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90 Day: The Single Life - Season 5 - Episode 11: The Art of Dragging
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00:01Previously on The Single Life,
00:03we have so much in common.
00:05We do, yeah.
00:06We converse very well.
00:07Yeah, we do.
00:07And it's been like that from the beginning, too.
00:10Wayne is so cute.
00:11This legit might be my person.
00:13We got to do this more often.
00:15I know, definitely.
00:16But do I really want to invest my time and money
00:19to go over to another country to have my heart broken again?
00:25We are in Hollywood.
00:27Oh my god, look who's here.
00:29I can't wait to spend time with Natalie again.
00:32And I'm going to meet her daughter, Bella.
00:34I'm surprised I'm meeting you today.
00:36I didn't expect that.
00:37Well, I'm surprised you're even here, to be honest.
00:40I know how close Natalie and Bella are.
00:43And if there's going to be any chance
00:45for our relationship to work, I'm going
00:47to have to win Bella over.
00:51So first of all, Cole wants to apologize.
00:54Maybe if you two were together alone for a few days,
00:58you could work this out.
01:00I'm not going to be one of his options in his love triangle.
01:03It's like, you had me, and you lost me.
01:07I feel a little bad for trashing Colt to his mom,
01:10but I need to be honest with her.
01:11There's no world where I'd get back with Colt.
01:14I'm done.
01:15I'm done, like.
01:20Do you mind if I grab a dance with my girl?
01:22Are you serious?
01:22You said that you don't want to dance.
01:24If this is how he's acting in the middle of a freaking dance
01:27class, we might have even bigger problems
01:30than I originally thought.
01:32I'm just, like, really done with this .
01:48Good morning, beautiful.
01:49Good morning.
01:51How are you feeling this morning?
01:52I'm feeling good.
01:54I'm feeling good, too.
01:55That was one wild, crazy night.
02:07That was pure madness.
02:09How'd you like your lap dance?
02:11Ah, the lap dance was amazing.
02:13Good.
02:13I'm glad.
02:14I'm kidding.
02:15Last night, Natalie took me to a strip club in LA,
02:19and we had an amazing, terrific time.
02:22Both of us were, like, hot and sweaty by the time it was done,
02:25and we were horny and excited to, like, have some real fun.
02:29I unleashed the beast last night.
02:32You were a wild and crazy man.
02:34The sex was so much better than the first time.
02:38Seeing this freaky side of Natalie took all my anxiety away.
02:43I had no problem throwing my hat off and getting down.
02:47So, yeah.
02:50So, what are we going to do today?
02:53I plan for the day is to meet my family.
02:55Do you know where we're going or anything?
02:57It's a surprise, but we need to get going
02:59because the reservation's coming up soon.
03:01OK.
03:01Let's hit the road.
03:03Today, Gino and I are meeting up with my daughter, Bella,
03:06and my brother, Nick.
03:08Do we have a car picking us up?
03:10We're walking.
03:11Are we walking?
03:12We're walking.
03:13Oh, my goodness gracious.
03:15Bella is skeptical about Gino because what's happened in the past,
03:18but I'm hoping everybody can have fun, just let their guard down
03:23because my feelings for Gino are only getting stronger
03:26and I really need for everybody in my family,
03:30especially Bella, to be on board.
03:33Nick!
03:34Nick!
03:35Oh, hi.
03:36Hey.
03:36How you doing?
03:37How are you?
03:39I'm doing good.
03:40Oh, nice to meet you.
03:41This is Gino.
03:42How you doing? Nice meeting you, finally.
03:44Nice meeting you, too.
03:45This is my twin brother.
03:47Twin brother.
03:47Yeah.
03:48Yeah.
03:48She's a pretty twin.
03:49Yeah.
03:51No, I think you're the pretty twin.
03:54I can see the resemblance.
03:56First time Natalie dating Gino, everything went to crap.
04:00Everything was a nightmare.
04:01She was calling me, crying all the time.
04:04And, I mean, he broke her heart.
04:06So, when Natalie told me she was dating Gino again,
04:09I thought she was crazy.
04:10This is going to be a whole huge drama mess,
04:13like every other relationship she's been through.
04:16We're going to see some entertainment.
04:18Have you ever seen a drag show before?
04:20Drag show?
04:21I haven't...
04:22I've heard of them, but I've never seen one.
04:24You're in for a treat.
04:25Oh, yeah.
04:26Is Bella there already?
04:27Have you talked to her?
04:27I haven't seen Isabella since yesterday.
04:29You haven't talked to her?
04:31Not since yesterday.
04:34I'm just going to text her real quick.
04:38Yesterday, when Bella dropped her mom off at the hotel,
04:42she was really cold to me and had an attitude.
04:46I can't help but wonder if the reason is because of me.
04:51Okay.
04:52I texted.
04:53All right.
04:54So, we're good to go?
04:55Yeah, let's go.
04:56We're going to miss the show.
04:58Okay.
04:58Stop worrying.
04:59I'm not.
05:00Yeah, don't worry about anything.
05:01It's not good for that pretty face.
05:03Stop.
05:06I'm a girl you see on the street.
05:08Drop a little boy down to my feet.
05:10I like when you're underneath.
05:12What?
05:15How's everybody doing today?
05:19Are you all ready to get started?
05:22Ladies and gentlemen, welcome to the stage, Penny Drepper!
05:31I have never been to a drag queen show before.
05:34Being here in person is freaking amazing.
05:46And they're putting their in my face.
05:54This is what I love about Natalie.
05:57She brings me out of my shell or even out of my comfort zone.
06:01She can do that to me.
06:11Yeah!
06:12We all had a good time with us today?
06:14Yeah!
06:14Oh, yeah!
06:16Happy birthday, everybody.
06:17I'm sure.
06:17Oh, wow!
06:22After the show, it really clears out, doesn't it?
06:24Yeah.
06:25Man, I wish Bella was here.
06:26She's not responding to me.
06:29Really?
06:29That's weird.
06:32She's not a company.
06:33She texted you?
06:35Yeah.
06:39Bella arranged the whole thing to come here.
06:41And at the last minute, something just went off.
06:44She just doesn't like Gina.
06:46She doesn't trust him.
06:47All she wants to make sure is her mom is happy.
06:50And she doesn't think Gino is that person.
06:54I'm sad myself because I wanted to get to know her a little bit.
06:57It seems like she doesn't want to meet you.
06:59You think so?
07:01She's told me she does not like him.
07:03And that's the reason why she did not come.
07:05I mean, you're still married and your ex attacks Natalie.
07:09That's ridiculous.
07:10We came to where she lives so that she could see we've gone past it.
07:15But she hasn't gone past it.
07:17That's the problem.
07:18So we don't have to deal with Jasmine anymore.
07:21So take Jasmine out of the equation and everything has been progressing really good.
07:26Like we are having fun together.
07:27So have you filed for divorce?
07:37Bella has a lot of anger towards me.
07:40And Nick, he's kind of questioning if I'm the right person for her as well.
07:46So everything I did to rebuild my relationship with Natalie is falling apart.
07:52I mean, I don't blame Isabella.
07:54You're still married to another woman.
07:57And she doesn't want to see her mother hurt.
07:59I get it.
08:00She wants to look out for me and I love her and I appreciate that.
08:04But I still would like her to give him a chance.
08:08You're just going to have to show her it's not like the other relationships that you had in the past.
08:15She comes first.
08:17She comes first.
08:19Bella has never seen me happy with a man in my entire life.
08:23They are toxic.
08:25They're liars.
08:26They're not honest.
08:27I had an ex that was a serial cheater and I knew it.
08:32So when it comes to Gino, Bella has her guard up.
08:36I think she is very protective and very leery of his intentions.
08:42You're going to have to win her over.
08:44She's the hard one to win over.
08:46Yeah.
08:47And don't piss her off.
08:52Trying to find out what it is that makes it always feel like this.
08:57I'm so tired.
08:59Six, seven.
09:00Walk her through.
09:01We go one, two.
09:02We go forward, tap.
09:05What the ?
09:06I just don't freaking get it.
09:22I asked you if you want to dance and you said no.
09:25So then I told you I'm going to dance with somebody else and I did.
09:28And then you interrupted me in the middle of the dance.
09:30So I wanted you to have fun and I wanted you to come into my world.
09:35I was.
09:35I enjoyed the dancing.
09:36I was having fun.
09:37So what's the problem then?
09:38I mean, we just talked about coming to his class, learning how to dance and social was
09:45out of nowhere.
09:46And all of a sudden we talk about that and then you storm off, find some Vin Diesel guy
09:50or actually a guy who looks just like your ex and you're just having a good time.
09:55Are you kidding me?
09:55So here's the thing.
09:57You're going to Ibiza in a couple of weeks.
09:58There's going to be many socials in Ibiza too.
10:00And there's going to be many socials in Croatia as well.
10:03So you think I'm going to go cheat on you with a guy in Ibiza?
10:06What I'm trying to say is like if you're going to dance with random guys, what's going to happen?
10:10And they want to have a good time.
10:13They want to have a good time.
10:14So because they want to have a good time, I need to be punished.
10:17And I'm going to be.
10:18Punished?
10:18And I'm going to be.
10:19Yeah.
10:19So you're trying to accuse me of something that I haven't even done yet.
10:22So you have freedom of reigns to do whatever you want.
10:24I just don't understand, Tony.
10:26Because it's like a vacation.
10:27Listen, I danced with a guy after a dance class after you said that you don't want to dance.
10:31And now you're accusing me of dancing with random guys in Ibiza and like potentially cheating on you.
10:36You just said you would.
10:36You just said you would.
10:37Well, like you're literally putting words in my mouth.
10:40I never said that.
10:44He knew I was a dancer when we started dating.
10:48He knew I was a dancer when we were friends.
10:51I feel like at this point in our relationship, he should trust me.
10:54He should know who I am.
10:56He should know what I stand for.
10:57He should know that I would not do anything to disrespect him or put our relationship in jeopardy.
11:03Tony is projecting his own insecurity on me.
11:07And I'm really hurt by that.
11:09I don't think I deserve it.
11:11You don't see a problem here at all.
11:13You're not even looking at it from my perspective at all.
11:15I don't see a problem.
11:21This is my everyday life.
11:22This is what I've been doing for years.
11:23This is my passion.
11:24I see it as this is not appropriate for a new relationship.
11:27That's the problem.
11:28So you're stopping me from being who I am because I'm in a relationship with you.
11:32No, I think there's compromise.
11:33There's compromise.
11:34We're not having it.
11:35We're not having compromise.
11:36This is unbelievable, Tony.
11:37No, it's not.
11:37This is really.
11:38It's not.
11:39It's compromised.
11:40You ruined everything.
11:41So I hope you're happy.
11:43I need to go find my freaking phone.
11:45I'm taking an Uber home and this is it.
11:47I'm done with this .
11:52She's been single for a very long time.
11:54She still does things her own way.
11:56I'm concerned that sometimes Vanya may not look at the big picture of when you're in a relationship,
12:01it's about compromise.
12:02And to me, dance is very sensual.
12:04Dance has a lot of feelings attached.
12:06And, you know, it's very easy to fall in love with your dance partner.
12:10You just gonna storm off again?
12:11No, I just, I'm done, Tony.
12:13I'm calling an Uber and I'm going home.
12:15I brought up concerns about her traveling and dancing with other guys and other clubs.
12:19And she completely said, hey, that's my prerogative is to have fun.
12:23Hey, by the way, Tony, just trust me when I can't even trust her when I'm watching her and with
12:28her.
12:29So that's it.
12:30That's it.
12:30She's gonna storm out again.
12:31Yeah.
12:33Really?
12:33Yeah.
12:33There's no compromise.
12:34There's no resolution to anything now, is there?
12:37What compromise is there?
12:38Really?
12:38You're accusing me of being somebody who has nefarious intentions in mind.
12:43And I don't.
12:43You said you can do whatever you want.
12:44You said I can have fun.
12:45I can dance with whatever.
12:46What's, what do you want me to do?
12:49Then just stay in my hotel room the whole time I'm there?
12:51Maybe you should enjoy.
12:53Enjoy an visa.
12:54You know.
12:55We'll see how it works out when you get back then.
12:59Is, what, now you're threatening me.
13:01What?
13:05You obviously don't trust me and I'm going home.
13:20Seriously.
13:24This guy is acting like a complete control freak.
13:28Trying to tell me how to live my life.
13:30It is unacceptable.
13:31I'm a grown woman.
13:32I can make my own decisions.
13:34I'm not going to be told what I can and cannot do.
13:36Will you go watch me?
13:41I'm capable of having a dance with someone and not have sex with them.
13:44I mean, what else do you think is going to happen here?
13:48This is really making me worried about our relationship going forward.
13:51Because if this is how Tony is acting when we're together,
13:55I cannot even imagine what he's going to be like once we're apart for two weeks.
14:00It's really scaring me.
14:02Cool.
14:02We'll see you in the right time.
14:05Kids go on.
14:07In the right time.
14:17Sun Feldman.
14:18"...Mama didn't raise no food.
14:19She led me walk in my own shoes.
14:21So double down and let me lose.
14:23There ain't no mountain I can move."
14:26grounds.
14:37now what do we need these for what do you want avocado we're on a diet okay put them off
14:42we're gonna put them back huh hey we're on a diet yeah
14:58i'm gonna get a cabbage we're gonna make some cabbage rolls so i talked to colt oh my gosh
15:06where is he at no he's in brazil he went to brazil yeah to see the other woman yeah for
15:14the last month
15:14i haven't been in touch with colt because i needed a break from that dumpster fire of a relationship
15:21but he called me out of the blue this morning from brazil did he go back to canada when no
15:28i guess
15:28i guess he went straight from florida to brazil oh my gosh seriously yeah i thought colt went to
15:36canada to live with his mom i found out the whole time he's been in brazil with diana the woman
15:42he's
15:43been sending videos to okay they're saying the ligaments in his knee need to be replaced
15:50so he has to have another surgery but he said he's found a doctor here that will accept the
15:55insurance and stuff here yeah in orlando so i guess he's coming back he's not staying
16:00well he's not staying at our place no no okay oh my gosh one thing we've learned from this experience
16:09is there's no stranger's gonna stay at our house again ever it's not gonna happen it's not gonna happen
16:16is he still in the wheelchair or is he yeah well i guess the doorways are small there so he's
16:21been
16:21using crutches because the wheelchair and walker are too big how's he gonna get around yeah he can't
16:26drive no i said i'd go pick him up and like help him get situated in the hotel
16:32picking up colt from the airport is going to be torture you know we had a really strong connection
16:38there's still some type of bond which is maybe really dumb but i feel responsible for him does
16:45he want to try to get back with you i don't know what he wants don't don't let it happen
16:53he's not gonna be faithful yeah yeah no i think he's gonna lie and keep lying and lying i don't
17:00trust him
17:01so it's like how can i be with somebody i don't trust when you keep lying about stuff is you're
17:09not
17:09sincere yeah i don't see any sincerity at all to this no respect i mean leave our god alone i
17:17mean bottom line
17:20well if it was me i would be over with it but it's you i think you're strong enough but
17:29when he
17:30casts that fishing line and reels you back in and you know he's gonna try
17:36don't revolve your life around him no no because he could care less about you he's just using you
17:42once again i feel he can't use me because i'm offering help i'm offering to do this for him
17:48i want to do this for him so it's like he's not using me it's like he's not playing me
17:52he's playing
17:52himself but then how far are you gonna take this yeah i just want to you know get him from
17:58the airport
17:58to the hotel right okay set boundaries like all the crying and stuff i've been doing i think it's just
18:04like feeling sorry for him like he might be permanently disabled so i cry more about his leg
18:10than about him dating other women i know my parents are worried about colt breaking my heart again
18:17they see that he still affects me and like the truth is i don't know what i'm gonna feel when
18:24i see
18:25him we had such a deep intense connection and you can't just turn that off i feel like colt has
18:33some
18:33type of crazy power over me and i don't really trust myself with him life is way too short to
18:39be
18:39putting up with that fill your life with happy things i will you want the donuts
18:45no i think i need the wine the wine
18:59yay stockings here you can hang your own stocking up son all right boom
19:08okay there we go look at that look at that you already have stuff in your stocking is it candy
19:15oh
19:15yeah i gotta get one okay this isn't good it's been there since last year
19:24i've been naughty i've been nice santa daddy bring me everything i like
19:28oh milk and cookies when i fight when i fight give me this i want a single fella night
19:35here we go grand illuminate
19:40this actually looks pretty good do you remember this monkey grandma bought this for you so i'll let
19:44you hang that just hang it neck near her picture yeah it's cute huh christmas is in a few weeks
19:52and
19:52i'm really really excited because it's my favorite holiday everything's all sparkly everybody's just
19:57nice and it brings back so many happy memories of my mom and my sister and previous holidays when i
20:04do
20:04stuff like this it reminds me of grandma because this was like our thing and my grandma it was like
20:08our thing was to like decorate you know so it's gonna be our thing now i think so and i
20:12think we should
20:13include larry in this as well because he doesn't know any of our stuff doesn't know anything you
20:16want to call him yeah christmas is all about family and this christmas is even more special because my
20:24family just got bigger my relationship with my son that i placed for adoption is just getting better
20:31and better we video chat all the time and it's really become a special part of my life hey what's
20:39up
20:39y'all what's up how are you i'm doing good man it looks like y'all in the christmas spirit
20:45yeah i'm
20:46really excited to talk to him today and show him my christmas decorations but i also have some news to
20:51share with both him and jamal so we thought we would call you and get you in the christmas spirit
20:57with us
20:57yeah for sure so jamal's gonna carry you around let's go for a tour all right look so this is
21:03my little
21:03tree i like bling you know i'm all about the glitter i love the sequins and stuff so this is
21:08instead of doing a star i do a top hat isn't it cute isn't it cute yeah it's so cute
21:16and then i do
21:18stockings am i gonna get a stocking yes you're gonna get a stocking of course you are there was never
21:26a holiday a birthday or any other day in 35 years that i did not think about larry or my
21:34daughter
21:34i always wondered like what kind of life they had how they celebrated their birthdays how they
21:40celebrated their holidays that's my hair a little flat i'm so grateful to larry that he gave me the
21:51chance to make up for lost time i'm really glad that you can enjoy some of this with us yeah
21:57for
21:58sure so yeah and i'm glad that we have communication especially now i think the communication is a lot
22:02better now that i've been i agree i'm free so speaking of that i told you guys about the guy
22:09that
22:09i've been talking to in england and i'm going he invited me to come so i'm gonna go and meet
22:15him
22:16i mean everybody deserves a chance at love so i don't see why you wouldn't take it just don't
22:22get your hopes up no you know what i'm saying a little bit just a little bit of hope no
22:27not let's
22:28just stay neutral i mean just go over there with an open mind yeah i'm saying i like him but
22:33i'm not
22:33i'm not doing what i did with usman it's a totally different thing i've learned from my mistakes
22:39don't look so skeptical no i am i can't help but naturally be concerned when you take these trips
22:46for men that you haven't met you're gonna fly by yourself you're gonna be there by yourself
22:51i remember even when you go to nigeria by yourself you would call me and be like i wish
22:55you were here why don't you go with me what are you doing no why is that not too much
23:01why don't you
23:01go you don't have to meet him like the first day but you should maybe you should go with me
23:05go jamal
23:06you should go yeah you should go you should definitely go i do wish i would have went to
23:10nigeria sooner me too because maybe i could have helped in that one faster the men you've met they're
23:16so nice to you in the beginning and they they trap you because you get stuck and you fall fast
23:22so luckily when i'm there maybe i'm able to talk to her and be like just remember to not give
23:27too
23:28much in the beginning because you do that all the time yeah in the past once my mom really starts
23:34like a guy she starts believing whatever they say so i really do hope wayne is this nice guy that
23:41he's been telling her that he is because my mom's heart cannot take much more i feel like now everybody
23:48everybody's in place i'm working on myself it's time for me to go and find love well i think you've
23:53had a lot off your shoulders yeah like telling you about your sister and everything telling me
23:59about him then telling him about her yeah speaking of um sister i reached out to the adoption agency
24:06like we all agreed upon to try to find her and well they sent me a letter her adopted mom
24:12had wrote me
24:12a letter so i have the letter it's like 10 pages long and i was waiting for an opportunity to
24:18just kind
24:18of bring it out i want to see it all right when the adoption agency told me they had a
24:24letter about
24:24my daughter from when she was six years old i was stunned this was dated november 26 98.
24:34okay it says to the birth mother of our beloved daughter r
24:40she came home with us in january of 93. she was then and has continued to this day to be
24:45a healthy and
24:46happy child i can't read this i can't read this yeah i just i want something this is crazy
25:13i haven't seen tony since our dance class a few nights ago and obviously things ended on a really
25:19bad note i'm really nervous it's not an easy thing to like have that huge blow up and then off
25:26i go for
25:27half a month
25:45tony is coming over to take me to the airport and it's awful because i'm leaving for two and a
25:52half
25:52week vacation to europe this is not how i wanted to leave things between us
26:00hi
26:05i uh i made us a little snack so have a seat i'll go grab it
26:14having seen tony and his reaction during the dance class it has me worried that this kind of
26:21jealousy and control is only going to get amplified while i'm gone and it could be the end of us
26:32so how are you feeling
26:34i mean i know you're leaving soon so i thought we at least talk about you know what's going on
26:42and
26:44i just don't want this tension anymore so what's what's what's on your mind
26:51i do trust you but the words escalated the emotions escalated and all of a sudden you left
26:57and i'm like well are we really just throwing it away yeah i i agree that that wasn't the best
27:06thing
27:06to do i shouldn't have done what i did like stormed out but i you know i was i was
27:13very upset but at the
27:15end of the day you you mean the world to me and i want to make sure that when i'm
27:20away that you feel
27:22comfortable that you're not you know thinking what am i doing what's going on am i putting
27:27our relationship in jeopardy because i would never do anything like that
27:34thank you i mean that means a lot to me i'm not trying to say hey listen to either you
27:40dance or it's
27:40me i just really want to make sure that we're on the same page going forward and you know this
27:46upcoming trip i just don't want it to be about us not talking a lack of communication or
27:51if there's tension i just don't want it to just linger i agree we're not going to go sleep angry
27:58we're not going to let the day end with us not having a resolution okay i like that okay i'm
28:06just
28:06going to put this in the kitchen and then we can skedaddle we both took responsibility for what we did
28:14wrong and i'm feeling a little bit more secure vanya i'm going to help grab your luggage okay okay thank
28:20you all right but at the same time our relationship is just starting to take the next step we even
28:26started saying i love you to each other and now i'm leaving immediately for two and a half weeks
28:31i mean this gives us no time together to hug and kiss and just be good
28:38oh it sucks
28:53baby i'm gonna miss you so much oh my god i can't believe we're here already
29:01oh my god we're gonna try as much as possible let's keep in touch okay all right welcome baby
29:15next trip is gonna be a together trip absolutely okay okay miss you already i miss you too baby all
29:23right oh bye bye man i feel like our relationship is so new that there there is worry the last
29:34few
29:34weeks we've had a great foundation and i really hope this trip is not going to test it to the
29:38point
29:38where she's going to realize that the single life is better for her i would be in shambles if i
29:44lost
29:44van you it would break me apart there are so many variables that could go wrong on this trip
29:52and i hope we can get through it but i would be lying if i said i wasn't concerned
29:57because if he has another meltdown while i'm away i don't think our relationship can survive
30:23to the birth mother of our beloved daughter r
30:42this letter was not delivered to me almost 30 years ago because i moved around a lot i was in
30:47the
30:47military so i just never received it it's very emotional for me because it's like me getting to
30:54know her it means so much to get a glimpse into what her life was like growing up i got
31:01it
31:03her developmental skills progressed normally except in one area where she
31:07proved exceptionally gifted she's very verbal i guess she talks like her mama right
31:13ours vocabulary is tremendous her thoughts and desires at a level beyond her six years
31:20we hope to keep her in private school as long as we can afford it ours favorite food is pasta
31:26pasta pasta
31:27that's her italian side she is also a great vegetable eater we have a large vegetable garden she loves to
31:33go out and pick vegetables for dinner she had a pretty nice life wait a minute
31:40i think reading this letter and finding out these things about her like now we know her name starts
31:45with an r we know she had a vegetable garden we know she went to private school
31:53sorry
31:58and it's like a bittersweet feeling right like it makes her more real to me
32:03and it just makes me so happy to know that she was raised so well
32:09we are indeed thankful for having her in our lives and love
32:12her very much with best best wishes to you and yours
32:18it's really intense um i'm really glad that she's had such a good life like that's that's why i did
32:25what i did you know because i know i couldn't provide that for you or her like i can't say
32:30like
32:30i regret what i've done i can't say that now i can say that the way i handled it was
32:34up but i
32:36can't like i can't like feel bad for what i did you know yeah and that's what i keep trying
32:42to tell
32:43you since you know day one so i'm glad you finally kind of you know seeing it for yourself too
32:49yeah
32:51the decision to place my children up for adoption was the most heartbreaking decisions i've ever had
32:57to make in my whole life now 34 years later i can honestly say i'm at peace i feel like
33:07i did what
33:09was best for my children and really at the end of the day that's all that matters to me all
33:17we can do
33:17now is just wait yeah we'll see what happens i do have a feeling we're going to find her i
33:25hope so
33:25like i'm very positive about that i hope so
33:32i'm going to try calling her hello hi bella i just wanted to know why you didn't show up today
33:40i can't stand by and watch you embarrass yourself by associating you know with such a troll like gino
33:47whoa i care about gino but this is a lot bigger than
33:51my daughter not wanting to meet a guy that i'm dating
34:00oh you don't want it like that slow calluses on my hands breathe
34:11oh you want to sit down yeah for a moment enjoy this beautiful fire pit
34:18oh they got blankets this is kind of like camping or something i don't know we just don't have a
34:24tent
34:37that was rough yeah i'm a little bit i don't know concerned now because
34:43nick was saying that she she doesn't like me well she doesn't know you
34:51one of the big reasons that i came to la was to get to know natalie's daughter bella but when
34:58it was
34:58time to hang out she never showed apparently bella's mad at me because jasmine attacked natalie last
35:08year you definitely want to have approval of the family members or you know the chances of this
35:14relationship working is not very good but i'm going to try calling her
35:26hello hi bella hi it's mom how are you i'm fine um i just wanted to know why you didn't
35:37show up today
35:39i just want to say what i have to say honestly and then you can do whatever you want
35:45i love you but i can't stand by and watch you embarrass yourself by associating you know with such
35:51a troll like gino i don't see why you feel the need to extend any grace to him at all
35:57after how
35:57badly he disrespected you in michigan you're a grown woman you can make your own decisions but at
36:03this point don't expect me to support it anymore well uh and i just think you're just too beautiful
36:11and smart and successful to be with such a spineless loser like him and i wish you saw that too
36:17i love you but that's just really all i want you to hear from me
36:25whoa
36:29she does not like me
36:36are you okay no
36:41i want to throw up
36:44that was a lot of nasty words that bella was saying about me how bad of a person i am
36:50what trash
36:51i am loser whatever she didn't even give me a chance you didn't even show up and meet me i
36:59mean come
36:59on you don't judge me based on you know what you hear for one incident it's not fair
37:09after all of that you know how do you feel about me i guess
37:17my feelings for you haven't changed however i would like her blessing
37:27okay so okay so basically our relationship is kind of like on hold till you get her blessing
37:38she's my number one she's my number one priority
37:43so what happens if she doesn't change her mind and she
37:48doesn't give her her blessing what would happen you think between us i need to talk to her
37:54and then when as soon as i get the answer i'll talk to you
37:58are you gonna stay over my place i'm gonna try to go over to see bella
38:05okay it's important to me that we don't end a conversation on a negative note okay
38:13that's fair thank you i get it i care about gino but this is a lot bigger than
38:22my daughter not wanting to meet a guy that i'm dating
38:25all right let's uh let's go let's go bella doesn't trust my judgment she's never seen me
38:34in a healthy relationship all right well let me get packing
38:39and it makes me feel like a failure as a parent that i was not able to show my daughter
38:45that i
38:47am capable of being in a good relationship
38:51and i just want to go and i want to comfort her and i want to let her know that
38:55i'm okay and safe
38:56she's my priority okay well i better get going well i had a really good time me too so
39:08the last two days have been awesome oh yeah i know they have yeah they've been awesome
39:17the hardest thing is what if my daughter never accepts him where would this relationship go
39:24and i think he knows the answer that's something i really don't want to deal with at this moment
39:32i don't want to talk about this anymore we'll have to see each other again soon yeah bye take care
39:44i thought that this trip would bring natalie and i closer together i could use a drink i imagine hitting
39:52it off with bella and then in the future potentially becoming a father figure to her
39:59i've always wanted to be a dad so her daughter not wanting anything to do with me it's impacting the
40:07dreams that i had for my life and it makes me really sad
40:12but these eyes won't cry no fear i'll cry
40:23oh god
40:29next time on the single life let me touch it
40:34oh wow okay going into this day i don't really have any expectations he's cute it's a good body it
40:42seems fun like this is literally one of the reasons i came to dr to just have fun
40:52whoa is that the queen of england hello peasants hello
40:57after talking to wayne for the past three months i am in jolly old england to meet him in person
41:03oh wow i'm really hopeful that by the end of this trip i do go home in a relationship
41:09now i have to ask you okay are you dating now here
41:16hey natalie what's up after natalie's daughter disapproved of our relationship i don't know
41:24where things stand i was hoping that at some point you would talk to bella to see how she feels
41:30because i know at the time you were saying if she didn't like me that you know we we wouldn't
41:36have a relationship has that changed at all with her i mean
41:46hey courtney i'm going through a lot of internal conflict right now i still care about colt and i
41:54still have love for him really it is nice with you but then my mind's like this lying cheating
42:00manipulative son of a bitch did you sleep with diana i can't say i didn't do that
42:07well i'm glad you worked for her
42:12here we go ibiza bitches i'm trying to go with sonala listen to some music and then you send me
42:18a message and
42:19another and another you're ruining my night but on top of it i'm there with my cousin and i'm embarrassed
42:24in front of her all over again i need to understand what caused you to do what you did
42:29if tony wants to be with me he's going to have to change fast
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