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Love & Hip Hop- Atlanta (2012) Season 13 Episode 28
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00:00She finally took accountability.
00:02It took her two years to even say that.
00:05Like you said, I do have a lot of anger.
00:07I never want to argue with no woman.
00:09But I'm disappointed you didn't defend me yesterday with Bambi.
00:13Mom, listen, you know normally I'll be the first one to stand up for you.
00:16Can we agree with that?
00:17Yeah, absolutely.
00:19I've been in my feelings, and I didn't feel like it.
00:22I felt that, too.
00:25I don't even have the energy to even go back and forth.
00:28Whatever it is to make y'all happy.
00:30Who is it y'all?
00:32You're not devoting to me.
00:33But why are you including your mother in this conversation?
00:36I want you happy, I want you happy.
00:39White flag.
00:40I'm not gonna believe it till I see your eyes.
00:45I can't talk to you through glasses.
00:47I don't know what's real.
00:48There you go.
01:00There you go.
01:04Oh, my God.
01:05That was a good one right there.
01:06Let's get together, baby.
01:07Beautiful out here.
01:09Oh, my God.
01:10Good morning, world.
01:11Georgia boys coming out sideways.
01:15Gotta pull for ya.
01:31Hopefully today is a lot better than yesterday.
01:33Oh, please let it be.
01:34I got my mama out here.
01:36Oh, Lord.
01:37All right.
01:37I need y'all to sit down and chop it up.
01:39Today, I'm talking.
01:40Y'all talk too much.
01:41Yes, sir.
01:42I have some things to say.
01:43Okay.
01:43You got the green on, act like a soldier, all right?
01:46The lieutenant is speaking.
01:56Yes, you're real.
01:59How y'all doing this morning?
02:01We're good, coach.
02:02What's up?
02:03Yeah, what up?
02:04What's going on?
02:05You're out here in it.
02:06I love it.
02:07What's up?
02:09Everybody was here last night.
02:11Brittany had the lead.
02:12She had a little boat trip to do today with her and her family.
02:15And Bam left last night.
02:16We're going to go get the kids.
02:17Bam was up here.
02:18Yeah.
02:20Dang it.
02:21And you got buddy right here.
02:24Put his hand on the show.
02:27I don't know if you talked to him, but he tried to pull a job last night and get all
02:31his family under one roof.
02:33Why you looking like that?
02:34What happened?
02:34Because it was bad.
02:35I'm kind of relieved that Brittany, you know, she was talking way crazy.
02:39I ain't never heard her talk like that.
02:40She got deep on me like, oh, you came for me.
02:42I was like, whoa.
02:43At the age I am, man, like, I ain't even really with, like, settling.
02:48I ain't with that.
02:49Hey, hey, hey.
02:51Yandy.
02:52Yandy was there.
02:53Yandy, her.
02:54Yandy, her.
02:55I missed you last night.
02:57I missed you too, boo.
02:57I wish we could have came last night.
02:59Oh, you should talk to me today.
03:01Hi, Yandy.
03:02Hey, Yandy.
03:03Hi, girl.
03:04How you feeling?
03:04Everybody get a hug yourself.
03:06Wow.
03:07What happened last night?
03:09Because he's talking about it was a showdown.
03:11Hello, hello.
03:12Hi, y'all.
03:13How are you?
03:14One thing I have no time for is fake friends.
03:17I have not seen Ashley and Zayn since I saw the episodes in Puerto Rico where they have
03:20my name in their mouth every five seconds.
03:22Don't even give a if you don't mind your business.
03:24Don't bring it to me.
03:25I feel like you're being just very defensive because all the stuff that's going on with you
03:28and Yandy right now.
03:29Everybody's seen it.
03:30It's not.
03:31We see her out in Greece or whatever, whatever dudes, whatever, posting pictures.
03:35We can all sit here and act like we don't see it.
03:37Let everybody cheat in peace.
03:39When I saw Ashley talk all that crap, I couldn't believe her little ass has so much to say
03:45about me, the one that has defended her time and time again.
03:49How dare you?
03:50Tell them, Yandy.
03:51Tell them.
03:52Bye, babe.
03:52Damn.
03:52How you feeling?
03:53What happened?
03:54And why you wasn't even concerned?
03:55I was concerned.
03:57You wasn't concerned?
03:57I just only speak when I have something to say.
03:59I ain't had nothing to say.
04:01I'm out of here.
04:02Peace a town out.
04:04You feel me?
04:05Like, I'm gone.
04:06Yeah.
04:07So last night, you missed a lot.
04:08It's kind of crazy.
04:09It was crazy.
04:10I haven't been speaking to Yandy.
04:13Like, you know, obviously, there is some kind of tension here.
04:16And you know why I have an issue, right?
04:19No, actually, I don't.
04:20You were upset with me, but I really don't know the full reason why.
04:25All right.
04:25So let me tell you why.
04:26I speak very highly of you.
04:27I felt like when I wasn't in Puerto Rico, you guys took that opportunity to play with my
04:31husband about me.
04:31It was an outright trying to play me in a group of people.
04:36Where's Yandy?
04:37Where's she doing in Greece?
04:38When I said, is Yandy cheating on you?
04:41It was because Mendeecees was jumping in my business and jumping in women's business.
04:45So I called him out on it.
04:46And I was like, oh, now you want to be in people's business?
04:49Yo, is Yandy cheating or not?
04:50When you see me, you smile on my face.
04:52You give me a hug.
04:53Yeah, absolutely.
04:55You have nothing but nice things to say.
04:56But then don't play with my name.
04:57I'm not playing with you.
04:58Everything that was in the blogs about you cheating or whatever it is, or him cheating,
05:02I had told you straight to your face.
05:04You never told me nothing to my face.
05:05First of all, I did.
05:06Right now, I feel like Yandy is totally deflecting.
05:09We watched you in clear 4K.
05:12It was said that Mendeecees hooked up with some girls, unprotected.
05:15You don't want the blog stuff.
05:16So that stuff's not true?
05:18Hell no.
05:18You and Mendeecees don't have an open relationship.
05:21Hell no.
05:21I'm not about to let Yandy gaslight me like I'm the problem because she's out in the streets
05:26moving recklessly and she got caught.
05:29I'm not the one to blame.
05:30To make it seem like I'm just, like, coming down on you, like, oh, Yandy's cheating on
05:34you, blah, blah, blah.
05:34That's not what it was.
05:36Yeah, I said it wrong because I'm passionate about it.
05:38Because you have been going around saying about me, making it seem like me and my husband
05:44against you and Mendeecees when we're not.
05:46This is a key example of, like, how when it comes to married people, we just don't need
05:51to be discussing other married people.
05:53I'm not getting ready to go be, like, talking crazy to another woman.
05:56Yeah, that's the thing.
05:57I'm not doing that even if I'm checking her, standing up for her.
06:01If you got a problem with something that Mendeecees is saying, don't ever bring my name
06:05up.
06:05And that's why I left it alone in Puerto Rico.
06:08But I wasn't in Puerto Rico, so this is my first time seeing you sit in Puerto Rico.
06:11And you could have called me, too.
06:12No, no, no, no, no, no.
06:12I don't mean it maliciously.
06:14That's malicious.
06:15It's malicious.
06:15But I'm telling you.
06:16It's malicious.
06:16But I'm telling you.
06:17It don't matter what your intent was.
06:18It's malicious.
06:19And if you don't know.
06:20And that's why I'm apologizing.
06:21But the apology is.
06:22When you say, Ashley, no, you listen to me.
06:24No, you listen to what I'm saying.
06:26I'm telling you.
06:27No, no, no, no.
06:28I'm apologizing.
06:28You've got to cut down because you can't apologize to me and scream.
06:32From the outside in, I mean, it's obvious that Ashley was being shady in Puerto Rico.
06:36I mean, any jury can see that.
06:38OK.
06:39Yandy, I apologize if I hurt your feelings.
06:42Not if.
06:43Not if.
06:43I apologize, but I'm not going to apologize for me being who I am.
06:48Make me look crazy when I'm like defending Yandy.
06:50Yandy ain't doing nothing in Greece.
06:52Yandy ain't cheating.
06:53My husband looking at me sideways.
06:54I always still have your back though.
06:56I ain't dumb.
06:57I ain't dumb.
06:58I ain't dumb.
06:58You calling me dumb and your husband going out in Greece?
07:01Yes.
07:01All right.
07:02But I'm looking dumb.
07:03OK.
07:04I didn't say you looking dumb.
07:05I said you are dumb.
07:05You calling me dumb?
07:06Yes.
07:07Yes.
07:08Yo.
07:36No.
07:38No, no, no.
07:39Don't tell me to stop talking.
07:40Listen, listen, listen.
07:40I've been listening to you disrespect my mom.
07:42I've been listening to her disrespect you.
07:43People think if someone held you down, you owed them your life.
07:47Yeah.
07:47They can beat you up, smack you up, but she held you down.
07:50Do you know what else you did, Moni?
07:52There's a whole lot of motherf***** what you did to Moni.
07:55A lot of them.
07:57All right.
07:57A lot of them.
07:59I used to feel so devastating.
08:03At times I thought we meant to make it.
08:07But now we on our way to greatness.
08:10Me and the guys, man, we finna go hit the land.
08:13You know what I'm saying?
08:13The real country part of Georgia.
08:15And Yandy and, you know, Bam's favorite cousin, Kendra,
08:20they finna go out and send some flowers and s**t now.
08:23You know what I'm saying?
08:23What the hell?
08:24I'm ready to have fun.
08:26I'm ready to come to hell.
08:27I just got here and y'all are all ready and turned it up.
08:31Hi.
08:32Hi.
08:32I'm Yandy.
08:34I'm Bronwyn, the naturalist.
08:35Kendra, nice to meet you.
08:37Nice to meet you.
08:37You know, I always end up on the boat rides about oysters
08:40or looking at leaves.
08:41The guys over there tearing up the trails on ATVs
08:44and I'm over here counting ferns.
08:46I need a little excitement in my life right now.
08:51Oh, yeah.
08:53Oh, yeah.
08:54Oh, yeah.
08:56Oh, yeah.
08:56Oh, yeah.
08:57Oh, yeah.
08:57Oh, yeah.
08:57Oh, yeah.
08:57Wait a minute.
08:58Get it.
08:58How you living?
08:59Ten toes in when we standing on Venice.
09:02This is a lichen.
09:03Wow.
09:04Can I smell it?
09:06It just kind of smells like tree.
09:09Yeah.
09:09Just tree.
09:10Yeah.
09:16Do these pine cones do anything?
09:18Um, okay.
09:19Pine cones are great.
09:20This is horse do, so we'll talk about that.
09:23Oh, right.
09:23Yeah.
09:24Yeah, this is black.
09:30Oh, .
09:35You all right, bro?
09:36Yeah, yeah.
09:37I've been waiting on that my whole life.
09:40Thank you so much.
09:41Thank you, ladies.
09:42Bye.
09:43Bye.
09:44This, I like nature, though.
09:46Like, growing up in the country, I miss stuff like this.
09:49Do you?
09:51Can we go get something to eat, bro?
09:53While we talking about this food?
09:54I'm hungry here.
09:54Come on.
09:55Now that does, we just ate out there.
09:57Now, let's see when we get back whose girl has a plate waiting for him.
10:00Well, I ain't got no girl.
10:01That's why you gonna be hungry.
10:03But remember, we share.
10:03You had two guys.
10:04Nah, we ain't sharing no things.
10:06Nah.
10:07When your girl was here yesterday, you didn't want to share.
10:09Now your girl's gone, you want to share.
10:11Well, your mama, my mama then.
10:12We can't go.
10:12That might switch mamas with you right now.
10:20Hey there.
10:21How you doing?
10:22Yeah.
10:22How you doing?
10:24Come on, have a seat.
10:25I haven't really spent a lot of time with Miss Lynette.
10:28But I'm just happy that we got away from all the chaos.
10:32You know, I feel good about these mother moments.
10:35You know?
10:35These grandmama and mother moments.
10:38After last night, all that drama.
10:40Scrappy, I'm told, bam.
10:42And he want his family back.
10:43And that was just too much.
10:44And I know you said you didn't want them back together.
10:46Mm-mm.
10:46Because they're not gonna work.
10:48So he didn't change.
10:48What Scrappy needs to understand, when you go and label this woman, label this woman have a baby, label that
10:55woman have a baby, those are broken homes.
10:57And then you can't just do that.
10:58Those are broken homes.
10:59You can't just do that.
11:00Right.
11:00You can't do that to these women.
11:01You know what I'm saying?
11:14But the only gift that means a lot to me is to put your family together.
11:22Is that my kids come together, my grandkids.
11:26And they know their mother love them.
11:28That's right.
11:28And my grandkids know that they grandmama got their back.
11:33Hey, baby.
11:33I feel it.
11:34And so the issues that you and Ashley had and the mess that even that torn.
11:39And I see how it tears you up because you don't wanna make your son choose.
11:44He shouldn't have to choose.
11:45I can really relate to Miss Lynette because I've been down this road with Scrappy and the band.
11:52I already can see by her and Ashley's movements, this probably is not gonna end very well.
11:58And I want Miss Lynette to hear it before it's too late.
12:02If I can offer any advice to you, I would just say maybe y'all can go out to eat.
12:08I don't know what can be in these broken things.
12:11Again, like I said, I appreciate that.
12:12I really do.
12:12But me trying to put this back together, I'm to the point right now, I have other issues.
12:17I have my son.
12:18The kidney that I gave my son 15 years ago, it failed.
12:21We need another one.
12:22It needs to happen right now.
12:24And Zane, he didn't go get tested for whatever reason.
12:27He pissed me off, you know?
12:28He gonna tell me he was scared.
12:29He didn't go get tested yet.
12:30You know, he had to talk to his wife.
12:32I was done with that.
12:33That conversation ended quick.
12:34My thing is, right now, I am trying to raise money.
12:39I'm trying to do a fundraising.
12:40I was actually gonna ask you for your advice.
12:42Oh, I would love to help.
12:43I would really love to help.
12:45But you think, you know what, maybe if you're louder, maybe Ashley can help you.
12:50Maybe if you put it on the table.
12:52And I get what you say.
12:53I really do.
12:54But I don't want to involve and tell me what to do, how to do it.
12:57And I don't even need help.
12:58I'm done.
12:58I mean, that is definitely not gonna happen.
13:01Well, I see myself now trying to convince Ms. Lynette to open her heart.
13:05But she's giving me a hard push back.
13:08Well, I'm flattered that you even asked me.
13:11I'm right there.
13:12I'm telling you I'm right there.
13:13I said, you know what, I need to talk to mom because I know you're a nurse.
13:15You know, I know that you can help me.
13:17Yeah.
13:18I'm gonna get back.
13:19I'm just getting greasy at him.
13:21For real, for real.
13:22Okay, come on, come on, come on.
13:23Let me do it.
13:24Let me do it.
13:24Come on, come on.
13:26There you go, come on.
13:26Girl, I'm gonna bring you back down.
13:28Give me a hug.
13:29Okay.
13:29You're welcome.
13:31Coming up on Love and Hip Hop Atlanta.
13:34If somebody said, oh, at least you always got your back.
13:35And I'd be like, hey, that's what you think.
13:36You don't know my life.
13:37You don't know the truth.
13:38You don't know what to do outside of this show.
13:42I feel like a coward, bro.
13:44I couldn't even go get tested.
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13:53You in Miami, you playing by my bro.
13:55Michael was me last night.
13:57And that's that.
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13:59I want to meet with Julian.
14:00We've had issues.
14:02But I am willing to hear him out.
14:03Trina, it's about you.
14:05If you need me, I'm here.
14:06Rhonda's gone.
14:06She packed her stuff and left.
14:08I'm just trying to take my mind off everything.
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14:18Down easy.
14:19If you gonna leave me, baby, go and leave me all the way.
14:24Hey, hey.
14:26What's up, baby?
14:27How are you?
14:27That's your beautiful self.
14:29Ooh.
14:30I'm honestly feeling recharged after riding ATVs with my guys.
14:34You still got a little dust in your glasses.
14:36Now that I got that out of my system, I'm ready to deal with some of the things that I've
14:40been kind of avoiding on this trip.
14:41Had a good time.
14:42Chopped it up with the fellas.
14:44And then I also talked to them in D.C.
14:45And I'm like, why is Yandy acting like that towards me?
14:48Like, what?
14:48Oh, my God.
14:49What happened with you and Yandy?
14:50Oh.
14:51Like, cause she been treating me crazy since.
14:54When y'all left, it just went so bad.
14:57I'm just like, you know, I heard that you had an issue with me.
15:00And she was like, ah, because you was talking about me in Puerto Rico or whatever.
15:04And I'm just kind of like.
15:05Yeah, he said something about that.
15:06But she was just being very defensive.
15:09The way it ended, I think I snapped.
15:11She called me dumb.
15:12And I'm like, you're the one that's dumb.
15:13I don't know where to go from here.
15:14She called you dumb?
15:15Oh, yeah.
15:16She said we were both dumb.
15:18Oh, wow.
15:19I have a lot of mixed emotions right now with Yandy, but I'm going to have my girls back.
15:23Because I know she's mad and upset, but I know it's not really me.
15:27I think it's Mendeecees continuing to hurt her over and over again.
15:33I hope she realizes, like, damn, you know, Ashley was right.
15:36I also feel a certain way.
15:38I feel like my mom is under a lot of pressure right now with this transplant, this kidney transplant.
15:43And on top of that, we on her back, too.
15:46And I just ask you to just kind of like bury the hatchet.
15:50For you and only for you will I, you know, even consider just moving forward and just squashing this with
15:59me and your mom.
16:00If something happened to me today, I feel like I don't want you and my mom to be cool and
16:05everything cool about y'all after something happens to me.
16:07Is this not what happens?
16:07I need to see that now.
16:08This is not what...
16:09I need to see that right now.
16:10Look at me.
16:10Look at me.
16:11I'm looking right at you.
16:12Stop talking.
16:12No, no, no.
16:13Don't tell me to stop talking.
16:14You've been talking a lot.
16:15You've been talking a lot.
16:16No, because I said this.
16:17You've been talking a lot.
16:17And I've been listening.
16:19No, you haven't.
16:19Yes, I have.
16:20And I've been listening to you disrespect my mom.
16:22I've been listening to her disrespect you.
16:24Oh, my gosh.
16:24I'm telling both of y'all.
16:25That got to be over with.
16:36Hair is not giving wilderness.
16:38It's giving content queen.
16:41You should be glad.
16:42That's the only thing I'm a queen of right about now.
16:43Why?
16:44Why you say that?
16:46I'm aggravated.
16:47Why you aggravated?
16:48Because I had a conversation with Ashley.
16:50Don't tell me it was about when we was in Puerto Rico.
16:52Of course it was about Puerto Rico.
16:53See, you live and let live.
16:55I got to have a conversation before I can move on.
16:57And that's your first time seeing her?
16:58That's my first time seeing her.
16:59You feel some type of way of what she said?
17:01First of all, she apologized, but it was like a backhanded whack.
17:04I'm sorry, but I don't apologize for who I am.
17:08Yeah, well, who you are is whack.
17:10Who you are is whack.
17:11You said that?
17:12And then she said, you sit here crying about a man that will say he happy to be single, he
17:17happy to be awake.
17:18I don't know where she get that from.
17:19I don't even know what the **** is saying.
17:21Again, she's exaggerating, right?
17:22I guess she's trying to get underneath your skin.
17:24From what I remember, she was like, you mad because Yandy got her licked back?
17:28You should get over it.
17:29She held you down.
17:30When you went to prison, I'm like, did you see it?
17:32Like, why you keep telling me my life?
17:34You left her feeling like, Yandy didn't hold me down.
17:37First of all, that's not true.
17:38And second of all, she's not deserving of that conversation.
17:40What's not true?
17:41I never did nothing for you.
17:42I never said that.
17:43Listen.
17:44I'm going to keep that private, right?
17:45That's between me and you.
17:47It's not.
17:48I'm very annoyed that I even have to have this conversation with Mendicis.
17:51What you do not get to do is take away from the journey I took with you.
17:56Because everything you left prison with, you came back to.
18:00Did you ever date someone while he was in prison?
18:03No.
18:04She no different from Bambi.
18:06You can have your opinion.
18:08Don't bring it to me because I don't give a **** about it.
18:10But then that's what you say.
18:11If somebody said, oh, Mendicis always taking up for you.
18:13Mendicis always got your back.
18:14And I'd be like, hey, that's what you think.
18:15You don't know my life.
18:16You don't know the truth.
18:17You don't know what that **** do outside of this show.
18:19Yeah, it would sound like that.
18:20Yeah, so what the **** are you saying?
18:21I ain't saying nothing.
18:22Everywhere I go, people say a whole lot of things about how amazing you are.
18:25I'm going to start saying, y'all don't know my life.
18:26Y'all think he's amazing.
18:28But is that cool for me to do that to you?
18:30Because we could both do that.
18:32You got to control your emotions.
18:36What's in this conversation?
18:37You know, the constant arguing with Yandys is becoming so stressful.
18:41Come on, let's go.
18:42We're leaving.
18:43Go ahead, you can leave.
18:44I'm just chill and look off.
18:45This is why I moved out.
18:47I need peace.
18:47I chose peace.
18:51Coming up on Love & Hip Hop Atlanta.
18:53I want you to come out there and talk with us.
18:55You know.
18:56Ashley?
18:57Yeah, Ashley.
18:58Yeah.
18:59Another conversation.
19:00When you were going, you think she got pounced on?
19:02What I don't know, what I don't see, I ain't going to look for it.
19:08We outside and it's a takeover, the ways of it.
19:11Came to catch a vibe and we gon' skate through with no brakes on them.
19:14Yeah.
19:15Yeah, you did.
19:16Yeah, man.
19:16Some nice heat.
19:18Some nice heat.
19:19Ugh, this.
19:20I need this.
19:21The fire went out.
19:22Oh, no.
19:23Smoking.
19:25What's up, fellas?
19:26As soon as this is over with, I think I want to go play.
19:30Go play.
19:31I'm singing.
19:32Back on the market.
19:33Back on the market.
19:34Uh, go pray.
19:35I prayed.
19:36I prayed last night.
19:37I'm going to pray when I get ready to go to sleep.
19:40I really don't understand why I'm mad in life right now.
19:43Because I thought Brittany was going to be one of them long-term things.
19:47And she effed up, but I effed up.
19:49The way I look at it is, two played the game.
19:51My situation would be long as every last situation I've had except this one.
19:56I was, you know what I mean?
19:57What is this one of the women for?
19:59What's the women for?
20:01The threesome was over so damn quick.
20:03I'm actually surprised he remember it happened.
20:06It wasn't even fast.
20:07It was .
20:08I was like, hey, what's up?
20:10Y'all great girl.
20:11What you doing?
20:13Damn, that was .
20:14So I had a conversation with Ashley.
20:16I guess it's a me and Mendeece situation.
20:18Like, what do we do about our wives, bro?
20:21Because me and you have such a great relationship.
20:23We be vibing.
20:24But I feel like they are on a whole another level.
20:27You know, that's the same thing what happened with me and Kurt, right?
20:31When our wives was going at it.
20:33Yeah.
20:33And me and him was cool.
20:35We used to try to come together to get them on the same page.
20:37But she said she held you down.
20:39It's like everybody could see like you was gone for four years.
20:43You came back.
20:43She was still there.
20:44To a woman, they call that holding you down.
20:47Yeah.
20:47I'm not here to say, yo, it didn't happen or what didn't happen.
20:51I'm just saying you don't know my life from the gram.
20:53Man, did she hold you down?
20:54She held me down.
20:55Yeah.
20:56She could have got married and moved on with her life.
20:57So why do you get so offended when you say, well, you don't know how she held me down?
21:01No, because the reason why I said that, right?
21:03People think if someone held you down, you owed them your life.
21:06Yeah.
21:07Right?
21:07They can beat you up, smack you up, and do everything else.
21:10But she held you down.
21:11Yeah, I went through the same.
21:12You know what I'm saying?
21:12So it's like, how long you going to keep me to the fire and what abuse you think I'm going
21:17to take?
21:18I don't know.
21:18Do I supposed to be the slave for the rest of my life to someone that picked up the phone
21:23call when I called?
21:26I don't know.
21:27Let me ask you something, Mendeece.
21:29While you were gone, you think she got pounced on?
21:32Only he and God know that.
21:34I don't know anything.
21:35What kind of question is that?
21:37I don't know.
21:37Let's keep it real, Mendeece.
21:39I mean, if Yandy was this wild while Mendeece was out of prison, what the hell you think she was
21:44doing while he was in prison?
21:45Listen, that's a valid question.
21:47Before I went in, I gave her the liberty of being by herself.
21:52I don't want to take a woman into prison with me because that's the most hard to do.
21:56Yeah.
21:56Right?
21:57So let me go in there, do my time, you live your life.
22:00She said no.
22:01When I came home, I focused on what's in front of me.
22:03What I don't know, what I don't see, I ain't going to look for it.
22:06Yo.
22:06All right, I got it.
22:07Got money all in my pocket.
22:09Hanging with stars.
22:10Young to fly.
22:11Call me a rockin'.
22:12Shades on and the night is a flood.
22:18Hey, boo.
22:19What you over here doing?
22:20I just posted something for y'all for my story.
22:24What's the matter, girl?
22:26I want you to come out there and talk with us.
22:28Like, we've been talking, you know.
22:29For us.
22:29Ashley?
22:30Yeah, Ashley.
22:32Yeah.
22:32Another conversation.
22:33Yeah.
22:34And I think you should hear her out.
22:36After talking to Zane, I realized that this trip is supposed to be in a place of coming together.
22:42So I feel like, you know, us having this conversation is definitely an opportunity for growth.
22:49Oh, girl.
22:51Oh, Ashley.
22:52That log burned up, girl.
22:54Yeah.
22:56Hi, Andy.
22:58Hi, Ashley.
23:00I'm glad y'all we all around the fire.
23:03Fire pit, fire pit.
23:05You feel me?
23:05The fire that Ashley built.
23:06I did not build this.
23:07I built this man.
23:08Oh, that Kendra built.
23:09I built this girl.
23:11I've not added a stick to the fire that was already started.
23:14Like, I'm always adding fuel to the fire.
23:18That's what I was saying.
23:19Like, you know, sometimes we gotta just take accountability for when it's time to take accountability.
23:25And you know it is what it is.
23:26We have our opinions.
23:27She wear her on her sleeve.
23:28Sometimes that causes us to act out and go overboard and over excessive and all that stuff.
23:33And that's why I do want to take my accountability.
23:35I know I was being very defensive earlier.
23:38I just was taken aback because I really do with you.
23:45I just, I think in that situation in Puerto Rico, you weren't there.
23:49And I definitely approached your husband wrong.
23:52So I do apologize for that.
23:54But, you know, he's making it seem like, yeah, I moved out.
23:57I'm doing this on my own.
23:58I got these houses I'm working on.
23:59And I'm like, Andy has been a part of this process.
24:03Yes.
24:04Before I met you in person, I always looked at y'all like, damn, like she's stuck by him.
24:10She's ride or die.
24:11And, and I understand not everything you see is what it is, but still.
24:16Oh, but I did stick by him.
24:17I was ride or die.
24:18I know.
24:19For sure.
24:19And that's why when you be, I be seeing you go hard for him.
24:22And you will defend him with everything.
24:26With everything.
24:26And then he just be so like, ain't talking about it.
24:29But let me tell you why.
24:30Wait, wait.
24:30Let me tell you why.
24:31Because men are big babies.
24:35Yeah.
24:36They could dish a lot of .
24:37Yeah.
24:38But they can't take it.
24:39It's so interesting to me how Medici's is trying to control this narrative.
24:44Saying, oh, I just want to be friends.
24:46And the week before writing me long letters about how he wants his family back.
24:50Then going to everyone, don't call me a cheater.
24:53You got to defend me.
24:54It's just like, make up your mind.
24:57So when men get in their feelings, they say all kind of .
25:00Then they come back and want to apologize.
25:02Or they come back.
25:03I didn't, his favorite line is I didn't mean it like that.
25:05After four weeks, I'm trying to be the friend that don't say nothing.
25:08But sometimes I'm like, I'd be like, what the heck?
25:12First of all, I accept your apology.
25:14This, without you screaming at me and yelling that you apologize.
25:17I apologize for screaming.
25:18I'm sorry.
25:19It's much better.
25:19It's much more acceptable.
25:20You know, I appreciate Ashley taking accountability.
25:23So I'm going to leave this right here.
25:25But I will always keep my eye on you.
25:27Because I know what you can do.
25:28So I'm going to give you a hug.
25:30Please.
25:31Please.
25:31You're back to being my little sister.
25:32Because I wanted to hug you yesterday.
25:33The hug that you were going to give me yesterday.
25:35I know.
25:35Because baby.
25:36I don't ever, I don't want it today.
25:38I love this.
25:39I'm so happy for y'all.
25:40Can I borrow this jacket?
25:42It's really nice.
25:43What was my little skinny?
25:45You going to give me some hips and ass?
25:47Coming up on Love and Hip Hop Atlanta.
25:49What the brother, bro?
25:51Man, come on, bro.
25:53I see you, bro.
25:55What the brother, bro?
25:56Y'all let that out, bro.
26:03Man, this is beautiful.
26:10Are you okay, man?
26:12Huh?
26:12You okay?
26:13I'm going through it.
26:14Like, I mean, no, I ain't even talking about that.
26:16I'm talking about you flipped off the couch to your four-wheeler earlier.
26:18Oh, yeah, I'm good, bro.
26:19It's fun, bro.
26:20Like, it took everything I was going through off my mind, man.
26:23Come on, we walked in the perfect conversation.
26:26Whoa, whoa.
26:26Hi.
26:27The young ladies are here.
26:28What's up?
26:29You in a better mood now?
26:30Yes, I am.
26:31You are?
26:32When you ask the women, do you have a better attitude
26:35or have you changed your tone?
26:38Anything of the sort is going to give us a worse attitude
26:41and you're going to get an even worse tone.
26:43Hi, Mindy.
26:44How are you?
26:45I don't know if I'll hug you or slug you.
26:48Unless his wife give me a hug, you can't hug him.
26:50So, Zane, I will say this.
26:53I forgive you in advance of a discussion.
26:56Yes.
26:56Because your wife has had the conversation with me.
27:00And you forgave me.
27:01Trevor, I always forgive you.
27:02And I'll cut you out later.
27:03I'll get a hug.
27:04I'll get a hug.
27:09I'll get a hug.
27:14I don't really care to understand what these women
27:17kubaya to each other.
27:19And as long as they ain't making up because Ashley
27:21gave some dirt on me, I'm okay with it.
27:24Hey, what are we doing today?
27:25We good right now or we back fighting?
27:28I'm quiet.
27:30I'm going to take that as we good because I ain't got time tonight.
27:33I'm trying to be at peace.
27:35Hey, baby.
27:36Hey, baby.
27:37Hey, baby.
27:37Hey.
27:39Mwah.
27:39How you doing, love?
27:40I'm super here, man.
27:43Hey, Ashley.
27:44Can I talk to you for a minute?
27:46Yes.
27:47Absolutely.
27:48So, after talking to Miss Lynette, I just want her and Ashley to get on the same page.
27:53As a mother and a grandmother, it's hard for me to stand on the sideline and see all this
27:58.
27:58These two, it's like, you know, pulling teeth.
28:03So, talk to your mother-in-law and your brother-in-law got something wrong.
28:11Yeah.
28:11He needs a kidney transplant.
28:13She wants a fundraiser.
28:14I want to help her.
28:15And I said to her, why don't you let Ashley help you with that also?
28:20And she was like, no.
28:23Yeah.
28:23And so, like, as a mom, I was like, oh, my God.
28:26No, I, yeah.
28:27And so, me, because she's a mom and didn't know how we survived kids.
28:33Y'all, I don't get it between y'all.
28:35What you saying?
28:36I understand why she's feeling that way because a lot has happened in 13 years.
28:41But when it comes to helping fundraise and being a part of that, I would love to be a part
28:45of that.
28:46Yeah.
28:46You know what?
28:47I'm actually going to go clear this up right now.
28:50Dang, can you come real quick?
28:52And can you bring your mom, too?
28:54So, honestly, this is not a conversation that I should be having with Mama D.
28:57Mama, can I please borrow you real quick?
29:00Yeah, come on.
29:00I really feel like, low-key, she's going to have Lynette's back no matter what because it's a mom thing.
29:06Listen, I know, first I'm going to say this.
29:09Listen, I know a lot has happened between us.
29:12I would like for us to start over.
29:15You know, Mama D told us a couple different things that you guys had talked about.
29:20She mentioned the fundraiser and that you didn't want to be a part of it.
29:24I did, I did say.
29:25And I can understand that.
29:27My apology, I know it seems kind of crazy, especially in this situation.
29:32But listen, I love you.
29:34I know you do.
29:34I love you.
29:35I love your family.
29:37I love what you've done for them.
29:38So, I would love to be a part of that.
29:40My brother sitting here could be dying and these two are arguing over, like, who's going to help with the
29:46fundraising?
29:47Who's did this?
29:48And none of this makes sense.
29:49My brother's damn near at his death right now.
29:52Like, if he don't get this kidney and we don't get his mind right, it's going to go bad.
29:56I'm not, I'm saying I got to be all, you know, whatever, but whatever I can do.
30:00I mean, I didn't even want to ask you because I didn't want you to feel like, you know, I
30:03need you to do that because we were not in that good space.
30:06Yeah.
30:06But we're family and there's not too many people out here right now, Zane.
30:11Right now, they have this.
30:13We are blessed.
30:13I'm thankful.
30:14We are blessed.
30:15You know, I have nobody.
30:17I am the only one left.
30:19You know, my mother is gone.
30:20She was the one that kept us together.
30:22Right.
30:23You know, and I felt like, you know, now it's on me.
30:26And it's weighing me down, but to see all this going on, it's like.
30:31Well, I don't want to be any more stressed to your life.
30:33I don't want to be any more stressed to your life.
30:36I'm trying to be as strong as my mother, you know?
30:38I'm sorry, honey.
30:39That's okay.
30:40We played to my mother.
30:41I miss her.
30:42I know you do.
30:43I'm sorry.
30:43I miss Grammy too.
30:45I'm not going to kick someone while they're down.
30:46But the petty in me is like, okay, she's just doing this right now because she wants attention.
30:55But I have to be supportive to my husband.
30:58So everything that me and Lynette have going on, like, I really just want to push it to the side
31:03because there's a bigger issue at hand.
31:05I love you.
31:06Like I said, I know you do.
31:07And like I said, right now, our focus is getting this fundraiser off the ground to help Michael and them.
31:13They need to know that they're okay.
31:16I'm sorry.
31:16I'm sorry for everything that we put you through.
31:18I'm sorry for just not understanding and seeing it from your point of view. I know you're dealing with a
31:23lot, Ma.
31:25I know you're dealing with a lot. You two assed. I'm sorry.
31:28Seeing my mom cry, it got me emotional. I'm feeling hopeless at times because I know I let my mom
31:34down.
31:34But at the same time, I just, you know, I'm trying to find that strength to be strong enough for
31:39my family.
31:40What's up, buddy? You all right? You been teared up, girl.
31:44You just seeing your mom's cry, dawg.
31:46I don't understand my mom. Your mom won't cry to your mother, dawg.
31:49Yeah, come on. All right. I see you, bro.
31:52Like, like, you got, you got, you got...
31:55Your mother, bro.
31:57Mama, I know you got to let it out, bro. You got to let it out, bro. I understand that,
32:02bro.
32:03You know, watching Zayn break down like that, it just bring me back to when my mom was in the
32:07hospital all the time she was.
32:09I admire Zayn even being like that because he's crying because he just want to be there so bad for
32:14his family, his brother.
32:16At some point, we have to give ourself grace, and that's what I'm trying to tell Zayn.
32:19You can't do everything. Like, it's not going to happen.
32:23There's no way in the world it can happen.
32:25I feel like a coward, bro. I was .
32:27I'm so scared of doctors and , bro. I couldn't even go get tested to give him my kidney.
32:32You're helping in the whole other way, bro. They can't do what you do, and you can't do what they
32:36do.
32:37He might be looking at it like my big brother just bitched up for him, bro.
32:40You got to go and talk to your brother and explain to him that, bro, I got you. I just
32:45got you in a different way.
32:46I'm going to be there for him. Okay, man. I'm going to be there for him. That's right.
32:52Coming up on Love It Hip Hop 11. I can't argue with you.
32:55Have you noticed that I haven't been the one arguing?
32:57Let me tell you something. You're going to make me drop my car. I've been quiet.
33:00Leave me alone. Stop arguing with me.
33:01You've been single the whole relationship. Don't in here and act like you was a happy man. You've never happy
33:09this man.
33:13There's not a lot that I could do about a lot of me and you, so I'ma let it do
33:17what you do and just focus on the good vibes.
33:20Ain't no time to sit around and be emotional. I really got to step my game up and make sure
33:24that I'm doing the things I need to do.
33:26After all you put me through this weekend, I deserve this.
33:29Hey, I really feel like you and Mindy put me through something. Wow.
33:35Not because you brought the ex-wife and the girlfriend here at the same trip.
33:41Listen, can we talk in private?
33:45Oh, Lord. Here we go to talk in private.
33:48I just want to stop fighting with Yandy. I want to get to a place where we can talk peacefully
33:52with each other without animosity or pointing the fingers and just talk to each other out of love.
33:58You hear a scream, right? Don't come back here.
34:03Why do we need to talk in private?
34:05Mindy has already said what it is, what he feels, what he thinks, and what he wants the world to
34:09think.
34:10I'm not into rewriting history with you.
34:12Look, you see what that sign say?
34:14Friends gather here. Oh, yeah. We're friends.
34:16What's wrong with friends?
34:18What's wrong with friends?
34:20Excited to be your friend.
34:22I think you'll understand the concept.
34:26So I'm trying to lighten the mood with casual jokes and, you know, here come Yandy, coming swinging.
34:31It just leaves me questioning, was the good ever good enough to outweigh the bad?
34:35Listen, you keep choosing violence.
34:39I'm not choosing violence.
34:41Every, you don't see what you do.
34:43Every time somebody say, oh, I'm in DC, I'm mad at you.
34:46It was Yandy.
34:47Y'all cheaters.
34:47But it was Yandy.
34:49It's like everything is Yandy, Yandy, Yandy.
34:51Let me tell you something.
34:51So if you say I got uninterested anger, I think you got uninterested accountability.
34:56I just did it the other day.
34:58So you can drop that.
34:59All right.
35:00And then you can drop the anger.
35:01I can't argue with you.
35:03Have you noticed that I haven't been going to argue with you?
35:04Listen, let me tell you something.
35:05You're going to make me drop my carpet.
35:06I've been quiet.
35:07Leave me alone.
35:08Stop arguing with me.
35:09You pick a fight every chance you get.
35:11What are you talking about?
35:12I was sitting there minding my business and Bambi said something.
35:15And you turned around to me and said, you don't defend me.
35:18I was minding my business.
35:19Last night, I said absolutely no words.
35:21And someone came to me.
35:22All right.
35:22Listen.
35:23Listen, I already can see what is going.
35:26And I'm about to get up and run.
35:28No, I'm too tired.
35:29Run that way.
35:30And then you'll see a cliff with some water.
35:33And I'm going to jump right there.
35:36Just to not argue.
35:37I don't know what Medici wants or what he thinks I owe him.
35:41I'm not giving no more accountability than I've given.
35:43Because you're not even owed that, to be honest with you.
35:45But this is it.
35:46I have nothing else to offer.
35:48Is this conversation over?
35:48I really don't have any major expectations right now other than just being able to communicate
35:56in a peaceful, healthy situation with you.
36:01Okay.
36:03I think that, you know, we just have to figure out how to navigate this single co-parent life
36:09and navigate it well.
36:17What?
36:19Nothing.
36:22So are you going to New York?
36:24Back to New York?
36:24You keep asking me that.
36:25I don't have nothing.
36:26I finished my business in New York.
36:27You're always in New York.
36:28So I have to check New York.
36:28Stop asking me that.
36:31So what was that reference to New York?
36:33Yeah, you know what I meant by that?
36:34Anybody know what I meant by how I said have fun in New York?
36:37That's where the dude is at.
36:39Yeah, she know what I meant.
36:41That was a light jab right there.
36:43You know what's in New York.
36:44That we, we fight for your family.
36:46How many want me to fight?
36:48That's why she got up.
36:49Yeah, have fun in New York.
36:55Why you keep telling me my life?
36:57You don't know my life.
36:58And you don't see nothing wrong with this.
36:59You keep telling me my life.
37:01That's right after you did the scene when Keisha said.
37:02I did chill on the baby mother's head.
37:05And what else you did chill with the baby mother?
37:07What else you did?
37:08If you want to do the what else you did moment, tell them what else you did.
37:11There's a whole lot of motherf**k what you did in the moment.
37:13A lot of motherf**k what you did in the moment.
37:14A lot of motherf**k in this f**king fake relationship.
37:16But that's what the world thinks that's what the world thinks.
37:18That's what the world thinks.
37:18Because you ain't get a spose.
37:19It's what's me.
37:20You bet.
37:20You're the same thing.
37:21You have a whole relationship.
37:24Don't act like you're happily married.
37:28I've seen this thing going on.
37:30You want the truth to come out?
37:31You want the truth to come out?
37:33You want the truth to come out?
37:33Let's do that on TV.
37:35Let's do that on TV.
37:41Next time on the season finale of Loving Him by Balay.
37:45Ladies and gentlemen, how y'all doing this evening?
37:51Hello. Hello, hello.
37:52Y'all are stupid.
37:53I got invited here.
37:55Y'all did that on purpose.
37:56You're childish.
37:56Y'all are dumb.
37:58Eat the green beans.
37:58Yo, you trippin'.
37:59The bitch come down here to call her one at a call
38:02and she hasn't done anything.
38:04I've been respectful to the whole Copeland clan.
38:06No one's been respectful to me.
38:08One, two, three, release.
38:11I'm an innocent woman.
38:12I don't know what they talking about.
38:14Jail is not fun.
38:15Right now, you up.
38:16You following drunk.
38:17What the is wrong with you?
38:19Hold on. Stop. Stop talking.
38:20You don't want your mouth.
38:21I'm not with it.
38:23You have officially been served.
38:26You're a divorcee, but you wanted the divorcee.
38:29Oh!
38:30You can't be kissing on me.
38:32You can't be a lawyer to kiss her own ass.
38:34Stop kissing me!
38:37What's up?
38:38How you?
38:39It's nice to see you guys doing this.
38:42I can say the same thing.
38:43Hey, what's going on?
38:44I mean...
38:45We're just, you know, we're just, we're just chilling.
38:48Yeah.
38:48And, um...
38:51No emotional connection is like a connection
38:54that I have with you.
38:55But I feel like you chose somebody over me.
38:58How do two people supposed to love each other,
39:00keep hurting each other?
39:01What do you feel like to love each other than you so that I have
39:06In Normal City Manatee.
39:06If we look to the Call of Duty Manatee surge,
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