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00:10It's supposed to be bedtime we're back and we've brought some new teen mum friends along
00:18it's like a roller coaster that is cheeky which means new babies
00:26lots of new babies
00:35and some not so new what do you say thank you no no thank you you need to say sorry
00:43shall we all have a family cuddle we're still finding our feet i've just squeezed out my
00:51heart you can fight this bomb i'm sometimes losing our minds
00:56oh it's just one thing after another walk away i don't know you anymore i was crying my eyes out
01:06all night we're gonna use the toilet oh my god he's locked himself in there do you not think we've
01:11lost our connection a little bit i'm not doing this but our lives are never boring oh that's good news
01:21oh god high five it's your big day today i baptize you he's just perfect i love you so much
01:33that was good my life's just changed my hormones are all over the place
02:03i'm leone i'm 16 years old and i'm 35 weeks pregnant
02:10It seems crazy that in a few weeks I'll be a mum to a baby boy, Carter James.
02:15I am very nervous to become a mum.
02:17Am I going to hear him crying at night?
02:19Am I going to be able to make his potholes?
02:21When am I going to know he needs feeding?
02:23When am I going to know when he's napping, he's changing?
02:25Is he going to love me?
02:28Just everything goes through your mind when you're going to become a mum.
02:32Carter James' dad is called Tyler and we met nine months ago.
02:37So I actually met Tyler on a bus.
02:42And they just looked at me and I said, what are you looking at?
02:45I thought, what are you looking at? Like, don't look at me like that.
02:48And then we just started talking.
02:50And then things just went from there really, it kind of happened all so fast.
02:55But not everyone was pleased to find out about my pregnancy.
03:00When I found out she was pregnant, I was ready for killing them both.
03:07In the end, we've come round to it. I've done the crying, I've done all that.
03:13Oh, you've ruined your life and all this.
03:15And now, I think it's the best thing what could ever happen to Leona.
03:20Me and Tyler live at home with my parents.
03:23You missed a bit over there.
03:24You want to do it yourself?
03:26No, I'll watch you.
03:27Me and my mum is literally like my best friend.
03:32We argue like mad.
03:33It's definitely not right.
03:34It's falling down.
03:36Mum, mum, mum.
03:36Well, I do. I love mum to bits.
03:47I can't wait to become a mum.
03:49But I'm really nervous.
04:01And it looks like I won't have to wait long, because I think I'm in labour.
04:05I feel something up here and all.
04:07What kind of pain is it?
04:09I don't know.
04:11I've started feeling pains from last night at 12 o'clock.
04:16And they just keep getting stronger and stronger at night.
04:24Right, it's okay.
04:29We spoke to the hospital now at triage and they've given her a numbering and everything.
04:34They've said go up.
04:35So, we're going to get up to the hospital and, well, see when he's born.
04:40I don't know.
04:42Want me to ring Tyler?
04:44Not yet.
04:45While I've run up merging him, I'll do it.
04:47He's going to want to know though, love.
04:48Oh, pass me my phone.
04:50It's up to you.
04:54Hello.
04:56Where are you?
05:00Hello.
05:01Tyler, she's starting off in labour, love.
05:05She is?
05:06Yeah, yeah.
05:07Oh, why is he so happy?
05:09You're having a baby.
05:11Right, I'll give you a bell from hospital.
05:14All right.
05:14Yeah, all right, love.
05:15All right, see you in a bit.
05:16Why is he not that polite to me?
05:19Oh.
05:21Please don't touch my back.
05:23Okie dokie.
05:24Oh.
05:32I'm never going through this pain again.
05:36Well, you said you were on a football team.
05:38No.
05:39Not anymore.
05:39OK.
05:41It's in.
05:42Oh.
05:43What?
05:43I'm going to care.
05:44The heated seat's not on.
05:46Wow.
05:46Put it on.
05:47I can't believe I'm about to give birth.
05:51Ah.
05:52Well, not expecting this today, were we?
06:02I just want to tell you that I'm going crazy.
06:09All I think about is you.
06:13I've been a mum of two for eight months, and I love it.
06:18Ah!
06:20Hi, Kevin.
06:22Jesse is now crawling around and finding his feet.
06:26He is growing so much.
06:32And Teddy is four years old and finally sleeping in his own room.
06:37Teddy is growing up so fast.
06:41It's crazy to think he's done four.
06:48But having two kids isn't easy.
06:52Especially when Teddy has a tantrum.
06:56He's always had a temper on him, and he's always had that lashing out.
07:01You're not listening.
07:03But he's getting bigger now, and he knows how to use his hands and his teeth.
07:08I do worry about Teddy's behaviour rubbing off on Jesse.
07:12And their dad's behaviour hasn't been great this last year either.
07:19Matt left me about four times in the space of two months.
07:24Just up and left and didn't want to be with me anymore.
07:27And we had an incident when he was on a night out.
07:32He kissed somebody else.
07:41It's just trying to get over that now and trying to move forward.
07:46We are putting the past behind us and focusing on our future together as a family of four.
07:54But it's not easy to work on a relationship when one of you is never there.
08:02You've just got Mummy, Jessie and Teddy tonight.
08:06What?
08:07Because Daddy's working, remember?
08:09I'm sick and tired, I'm missing you.
08:11Matt's got a new job, but he's working all the time.
08:16I don't really see Matt very often.
08:18I maybe see him one day on the weekend, on a Sunday, and maybe once in the week and evening,
08:23that's probably about it.
08:24I'm sick and tired.
08:26It makes me feel quite lonely at times.
08:29I've got a cold, but with two kids to entertain, I don't have any time to rest.
08:35We don't... Look, Jessie, we don't bite.
08:40No, that's not a nice hand.
08:42You all right, Ted?
08:45You don't hurt Teddy.
08:46Can Jessie hurt my hand?
08:48Should we have it better?
08:51Jessie, no bite.
08:54Oh, I don't want to be touched today.
08:56No, Jessie!
08:59No!
09:02Hello?
09:04Say hi.
09:05Hi, my boy.
09:07Say hi.
09:10Do you think you'll be late home tonight?
09:13You know what I'm saying?
09:14It could be 10 o'clock, it could be 6 in the morning.
09:17Late it will be...
09:186 in the morning?
09:19No, you've got to be, I need to try to sit down there.
09:22All right, well, I love you.
09:24I love you too after that.
09:25Bye.
09:27Bye, bye.
09:34It's so hard managing everything on my own.
09:37I feel like a single parent sometimes.
09:40Dad!
09:55My baby boy, Khalil, isn't a baby anymore.
09:59Look, you need to hold mummy's hand.
10:01Khalil!
10:03I've now got a toddler and the terrible twos are real.
10:08I feel like toddler life is so much harder than newborn life.
10:17As much as I complain about his toddler stage, he's like the most perfect toddler you could ask for.
10:21He's funny, he listens, he's actually quite helpful when he wants to be.
10:28And I'm growing up too.
10:30I'm in my final year of college.
10:33So I've got six exams coming up in about 60 days to go.
10:39I've got them all on my countdown app because those are things I keep on top of.
10:43They're important stuff.
10:4460 days is not a lot, so I'm getting quite worried.
10:47The pressure's really getting on.
10:51And I couldn't do it without my mum's help.
10:55I couldn't imagine my life without the support my mum does give me.
10:58But she's no longer the only shoulder I lean on.
11:04A year ago, me, Ur, hate men, they're all horrible, nasty, don't have anything to do with them, don't care
11:10for them.
11:10And now I'm in a very loving relationship.
11:14I met Josh three months ago, but he lives in Leeds and I live in Portsmouth.
11:20I hate the long distance aspect of the relationship.
11:23Why are you that far away?
11:25And then whenever I have to go up to see him when he's up there, it's a six hour journey
11:29and I don't drive.
11:37That's yours, it's your sandwich.
11:39You want to be called Josh?
11:40Yeah.
11:42Josh has met Khalil and they get on really well.
11:46The fact he has taken to Khalil so well, even though he's not got a kid of himself, that was
11:51such a green flag for me.
11:54Hey, how you doing?
11:54Hi.
11:55Hi, Josh.
11:56Look.
11:57Hey, Khalil, you all right?
11:59I'm good.
12:01I'm good.
12:02Do you know what he did this morning?
12:04No, what?
12:04He did a poo in my shower.
12:07I respect it. At least he didn't want a bath this time.
12:09It was in the bath.
12:11Yeah, but not only is he getting a bath.
12:12Yeah.
12:14How's college?
12:15It's not bad, but I've got coursework due on Friday, so I'm stressing out.
12:20Because Khalil's not been going to bed until like eight, nine, because you know what Khalil's like.
12:23Yeah.
12:23So, I don't know how I'm going to get that done, but do you want to help me with it?
12:27Do you want to do it for me?
12:28No, I'm going to be at work.
12:30All right.
12:31The girl can dream.
12:32Yeah.
12:33How's your week been?
12:34It's all right, just busy.
12:36Have you missed me?
12:37Have you been heartbroken thinking you haven't seen me?
12:39Yeah.
12:40Yeah, pass.
12:40Correct answer.
12:41Correct answer.
12:42Yeah.
12:46All right.
12:47I'm about to get this one done.
12:48Yeah, ma'am.
12:48You say bye-bye, Josh.
12:50Bye-bye.
12:50See you all right, Flo.
12:52See you soon.
12:53Bye-bye.
12:54I mean, this is the part where you tell me you love me.
12:56Yeah, I didn't say bye to you yet.
12:58Oh, okay.
12:59Sorry.
12:59Okay, we can redo that.
13:00Go.
13:00You can say it now.
13:01Bye-bye.
13:02Love you.
13:02Love me too.
13:03Bye.
13:08What's that?
13:10It's a smile.
13:11Yes.
13:12Yeah.
13:13Gonna see Josh soon.
13:15I feel so lucky to have found someone who cares for my son.
13:18I just wish he lived closer.
13:36I'm Amelia, I'm 19 years old, and I have an almost one-year-old Valentino.
13:43Being a mum has definitely changed my life.
13:45We're taking over.
13:48What are you telling me now?
13:50Valentino is exactly like me.
13:52He is just as fiery, just as dramatic as I am.
13:58We are both probably the loudest people in every single room.
14:04I love him so much.
14:05Like, I don't know what I'd do without him now.
14:07Like, he is literally my best friend.
14:10And if he wasn't enough of a handful, I'm 16 weeks pregnant.
14:17It is crazy that I'm gonna have two under two very, very soon.
14:21It's definitely gonna be hard.
14:26I'm not doing it alone, though.
14:28I live with my boyfriend, Aaron, who I adore.
14:31He also has a son from a previous relationship, and with another on the way, we're gonna have our hands
14:36full.
14:38So I really need him to step up.
14:45I feel like he's gotten very comfortable with me doing a lot for him, because I know he's more than
14:50capable of, like, tidying up after himself, looking after himself, doing things for himself.
14:55I mean, he's a chef, but what, can never cook, and I have to always cook? That doesn't make any
14:59sense, does it?
15:00Is that too much to ask for?
15:03Sometimes I do feel like he behaves a little bit like a child, and I can't hope for that.
15:09Being a dad is obviously great. I love my kids. I wouldn't change my world.
15:13Trying to find a balance, obviously, with home life and, obviously, work life.
15:18It can be quite hard.
15:20Working long hours is tiring, and, obviously, I do want to come home and just relax every now and then.
15:27I know he's more than capable of looking after Valentina, and he does an amazing job when he's doing stuff
15:31with him.
15:32But it would be nice not to have to say, oh, can you help me out with this?
15:35Because you're not helping out, you're a dad, that's your dog, that's what you're doing.
15:40Give me that back!
15:42Give me that back!
15:45Give me that back!
15:46Should we go get Daddy up in a minute?
15:48Yeah?
15:49He got us out, there's a secret
15:52I am stressing out.
15:54Today is our gender reveal, and Aaron promised to be up early to help, but he's still fast asleep in
16:00bed.
16:02Mamam!
16:03Is he dad there?
16:06Come on, then.
16:08Yeah, should we get Daddy up?
16:10Yay!
16:13Aaron?
16:14You wanna try?
16:16You try first.
16:17You got me running wild, you make me feel alive.
16:21You need to get up.
16:24Yeah.
16:25You need to get ready.
16:28All right, I'll give you five minutes then.
16:30Get up. Up, up.
16:32Yeah?
16:33And get dressed.
16:37He doesn't listen.
16:38You'll be telling him, get up, get up, Aaron, and he'll just close his eyes again.
16:41So then you end up realising you're literally shouting to get someone out of bed like you're their mum.
16:46Are you up?
16:47Yeah, I'm not.
16:50I do get really angry with the way Aaron behaves sometimes.
16:53I know I need to be understanding in the fact that obviously he's at work and I'm not, but at
16:58the same time he definitely could help me out more.
17:02I've put so much work into this gender reveal and he doesn't seem to care if it happens or not.
17:07Yeah, we got through it or we gon' lose it.
17:11Yeah, we gon' lose it.
17:13Oh, oh.
17:17It's amazing how everything around me's changing.
17:22Yeah, I used to be a little crazy, but lately you take me.
17:28Elizabeth Hope is already three years old and she's definitely finding a voice.
17:37She's a little bit cheeky, a lot bit cheeky.
17:40And she's just so intelligent and really inquisitive about the world and her favourite word is why.
17:47You've seen a unicorn?
17:49She's just the best thing that's ever happened to me.
17:58You've become a bit of a nightmare and I don't stand for it because I've got her in the eyes.
18:03All right, all right.
18:05Last time you saw me, I was still living at home with my mum.
18:09But that's all changed.
18:11When I'm at the door, I'm living.
18:13Yeah, it comes up, I'm slipping.
18:14As Jack and I have bought our own place.
18:18I love living with Jack, it is literally the best thing ever.
18:22I love that I've got my independence, my own life, my own space.
18:28But there are some times that I do wish I could have a cuddle from my mum.
18:38And an even bigger life change was getting my endometriosis surgery.
18:43I came out of it quite heartbroken.
18:46My ovaries were affected.
18:49That was always my biggest fear.
18:51The surgeon basically said to us that we had 12 to 18 months if we wanted a baby.
18:58Now's like the best time to try.
19:02And now I have the biggest news of all.
19:07Our little family of three is about to become a family of four because me, Jack and Elizabeth
19:12are expecting a little baby.
19:16I'm 20 weeks along and we found out the gender the other day.
19:22We're having a little boy which is just absolutely incredible.
19:26One of each.
19:27And I just can't wait to have a little mini Jack.
19:33Make a ball, make a ball, make a ball.
19:35Please.
19:37How many is that?
19:39One.
19:40Two.
19:44Up until now this pregnancy has been really tough.
19:47But I'm finally feeling like myself again.
19:50I feel like I've not had a break.
19:52I literally had my surgery and just as I felt like I was getting over the surgery,
19:55felt pregnant.
19:58It's been hard when you've been sick a lot.
20:03I don't feel like we've had hardly any of us time in the past four, five months.
20:10You can't ask me for your dog.
20:14But it'll be worth it in the end.
20:16It will.
20:17We've gone past the danger bit now.
20:21There's no safe zone in pregnancy though.
20:23It's just scary.
20:26I wanna show you all the things I've seen.
20:31With my health conditions and my anxiety, I spent all of my first pregnancy terrified.
20:37And Jack wasn't around to see that.
20:39And I don't think he fully understands it.
20:42All the way through Elizabeth Hope's pregnancy, I did not think I'd get a healthy baby at the end of
20:46it.
20:46And I'm just really trying to push them thoughts in the back of my head.
20:49Like, I know baby's happy, baby's healthy.
20:55And that's just what I keep trying to tell myself.
20:57Sometimes I feel we're all in a dream.
21:04You and I, you and I, you and I, you and I, you and I, there's nothing like our love,
21:13you and I.
21:14You have a good night of sleep?
21:16Yeah.
21:17Sleep better?
21:19Daddy go to work in a minute.
21:20Are you going to be a good boyfriend, Mummy, today?
21:23Yeah.
21:24Yeah?
21:25Mummy's not feeling very well, so you've got to be a good boyfriend.
21:30I'm so poorly, and I barely slept last night.
21:34But Matt thinks it's just a little cold, and I'm not that ill.
21:40Bear's got to go to work.
21:46I love you.
21:48I love you, Mum.
21:49You have to go out then.
21:51You're going to take your cage.
21:53I'll leave the door open for you.
21:54OK.
21:54Why don't you just have the day off?
21:56Because it's too late now.
21:58I lost you last night.
22:00At 12 o'clock at night.
22:02Yeah?
22:03You all right, Mum?
22:04No.
22:06You're going to have to be, isn't you?
22:07I know you're poorly, and you're not very well, but I need to go to work, don't I?
22:11Right?
22:13Right then, Mum?
22:14I really don't feel well.
22:15Yeah.
22:16Ted's all right.
22:16He's had breakfast, sat in the sofa, ready.
22:19I've got to tell you.
22:19He'll leave the door open so you can hear him.
22:21I'm so cute.
22:22You're just chilling.
22:23My mum will be here in a minute.
22:24Where's your mum coming?
22:25I have to have the kids so I can lie down.
22:29I'm going to shoot, all right?
22:30Normal shift?
22:31Yeah, it should be.
22:32But you never know.
22:33I think it's next round.
22:38I want to take my family on holidays and I want to buy a house.
22:41I want to provide the best things for them.
22:43You know, the only way you're going to get them things is by working.
22:46I can't look after myself right now, let alone two children.
22:49I'm so grateful Mum's coming round to help.
22:54Hey, Ted!
22:55You all right, Ainge?
22:57Yeah.
22:59You're still not very well.
23:00I feel like I'm dying.
23:02Is your mate going to work now?
23:03Mm.
23:04I asked him to take the day off.
23:07Oh, yeah.
23:07That would have been good to help with the kids, wouldn't it?
23:09Well, no.
23:10I've got to deal with it.
23:12He's literally taken days off work for toothache.
23:15Yeah.
23:16Yeah, I know, love.
23:17I feel bad because you wanted to take Teddy out.
23:20I know, but if you don't feel well,
23:22maybe I can take the kids somewhere.
23:25Hey, Jessie!
23:27Morning!
23:28Give me a baby.
23:30You've been a good boy for my mate.
23:32Hey.
23:32That's a good loss.
23:33Give me a kiss.
23:37Well, I'll leave you.
23:38I'll go get you some water or so and take your tablets.
23:46I honestly don't know what I'll do if mum wasn't here.
23:49She's had to take the day off work.
23:51It should have been Matt doing it.
24:06Ready?
24:08She did this.
24:09My mum does the makeup.
24:11Better go close, girl.
24:14Now Aaron's finally up, I can get myself ready for our gender reveal party.
24:20Have you finished getting this bag ready, Aaron?
24:23Yeah, the green one's ready.
24:24I think it's just the grey one we've got to check on.
24:26Why don't you do that now?
24:28I am feeling so stressed this morning because I need to get ready.
24:33We need to get going.
24:35I've got to get all my staff sorted.
24:37I don't really know what I'm going to do if we're running late.
24:39I mean, he can be the one to tell everyone that we're not having a gender reveal if we can't
24:42get there on time.
24:44Are you less stressed now?
24:45All good?
24:46Well, yeah, I feel a bit better now as long as I manage to get out the door on time
24:50and this all goes correct.
24:51We're only waiting for you realistically.
24:53Me and him are ready.
24:55Yeah, but why are we waiting for me, Aaron?
24:57Because you've got to do makeup.
24:58It takes like half an hour.
24:59No, no, no, no, no, no.
25:00Yeah, but why am I doing makeup now?
25:02I don't know.
25:03Because you weren't up.
25:06I know you've gone and said you're waiting for me.
25:08This is what I mean.
25:10You've just got an answer for everything, haven't you?
25:15You could just, I don't know, do better.
25:20No?
25:21Yeah, maybe.
25:24Because if you were up, this would all be done by now, wouldn't it?
25:26We'd be ready to walk out the door, mate.
25:30Yeah, oh.
25:32Bloody stressful, innit, Dino?
25:33Oh!
25:44What's the time?
25:45It is 5 to 11.
25:48Right, it's 5 to 11?
25:49Yeah, you're pushing time.
25:51We crank it up!
25:53You've got all the toys, you've got the car mats, you've got everything.
25:55Guess?
25:56Car mat, that's the wrong.
25:58Bingo!
25:58Shall we go and get the car mat?
26:00Yeah?
26:02Let's go.
26:04Yeah, I'm sick of the leap of the sea before.
26:06I be looking nice cold when I walk in the door.
26:08Oh, yeah!
26:09If we're late because Aaron didn't get out of bed on time, I'm going to kick off.
26:14I'm going to kick off.
26:32Get me back for me.
26:36After a big panic that I was in labour at 35 weeks,
26:39we rushed to the hospital.
26:41Oh, well. Back at home.
26:43But it turns out it was false contractions.
26:47I'm angry, mate. You're always hungry.
26:50It was the most nerve-wracking thing ever.
26:53Like, the pain you go through, it's not nice, it's not easy.
26:58It's definitely not what I thought it was.
27:00I thought it was going to be three pushes, it'll be out.
27:02And I definitely know for a fact it's not going to be that now.
27:05It felt like I was getting some ripped out inside of me.
27:12I don't want to go through that again.
27:15Unfortunately, there's no other way now.
27:17There's only one way out.
27:17It just felt weird, like, the way it was, like...
27:20Oh, it was nasty.
27:21It's labour, and I'm not lying to you.
27:24Some people have said, oh, you'll be all right with you.
27:26And truthfully, I said it hurts.
27:28And it does.
27:29After that, I'm only having one.
27:31One and one only.
27:32Tyler wants any more, we'll go and find another woman.
27:36I'm being serious, it was awful, Mum.
27:40Do you remember that midwife?
27:42Like, she was a bit judgmental, like...
27:44I didn't like that.
27:45Just because of my age and that, you don't look at me indifferent.
27:47Yeah, they did.
27:48I noticed she pointed out, oh, you're 16.
27:50I'm 16, but no-one's ever ready to be a mum.
27:52I don't think any age you're ready.
27:54No, you're not.
27:55It's the biggest thing, what's ever going to happen to you.
27:58You have a baby, that's it.
28:00You're a mum, you're a chef, you're everything.
28:03You don't get a day off.
28:05There's no, like, oh, I'll just have an extra hour in bed
28:08and things like that.
28:09It can't happen, you know what I mean?
28:11And it is sad.
28:12I'm not going to dispute it, it's not.
28:15But I think you're going to be a brilliant mum, truthfully.
28:18I really do.
28:20I'm ready to be a mum.
28:24I am worried, because obviously it's a big step up,
28:26it's a very big step up.
28:29But I will give him the best side if he wants.
28:31Anything he wants, he'll have.
28:33He'll be a straight little boy.
28:36Oh.
28:39Yeah, it's a good day.
28:42Yeah, it's a good day.
28:46Yeah, it's a good day.
28:49Are you getting in water with me like my mum did?
28:52There were all sorts in that water.
28:53I would have done before Chloe explained what goes in the water.
28:57And then...
29:00We know we're having a boy, but we haven't told anyone else yet.
29:04We originally wasn't going to find out the gender,
29:07but Elizabeth Ho really wanted a boy.
29:10So if it's going to be a girl,
29:13then we want to be able to, like,
29:16bring her around to the idea before baby's here.
29:19We're telling mum and Jack's parents tonight,
29:22because I can't keep the secret any longer.
29:25Hey.
29:26Hi.
29:27We've just been talking about the baby.
29:30Placing bets if Jack'll faint.
29:32Oh, I bet, I bet, yeah.
29:36When Chloe was pregnant with Elizabeth Ho,
29:38I was there through every scan, every appointment.
29:40We did everything hand in hand, we did it together.
29:43Obviously things are a lot different this time.
29:45We've got a little surprise for you all
29:47while we're all here together as little family.
29:50You're going to tell us you're having triplets.
29:54Don't look like that.
29:56You're actually not, are you?
29:58Well, I'll go and I'll come back.
30:00Oh, my God, what?
30:06I think my mum's going to potentially cry.
30:09She is a big baby.
30:11If you've put two in her...
30:14Jack, do you want to come and help me?
30:16And I think Debbie's going to go.
30:18Oh, my God!
30:19Prince would be cool.
30:21Debbie.
30:23And Wes would be like,
30:24oh, so can we call it Wes?
30:26So, you know, I said that we wasn't going to find out the gender.
30:30Yes.
30:30Well, we changed our mind
30:32and we've got a little surprise for you both.
30:36So, there's a box each for you to open
30:40to find out gender and boobie number two.
30:43And if they're different.
30:44And then you have got a confetti cannon.
30:48Oh, I feel sick.
30:50We already know.
30:52Right.
30:53How long have you known?
30:55A long time.
30:56Are you joking?
30:58Three, two, one, go.
31:03Oh, my God!
31:10Congrats, John!
31:12We got a boy!
31:14Congratulations!
31:15I knew it'd be a boy!
31:16I just had a feeling!
31:18Thank you!
31:23What are we going to have Tickle Tackle to deal with?
31:26I know.
31:27He's the boy!
31:30Oh, I am so pleased it's the boy.
31:33I'm absolutely flabbergasted that Chloe could keep this secret
31:36all to herself.
31:37I can't believe it's the boy!
31:40And Jack as well.
31:42Yeah, I'm absolutely, like, blown away
31:45that they've done this for me and Debbie.
31:47It's just so, so special.
31:49He looks like a boy!
31:51I told you he looked like a bruiser!
31:53I told you that!
31:55He looks like a boy!
31:56He looks like a Westin man.
32:00Are you okay?
32:01Yeah, I've just been excited, Dessa.
32:08Oh, I'm so pleased!
32:09Thank you!
32:13Anyway, I like
32:15Meet me a surprise
32:17Keep me satisfied
32:19Make me feel so good
32:21We can take our time
32:23Down a paradise
32:25While Khalil's at his dad's,
32:26I've been doing up his room.
32:28He's always climbing in with me at night
32:30and it's really messing up my sleep,
32:32which then messes up my college work.
32:34So I'm hoping he'll want to stay in his dinosaur room.
32:38So good
32:40So good
32:41He's home tonight
32:42and I can't wait for him to see it.
32:44Make me feel so good
32:47Ready, go!
32:50Love me!
32:51Wow!
32:55Look!
32:56What's that?
32:58It's a dinosaur!
32:59It's a dinosaur!
33:02It's Khalil's room!
33:05Do you like it?
33:06Wow!
33:08It's Khalil's bed!
33:10Khalil seems happy
33:12I just hope he sleeps in it
33:24Take me out to the coldest sea
33:26Where are you going?
33:28You put this one on, Khalil?
33:30Yeah
33:31Khalil's been playing up a bit this evening
33:33One more time
33:34Can Mummy put on your drummers?
33:36Yeah
33:36Come here then
33:37I'm really hoping he goes to bed without a fuss
33:42Are you going to help?
33:43Yeah, I do it
33:44I do it
33:45Can you sit down?
33:46Maybe you sit down
33:47Yeah
33:49No, no, no, no, no, no
33:50Put your leg in there
33:51Put your leg in there
33:54I love that Khalil is finding his independence
33:57But it does mean everything takes ten times as long
34:01I do it
34:02We need to take this one off
34:04Let's take this one off and then we'll put this one on
34:07Okay, you want to do it or Mummy help?
34:09No
34:10I have so much college work to do tonight
34:13I need this bedtime to go smoothly
34:16Now put this one in
34:18There we go, we're done it
34:20High five
34:23You've got a book
34:24Do you want me to read you that book?
34:25You can read it
34:26Okay, you take your book to bed
34:27Come on, hold it
34:40No, it's not what you don't want
34:42You need to go to bed now
34:43It's Khalil's bedtime now
34:48Khalil
34:48Can you get into bed and Mummy tuck you in?
34:50No
34:51No
34:52Mummy's going to go now then
34:54Okay, goodnight
34:57Love you
34:57Love you
34:59He needs to go to bed now
35:02Mummy's here, okay
35:06How did you get out?
35:08No, come on, baby
35:10Let's go
35:10Teddy
35:11No, no, no, Teddy cannot come to bed if you
35:13No, no, no
35:13Teddy cannot come to bed if you want me to come to bed
35:14Come on, come on, come on
35:15Come on, come on
35:16No, come on
35:31I love you
35:34I love you
35:34Mummy, see you
35:36Let's go
35:37Lovely
35:41You're getting your blankies
35:45Goodnight, I love you
35:53This really isn't going to pan.
35:56I don't think I'm going to be able to get any studying done.
36:14Ready? There we go.
36:16Despite Aaron's best efforts, we've made it on time to the gender reveal.
36:23And I'm really hoping for a girl.
36:25Team boy or team girl?
36:27I'm a very girly girl and I feel like I was more meant to be a girl mum
36:32because when it comes to boys, I really don't know what I'm doing.
36:36I've always pictured me with a girl.
36:39How are you feeling now, Best?
36:40Yeah, I'm all right. I'm just...
36:42We're all set and ready to go.
36:43I just want to find out.
36:44I need to know.
36:47But what did Darren say about it, anyway?
36:49He thinks it's this boy now.
36:50He's changed his boy.
36:51He's going to stick a blue sticker on Tino.
36:54Oh, my God.
36:54Yeah, we're meant to be manifesting.
36:56We're meant to be manifesting a girl.
36:58I'm manifesting.
37:00Pink stickers everywhere.
37:02I need to find out now, like, right now.
37:05I feel it in my fingers.
37:07I feel it in my soul.
37:09It's time to start believing.
37:11It's nearly time to find out what my little family of four is going to look like.
37:17How are you going to react?
37:18I don't know.
37:19Should we just be, like, really, really dramatic regardless?
37:21Yeah.
37:21You promise?
37:22Yeah.
37:22I don't want to look like I'm in, like, a relationship with someone that doesn't care.
37:25You know?
37:25You've got to, like, give it something.
37:27Of course.
37:27Just a bit like...
37:28Yay!
37:29Okay?
37:30You ready?
37:31Go.
37:31Five, four, three, two, one!
37:36Go!
37:44I knew it would be a girl.
37:46I manifested her.
37:49Oh, my God, don't let me do it.
37:52Are you going to have a sister?
37:54Oh!
37:55Look!
37:57Yeah, I'm literally still shaking.
37:59Like...
38:01Are you excited, Tino?
38:03You don't care, do you?
38:05Oh, yeah, a whole new clothes now, isn't it?
38:07Yeah, everything brand new now.
38:09We can't share another Tino's stuff.
38:11I actually can't believe it.
38:16It is definitely a really good feeling, knowing that, obviously, Aaron's first girl was with
38:20me.
38:21Obviously, considering he already had a baby before he met me, having my first kind of
38:26didn't feel, like, as special as I wanted it to, because it felt like he had done all
38:31this before, he knew what he was doing, so things didn't really come as a shock to
38:35him, whereas it was all learning news for me.
38:37Whereas having a girl, and it's his first girl, he's never done this before, either.
38:59You can do the mixing in a minute.
39:01Right, you're going to tip it in?
39:03Mm-hmm.
39:04After five days of being in bed and a trip to hospital, I'm finally feeling better in
39:12myself, but I'm really not happy with the lack of support Matt gave me.
39:17Me and Matt had a big argument because I asked him to stay home to help me with the
39:23children.
39:24Right, shall we add a bit of water?
39:27A little, tiny bit.
39:29He was saying that I was faking it and it was just a cold and I was just being a
39:33little
39:33girl. Mix it, boy, mix it.
39:36But when I was that ill, he needed to be there for the children, not even for me.
39:41I could deal, I could be in bed on my own.
39:43Wow.
39:44They look good.
39:45Move out the way then.
39:47It was a really difficult time.
39:49A little love shining through.
39:52Now I'm up and about again.
39:54I'm meeting my sister for lunch.
39:56Hello.
39:57Hello.
39:58Right.
39:59Yeah, you?
40:00Yeah.
40:01Oh, Jessie, you're awake.
40:02He's just woke up.
40:04You woke up as well?
40:06Oh.
40:09Baby.
40:10It's okay.
40:12You hungry?
40:14You going to say hi?
40:15Get a wave?
40:17Baby.
40:20Are you feeling better now?
40:22Yeah, I've never been so ill.
40:24Yeah.
40:25That was...
40:25I was so poorly.
40:27I bet that was hard with having children as well, because all you want to do is just rest.
40:31Well, yeah, I was lucky.
40:32Mum took two days off work to have the kids.
40:35With Matt, it was a bit of an issue.
40:37They sent me to go be put in hospital to be on the drip, and then Matt was still saying
40:42I'm not taking a day off work.
40:44Wow.
40:44And then he was like, oh, I'll ring your mum to have the kids on the next day.
40:49I was like, mum's working.
40:51Yeah.
40:51And I was like, at least you have to go into hospital when you're still asking my mum to
40:54have the children.
40:56He did take one day off in the end.
40:59But he made me feel guilty for that.
41:01It was really difficult, and I think, I just win Matt, like, I'm struggling with all of it.
41:06I don't feel, like, loved by Matt ever.
41:09When you just can't sleep.
41:12But your head is full of dreams.
41:16Have you spoke to him about it?
41:17Yeah, he just shuts me down.
41:19I'm like, do you love me anymore?
41:20Like, I feel like you don't love me.
41:21And then he's like, this is why I don't show you I love you and want to be near you,
41:24because all you ever do is ask me if I love you.
41:26But I don't.
41:27No, but why can't he just reassure you and he won't need to ask?
41:34Every time I question him, he just tells me to leave him.
41:38He's like, well, if you don't like it, leave me.
41:40And I'm like, is that, is he telling me that because he wants to leave me?
41:46That's how I generally look at that.
41:52I just feel like he's fed up of trying with me.
41:54Do you?
41:55He doesn't come in, doesn't say hello to me, doesn't say he loves me anymore,
41:59doesn't ever come to bed.
42:00Really?
42:02Doesn't really acknowledge me.
42:08So, it's 5 past 3 in the morning.
42:10I am but I'm trapped tonight.
42:14I'm not being funny, it's my relationship at the end of the day, not yours.
42:17Leave the room, Mum.
42:19Who's buying all his clothes?
42:20Who's buying his milk?
42:21Sorry, I'm going to work.
42:22I'm sorry.
42:23You're just trying to use babies as a weapon.
42:25Shall we go and use the toilet?
42:27No, don't do it yet.
42:28Do you want the toilet?
42:29Oh, my God.
42:29He's locked himself in there.
42:31If I don't know it's not uni this year,
42:32then there is a real possibility that I may just never go back.
42:35Contraception is never 100%.
42:37Tatwood, there is no baby.
42:39I just don't want another child right now.
42:42Like, I want to finish my education.
42:44You cannot remember what you did with the money.
42:48Little white lie.
42:49Little white lie?
42:50Yeah.
42:52Sure.
42:58My son's not going to live off pasta and chicken like you.
43:02He thinks that I'm being lazy or something.
43:04Honestly, like, winding me up, that'll go away.
43:07This is the ring.
43:09I'm the best big speaker ever.
43:12In your world.
43:13Is that all you're thinking about?
43:14Is work?
43:15Every time I try to, like, speak, I just get shut down.
43:18I don't feel like it's ever going to work.
43:21I just want to do right by the kids.
43:22I want to do right by me.
43:24How are you going now?
43:34If you've been affected by any of the issues mentioned in this program,
43:38please head to our helpline page.
44:08We'll see you next time.
44:09Oh, oh, oh.
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