thank you
01:00:08Hello, hello
01:00:10How are you?
01:00:11Doing well, Aisha.
01:00:13I do not take no for an answer at all.
01:00:16If there is a solution, oh, I'm going to find it.
01:00:19Another option would be you could get married.
01:00:23She do not need to, like, go get married to try
01:00:25to rush this thing or anything, does she?
01:00:27If you're going to be on the board and be support,
01:00:29be support.
01:00:30I'm being supportive.
01:00:31No, not really.
01:00:41Keep on looking up, Mr. Wifer we go,
01:00:47or the devil we know, or the devil we know.
01:00:53Oh, wow, love, immigration.
01:00:55So you're looking at how love is sticking out right there.
01:00:57Yeah, I'm already, I'm not impressed.
01:01:00I feel some type of way already.
01:01:02You better get some love in your heart.
01:01:03I feel like this is a marketing scheme here with the word love.
01:01:07I love it.
01:01:08I think it's cute.
01:01:10All right.
01:01:12Cool.
01:01:13I'll pray for you, pray for me.
01:01:22Ready?
01:01:23Hello, good morning.
01:01:24How can I help you today?
01:01:26Yes, I had an appointment.
01:01:27If you follow after me, I can show you where that's at.
01:01:30OK, thank you.
01:01:31Yeah.
01:01:32I'm the type of person, I do not take no for an answer at all.
01:01:37Because if there is a solution, oh,
01:01:40I'm going to find it right this way.
01:01:43Hello, hello.
01:01:45How are you?
01:01:46Doing well, Asha.
01:01:47Jeremy.
01:01:47Ideally, I would love for this attorney to say, it's a possibility
01:01:53that this case can go back to the embassy.
01:01:55That I do not have to restart this process because I just feel like this case went before the
01:02:00right person.
01:02:01Then it could convince anybody that the relationship is real because the relationship is real.
01:02:05How are you all doing today?
01:02:06We're doing good.
01:02:07Good.
01:02:08Good.
01:02:08Well, I know a little bit about the situation from when the appointment was made, but I'll
01:02:12let you start off.
01:02:13How can I help you?
01:02:14I really do hope you can help us because I feel like my story is more special than any
01:02:18story because it was God our day.
01:02:20Wow.
01:02:21OK.
01:02:22So my fiance's name is Maxwell, and I introduced my best friend to his best friend.
01:02:28Right.
01:02:28And so we did the entire K-1 visa process together.
01:02:32Right.
01:02:33So when they went in for their interview, the guy was like, there's no way two friends
01:02:40are engaged to two friends.
01:02:41And so he felt like we were helping them get to America.
01:02:44So they denied it.
01:02:46So I just want to know about the appeal process.
01:02:49Have you ever done an appeal?
01:02:51There's not really an appeal process that we could go through.
01:02:56Without a shadow of a doubt, there's no possibility of an appeal.
01:03:00Not in this situation.
01:03:03Applying for this visa is taking almost two years of our lives away.
01:03:07And literally, me, him, his family has spent thousands of dollars on this visa.
01:03:13And then for what?
01:03:15I was hoping for an appeal.
01:03:17The attorney is saying that's not an option.
01:03:20And I just feel, you know, defeated, disgusted, irritated, like this is unreal.
01:03:27The options that I see going forward is that you could file another K-1 petition.
01:03:33Another option would be you could get married.
01:03:37And then you could file the K-1 spousal petition.
01:03:39So you'd have to go there and get married.
01:03:42And then you could file a petition as a spouse.
01:03:44She do not need to, like, go get married to try to rush this thing or anything, does she?
01:03:49No, she definitely does not have to go get married in order to get this case approved to get him
01:03:53here.
01:03:54So you would recommend to her that she don't need to?
01:03:56No, don't coach him.
01:03:58No, you're good.
01:03:59My job is to let you know what your options are and then y'all make the decision.
01:04:04If you're going to be on the board and be support, be support.
01:04:07I'm being supportive.
01:04:07No, not really.
01:04:08Yeah, I'm supportive.
01:04:10But supportive is you first.
01:04:16You're fine.
01:04:17You're fine.
01:04:17You're fine.
01:04:17You're fine.
01:04:17I'm just making sure.
01:04:19Yeah.
01:04:19I'm just making sure.
01:04:22I don't want Aisha to go over and marry this guy in Nigeria at all.
01:04:28It doesn't give me an opportunity to really see who this guy really is.
01:04:33I'm her protector.
01:04:34I don't want her to be scammed or I don't want her to be hurt either.
01:04:39What would you say the K-1, like, how long do you think versus the CR-1?
01:04:44So the K-1 right now, and it really varies, but you're looking at probably around a year
01:04:49and a half.
01:04:50Okay.
01:04:51Now, if we do the other process, the CR-1, you're looking at probably around two years
01:04:55or so.
01:04:56Not what I would think.
01:04:57If I go through this process and you're saying a year to two, is there a possibility
01:05:02that it might be denied for any reason?
01:05:06It's possible.
01:05:07Ooh, that ain't what I want to hear.
01:05:11Because there were some immigration issues in the past where there was actually findings
01:05:17of fraud or misrepresentation, they could still find that again.
01:05:22I mean, so what options are they leaving us?
01:05:24Literally, for me to marry Maxwell, live thousands of miles away, and continue life
01:05:30like that, that doesn't even make sense.
01:05:32I'm 38.
01:05:33My biological clock is ticking.
01:05:35I do not have time for this.
01:05:36I literally came to this meeting looking for answers.
01:05:39And at the end of the day, I'm left with more questions.
01:05:43Well, I have a lot of things to think about.
01:05:45Of course, we'll discuss, and hopefully, we can get them here.
01:05:49I truly believe, you know, and I stand on it, and I have faith in God that this relationship
01:05:55is going to work, but I just don't know how.
01:05:58Yeah.
01:06:09I don't know if they'll look at me just like, like I'm an idiot, or...
01:06:15We've known Katie for a while.
01:06:16She does come with that level of craziness where you're like, okay, hold on.
01:06:20Like, let's slow down.
01:06:21Like, what are you doing here?
01:06:22I'm not sure whether it's one of those situations where everyone else in the room knows something,
01:06:28and they don't want to tell me.
01:06:38Oh, my God.
01:06:39That's the way.
01:06:41Came in strong.
01:06:42Out the gate.
01:06:44And you got me like...
01:06:46Okay.
01:06:47Is this the place?
01:06:48Yes, it is.
01:06:50Are you excited?
01:06:51Yes.
01:06:52Yay!
01:06:54Pretty good!
01:06:56Woo!
01:06:56Woo!
01:06:57Woo!
01:06:58Woo!
01:06:58Woo!
01:06:59Woo!
01:06:59Woo!
01:06:59Woo!
01:06:59Woo!
01:06:59Woo!
01:06:59Woo!
01:07:00Woo!
01:07:01Woo!
01:07:02Woo!
01:07:03fore, woo, woo, woo.
01:07:06Woo, woo!
01:07:07Woo, woo, woo, woo, woo.
01:07:10Woo, woo!
01:07:12Woo, woo, woo, woo, woo, woo.
01:07:13Welcome back, buddy.
01:07:14Woo, woo, woo, woo, woo.
01:07:16Woo.
01:07:16Woo, woo.
01:07:16Woo.
01:07:16Woo.
01:07:17Woo, woo, woo, woo.
01:07:17Yes.
01:07:17Yeah, yes.
01:07:21I actually worked through the immigration.
01:07:23OK, I'm joking.
01:07:24Do you feel like an American now?
01:07:27Woo.
01:07:27Woo.
01:07:29less british every day tonight is throwing me a welcome party which is such a lovely gesture
01:07:38um but there are a couple of people that she has made out with before and that might be
01:07:46really awkward i don't know i i don't know if they'll look at me just like like i'm an idiot
01:07:53or
01:08:03so katie's obviously going to have a few drinks um she thinks she can drink anyone under the table
01:08:10and she can't um so i i need katie to just show me that she's getting her act together and
01:08:18that being
01:08:19here and going into marriage is not going to be the same story that we've had i don't think katie
01:08:25should think that my forgiveness is unlimited what's going on girl how are you doing i'm doing great
01:08:36what about you josh is here yeah did you like his new look i like the new look
01:08:44i knew katie all of a week before we hooked up and she's a she's a lioness on the prowl
01:08:52if you're
01:08:53just close enough she'll just like go in that extra step for the kiss made out with me uh katie
01:08:59is made
01:08:59out with my roommate at this party that i'm aware of uh myself she's kissed me she's kissed bella
01:09:09fred and our josh british josh like i had to ban her from sticking her tongue in my mouth because
01:09:15i
01:09:15that's that's too much that's yeah dude it's your turn for darts oh boy okay oh we will chat later
01:09:25okay yeah can i steal you for a second can i steal you for a sec nice oh that's good
01:09:34like that wait
01:09:36really like i'm not gonna hurt anyone i mean no no no like it's like you like pull like
01:09:45oh yeah this is actually fun how was picking him up i surprised him with the america decorations
01:09:52yes i love that he's into that what's the biggest culture shock when you first visit portland
01:09:56oh that's i mean just generally how people communicate like i've been trying very hard to
01:10:03be less like like closed and reserved because i think americans are quite um you know you say what
01:10:10you think yeah when we went home we like got ready for bed and we we're gonna we did not
01:10:18have sex in
01:10:19the night but in the morning we had sex
01:10:25for you guys how does it feel to see katie after i don't know when you last for the scene
01:10:28oh it's different oh she's had like this quick in and outs you know over the time yeah and like
01:10:34we've known katie for a while she's she's built a bit of a loose cannon right like what does that
01:10:40mean
01:10:41well she was just so like loose before just like very much just like everything was a party yes
01:10:49yes 100 like she was just going off the rails so i'm not sure whether it's one of those situations
01:11:00where everyone else in the room knows something and they don't want to tell me on the other hand
01:11:06we excluded everyone that katie's kissed from being friends then we would have a friendship of two
01:11:13which would be katie and diet we had some good conversations about like how what i need versus
01:11:20what he needs um in that like he said he'll be like more sexually available and like more open to
01:11:26that when i promise like i'm going to stop like get too drunk and seek out attention when when she's
01:11:33going about all these wild crazy stunts like how have you dealt with that as in like why why am
01:11:38i
01:11:39like what like you're moving halfway around the world like that's a huge change for me to make
01:11:45this commitment of kind of leaving my home country i need to know it's it's going somewhere
01:11:51and and i i feel that with katie but she does come with that level of craziness where you're like
01:11:57okay
01:11:57hold on like let's uh let's slow down like what are you doing here type thing and i don't know
01:12:02i i think
01:12:02you just you you roll through those punches way better than i ever could what stuck out about uh josh
01:12:11tonight was uh his uh that he's he's all in yeah let's go get another drink yes i'd love that
01:12:18he's got
01:12:19his his heart and his mind you know just in the correct place but i am worried that she will
01:12:25make big
01:12:26mistakes okay hey babe katie can be wild you know she'll drive the crowd um you know just push
01:12:33everybody to like you know let's all go karaoke you know let's all make out once she's been drinking
01:12:38a certain amount i mean that definitely uh gets cranked up we saw you and mark and josh talking that's
01:12:47like the label is the ex-lovers chat okay i guess you're not my ex-lover what were you guys
01:12:53talking
01:12:53about they're like essentially like checking checking in with me um like seeing how i'm doing
01:12:59like um why or like how did it go i i it went it went great like it doesn't bug
01:13:08you that we banked before
01:13:13i banked both josh and mark one time not one time like three times
01:13:21you're not insecure i mean like do you want to be with me yeah okay well there we go i
01:13:27feel like
01:13:28sometimes i feel like oh maybe i'll think about like the chemistry i used to have or like a brief
01:13:36thought will cross my mind sorry but it's more of like oh i know that didn't work out like yeah
01:13:46yeah
01:13:48well i hope you guys can like hang out yeah no we're planning to uh yeah that's good
01:13:56sometimes katie can say something in the hope that it will become true
01:14:02and i hope that this isn't one of those situations and i don't want to
01:14:08be living in a relationship where i'm second guessing things
01:14:12you know this would have been a massive waste of my time and money and and emotions to come here
01:14:19for um me to be made a fool of katie needs to prove her commitment to me and to us
01:14:25or this
01:14:26relationship it won't work um should we go that way how do you feel i feel like it's time to
01:14:32go that
01:14:39way
01:14:48there's a strong possibility that this is all going to fall apart
01:14:56i need 10 days i'm really worried it's just maybe too much
01:15:28i've been trying to get in touch with mido
01:15:32and haven't been able to get through mido's flight is tomorrow there's a strong possibility that
01:15:40he's not going to be on that flight and this is all going to fall apart
01:16:11it's been a couple days since i heard from mido
01:16:16it's it's been tough um his father's not well we don't know what the prognosis may be
01:16:27his father is going through a series of tests but there's still a ways to go before we have any
01:16:34idea
01:16:35of what this is actually going to be i know he's stressed i know he's got a million and one
01:16:41things going
01:16:41on at the same point i'm not getting much communication i definitely go times without
01:16:49hearing from mido because he is just the type of person that he needs that break from people
01:16:57when mido goes silent it can last a couple of days two three days that part of his personality was
01:17:04hard to
01:17:04become accustomed to and when he is in his mode of no contact it becomes frustrating
01:17:15we're about 20 something hours away from the flight so him changing that ticket at this point
01:17:21the end of the game i don't think it's logical there's a lot of unknowns going on at the moment
01:17:34so
01:17:41so
01:18:06How are you doing, Bui?
01:18:09Doing good.
01:18:14What's wrong?
01:18:16Baby, you know, you understand what's wrong.
01:18:19I just, I'm trying to be there, baby.
01:18:22I don't know what to say.
01:18:25Did you talk with the doctor?
01:18:28No.
01:18:29He will come next week.
01:18:32I'm not trying to, like, aggravate you.
01:18:35I'm just trying to be there.
01:18:38I need 10 days, more 10 days or 15 days.
01:18:45Why do you, what will, baby, what will be done in 10 days that it's not done now?
01:18:52When he's talking to me, he will come.
01:18:55Mito, what do you want me to do?
01:18:57I told you, I told you.
01:19:00I told you, you need just two weeks.
01:19:03If something happens, not you to return back.
01:19:07I told you that.
01:19:10Do you want me to check the airlines to find out how much the ticket would be for you to
01:19:15go later?
01:19:16You can't do that?
01:19:17I don't know what I can do.
01:19:23Okay.
01:19:30Mito's extremely agitated at the moment, and I definitely am concerned that he's getting cold feet about coming to America.
01:19:38It just feels to me like it's just always something, and I'm tired.
01:19:46Bye-bye.
01:19:47Bye-bye.
01:19:54At what point do you decide on a journey or on a decision what's a test of a commitment, and
01:20:03what's a sign of something that's just not meant to be?
01:20:09And I'm not sure where to put that anymore.
01:20:14I'm really worried that Mito's not going to get on that flight.
01:20:20I'm really worried when it's going to be time.
01:20:46I'm really worried.
01:20:48It's just made me too much.
01:20:56Next time on 90 Day Fiancé.
01:21:28This is my miniatures.
01:21:28I'm so happy.
01:21:30I'm so happy, amor.
01:21:30I'm happy so much.
01:21:31Especially when it's me.
01:21:35When I be there, I can't work.
01:21:38For a little bit, yeah.
01:21:39We are now on our way to America.
01:21:42If my mom called me, like, Rashid, can you send me like 10,000 Turkish Lira?
01:21:50People think Americans are so rich.
01:21:53But my parents need to help.
01:21:56I don't make that much money.
01:21:59Hi.
01:22:00Oh, hey, guys.
01:22:02Hey, guys.
01:22:03When I walk in, I can't believe that it's a mess.
01:22:07We're probably going to head on home.
01:22:09Can we get a couple of dollars?
01:22:12Here you go.
01:22:14OK.
01:22:15Bye, guys.
01:22:16It should be the children taking of the parents, not the parents who are taking care of the children.
01:22:24It's just a few dollars.
01:22:27You need to fix.
01:22:28But that's my daughter.
01:22:30I don't care.
01:22:34I'm worried about how the dynamic of our family is going to change.
01:22:38I'm going to keep it real.
01:22:40He's 32 years old, and she's about to be 46 years old.
01:22:44I just want to make sure that, you know, she's not being taken advantage of, and the boys don't get
01:22:48hurt.
01:22:49Especially when it comes to my kids, I'll bite someone's face off my kids.
01:22:56My thoughts are racing.
01:22:58I can't even put words to exactly how I'm feeling.
01:23:02Today is the day that Mido is supposed to arrive.
01:23:06Either he is coming over, and we are going to build a life, or there's no place left to go.
01:23:14I think I'm going to be sick.
01:23:16Anyways, we'll be back.
01:23:20We're to the baby.
01:23:21We're back.
01:23:23We're back.
01:23:24We're back here.
01:23:25We're back here.
01:23:29We're back here.
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