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Brie and Katey work at one of the few terramation and green funeral homes in the United States (@returnhomenor). Terramation, also known as human composting, is a newer alternative to cremation and casket burial that gently transformations human remains into soil. In this episode of For a Living, learn about the unique work experience these women have in the death care industry. How does terramation work? How much do they make working in death care? And more on For a Living.

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Transcript
00:01The science has been there forever, right?
00:03This is what happens when you put a body in the ground.
00:06It's just a sped up version.
00:07Transforming it into a process that showed love and care
00:09that we needed to show to our people,
00:11that was our main challenge.
00:14My name is Bree.
00:15And my name is Katie.
00:16And we turn human remains into soil for a living.
00:22When we built Return Home,
00:25we didn't know that people would be visiting so frequently.
00:27And so we're in this industrial complex
00:29in Auburn, Washington.
00:31It took a little bit of work to make it warm
00:34and inviting and welcoming.
00:36This is our lay-in space.
00:38It's where families can choose to have a ceremony
00:40to say their final goodbye to their loved one.
00:43Terramation is the gentle transformation
00:45of human remains into life-giving soil.
00:49And it's legally known as natural organic reduction
00:51and most commonly known as human composting.
00:54Our services here cost $4,950 within Washington State.
00:59including a certified copy of the death certificate,
01:02picking their person up from where they passed away
01:03and the terramation service itself.
01:05So our process is actually two phases.
01:08The first phase happens here in this vessel
01:10and it's the body making its transformation into soil.
01:13That's about a 30-day process.
01:15We open the vessel and what you have is beautiful soil,
01:18but bone remains and those are broken down
01:20into about two-inch pieces that then go back into the compost
01:24so that the microbes can get at the inside of those bones
01:27and break them down completely over the second 30 days.
01:30I am chief operating officer at Return Home,
01:33which means I oversee all of our processes,
01:36both with the families and funeral services.
01:39My title at Return Home is services manager,
01:42which means I work directly with the families
01:44to help them plan their funerals.
01:46I get people bathed and in their wisps and into their vessels.
01:50I wish that people knew how harmful the current offerings
01:55can be to both environment and operator.
01:57We don't use near the energy that a cremation uses.
02:01We don't use the hardwoods and metals
02:03that caskets for burials use.
02:05Everything that our bodies have to give
02:07is going back into the earth at the end.
02:09This is where we give everyone a bath when they come into our care.
02:13It helps protect their skin and keep them intact
02:16for a little bit longer if their family needs more time
02:18before they come into the facility to see them.
02:20We just have a standard shower loofah, some gentle soap,
02:24and then we're just kind of getting into all of little places
02:28where there might be skin buildup or such
02:30that people get as if they've been dying for a long time.
02:33We like to wash the hair. That's my favorite thing to do.
02:36Post-mortem head massage.
02:38A lot of people, when they pass away, their eyes and mouth are open.
02:41We would make sure the mouth is closed
02:43and that the eyelids are closed and lined up as they should be
02:46and that the eyelashes are nice and clean.
02:48We place them in a compostable garment.
02:50My mother makes them, and she will decorate them.
02:54We treat people like they were our family,
02:58and if somebody came into my care and they were a mother,
03:01I would treat them like I would treat my own mother.
03:04Our goal with creating our offices for return home
03:07was to bring comfort to people when they walk in just right off the bat.
03:12So when families are here for their people,
03:15we have this little sign out that says,
03:17when this candle is lit, family is saying goodbye.
03:19That's partly to help people that work here know they need to stay quiet,
03:23but also when people come in the door, they understand that we might not be,
03:27you know, right there because we're with a family.
03:30We always have little pockets of soil all over the funeral home
03:35because we think it's really important that people see and understand the final product.
03:40Right next to our lobby is Bree and I's office.
03:43This is where all of the magic happens.
03:47When someone starts in the death care industry,
03:50maybe like $40,000 a year should be expected,
03:52and then as you gain experience,
03:54you can make up to maybe $65,000 a year.
03:57The average career is five years long for people
04:01because they get into the profession,
04:03and then they realize how demanding it is,
04:05and they realize how the compensation is maybe not what they were hoping for,
04:09and they seek venues elsewhere.
04:11Return home very early on made a commitment to all of us
04:15to give more than the industry generally does to their people.
04:21I will be going to the airport to pick the body up.
04:25He should be bathed already, but I'd like you to just give him a once-over
04:28because he's a young man and he was in a pretty bad accident,
04:31so we just want to make sure that he's clean before he goes into his vessel.
04:35And call his family to let them know he's here?
04:37Yep, of course.
04:42Because the work is so heavy, it makes for a lot of levity to be able to sit across and,
04:48you know, make a joke here and there, share a meme.
04:52The best times is when we get to just, like, have a real belly laugh after working a really difficult
04:57day.
04:58Working with Katie is the best thing that's happened to me professionally,
05:02second to getting the actual job here at Return Home.
05:05Do you want to know something about Bree?
05:07She does bird noises somewhat obsessively,
05:11and I'll just be sat here and I'll hear, like,
05:14from over there or somewhere in the facility and she is calling me by using a bird sound.
05:20Like that.
05:22And there was a reply.
05:28Yeah, it's a problem.
05:32After we lay the compostable garment, then that person is ready to be placed into their vessel.
05:36We would bring the table with the person on it next to the vessel,
05:40and then we actually have a lift, but for Mr. Skelly, Katie and I have no problem being able just
05:44to lift him into the vessel
05:47and place him gently.
05:49And families are able to place into the vessel things that are meaningful to them and their loved ones,
05:54such as candy or letters.
05:56We place the remaining organics on top of the person,
06:00so they're kind of sandwiched in between the two layers.
06:04The body itself is actually what drives the whole process,
06:07because the microbes that are inside of your stomach and in your gut that digest your food
06:12are the same things that break you down after you pass away.
06:15And so we're just taking that natural process and optimizing the area in which that takes place.
06:21Once the laying in process is over, we close the vessel.
06:24It's sealed and not opened until the termination process has completed.
06:30This is a vessel that has been decorated.
06:33We did not expect our families to do this at all in the beginning,
06:36but we had one family kind of start the trend,
06:39and then people started just making beautiful things with lights and photos and all kinds of different things.
06:48Because terramation is a 60-day process, we get to really take families by the hand now
06:53and guide them through the grieving process and guide them through the months following the death
06:59and be a resource to them the entire way through.
07:06Natural organic reduction has been legalized in Washington, Oregon, Colorado, Vermont, and most recently California.
07:15We plan on expanding because ultimately we would love to serve people in their local area.
07:23Right now we've helped serve over 15 different states plus Canada, and people are shipping their loved one to us.
07:34This area is what we would call our scattering ground at the Woodland,
07:38and this is where we place people when their families can't take the full amount home with them or choose
07:44not to,
07:45and choose to place their people in an area where it contributes to the local flora.
07:49It's an area that is made and intended to stay wild in perpetuity,
07:54so there's never to be anything developed on this property.
07:57We've had a lot of different reasons that people have chosen to put soil here,
08:00just from physically they can't take as much.
08:03They live in an apartment in downtown Seattle and they just can't take it all.
08:07We're finding that about 70% of our families take the whole amount home with them.
08:13This is where Drew is at.
08:15He was my first family that I took care of at Return Home over a year ago.
08:21After the body decomposes completely, there's about 200 pounds of soil left.
08:26Drew was a big muscular guy.
08:28He probably made about 300 pounds, and there's probably about 150 pounds of him here.
08:34The rest went home with his family.
08:43When I pass, it is the only option that I will choose.
08:46I have been witness to the other options.
08:49I have participated in the other options,
08:51and there is nothing that sits with my soul as well as Terramation does.
08:57I would want my soil to go to, like, a garden or a preserve or something where people could walk
09:04by and sit on a bench with my name on it.
09:06I see myself among, like, a lot of colorful flowers.
09:10I've seen some stuff, you know. I guess that's all I can say.
09:13But no matter how many hard things I've ever seen, it hasn't really affected my view on dying,
09:18because I know that when it's your time, it's your time.
09:21And sometimes you're young, and it's freak, and it's awful.
09:23And sometimes you're old, and you've lived 100 years, and now you have a beautiful story to tell.
09:29So death doesn't scare me at all, but certainly seeing certain things make you reflect on the way that you
09:35die.
09:37Death, it happens to all of us, and it's beautiful.
09:40It's not the terrible thing that people think it is most of the time.
09:44Most people, when they're in their vessel, they just look like they're peaceful.
09:49There's just a peace that comes over people that you just know.
09:53They're okay wherever they are. They're good.
09:56To be able to see life live on in the soil that we send back to families is what makes
10:01this process so miraculous
10:03and really makes it so that I could never go back to the funeral industry as it was.
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