00:00Have you ever been in a situation where you look back and you really realize like,
00:05oh, I started to lose myself in that relationship?
00:07No, that happens a lot to me.
00:09And actually, I need to work that on me because if not, I'm going to fail every relationship.
00:15Now I know that.
00:16Because when you start having a relationship with a person,
00:20you need from the beginning to set things that they're like this, you know?
00:26You have your life, you have your life.
00:30You do things this way, you do things this way.
00:33It's two people that complements each other.
00:38But when you start like changing for the other person just to make the other one feel better,
00:42feel comfortable, like you start like sharing more time with their friends,
00:48doing their stuff, doing their thing in their times, in their like routine.
00:52That's when you lose yourself.
00:54And now you don't find yourself anymore in that specific.
00:58So you don't love yourself.
01:00And you're not able to love the other person.
01:03And everything is still like, if you're holding the relationship because of that,
01:08then when it breaks, everything breaks.
01:10So I need to work that on me.
01:12I need to be more like, this is how I do things.
01:16I know you're doing, exactly, set the boundaries, exactly.
01:19So from the beginning, you start like doing things because you know,
01:22you're in the right, like the most amazing moment, situation,
01:25and you just want the other people to feel happy, comfortable and everything.
01:29And you start like doing things because of that.
01:31And they become habits.
01:34You know, they become habits.
01:35And with the time, they become like stronger and stronger.
01:37And then you don't know how to be out of there.
01:40There.
01:40There.
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