00:00Here's the issue. It comes from Caroline. She says, good morning. My husband died three years
00:05ago and I still wear my wedding ring. I wouldn't say I'm actively looking for love, but I am open
00:11to finding someone again. My friend told me I shouldn't wear the ring when we go out for drinks
00:16because it immediately turns guys off from approaching me. But I argue that whoever I
00:21date is going to know I'm a widow probably on the very first date. So why not just be upfront about
00:25it? I would love the guy's opinion on this. Caroline says, she said, I wear the ring because
00:31my husband will always be part of who I am. He's also the father of my children. And I feel like
00:36taking the ring off denies them somehow. Oh, what do you think? Well, this is heavy handed, obviously.
00:45And I can't speak from any point of experience other than being a guy walking around a bar.
00:51I totally understand what her friends are saying, because as a guy, you don't want to approach a
00:56married woman at a bar and make them feel uncomfortable. I completely agree with Jeff.
01:01Every single point that he made is exactly what I was going to say. When you're at a bar, a single guy,
01:07you are looking at fingers and you don't want to be the guy that breaks up a happy home. You never
01:12want to be that guy. I agree with you guys when it comes to the dating scene. Yeah. But I feel like
01:18Caroline isn't really ready. I think you're absolutely right. I think that if she were, if she
01:24were out there looking for love, then she would not be wearing the ring. And maybe, maybe it's even
01:29the circumstance. Maybe this isn't the ideal place for her to find her next date while she's hanging
01:34out with the girls in a bar or going out for drinks and wants a stranger. Like, maybe that's not what
01:40she sees for her future. She's a mom.
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