00:00We met our boyfriend Josh at doggy daycare.
00:03And I was a virgin until I met my two girlfriends.
00:06He tricked us.
00:07Oh yeah.
00:08Because we did not know that he was a virgin.
00:11We are a polyamorous throuple.
00:14If I was in a relationship with just one person, I promise she would be easier.
00:18I think my mom was a little surprised.
00:20It's my first relationship ever.
00:22I was scared for you guys to be hurt.
00:24I was.
00:25Poly relationships is just closeted cheating.
00:28We just had a hate comment just now.
00:31We literally just now got a hate comment.
00:34Before we met Josh, we'd been together about like three or four years.
00:37Summer, you wanna go for a walk?
00:39When we first got together, we were kind of thinking about polyamory.
00:42Let me get you a little leash on.
00:44Come on, girl.
00:45But we also just wanted to explore and like figure out what we wanted.
00:49It was definitely trial and error.
00:50Especially being two girls, a lot of people were very gross.
00:53Yeah.
00:54I'll say.
00:55Give me one Irish.
00:56Give me one.
00:57That's what was nice about when we met Josh was because we pursued him.
01:01He wasn't weird.
01:02Yeah.
01:03Come on, Summer.
01:04Let's go.
01:05Josh is an introvert.
01:06I'm an introvert.
01:08I think Kendall's our extrovert, so.
01:10A little bit.
01:11Me and Kendall have been together for six years.
01:14But we've known each other since we were 11.
01:16Me and Kendall met in middle school.
01:18We became best friends.
01:20I always wanted more.
01:22I will say that.
01:23I was pining for Iris even in our younger years.
01:27Good job, mommy.
01:28Give me that.
01:29I hadn't yet realized I was even gay at that point, so I.
01:33Go get some.
01:34Did not return those feelings until later after high school.
01:37We got together and then two years after that we met Josh.
01:40Yeah.
01:41Yeah.
01:42We got with Josh.
01:43Two years this January.
01:44We had already been working with him for.
01:46Years at that point.
01:47Like two years.
01:48I immediately had a crush on Josh.
01:50Immediately.
01:51So it was like Josh just like appeared like a little angel.
01:53Like a puzzle piece really.
01:54Yeah.
01:55He just like fit into our puzzle pieces.
02:01Jealousy is so normal and it's so common especially when you're in a situation like this.
02:06But Josh helped us learn how to get through it a lot because we realized that if we were mean to each other it was also hurting him.
02:12Because there's love for everyone to have you know.
02:14Yeah.
02:15It was rocky in the beginning but we got a hang of it.
02:17As soon as we started getting together it just it felt so natural.
02:21He was just always so like so great and so sweet and kind.
02:26Yeah it was definitely pretty casual at first.
02:29Then we just fell in love with Josh.
02:31So fast.
02:33He tricked us.
02:34Oh yeah.
02:35Because we did not know that he was a virgin the first time he came over.
02:40I didn't even suspect afterwards.
02:42Yeah at all.
02:43Yeah I didn't think he was a virgin at all.
02:45And then he said he was and when he said he was I genuinely thought he was lying.
02:50He was so confident that first night.
02:52He was very confident and very like I don't know it just seemed like you knew what you were doing.
02:59Sometimes people you can a little twinge of jealousy.
03:02Yeah.
03:03It's pretty great.
03:04Makes me feel like I'm on top of the world you know.
03:05It's great.
03:06Yeah that was great.
03:07It was unexpected but it's the best thing that's ever happened to me.
03:11Okay I'm not good at dancing though so just know that.
03:14You just have to do something like literally so small.
03:17This one we got poly relationships is just closeted cheating.
03:22How is it closeted if we're out in the open about it?
03:25I think a lot of people don't realize that.
03:29Just because I love Iris doesn't mean I don't love Josh and vice versa.
03:34We just got a hate comment just now.
03:36We literally just now got a hate comment.
03:38Why did someone just tag us?
03:40It says hot take people in poly relationships be ugly sometimes.
03:45I just feel like it's outlandish.
03:46Yeah.
03:47I don't know why you're saying that.
03:48At least yeah exactly like who are you?
03:52We're very happy together and there's no reason to pass judgment on something you know very little about.
03:57Someone said he just got lost in the black forest and got blessed at the same time.
04:03Any racial comments have been mostly like this white man has two black queens.
04:08Yes.
04:09People are shocked that he has two black queens.
04:12Why take the opportunity to be mean?
04:14Yeah.
04:15And you could just be nice and maybe brighten someone's day.
04:19Okay Josh will you get the brown sugar out?
04:22I feel like we're all very respectful.
04:23You know we're polyamorous so like if you have a crush on someone that's fine just tell me about it like.
04:28You can't really control your feelings and I think we're a testament to that.
04:33Really the most important thing when you are in a polyamorous relationship
04:37everyone's feelings have to matter or it can get really toxic and really unfair.
04:42First time Josh he had spent the night and I had to work the next day but Kimble didn't.
04:46So they literally spent the morning together and I was so salty like what?
04:51Okay Josh can you give me half a cup of sugar and a fourth a cup of brown sugar?
04:57It can be exhausting too like if I was in a relationship with just one person I promise you would be easier.
05:03I promise you it would.
05:04Like the communication has to know.
05:06Like it would but like we do it even though it's hard because of how much love there is and how much fun it is.
05:12Like our polyamorous relationship right now is closed.
05:16I think right now adding someone in would just kind of be it'd be too much for them and for us probably so.
05:22We're just gonna stay focused on us.
05:29My mom and Josh's mom are coming over to discuss how they really feel about our relationship.
05:35When they had a crush on Josh I was kind of involved in that part of it.
05:39Because they would talk about him and we don't know what to do.
05:42We don't know how to approach him.
05:44Like should we do it this way?
05:45Should we do it that way?
05:46He actually didn't tell me.
05:48He just showed me a picture.
05:50I think my mom was a little surprised.
05:52It's my first relationship ever.
05:54So it just kind of came out of the blue for everyone including me.
05:57People out there think they're committing the ultimate sin and they don't know how this is gonna work.
06:03I'm actually kind of scared to see what Robin has to say.
06:06Because me and Kendall want her approval so bad so.
06:11I'm nervous about her first initial thought.
06:19Hey!
06:20Hello!
06:21We're here!
06:22So nice to see you!
06:24I missed you guys.
06:26Let's keep up!
06:28I got the muffins!
06:30Alright!
06:31They're still probably hot so.
06:33I made so many.
06:36Chocolate chip banana.
06:37Yum!
06:38What am I gonna say to people when we go out?
06:42This is my daughter Iris.
06:43This is her girlfriend Kendall.
06:45And this is their boyfriend Josh.
06:47Yeah.
06:48Okay so when am I gonna have some grandchildren?
06:50It's crazy that that's what you started out with!
06:54First thing?
06:55First thing?
06:56I mean I don't know.
06:57It's gonna be a while.
06:58First I wanna know what you even think about this.
07:02About this.
07:03Like your honest opinions.
07:04I was worried at first.
07:06Because I just thought there's no way this is gonna work!
07:10Josh were you nervous to introduce me to this?
07:13No I wasn't nervous at all.
07:15You'd always been just super accepting of what I wanted to do.
07:20Were you nervous to tell me about all of this?
07:24I was only because I know you're gonna give me like hard truths.
07:29And like ask me the hard questions.
07:31I was excited because I was ready for the questions.
07:33I was like bring them on!
07:35I was surprised that there was somebody that you both liked.
07:39So that to me was interesting because you don't have the same taste.
07:44He was so like sweet and like kind to the dogs and kind to other people and he was so shy.
07:50And he was just easy to like fall for it.
07:53A little bit after I told you you were like well what are you guys gonna do if Josh likes one of you more?
07:59And we were just like we'll figure it out.
08:02Yeah I was scared for you guys to be hurt.
08:04I was.
08:05Yeah.
08:06We just worried how people would judge you all.
08:10Yeah.
08:11Yeah.
08:12Have you experienced any of that?
08:15Online we do get some comments that are negative.
08:19Why would you do this?
08:21No man deserves all this.
08:23Yeah.
08:24Unless it's someone I know, comments like that really don't bother me.
08:28Josh, he has a big heart, a loving heart to love not only one woman but two women.
08:35Well, a lot of men can barely handle one woman.
08:38Yes.
08:39But two women?
08:40Yes.
08:41That's a task all on its own.
08:42Yeah.
08:43That's what I saw when I met you.
08:45You were considerate of them as individuals.
08:48Two wonderful, beautiful women.
08:51Oh, I love you mom.
08:52Are you about to cry Joshy?
08:54You got me watering up.
08:55I love it.
08:56I love it.
08:57Oh, that's so cute.
08:58Josh never cries.
09:00It's great to know we have supporters out there.
09:03Yeah.
09:04You know?
09:05And not people who are like waiting for us to fail.
09:08Yes.
09:09That's how it feels.
09:12The future holds lots of gaming, lots of animals everywhere all the time.
09:19Learning how to do life, like learning how to be an adult.
09:23We've all come into ourselves so much.
09:25We know what we want from a relationship and from another person and from ourselves.
09:29And I'm just excited for more honestly.
09:32Me too.
09:49Uh, We've seen some other people.
09:50We lived with, uh, and some people.
09:51Uh, and we have people here
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