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00:09Go!
00:10He's the boy!
00:12There's no safe son in pregnancy there.
00:17I don't want to go through that again.
00:19There's no other way now.
00:21Why can't we just have the deal?
00:23I need to be at work, don't I?
00:24I don't feel like loved by Matt ever.
00:30Are you up?
00:32Yeah, I'm up.
00:33I do get really angry with the way Aaron behaves sometimes.
00:37You're literally shouting to get someone out of bed like you're their mum.
00:42Are you going to have a sister?
00:43I actually can't believe it.
00:46I'm going to bed to myself.
00:47No.
00:49Mummy's going to go now then.
01:06I wish I could move on like you did.
01:10Can't pretend I'm feeling okay.
01:15Right, can I get dressed please, Ainge?
01:18Yeah, just give me two seconds.
01:20If I get all the housework done...
01:22Yeah, but Ainge, you're not being funny, right?
01:23Whatever you don't get done, you don't get done, yeah?
01:25If I'm not dressed and I'm ready and he says he's here,
01:27and I'm not dressed, it's not good.
01:29All right.
01:30Tell Teddy you're going to work.
01:32Teddy?
01:33Daddy going to work in a minute.
01:35You'll be asleep when Daddy gets home.
01:36We'll all be a bloody sleep in the whole universe, I think.
01:40Recently, it's felt like all Matt's interested in is working.
01:45He works a hell of a lot of hours,
01:49which isn't a bad thing, and I always say that.
01:51Like, being a good grafter gets you further in the industry that he's in.
01:56But there's also a line, I think.
02:00Never here at the right time.
02:04Stepping forward, I'm stepping back.
02:08Teddy and Jessie both have their birthdays in the next few weeks,
02:12but Matt's booked to work on both days.
02:15Can you not take Ted's birthday off?
02:17Should I?
02:18I've asked you for weeks to take one of the boys' birthdays off.
02:21Yeah, I'm just working.
02:27Stop shaking your head, I've not done anything wrong.
02:29I know you said you have, I'm just disagreeing with you.
02:31Yeah, and I'm disagreeing with you.
02:34So we can agree to disagree.
02:37I think Matt gets defensive about it because he just likes to be away and working.
02:44But obviously, you've got a family at home as well.
02:47When you miss your children's birthdays and you do things like that for work,
02:51I think that crosses the line a little bit.
02:55Nice, thanks. Start an argument just before I leave the hour.
02:57We're not arguing. I've just asked you if you could take one day off.
03:00Why start it just before I go off to go to work?
03:02I get it, but I've just asked you to take one of the boys' birthdays off.
03:05I just think it's fair.
03:05Right, right.
03:07I can't take it off now.
03:11I know he works hard to support us, but sometimes it feels like he's just trying to avoid me.
03:18Sometimes money isn't everything.
03:20Most of the time it is.
03:22Fair enough.
03:22That's fine.
03:23You work.
03:24Leave it.
03:25I don't want to be doing it before I go off to work.
03:26You're the one making it into an argument.
03:28I'm just asking you a simple question.
03:29I don't want to be doing it right now.
03:31You can't answer a simple question.
03:31Angel, I'm trying to get on with getting dressed.
03:33Just stop.
03:34Oh, I'm not doing anything wrong.
03:37It's all financial.
03:38That's all it'll ever be.
03:39There's no other reason I would be away from my family but money.
03:43Because it's for them.
03:45I look at it as a sacrifice.
03:46You know, I'm going to sacrifice the time I have with them now,
03:49so they can have more later on.
03:52I don't want to argue.
03:53Just have a nice day at work.
03:54Well, evening, like, whatever it is.
03:58See you tomorrow!
03:58It's hard to see at night.
04:03Guess I'll just sit tight.
04:10It's hard and we're frustrated.
04:15You are what I need.
04:21Nothing complicated.
04:23Being a single mum and keeping up with my studies sometimes feels impossible.
04:32Kahlil?
04:34What are you doing?
04:35Oh, my God.
04:37Oh, God.
04:38No way.
04:39You need to tell Mummy before you take the nappy off.
04:42You're being silly this bedtime.
04:45You look good at Mummy's hand.
04:47Yeah, thank you.
04:49I put Kahlil to bed hours ago, but he just won't go to sleep.
04:54One, two, three.
04:57Oh, my God.
04:59Yeah, what?
05:00He's even got into the sun cream.
05:02This is naughty.
05:07Look at Mummy.
05:11Ben.
05:12Go.
05:13Now, Cleo.
05:21Tonight has been a nightmare.
05:23But now I think he's finally down for good.
05:27Fingers crossed.
05:30Oh, God.
05:35You know this is Mummy's bed?
05:37My bed.
05:37Yeah.
05:38You need to sleep in Kahlil's bed tomorrow, OK?
05:41Eventually, I just gave up and let him sleep in my bed.
05:49Last night was havoc.
05:51Kahlil just did not want to go to bed.
05:53Are you going to sleep tonight?
05:55Yes.
05:55You promise?
05:56Are you lying?
05:58Yeah.
05:58I know.
05:59I ain't getting no sleep.
06:02Goodbye, house.
06:03Bye, house.
06:04See you later, house.
06:06Shh.
06:07Are you a dinosaur?
06:09What are you doing?
06:10I'm exhausted, but after getting Kahlil off to nursery...
06:13Hello.
06:14Hello, chauffeur.
06:15Mum's come to my rescue by giving me a lift to college.
06:19I ain't getting no sleep.
06:21So, how is it going?
06:22It's not bad.
06:23I'm tired.
06:23I'm just so tired.
06:25How was it last night?
06:26Oh, mate.
06:26He was a nightmare.
06:28Sun cream.
06:29What would possess someone, even a two-year-old, to do that?
06:34You know, he's a good boy.
06:36He's good.
06:36He's manners.
06:37He's pleased and thank you.
06:38I'm so pleased with him, honestly.
06:40Honestly.
06:40Yesterday, when I was shouting at him, I was going to him, what do you say?
06:43He went, thank you.
06:45Exactly.
06:45I went, no.
06:46What do you say?
06:47Sorry.
06:49It's his eyes, though, when he's doing that.
06:51He goes, sorry.
06:53I just need a little more time, little more time.
06:59Hand on my heart, I feel like I would struggle quite a bit if I didn't have the level of
07:03support of my mum that I do.
07:05Because I know so many of my friends that are also in similar situations, teen mums, single mums, and they
07:10don't have the same level of support.
07:12And I couldn't imagine my life without the support my mum does give me.
07:18All right, can you have a nice day?
07:20Oh, can I just go back home now?
07:22Please.
07:24Bye, love you.
07:25I'll see you later, yeah?
07:27Be good.
07:29I'm almost 20, please don't tell me that.
07:31It doesn't matter, you're still my baby.
07:32Goodbye.
07:33Have a nice day.
07:34Love you.
07:34Bye.
07:42Is it a sight?
07:44Something I said or something on your mind?
07:48Will it destroy us?
07:50Right, you pack bag.
07:52Right, OK.
07:53And I'll get stuff out draw.
07:55Pack it neatly, though.
07:56I'll pack it neatly.
07:57Just make sure you put my stuff, like, in the side bit.
08:00Well, you want your stuff in here?
08:02Yeah.
08:02And then...
08:03Baby stuff in there.
08:05Last week, I thought I'd gone into labour.
08:08But I'm still pregnant and waiting for the baby to come.
08:11But now I've got something else stressing me out.
08:15So, over the last couple of days, me and Tyler's been arguing
08:18constantly, non-stop.
08:19He's been staying up his mum's.
08:21I've been staying down here, ignoring each other.
08:25Just...
08:25Not being a couple like we should be.
08:28I could just give birth right now and...
08:30Would he turn up to the hospital?
08:33Would...
08:34He'd be here for the baby.
08:35That's the most important thing I'm worried about is...
08:37Is the little baby.
08:38It's not to do with us any more.
08:40It's...
08:41There's a child involved about it all.
08:44Whatever happens, I need to get myself ready for birth.
08:47So, me and my mum, I pack in my hospital bag.
08:52Well, have you spoken to Tyler since this morning?
08:55I've ignored him.
08:57I don't want to speak to him at minute.
08:58If the baby's going to come in the next few days, you need to arrange.
09:02Is he going to be there for your labour and things like that?
09:04He can be there for it.
09:06Yeah.
09:07If you're together or not, he can still be a dad, can't he?
09:10I'd rather be together, though.
09:12Well, obviously that's a better scenario for anyone.
09:17And you've got to put your child first.
09:19It's not the fault, but it's not all on you.
09:26I'm worried that it won't last.
09:31I want the baby to have the best laugh.
09:33Well, yeah.
09:34We all want that.
09:35And his mum and dad being around is better for him.
09:39Well, yeah, of course it is.
09:41I know he'd be a great dad, cos he would.
09:44Well, let's hope that comes, that happens.
09:48It's not the fault, but it's not only you.
09:53I'm worried this could be, like, us splitting up and be the end of us,
09:57but I don't want it to be.
09:58But I don't want the baby to be around arguing all the time.
10:02That's not fair on him and it's not fair just on everyone in general
10:05hearing us argue.
10:06I want the baby to grow up in a happy family.
10:10It's not my fault, but it's not all on you.
10:31Uh, a sticky, slithery, slimy snail.
10:38The other day I found out I'm having a baby girl.
10:42Me and Aaron haven't really had much chance to even speak on it.
10:45It is just, like, the most surreal thing that I'm actually having a girl.
10:48Like, we was right, and I'm just so excited.
10:51Aaron's at work.
10:52So I've invited my sister Gracie around to look at all the gorgeous girly clothes I went straight out and
10:58bought.
11:00Hello.
11:02I'm going to come and do this.
11:04I love you.
11:12We've got loads of stuff now, so I'll just show you all the girl bits we've got.
11:15What is that?
11:16I think that's all the really good.
11:17I don't like that thing at the top.
11:18That's ugly.
11:19Right, so...
11:19You don't like that?
11:21No, that is ugly.
11:23What?
11:24What about that one?
11:26No.
11:26I like...
11:27Look at the bows.
11:28I like the little...
11:29Mm-hmm.
11:30To me, yeah, it's chubby.
11:35My sister is a very blunt person.
11:37A lot of the time we don't get on because of it.
11:39Why don't you like anything?
11:40It's so miserable.
11:41Because baby clothes are ugly.
11:43How are baby clothes ugly, Gracie?
11:45I don't know.
11:46Me and Gracie are very, very close in age, but we are at completely different stages of our lives.
11:53She doesn't have kids anyway.
11:56What would she know about dressing up my little girl as it is?
11:59I mean, she's not the one dressing her, so it's not her problem.
12:05Now we know the gender, it's starting to feel very real, so I'm beginning to feel really nervous about birth.
12:13Obviously, Tina's delivery was horrible.
12:16Everything that happened was just so stressful and was a lot.
12:19But I would very much like to make sure I do not have to have another C-section.
12:23Yeah.
12:25100%.
12:26That wasn't nice for me.
12:27It wouldn't be nice for mommy to have a C-section again, would it?
12:31He is obviously going to be still so young.
12:33He's going to need me.
12:35He's going to be confused as to where I've been for so long.
12:37Yeah.
12:37I've never been without him.
12:39Yeah.
12:39I cannot have another C-section.
12:41Yeah.
12:42It's just not an option.
12:43But I think he's going to be fine.
12:45Obviously, Aaron will have time off as well, so that will really, really help.
12:49How are things going with you and Aaron then?
12:51I'm hoping he, like, you know, steps up and starts being how he was at the beginning.
12:56I think he just kind of got a bit slack.
12:59Yeah.
13:00But I need his help now more than I even needed his help when he was a newborn.
13:05Yeah, exactly.
13:06But as long as he's actually helping out and not just laying in bed or going to work.
13:12I don't want to believe all I dislike.
13:19When Tina was first born, Aaron was great.
13:22But recently, I don't feel like I've been getting the support I need.
13:27It does annoy me because sometimes I feel like he could do a little bit more.
13:31And with a second baby coming along, I feel like I'm definitely going to need him to try and do
13:37things without me needing to remind him to do things.
13:40Like, you should just know.
13:41And I feel like I'm going to need him to start realising these things when there is a second baby
13:46because I am going to have my hands full a lot of the time.
13:48MUSIC PLAYS
14:08My name is Mr. Polar Bear. Hello.
14:11Hello.
14:13Hello, baby.
14:15Do you think baby will be able to do this when he's a bit bigger?
14:17Yeah.
14:18Yeah.
14:19Look, it's hard.
14:21It's too old.
14:22Yeah, when he's a bit bigger.
14:25For the first time, me, Jack and Elizabeth Hope have a place to call our own.
14:31And with the baby on the way, our journey is just getting started.
14:37The thing I'm most looking forward to would probably be, even though I've experienced the newborn stage before,
14:43I've not experienced it with a Jack before, I've experienced it with my mum, so so much of it's going
14:48to be new to me as well.
14:50And we're going to be experiencing it together for the first time in so many aspects.
14:54I still really can't wait for it.
15:03Do you think we'll ever order food from the same place?
15:07Yeah, and there's certain things that, well, there's quite a lot that you like now.
15:11Yeah.
15:12Is it me or do you think...
15:14Now we're living together, me and Jack have different views on what we like to eat.
15:18Jack likes me and I don't, which means meal times are a lot of work.
15:23When the boy comes...
15:26When the boy comes what?
15:28I just think if it's not for health reasons, then there's no reason for him to be vegan.
15:35I'm not bothered about him being vegan, but I ain't going out my way when I'm cooking to go out
15:40my way and cooking meat.
15:41If that's what you want for your son, you facilitate that.
15:48Oh, well, it's just...
15:51...hard.
15:54So why should I do it?
15:55Why should I do it twice when I'm already making one meal?
15:57See, I'm working and I get back late.
15:59It's kid's bedtime.
16:01He can't wait for me to get back to eat.
16:04No.
16:04He'll probably eat when we eat, and in that case he's probably going to have a vegan dinner.
16:11He's clearly got an issue, but he needs to be more straightforward about the issue
16:16It makes me feel like he thinks that I'm being lazy or something for not wanting to cook meat.
16:22It's not that.
16:23It makes me feel sick.
16:24I don't know how to do it.
16:26And I don't want to have to go out with my way either to go make something separate.
16:31I want Baby Boy to eat meat.
16:33I want him to have a broad horizon so he can make a choice on what he wants to eat.
16:39He can eat anything he wants, okay?
16:41Saying things we can't take back
16:45Don't know why we're doing that
16:47I'll just cook what I'm cooking.
16:50But would you not do...
16:51Oh, you're winding me up. You're winding me up.
16:53I'll do... We're not even anywhere near weaning.
16:56Why are we having this conversation?
16:58I've told you, no, he's not going to be vegan, but now I ain't going out my way to cook
17:01non-vegan food.
17:03Honestly.
17:04Right, you're winding me up now. Go away.
17:07Start and start again
17:10Listen to me, I'll listen to you
17:12Just see me out of my point of view and I'll start
17:26Are you weak?
17:28What's he doing?
17:30Are you ready? Are you ready?
17:33Whoa!
17:35Can you do it?
17:36I'm with that so big!
17:38Can you do it?
17:39As usual, Matt's working later tonight.
17:41But whilst he's at home in the day, I've asked him to watch the kids so I can have a
17:46catch-up with my mum.
17:50I don't really get one-on-one time with my mum because she's obviously got my little sister, my little
17:54brother.
17:55I can't even remember the last time I've gone out and haven't had to worry about a child.
17:59It's been so long. I think it was even before I had Jessie, to be honest.
18:04We're actually going to eat food without children running around.
18:09Yeah.
18:11So why do you think Matt's being the way he is?
18:15He always looks at you like...
18:18I'm nothing.
18:18Yeah.
18:19I know.
18:20And I don't ever feel like I'm a nut.
18:22I know.
18:23And your self-confidence has gone down loads.
18:25Well, he never compliments me ever.
18:28Every day I'm getting ready and he never tells me I look nice. Ever.
18:31He never tells me I look pretty.
18:32Have you told him that?
18:32Yeah.
18:33Well, that's just not me, is it? That's what he says.
18:42Lately, I've been feeling like I don't feel loved by him
18:46and I just want sometimes a few more words, words of affection, just to say like,
18:52Oh, I love you, Angel.
18:52Or, thanks for dinner.
18:55Or, you look beautiful today.
18:56Like, I don't ever hear anything and it makes me really doubt myself.
18:59I just feel like I would... I want to feel like I'm appreciated and loved a bit more.
19:05Your heart is not your enemy
19:10In my eyes, I don't like saying it, but...
19:15I don't feel like it's ever gonna work.
19:18I should've seen this car
19:20It just speaks to me all the time.
19:23Other warning signs said to stay clear of you
19:28I just don't know. I want to do right by the kids. I want to do right by me.
19:33You are. You're doing amazing.
19:35It's just this situation, Angel, it just can't go on, honestly.
19:39Because the boys will pick up on it.
19:41You know, like, when you're sad, they get more irritable and then it's harder again.
19:47When you're happy, they're happy.
19:50Yeah.
19:51Hey.
20:01Talking with my mum has made me realise things with Matt have got to change.
20:23Oh, I'm not doing these well at all.
20:25Take your time and hold it on for longer.
20:31Me and Tyler still aren't speaking, but I'm not really thinking about that now.
20:35I'm sick of being pregnant and in pain. I just want the baby to come.
20:40Oh, sugar.
20:41Yeah.
20:43So I do really want to bring labour on now. I've tried everything.
20:46He makes it on the ball, walking up curbs, going on longer walks.
20:50And if it doesn't, I think he's just happy in there.
20:53But I just really want to see him and just get labour over and done with.
20:58Because you get to a certain point and you just think you've had enough.
21:01How do I bring on labour?
21:03I shouldn't say this as your mum, but they say sex.
21:07No.
21:09You're not even speaking to us, that's not going to happen, is it?
21:13Or I'll message him, come home and I'll nip out for an hour.
21:17Well, you can go and get me.
21:18It takes me when it's done.
21:21Old wife's tale of curry and things like that, innit?
21:24Not like curry.
21:26Yeah, but you could have just something like a bit spicy.
21:29You could try it.
21:29I don't know, Sean Farron, I don't even go into labour, I'll blame you.
21:32I'll get blamed anyway, won't I?
21:36Hopefully, a midwife's tale does work.
21:39Just so I can see that little face.
21:41But, if it does work, then I'll praise you and if it doesn't, I'll kill her.
21:49Don't make it too hot, Mum!
21:51Ooh!
21:53I won't!
21:55She definitely is.
21:58When do I know my chicken's cute?
22:01I'm not very good at cooking.
22:08There we are.
22:09We'll get that baby out.
22:11Spells good.
22:13It runs at all.
22:14Yeah, it does.
22:17If you come down in a couple of days, I've got a date right.
22:20Come on!
22:22Go on!
22:23You never know, a few hours time.
22:26Tomorrow, you could be holding your little baby.
22:29I can feel it.
22:30I think it's nice, but, like I say, I like the hot curries, so...
22:35I'm sweating.
22:38That gives fucking...
22:42How are you feeling with her?
22:45Can't breathe.
22:46Has he come in yet?
22:47Come on.
22:47The sweaters.
22:48It's your bro.
22:51This is the hottest thing I've ever eaten.
22:55Yeah, you're doing well.
22:57Not in my nose, it's a snotter.
22:59But I am determined to get this baby out.
23:03Oh, Mum.
23:07How long will it take, if it does help?
23:10I don't know, but I can't...
23:14My mouth is on fire.
23:16I am getting a titling feeling,
23:17but I don't know if that's just, obviously, it going into my stomach.
23:21Never again am I listening to more.
23:24But let's hope it works.
23:27You did well with that.
23:28You did well.
23:46Dada's not here.
23:48Dada's working.
23:54As usual, I'm home alone looking after Tino while Aaron's out late at work.
24:01I know you want Dada.
24:04I know, mate.
24:07It's all well and good shouting for him, mate.
24:11Recently, I've made it clear to Aaron that I need him to engage as a dad
24:15and spend more time with his family.
24:19As Aaron's chose to have these children,
24:21I would just like it if he started to make a little bit more of an effort
24:24because, obviously, it's a massive worry that I am going to be a mum to two now
24:30and I do need a little bit more help because sometimes it feels like I'm a mum to a teenage
24:34boy and a baby
24:35and I definitely don't want to be a mum to a teenage boy and two babies, so I'm going to
24:39need some help.
24:41Tino's finally down, but it's almost 10pm, so I wanted to check in and see how much longer Aaron will
24:47be.
24:48Hello.
24:49What do you want?
24:50What do you mean, what do I want?
24:52Oh, what's up?
24:54Will you be finishing soon?
24:57I'm going to sleep within the next 10 minutes.
25:01I'm going to go to bed in a minute because you're taking ages.
25:05I can't have a mum at work, can I?
25:07We've got a day out planned tomorrow, so this is his chance to show he's serious about stepping up.
25:13He needs to try and be out of the door by at least 10.
25:1710 in the morning?
25:18Yes.
25:20That's crazy.
25:22So if I go to bed, I haven't got to worry about you staying up or anything like that?
25:26No.
25:27Are you going to be up at 8am doing breakfast with me?
25:30Yes, I'll be up ready to leave for 10, yes.
25:32Alright, we'll just see what happens.
25:34It's very important to me.
25:37Can you really give me something to believe in?
25:44He has finished work by the looks of things.
25:47I think he's just probably having a drink with the people at work.
25:51It kind of does just annoy me, but he's insisting that he's going to be up.
25:55I don't really believe it for a second.
25:57If he is, I will be so shocked.
26:00Well, I love you.
26:01I love you too.
26:03Alright, bye-bye.
26:04Bye.
26:06Bye.
26:07Bye.
26:08Bye.
26:08Bye.
26:25do you want to come sit down at the table do you want peas no just carrots just carrots
26:39last night me and jack had a disagreement about my cooking when baby boy comes
26:45jack wound me up a bit last night with bringing up about me cooking more than one meal i don't
26:53get
26:53the problem i just don't so we have to agree to disagree i'm not yummy
26:58it wasn't a big deal and we've moved on but there's other things playing on my mind as well
27:06i've started feeling some of the same separation anxiety that i had when elizabeth hope was younger
27:11and i feel like i need to get it off my chest i have got anxieties already that like make
27:19me feel
27:19a bit worried i just want jack to know this is how i feel and make sure that he knows
27:27that
27:28i love him and it's nothing to do with him why i feel this way just like it would nothing
27:32to do
27:32my mom it's nothing to do with any other family member i just feel this way because i feel this
27:49on my is there anything i could do to help you with how you feel about sharing if i get
27:58in that head
27:59space i was in after i had others without there's nothing that you can do that'll make me feel better
28:06like that like my head was not normal when i first had her there's got to be a way around
28:13that i don't
28:14want to i don't want to be like that again i just know it'll be different when she's asking you
28:20to do
28:20stuff and then i hope so i hope so i know like if my mum wanted him or your mum
28:30wanted him or whatever
28:33i'd probably say no because the grandparents and that can wait that all comes with time but for us
28:41the best case scenario is pop this baby out and we get a good thing going
28:57i know chloe said all that matters really is me her and the baby but i do think like the
29:06grandparents my parents and chloe's mom they are going to want to spend time and get a bond with
29:12the baby as well and i think leaving it too late is that's just what worries me a little bit
29:19i feel
29:20like there might be a point where i just don't agree with it at all and then that's where i'll
29:27mention it
29:34if i get them anxieties again i think it could be hard yeah hard for me as a mom hard
29:42for us as a couple
30:06that's your water for later mate you gotta put back in your bag last night aaron promised he would
30:12be up to take tino to soft play with me when i got up this morning aaron hadn't come to
30:18bed last night
30:18he'd fallen asleep on the sofa is daddy awake today next thing i knew he was walking into the bathroom
30:25literally ready to go getting dressed already i was so shocked i can't believe he'd done it
30:30i can't believe it i understand obviously where millie's coming from obviously wants me to help out a
30:36little bit more it is understandable what's the matter
30:41there he is i'm really happy that you got up early this morning well yeah that's because i've been going
30:48sleeping i can raise more time somewhere you know you need to continue this on this is a good thing
30:53this makes me be in a good mood it would be nice on your days off if you started doing
30:58like more
30:58things with us yeah you excited to spend time with tino yeah you excited to spend time with daddy yay
31:07yay i think for now i just need to focus on the positives and the fact that he's at least
31:13trying to make an effort i just hope he keeps it up
31:34good boy hi hi clever boy yeah the fact that aaron has made the effort today
31:44to actually participate in this it feels like we're taking a step in the correct direction and this is
31:49exactly what i want i hope this aaron continues
31:54you want daddy of course you want daddy his daddy's here you don't even want mommy daddy's boy on this
32:00secretly
32:06it's got to be you
32:17after kyle's terrible sleeping and a long day of college my brain is broken i need a break and a
32:26chance to talk to someone who understands the struggle hey babe you all right i'm very sleep
32:31deprived at the moment go on oh khalil you look like you've had a morning ever morning and night
32:39there was like four major incidences last night well two involved poop oh
32:48tamara is one of my really really good mom friends i met her when i was i want to say
32:5315 16 and these are the times that i was still like a wild teenager no baby but tomorrow was
32:59about
32:5921 with a child and at the time it was wild to me the fact someone so young could have
33:04a child
33:04and then a year or two later out popped my own toddlers are stunning they're like stunning they're
33:11like the highlight of your day no highlight yeah it'll it'll sort out bless it he's in that stage where
33:18he's obsessed with everything that gets him into trouble i know oh yeah and then ended up in bed
33:22with me that's i woke up again at four like four and i was just like you know what i'm
33:27not gonna
33:27argue for you i can't be asked just get in bed as long as you sleep i don't care just
33:30get in bed
33:30bless him i was never with her sleep and stuff she struggled when she was khalil's age she went
33:38through this perfect stage where it was like a blissful six weeks i was like oh my god i'm the
33:42best
33:42parent in the world i've hacked it i've hacked parenting she just went in her bed i said right
33:47it's bedtime all right mommy jump in little bottle done no it's been hell since now she struggles
33:55still you're meant to give me hope it goes downhill it's really important for me to have mom friends
34:02because i i don't know how i would cope and having these mom friends means that i don't feel like
34:08i'm
34:09crazy all the time like i can always ask them they will never get annoyed of me pestering them
34:12like they always reassure me and they always let me know that i'm doing a good job if he's ever
34:17like having a night where he just won't settle he's in hysterics yes come on come to mommy it's fine
34:22yeah don't force it just keep keep up with your routine yeah it works it works if not refine it
34:29a bit
34:29it'll happen so the thing is as soon as it's not even like he messes around as soon as he's
34:33in my bed
34:34he goes straight to bed and he'll come to me and say good night mom oh it'll make me feel
34:37so bad
34:38yeah literally you're like i'm a terrible mother yeah but they'll do it in their own time
34:49seeing tamara today was really nice she gave me a lot of advice because i was stressing like
34:53quite a few things like especially his sleep and she really gave me the reassurance i needed she was
34:58like wait stop stressing it's fine and it made me feel better it made me feel like i wasn't doing
35:02anything wrong and it's just what a toddler goes through at this stage
35:21it's really nice to know that you're in the hospital for it's not me giving birth
35:25what because that's the only time you've been in hospital with me is to give birth
35:29um for the kids when is it for the kids don't start this now angel it was at work
35:34this morning matt's got an mri for a shoulder injury so he's booked the day off work
35:42i'll help you get the kids let me just start my car we waited five months for this appointment so
35:47we can't be late my car won't start
35:54battery's going battery's dead battery's gone oh my god look matt you're laughing i don't think it's very
36:07funny the car wouldn't start that car was dead it's dead today it's dead dead i've got so many
36:16appointments yeah we'll get we'll get this sorted i'll get this sorted today just chill out shut
36:20up i'm crying just this is not helping here here we go here we go all i'm saying is stop
36:27crying because
36:27it's not gonna shut up yeah because you're not helping yourself i feel really uptight like all in
36:33my body i'm just like how am i gonna sort it but i just couldn't have to try for the
36:39way
36:40mum can't drive us but at least she has some jump leads at least you're home from work eh otherwise
36:46i
36:46wouldn't have a clue what to do i'm gonna go red positive innit i don't know that's what i would
36:50have guessed car if we had brains we'd be dangerous and then we said this one yeah oh no no
36:57no no i think
36:58the black goes on first matt you're not really helping me you're supposed to be the man i don't know
37:03i'm really stressed out oh it's sparking is that meant to happen take the black you've got the
37:12black connected though there we go i've got no matt matt matt why is it sparking why is it sparking
37:18i
37:18don't know why it's sparking get your mom's car running leave a minute and then we'll try it
37:24will it blow up i'll find out i'm winding you out it shouldn't blow up there you go yeah yeah
37:35there's an old arrow is it starting
37:46the car is finally working but it's too late to make it in time
37:51we're not we can't go okay i have to bring the hospital and as usual matt's got one thing on
37:56his mind this is ridiculous is that all you're thinking about is work
38:04matt's obviously put the day off work i've got an appointment later on today he doesn't need to be
38:08going back to work today it's been booked off just leave it as that but the first thing that he
38:12was
38:12worried about bloody work that's the first thing he thinks about all the time
38:21are you actually just thinking about work there's no problem you're just having the day off
38:27we can work tonight no it doesn't work like that does it you put the day off just accept it
38:32we've
38:32missed the appointment just be with us today
38:40you've got a day with me at home now
39:01the day's finally here i'm being induced i'd been so worried about whether tyler was going to show
39:07up and he did smile for the camera he arrived 10 minutes ago and i'm so happy we're off to
39:16the hospital
39:16i love this
39:31we're in the hospital now um the doctor's going to come and see leone in a few minutes they put
39:36her
39:36on the monitor keep an eye on the baby's heart beating if she's having any contractions or anything
39:41but the monitor's here now this is the baby's heart beats
39:52so it's five past three in the morning i am contracting now it's still bearable but they are
39:58going to take me in to break my water i'm just waiting to see the doctor saying now so we'll
40:03keep
40:04all updated
40:09she's on gas and her everything's going well tyler's fast asleep he's fine
40:19hopefully in a few hours he'll be born
40:27it's been 10 hours since had my waters broken i'm in so much pain so i've opted for a c
40:34-section
40:35i'm really nervous but i can't wait to meet my baby boy
40:58introducing kirk james born at seven pounds six ounces we are so in love already
41:26it's not been an easy nine months but it was all totally worth it and we're leaving
41:33as a family of three everything is perfect
41:46i used to be a little bit crazy back in the day okay why are you laughing at me
41:50i'm gonna have some dinner read a book and then go to bed yeah yeah
41:54good one
42:01no way jesse what have you done
42:09i really care anymore i'm just done with the whole situation
42:15hello open the door jump up let's go
42:18hello open it please don't screw it in your pants
42:22hello are you forgetting the lies you told me
42:26i know about the um drinks yeah
42:29you know what like what is it necessary what is that seeing you always in elizabeth house
42:36relationship she'd missed out on a lot if it weren't for you i'm just so glad that she's got a
42:43jack
42:45you've got to look after yourself tyler can do a bit more no matter what he's doing it's never
42:49going to be right for you i'm trying but i am so much biting my tongue i can't bother the
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