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90 Day Diaries
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00:10Happy this evening! Woo!
00:14Jet and I are going to take my fast car, so we can get there quicker, maybe.
00:19Hey, Kenny. How are you doing, love?
00:22Oh!
00:25You ready to skate?
00:26Yeah, I'm nervous.
00:28Are you nervous to skate, or are you nervous because we're hanging out?
00:32Candice is my ex-wife, and one of the biggest regrets is letting Candice go.
00:38Oh!
00:40So, maybe I can still repair this.
00:43Maybe it's time to try again.
00:48We're on our way to our gate to go to Juarez.
00:51Yes, we're excited about what's to come.
00:53Four years ago, we started the visa process for Armando and Hannah.
00:56And after all this time, they finally have their interview date.
01:02Hi!
01:03How'd it go?
01:04Something that we weren't expecting just happened.
01:11When your mother-in-law doesn't like you, like, the relationship never worked.
01:18I'm trying my best to make this a very good, memorable first family Thanksgiving.
01:24But my mom is getting on my last nerve.
01:30And these words, they cut like knives into my heart.
01:49Hello, hello!
01:51Okay, this is our casa.
01:52We're gonna show you around our house, do a little house tour.
01:55So, mi casa es su casa.
01:57Join us.
01:58Welcome.
01:59Welcome to our home.
02:01We're gonna give you guys a little tour.
02:02Here we go.
02:04Come on in.
02:06This is our little living room.
02:08It's an open concept.
02:11And look at this kitchen, guys.
02:13Okay, you don't every day find a kitchen like this.
02:17Shark teeth-like accents.
02:20Come on.
02:20If you're into great white sharks, this is the place to go.
02:25My name's Armando.
02:27I'm 37 years old and I am from San Felipe, Mexico.
02:29I'm Kenny.
02:30I'm 63 years old, originally from St. Petersburg, Florida.
02:33Now living with my husband in San Felipe, Mexico.
02:39Here's our bedroom, guys.
02:41Nice.
02:42We love, like, the Spanish-style windows and everything.
02:45And we recently moved from Mexico City to San Felipe, Mexico, my hometown.
02:49It's a total change from Mexico City.
02:51From city life to...
02:54No life.
02:57But I'm getting used to rattlesnakes, scorpions, coyotes.
03:01They're all around us here.
03:04And now let's show you our map here.
03:07Look at the Mexican sinks.
03:08I really like that.
03:10Don't even look at Kenny's.
03:11He has tons of products.
03:13You can't see that, guys.
03:14It's his secret.
03:15Wait.
03:15You can't see everything I use.
03:18To keep looking, you know, 60-ish.
03:20Our 90-day journey began eight years ago
03:23when we met on an online support group for gay fathers.
03:26Hey.
03:27How you doing?
03:27Good. How are you?
03:29Good.
03:29I miss you.
03:31Miss you, too.
03:32And after being in a relationship for three and a half years long distance,
03:35we decided I would move from Florida to Mexico.
03:39After moving to Mexico, I decided to propose to Armando.
03:42Our wedding was the most beautiful and the best celebration I think we've ever had.
03:50These are for you.
03:51Oh, my God.
03:52You did it.
03:56After being in Mexico City for a couple years and enjoying that adventure, I decided I wanted to move back
04:00to my hometown.
04:02When I moved to be with you, I remember saying, I'm leaving my hometown because I can't live here.
04:07I can't be seen with the guy.
04:10So it feels like I ran away.
04:12And I'd like to be able to go back.
04:14Almost like a full circle thing.
04:16I really didn't want to live in such a small town, but I knew it was important for Armando to
04:20come back to his hometown as a proud, open, gay man.
04:23And I wanted to support him in that.
04:25Yeah, well, it was important also for me to come back to my hometown and reconnect with my family, especially
04:30because we actually have some big changes coming up.
04:37All right, let's go check on Kenny, see how he's doing.
04:41Oh, my goodness.
04:42Yes.
04:43Hey, Kenny.
04:45How are you doing, love?
04:46Good.
04:48How's the bathroom?
04:49He's doing good.
04:50He's a good guy.
04:51Before I moved away from my hometown to be with Kenny, in 2015, I actually opened up a business, a
04:56Perazoran Spa.
04:59You are putting conditioner, right?
05:02Making sure.
05:03If anybody knows about conditioner, it's me.
05:06That is true.
05:08Oh!
05:11Thank you, Lucas.
05:13While we were gone and living in Mexico City, my sister actually helped me manage the shop.
05:17But now that we're back, I'm back at work, and Kenny's going to be back at work, too.
05:21Well, I'm part-time.
05:22I'm not working full-time.
05:23I'm semi-retired.
05:26All right, well, Hannah will be here any minute.
05:30We had a long day at work, and she had a long day at school, I'm sure.
05:34Hannah is my daughter from a previous relationship.
05:36She's actually now 13 years old.
05:39Hi.
05:39How are you?
05:40How was school?
05:41Good.
05:41She's the most prettiest little girl, the sweetest.
05:44She's a real princess.
05:46Kenny wants to be the princess, but I'm the queen.
05:50Are you hungry?
05:51We have snacks.
05:53Kenny made the dog so he's tired, supposedly.
05:56I'm exhausted.
05:57So let me ask you, Hannah.
05:59We're going to be going to the immigration interview soon.
06:06Are you excited for that?
06:07Yeah, I'm really happy because I would like to study in the United States.
06:12That's like my dream.
06:13So you want to move to the United States?
06:15Yeah.
06:16When I first moved to Mexico, it wasn't in our plan to move to the United States.
06:20I really did go the other way to be with Armando and Hannah.
06:24But now that we've been here a long time, it might be in our best interest and for our family
06:28to eventually move to the United States.
06:30So four years ago, we started the visa process for Armando and Hannah.
06:34And after all this time being on the waiting list and all the paperwork to get their visa, they finally
06:40have their interview date.
06:42I'm excited for that.
06:44Like I have grandkids that are growing up and I haven't been around my kids for six years at any
06:51length of time here.
06:52My dad is too old to travel now.
06:55Yeah.
06:57I'm so excited for this interview because it can change our lives.
07:01It means a lot of opportunities for Hannah and for her education.
07:04It means I can see my family more that live in the States.
07:07As much as I love being back home and being here in Mexico, we have lived together here for seven
07:12years.
07:13And I also understand that Kenny needs to be close to his family and for me to get closer to
07:18them as well.
07:18Because living in Mexico, we haven't been able to get as close as maybe we'd like to.
07:24Are you nervous about the interview, Hannah?
07:26Yeah, I'm nervous.
07:27Yeah, they're going to ask you questions.
07:29Like, which questions?
07:31Like, who am I?
07:34Oh, my stepfather.
07:36Where was I born?
07:38In Ohio.
07:40Got it.
07:41This interview is a lot riding on it.
07:45Because if they say yes and everything, you guys can come to the States now.
07:50I hope.
07:51I pray.
07:51I pray.
08:04We're on our way to our gate to go to Juarez.
08:07Yes, we're excited about what's to come.
08:09And hopefully good vibes and good things.
08:12We're on our way to Suarez, Chihuahua, which is where the U.S. Consulate is located and where we're going
08:17to have our final interview.
08:18But before that, we're going to make a little stop where our lawyer is at.
08:21She's going to give us some final information.
08:23So we're all prepared and set for our interviews.
08:25So we're excited.
08:26And we're off.
08:32We're about to take off.
08:34We're ready.
08:34You ready?
08:35We're locked and loaded.
08:36We're ready to go.
08:43All right, we're here.
08:44We're at the lawyer's office.
08:47I'm so excited.
08:48I'm so excited.
08:49But hopefully we get good answers.
08:52Today we're meeting with our immigration lawyer.
08:54With the current crackdown on immigration, it's even harder to get to the U.S.
08:58So we want to make sure we're as prepared as possible.
09:02Come in, please.
09:03Hola, buenas tardes.
09:04Hola.
09:05Muy bien, muy bien.
09:06Hola.
09:09Hi.
09:09Hi.
09:10Nice to meet you.
09:11Nice to meet you.
09:12Let's get the show on the road.
09:14We're excited.
09:15Yeah, let's talk about this.
09:16So the first appointment, we have the medical appointment.
09:19They're going to do some, like, pee tests and some blood and maybe vaccination shots.
09:25If everything goes all right, the person is going to ask you to come back, like, the next day for
09:32the consular appointment.
09:33They're going to ask you personal questions.
09:36And then who has the final decision is the officer at the consulate.
09:42Is there a way, like, if they did deny it, there's a way to appeal it?
09:47Completely denied.
09:48There's not a way to appeal that.
09:51He can't ever apply again?
09:53He can apply again, but the result is going to be the same.
09:56Oh, good Lord.
09:57This is really our one shot.
09:59We've waited so long, and a do-over really isn't possible.
10:03I'm nervous as is.
10:05And hearing her say that just is blowing my mind.
10:09So I wish you the best luck.
10:13Hopefully it goes good.
10:14Okay, bye-bye.
10:15Bye.
10:23After our meeting with our lawyer, I decided I'm going to shave, which I didn't want to because I was
10:29letting this grow.
10:30I was trying to grow up a little bit.
10:32Like, what if me having the beard impacted the interview or the result of it or them seeing me as
10:39a good boy or as a bad boy?
10:42So here we go.
10:43I'm going to do it.
10:45Wish me luck.
10:53Oh God, I feel weird.
10:55No, I feel like I love weird.
11:00I feel bald.
11:03What are you laughing at?
11:05It's good.
11:06Huh?
11:06No, nothing.
11:08Let's see if they like it.
11:10You better.
11:10Let's see.
11:12Hi, guys.
11:13Hi.
11:15Hi.
11:16Hi, Hannah.
11:17Hello.
11:17Do I look good?
11:21Why you do that?
11:22What'd I do?
11:24Oh my God.
11:25What do you guys think?
11:26Does it look weird?
11:28You have a lip.
11:29Yeah.
11:31That's weird.
11:32Wait.
11:32She says my lips look small now.
11:34Yeah.
11:35You're lying to your teeth.
11:46Today, Hannah and I are heading to a medical exam, which is the first part of a two-part
11:51visa process.
11:52The purpose of this medical exam is to, you know, to make sure that they're healthy, they
11:56have no diseases, and, you know, that they're not bringing anything into the United States,
12:00and that's why they have to have vaccines as well to make sure everything's up to date.
12:09I love you guys.
12:11What happens today and tomorrow is going to determine what our future looks like.
12:16It can open up a whole world of opportunities for Hannah.
12:19It'll also leave me the opportunity to be in my family's life more.
12:23There's a lot at stake, so I'm just praying that it goes well.
12:34Hey, love.
12:36Hi.
12:37Hola.
12:38How'd it go?
12:40Well, good and bad.
12:43Good and bad?
12:44Yeah, something that we weren't expecting just happened.
12:49Like what?
12:52Well, well, we did our tests, and among the tests, one of them was an x-ray.
13:00Turns out that on the x-rays, there was, like, scarring of my lungs.
13:07Oh, my God.
13:09Holy .
13:20Why do you keep leaving me alone with your mom?
13:24What do you want me to do?
13:25You've complained about this in the past.
13:27What I'm asking is not to leave me alone with her because I'm going to lose it.
13:33I'm Jasmine.
13:34I'm 39 years old.
13:36I am from Panama City, Panama, and I currently live in beautiful Florida.
13:41It's Thanksgiving Day, and I offer to host Thanksgiving for Matt's family.
13:48But I have my mom on my ear driving me nuts.
13:54Okay, do you want me to wash her while you start cooking, or what are we doing?
13:57I'm begging Matt to please take care of his mom, but he's not even doing that.
14:02Jesus Christ.
14:03I swear, we could live in a mansion and have everything, and you should be like, eh, about
14:07something.
14:07Just behave.
14:09Behave.
14:10There's no reason to be crabby.
14:12It's Thanksgiving.
14:16My 90-day journey began when I met Gino on a sugar baby's side.
14:21He was so charming, handsome, and funny.
14:26We fell in love, and we both applied for a cable and visa, and I moved to the United States.
14:32Baby!
14:33Be more!
14:34Woo-hoo-hoo!
14:3690 days later, I married him.
14:40Te amo, te amo? Te amo muchĂsimo.
14:43Te amo.
14:44Aw, wow.
14:47Woo-hoo, wow, wow, wow.
14:51Everything began to go down the drain when, after getting married, Gino stopped having intimacy
14:56with me.
14:57I'm so desperate, Gino, to have some sort of validation from Gino that you actually attracted
15:03to me.
15:03Like my husband doesn't make love to me.
15:07Gina and I decided to get divorced, and I started a forming relationship with Matt,
15:13and I get born to my beautiful daughter, Matilda.
15:18I love you, honey.
15:22I'm trying my best to be the traditional housewife, hosting, cooking, baking.
15:28And I want to make this a very memorable first family Thanksgiving,
15:33but Matt's mom is getting on my last nerve.
15:40No, because then the mosquitoes enter.
15:44I deserve better than this.
15:48This submissive is getting me tired.
15:51It's not taking me anywhere.
15:52He doesn't appreciate all the that I do.
15:55And you know what? From now on, I'm going to continue wearing my high heels,
15:59because it's always like, I don't wear high heels because then you look taller than me.
16:03Shhh.
16:04Tiny .
16:06Back to Mr. Medium.
16:10Okay.
16:11I have dealt with my Latino family.
16:13This is just another place.
16:18Hello.
16:20Hello.
16:22Hello.
16:22The chef is back.
16:25Woo!
16:27Welcome back.
16:28Right now, I'm just going to focus on preparing dinner, doing my best, and ignore Matt's mom.
16:36I'm going to be the best Thanksgiving host that there have ever been in the whole history of the United
16:43States of America.
16:49Dinner is ready.
16:50Now?
16:51Yes.
16:53Mmm.
16:53Oh, my God.
16:54The chicken is good.
16:55Wait.
16:56It's turkey.
16:58It's turkey.
16:59It's chicken?
17:00It tastes good.
17:03It's chicken though.
17:04It tastes like turkey.
17:05I thought it was turkey.
17:06Yes, she didn't get the turkey.
17:08Then she replaced the turkey with a ham, which is going to be done.
17:12Two hours.
17:13Two hours after the dinner.
17:15Everything turned out great.
17:16Here.
17:17The chicken was delicious and everybody loved it.
17:20I would say it was pretty good.
17:21I think it was perfect.
17:22My dinner was perfect.
17:24Thank you for everything, Tommy.
17:25I'm going to show you how thankful I am later, okay?
17:28I have my periods.
17:30It's fine.
17:31I know how to run a real life.
17:33Oh.
17:35Happy Thanksgiving!
17:48Hi, Diaries.
17:50So, my in-laws already left.
17:54I didn't let them touch anything, do dishes.
17:59A lot of hospitality.
18:00And I thought that I caused a good impression.
18:05That's what I thought, right?
18:06But before Matt's mom left, she handed me this envelope that says,
18:13Happy Birthday, Matt.
18:14Which was kind of weird for me because his birthday was one month ago.
18:19And then she said, Oh, this is for Matt.
18:21But there is something in there for you that I want you to read.
18:27And I just...
18:34And these words, even they are using paper, they cut like knife into my heart.
18:42When your mother-in-law doesn't like you, like, the relationship never works.
18:49I'm sorry, babe.
18:54There is something we need to talk about.
19:02Your mom, before she left, she handed me this envelope that says, Happy Birthday, Matt.
19:09And I was like, Oh, okay. This is for Matt's birthday. Fine.
19:12And she said, Yes, but I wrote something for you.
19:16So today, I open it.
19:18There is a beautiful birthday card for you.
19:21$20.
19:23Yeah.
19:24Which I'm keeping, by the way.
19:26Obviously.
19:27Yeah, I'm keeping it.
19:28After I read what I'm about to do to you.
19:32Dear Jasmine, I spent a lot of time praying for you and Matt, but I cannot give you my blessing
19:40without commitment and marriage.
19:44As a mother, I cannot participate in your life of living in sin.
19:50Okay.
19:51I also need to express your clothing selection feels in modest.
20:00All of this could have been avoided if Matt had chosen someone who shares our background.
20:07Perhaps a Romanian girl.
20:09Here we go.
20:11Who understands our traditions.
20:14With love, Olympia, thank you for inviting us to Thanksgiving.
20:19So what do you want me to say?
20:21Matt, you understand how this letter made me feel?
20:25I know you don't like me agreeing with my mom, but I kind of view the same thing.
20:33Like marriage is still really important, not just to my mom, but also to me.
20:37Why would you be married to me when all you do is to joke about what did you tell me
20:41all the time?
20:42You have to find better hobbies than getting married and divorced.
20:46And you call me Jasmine Jennifer Lopez.
20:52I know I joke around.
20:53Exactly.
20:54So why would you want to be married to me then?
20:57Because we have a child together now, okay?
20:59Exactly.
21:00I know I joke around.
21:00I don't want to marry a man that says that wants to marry me because it's mommy and because we
21:05have a child.
21:06It's not about my mom.
21:07It's about me.
21:09Matt, not even once you have said that you want to marry me because I'm the love of your life,
21:15because you cannot picture your life without me.
21:18You want me to say bull like the other guys did?
21:20So, no.
21:21That hurt you?
21:22I'm in solid love.
21:23I'm going to follow you around.
21:25I love you.
21:26And then it doesn't go anywhere and you get divorced from them.
21:32Treat me with love and I'm going to be an angel, but do this kind of and I'm going to
21:39be a bitch.
21:41I'm not going to be pressured into marrying anyone.
21:45them, that letter, math and marriage.
21:50I'm not going to marry them.
21:52Period.
21:55I'm going to go to a daughter store.
21:58Have fun.
22:00I have $20 to spend.
22:24All right.
22:25So, I just got back into town and I like to have family dinner when I come back in town.
22:31So, let's go have some pizza.
22:34I'm Josh.
22:35I'm 44 and I'm currently in Peoria, Arizona.
22:41Jet and I are going to take my fast car as we call it, as my daughter calls it, my
22:45fast car.
22:46So, we can get there quicker maybe.
22:48I hope so, I'm hungry.
22:52A few years ago, this blonde Ukrainian came walking into my life named Natalie.
23:00And we started dating.
23:03I'm really glad that, you know, I'm really getting to know you.
23:09Things moved kind of fast.
23:11We tried for a good two, three years to have some type of relationship.
23:17And unfortunately, it just didn't work out.
23:21You're so damn it.
23:22I'm your girlfriend.
23:23Natalie.
23:24Natalie.
23:25I think we're going to take a breather.
23:26I think we need to take a step back.
23:28Oh, .
23:29As far as relationship wise, I think both of us are better off about each other.
23:38After my relationship with Natalie, I did get back out there in the dating scene and I decided to date
23:44Jen.
23:46I thought she was drop dead gorgeous.
23:48And I did ask her to be my girlfriend because I thought that I was ready.
23:55You are a serious relationship.
23:59You really like your partner.
24:02I just want to, like, take things well.
24:07You know, as much as I wanted the whole Jen relationship to work out, we just thought that we are
24:14better friends than being in a relationship together.
24:18Okay, we made it to El Pasco downtown.
24:22It's my favorite pizza spot.
24:24I like to reconnect, have a family dinner, see what's been going on with everybody's days.
24:29Candy.
24:30Oh, hello.
24:33Oh, you look cute.
24:34Thanks.
24:35Good to see you.
24:37Good.
24:38How are you?
24:38Good.
24:39Hi, Jen.
24:40Canis is my ex-wife and also Jet's mom.
24:44Even though we've been divorced, we still are very close.
24:46We're still friends and we still do a lot of, like, family dinners together.
24:50We met really young and it was just that young love, like, where you fall really hard and you fall
24:56really fast.
24:57And, like, that person is just everything to you in the entire world.
25:02And when Canis was 18 years old and I was 24 years old, we decided to get married.
25:08It was just, like, me and Canis against the world, you know?
25:12And then we had my son, Jet.
25:13And then it was the three of us against the world.
25:16And then I took a job that put me on the road a lot.
25:21And it really started this, you know, this downward spiral in the relationship with me gone all the time.
25:28I'm trying to get the three of us ready.
25:33Every weekend I was gone and that just caused separation, which, you know, ultimately ended in divorce.
25:41And that's one of the biggest regrets in my life is letting Canis go.
25:48How we got married when we were driving back from Mexico.
25:52Me, Mom, Grandpa Kelly, I told your mom, I was like, let's just keep going.
25:59Go to Vegas and get married.
26:01And she's like, okay.
26:02Okay.
26:03I know.
26:05So...
26:06My mom tried the whole way in the backseat.
26:09She is so devastated.
26:12Yes.
26:13You guys.
26:14Yes.
26:16Just recently I've heard a little birdie told me that, uh, Candis is actually single now.
26:27You know, this is one of the first times in a long time that both of us have been single
26:32at the same time.
26:33So I've had like thoughts kind of crossed my mind as far as like, well, maybe it's time.
26:38Maybe we're ready to try again.
26:45Good food?
26:46That was great.
26:49You look nice.
26:55Drew, what do you think about, when you grab a kiss?
26:58Yeah.
27:01Just having a kiss?
27:02Yeah, just, you know.
27:04We're not gonna.
27:05Just having a kiss.
27:09Okay.
27:10You know.
27:11The fact that she agreed to go on this date, it makes me feel like maybe I can, you know,
27:18maybe I can still repair this.
27:37I really try to spend as much time as possible with the kids because, you know, we've been
27:42through a lot. About two years ago now, Jet was in a tragic accident. Candace was calling
27:50me over and over again, which is abnormal. And we went straight into the emergency room
27:56to see Jet. And sorry, it's hard to talk about reliving. One sec. He's unconscious. And there
28:16was so much damage to his right leg that all the blood was just going into the leg and all
28:23of his organs were failing. And so they were like, we have to take his leg or he's going
28:31to die. And, you know, Candace is just a wreck. And she said, just save his life. Just save
28:42his life. It was a really long road to recovery. But, you know, my son, he's a fighter. He's
28:58a warrior. At the end of the day, that experience really brought us all closer together as a family.
29:06And I cherish the time that we are able to spend together. All right. Let's go play some ping
29:12pong. I don't really take anything for granted now. Maybe that's, you know, why I want to meet
29:19with Candace. It's a cool little spot. I've already asked Candace out, but I just, I want to make sure
29:26that he's 100% okay with it. You ready for this? Ready. Because if he's not, then that's going to
29:33put
29:33the brakes on everything. Hey, pizza was good the other night, right? Yeah. It's like one of the
29:44first times that me and your mom have both been single. Yeah. I did ask her out on a little
29:55date.
29:57I just really want to make sure that you were cool with it, man. I don't know, man. I mean,
30:04you guys have very different lifestyles. I mean, you're always traveling. What, are you going to
30:09stop traveling? Why do you think that's a problem? I would love for you guys to be together, but I
30:16don't
30:16think it's going to work. But why? Because you've already tried. Yeah. But we tried like young,
30:23like we were young love. I mean, go on date, see how it goes. I'm like, if you were to
30:28be dating her,
30:29don't mess it up. You can't be sliding into everyone's DMs. It's not allowed with her. Serious.
30:39Well, at this point, I don't think it's any secret that it's been really hard for me to,
30:44you know, really fully commit into a relationship. But that was the past. And I feel like I've changed.
30:52And I'm a new man. But, you know, I just know that in going into something with Candace, like,
30:58I have to be 100% serious. Because I don't want any disruption, like, with Jet and I's relationship.
31:04But we'll have to see how things go on our date first.
31:20Hey, love. Hi. How'd it go? On the x-rays, there was, like, scarring of my lungs. And so,
31:30the doctors have to check it for TB, tuberculosis.
31:35Today, Hannah and I had our medical exam, which is a first step towards getting our U.S. visa.
31:40But, unfortunately, the doctor did find something in me that is very concerning.
31:46When you have tuberculosis, your lungs get scarred.
31:49Okay.
31:50And it's not for sure that I have that. But it could be that. He said, in Mexico, it's very
31:56common. And so, that's going to cancel my interview date.
32:00I can't go into the consulate.
32:03Oh, my God.
32:04The results take about two months to come back. And then, if, this is if, they come back negative, then
32:13I will get rescheduled then three months more.
32:17If the results come back positive, this could be a year, a year and a half.
32:21The interview I have at the consulate is automatically canceled and postponed until they have clear that I don't have
32:28active tuberculosis.
32:29It's just a scary feeling. And it's sad that now this process that we've been waiting for for years is
32:35delayed even longer.
32:38What about her?
32:40With her, the blood they drew, I guess they're going to check it through there if she has anything.
32:46But with her, it's like a quick result because they're going to call me later today.
32:49And if she's clean, then she's good to go and she can have her interview.
32:53She can get to the United States, but you can't?
33:25They should be calling any minute, babe.
33:28Yes.
33:30Waiting for the medical clinic to call about Hannah's health results is really nerve-wracking.
33:39Oh, here it is, here it is.
33:42Is it good?
33:45Yes, I am my dad and Hannah.
33:50Thank you, I thank you.
33:52See you later.
33:53Everything's good.
33:55Really?
33:55Yes.
33:56She has no TV, nothing.
33:59So, you're good to go.
34:00Yes, she's good to go.
34:01So, next is the interview.
34:15Are you guys ready for this?
34:17Yeah, I'm ready.
34:18I'm excited.
34:20Ready to death, babe.
34:21We're on our way to the U.S. Consulate for Hannah's interview.
34:25Since I can't go in there because I might be contagious and have tuberculosis, I'm actually not allowed to go
34:30in there.
34:31So, as your father can't go in with her, the next person in line is your sponsor, Kenny.
34:36So, you're going to have to do it.
34:38Ugh.
34:38It's nerve-wracking for me because I did not expect to be in there having to do any kind of
34:44interview at all.
34:45Yeah.
34:46They're going to ask all kinds of dates and times and things like that and I really haven't had a
34:51chance to study up on it.
34:52And maybe one wrong answer might ruin everything.
34:56It will.
34:57I'll wait out here for you guys.
34:59Hopefully you guys come out quick with good news.
35:02Love.
35:04Love.
35:05Love.
35:05Love.
35:07Feel my forehead.
35:08Oh.
35:09Yes.
35:10Good luck, guys.
35:11Love you.
35:12Bye.
35:13I feel devastated about yesterday's medical exam, but I really don't want to focus so much on my pending medical
35:19results.
35:20Right now, I'm just so nervous for Hannah.
35:23As a father, I want all the best for Hannah's future.
35:26So, her future, our future really hinges on her passing this interview.
35:35Just sitting and waiting here almost makes my nerves worse because a lot of people next to me,
35:42and their family members got here and they were denied.
35:45And that just made me more worried for Hannah.
35:49I really don't know what to think.
35:59Jesus!
36:00Woo!
36:02Oh, my God.
36:03Oh, my God.
36:04Oh, my God.
36:05Oh, my God.
36:10Yay!
36:12We're extremely happy that Hannah can come to the States.
36:15It's going to be a little bit of a delay that we can all go together, but I'm going to
36:19remain confident, and you should, too, babe.
36:22A little hiccup, but I have confidence that the New Year will bring better things and we can all be
36:26a family in the States.
36:27Yes.
36:29We've got to be positive about you, because I know it's upsetting.
36:35Baby, it's been...
36:36Baby, it's been...
36:37Baby, it's been...
36:38Baby, it's been...
36:39Baby, it's been...
36:57Ministro.
36:58I've got to say I'm a little nervous tonight.
37:01You know whenever she's nervous.
37:04I'm ready for my date with Candace.
37:07We're going to go skating.
37:10Uh-oh!
37:11There she is.
37:12we're going to bring it back to like it's 1999 when we were dating we had a lot of fun
37:17back in
37:17the day you look cute thank you oh you're always cute you too you're ready to skate yeah i'm nervous
37:29are you nervous to skate or you're nervous because we're hanging out like this is new
37:35yeah i'm nervous to bust my ass i absolutely love candace the dynamic that we have the closeness
37:42that we have and i believe she feels the same exact way for me okay let me do it i'll
37:47do a 12
37:48and she'll do a six yeah i know things like that
37:56i guess we'll see what happens and i'm nervous
38:17well we're having a really fun time skating we kind of just fall into you know like
38:23it was just yesterday that we were hanging out
38:29it's so effortless with canvas it's going really well
38:35you're a great skater
38:39thank you we're having a really good time together and it puts a smile on my face that you know
38:47after
38:47all these years we can still have fun so it means i'm doing something right
38:54my lady thank you my man
39:00i'm ready to go all in and you know i'm hoping that she feels the same way
39:07that was fun that was a lot of fun you know i really enjoy hanging out with you
39:13you know there's always that question in my mind of like
39:17maybe it's time like maybe it's time to try again i don't know like
39:27to me that's kind of scary because i know it'd be easy for both of us to say yes let's
39:33do this
39:34and let's try to date and then things could go sideways really quick
39:38that's what scares me
39:41well i mean i feel like i've i've definitely grown so much more like personally
39:49and you know we were very young
39:51i know and look those are the best years of my life was you know when it was us
39:57and chad was a baby like those were like great times you know
40:01i know i don't want to set myself up to get hurt again
40:07and if you and i can just be friends and we keep it at that level and go on fun
40:12dates every now and then
40:13okay and then maybe in a couple years we try again
40:16i just i want to make sure you're ready josh and maybe i'm not ready who knows
40:21i guess there's no other word to say but you know it sucks
40:28she still sees me as you know this self-centered guy
40:35but the fact that she still does give me her time
40:38and you know that we can do these little dates here and there
40:42i think it's good you know
40:44and i'm still hopeful that things you know still can work out for us
40:50okay so yes or no to the couple dates every now and then
40:53yeah i think oh i mean so that keep it light
40:55are we trying to smooch me then
41:00no promises
41:04i love you
41:05i love you
41:11he's ready to trick or treat
41:14wow
41:15oh who farted
41:19it's been 12 years since i came out as trans so
41:23this girl's like getting in a great
41:25mom why is the belly painting and so big what isn't that big we have a really big secret that
41:32we have been keeping from everyone and that is we are pregnant with baby number four
41:38we are kobe and i are going to tell the kids the big news today
41:43what big news mom
41:47i'm a model so i need to have some shade i'm about to have a whole bunch of feminizing surgeries
41:54like breast augmentation face lift jaw and chin surgery
41:59we're going to restructure the bone so all the incision is going to happen inside your mouth
42:04and i'm just really worried
42:08it's like 3 15 in the morning dallas is supposed to be home at like 2 45
42:13so i checked out his location and he's parked down the street again
42:17is he the girl down the street for me
42:20is he cheating
42:21i just have like a really bad feeling
42:24but
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