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Unexpected - Season 7 Episode 11 - Co-Parenting Your Baby
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00:00Previously on Unexpected.
00:02Chris said I'd help me get you.
00:03Oh, you're going to school.
00:04Hopefully Hunter graduates eighth grade.
00:07A lot of it is he doesn't get to see his dad anymore.
00:10Kind of all fell apart after Bella got pregnant.
00:12He said I ruined my life.
00:15Hunter just texted me and said, is Bella pregnant?
00:17Why would he text me that?
00:19How long did you wait after I want to start on the next day?
00:22I think we only waited four days.
00:26We're making dinner and meal prepping.
00:28I support Maya on losing weight.
00:29I just feel like I shouldn't go crazy.
00:31Jose, can you wash the baby, please?
00:34He's only working part-time.
00:36Eight hours a week is not an excuse to be as unhelpful as he is.
00:39Give him to me.
00:40I need them to be able to carry the weight of being parents.
00:43And hopefully it happens before Mother's Day.
00:46Because his mom is wore out.
00:48Where you been, dude?
00:49They done took her back down there.
00:52I wanted my mom back there with me, but she wasn't there.
00:55Where? What's your mom?
00:56I don't know.
00:58Her first outside experience.
01:01I do appreciate my dad for letting Jessie stay for two weeks since Oakley's here, but
01:05I still don't think it's long enough.
01:07All I ask is what kind of frisky business.
01:09Wow.
01:10Ain't no well about it.
01:11I don't really want to move out on my own, but I will if I have to.
01:16We don't want anybody to know she's here.
01:18Yes, sir.
01:18It's induction day, and I do not want any more drama from Bryce or his family.
01:22Baby might have been born already.
01:24We don't even know.
01:25Decent human beings would not inflict pain like this.
01:30She's coming back.
01:31I am so freaking pissed.
01:35Oh, she's here.
01:48She's so cute.
01:51How are you feeling, babe?
01:53Weird.
01:54Weird?
01:54Yeah.
01:56Why?
01:56Because it feels weird.
01:57What feels weird?
01:58Waking up in your house.
02:00But I can get used to it.
02:02Me too.
02:04I can get used to waking up to Jessie every day, but now that I wake up to him every
02:08day,
02:08he sweats so bad in his sleep, and he takes up the whole bed.
02:13Like, I mean, the whole bed.
02:15This is our bed, and this is how he sleeps.
02:19It's terrible.
02:20Terrible.
02:25What time is the baby?
02:278.30.
02:28So I'll get up and then pump, and then get the baby ready.
02:32Pack the diaper bag.
02:33It's been a few days since we got home from the hospital, and it's been pretty good.
02:38Like, when it comes to nighttime, around 7 o'clock, somebody feeds the baby, whether
02:42it's dad or me or Jessie.
02:44Somebody feeds the baby, and then around 7.30, 8 o'clock, we give her a bath, and then
02:49we put her diaper on, put her brand new clothes on, and then we swatter her up all nice.
02:54And then me and Jessie take turns during the night.
02:56Jessie's been doing good.
02:58He's doing what he has to do.
02:59Hopefully, he keeps it up.
03:01But I guess we'll see sooner than later.
03:05She was awake so much last night.
03:07Like, we got our eyes open and everything.
03:09I'm ready to go to these appointments, come home, and leave my bed.
03:12My dad's calling me.
03:14Hello?
03:15Hey, you called?
03:16Yeah, I was going to say you forgot to leave the car seat, but AK's going to go get a
03:21car
03:21seat.
03:22Oh, Dad, I didn't know I was supposed to leave it.
03:25I ordered the doctor's appointment.
03:27Yeah.
03:29Oh, man.
03:30Today's Oakley's one-week doctor's appointment, and we forgot her car seat in my dad's truck.
03:36My dad went to work at 6 o'clock in the morning.
03:39AK's on the way to get us, and I remember, oh, we don't have a car seat.
03:46Mom brain is a real thing.
03:47Okay.
03:48But I'm sorry.
03:49Like, I'm tired.
03:51Your girl's tired.
03:53AK's going to go get one and then bring us to the appointment and do his...
03:57What about your mama?
03:57You ain't heard from her?
03:58No, I haven't heard from her.
04:00Yeah.
04:00Because of how big of a deal my mom made for my last doctor's appointment, I did try reaching
04:05out to her.
04:06She's a minor, and I'm her mother.
04:07She's old enough to make her own decisions on who wants to bring her.
04:10But you know what?
04:11She is a minor, and I am her mother.
04:13But she didn't respond.
04:15All right, babe.
04:16It's okay, Dad.
04:17I know I told you, like, yesterday morning, but, like, I forgot to remind you.
04:22Well, I would like to be involved with helping, but you have not reached out to me.
04:26Yes, I have.
04:27On days, like, we have appointments, I'd be texting you all day long.
04:31Days that we have appointments.
04:32You're lying right now.
04:34You're lying.
04:35Mom, you never answer me.
04:36You're lying.
04:37You never answer anybody.
04:38Bull crap, Mia.
04:39You don't text me at all.
04:40Look and see.
04:42I texted you this day, telling you you had mail at the house, and you didn't answer me.
04:46What was I supposed to say to I have mail?
04:48You don't even answer me.
04:49When do you text me, like, just to say, hey, Mom?
04:52Why would I text you just to say, hey, Mom, if you're not going to answer me?
04:55Mia.
04:55Since I got out of the hospital, you've texted me twice.
04:59No.
04:59Yes.
05:00Let me see.
05:01This is when I was in the hospital.
05:03You told me you were in the car.
05:05Mm-hmm.
05:06How's the baby?
05:07Wait, wait, wait.
05:08Let me get my phone.
05:09Where did you contact me?
05:12Mom, you're my mother.
05:14Mia, you're my daughter.
05:15And you're my mom.
05:15Where have you contacted me?
05:16When do you contact me?
05:18Mia, I know you see what's going on there.
05:19She literally just told me that she didn't.
05:21She's texted me more than twice.
05:22Let me see.
05:22She just saw that she only texted me twice.
05:24You're lying.
05:25Pick up your phone.
05:26You just...
05:26Let me see.
05:27Pick up your phone.
05:28I'm done talking.
05:28Pick up your phone.
05:28I'm done talking.
05:29I'm done talking.
05:30Pick up your phone.
05:31I'm done talking.
05:33My God.
05:34I'm done talking.
05:53Paisal.
05:57Paisal.
05:59Please.
06:08I would say because of how my mom is, I know exactly what I don't want to be as a
06:18mom,
06:18and I know exactly what I do want to be as a mom.
06:21No matter how old my daughter is, no matter if she was 16 like I am or 26,
06:25I would always be there for her if she needed me.
06:30What a beautiful world it is.
06:37Happy First Mother's Day.
06:41Enjoy every moment of being a mother because it goes fast.
06:47My First Mother's Day is interesting.
06:51It's like, it was always like, oh, I get to appreciate my mom today.
06:55Now it's like, I get to appreciate my mom today and be appreciated.
06:59It's crazy.
07:01It was kind of my holiday, and now I got to share it, but that's cool.
07:05That's with her.
07:06I'm willing to do that.
07:13Aw.
07:15You know Amaya loves her roses.
07:17I know.
07:18Thank you so much.
07:19That's for me?
07:21Oh.
07:24You want me to hold the baby so you can open your stuff?
07:26No, he just went to sleep.
07:29On a day that's all about moms, I'm feeling grateful for you.
07:33In so many ways, you've been like a mom to me.
07:38Here, read it out loud for me.
07:41You didn't even get through the first one.
07:43No, I know.
07:43I'm over here on this side.
07:46Thank you for everything you have done for me, Mama G.
07:48I am forever grateful for you taking me in.
07:50You've taught me a lot, and that's why you deserve the best Mother's Day.
07:53Aw.
07:56Thank you, Jose.
07:58And I love you like you're my son.
08:02I love you too.
08:04Mama G is a lot of things to me, including my mom.
08:08I feel like she has helped me a lot, not even just being a better dad.
08:12Just personally, if there's like any problem or anything that I'm going through, she's always there.
08:19So yeah, I do love her.
08:21You better.
08:23To Amaya from Jose.
08:25Happy Mother's Day.
08:26I hope you enjoy this.
08:29A gift card for the perfect style?
08:31The value's $200.
08:34Is that for you?
08:35Dang, God.
08:36What is this?
08:37Nail date, treat yourself to beautiful nails.
08:41Value $50.
08:43Ooh.
08:43Dang.
08:45Great gift.
08:46I know.
08:47I gave her gifts as an offering of my shortcomings.
08:51I do feel bad that Amaya isn't really feeling supported by me.
08:56With Sammy.
08:57And typically, I'd just be taking her out to eat and stuff.
09:01But now that she's on a diet, I want to help support her.
09:04So I just got her a hair appointment instead.
09:06I am impressed that he did all this on his own because boys are kind of stupid, I'm not going
09:11to lie.
09:11Like, and he's doing pretty good at supporting me on my weight loss journey, even though I know he's cheating
09:18when he thinks I'm not looking.
09:22Lies.
09:22Right.
09:25Go ahead and read it.
09:26I want to hear this.
09:27I am forever grateful for the sacrifices you took in giving me my son.
09:33I'm already about to cry.
09:36You're the greatest mom to Sammy and take care of him all the time for me while I'm at work.
09:40I think you deserve this and so much more.
09:44Oh, my God.
09:45That's beautiful.
09:46Thank you, Jose.
09:47Are you going to get up and give him a hug?
09:48Yes, can I, like, collect myself?
09:51I think the man deserves it after that.
09:54It does mean a lot that he appreciates what I do and he recognizes that.
10:00But it doesn't change the fact that he's still not being as helpful as me and the baby need him
10:06to be.
10:09Get up.
10:11No.
10:12Oh.
10:15Thank you so much.
10:17You're welcome.
10:18I think you should sell that with a kiss, at least.
10:20Jeez.
10:21You guys act like you hate each other.
10:23She does hate me.
10:24I don't.
10:27Wow.
10:27No, that's why he doesn't get that.
10:30I feel like only time will tell on how, like, if we're going to stop fighting so much and, like,
10:36if he's going to help more with the baby.
10:38Like, the gifts don't really mean nothing regarding to that.
10:41So, I am grateful, though.
10:45Well, we got to give Sammy a bath and you got to go to work.
10:48Wow, you're kicking me out already.
10:50Thank you for everything.
10:51I appreciate my card and my flowers.
10:54You're welcome.
10:55Jose has to put in the work.
10:57It takes more than financials to be a parent a lot more.
11:04But I'm glad he's trying.
11:10I would like for dad to come to the game.
11:12Did he ever answer your text?
11:14No.
11:15The relationship with my dad has been not good since Wes has been born.
11:19He won't come see him.
11:20I still have hope.
11:21He can see that I have not ruined my life because my life is not ruined.
11:25Go, honey, go!
11:27So, Bryce's name is not on the birth certificate?
11:30No.
11:32Haisley is the one who's going to suffer in the end because she's going to miss out on a lifetime
11:37of a father that adores her.
11:39I don't want to talk about it no more because it's going to piss me off.
11:47I can't believe that it's really over.
11:50I can say that it feels like torture used to feel so right.
11:56Used to feel so right.
11:58Can I have her?
11:59I'm trying to sing to her.
12:01Yeah.
12:01Oh, hold on.
12:02Can I bond with my namesake?
12:05Hiya.
12:06She even has all my initials.
12:08Hey, princess.
12:11She's named after me, and I just love her.
12:16There's no better feeling in the world than to hold your daughter's daughter.
12:22Can I see them?
12:23Because I just love looking at her name.
12:24Yeah, I like her name.
12:27So, this is Haisley Natasha Sky Stone.
12:31Haisley's middle name is Natasha Sky.
12:34I just felt like my mom earned that.
12:38She was 6 pounds 19.
12:416 pounds, 6 ounces, 19 and 3 quarters inches long.
12:45Period.
12:46Okay.
12:47And my mom gots it down.
12:50Yep.
12:57So, Bryce's name is not on the birth certificate?
13:00No.
13:02He's not here.
13:04Can't put someone on the birth certificate that's not here.
13:08I did not put Bryce on the birth certificate because I just, no thanks.
13:16Bryce still doesn't know he has a daughter.
13:19Like, he still hasn't reached out.
13:20And he knows that I wanted to get induced on the 5th.
13:25I mean, that says what it needs to say about him.
13:30Obviously, he doesn't deserve to be on the birth certificate.
13:36I'm here just to put me on the birth certificate.
13:40Just like, I just want you to laugh.
13:43I'm just trying to make you feel better.
13:46Haisley is the one who's going to suffer in the end
13:49because she's going to miss out on a lifetime of a father that adores her.
13:54And he did everything right.
13:55And now he's just, like, out, you know?
13:58Well, like, throw him away.
14:00Well, hey.
14:10I don't want to talk about it no more because it's going to piss me off.
14:13There ain't nothing I can do about it.
14:15It is what it is.
14:18That's the whole thing is he can't do anything about it, you know?
14:21And it's frustrating to him because he loves the baby.
14:23He's trying to do the right thing.
14:25And, uh, what?
14:26He's just cut out from seeing his baby?
14:29Unless the paternity is established, you can't see her.
14:32You're just going to have to be strong, be tough.
14:34And, uh, hey, it's not you doing it.
14:36It's them doing it to you.
14:37So, uh, you're just going to have to suck it up.
14:40It's just part of one of those hard things of life, you know?
14:42Okay, he feels very uncomfortable talking about it anymore.
14:46All right, I'm going.
14:48Okay, well, I'm going to come meet you.
14:50All right.
14:56Oh.
14:56Oh, boy, I tell you,
15:02I ain't never seen no people like this in the world.
15:04Hills have eyes, people.
15:11You all right to drive or you want me to drive you home?
15:15You sure?
15:16Me or Nan can ride with you.
15:19Huh?
15:19Okay, well, wait a minute.
15:20We'll follow you home, huh?
15:22All right.
15:23I love you, son.
15:25Oh.
15:28Oh, oh, oh, oh.
15:31Did I put this?
15:32I'm not going to help you.
15:33Hi, Isabelle is ready to go.
15:37Okay, thank you.
15:39Okay, come on, baby.
15:41Come on.
15:42You, I don't know.
15:44You have to be in a person.
15:46I try to make sure it's the best you want for my little shitty princess.
15:52There's been a lot of victories with bringing Haisley home, Isabella home, like, alive, healthy.
15:59Bryce is, like, out of the picture.
16:01Thanks, y'all.
16:04Bye.
16:06Yeah, whatever deuces, buddy.
16:09Like, go live your life.
16:11I don't know what to tell you.
16:15Oh.
16:18Sit up, pumpkin.
16:21Now that Haisley's here, my only priority is Haisley and my happiness.
16:29But Haisley first, of course.
16:48We're going to go see your goofy daddy play baseball.
16:52Get away from me.
16:55Oh.
16:57My God, that sounded wet, Hunter.
16:59I think that was wet.
17:00Hang on, let me go check my pants.
17:03He's going to have a time, Mark.
17:05We're going to take a quick shower.
17:10So who's all going to the game?
17:13Mom and y'all.
17:15But I would like for Dad to come to the game and let him see Wes.
17:21Did he ever answer your text?
17:24No.
17:25That's sad.
17:27The relationship with my dad has been going not good since Wes has been born.
17:33He won't come see him.
17:35But I'd like him to.
17:37Why hasn't he met him yet?
17:39Because he's not making an effort.
17:42It is literally as simple as just showing up and being there, physically being there.
17:47Physically, mentally.
17:53We're here at Hunter's baseball game and his dad's not here.
17:57So I imagine that maybe Hunter will realize eventually, yeah, we're all Hunter needs.
18:05Because obviously his dad's never been there anyway.
18:11I still have hope that I'll have a good relationship with him, like, in a couple years, not now.
18:17When he can see that I have not ruined my life, because my life is not ruined.
18:21I get to play sports.
18:22I get to do the stuff I wanted to do.
18:25Now he gets to teach his son how to do it all.
18:27Yeah.
18:29Mom, a junkie baby.
18:32His onesie ain't going to fit much longer.
18:37I'm surprised.
18:38Despite Hunter's dad not showing up for him, Hunter has accomplished so much.
18:43He finished eighth grade.
18:46Aren't you so glad you're done?
18:48No.
18:49Why?
18:50Yeah.
18:50Yes.
18:52We didn't want to add a year to school.
18:54No.
18:54Good grief.
18:56It feels good passing eighth grade, because my grades were pretty low.
19:01And then at the end of the year, I got him up.
19:04Pretty low is an understatement.
19:07They were all zeros.
19:09And then I got him up to, like, A's and B's when I actually tried.
19:13He's done really, really good.
19:15And he's really started helping me with Wes.
19:19He actually is changing poopy diapers now, so.
19:23Change diapers.
19:24Yep.
19:26Which I don't give him an option, but he just does it.
19:29Was it just pee?
19:30No.
19:31Yes, it was.
19:32Nope, it was poop.
19:33Oh.
19:34That was some very pee-looking poop.
19:36See, I change the pee diapers, sometimes poopy ones.
19:40I don't do no runny poop.
19:42That's Bella's.
19:43Like the runny poop dripping out the diaper.
19:45You just on me.
19:48Did he?
19:50All over his blanket?
19:52Yeah.
19:53Hunter is doing a lot better than I thought he would for being 13 years old as a dad.
19:59Big dog.
20:01I don't know if I would say he's like a big dog or anything, but I'd say he's doing all
20:06right.
20:07All right.
20:08All right, really?
20:09I'm proud of him.
20:10A little bit.
20:11A little bit.
20:13That's all I need.
20:14That's a lot coming from him.
20:16Yeah.
20:17Home run, Hunter.
20:18Yep.
20:20Go.
20:21You better run.
20:23Go, Hunter, go.
20:25Hunter, I want to have another baby.
20:28I just want to relive what I had with Wes because he's growing so fast.
20:37Yo, crazy.
20:41Am I the only one?
20:43A little bit, yeah.
20:46Each to their own.
20:47No.
20:49We'll just have to see.
20:51No.
20:52Never.
20:53That's what you say.
20:54I don't know.
20:57We'll see.
21:10Hey, are y'all so excited?
21:11It's your first day of high school.
21:14I am.
21:15Hey, get in here.
21:16Y'all got to go to school.
21:17I love you.
21:18It's so good.
21:20Take out a lipstick on him.
21:23I do think I'm lucky that I have parents who are so supportive and help me and my sister
21:28with our babies.
21:30Hi, beauty girl.
21:32Oh, look.
21:33They're holding hands, kind of.
21:36Mom has sacrificed a lot.
21:38She literally quit her job so she could be an in-home babysitter.
21:42And dad takes extra hours just to make sure we have enough.
21:45Looks like I'm going to have to work for a long time to take care of these grandkids.
21:50Bye, bye, bye.
21:52Bye, bye, bye.
21:56And they're gone.
22:00Have you changed your mind at all about getting on any type of birth control yourself?
22:06I'm not getting on birth control.
22:08I don't need a birth control.
22:10You do realize you've taken a plan B if you figure it up every month since you've had him.
22:15I'm not pregnant anymore.
22:17No.
22:18I would be surprised if she made it to her junior year and not be pregnant again.
22:23We'll see if I can make it to my 16th birthday.
22:26Let's go, mama!
22:28My heart is sinking because I want her to do nothing more than buckle that buckle.
22:34I can't.
22:35I just want to reach you.
22:42Ready?
22:48It's been like three months since that terrible-ass go-kart date with Jose.
22:53Hey, small, wait.
23:01Not fitting into the go-kart was the motivation I needed to change my diet and start working out.
23:07But let me tell you, it has not been an easy journey.
23:10One and up.
23:12You got that perfect.
23:14Two.
23:14Being that big after gaining a whole bunch of weight rapidly like that, and I'm not going
23:19to say out of nowhere because I know what I was eating while I was pregnant.
23:23I was on them donuts at 3 a.m.
23:25But just starting working out out of nowhere is really hard.
23:28Oh, that hurts.
23:30What hurts?
23:30Your knees?
23:30Like right here.
23:31Your quads.
23:33Yes.
23:35So I feel like I've pushed through a lot of BS.
23:37And one more.
23:40And relax.
23:42Awesome.
23:44I gained 60 pounds during my pregnancy.
23:47And my first goal of my weight loss was to hit 285 because that's how much I weighed before
23:54I got pregnant.
23:56And I'm hoping that my hard work is finally paying off.
23:59So it's been three months since I've been working out with Karolina.
24:04I'm about to check right now to see if I made any progress.
24:08I'm nervous.
24:09Okay.
24:11The progress is showing off.
24:15285.
24:16She hit it.
24:17Hey.
24:20Hey.
24:21But I don't know if it's going to be enough to fit into the go-kart.
24:29There she is.
24:31Oh, my God.
24:32Y'all are so embarrassing.
24:34Come on, Karolina.
24:35Come on.
24:36Okay.
24:37Let's go, Mama.
24:39Oh, man.
24:40Let's go, Ma.
24:42Come on, Mama.
24:49I can't.
24:50I just want to reach in.
24:52My heart is sinking because I want her to do nothing more than buckle that buckle.
25:02Getting that phone call from Amaya when she was on the date, and just hearing her, like,
25:09break down in the bathroom by herself, it was hard.
25:13Why are you crying?
25:15Because I didn't feel the go-kart, so I want to go home.
25:18Why couldn't you fit?
25:20Because I was too fat.
25:23You got this.
25:25Come on, Mama.
25:26Come on, Ma-Ma.
25:29Let's go, Ma-Ma.
25:31I'm just hoping that she gets it to click because I know how upset Maia was about the go-kart.
25:37You've never been too fat for anything.
25:39Yes, I have.
25:40No, you haven't.
25:41Not like that.
25:42And I don't want her to feel that way ever again.
25:50Oh, my God.
25:54It's like, click, and I'm, like, so happy.
25:58Oh, my God.
26:01Yeah.
26:03I could jump onto a building right now.
26:05Not off.
26:06I could jump from the ground up, okay?
26:08Oh.
26:09That's how happy I am.
26:15I'm really proud of Maia being able to meet her goal weight since she has been crying to me,
26:21and she's been working really hard for it.
26:23Don't say I've been crying to you.
26:25Yeah, you have.
26:26Girl, you have been crying.
26:28Y'all are so, like, literally, like, fits and crying.
26:31Y'all telling the business, for real.
26:33But it's true.
26:34Because it's real.
26:35Oh, don't.
26:35That's how much it means to you.
26:37You're right.
26:39Oh, my God.
26:41Oh, my God.
26:45So it's not just Maia that I'm proud of.
26:48I'm definitely proud of Jose and the changes that he's made as far as stepping up and helping
26:53Maia more with Sammy.
26:56Taking him and, yes, while you sleep, okay.
27:01She gets more sleep now than she has ever.
27:07Woo!
27:11Nothing is perfect, and we definitely have our arguments.
27:15Since being teen parents is stressful, but I just feel like I found my person.
27:21I did let you pass.
27:23No.
27:24Yes, I did.
27:25It always starts as an argument that ends up in us, like, flirting.
27:28Then she's like, Jose, I love you.
27:30Oh, my God.
27:31I still love you.
27:33I hate you.
27:34I've never said I hate him.
27:37Hi.
27:38Say, Mommy.
27:40Mommy did it.
27:41My hopes for Maia and Jose's relationship is that they can continue to give each other
27:48the balance that they need, you know?
27:51It takes a little bit of giving and a little bit of taking in any relationship, but I just
27:56hope that they do what's best for Sammy.
28:23Me and Amaya broke up, and then I moved out and started living with my grandma.
28:30I'm not going to cry about it.
28:32Well, I always don't cry about it, but I'm not going to just stick on that for the rest
28:37of my life.
28:38But I feel like there's some moments where I could have viewed myself living a life with
28:44them and all that and building a home with all of them.
28:47But now it's just, like, memories.
28:51Why'd you bring up?
28:53Well, she didn't want to be in a relationship with me.
28:56Oh, that's not what happened, actually.
28:58We broke up because we had been arguing a lot.
29:00And one morning, he was yelling at me, talking about some, I never shut the up and da-da-da
29:06-da,
29:06and all this.
29:07So I broke up with him.
29:09Because you're not about to talk to me like that, right?
29:14You ready to go 99?
29:19I hope that for the sake of Sammy, they're not going to be together, at least co-parent.
29:25But I would love to see them together, though.
29:29I would love to see Sammy raised in a house with both his father and mother.
29:33Why is that?
29:39When I was pregnant with her, I knew I was going to be a single mom.
29:49And I just don't want her to go through that.
29:55Because it's not easy.
29:58At all.
30:18This is not an easy decision for me at all.
30:21He won't let Jesse move in.
30:22If he don't want us living our life at his house, then we'll live our life at a different house.
30:49We've been home for about two weeks.
30:51And Jesse has been a very big help.
30:53But my dad, he won't let Jesse come move in.
30:56And he don't want me to move out.
30:58But, you know, he can't have his cake and eat it, too.
31:02If he don't want us living our life at his house, then we'll live our life at a different house.
31:14Dad's home.
31:15Come see her.
31:19She looks so cute.
31:20Come look at her.
31:25My sweet baby.
31:26I want to talk to the kids about Jesse staying at the house.
31:30Because Mia's been nagging me ridiculously about it.
31:34And it's time we had the conversation.
31:37Now, look.
31:39All bulls inside.
31:41I've been going through a moral dilemma about this situation.
31:45This is not part of the plan.
31:51But I'm giving you a chance to stay here.
31:55Passed to two weeks.
31:56Because I love my daughter.
31:58And I don't want to lose her.
32:01Okay?
32:02Yes, sir.
32:04I was raised Catholic.
32:06I mean, you don't shack up.
32:07You don't sleep around.
32:09You know, you wait until you're married.
32:10I mean, I know those are ridiculous things to ask of kids, especially these days.
32:17But, you know, if that's how you're raised, at least you sort of try to abide by that, you know?
32:23But after Mia gave me the ultimatum, I prayed about it almost every night.
32:29When he leaves, then I'm going to be going back and forth with the baby.
32:32We're not having this conversation right now.
32:34I'm just telling you.
32:34I'm just telling you.
32:35It's still not cool to me, you know?
32:37But I just don't want to lose my daughter and my grandbaby.
32:42So we're going to give it a shot.
32:47This is not an easy decision for me at all.
32:49I know.
32:50No, I don't think you know.
32:51I do.
32:52No, I don't think you will know until you get older.
32:55So don't take it lightly.
32:57Do your best.
32:58You hear me?
32:58I'm serious, bro.
33:00It's on you.
33:01It means a lot to me that my dad didn't just squash the idea.
33:08It would have been a constant just every freaking day.
33:13I need help, Dad.
33:15He's dramatic.
33:16That's what I'm getting at.
33:17Somebody would have been dramatic.
33:19No, he's dramatic.
33:20I can't do it alone, Dad.
33:22He's dramatic.
33:24But I'm thankful that he let him stay.
33:27And I'm thankful that he loves the baby girl just as much as I do.
33:36I am told for sure.
33:40I love you, baby.
33:44That's all I got to say.
33:47I really, really appreciated it all.
33:49And then so did Mia.
33:50But we were just so in shock because of how strong he is about his morals and all that.
33:56So we didn't really know what to say.
33:57But I was very appreciated.
34:00Appreciative.
34:01Is that the word?
34:02Yeah, it's close.
34:02Yeah, appreciative about it.
34:04And now I'm willing to do anything it'll take to prove him that he didn't make a mistake.
34:10Good.
34:11You got to do it.
34:12I mean, you know?
34:14It's just, it's no choice.
34:17Well, I mean, you do have a choice.
34:19You don't.
34:22Yeah, you don't.
34:24Yeah.
34:25That was a big moment, huh, babe?
34:27Big moment.
34:28I didn't expect that.
34:30We got to stay on top of our game.
34:34Yes.
34:35Yes.
34:36We're not exactly starting our life as a new family because I don't have, like, the, what
34:41is it?
34:41Like, I don't have the things older people can do since I'm still a minor and young.
34:45But eventually, I hope that we can get our own space into our own thing.
34:49And I really do plan on marrying her one day.
34:52But that's a huge step.
34:53So it's definitely going to take time.
34:55Yeah, yeah.
34:55Do you think of Jesse as more of a son-in-law now?
34:59More of a son-in-law, yes.
35:01It's not really seeing him step up.
35:04It's more of me stepping back.
35:06I guess in a certain way to me, it sounds stupid.
35:08But, like, it's giving your daughter away at the wedding.
35:12It's like, I got to kind of just let him do what I want to do.
35:16Like, instinctively, I want to be by her side to do whatever has got to be done.
35:20And now I've got to not do that.
35:22So that's going to get some getting used to.
35:25But it's good, yeah.
35:29Just don't mess it up.
35:34I love you.
35:36I love you.
35:37Are you excited?
35:39Are you happy?
35:41Like, in a few years, like, once the baby's old enough and we're stable and we have what we need,
35:48I do want to marry Jesse.
35:50Well, first he has to propose.
35:53And then we'll start the other process.
36:05Is it a good nap?
36:08Hmm.
36:12How would you say it's been gone?
36:13Full run now.
36:14You take it.
36:15Living with Jesse's gone good.
36:18For the most part.
36:20He just gets to my nerves a lot easier now.
36:24But that's it.
36:27I've had a few talks with him.
36:28That's amazing.
36:29Everything's been going pretty good, though.
36:31I would say.
36:33I would say.
36:35Yeah.
36:43You asked.
36:46You wanted.
36:54Get something out of there.
36:56You got some quick hands, dog.
36:58I don't know.
37:09Once you've been with the men who acts like Bryce acts, then you know how this ends.
37:15I don't like men who are mama's boys and crybabies.
37:18Mom.
37:19Okay.
37:20Next question.
37:21Before we all start beefing on this couch.
37:23Before I beat up Bryce, I can't remember.
37:26For what?
37:35So, tonight we're having a family dinner.
37:40And, um, I don't know.
37:45It's unbelievable.
37:46But, you know, here we are.
37:52Hey, guys.
38:05Bryce, how did you and, um, men think?
38:10I always find a way.
38:13No, Bryce did what was important and did things that, you know, every man should do when they
38:19have a baby.
38:20Go get a job, paying child support, then being a responsible parent.
38:25And then she said, let's live together.
38:28And he went and got him a place within, what, 48 hours?
38:31Yeah.
38:32Later, Pete.
38:32What a home, no, no, no, no, no.
38:36Build a home with you, you're around.
38:39Have a life with you all around.
38:42Love and grow with you all around.
38:45And it's my heart, no, no, no, no.
38:50Yeah.
38:53Go, dada.
38:55You call me dada?
38:56Take your socks off, too, please.
38:58Oh, you're really eating on the remote.
39:06How is he as a dad?
39:07Bryce is a good dad, just sometimes he doesn't know what to do.
39:12Which is understandable because he's a guy.
39:15I'm trying to get her foot in here and it's not.
39:17Do you need help?
39:23I like men that provide and do what they're supposed to do.
39:26I don't like men who are mama's boys and crybabies.
39:29Do you think even a few months ago that these type of words would be coming out of your mouth?
39:34Oh.
39:35No.
39:36Wait, wait, what?
39:37Will you shut your mouth?
39:39No.
39:40But the issue with his grandparents and his mom, not many men at his age are going to pick
39:46the baby and the girlfriend over their family.
39:52Nobody's asking, like, you to choose.
39:54Yeah, but I'd much rather be at home and spend time with y'all than go over there.
39:59I didn't get a headache going in there.
40:02No, I'm kidding.
40:03You're not kidding, but it's okay, Bryce.
40:06Mom!
40:06Okay, next question before we all start beefing on this couch.
40:15They seem real happy.
40:17I haven't heard from him much, you know, because he doesn't really want our help.
40:21He wants to be on his own and it's been hard for us.
40:24Just in a dream world, I would wish that, you know, they would come to our house and have
40:32dinner.
40:32It's like a normal family.
40:35What is your relationship like with Tasha?
40:40God bless her, whatever, you know, I hope she lives a happy life, but there's not going
40:45to be a relationship between us.
40:50Hunt, is it that hard to put a freaking...
40:52Come on, Hazy.
40:53Come on, let's show that how we do this.
40:55You just yank it down her foot.
40:56I am scared to hurt her.
40:58Babies, even the hospital told us this.
41:00Babies are not as fragile as everybody thinks they are.
41:04Well, I wasn't there to hear that.
41:07Whose fault is that?
41:09Mom, I guess.
41:11After all the drama and the fighting, are you guys surprised that things have worked out
41:16the way that they're working out now?
41:17I'm very surprised.
41:19I'm not surprised.
41:20It was just a matter of time until she fell back in love with me.
41:24No.
41:25Your dad, I kiss her?
41:29I'm stealing them all from mommy.
41:32You want a baby?
41:34You want a boobie?
41:36Okay, we can get a boobie.
41:37We can get a boobie.
41:39We can get a boobie.
41:40We can get a boobie.
41:47Turn that light out.
41:53Do you guys think that your relationship will work this time?
41:56And if so, it's so different this time?
42:00I don't hear what she has to say.
42:02I think so, because I think we're both, like, mentally there.
42:06We're not as stressed out as, like, we was.
42:09I mean, Rice does piss me off, but, like, I just have to thank, like...
42:13It's not as bad as it used to be.
42:14Now it's like, piss her off.
42:15Give her five minutes.
42:16Go give her a hug and a kiss.
42:17And hold Hazely and she'll be all right.
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