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00:10You're angry with me, aren't you?
00:11Leave the room, Mum.
00:13I hate her.
00:14I don't even want to be at you.
00:16I message Tyler, who say he don't want to see me, I'll be there.
00:19Do not touch me, I love you, but do not touch me.
00:21Poo-poo!
00:22Today was one of the more frustrating days of toilet training.
00:25Look, you've already done the poo-poo!
00:28Happy birthday!
00:29Happy birthday, guys!
00:32I want Jack to feel like he's my birthing partner.
00:36It's important that it's our moment.
00:39It's hard for me.
00:40I want to be fully involved.
00:42I want to be there.
00:43Her hair's under my ribs at the moment.
00:45I don't want to know if this is actually, I'm literally traumatised.
00:48When the new baby comes, how am I going to put two babies to sleep at the same time?
00:53He does what Aaron wants.
00:55He does his own thing.
00:56I get fed up of being told, like, I'm always doing the wrong thing,
00:58and I feel like that with you.
01:00I'm not doing this.
01:02I feel alone in a relationship.
01:05Well, there you go, that's your answer there, isn't it?
01:21Today's the day that I find out what my life's gonna look like now.
01:33You're one year old, baby.
01:36You're one year old, baby.
01:38You're one year old, girl.
01:40It is Teddy's fourth birthday today, but me and Matt are still in a really bad place after last week's
01:46argument.
01:47I don't know why Matt's in a foul mood, but he's doing my head in.
01:50Why be in a mood on your son's birthday?
01:52Just put a face on, like, faking.
01:55Put a smile on your face, even if you're not happy.
01:57I have to do that every day.
01:59Even with the tension between us, I still want Teddy to have a great day.
02:03Yay!
02:06Happy birthday!
02:13I hope Teddy likes all of his presents.
02:15I've been literally up all night.
02:18I've been so nervous for today.
02:23What's this?
02:25So this is, when we go out, it's...
02:29We can pluck bugs.
02:32Heepers!
02:35Not a dream!
02:38I can't look to me, not that bad!
02:41What are you doing, I can't wait?
02:49The presents didn't go to plan.
02:52Happy birthday to you!
02:55Luckily, Mum always knows what to get him.
02:59I'm a disappointment!
03:00Matt, skateboard!
03:02Skateboards!
03:03Wow!
03:05Go Teddy, go Teddy!
03:09It just feels like I can't win today.
03:12And breakfast isn't going any better.
03:16We want our pancakes!
03:19We want our pancakes!
03:21These pancakes are ruined!
03:22They're just falling apart!
03:24No!
03:25It's OK!
03:26We can make some more.
03:28Not put as much in?
03:30No, you...
03:30I put more.
03:31More?
03:32No, it was too gooey.
03:34What's worse is me and Matt are still at each other's throats.
03:39I'm doing it now!
03:41Just give me two seconds!
03:42Unless you weren't doing anything.
03:44I'm just getting the bag out for your aim.
03:46Why are you swearing and getting funny?
03:48I just said, I'm coming.
03:49Are you shouting at me?
03:49I wasn't shouting, I was just seeing you.
03:51I'm just taking the bag out.
03:51I just said, give me two minutes.
03:53It's all right, I was just trying to get the bag out for me.
03:55Yeah, but you're swearing under your breath at all.
03:58I'm just feeling so exhausted.
04:01It's a really hard situation.
04:03Like, my head's telling me to go and just do it on my own
04:07because I'd be happier than my heart is telling me to stay.
04:11And it's like, which one do you go with?
04:13Break free from your lives, I'm a warrior.
04:23Feels like I'm going in circles.
04:36Since me and Tyler fell out over my mum having a go at him,
04:39things have just gotten worse and worse.
04:43So, Tyler has left.
04:46I don't have, obviously, that extra two hands.
04:48It's me waking up to the night for you.
04:50It's me changing his nappies, me doing all his bottles.
04:53And it is challenging, it is, but...
04:56..I can do it.
05:02I feel like I need to go and speak to Tyler.
05:04All right, OK.
05:05See where we're going to end up.
05:08Is everything like that for little man?
05:10Well, I'll see.
05:11You might not be together now,
05:12but you've got to both be there for little one, haven't you?
05:15Oh, yes, we have.
05:16Oh, yes, we have.
05:18Are you all right having him?
05:19Yeah, of course I am.
05:20Obviously, us two just need to sit down and speak together.
05:23Yeah.
05:24So, obviously, I want it all to be civil, peaceful.
05:27Yeah, you've got to be grown up about it now.
05:29So, right, this is our son.
05:31This is what we want from it.
05:33And do it.
05:36I think I knew deep down it was not meant to be, really.
05:39But as long as his shape's up, as long as he's there for the baby,
05:45then, you know, they've both got to move on
05:47and just be there for little and realer.
05:51What if, obviously, you decide that you don't ever get back together?
05:54How are you going to feel like if he gets a girlfriend?
05:56Or, you know, how's he going to feel if you get a boyfriend?
06:00I'd murder him.
06:03Why, though?
06:04Obviously, you've got to move on.
06:10As long as he's still there for him, that's Tyler's priority.
06:14It's got to be.
06:16I hate the thought of Tyler moving on.
06:18It's making me think that I want to try again.
06:21I'm just a bit nervous, because, obviously, how's it all going to go?
06:24It's what the decision, basically, is going to be,
06:26if we're going to stay together, if we're not.
06:28I'm hoping it can all be resolved, but, obviously, you just never know.
06:37I've got him now, so...
06:38I'll go and do his bottle nurse from then.
06:40Yeah.
06:46When you come home with me
06:50I'll give you that fire deep inside
06:54And I know that you need me
06:57Khalil, up now, please.
06:59Khalil.
07:00You're tired.
07:02You're tired.
07:05Mum's still away for work,
07:06so I've been balancing finishing my studies
07:08and looking after Khalil all on my own.
07:11It's made me realise how much I rely on my circle of mum friends,
07:15so I've started a club called It Takes a Mum.
07:19I've been planning it for weeks, but our first meeting is today.
07:23I thought yoga would be a really good first activity because you can't be stressed in yoga.
07:29How can you be stressed in yoga?
07:30Like, you should leave feeling really relaxed and all stretched out.
07:32That is literally what we all need right now.
07:35As a mum, and even as expectant mums, we need it.
07:39Well, thank you, girls, for joining me today.
07:42It's lovely to have you here.
07:44Take a long breath in as you grow tall.
07:47And a slow breath out.
07:48Relax the shoulders down.
07:50And let's circle the arms up to the sky.
07:52Lifting the arms up.
07:54And here we'll gently sway the arms from side to side.
07:56Take it slow.
07:58Oh, this was nice.
08:02Big stretch up to the sky and exhale, release the arms down.
08:07Let's come to our butterfly pose.
08:09Oh, my God, this is as far down as I can go.
08:10It's a great release in the hip.
08:12Is it probably more flexible than me?
08:14I can't get my legs down.
08:16This is very painful.
08:18It's not very comfortable.
08:22Are you familiar with Downward Facing Dog?
08:24Yeah.
08:25Yes.
08:26Let the knees gently hover off the ground.
08:28Then I'm already lifting the hips up nice and high.
08:32Oh, I put that on my car.
08:34Oh, wait, I can do this.
08:40So, thank you all for joining me today.
08:42It's been a pleasure to host It Takes a Mum.
08:46Namaste.
08:47Namaste.
08:51I think the easiest part of that was the namaste at the end.
08:54I grabbed down here at one point and I thought, God save me.
08:59I would do it again, though, I think.
09:01Oh, yeah.
09:01Do you feel like you girls are coming out with a clearer head?
09:04Did you enjoy the sesh?
09:06I do feel a bit more like...
09:08Sin.
09:09Yeah, like, hmm.
09:09I feel like it was such an important thing to do.
09:12Even though we may have our insecurities and stuff, with yoga, you don't think about any of that.
09:17You're just thinking about your body and your mind as one.
09:19You're just really zen and, hmm.
09:21We've all got, like, kids, like, similar age as well.
09:24And it's nice because, like, I can talk to my mum and my sister.
09:27They had kids years ago.
09:28Yeah.
09:30I feel like the type of friendship that I have with the girls and it takes a mum is, like,
09:35something beyond friendship.
09:36Like, these are, like, sisters to me.
09:38And I feel like I have to trust them with, like, so much because I know that we're not just
09:42friends because we're all mums.
09:44Like, we're actually genuine friends.
09:46I'm grateful for all of you.
09:48Yeah.
09:48And we're not used to do this as a thing where we go, oh, we're going to start this mum's
09:51club, but then we never hear about it from two weeks later.
09:53I'm not going to be planning things.
10:11What's the story called?
10:12With my mummy.
10:13With my mummy.
10:15Me and Elizabeth Hope are having a girly night in together as Jack has gone over to his parents.
10:24Hello.
10:25You all right?
10:27I met you a couple.
10:29Chloe might know I'm going to my parents tonight, but she doesn't know the three of us have been keeping
10:34a secret from her.
10:40I'm going to be proposing to Chloe.
10:43I'm looking forward to it.
10:44I've been planning it for a while now.
10:46And, yeah, I'm just full of excitement.
10:48I can't wait to ask the question.
10:50So, what have you done with the ring then?
10:53I've got it, yeah.
10:54Let me look.
10:55Wow, they've really cleaned that up well, haven't they?
10:57It's so shiny.
10:58That ring was the one that my father gave to my mother, and then when I decided that I wanted
11:04to get married, my mother gave it to me to give to mum.
11:08Knowing Chloe, she's very sentimental, and it will mean a lot to her that it's got that family history, and
11:16it's like my family is accepting her.
11:20We want to just keep that tradition going, so when baby Wesley comes, you can pass him on to baby
11:26Wesley.
11:30This ring's got tradition and family history behind it, so it's nice that we've got a baby boy on the
11:36way as well, so this ring can be passed down again.
11:41I'm planning on keeping things secret and proposing at a family photo shoot I've organised.
11:48Right, so tell me more about Saturday.
11:50But my plan is, at the end of the family shoot, that's when I'll propose.
11:56I don't know if Chloe will cry.
11:58Oh, I think she will.
12:00Yeah.
12:00That's why I'm doing it at the end, because she's having all her make-up done.
12:04Yeah, I didn't think of that.
12:05I don't want to ruin the shoot for her if she does cry.
12:08Ooh, exciting.
12:10Mm-hmm.
12:14Yeah.
12:16I'm surprised that he's finally done it, because, you know, as a teenager, you know, we joked around that he
12:22was going to live with us forever.
12:23So to finally see him, you know, stepping up, I'm proud of him.
12:27You know, he's turned in no good luck.
12:30Well, I think you're picking the right girl.
12:32We always thought it was going to happen sooner or later.
12:34Yeah.
12:35It's clear that you make each other happy.
12:37Yeah.
12:37My hands might shake a bit.
12:39Your hands always shoot, don't they?
12:41Yeah, I know.
12:41I like it.
12:58It takes 30 minutes to drive there and back.
13:01How are we doing that?
13:02How are we doing that?
13:02We've got six car journeys.
13:03We'll work for the car to be rude.
13:04We're just going to be late then.
13:05Do you know what?
13:06I don't even care anymore.
13:06Don't worry about it.
13:07Don't give me that drama.
13:09It's Tino's first birthday today.
13:11I've spent months planning his party, but there's still so much to get ready.
13:17This has got to be the craziest thing we've ever done.
13:19Don't let go.
13:20Oh, how should I do this?
13:21Are you going to crawl in?
13:22Oh, I'm going to have to, aren't I?
13:23Yeah.
13:24Do you mind your hands?
13:27I'll go and get the other two sacks, shall I?
13:30Yeah, maybe one.
13:31It's going to take, you know, up to six car journeys because of the fact that, like, stuff
13:35up just isn't going to fit in my mum's small car.
13:38Do you put it in that front seat?
13:39Oh, they do?
13:39Yeah.
13:40That's fair.
13:40If I'm going to open the boot, would everything fly out, do you think?
13:43It is obviously stressful getting everything ready and making sure it's all there properly
13:46and sorted because I do just want things to run smoothly for him because I don't want
13:51to get stressed out because it will just stress him out.
13:53Don't give me that, don't give me that drama.
13:56When you get there, I'm going to have to send you a floor plan of how I want some of
13:59the
13:59tables and stuff because obviously the guy at the hole needs to know how to set it up.
14:03I don't want anyone touching any decorations until I am done because if anything gets broken
14:07or ruined, I'm not going to be happy.
14:09There's definitely tension up in the air.
14:11The media's a bit more stressed out than I am.
14:14So, yeah, it's up on my next house.
14:18Where's all his bags?
14:19The amp bag is in the back with everything in it.
14:22And his Valentino bag, where's that?
14:24We're finally on our way.
14:26I'm hoping we manage to get it all done in time as we're meant to be.
14:29There, like, now, pretty much.
14:39Trying to get everything ready in time has left me feeling totally overwhelmed before
14:44the party has even begun.
14:48Please don't get upset, darling.
14:50I get it.
14:50It's ruined.
14:51Everything is ruined.
14:55We can make the best of a bad thing.
14:57No, is it?
14:58Yeah, we can.
14:59You know we can.
15:00No, I don't want to have to do that.
15:02I shouldn't have to do that.
15:04I know.
15:06It will work out and he won't have a colour anyway.
15:08He'll enjoy it.
15:10But he will enjoy what he has.
15:12He will.
15:32I like your jeans.
15:33They're nice, aren't they?
15:37And the weight loss is definitely showing.
15:39You better be for all this pain I'm going through.
15:42My mum's finally back from her work trip and I've got some big news to tell her.
15:47Tell me what, while you're there, make your mum a cup of tea.
15:51I've got an offer from uni and had planned to have some time off before starting.
15:56But I've changed my mind and will now be starting this year.
16:01I think my mum would be over the moon.
16:03Like, she will stand up and scream and try and give me a hug and probably high-five me because
16:07she does that.
16:08I do have a little surprise that I've been meaning to tell you.
16:11I obviously wanted to wait until you're back.
16:13Really?
16:13Have you booked us a holiday?
16:15You're not getting a holiday for me while I'm a student.
16:17I understand that.
16:18You never know.
16:19Maybe you've done the scratch card.
16:23Can you read what that says now?
16:26Are you going?
16:27Yeah.
16:28Really?
16:29Oh, that's good news.
16:31Oh, I'm so happy.
16:32Come on, give us a hug.
16:33Oh, I do not need a hug.
16:35Come on.
16:35You can have a little bit of a soul.
16:37Well done, you.
16:39Oh, gosh, high-five.
16:41Oh, do you know what?
16:42I'm so happy.
16:43So I'm going to have a graduate soon.
16:48I mean, this is big, Whitney.
16:50You might think it's nothing, but believe you me, but you as a young mom having to juggle
16:55through all that.
16:56Come on, that's big.
17:01Oh, thank you for making me proud.
17:03No, you, thank you, honestly.
17:06I've done a good job.
17:08I've raised a princess and now a young queen.
17:13And now it's going to be a graduate.
17:18I have one very, very proud mother.
17:20And I'm so happy that she has made the right decision for herself.
17:28I started off as a pregnant 16-year-old.
17:31I didn't know what direction my life was going to take.
17:33And now I'm going to uni this year, which is crazy to me, considering where I started off.
17:39Like, when I was pregnant, I was getting judged.
17:41And I was like, well, I'm on my way to get my degree and my PhD.
17:46Congratulations.
17:47Thanks.
17:47And I'm so proud of you.
17:59Can you not go to your friend's house tonight?
18:07We've only just had Ted's birthday.
18:09And now we're days away from Jessie's birthday and christening.
18:12And things with Matt have all got too much.
18:16OK, that's fine.
18:17I'll stay at my mum's house.
18:18Earlier today, I told him I wanted him out.
18:21But until he finds somewhere to go, I've taken the kids to my mum's.
18:25I guess we're breaking up now.
18:27Me and Matt have broken up.
18:29I've told him that I don't want to be with him anymore.
18:31And that I'm done and I want him to go.
18:35Like, it's just come out my mouth.
18:37Like, I've actually said it.
18:39Like, it feels really weird to say it, but I've said it.
18:42And I feel happy that I've said it.
18:44There's no making up now.
18:47I guess we're breaking up now.
18:51He said I treat him like a dog on a leash and he's been trying the last two weeks to
18:54be better with me.
18:55What's the last two weeks?
18:57Two weeks. Two weeks don't do anything.
18:59And because you've changed being cold to him, he's realising that it's not nice.
19:02And that was my fault.
19:03They said, if you don't want me, tell me to go.
19:05And I was like, just go then.
19:07And he said to me, he's like, oh, she want me to go, do you?
19:09You want to end it all here, do you?
19:10I was like, yeah.
19:11I said, I do.
19:16He can't stay in that house, right?
19:18Then where does he go?
19:19You and your kids are here.
19:20I still care about him.
19:21I don't want him to be on his own.
19:22Curf!
19:23But it's right before the christening.
19:24Now the christening is going to be ruined.
19:26It's Jesse's first birthday.
19:28I think you've both got to be adult and grown up for the christening and Jesse's birthday.
19:34And then moving forward from there.
19:36I've got to stand up there with him.
19:38Do you think this is actually it?
19:39Yeah, look, it's done.
19:40Like, you're trying to look at me to say, oh, I'm breaking up with you.
19:43I told him to leave.
19:43I'm done.
19:52I'm not even sad.
19:54I don't even feel sad.
19:55I don't feel emotional.
19:56I feel like I could fly.
19:59Like, I feel like so much weight has been relieved off of me now that I've ended it,
20:05which is weird because I never thought I'd say that.
20:08I know that it's right for me and the kids.
20:11That's what I said, didn't I?
20:12You get to that point and you just know it's right.
20:14I feel like I mentally left before I left.
20:17Yeah.
20:17Like, my mind clocked out ages ago.
20:37Me and Tyler haven't been talking, so I've asked him to meet up today so we can sort everything out.
20:43I'm just a bit nervous because, obviously, how's it all going to go?
20:46Is there going to be a big argument?
20:48You don't know.
20:49You never know with Tyler.
20:50So, hopefully, it's just going to be nice and calm because, at the end of the day, we're both there
20:54for the baby.
20:56I'm hoping it's going to be all good.
20:59I just want it all sorted for Carter James, no matter if we get back together or not.
21:09What's going to happen, obviously, now, then, with the baby, I'm still going to get to seeing him.
21:14Things need to change between us, stop arguing.
21:17Just think about the little one.
21:18It's easier to have to ruin it.
21:20Mm-hmm.
21:21We need to be better people.
21:23Obviously, I can't just say it.
21:25We've both got to do it.
21:25No, yeah, obviously, I agree with you.
21:31Me, personally, it's no good, me coming to your house.
21:35No.
21:36It's a lot better with us meeting up at places, little things like that.
21:40Like, you constantly think that you're doing everything, and that's why it causes us to argue.
21:43Does it be?
21:44But then, that's when we need to start doing things together, not on your own.
21:49Yeah, but you don't answer the phone.
21:51Really?
21:51The other day, I tried to ring you to show me you were smiling, laughing.
21:55And you said you were your mates.
21:56That is what you said.
21:58It's not nice.
21:59But it's not just me.
22:01It's the both of us.
22:01Right, so what do I need to start?
22:02You tell me that.
22:04Your attitude.
22:06How can I start my attitude out when you're not being the three?
22:08You need to stop thinking, like, when I'm with my mates, that I'm going to meet the girls and stuff.
22:13Right, but why be your mates?
22:14Why be your mates?
22:14Why not say, can I come and see my son?
22:16Because I don't want to go to your house.
22:17Right, well, you're never saying we want to meet up somewhere.
22:22So what's your excuse, though?
22:23I've got an excuse.
22:26You see, it's what you get.
22:29The ministry between me and you is I'm always doing something wrong.
22:32No, but...
22:32I feed him, I change him, I buy him things.
22:36The things you don't realise, it feels like you're just pushing me out to my baby's life.
22:40I'm not pushing you out.
22:45No, but it's just a lot of things you do, like cheating.
22:51I cannot believe he's actually just said that.
23:07We've finally arrived for Tino's party, but I didn't have time to decorate the venue and it's nothing like what
23:14I pictured in my head for his first birthday.
23:17I just feel like I'm laying him down.
23:19I can't help but feel upset about it.
23:22I just kind of, I keep trying to make it as good as I can and feel as good as
23:26I can about it, but it's not working.
23:29Calm down.
23:30No, I'm still not happy with it.
23:31I wanted this to run nice for myself as well.
23:34Yeah, yeah.
23:36But it just doesn't seem to happen, so...
23:38At least he, you know, he's happy.
23:41That's the main thing.
23:42Yeah, he's having fun.
23:42He's not going to know nothing of it.
23:44But I had a terrible birth, which was a terrible day, and a whole year later I've had another terrible
23:47day.
23:48So, bro.
23:48But it was, like, the major thing was why I wanted this day to, like, run so smooth.
23:53Yeah.
23:54It's because I had such a bad birth that I wanted to repair that, make myself feel a little bit
23:58better, that I don't even remember his birth.
24:00And if anything, I would say the stress of this was worse.
24:04It's just terrible.
24:05It's a lot to do with, obviously, being pregnant as well, but it's not even just the pregnancy.
24:10It's that I really wanted this day to be special, and it, like, feels like that completely got taken away
24:14from me and hasn't happened at all.
24:16Happy birthday to you, happy birthday to you.
24:23When Mum brings out his cake, I just feel I've reached my limit.
24:28Happy birthday to you.
24:32Yay!
24:37Where are you going?
24:45Amelia can't be controlled.
24:46I haven't been able to control her since she was 10.
24:49So, at the age she is now, there's no way I'm even going to go there, if I'm honest with
24:53you, you know.
24:54I just watch and just be aware and ready if she needs me.
25:02No, you're just not.
25:03No one's going to get it.
25:03You're not going to get it.
25:05No, no.
25:06I can't ever get this back.
25:08No, can I.
25:08It's done now.
25:26There was a time I couldn't be in this kitchen while you were cooking.
25:29Yeah, when you're pregnant.
25:31Yeah, no.
25:33Since being with my long-distance boyfriend, Josh, I've been doing monthly pregnancy tests, as I know contraception's never 100%.
25:42It is one of those things, isn't it?
25:45And the other day, I was sick at college.
25:48This could ruin all my plans of going to uni.
25:53I think any time that I'm sick, there is always that worry, oh my gosh, what if I'm pregnant?
25:57Because obviously, I had really bad nausea and morning sickness with Khalil before I even knew that he was in
26:01my stomach.
26:02So now it's like twice as worse when I'm thinking about it.
26:05So today, I'm doing a pregnancy test.
26:08It's just, contraception is never 100%.
26:11But it's better to know.
26:12Yeah.
26:13Touch wood, there is no baby.
26:15But how do you feel if I was?
26:18To be honest, the same way I felt when you were with Khalil is the same way I'm just going
26:21to feel.
26:22That's a lie.
26:22Say you're going to be disappointed.
26:23Say you're going to be angry.
26:24No.
26:25If I was not angry the first time or disappointed the first time, what makes you think?
26:29Be angry on my behalf, then.
26:30No.
26:31I will be welcoming a grandchild or two grandkids because you know this family history of twins.
26:37This is the reality of it.
26:38If I was to have a baby now, I would not finish uni.
26:41And I know this.
26:42I'm telling you this is a fact.
26:43This is a reality.
26:43Why don't you go and do the test and then we can take it from there?
26:46Good luck, Whitney.
26:48Don't make me a grandmother of two or three.
26:53Oh, dear God.
27:00A new baby would have fit my life, like, in a very negative way.
27:03Like, I would back up and do what I need to do.
27:05But, like, I just don't want another child right now.
27:08Like, I want to finish my education.
27:10And it's just not in my plan to be looking after a newborn baby at the moment.
27:25Shall I close my eyes?
27:27I'm closing mine.
27:28I'm not looking regardless.
27:48Did my first soul do that?
27:50No, it didn't.
27:51It was all...
27:51You look confused.
27:52Good, because that's what I wanted.
27:54Let's just double check, because you can't read.
27:57I'm so glad it's negative.
27:59I wasn't ready to be pregnant again.
28:02I'm going to put this up as a trophy next to my...
28:05Next to my qualifications.
28:08Finding out, like, the test was negative did kind of give me that more, like, oh, my gosh,
28:12I'm actually quite excited for uni, and I would have been so upset had the test been positive,
28:16and it meant I couldn't go.
28:18I got to the point where I wanted to get to, like, I can't wait.
28:22Today's a beautiful day.
28:24The uni and now this.
28:41Cheaton.
28:41Yeah.
28:43Texting lads and stuff.
28:46I wanted to sort out how we co-parent for Carter James, but now Ty was accusing me of cheating
28:51on him.
28:53When I was pregnant, you messaged your girls.
28:56When I gave birth, you were messaging them.
28:57I found at least 12 girls on your phone that I could think of.
29:00Yeah, you have.
29:01You've seen a few girls who I have texted before.
29:03Only what you've done the same.
29:05No, I'm not.
29:05The day you found out you was pregnant, you was texting a lad.
29:08I found that out.
29:09No, you wasn't.
29:09Then I started texting people, yeah, I did, because I couldn't trust you.
29:11Why didn't you say to me that day, we're calling it here?
29:14Why didn't you say that?
29:15Because I loved you and I'm having a child with you, obviously.
29:17But you're loving me, so why didn't you message all these other girls?
29:19Why didn't you message other lads?
29:20I didn't.
29:21No, I didn't.
29:24Me getting accused cheating, it was being like, what?
29:27Like, yeah, I do our boy mates.
29:29I'm not saying I don't, odd time, speak to one, but it's never anything like that, and
29:35he knows that for a fact.
29:36I think because he does it, he believes that I do it.
29:40I didn't come here to argue.
29:42What I need to know is that he's going to be here for Kurt James and will step up and
29:45just be a dad.
29:47Why do you have more legal rights than me?
29:49Because I look after him day and night.
29:51Yeah, but only because you choose to and you don't let him come to me.
29:53You're the one that walked out.
29:54You don't let me see him, you won't let me take him out.
29:56I do let you see him, don't use that one at me.
29:57You will not let me take him out.
30:01Why should you not?
30:02I'm his dad.
30:03Who's buying all his clothes?
30:04Who's buying his milk?
30:05Sorry, I'm out of work.
30:06I'm sorry.
30:08I give you money all the time, you actually only give me £30.
30:11No, you don't, Tyler.
30:11Like when I always get money, you're asking me, you're telling me what I have to give you.
30:15Yeah.
30:16You know, it shouldn't be like that.
30:17You don't tell me what you want, I give for my kids.
30:19Whether it was only £20 I give or £2.50, it's still better than giving him nothing.
30:24I don't work, I don't have the sort of income.
30:26Right, so milk's £10 each, Tyler.
30:28I pay that.
30:29Yeah.
30:30Do I work?
30:30It's not my fault I have lost my job.
30:32Are you making it like I'm never going to give nothing for my child?
30:34It's not my fault I've no one in, I'm not working.
30:36But when I'm working, you'll be wanting every penny I've got.
30:38And that's the simple fact of you.
30:39Right, you know what, you don't need to give me no money, I don't want nothing off you.
30:43I'll carry on doing what I'm doing for him.
30:45And when he's older, he's got everything.
30:46Scrumming it off your mum.
30:47I don't, I don't, mum doesn't give me a penny, you cheeky man.
30:53You're cheeky.
30:53Like mother, like daughter.
30:55Yeah, no worries.
30:56Yeah, it is.
30:57Walk away, because I don't want to know you anymore.
30:59Good.
30:59Good.
31:01I despise you.
31:02I despise you?
31:02You're just trying to take off, you're just trying to use, baby's a weapon.
31:07Best we don't speak to each other from now.
31:09It is better.
31:10A lot better.
31:12See you later.
31:13You're a screw-up anyway.
31:19Nothing's cleared.
31:20Nothing's been sorted.
31:21Nothing's gone better.
31:24You just wouldn't think he's a dad that loves his son.
31:27Just because of the way he is, the way he speaks to me, he's awful.
31:30It obviously hurt, because I buy them to this happy family, and at the moment it's just not.
31:37I wish I could never have to see him again.
31:38I'm not doing that because it's not fair on Carter.
32:00I'm proposing to Chloe at a photo shoot on Saturday, but for my plan to go smoothly, I'm going
32:06to need her mum, Liz's help.
32:09Hi.
32:10Hi, how are you?
32:11Yeah, I'm good.
32:12Good.
32:13So I'm going to be doing it on Saturday at the photo shoot.
32:17Wow.
32:18Yeah.
32:19So, towards the end, I'm going to be proposing.
32:24Okay.
32:24And if you can just stand with Elizabeth Hope.
32:28Are you going to be like, give me a little bit of a wink?
32:31Yeah.
32:32Yeah.
32:33It's a go?
32:34Yeah.
32:36Oh my God, I can't believe it.
32:38I'm so excited for you both.
32:40Yeah.
32:41You know, she's got Elizabeth Hope, she's got a new baby on the way, she's got a man that
32:45loves them both, and then, you know, then she's going to get married.
32:50You know, if she could write her life, this would be how she would write it.
33:04She's over the moon with it, and we spoke about a plan for what's happening Saturday,
33:09and Liz is just as excited as me, so it's nice.
33:14In the same way that my family accept Chloe, Liz and Chloe's family accept me.
33:21I'm so excited for Saturday, it's going to be so good.
33:24Yeah.
33:25Yeah, I can't wait.
33:27See you later.
33:28Bye!
33:28Bye.
33:47It's Tino's first birthday, but it hasn't gone how I imagined it, and I felt miserable
33:52all day.
33:56I feel like the whole day's just been ruined, and then by me then getting upset about the
34:01fact that the day's been ruined, it makes it feel even more ruined, but there's nothing
34:04I can do about that.
34:06I'm feeling a little better now, but I'll never be able to get today back.
34:12A lot of stress.
34:13Yeah, it is a lot of stress, but I just felt like no matter how today went, it was just
34:17going wrong from the get-go.
34:19So, it is how it is.
34:24I get where she's coming from, it's obviously her first son's birthday party, but really
34:29it was about him, really, so as long as he had fun, it's the main point.
34:36So, words don't mean a thing.
34:39It's happening.
34:40I know, but it's just not how I wanted it.
34:42It's all about him.
34:44Yeah, I know, it's all about him, but what I'm saying is that I just feel like, from what
34:50I do, I've done it, that's gone.
34:51If you're charging us, that's what you can do.
34:54Yeah.
34:57I don't know, it just feels like it's all just rushed and a mess, and, yeah, I hate
35:04it.
35:07Everything about this party just went wrong from start to finish, and it's really upset
35:12me, to be fair, like, I mean, I'm never, ever going to get this day back, and I'm now always
35:18going to remember his first birthday as this mess of everything I didn't want.
35:45Jack's convinced me to do a family photo shoot before the new baby arrives.
35:50Come in, come in.
35:51Hello.
35:53He was like, we've got to get these pictures done.
35:55We will regret it if we don't.
35:57You can go get your hair and makeup done.
35:59I'll sort everything out.
36:00Please, can we do this?
36:02So, Jack's done it all, really.
36:03Bring your stuff through here.
36:04I think it'd be a shame not to document this time in our life, because, you know, it might
36:12not happen again.
36:13We're going to take some family pictures.
36:15We're going to get into our outfits at the photographer's house.
36:19Then he's taking us to a local beauty spot to take the pictures.
36:22Towards the end of it, I'm going to propose to Chloe, and, yeah, I feel like she's got
36:29no idea.
36:30The only people that know is my parents, and Chloe's mum was also here.
36:36You look great.
36:38You look, honestly, you look really nice.
36:39Put this on, keep warm.
36:41Bye.
36:42So, we're going outside now, aren't we?
36:46I never look like that pregnant.
36:48You look beautiful.
36:49I feel like a bowling ball.
36:50You know, you're a lovely shape.
36:52It's been hell keeping it a secret.
36:54Like, anyone that knows me knows I can't help me on pee.
36:57But I've managed it.
36:59Here he is, look.
37:01Everyone's dressed for the shoot.
37:03I'm nervous, but it's time to go for it.
37:06I'm 90% sure she'll say yes.
37:10Obviously, there's a chance she won't.
37:12But I'm really excited to propose.
37:15I feel like Chloe's going to be very shocked.
37:18And, yeah, I can't wait.
37:20The time's come.
37:21I'm ready.
37:47I'm ready.
37:50This will be the first time I've seen him since we broke up.
37:55Hello.
37:56Hello.
37:58All right?
37:59Yeah.
38:00Hello, my boy.
38:05Hello, dude.
38:07Whoa.
38:09I've never felt like this when we've ended it before.
38:11Like, I've never been so, like, free.
38:14Like, before, I'd be upset and, like, regretting my decision the next day.
38:16Like, have I done the right thing?
38:17Have I done the right thing?
38:18But today, I've just woken up and I just know that I've done the right thing.
38:21What's going on with your hair?
38:23You had a nap.
38:25Too much, isn't it?
38:27He's packing up his things and I don't want to argue.
38:30I just want him gone.
38:33I'm just going to pat Wagnerley.
38:35I've got sort of loads out anyway.
38:36Come and get out of here.
38:38Right, fine.
38:39I'll take him.
38:40You can speak to Ted.
38:42Daddy, Dad, Dad!
38:43Bye-bye, boys.
38:44Daddy's going.
38:46Daddy's going to go sleep somewhere else, OK?
38:49He's even taken back the engagement ring he gave me.
38:53Matt, why is it always the first thing you take is my ring every time?
38:58OK, the reason is I'm going to go sell it because I've got to give you money.
39:02At the end of the day, Ainge, we're not together.
39:04That's fine.
39:04You don't want to be engaged, yes?
39:07No, it's over.
39:08Yeah.
39:08The ring I give you...
39:10That's the fact that it's the first thing.
39:12No, no, no, no, because Ainge, will you...
39:13It's fine.
39:17Matt said my engagement ring back, so he just literally took the engagement ring.
39:20That's the first thing he did.
39:22And he was like, I might not be able to afford to pay you for the kids for a while
39:25because I need to find myself again.
39:26I was like, yeah, that's fine, I get it.
39:29So where are you staying tomorrow night?
39:32Up there going out tomorrow.
39:33Oh, look, I've only got to stay around for a couple of weeks and I'll be gone.
39:35Where are you going, though?
39:36Why are you moving away for?
39:38You've got your family here.
39:40I've got Ted and Jess, not my family.
39:42What?
39:42I've got these two here, yes?
39:44That should be your main priority.
39:46This is my call, my decision, yeah?
39:48I've got to find somewhere to live.
39:49I can't live on my own because I can't afford it on my own.
39:52What about the kids?
39:53Well, what can I do, Ainge?
39:54I can't live around here.
39:55Yes, you can.
39:55You don't want to live around here.
39:57Oh, that's the thing.
39:58There's a difference between you can't and you don't want to.
40:00Listen, Ainge, Ainge, it's got nothing to do with you anymore.
40:02That's fine.
40:03I'll be living on my own.
40:05I'll be all right.
40:06Oh, nice.
40:12Matt's staying around here for a few weeks and he's going.
40:14He's found somewhere to rent somewhere else or something like that,
40:17but he's not telling me nothing, which is fine.
40:19If that's how he wants to be, he could be like that.
40:21I don't care.
40:23But he's just been very secretive about everything.
40:27If that's how he wants to be, that's fine.
40:44It's been off and on for years and we always knew this was the case.
40:47Like, we weren't really meant for each other.
40:52But I feel like we probably did it for the kids more than each other.
40:55We don't like each other really as people.
41:04Daddy's going now.
41:05I miss you.
41:07You'll be a good boy, okay?
41:08Yeah, Daddy.
41:10You'll be a good boy?
41:11I hope you're the best and I hope she finds someone who makes her happy.
41:15Obviously, I'm not the man for that.
41:17I've tried, but I just don't feel like I'll ever be good enough
41:20and whatever I do for her is never going to be enough.
41:24So, yeah.
41:27Bye.
41:32If you're really gone, there's nothing left to say.
41:47Whitney's going to uni in September.
41:49Yay!
41:51Living free was all we know, but now we're still going to fall out.
41:58Ain't no feeling like we're used to.
42:04Oh, you're getting big, ain't you?
42:07You've had a kid.
42:08You step up now.
42:09You're a good dad.
42:11And that's all I can really say.
42:12Mummy exhaust you.
42:14It causes me too, lad.
42:23I'm trying to have a nice conversation and you were trying to make an argument out of it.
42:25You can't even just grow up and just have a conversation.
42:28I'm trying.
42:28You're not, though.
42:29I'm not having a conversation with you like that.
42:31I ain't doing it, Ainge.
42:31I'm not talking to you.
42:32If you're just going to say everything I do is wrong, yeah?
42:36We're so proud of you.
42:39You're so much, sir.
42:42Just listen to your body.
42:44That's it.
42:45Well done.
42:47Well done.
42:47Here he comes.
42:48There he is.
42:50Well done.
42:54He is a beautiful baby.
42:56He's...
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