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00:00:01USA! USA!
00:00:04Original U.S.
00:00:05Yes!
00:00:06Are you a redneck?
00:00:07Do I look like a redneck?
00:00:08Yeah.
00:00:09Two, one, go!
00:00:13Nervous? We're almost there.
00:00:14I'm excited to show you New York.
00:00:16I'm a little bit nervous, and I don't know why.
00:00:18New York's an incredible big, you know.
00:00:19It's so huge.
00:00:21This is real.
00:00:23Hey, Bibi.
00:00:24How are you?
00:00:24How are you?
00:00:25Handsome.
00:00:26My fiancé's name is Vito, and he's an Egyptian movie star.
00:00:31You want me to act something?
00:00:32Yes.
00:00:33Okay.
00:00:34You talking to me?
00:00:35You talking to me?
00:00:38Hey, Shay!
00:00:39Hey, ladies!
00:00:40I don't tell my fiancé, Annabelle, every single thing that goes on at the parties.
00:00:46I was in bed with you when you were with Annabelle.
00:00:53At once.
00:00:56What the ?
00:00:57I'm giving Katie a lot of slack, and that's being straight in my face.
00:01:01This is bull .
00:01:05Only God can do it.
00:01:06He's gonna bring my husband to the USA.
00:01:08There's still that stereotype of Nigerians' cameras.
00:01:12But God literally created this man for me.
00:01:16Thank you, Lord.
00:01:18So we are getting married tomorrow.
00:01:21Are we?
00:01:22I have a choice.
00:01:23I just wanna go back to Brazil.
00:01:34I am.
00:01:38I am.
00:01:42I am, I do.
00:01:54Jesus Christ.
00:02:06So Marissa's on her way right now.
00:02:07Her VIP appointment's good.
00:02:09Champagne, robe, charcuterie board.
00:02:11Everything is well set.
00:02:12You're the best.
00:02:15Yeah, so I'll be there in about 10 minutes.
00:02:19Ladies, how's it going?
00:02:21Just let her know we went ahead and pulled some ball gowns and A-lines for the bride.
00:02:24So she'll be working a little later.
00:02:25Awesome.
00:02:25Thank you guys so much.
00:02:34Hey, Shay, good morning.
00:02:35Good morning, Marissa.
00:02:38I'm Marissa.
00:02:39I'm 45 years old, and I currently work as the chief operating officer and executive vice president at Kleinfeld.
00:02:45Hello.
00:02:46How are you doing this morning?
00:02:47Good, thank you.
00:02:47How are you?
00:02:48Good, good.
00:02:48Can I complain?
00:02:49Tell me what's going on.
00:02:49All right, so today we have a kind of busy day.
00:02:52We have 41 appointments.
00:02:53We have four luxe appointments right now, and then starting at 2 o'clock, we have three platinums.
00:02:58All right.
00:02:59Kleinfeld Bridal is an iconic wedding salon here in New York City.
00:03:03We service almost 20,000 brides per year, and everybody makes it on their bucket list if they're a bride
00:03:09to come shop us.
00:03:10But you probably know us best because it's where they shoot the famous show, Say Yes to the Dress.
00:03:14Just a reminder, your meeting is starting right now, so if you want to go and hop in that, I
00:03:17can get your back.
00:03:18Perfect.
00:03:18Okay, I'll talk to you later.
00:03:19Thanks.
00:03:27I'll be in another room, and the bride won't even see me, and I'll hear somebody have their yes moments,
00:03:33and I'll be like, you know, and they don't even see me or hear me, but it's just like a
00:03:36natural, like, yay, they're saying yes.
00:03:41Enjoy your moment.
00:03:41We're going to get you some champagne.
00:03:43All right.
00:03:43Yes.
00:03:45But even though I work in bridal, my love life isn't a fairy tale.
00:03:49I was married for six years before getting divorced, and divorce left me as a single mom of two boys
00:03:54in a very high-powered career with a lot of stress, so it was really hard to find love in
00:04:00my life.
00:04:01That was until I took a girl's trip to the Dominican Republic, and I met Edward.
00:04:07Ooh.
00:04:08Ooh.
00:04:09I was probably initially attracted to his looks.
00:04:17Edward has great lips.
00:04:19He has a great butt.
00:04:21He was working in entertainment at a hotel that I was staying at on a girl's trip, and I just
00:04:27thought he was so cute and so friendly.
00:04:29Hi!
00:04:31He made me feel like a beautiful woman again, and it's something that I hadn't felt in a really long
00:04:38time.
00:04:38So when somebody ignites that feeling inside of you again, you really don't forget about them.
00:04:43So we had an instant connection, but I didn't see it going anywhere.
00:04:46An executive from New York meets a hotel entertainment worker.
00:04:50It just didn't seem like a likely match for us.
00:04:56What, are we having a hallway meeting in here?
00:04:57Always.
00:04:58Hallway meeting?
00:04:58Yeah, I know.
00:04:59Can I be a part of it?
00:04:59No, she's just.
00:05:00Oh, yeah.
00:05:01A little powwow.
00:05:01I have a question.
00:05:03Yes?
00:05:03Where is Mr. Edward?
00:05:05When is he coming?
00:05:05He's coming?
00:05:06Yeah?
00:05:07I'm not feeling all this time.
00:05:08He's coming on Sunday.
00:05:10Sunday?
00:05:10Yeah.
00:05:11Oh.
00:05:12I know.
00:05:12It was about three years in between when we first met to when we reconnected.
00:05:19I was taking a trip to Punta Cana with my girlfriends, so I texted him.
00:05:25I was like, oh my God, I lost your number.
00:05:28I couldn't contact you.
00:05:29I didn't know your last name.
00:05:30I've tried every social media outlet possible.
00:05:32And he was like, I can't believe that you actually texted me just now.
00:05:35Wow.
00:05:36Ever since that date, we were pretty much in a solid relationship.
00:05:40It happened really quick.
00:05:42Edward and I were long distance for two years, and I visited him in DR every six to eight weeks.
00:05:47But it made it really hard to balance being a single mom of two boys and managing a high-stress
00:05:52career.
00:05:53So, eventually, we made it official.
00:05:56Aw.
00:05:58Aw, that's so sweet.
00:06:00He said, you know, do you want me to get on one knee?
00:06:03And it's like, I don't really want to have to tell you to get on one knee.
00:06:06So, I was like, don't worry about it.
00:06:14Working in bridal makes you a little numb to the whole bride experience.
00:06:18And then a lot of people at work said, are you crazy?
00:06:20Like, you are just as much a bride as every other person that comes in here.
00:06:25And you need to celebrate yourself.
00:06:27I feel like a doll.
00:06:28You look like a doll.
00:06:29Perfect.
00:06:30And once I got used to that idea that, like, yeah, I am getting married.
00:06:34This is a special time in my life.
00:06:35I kind of embrace being a bride.
00:06:38Marissa, are you saying yes to the bride?
00:06:41Yes!
00:06:42Woo!
00:06:46Oh, I was looking for you guys.
00:06:50Dorothy, Caitlin.
00:06:50Hi.
00:06:51How did it go?
00:06:51Good.
00:06:52Yeah?
00:06:53We love them.
00:06:53How fabulous.
00:06:54When am I going to see you again?
00:06:56I don't know.
00:06:58Wait, so he's coming this weekend?
00:07:00Is he freaking out?
00:07:01I don't know if he's freaking out or if I'm more freaking out.
00:07:04I mean, like, I have to teach him everything.
00:07:06This person on a plane.
00:07:06I know.
00:07:07Oh, my God.
00:07:08He got his body ready.
00:07:10Did I tell you about that?
00:07:11No.
00:07:12He's going to kill me for telling you.
00:07:13So, he decided that before he came to the United States, he wanted to get an adult circumcision.
00:07:23Edward, since the moment I met him, has always been interested in getting his penis circumcised.
00:07:29You had to have said something.
00:07:31I didn't.
00:07:32When you saw it, did you go, ugh?
00:07:34No, I didn't.
00:07:35I didn't.
00:07:38Maybe subconsciously, he thought that it was more culturally appropriate here in the United States.
00:07:43Like, what if he goes into a locker room with some men after the gym and, you know, who knows
00:07:48why he does the things that he does.
00:07:49But let's just say that I'm happy that he did it.
00:07:53And then he gets the surgery.
00:07:56Everything was fine.
00:07:56He's in a little bit of pain.
00:07:57A couple days later, when he wakes up in the morning, he, they expand a little.
00:08:03And his stitches fell out.
00:08:06So, he ripped open his penis.
00:08:07He ripped open his incision.
00:08:09Oh, my God.
00:08:10So, he had to, like, go back to the doctor, get re-stitched.
00:08:13Does it hurt?
00:08:14He's going to find out this weekend if it hurts.
00:08:16I'm going to get a text on Monday morning and tell us how was it.
00:08:19How was it?
00:08:20Which was it?
00:08:21Was it better this way or that way?
00:08:24Was there a concern that it might look different or, like, you know, cut the wrong piece or something like
00:08:30that?
00:08:30Yeah, a little bit.
00:08:31But the doctor gave him the full green light to let his penis work as normal.
00:08:36So, we're going to test that out when he gets here.
00:08:39At first, I was like, we're going to get married as soon as you get to the United States.
00:08:42But now, like, reality is setting in.
00:08:45And I'm like, I really think I need to take the full 90 days.
00:08:49So, when Marissa first told me about Edward, I was kind of leery.
00:08:52I'm born and bred in Brooklyn, New York.
00:08:54And, you know, I know scammers all my life.
00:08:56Believe me.
00:08:57You really got the golden ticket.
00:08:58Marissa is a very successful businesswoman.
00:09:01She has two beautiful kids.
00:09:03She has a home in Pennsylvania, an apartment in New York City.
00:09:06I think they're living a fairy tale right now.
00:09:08And I think when reality hits, who knows?
00:09:11Sometimes I feel like I have real life problems.
00:09:13Like, real life.
00:09:14Yes, you do.
00:09:14I have job problems.
00:09:16I have kid problems.
00:09:17Correct.
00:09:17And, like, you know, he tells me about his problems.
00:09:19And I'm like, that's not a problem.
00:09:20Like, oh, a guest was complaining about something.
00:09:23And I don't want to feel like my life is so much more important than his.
00:09:27No, no, no.
00:09:27But in a way, like, I have a lot more at stake here.
00:09:32There's a saying that goes, I don't want you because I need you.
00:09:37I need you because I want you.
00:09:39Do I need to have a man in my life to carry on?
00:09:43No.
00:09:44Do I need a man in my life to give me financial support?
00:09:46No.
00:09:48And if I ultimately feel like the relationship is bringing me more stress or unhappiness,
00:09:55then I'm going to have to make a hard decision that I probably can't move forward with the marriage.
00:10:00You know Rome wasn't built in a day.
00:10:02Yeah, I know, I know.
00:10:03We'll kind of be built in, like, 90 days.
00:10:04Oh, my gosh.
00:10:18Hello.
00:10:24To the marina, please.
00:10:27Okay.
00:10:32Did I put it in here?
00:10:33Yeah, I did.
00:10:34Okay, cool.
00:10:35My name's Mallory.
00:10:36I'm 29 years old, and I live in Athens, Alabama.
00:10:39And how would you describe yourself?
00:10:42Ugh, I don't know.
00:10:43I don't like talking about myself.
00:10:45Basic white bitch.
00:10:48And if you can't tell already, I'm a long way from home.
00:11:02How are you?
00:11:03Good.
00:11:04Um, I've been traveling for, I think, over 20 hours.
00:11:08I had some coffee on the plane, you know, extra double shot, espresso type b****.
00:11:14So, yeah, I'm ready to rock and roll.
00:11:18Are you from America?
00:11:20Yes, I am.
00:11:21Yes.
00:11:21Which country?
00:11:22I live in Alabama.
00:11:24Oh.
00:11:26My hometown of Athens, Alabama is definitely your typical southern town, which is a little
00:11:31bit redneck.
00:11:32Well, kind of a lot of redneck.
00:11:34My friends and I love to get into some crazy things for fun.
00:11:43Turn it up country.
00:11:45Swing out in the black world.
00:11:47That's our town.
00:11:48Turn it up country.
00:11:50Yeah, it involves a lot of drinking.
00:11:54Go get him go right there.
00:12:02Why you come here?
00:12:03My fiancé is Turkish.
00:12:05He lives here with some of his family.
00:12:08And, uh, Rosh gets to come back with me to America this time around.
00:12:14Very excited.
00:12:15Yeah, that's good.
00:12:16Rosh is my fiancé.
00:12:18I call him Rosh because I cannot say his name correctly.
00:12:23He's Rosh.
00:12:24And he is from Marmaris, Turkey.
00:12:30Rosh is definitely on a scale of 1 to 10.
00:12:32He's at 10.
00:12:33I would place him higher than that, honestly.
00:12:35Mm, yeah, my fiancé is hot as f***.
00:12:37Let's be real.
00:12:39And I've come here to Turkey to bring my baby back to America because I'm not taking any
00:12:45chances with him having a hard time getting into America.
00:12:52Move with it, move with it, work that body.
00:12:56Move with it, move with it, we are the party.
00:12:59Let's go.
00:13:02My name is Rashid.
00:13:04I am 29 years old.
00:13:07I am from Marmaris, Turkey.
00:13:09I am captain.
00:13:15Charter boat'un kaptanı olarak sorumluluklar çok büyük.
00:13:19Tekneyi kullanmak, gelen turistleri aksiyon ve eğlenceliydi.
00:13:25Çok beğendi.
00:13:34It's a beautiful place, just like Cennet.
00:13:36Yes, this is the Cennet Adas.
00:13:41Marmaris is one of the beautiful places.
00:13:44Yes, it's beautiful.
00:13:47Marmaris, Cennet, like a place to America.
00:13:51I'm very sorry to go to America.
00:13:53I don't see Mallory 6 years ago.
00:13:55I'm very excited to see it.
00:13:59She's, for me, very sexy.
00:14:01I love her heart first, and second, I don't like skin.
00:14:08You don't like skinny?
00:14:10I don't like skinny.
00:14:13She's, for me, very good, very perfect.
00:14:17Yeah, I can say this.
00:14:20When did you see your fiance last time?
00:14:23It's been six months.
00:14:25Six months?
00:14:26Six months since we've seen each other.
00:14:27Do you want a hug?
00:14:28Yes, yes, very much.
00:14:32Almost two years ago, I went to Greece for a girls' summer trip,
00:14:37and we had a wild time, and that's how I ended up meeting Rosh.
00:14:42One day, I am on the baths.
00:14:45I take my phone, and I saw Mallory like, who is this?
00:14:50I, red side, touch, what is this?
00:14:53Spike.
00:14:54Spike. I did spike.
00:14:56And after half hour, she spiked me, and we match.
00:15:01Some dude that I just hung out with catch my drift afterwards.
00:15:06He French braided my hair.
00:15:08I was too blind to see.
00:15:10But I definitely planned on Rosh just being a one night stand,
00:15:14and that I would go back to America, and I would never hear from him again.
00:15:17And what happened?
00:15:19I guess Rosh just fell in love with me the minute he laid his eyes on me.
00:15:23Like, baby, I'm a girl rush.
00:15:28Will you marry me?
00:15:34What?
00:15:36Will you marry me?
00:15:41She said yes.
00:15:43I start to cry, and she hugged me, and don't cry because I love you so much.
00:15:51I love you so much, Mallory.
00:15:53I love you so much.
00:16:03There are a lot of what ifs running through my mind right now.
00:16:07You know, what if he hates America?
00:16:11What if he hates Alabama?
00:16:13What if he has a horrible time trying to find a job?
00:16:17So, I'm scared, but I'm really happy.
00:16:21You know, because this is the beginning of us never being apart ever again.
00:16:26Like, we're closing that chapter of long distance in our relationship,
00:16:29which is something that I think is so beautiful.
00:16:32Keep on, keep on fighting.
00:16:35Keep on, keep on shining.
00:16:40My love!
00:16:42My love!
00:16:44I skipped bed him!
00:16:46I skipped bed him!
00:16:49I skipped bed him!
00:16:55I want y'all to continue to pray for me, because I know he's going to bring my husband to
00:16:58the USA.
00:16:59Don't mess us up!
00:17:00At the age of 12, I finally realized that God was speaking to me directly.
00:17:06He told me I will have a marriage.
00:17:09I was asking God, where is my husband?
00:17:11God said, Maka, Nigeria.
00:17:14Every prophetic word you spoke of my life is coming to pay!
00:17:18Thank you, Lord!
00:17:21That was great!
00:17:23Oh, yeah!
00:17:25If you live in Baruca, we probably met up, had a beer.
00:17:28You're always going to catch me having some fun.
00:17:31So, you're saying you wouldn't give up all the partying for Annabelle?
00:17:34Do you think I would?
00:17:36No, I don't.
00:17:37I'm not, I'm not gonna.
00:17:40Jesus, take me to the higher ground.
00:17:44You lift me up, and I am heaven.
00:17:49It's something she got in her spirit for God to do, and the devil tell her it ain't gonna happen.
00:17:54But the Lord says he wants you to embrace her, because that anointing of the breaking.
00:17:59That's what I need you for, that anointing of the breaking.
00:18:02So, what broke up you?
00:18:22I'm Aisha Montgomery.
00:18:23I'm 38 years old, and I'm from Alabaster, Alabama.
00:18:26Thank you, Lord.
00:18:29I am Pentecostal.
00:18:30You know, you have other churches where you're gonna sing hymns, or there's more to do, you know.
00:18:36But in my church, we get down.
00:18:39You got all that money, and you still, man.
00:18:43You got the mansion, and you still ain't happy.
00:18:46But my church is in the Lord.
00:18:49Thank you, God!
00:18:51As a Pentecostal, we believe the entire Bible, so we still believe people do miracles, and God gives everybody a
00:18:58gift.
00:18:59And God has given me multiple gifts.
00:19:02Like, I feel like I'm a little blessed.
00:19:05Glory!
00:19:06At the age of 12, I was just in a store, and I remember God stopping me, and He said,
00:19:15listen.
00:19:15So I'm in the middle of the store, and I'm just listening to the music, and then the Holy Spirit
00:19:21said, this will be the next song that comes on.
00:19:24So I'm waiting for the next song to come.
00:19:26And then it came on.
00:19:28And it was what God told me.
00:19:32Literally, I was in the middle of that store, shocked, listening to this NSYNC song.
00:19:37I could not believe it.
00:19:38I knew this song before this song came on.
00:19:40And a voice told me, and it wasn't like an audible voice.
00:19:43It was like a knowing.
00:19:46And then my pastor, he confirmed.
00:19:49He's like, you know, you have a prophetic gift.
00:19:52I finally realized that God was speaking to me directly.
00:19:55It was like my a-ha moment.
00:19:57Like, it made sense.
00:20:00God's gonna fill you up for your journey.
00:20:02But He told me the reason to take you out, because her prayers brought you out.
00:20:13Now, when it comes to talking in time, it's a heavenly language.
00:20:16So it's a language that I'm speaking that God understands, but the devil doesn't.
00:20:22It's almost like if you're going to war, like, you might write stuff in a different code.
00:20:27Thank you, Lord.
00:20:29Y'all gotta stalk us.
00:20:30We gotta go on the testimony series.
00:20:33Praise the Lord, everybody.
00:20:35Praise the Lord.
00:20:35Praise the Lord, everybody.
00:20:37Praise the Lord.
00:20:38Let me tell you, Apostle.
00:20:39Uh-huh.
00:20:39I'm gonna try not to cry.
00:20:41Oh, my God.
00:20:41Every prophetic word you spoke of my life is coming to pay.
00:20:45Thank you, Lord.
00:20:47Hallelujah.
00:20:49Because I know I used to worry.
00:20:50It's one petition I put before God.
00:20:53And it was very special to me.
00:20:55And I've been waiting ever since I was 16 for God to answer this prayer.
00:21:00Lord, like, when are you gonna bring my husband?
00:21:02And it was just not coming.
00:21:04It just seemed like it just was not coming.
00:21:06And it just finally happened.
00:21:07He told me I will have a marriage.
00:21:11December 2023, a notification came across my screen.
00:21:14It's like, here comes the bride.
00:21:16And I was just like, okay, Lord, I got you.
00:21:20February, God said, get ready.
00:21:25March, I was asking God, I was like, okay, Lord, where's my husband?
00:21:30He said it's not, he's not close.
00:21:33So, I knew I had to do something different.
00:21:36I had to widen my search.
00:21:38Abroad, maybe.
00:21:39And within two weeks, we matched with each other.
00:21:41Not that cute.
00:21:45Maxwell is my fiance.
00:21:46He's 28 years old.
00:21:48And he's from Aka, Nigeria.
00:21:49Hey, sweetie.
00:21:50How are you doing?
00:21:52You know you love my dimples, so I just want to show it to you.
00:21:57When I saw him on the app, he was cute.
00:22:00He has the cutest little nose.
00:22:02Like, I love his nose the most.
00:22:05And from the jump, Maxwell was speaking the language of Asha.
00:22:10He is the male version of me.
00:22:12Like, we both love business.
00:22:14We both love the Lord.
00:22:15We're both family-oriented.
00:22:18It's like God literally created this man for me.
00:22:23I couldn't have dreamed it even better.
00:22:24But I feel like if somebody came to me literally
00:22:28and said that they were dating somebody from Nigeria,
00:22:32me, Asha, would say, you're probably getting scammed.
00:22:36So, I knew that I had to meet him one-on-one
00:22:39and see him face-to-face to prove that this is legitimate.
00:22:46My friend and I flew to Nigeria.
00:22:48She was actually going to meet Maxwell's friend, Silas.
00:22:51Like, Silas was always over Maxwell's house.
00:22:55So, he's like, um, will you hook me up with one of your friends?
00:22:59And I was like, yeah, I'll hook you up.
00:23:00And since everything was going so well for me and Maxwell,
00:23:04we decided we wanted to introduce our two best friends to each other.
00:23:07And so, like, when I got there, to be honest,
00:23:09I feel like everything happened the way it's supposed to have happened
00:23:12and it could have been better.
00:23:14It was the time of our lives.
00:23:16And on the third night while we were in Lagos,
00:23:19all of a sudden, Maxwell's best friend, Silas, proposed to my friend.
00:23:22You know what? I thought they were crazy.
00:23:25I really did.
00:23:26And so, I'm sure Maxwell was like, well, I'm going to propose to Asha tomorrow.
00:23:31And so, we were at this restaurant.
00:23:34Look at chicken now.
00:23:36My plate was covered up.
00:23:37His plate was covered up.
00:23:38So, I was like, maybe they're just giving the full height.
00:23:40And then as soon as, like, he lifted the plate,
00:23:41he was like, will you marry me?
00:23:46I feel like there's still that stereotype of Nigerians being scammers.
00:23:56But when I tell you every prophecy and every word lined up,
00:24:01Maxwell is the man I have been waiting for.
00:24:06I just want y'all to pray for me because my fiance, he goes for his interview
00:24:10to get his visa to come to the USA.
00:24:12Mm-hmm.
00:24:14That's prophetic.
00:24:16Um, so I want y'all to continue to pray for me
00:24:18because there's one song in my spirit.
00:24:20Because I know he going to bring my husband to the USA.
00:24:22Mm.
00:24:23You got that beat.
00:24:24Don't mess us up.
00:24:25Don't mess us up.
00:24:30You got that beat.
00:24:30Have mercy on me, then.
00:24:32And I'll be good.
00:24:35Happy, happy, happy, happy day.
00:24:37Parentory, my love, Pittty.
00:24:39Gonna death everyone, Pittty.
00:24:42You're gonna set them free.
00:24:45Go to the kingdom of Jesus!
00:24:48So, now, Maxwell and Silas, they have their interviews on the same day,
00:24:52so they're planning to come to the US together.
00:24:55But, you know, me and my best friend,
00:24:57dating two best friends and getting engaged at the same time,
00:25:01people in my circle definitely think Maxwell is a scammer.
00:25:04But I know for a fact that Maxwell was brought to me by God.
00:25:07I have no doubt in my mind.
00:25:09And if you've got God on your side, what could go wrong?
00:25:14Tell everybody!
00:25:31I walk in like, how do you do?
00:25:33I need a little liquor with me just to set the mood.
00:25:35And I don't mean to be rude or even act a fool.
00:25:38I just do a little better with an attitude.
00:25:40Shay!
00:25:41That's a great story, Les.
00:25:43Oh, yeah.
00:25:43Hey, Shay!
00:25:44Hey, ladies.
00:25:45Time for some beer and bar here.
00:25:50I'm Shay.
00:25:52I'm 54 years young.
00:25:53I'm from Quilt City, USA, Paducah, Kentucky.
00:25:57Sup?
00:25:57I'm a realtor.
00:25:58I've also got my Prince Blocks Schneer license.
00:26:01700 now, 899999.
00:26:02I've got nine.
00:26:03I've got 1,000 back here.
00:26:05There's about 11, 11, 11, 12, 12, 12, 12, 13.
00:26:08Boom.
00:26:08So it's sold.
00:26:10You can bring your friends.
00:26:12Hey, what's up?
00:26:13How you doing, buddy?
00:26:15If you live in Paducah, you probably know who I am.
00:26:17We probably met up, had a beer.
00:26:19Hey, right?
00:26:20How are you?
00:26:21Good.
00:26:22How are you?
00:26:22It's always 5 o'clock somewhere, so you're always going to catch me having some fun.
00:26:30Yes!
00:26:33I think women are just drawn to him.
00:26:38Shay's a little flirty at times with some girls.
00:26:42Maybe a kiss on the cheek.
00:26:43Hugs.
00:26:44You know, those kinds of things.
00:26:48I mean, if he were single, I might consider dating him.
00:26:53It ain't a cookout unless we get it on us.
00:26:58How is it?
00:27:00Man, it's crappy.
00:27:02I bet Annabelle in there ever had barbecue like this before.
00:27:06Annabelle's my fiancée.
00:27:10She's 54 years old, and she lives in L.O. City, Philippines.
00:27:14And she arrives in America in just a few days.
00:27:17And I cannot wait.
00:27:18Absolutely cannot wait.
00:27:19I'm counting the minutes.
00:27:20I'm going to follow wherever you go.
00:27:22We met through it.
00:27:24My friend Greg, he's here six months, and he spends six months a year in the Philippines with his wife.
00:27:30His wife and Annabelle are like best friends, and they just decided that we would be a good match.
00:27:36And he introduced us on a video call.
00:27:39I turn around, and I've got a Filipino girl in my face.
00:27:42And say hi, you know, and I say hi, and Annabelle's just kind of looking at me like, and I'm
00:27:48like, so you don't understand me?
00:27:50And she's like, hmm.
00:27:52And then I'm like, Greg, this girl doesn't even speak English.
00:27:55And she's like, just kidding.
00:28:01After that call, we started talking every day.
00:28:10I think it was, you know, a godsend thing.
00:28:13It wasn't anything I was looking for, but she's such a sweet, caring person that God knew I needed that.
00:28:20And it didn't matter if she was across the street or across the world.
00:28:23And it just so happened, she's across the world.
00:28:26Miss you, baby.
00:28:26Love you.
00:28:27Good night.
00:28:28Good night.
00:28:30When is Annabelle coming?
00:28:32Just a few days.
00:28:32She'll be here soon.
00:28:33A few days?
00:28:34I can't wait.
00:28:35Yep, yep.
00:28:36About 10 or 11 months after our daily talks, I finally decided I'm going to the Philippines.
00:28:46The first night where, you know, I'm bored, it's been a long trip, and she goes, do you feel like
00:28:51getting some to eat?
00:28:51Are you hungry?
00:28:52And I'm like, let me get a shower, and then, you know, I'll get dressed, and let's go get some
00:28:56dinner.
00:28:57So I get in the shower, and I turn around, and Annabelle's right there at the shower.
00:29:01I'm like, can I help you?
00:29:04Oh, I was just going to come in and scrub your body.
00:29:06I'm like, what?
00:29:09So she takes her clothes off and climbs right in the shower with me and, like, give me the soap.
00:29:15She's scrubbing every inch of me.
00:29:17She's going into crevices I didn't even know I had.
00:29:21So after that, she trimmed my toenails, and I've still got to show her that I keep my toenails clean
00:29:28now.
00:29:28I mean, it's just crazy.
00:29:30But, yeah, Annabelle, I'm keeping them trimmed until you get here.
00:29:40That's pretty well sealed the deal.
00:29:41I proposed to her, like, a couple days later.
00:29:45I guess it's easy to get comfortable with somebody after they scrubbed your butt cheeks.
00:29:52Where's the beer cart at, Greg?
00:29:54I don't know.
00:29:55We're about to have to find it.
00:29:57I just think Annabelle's going to calm him down a bunch when she gets here.
00:30:01Calm me down?
00:30:02You know, she always tells me, like, drink moderately, and how many beers you had?
00:30:06And I'm like, I usually tell her about a third, you know, if it's been a dozen.
00:30:09Oh, it's like three or four, you know.
00:30:11She said it was over when she gets here, but I think she does it more just to kind of
00:30:15keep me honest to say, like, don't get too wild.
00:30:19But she told you no more?
00:30:21Over the years, like, about every time I'm at a party or the bar, hey, oh, Shay, we're not doing
00:30:28that.
00:30:29Okay, Annabelle, we'll see.
00:30:30Call you when I get home.
00:30:32When we're partying, I mean, sometimes it gets a little bit wild and things happen that, you know, may be
00:30:38a little out of line in some people's books.
00:30:40But, you know, kind of like Vegas, what happens at the lake stays at the lake.
00:30:44So why is everybody going to know everything?
00:30:46When she calls, it's like, who's that with you?
00:30:49How many people's with you?
00:30:51You know, I got to pan the camera.
00:30:52And I think she worries about me.
00:30:54That's why she gives me a little bit of the issue with, hey, I don't want you doing it as
00:30:59much.
00:30:59So you're saying you wouldn't give up all the partying and the lake and all of that for Annabelle?
00:31:06If it came down to it.
00:31:07Do you think I would?
00:31:09No, I don't.
00:31:13Obviously, I don't tell Annabelle every single thing that goes on at the parties.
00:31:17There's been things that I didn't mention to Annabelle since we've been together, since we've met.
00:31:22It's just things I don't feel like, you know, why should I bring that up and just start something?
00:31:28But people in Baruka, they like to gossip.
00:31:30I mean, you hear about it.
00:31:31I see it.
00:31:32You've got the Facebookers.
00:31:34A lot of them like to talk.
00:31:35And she finds out from someone else, you know, it would just be a big mess.
00:31:40She said, are you going to give it up?
00:31:42No, I'm not.
00:31:43I'm not going to.
00:31:44Either she's in or she's out?
00:31:46Yeah, she's in or out.
00:31:49It'll all work out, but no, I'm not going to give her it up.
00:32:00I've been traveling around the world for the past three years, living a carefree, nomadic lifestyle.
00:32:06I was a little bit crazy the past two months.
00:32:09I, like, kissed people while drunk again.
00:32:12Did you tell Josh about this?
00:32:19I'm Katie.
00:32:20Anything that's got you, and anything without you.
00:32:29Currently, it's five minutes until we land, and I'm feeling tasty.
00:32:36Show me that you want me.
00:32:44I'm Katie.
00:32:45I'm Katie.
00:32:46I'm 26, and I'm from Portland, Oregon.
00:32:49I'm back in America, and I'm trying to find my bag.
00:32:54Missed the carpets.
00:32:55Classic.
00:32:56It feels like it's been so long.
00:32:59Well, it kind of has been so long.
00:33:01I've been traveling around the world for the past three years, living a carefree, nomadic lifestyle.
00:33:08I definitely had a ho phase.
00:33:10Don't tell my grandma.
00:33:13No.
00:33:17But now I'm back in my hometown of Portland, and I'm going to be settling down.
00:33:22I'm so in love with procrastination.
00:33:25Like in Gaston, no direction.
00:33:27Try so hard to find a distraction.
00:33:30Look around now.
00:33:31Look around now.
00:33:32Frozen by indecision.
00:33:35Like in his spot, no intention.
00:33:37Look around now.
00:33:38Look around now.
00:33:44It's been so long.
00:33:49What really, like, drove me to travel the last few years is I'm a really impulsive person, and I get
00:33:54a bit bored with routine.
00:33:59For example, my friend told me about this program where you could pet sit around the world in exchange for
00:34:04free rent, and then I signed up the next day.
00:34:06I was like, okay, this is what I'm doing when my lease ends in, like, a few months.
00:34:09Sorry.
00:34:10My boob got really itchy one sec.
00:34:13So when's Josh coming?
00:34:14Oh, he's coming tomorrow.
00:34:16And then, like, what do you guys just, like, plans when he, like, comes in?
00:34:19Actually, it's kind of a secret.
00:34:21So you can't tell Josh.
00:34:23Josh is my fiancé, and he is British.
00:34:30Stereotypical British man.
00:34:31He's a bit reserved.
00:34:33But what I love about Josh is that, like, I feel like he doesn't judge at all.
00:34:37Because I have OCD, and he really understands, like, my quirks and, like, my personality traits.
00:34:44Tell me the whole story about you personally.
00:34:46Really?
00:34:46Are you sure?
00:34:47You want to hear that?
00:34:48Yeah.
00:34:48Okay.
00:34:49Okay.
00:34:51So I was pet-setting in the UK, and occasionally I would swipe on Tinder.
00:34:57And the first person who responded was this guy named Dave.
00:35:01And he said, I'm hanging out with some friends.
00:35:04Want to join us?
00:35:04And that was perfect for me.
00:35:06Me and Dave, like, went on a little date.
00:35:08We were taking tequila shots.
00:35:10We were hitting it off.
00:35:11We were making out.
00:35:11I had, like, met some of his friends that night, including Josh.
00:35:16But then later on in the night, Dave got kicked out.
00:35:18I called Josh's other friend hot.
00:35:21I made out with his other friend.
00:35:23I tried to make out with his best friend, but he had a girlfriend.
00:35:26And then I asked Josh to make out, and he said, no, you just made out with at least two
00:35:31of my friends.
00:35:32Um, no.
00:35:33I have this video of me being really drunk in the bathroom.
00:35:36There's this other cute guy with long hair.
00:35:40I forgot his name.
00:35:43But I want him.
00:35:45Bar clothes.
00:35:46There was this guy being creepy outside, and I was like, oh, can you walk me home?
00:35:50So he just said, yeah, I'll walk you home.
00:35:52And then I remember we just, like, made out really, like, passionately on a bench.
00:35:57And then he said he had to go pee.
00:35:59And I was like, okay.
00:36:00So then I just sprinted home.
00:36:01And I was kind of embarrassed because I had just, like, left him peeing in a bush.
00:36:05And that's how I met my fiancé.
00:36:07Woo!
00:36:08Yay!
00:36:09Can you have a drink?
00:36:09Yes!
00:36:10Drink!
00:36:11Woo!
00:36:12Woo!
00:36:13I was, like, kind of lonely because I was solo traveling.
00:36:15And I said, hey, if you're free this one random weekend, you can join me for a pet sit in
00:36:20Milan.
00:36:21And then he said, okay.
00:36:23I was just like, wow, he'll go to Milan for me?
00:36:25Wow.
00:36:28We had a really great time in Milan.
00:36:30We had sex a bunch.
00:36:33I learned he was allergic to nuts and I shouldn't kiss him if I have nuts in my mouth.
00:36:37Not nuts in my mouth.
00:36:43He's, like, very polite, very funny, more reserved.
00:36:47Like, he wouldn't talk about anal on the subway.
00:36:49That would make him really uncomfortable.
00:36:51Would you talk about anal on the subway?
00:36:53I would definitely talk about anal on the subway.
00:36:56But, yeah, I just really love him.
00:37:00Cheers, everyone!
00:37:01Cheers!
00:37:02Oh, it's really nice to see you guys!
00:37:05Woo!
00:37:06Woo!
00:37:06Woo!
00:37:06back how do we do this how was the trip back it was long um so i went from london
00:37:18to mexico for
00:37:19my friend's wedding it was really lovely but party a little too hard going to the wedding
00:37:25like make you feel excited or like nervous for your own wedding or was yeah no it was definitely
00:37:29i definitely like teared up i started like thinking about like my vows when they were doing their
00:37:33vows i wasn't really thinking about marriage but josh proposed to me uh at sunset on the coast in
00:37:42turkey he did the classic proposal thing where you pretend you're taking a picture but you're
00:37:49actually taking a video josh is one of the few people in my life that truly gets me and i'm
00:38:08super
00:38:08excited to marry him but i'm also worried my ocd causes me to make some pretty bad decisions and
00:38:14i'm afraid it could end our relationship how's it going it's going good how stressed do you feel
00:38:21like on a scale of one to ten oh maybe like a nine that's really high i feel like uh
00:38:29i was a little
00:38:30bit crazy the past two months i like kissed people well drunk again it was bad did you tell josh
00:38:38about
00:38:39this i apologize 20 million times he was like this is not good why did you do that i have
00:38:47intrusive
00:38:48thoughts as part of my ocd when i get drunk i really want to make out with everyone i know
00:38:53especially when i'm in a happy mood or in a really insecure bad mood i just get really into the
00:38:59moment
00:39:00and i'm like i think making out with this person is a great idea and that isn't always exciting for
00:39:06josh
00:39:06especially because it's been a bit more frequent lately like i really don't want to hurt him i think
00:39:13it's more just like oh i really want to feel wanted
00:39:19i'm always honest with josh i tell him every time that i do something out of line
00:39:25but he says he can't see himself married to me if i keep doing this in the future
00:39:32like i was there in your last relationship when it ended because you were making out with another
00:39:37person and i i don't want to see that happen again and josh is such a good guy i don't
00:39:42want to see him
00:39:42getting hurt either i would like to stop wanting to make out with people but i feel like every time
00:39:48i
00:39:48drink my brain has another plan for me so i'm worried that this is going to be a hard thing
00:39:54to give up
00:40:00i love annabelle she isn't even here yet i don't want y'all getting off on the wrong foot because
00:40:04you've already got an attitude about it i'm his daughter i'm first and i don't expect her to come
00:40:09over here and just think that she's before me and everything well i hope it works out if not we're
00:40:24the problem
00:40:29are you ready to come to america of course baby
00:40:37comfortable come on watch my hat don't lose it yeah don't lose it
00:40:43i cannot believe yeah that it's been six months since we've touched each other when i saw
00:40:50malori i say myself oh my god kobe is coming like boots hat kobe hats i feel like cow she
00:41:00will catch me
00:41:09like
00:41:10oh come no come come i'm scared come
00:41:14what if i fall
00:41:16i can say this this is my dream with my friends say i will do uh titanic everything about the
00:41:23sinking
00:41:24part yeah sinking and dying part you know this is the very good idea thanks
00:41:31i'm gonna fall i'm gonna fall no
00:41:58of course i just can't believe that this time you'll be coming with me america america
00:42:06it'll be good i will miss on the boat on the sea in the sea we'll figure it out it's
00:42:13a lot
00:42:13better than alabama of course we're a little further we're not as close to the beach
00:42:20rush what has mallory told you about athens alabama just uh
00:42:26uh redneck
00:42:28redneck is a type of person in america yeah they love nascar they love hunting america
00:42:40they don't like other country yeah i mean just being they don't like muslim
00:42:48there's good people and bad people yeah in different countries yes there's good rednecks
00:42:54and bad rednecks they have friends redneck do i have friends that are rednecks i mean yeah yeah
00:43:00uh-huh yeah yeah who you'll meet them eventually i will see so how do you feel leaving all the
00:43:10family
00:43:11behind this is very sad i am very sad about this
00:43:24but i don't want to think about this because when i think this i want to cry i know it's
00:43:29okay bye
00:43:30this is not okay baby it's okay this is for you okay it's okay
00:43:36but uh i am happy for i want to be live with you it's gonna be a big adjustment
00:43:44these next few days i definitely am dreading just because he's going to have to say goodbye to his
00:43:51friends and family who he's never been away from in his life ever i don't think i've really prepared
00:43:59rosh for how life is going to be in alabama i have very conservative friends and there are some that
00:44:05are
00:44:06super into the deportations i am excited i am nervous we'll figure it out
00:44:19he says he's ready for it but i really don't think he understands what he signed up for
00:44:36so
00:44:41hey dad hi guys dad do you want us to come look at those clothes for annabelle oh yeah come
00:44:47on over
00:44:47okay yeah i want you to see that stuff are you even ready for annabelle to get here getting there
00:44:52hopefully slowly but surely we're nervous i know it's gonna be weird
00:45:06yeah y'all check it out i mean it's just stuff i've been buying for i want y'all to
00:45:10get your opinion it's that stuff on the bottom i've been married twice unfortunately i've been
00:45:15divorced twice but i've got some great kids my son hunter he's the oldest and then we've got my
00:45:21middle daughters abigail and allison and then my youngest child madison i'm honestly kind of
00:45:27surprised you did halfway decent and that's our shoe rack over there so she's got shoes she likes
00:45:34all those yeah after we got engaged annabelle and i i started getting her clothes so she's got stuff
00:45:41when she gets here i'm gonna have to steal these those are too big for you all
00:45:46allison's always trendy and knows what's going on so yeah i mean i want her to wear kind of the
00:45:51same
00:45:51clothes allison type stuff and what the other women are wearing so i got those at a clothes out
00:45:56sale in florida they were like 250 bucks she might not wear them but they're kind of cool looking yeah
00:46:02i mean she's got very limited she got like three outfits i mean there's nothing wrong with what
00:46:07she's wearing it's cute but she's got to have more and i just want her to fit in and you
00:46:12know not
00:46:13not stick out i mean just feel comfortable when she's around people you know how long have you been
00:46:18getting all this stuff done i mean two and a half three years probably i love my dad we're super
00:46:24super
00:46:24close and i even am his neighbor he bought me the house next door so that i could be with
00:46:29him all the
00:46:29time free rent free child care i get to keep up with what he's doing who he's seeing it's awesome
00:46:36do you ever think it's gonna like bug annabelle that like you spend so much time with dad i don't
00:46:41know
00:46:41i feel like you're gonna like kind of turn into like a third wheel like you guys are gonna have
00:46:44to
00:46:45like have your like scheduled like time together and stuff yeah yeah potentially that's a worry for
00:46:50sure i don't think so i mean us going to do something by ourselves is probably going to be
00:46:55like out of the ordinary she might get offended that like we are going you know well i think she'll
00:46:59just go with us i mean anything we do right but that's what that's what i'm saying is like
00:47:05i don't want her to go all the time
00:47:10me and my dad do almost everything together we go out on the lake together we drink together if i
00:47:14want
00:47:15to go out and watch the game on tv i typically call my dad so i'm nervous to meet annabelle
00:47:20i hope she
00:47:22knows that i'm his daughter i'm first and i don't expect her to come over here and just think that
00:47:27she's before me and everything all right i have to go all right love you back i guess you'll be
00:47:33seeing annabelle i guess i will i'm excited all right bye abby was like climbing your tree about
00:47:39that i know i mean she's right though i mean it is going to be different you need to also
00:47:44you know
00:47:45cut her a little bit of slack you know i've never like talked about a woman like this and you
00:47:50know i
00:47:50love annabelle and she isn't even here yet i don't want y'all getting off on the wrong foot because
00:47:54you've already got an attitude about it well i hope it works out if not we're gonna have some
00:47:57problems we're not gonna have any problems okay we'll see i think i hear the dog's working
00:48:02has someone coming over i think that might be nicole why is she here i don't know i'm sick of
00:48:07her
00:48:07pulling up like that annabelle's about to be here that can't be happening well i'll go see what she
00:48:11wants that's geez it's been going on way too long that's ridiculous i know i know let's see what she
00:48:18nicole is ex-wife number two and she's the mother of my youngest child madison it's not unusual
00:48:24for her to come by time to time but anytime me and nicole are together you know it's just not
00:48:30good
00:48:30it's bad hey hey what's going on
00:48:45my dad remarried after my mom to nicole and it was an absolute show as long as he living a
00:48:52normal
00:48:52happy life i think that she's always going to be in the corner like trying to ruin it somehow
00:48:57some way always the rumors i heard i guess are true that annabelle's coming yeah getting close
00:49:02so it's been a few days oh what's up what you need i was going to see if i could
00:49:09talk to you in private
00:49:10for a minute you know she's just trouble but i haven't been completely honest with annabelle about
00:49:15everything with nicole so unfortunately nicole's got dirt on me and she's just can't wait to spill it
00:49:22oh my lord
00:49:43he is not gonna feel good about the twin size mattress i've had it since like the days of the
00:49:48dorms um it
00:49:49has a bunch of stains but i feel like they're my stains so i'm not that grossed out with them
00:49:54ah no we can just cuddle we can cuddle on the twin mattress he'll like it
00:50:10it's been about three years since i've properly been able to access
00:50:14all my things they're all in a storage unit some of the boxes are like really organized
00:50:19and then some are just like random yeah oh this box is sketch there's like beams
00:50:28keyboard
00:50:31olive oil
00:50:33we're just like random josh is not prepared for living with my chaos
00:50:39josh is flying to america tomorrow and i promised i would handle the whole getting an apartment for
00:50:45us i said don't worry about it i'll take care of it babe so i think he's expecting to come
00:50:52to america
00:50:52tomorrow and like see our new apartment what is the apartment like we don't have an apartment yet
00:51:03it's really important for me to find a place before he gets here because i could literally
00:51:07like live out of my car for like a day or two and i'd be fine but he like is
00:51:11like oh
00:51:12like even like one night of discomfort for him it's like kind of an issue
00:51:17sometimes they say i'm gonna do stuff and then i i don't do it exactly to his liking
00:51:25and sometimes it's just me being lazy or procrastinating but other times things just
00:51:30get really complicated because of how my mind works i have like severe or extreme ocd
00:51:36i tend to get consumed by little details and then something big like finding an apartment falls through
00:51:42the cracks and i definitely have always had it like i remember having it in preschool
00:51:48and i went to therapy and i was officially diagnosed with ocd in middle school
00:51:54so my ocd makes it hard to get the big tasks done in my life because i'm like focused on
00:52:02all the little details or i'm like double checking things a hundred times checking the door handles
00:52:08on the car to make sure it's locked i check the stove about a bajillion times before i leave the
00:52:14house
00:52:15i like to check my teeth and make sure they're not chipped i memorize how they look so i just
00:52:19double
00:52:19check to make sure they look the same so all these things takes time away from like focusing on a
00:52:26bigger task i hope josh isn't upset because that was like the one thing i feel like he needed from
00:52:34me
00:52:35because i was like oh yeah i promise i'll figure out the apartment you don't have to do anything
00:52:39because i know the area i'm going to play in the apartment but we don't have an apartment yet
00:52:44because i'm bad at planning but i did i tried i really tried i hope he sees that oh my
00:52:51ocd has
00:52:52definitely messed up my relationships in the past um it's definitely the main reason why my long-term
00:52:58relationships didn't work out and i can't let that happen with my relationship with josh
00:53:03at first he was really understanding and he was just like go to therapy and stuff
00:53:08and it's fine and now it's getting to the point where he's very disappointed in me
00:53:13so josh is really understanding but i'm worried that he'll be less understanding when he lives with
00:53:20me and all my chaos 24 7. and now as soon as he gets off the plane i need to
00:53:25tell him that we're homeless
00:53:29josh is a really understanding guy but even the most understanding person would lose their over that
00:53:39um how's your penis like did the doctor clear you for the flight i'm not worried about that the only
00:53:47thing that i'm a little bit concerned to be honest with you is michael i've been divorced for six years
00:53:53now a dad that has boys is always going to feel a little threatened when a new man comes into
00:53:59the life if michael comes in with anger or aggression it might turn into a disaster
00:54:09i'll be up for playing fun and games
00:54:28how are you i'm good how are you if you need anything please let us know congratulations
00:54:32i'm going to give you more of that
00:54:50hi can you hear me hey i hear you okay hi how was your day j it was busy i
00:54:59haven't spoken to you all
00:55:00day oh my god i know a long day at work but it's like a really pretty like summer day
00:55:04in new york
00:55:04itself like this is what you get to experience soon you see it yeah it's really nice it's a big
00:55:11building i don't think that you're used to this my biggest concern about edward moving to the united
00:55:16states is a little bit of culture shock i'm a little i'm a little concerned first of all you've never
00:55:21been on a plane before there's a lot of that i don't know i was trying to google you know
00:55:26like
00:55:27what i supposed to do like screen i think that it's kind of cute that edward really doesn't have
00:55:33any experience in anything outside of his country and you know the fact that he has to like google how
00:55:39to get through an airport or google like what you have to put in your bag or what you can't
00:55:42put in your
00:55:43bag but it does concern me a little bit that he just doesn't have the same type of life experiences
00:55:48that i do here's a good example when i would go to visit edward in punta cana and we stayed
00:55:54at a
00:55:55hotel i hadn't even realized that he had never even experienced being a guest at a hotel he's only
00:56:00just worked with them his entire life it's you know vast differences before we even get to that
00:56:08because i don't want to forget because you know i forget everything in like a second um how's your penis
00:56:13how's your penis are the stitches healed like did the doctor clear you for the flight do you know
00:56:19what's crazy i would see i would see my doctor today when i was walking in the street
00:56:24doctor yourself yeah he's saying he asking me huh how was your penis and everything and i was like
00:56:31it's just typical typical conversation how's your penis but he's my doctor you know
00:56:36what's funny because what was in front of everybody and everybody was the ass you know like
00:56:40i feel like maybe we are gays or things like that i don't know
00:56:46my penis is supposed to be ready for next week because my life depends on it my life too it's
00:56:55two
00:56:55people's lives affected by this not just yours i'm not worried about that the only thing that i'm a little
00:56:59bit concerned to be honest with you is michael i've been divorced for six years now it's taken a few
00:57:08years but my ex-husband michael and i have really developed a strong relationship and we're really
00:57:13good at co-parenting but a dad that has boys is always going to feel a little threatened when a
00:57:20new
00:57:20man comes into the life i know that he's very protected with his kids and i feel like michael can
00:57:29feel that i'll try to steal the love of your kids i think that we all can play a really
00:57:38important
00:57:38role in their lives and i don't want anybody to feel threatened by like you know one another's
00:57:42interaction with them there's still some forms of resentment some forms of animosity
00:57:50some disappointment and that's why i have never brought another man into my parenting relationship
00:57:56before and i've explained this to edward that if michael comes in with anger or aggression
00:58:02please don't respond to it because it will not make the situation better now i've said this to
00:58:07edward many times will he listen to me i don't know you're gonna meet michael you know like pretty
00:58:14soon i think because he's like around all the time i think that we have to have like a serious
00:58:18conversation and you and him have to put your like boundaries in place like what would upset him
00:58:23or what would upset you i know that i'm like a person and i have a good part and i
00:58:28love cole and i
00:58:29love that and i just need to show that i think when edward and michael finally have the talk
00:58:38uh i am a little concerned emotions are going to flare people are going to get territorial
00:58:44protective if that happens michael will you know get very upset and aggressive and it might turn
00:58:50into a disaster and it's going to be very hard to repair after that
00:59:16so i'm making cake pops and i think i'm gonna make them red and blue on the inside
00:59:20uh for america normally i wouldn't be this messy or maybe i actually probably would but
00:59:34wait why is this backwards do you understand this in no world this is right maybe if i go in
00:59:41front of
00:59:41a mirror or something oh yeah look america josh arrests today and i got us a hotel room because
00:59:49i definitely didn't want our first night together to be sleeping on an air mattress in our friend's house
00:59:54i don't think he'll be expecting a hotel i think he'll either expect the apartment
00:59:58magically to appear and be done which unfortunately isn't the case or something like less comfy
01:00:07even though it's not ready to move into yet the big news is i actually signed a lease on a
01:00:12new
01:00:12apartment so i looked at a couple of photos of the apartment online but i haven't seen it in person
01:00:19yet so it could be crazy like i don't know what it's gonna look like inside i'm nervous because i
01:00:25feel like i haven't seen him in a bit and i'm worried he'll be jet lagged and i really want
01:00:29to have
01:00:29like a good you know fun kind of night i don't know how to say that correctly but yeah
01:00:38my sex life with josh has been a little bit dull
01:00:44and we're not having sex enough i told him to get condoms i just said oh can you pick them
01:00:50up i forgot
01:00:51so i did that because i was like oh i want him to
01:00:57like think about it at least i'm worried that moving in with josh will not improve
01:01:04our sex life he's super british and super reserved so he tends to avoid conversations about sex it just
01:01:10like doesn't come up as much no not sorry that sounds sexual oh it drives me crazy because i'm the
01:01:17exact opposite and i'm very open about sex so i know we have to get on the same page before
01:01:22we get married
01:01:37i think the thing i'm looking forward to the most when i see josh is giving him a kiss i
01:01:42want to make
01:01:43out for like 10 minutes but he hates pda maybe we'll save that for the hotel i'm so excited
01:01:57so
01:02:26Okay, it seems like he should be here like any minute or something.
01:02:33Yeah, I'm excited, but I'm stressed out because I just want him to appear as soon as possible.
01:02:39He's going to freak out when he sees this.
01:02:43Well, at least he'll spot me probably.
01:02:48We've waited for this a long time.
01:02:50We literally waited over a year for the visa to be approved.
01:02:53Oh, where is he?
01:03:01I know I'll see you tonight
01:03:05I'll find my way to you
01:03:09I'll never give you a tell
01:03:14Is this Mr.
01:03:26This is my fiance Josh and he's from, can you say it first really fast and I'll copy it?
01:03:34Cambridge, England
01:03:40Can we make out for four minutes?
01:03:45Four minutes.
01:03:56Hey.
01:03:58When I see Josh, I want to make out with him for a while, but it felt like only four
01:04:02seconds.
01:04:04Um, I've never been super hot on PDA.
01:04:09I just feel self-conscious.
01:04:11Like not always, but I don't think I'm the only person who's like that.
01:04:18Do you want to make out for four minutes now?
01:04:22I actually...
01:04:26Can I put the hat on you?
01:04:29Can I see?
01:04:31It's Uncle Sam.
01:04:33I don't know.
01:04:33I forgot who Uncle Sam is actually.
01:04:35But he's like an American icon from the past.
01:04:39Yeah.
01:04:39Or he's a fake person.
01:04:40I don't know.
01:04:40I'm not sure.
01:04:42So I got us a hotel for the night and the apartment got approved.
01:04:47Nice.
01:04:48We might have to wait a few days to move in.
01:04:50Sure.
01:04:50But for tonight and maybe tomorrow night, I have a hotel for us.
01:04:55And then I have some sexy red lingerie for tonight.
01:05:02Okay.
01:05:02Laundry in the airport.
01:05:04Do you want me to put it away now?
01:05:06I mean, it looks lovely.
01:05:08Are you excited?
01:05:09Yes.
01:05:10I can't wait to like wake up next to you every day.
01:05:12I feel like now we're moving in together.
01:05:14I don't super know what to expect.
01:05:17We are really different.
01:05:18Like we're like so contrasting.
01:05:20You're quite chaotic and wild and lovely.
01:05:22Um, we're choosing to be together because we love each other.
01:05:28Um, it just feels like we fit.
01:05:31Aw.
01:05:35Do you need help carrying stuff?
01:05:37I'm good.
01:05:37Should I?
01:05:38No, I'll just like try not to hit my face with the balloons anymore.
01:05:41I love those.
01:05:43Do you want to make out for four minutes now?
01:05:48I was in bed with you when you were with Annabelle.
01:05:52It's not going to happen when she's here.
01:05:53Why is it okay that it's happened for this long that she's not here?
01:05:58This is her last ditch effort to try to screw things up again with Annabelle and I.
01:06:04You do know when she gets here, I'm going to talk to her.
01:06:06If he thinks that I'm not going to tell Annabelle all the dirt, all the things that I know about
01:06:10him, he's wrong.
01:06:24What's up, what's your name?
01:06:26I was just wanting to see if I could talk to you in the prom for a minute.
01:06:29Sure.
01:06:39What's up?
01:06:43So, Annabelle's coming, right?
01:06:46A few days, hopefully.
01:06:49You do know when she gets here, we are actually going to have a conversation.
01:06:52Like, I'm going to talk to her.
01:06:53There's no way around that.
01:06:56My marriage to my ex-wife, Nicole, it only lasted four weeks.
01:07:00And our relationship was volatile because, I mean, she did a lot of things I didn't agree with.
01:07:04And I guess I did a lot of things she didn't agree with.
01:07:06So we weren't really, like, a match for a relationship.
01:07:10She's a mother of one of my children, so I don't know.
01:07:13I mean, she'll always be around in some capacity.
01:07:15But she's very jealous and vindictive and doesn't really want me with anyone, but I guess her.
01:07:23Okay, so are you going to, like, what are you going to talk about?
01:07:27She needs to know the things I think about Angie.
01:07:30She needs to know about the things that you've said to me.
01:07:35What about Angie?
01:07:36To me, it seems that you are, like, having some kind of relationship.
01:07:39Maybe it was just physical or whatever the case may be.
01:07:41So are you?
01:07:42I have not cheated with anybody and definitely not Angie.
01:07:48Angie is my good friend Greg's daughter.
01:07:53It ain't a cookout unless we get it on us.
01:07:56Lift up your shirt a little bit.
01:07:58She got recently divorced.
01:08:00Me and her just kind of hit it off as friends.
01:08:03And, heck, you know, Friday nights we might go catch a band and catch dinner.
01:08:07But it's just a good friendship.
01:08:10I think Nicole's just trying to get under my skin.
01:08:12And she sees that I'm happy and probably thinks this is her last-ditch effort to try to screw things
01:08:18up again with Annabelle and I.
01:08:20So, in your opinion, flirting and telling people things that would obviously upset Annabelle is, okay, that's not cheating.
01:08:28You know, that's, everybody's perception is different.
01:08:34He led me on for years.
01:08:36And then we got together and we got married and that ended very quickly.
01:08:40And he came to find out.
01:08:42He was talking to Annabelle while we were married.
01:08:44And if he thinks that I'm not going to tell Annabelle all the dirt, all the things that I know
01:08:48about him, he's wrong.
01:08:50With Angie and Shay, I saw it with my own eyes.
01:08:52Something's not right with that situation.
01:08:54And I don't want Annabelle to make the commitment and walk down the aisle without her knowing these things about
01:09:00him.
01:09:01I don't believe that you have told her most of the stuff that you do.
01:09:06I mean, like, we've been out before and you're drinking and she calls and, of course, the camera goes this
01:09:12way where she can't see me.
01:09:14And, like, you know, I just feel like that's very, very unfair for her.
01:09:18Anything that, you know, I've done is not like, you know, it's like if we go out and have a
01:09:24few too many beers, I might, like, you know.
01:09:26Say something vulgar.
01:09:27Or pat on you or something.
01:09:28But, I mean, it's not like I'm like, I want to rip your clothes off or anything.
01:09:32There's no way I'm going to stray even if I drink too much.
01:09:38You know, yeah, I may flirt.
01:09:40But that's the extent of it.
01:09:41And that's my personality.
01:09:47I'm not going to be like, oh, let's sneak around the corner and give me a kiss or something.
01:09:53It's not going to happen when she's here.
01:09:55OK, so why is it OK that it's happened for this long that she's not here?
01:09:59Because she's 8,000 miles away.
01:10:01Shay, I was in bed with you when you were with Annabelle.
01:10:08And she called and I answered the phone.
01:10:10Yeah, we went to a concert or something.
01:10:12Yeah.
01:10:13We were in the same bed together.
01:10:14Yeah, I remember.
01:10:15And after that incident, I mean, Annabelle didn't talk for a while.
01:10:19You know, she had to kind of cool off.
01:10:23So there was a situation a few years ago between Annabelle and Nicole, and it wasn't good.
01:10:28After Nicole and I divorced, we were actually out of town, several of us, five or six people.
01:10:33We had a few hotel rooms and drank too much.
01:10:37She took me to the hotel room.
01:10:39I got in bed, still in my clothes, passed out.
01:10:43And then I just remember I'm in the bed with my clothes still on.
01:10:48And I've got a phone poking in my face with Annabelle crying, and I just kind of woke up enough
01:10:57to see Nicole holding the phone.
01:10:59And she was just doing it to be vindictive and break me up.
01:11:04And it just made it really tough on our relationship early on.
01:11:10So, I mean, you seriously are adamant about talking to her?
01:11:13Yeah, that's definitely happening.
01:11:14She needs to know what she's signing up for.
01:11:16I don't want her to make the same mistake I did, especially coming from way over there.
01:11:19Ours is completely different.
01:11:21I mean, it is what it is, but I don't want you coming back here and doing it.
01:11:27So, just figure it out.
01:11:29I mean, I'm not-
01:11:30I'm definitely going to figure it out.
01:11:31Well, you know, there's no trespassing on.
01:11:33I don't want you back here.
01:11:36She's going to understand who you are by the time I get done.
01:11:39So, I mean, and as long as she understands that-
01:11:40There's plenty of people that can contradict you on that.
01:11:42So, I'm not, I mean-
01:11:43There's plenty of people who can also say they've seen me with you and the way you act with me.
01:11:47You just need to go on home.
01:11:48I can't deal with that.
01:11:49No problem.
01:11:50Just expect that when she's here, we're going to have that conversation.
01:11:52Well, I just can't deal with it anymore.
01:11:53Okay, well, see you, O'Shea.
01:11:55Hey, what a bull .
01:11:58I'm scared that if Nicole gets to her before I explain some of this stuff,
01:12:02she may want to head straight back to the Philippines.
01:12:07But I worked hard to get Annabelle to trust me again,
01:12:10and I'm not going to let Nicole or anybody else ruin it just because she's jealous.
01:12:17Good Lord.
01:12:49Thank you Lord.
01:12:51Thank you Lord.
01:12:52Thank you Lord.
01:13:03Grace and mercy, Heavenly Father.
01:13:07Amen.
01:13:08Thank you guys.
01:13:09Bye.
01:13:10Bye-bye.
01:13:11Love you.
01:13:13So, O'Shea, tell me what's going on.
01:13:17Basically, today, Maxwell went in with his best friend Silas for their K-1 visa interview.
01:13:24Maxwell got called up first.
01:13:26The interviewer approved for his visa.
01:13:31He came outside.
01:13:34He took a picture of it.
01:13:36He showed it to me.
01:13:37He called me.
01:13:37Just excited.
01:13:39Next thing I know, he was like, baby, let me call you right back.
01:13:43I got to go back into the embassy.
01:13:45I was like, okay.
01:13:46Then he sends me another picture, and in this form is saying that he had been denied.
01:13:54And so, of course, he's bawling.
01:13:56I'm hardly able to get him to answer the phone.
01:13:59So, when he does answer the phone, he starts explaining to me that when his best friend
01:14:04went in for the interview, his term, they looked at the photos and saw that me, him,
01:14:11and my best friend and his best friend were in the same pictures.
01:14:15And with that, they decided that it looks like fraud.
01:14:19And so then, not only that, he yelled at them and told them, not only am I going to file
01:14:27this under fraud, but I'm also going to ban you from the U.S.
01:14:34I am completely blindsided.
01:14:37I never in a million years, the thought never crossed my mind that he would get denied.
01:14:45I felt like God was on my side, and he would get approved.
01:14:50But Maxwell getting banned is beyond words, because that prevents Maxwell of ever applying
01:14:56for any visa or ever coming to the U.S., ever.
01:15:02I don't know how the devil snuck in, gave my fiance a visa in his hand, let him walk out
01:15:10the
01:15:11door with the visa, let him celebrate for 0.2 seconds, and then tell him to come back
01:15:16in and give it back.
01:15:17And I cannot understand it.
01:15:19We've just been, you know, praying.
01:15:21And not only have we bombarded heaven, but we've literally bombarded that embassy, because
01:15:26I told Maxwell, I said, listen, do not leave that embassy.
01:15:31I said, you talk to whoever you got to talk to to get inside that building.
01:15:35You know, explain yourself, what is going on.
01:15:38And there was a security guard kind of was going back and forth to the point to where
01:15:42the people inside the embassy got tired.
01:15:45And they're waiting to be with the agent again right now.
01:15:48But I know one thing.
01:15:50He got to leave with that dorm visa.
01:15:53And that's for sure.
01:15:56Lord, I ask that you protect my future husband, Lord Jesus.
01:15:59These are the prayers that I ask in our petitions.
01:16:01I put before you, Heavenly Father.
01:16:04I ask that you do it right now.
01:16:05In Jesus name.
01:16:07Amen.
01:16:08And thank you, Lord.
01:16:14Literally, I am terrified.
01:16:16It's terrifying that one person can say one thing.
01:16:21And then that's my life.
01:16:23That's my future.
01:16:25I would lose the love of my life.
01:16:31OK, this is Maxwell.
01:16:34OK, sweetie.
01:16:35What'd they say?
01:16:38Yeah, so we just came out of jail, right?
01:16:41Can you hear me, baby?
01:16:42OK, I'm listening.
01:16:44The man called us.
01:16:45You're no longer banned.
01:16:46The ban has been lifted.
01:16:48The ban has been lifted.
01:16:49We're no longer banned.
01:16:50We should go continue our relationship and apply for the spouse officer.
01:16:54Do you understand?
01:16:55And for the K-1, there's nothing that can be done.
01:16:58So it won't, he won't let us get the K-1?
01:17:01No.
01:17:03The only thing you could do was take out the ban.
01:17:06Mm-mm.
01:17:07I'm not accepting it.
01:17:08I'm not really accepting it.
01:17:10That ain't sitting right with me.
01:17:11I don't want to let the K-1 go because I don't want to start over.
01:17:14The spousal visa take a longer time.
01:17:16That's the problem.
01:17:17Like, that's not fair.
01:17:19What about the appeal?
01:17:20He is like, we can't appeal his decision.
01:17:24I didn't accept that.
01:17:25I didn't accept that.
01:17:28I'm going to talk to an attorney because that's not right.
01:17:30You know what I'm saying?
01:17:31If he made a mistake, we need to talk to an attorney and see what they can do.
01:17:36They have definitely messed with the wrong woman.
01:17:39Because, you know, I feel like looking over my life, God has not denied me anything.
01:17:47And Maxwell and I were destined to be together.
01:17:51Let me just call my family and get this to them.
01:17:53Okay.
01:17:54All right, sweetie.
01:17:57Ain't that a mess?
01:17:59I am 100% going to do everything in my power as long as it is in the will of
01:18:07God to get Maxwell to the USA.
01:18:09You can be the king.
01:18:11You can be the president.
01:18:12You can be whomever you think you are.
01:18:15But you're not more supreme than God Almighty.
01:18:22This season on 90 Day Fiancé.
01:18:25You ready?
01:18:26Let's do it.
01:18:27Come on.
01:18:27I have my circumcision.
01:18:29I'm ready to be an American male.
01:18:36You want to feed him?
01:18:37I'm afraid they bite me.
01:18:39I'm a city girl from Sao Paulo.
01:18:42Animal crap is not my .
01:18:48It has a rear wash pulsating action.
01:18:51Yes, this is.
01:18:52I need to be there.
01:18:54Paper don't help.
01:18:55Are you talking about dingleberries?
01:18:57Dingleberries.
01:18:58Dingleberries.
01:18:58Dingleberries.
01:19:02Dingleberries.
01:19:02Dingleberries.
01:19:02You're not sure if you want to log at me or not?
01:19:05I just don't want to close off all my experiences.
01:19:08Kitty wants to talk about openness so close to the wedding day.
01:19:12What the is that about?
01:19:13I really, really want to make out with people.
01:19:16Then what do we do?
01:19:17That's concerning.
01:19:22It's the second time getting married.
01:19:23If you are not certain, do not get married.
01:19:27I love Edward, but I have started to question whether this is the right situation for me.
01:19:32I'm sorry for you once born like this.
01:19:35This is so sad.
01:19:36Do you really want to spend your life with me?
01:19:37Do you really want to get married?
01:19:39In Brazil, it's so easy, but I'm fighting so much here.
01:19:42I'm tired.
01:19:46Are you happy when you see him?
01:19:49You're the one I'm marrying.
01:19:51What is this issue?
01:19:53In Turkey, we don't be friends, ex-boyfriend.
01:19:58Don't call my fiance.
01:20:01Never.
01:20:01Get the off my tailgate.
01:20:05Mother .
01:20:07People are like, who is this person?
01:20:10You might be like a mail order bride.
01:20:13People saying about me?
01:20:15Well, I mean, it has come up.
01:20:20I don't want to lessen your crap.
01:20:26I'm just devastated.
01:20:27I'm just devastated.
01:20:28For what?
01:20:28You could that slut in Egypt, but you can't be compassionate with me?
01:20:33Get out.
01:20:35You should push me too far.
01:20:37It's finished.
01:20:37It's over.
01:20:38I'm done with the whole thing.
01:20:40He's going home.
01:20:41Here we go.
01:20:43No.
01:20:44Aaaaahhh!
01:20:45It's over.
01:20:49The train goes home.
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