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00:00Hey! Whoa! Whoa!
00:02Robey Wade has got to go for life!
00:04Woo! Woo! Woo!
00:08Fuck the earth! Fuck the state!
00:10Everyone must decide our fate! Fuck the state!
00:13Currently in America, there is a lot of time, energy, and money
00:16being spent on legislating and advocating for innocent, unborn lives.
00:21There are endless conversations swirling around regarding the boundaries of when life begins
00:26and the morality behind deciding when it ends.
00:28All these different stages of cellular development.
00:31Texas introduced a bill that would have made it possible for a woman to receive the death penalty for having
00:35an abortion.
00:36As a Christian, the extreme juxtaposition of life and death really fucked me up.
00:43Sorry, Mom.
00:44So let's talk about this.
00:46How are we, and the systems and institutions we've created in this country, valuing lives?
00:52In the battle to protect the innocent unborn, are we losing the fight for humanity?
00:58Texas is the execution capital of America, executing 561 of America's nearly 1,500 state-sanctioned homicides
01:06since the death penalty's reinstatement in 1976.
01:10And yet, Texas is also one of the states restricting the most access and government funding to abortion and reproductive
01:17health care centers.
01:19You know, if you believe that life begins at conception, alright, cool.
01:23How can you dictate that for someone else?
01:26Do you know the meaning of life?
01:29Does anyone in this car know the meaning of life?
01:31Yes.
01:34It is dogs.
01:36It is finding a dog.
01:45After you.
01:46I will not know where I'm going.
01:48One of the first places that they would probably come in would be to meet with a health center assistant
01:56and come in and get their medical history taken, blood pressure.
02:01This looks like a normal doctor's office.
02:03Just a doctor's office.
02:04This is one of our largest in terms of the number of exam rooms and it sees the most patients.
02:09Okay.
02:10Also, while I'm here, I've been eating really well.
02:11I would just like to kind of...
02:16What?
02:18Like six feet?
02:19Yeah.
02:20That's right, yeah.
02:21Extremely tall and good looking.
02:23And accurate.
02:23That's what I said.
02:25It's very strange.
02:26Your wheels are turning.
02:26I can see.
02:27I know, I know.
02:27I think I had my own idea of what to sort of expect.
02:30I kind of thought it would be more like serious and sad.
02:34I don't think it's what people expect when they hear Planned Parenthood.
02:38You're not the first.
02:39I mean, people walk in and they're like, wow, it's like a doctor's office.
02:42I'm like, yes.
02:44We're a health care provider.
02:46You're like this idiot.
02:47We're a show.
02:50Scientifically, where do we often make the distinction of when life begins?
02:54Well, I don't know that that's a scientific concept, right?
02:58So I think if you're talking about life of cells, there are cells that are on our skin.
03:02Sperms are cells.
03:03Eggs are cells.
03:04Different things are cells.
03:05Some people consider that life.
03:06I think scientifically, whether that's life or not, we don't usually debate that.
03:11That's more of an ethical concept.
03:12No matter how you define when life begins, an autonomous person contemplating an abortion
03:17is inarguably alive.
03:20In Texas, motherhood is risky business.
03:23Despite the spike in Texas' maternal mortality rate, during the most recent legislative session,
03:29lawmakers refused to expand Medicaid coverage to people who had just given birth.
03:34There are so many contradictions, right?
03:36Whether it's Medicaid coverage, you start looking at the foster care system and the number
03:39of people that are in the foster care system, the value of life becomes very different once
03:43somebody gives birth.
03:44Sort of a lack of consistency.
03:47Absolutely.
03:47It's only once a person is pregnant that they care about that pregnancy.
03:52We have heard it said, perhaps it's not so much as pro-life as pro-birth.
03:56I would agree with that.
03:57The conversation surrounding abortion in America has predominantly been driven by religious
04:02beliefs.
04:03You don't have to look too far to learn about the overwhelming Christian perspective on abortion.
04:08Abortion is a murder.
04:11What is often left out of the conversation is that the majority of people who have abortions
04:16are already parents.
04:17For example, 59% of the women having abortions in 2014 had already given birth before.
04:24And 62% reported a religious affiliation.
04:27These facts told me it was time to step outside my presumptions and listen.
04:32I had an abortion and it wasn't based on God.
04:37It wasn't based on any of that because God wasn't helping me pay the bills.
04:40God wasn't helping me, you know, put her to bed every night.
04:43Stephanie is a Christian and a single mother who found herself facing a difficult decision
04:48when she became pregnant for a second time while on birth control.
04:51I mean, I went to church every Sunday.
04:53I've definitely went from being like a Catholic Republican to like, you know, a non-denominational,
04:58you know, Democrat.
05:00I just couldn't choose a child that I didn't know over the child that I already had.
05:07Was it murder?
05:08I don't know.
05:09It wasn't about murder.
05:11It wasn't about any of that.
05:12It was, I just don't, I just can't do it.
05:16And God be damned, basically.
05:20No one looks at the mothers afterwards.
05:23The mothers seem to be the forgotten shells.
05:25You know, we make the babies, but we are forgotten afterwards.
05:27The process is just very unforgiving in so many ways that like, you know, if you have the abortion, how
05:33dare you?
05:33If you need assistance after having a child, how dare you?
05:36If you take child support, oh, well, you're just greedy.
05:39Until you can like take your crown and put it down and like come and like experience what some other
05:44people are experiencing, you just don't know.
05:46We're all religious or we all have our ideas, our belief systems until you don't.
05:53Until you're put into a situation where you have to put that aside and just be okay with what you
05:57did.
05:59How often do we actively challenge our own belief systems and test the boundaries of our faith?
06:05As a queer Christian, I've tested my faith regarding sexuality time and time again.
06:10But selfishly, I had never taken the time to question the religious perspective on abortion.
06:14Because, well, honestly, it scares the crap out of me.
06:18I have to ask myself, if I'm terrified to have this conversation, how much more scared is a woman who
06:26has no sense that she can control her body?
06:30Reverend Keaton King is a Presbyterian pastor in Houston and has made it her lifelong mission to stand in support
06:36of a woman's right to choose.
06:38Her faith informs her that standing beside Planned Parenthood is what Jesus would do.
06:44There's this story traditionally known to the church as the Annunciation.
06:49It's when the angel Gabriel comes to tell Mary that she will become pregnant and that she will bear the
06:56Son of God.
06:57When the angel comes to her and makes this announcement, the angel could have departed immediately if the only goal
07:03of their interaction was to deliver this news.
07:07I'm going to be like, peace.
07:08Yeah. You're going to be pregnant. Bye.
07:10That's not what happened.
07:12Mary got the opportunity to ask questions, and the angel actually gives her an answer.
07:17She gets to ask questions about her body and her future and engage her maker with those questions.
07:22What happens next is amazing.
07:24She says, let it be with me, according to your word.
07:28Mary gives consent.
07:29To me, that says that God gave women choice and expects us to use it.
07:36I have never heard that before.
07:40Have you ever engaged with someone who disagrees with you on this issue from a similar faith perspective?
07:46And how did that conversation go?
07:48Their background assumption was that a woman seeking abortion was perhaps careless.
07:55Christians are so fond of quoting John 3, 16.
07:58But what John 3, 17, the very next verse says, is God did not send Jesus into the world to
08:04condemn the world.
08:06How does your faith inform your opinion on capital punishment?
08:10Jesus is not about our condemnation and is not interested in justice, which is retributive.
08:17No matter what someone has done, that does not cut them off from God's love.
08:23Retributive justice is based in suffering.
08:25It's the concept that if you do something wrong, you deserve to pay the price.
08:29But should the ultimate price be death?
08:32I guess in reflecting on the people we've spoken with on this trip and hearing where different people draw the
08:39lines on life and death,
08:44as informed by faith, science, politics, experience.
08:50I'm very mindful of how vague and difficult to define life is.
08:59But death is an absolute.
09:00How are you making that definitive decision on just the grand mystery of life that we're all going to spend
09:10our lifetimes trying to figure out?
09:16It feels like a really crazy thing to crazy and bold, very bold, and potentially, and as we're seeing, quite
09:26dangerous to govern in absolutes on something that is so mysterious.
09:34And not really care too much, it seems, for the consequences of things like capital punishment.
09:47Death is an absolute.
09:50I can't make sense of that.
09:52It became really evident to me that if we're going to enforce state-sanctioned birth, we also need to be
09:58talking about state-sanctioned death.
10:00I was driving down the street to go to a regular church meeting at night.
10:05And there was a group of people over here just on Main Street with signs.
10:11And I became curious about that.
10:14And sure enough, there was an execution going on.
10:18And so I thought, seriously, while I'm driving down the street just a few feet away, they are killing someone?
10:27And worse yet, they are killing that person in my name.
10:30It's on behalf of the residents of the state of Texas that this person is literally being taken from life
10:39to death.
10:41Rev. Cheryl Smith is currently a pastor at John Wesley United Methodist in Houston, Texas.
10:46But she spent years pastoring and standing vigil outside the execution center at the Huntsville Prison, the nation's busiest death
10:54chamber.
10:56Some people will draw on religious language and say, well, you know, in the Bible it talks about an eye
11:03for an eye and a tooth for a tooth.
11:05I also speak religious language, but that's not the religious language I speak.
11:10I follow a man who talked about a different kind of justice.
11:15And I believe we need to be doing a lot more about justice in this world.
11:21It is not justice when little children go to bed hungry.
11:26It is not justice when children do not get equal and good educations.
11:33It is not justice that children are not well served up to this point.
11:38And then we start punishing them and maybe even putting them to death.
11:42Do I get to change the rules about how I value and treat people based on what they've done?
11:50You could even value and treat another life.
11:54Another life, which is like the life I've been given.
11:58I didn't earn it. I got it. I was born with it.
12:02Everybody gets born with this gift of life.
12:05Do I get to decide based on somebody else's behavior how much dignity they're going to have?
12:12I don't think they become some other class of creation just because they made bad choices.
12:21As Christians, we're called to love all image bearers, knowing that sin is intrinsically built into our humanity.
12:27But what obligation does our country have in valuing the lives of those who have broken the law?
12:33There's a bit of a righteousness that people feel in supporting the death penalty that I think is quite strong.
12:38I used to feel it myself.
12:39As a self-proclaimed conservative, Hannah Cox was formerly a supporter of the death penalty.
12:45But through her policy work with the National Alliance on Mental Illness,
12:48Hannah became aware of the issues within the criminal justice system
12:52and is now the national manager for an organization called Conservatives Concerned About the Death Penalty.
12:58How often are we getting things wrong with regards to death penalty cases?
13:04So we know that at least one out of every ten people on death row,
13:07one person for every ten executions has been fully exonerated, which is another level of innocence.
13:13Are you serious?
13:13Yeah.
13:14On top of that, we know there's been over 800 exonerations for people who committed homicide but were not sentenced
13:19to death.
13:20One pushback I get a lot from people in the pro-life movement is that they only believe in protecting
13:25innocent life.
13:26And I have a lot of problems with that statement.
13:28One, even if that is how you're caging your support for the death penalty,
13:32that's not a valid argument because there is so much innocent life caught up in the death penalty.
13:36But secondly, again, I don't see anywhere in scripture where you get to only care about innocent life.
13:41And what is innocent life?
13:42We've all committed wrong.
13:43And if it were not for Jesus coming, we'd all be given a death sentence.
13:46So in all state studies that we've done, we see that in 96 percent of cases,
13:51there was evidence of racial bias against the defendant or the victim or both.
13:56And if you look right out the gate, who do we decide we pursue capital crimes against?
14:00It's for people who kill white people.
14:02We see a system that says some victims' lives matter more than others.
14:05It feels somewhat hypocritical that there's a major movement to criminalize abortion,
14:10to protect what is considered an innocent life.
14:13But the same energy is not given to saving that same life if they commit a crime.
14:18Is anything truly unforgivable in the eyes of God?
14:23I have a recording of his last interview before he was murdered by the state.
14:40Lee Greenwood is the mother of Joseph Nichols, a man convicted of murder and executed in Texas as a result
14:46of the Law of Parties.
14:48The Law of Parties states that a person can be criminally responsible for the actions of another in certain circumstances.
14:54This law seeks to punish criminal associations and impose harsh penalties for even being linked to a felony through a
15:01conspiracy or planned crime.
15:04This means that while Joseph's accomplice pled guilty and was executed for the killing,
15:08Joseph was eventually retried and suffered the same consequences as the man who was initially convicted of firing the fatal
15:15shot.
15:16Joseph was executed in Harris County, Texas on March 7, 2007, 25 years after his arrest.
15:25Do you recall a time that you or Joseph were ever hopeful?
15:29We were always hopeful. I was told by various attorneys, he may have done six months at California Youth Authority.
15:37Maybe he may have even gotten probation.
15:42But I soon learned that the thing about justice was a false.
15:52Especially in Harris County, Houston, Texas.
15:56I wonder what would you say to someone who is in support of the death penalty?
16:04I believe I wouldn't have anything to say to them simply because all the things that they have heard or
16:11read in recent years
16:12about persons being exonerated that were on death row, if that had not convinced them, I certainly can.
16:19And I would venture to say that most of those people probably sit in some church every Sunday.
16:26Do you consider yourself a person of faith?
16:28I do.
16:29How did the execution of your son impact your faith?
16:34I asked always that Joseph be free.
16:38Now, I didn't specify how he'd be free. I just wanted him free.
16:44So if you believe in God or whoever your higher power is, you have to believe and have to be
16:51willing to accept whatever the outcome is.
16:56Joseph said in the last days,
17:01Lady, stand on your faith and be at peace.
17:04I got this.
17:06If he could say that, who am I to dishonor him by falling on the floor, rolling and flailing and
17:13crying and all of that?
17:16The day that we went to visit Joseph for the last time, which was a Wednesday, we were turned toward
17:23a big window.
17:24And when they opened the curtains, they had already strapped him down on the gurney.
17:29They allowed us to hear his heartbeat until it was no more.
17:36If it makes one person not maybe change their idea or the way they look at the death penalty, if
17:46it just makes them start thinking.
17:49It won't bring Joseph back.
17:52But Joseph doesn't have to be brought back in the body.
17:55He's here and in his family and his friends mind and hearts every day.
18:00So as far as I'm concerned, Joseph will never mentally die.
18:05He's always in our minds.
18:08We all have to die.
18:12We were born to die.
18:14Not to be morbid, but Lee is right.
18:17We're all born to die.
18:18And the inevitability of death challenges me to examine how I live and how I can honor the lives around
18:24me.
18:25I strongly believe in the mystery of faith and impossible questions about life and death only reinforce this belief.
18:32But these impossible questions and strongly held opinions should not be used to divide us, but to encourage us to
18:39lean closer.
18:40Take a moment to listen, adjust our lens, and understand the lived experience of someone different than ourselves.
18:48Because when we're valuing each other, we're valuing life.
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