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RUSH and Raffo met 3 years ago while Rush was working as an exotic dancer in a club in London. Recently Raffo asked Rush if she would be happy to open up their bedroom to another woman. Rush’s initial reaction to the proposal was to question if she was "not enough," but after some thought the deciding factor was: “Men eventually cheat, so I'd rather join in.” Before opening up their bedroom, Rush considered herself heterosexual and had only kissed a girl once or twice in the past but thought nothing of it. Rush now acknowledges she’s bisexual while Raffo remains straight. Rush and Raffo use Hinge to find new partners. Once the two agree on a woman they like, they’ll take her on a date. The couple describe themselves as “very picky” and use an "ick list," such as chewing loudly or poor hygiene. They are known as the ‘freaky couple,’ so once they posted online that they’re looking for a third, their friends took it lightly and believe it's just a joke or for content. The pair believe they will be open to having a long-term girlfriend in the future. In this episode we see the couple embark on a blind date! Will they hit it off?
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00:00I'm Rush.
00:01I'm Raffle.
00:02And we're in an open relationship.
00:04I've just always thought men cheat.
00:06So I thought, why not just join in?
00:09I feel about Rush ever dating another man, never.
00:14Would you be open to dating another man?
00:16Yes.
00:18So today we're going on a date.
00:21We're hoping to see someone that's good looking,
00:24has a nice body.
00:26You like the thick girls?
00:27I cannot date a Capricorn.
00:30That's the one star sign.
00:31It's a big no-no.
00:32I need to ask this.
00:34This is quite big for me.
00:35What's your star sign?
00:38I'm Raffle, and this is my partner Rush.
00:40And we're in an open relationship.
00:42I feel like men always cheat, so I joined in.
00:45We're open to finding a long-time girlfriend
00:48to join our relationship.
00:49We met on a night out.
00:51Rush was dancing there.
00:53She was working.
00:54She was doing exotic dancing.
00:55Rush caught my eye immediately amongst all the dancers.
00:57I can't lie.
00:58So straight away, I just said to her,
01:00Miss, don't mean to bother you,
01:01but I just think you look beautiful, you know?
01:03My first impressions of Raphael Yellow
01:06was that he was very good looking.
01:08We're in an open relationship.
01:10We're very new to it.
01:11It was actually my idea.
01:14At first, I was a bit hesitant to bring it up to Rush.
01:17I was a bit surprised.
01:18I wasn't expecting it.
01:20But then after a while, I fought by it, and I thought, why not?
01:25It'll be fun.
01:26So in my mind, I've just always thought men cheat.
01:29So I thought, why not just join in?
01:32Because I'm not going to lie, I don't want to be cheated on.
01:36I've experienced that before.
01:38It's not a nice feeling.
01:39So I was just like, this time round, it's not happening.
01:42So we've been dating for a couple of months now.
01:44It kind of started on Hinge.
01:47Maybe I was looking for a third.
01:48Yeah, we were just surprised about how many people
01:51were actually interested in us.
01:52All my days.
01:53That's my number.
01:54We've got seven.
01:55So we actually have an ick list.
01:59I've actually got it on my phone, by the way.
02:00It's actually, it's a list of about 10 maybe, I would say.
02:04The main one is chewing too loud.
02:08He chews like he's never eaten food before.
02:12That is my ick about you.
02:14You're a hypocrite as well, on top of that.
02:16So I guess that's too ick.
02:17We really don't like someone that talks a lot.
02:20Another one, which is being overly self-centered.
02:23Yeah.
02:24You just talk about yourself all the time.
02:26It's boring.
02:26Yeah.
02:27Another one is being too negative and complaining all the time.
02:31You don't want a negative person.
02:32I feel like it will bring our energy down.
02:34I feel like we're looking for the same type of girl.
02:36Someone that's really bubbly, good energy, funny.
02:40How I feel about Rush ever dating another man?
02:44Never.
02:44Would you be open to dating another man?
02:47Yes.
02:49Rush is into women.
02:51You know, I'm not into men.
02:54So I don't really see how us adding a male into the relationship would work because it's like,
02:59this is meant to be a group project when we add a third.
03:03So if she was to add another male, I wouldn't be able to join that group project,
03:09if you get what I'm trying to say.
03:10So today we're going on a date.
03:12This is our first time going on a blind date.
03:14First time of a blind date.
03:16So I'm really, how have you been there?
03:19I feel like I'm a bit nervous, but excited at the same time because I want to know who it
03:23is.
03:24Yeah, babe.
03:25Can you help me decide what to wear?
03:27I do like the brown one, but I do think it is a little bit too much for where we're
03:31going.
03:32I feel like this is a bit more restaurant vibe.
03:34You know what I'm saying?
03:35Yeah.
03:35So I think blue jeans, black top, and you're still showing a bit of skin.
03:40Yeah.
03:40You know what I'm saying?
03:40You still want to entice her a little bit.
03:42Exactly, because you know I like to look good, so I need to dress them first for this date.
03:48Definitely.
03:49We'll know from the jump though if she's actually like our type, like if we're going to click.
03:53It's going to be good.
03:54It's going to be good.
03:55Babe, I'm ready.
03:55How long are you going to be?
03:56I'm ready.
03:59What do you think?
04:01Yeah, that's making sense.
04:03Yeah, you look good, babe.
04:04You're looking sexy right now.
04:06We're hoping to see someone that's good looking, has a nice body.
04:12You like the thick girls, as you've mentioned.
04:14Yeah, she knows me, I love girls.
04:15Ideally though, what would you want this girl to look like, to even be wearing?
04:19I really want to see her body shape and see if it's our kind of vibe.
04:24Do you get me?
04:24Hopefully we can find our future girlfriend.
04:26I'm feeling good.
04:28Feeling good?
04:29Yeah.
04:29A little bit nervous.
04:30I'm feeling nervous.
04:31Yeah.
04:32Nah, we'll be good though, man.
04:33Not our first rodeo.
04:34True.
04:35I wonder how she's going to look like.
04:37Hi, guys.
04:38I'm Vahar.
04:39Hi.
04:40Nice to meet you.
04:42Nice to meet you too.
04:43Nice to meet you too.
04:44Nice to meet you.
04:45Oh, you look cute.
04:46Oh, thank you.
04:48So are you.
04:48You look nice.
04:49I like the tattoos.
04:51How are you feeling?
04:52I'm a bit nervous.
04:54How are you feeling?
04:55Never done this before.
04:56Never.
04:56Yeah.
04:57What made you guys want to do this though?
04:59Why do you want a third?
05:01Well, it was mainly his idea.
05:03My idea, yeah.
05:03First.
05:04Yeah, I'm sure you could tell.
05:05I'm the one smiling the most.
05:07Running bare teeth.
05:08Yeah, it was my idea.
05:10Yeah.
05:10I just thought, why not?
05:12Just, you know, something fun, spice it up.
05:14Yeah, greedy.
05:15I had a feeling I was into girls as well.
05:18I've never dated any women before, but I've always been interested in women.
05:23But I've never really explored that side of my interests until now.
05:29So it's like, why not?
05:32Why not go for it?
05:33What actually made you think like, yeah, this is what I want to do.
05:36Like, is it something that you want to do long term?
05:40Or just for a bit of fun?
05:42A little bit of fun.
05:43And I just thought like, yeah, I just thought, why not?
05:46Spice up your life.
05:47Yeah.
05:48Are you single?
05:48Yeah.
05:49Okay.
05:50When was your last relationship?
05:51My last relationship, like, two and a half years ago.
05:54Do you know what it is for me?
05:55Like, as I've gotten older, it's like I'm more floating to females.
06:00But I'm still open to, I mean, yeah.
06:04Yeah.
06:04To both.
06:04Two people.
06:06Yeah.
06:06Who wouldn't want that?
06:07Who wouldn't want that?
06:09The best of both worlds, if you're not available, she is.
06:12Yeah, she is.
06:12You are.
06:13Do you get it?
06:14It's religious.
06:15Yeah.
06:15Exactly, I'm like it.
06:16Okay.
06:18And you've asked this, this is quite big for me.
06:19What's your star sign?
06:20I knew that was coming.
06:22Ah, did you know it?
06:22Yes, I did.
06:23And I'm into a girl that's into star signs.
06:26And I'm not going to lie, I cannot date a Capricorn.
06:30That's the one star sign I just...
06:33It's a big no-no.
06:33It's a big no-no.
06:34Yeah.
06:35Male, female, no.
06:37I'm an Aries.
06:39Okay.
06:39What does that mean?
06:41Does that mean it's good?
06:41Yeah.
06:42Oh, so I ticked the box.
06:43Yeah, you ticked the box.
06:44Yeah, yeah.
06:45Were you expecting to date a couple today?
06:47No.
06:49No.
06:50Really?
06:51Yeah, literally no.
06:52Yeah.
06:53Yeah, I've never done something like this before, so I just feel like, yeah, why not?
06:59Why not?
07:00Exactly.
07:00Is it all right if I go to the toilet?
07:02Yeah, sure.
07:05We're really enjoying the date.
07:06Yeah, I'm enjoying it a lot.
07:07It's going good.
07:08Yeah, it's going well.
07:09I like her.
07:10I like her.
07:10Yeah, good vibe.
07:11I think the date's going very well.
07:13Yeah, I'm having fun.
07:14And we vibe off of each other, so.
07:16She's got the looks.
07:17I love her personality.
07:19And plus, she's an Aries, so.
07:21Yeah, yeah.
07:22So, what personality traits do you like in a person?
07:26I like someone that doesn't take themselves too seriously.
07:29Someone that likes to have a lot of fun.
07:30Oh, me.
07:31Yeah.
07:32Yeah?
07:32Mm-hmm.
07:33Me, I like people that are just very positive, that try to have a positive outlook on life.
07:38Okay, so what are your ex?
07:40Chewing loudly.
07:41Chewing loudly.
07:42Okay.
07:43Yeah.
07:45Do you, is that you?
07:47Weak as a Z.
07:50Do you guys ever get jealous or is there any boundaries in your relationship having a third?
07:57No.
07:57I don't get jealous because I feel like one of the main rules is just like being honest with each
08:03other.
08:03Yeah.
08:03And knowing everything.
08:05Yeah.
08:05Because it's keeping the respect.
08:07Yeah, and you know your position, like if you're going to get into something like this,
08:10you know what to expect, you know?
08:11Exactly.
08:12We always, we always speak about things beforehand as well, so like make sure we're on the same page.
08:15We're most good.
08:17Yeah, our communication is very good, so.
08:18Yeah.
08:18What's your friend's views on it?
08:21Um, some agree.
08:22Yeah.
08:22And then some don't get it.
08:24Some don't get it.
08:25They're like, what are you guys doing?
08:26What's the point?
08:27Like some people thought we was like playing.
08:29Yeah.
08:30All right, yeah, fun's over now.
08:31People online just thought you was joking to be honest.
08:33They really didn't take us seriously.
08:35They didn't take us seriously.
08:35Like they was literally laughing.
08:37Yeah.
08:38We've told some friends and some family members and some of them are not so happy and others
08:46have accepted it.
08:46Yeah, some really, some don't really get it.
08:49They're thinking like, okay, you guys are just doing too much now.
08:52I feel like with my family, it is a bit disappointing that they are not really,
08:56some of them not being entirely supportive.
08:58But to be honest, we can't really let it stop us.
09:00I feel like at first I was disappointed, but now I've just kind of accepted it.
09:05It is what it is.
09:06I'm content with our situation.
09:08So after this experience, how do you feel about becoming a third with us?
09:15I mean, you know, I'm open to it.
09:17So yeah, like I said, the best of both.
09:20So count me in.
09:22Yeah, literally.
09:24Good.
09:24Sounds good.
09:25Sounds good.
09:25Well, it was nice meeting you.
09:28Nice to meet you too.
09:29Cheers.
09:30Until next time.
09:31I think the date went really well.
09:33I feel like I clicked with both of them.
09:34Like we was bouncing off of each other.
09:36The date went really well.
09:38Yeah, it went really good.
09:39Yeah, we vibed with her.
09:40I feel like we clicked straight away.
09:42100%.
09:42She's definitely our sort of vibe.
09:45Yeah, I fancied both of them.
09:46I definitely fancied her.
09:48Yeah, same.
09:49I think she's really pretty.
09:50I liked her tattoos.
09:51I think she likes me, for sure.
09:55I feel like, how can you not look at me?
09:58I'm handsome.
09:59Like, she likes me.
10:01Of course.
10:01We're definitely going to keep scouring the options.
10:03Because it's quite new for us.
10:05So we want to just see how it goes.
10:06Yeah, we're going to take our time, not rush it.
10:08But for like, in the future, bringing in the third person,
10:11we want it to be like a, eventually become really like an equal thing.
10:14So they feel like loved and really appreciated.
10:17What I love the most about Rush is just her like confidence and her strength.
10:21She's just fully herself, always striving to be better every day.
10:25And even more of it, it's me.
10:26What I love about Raffo is that he's my biggest fan.
10:30He's very supportive of what I do.
10:32Our goal is to live freely, be happy, and also always push each other.
10:37And always just grow.
10:51Let's do it.
10:52You
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