00:00Yes, uh, you're
00:05saying something.
00:06Aacharya Ji, Namaskar.
00:10So, Aacharya Ji, I got your point and I have been following the point and it
00:15is really helping me in enhancing my companionship.
00:20Initially, I entered into without choosing for the right person like as well.
00:25It happened by parents twice.
00:27It used to happen in India.
00:28You can see that.
00:30I feel it's happening like two partners are not, don't choose each other.
00:34They are chosen by their.
00:35They are parents.
00:36Suppose something like that happens.
00:38I have seen a few couples.
00:40You can see this very closely.
00:41That one person is on the higher level and one person.
00:45But partner is on the lower level.
00:47So, the person who is, you know.
00:50Um, on the higher level, she just drains her energy to uplift her part.
00:55So, how can she save herself?
00:56Because ultimately.
00:57So, how can she save herself?
00:59Because ultimately.
01:00I see that after 20 or 25 years, she is just torn out.
01:04She just.
01:05She says, I have given everything to a person.
01:07But this person hasn't changed.
01:09But as I thought that.
01:10This is my duty to uplift that.
01:12My partner.
01:13So, but she just fails.
01:15And see.
01:16And see.
01:17I have seen so many of.
01:18Not so many, but just few couples.
01:20I have seen closely.
01:21They are very much in a bad condition.
01:23Now what to do?
01:24So.
01:25What suggestion can you give that partner who is on the higher level and she has given.
01:30so much energy to uplift her partner.
01:33Just.
01:34I wanted.
01:35to know that.
01:36Do we know our duties really?
01:39Do we know our duties really?
01:40Do.
01:41Where did she pick that from?
01:43This is my duty to.
01:45keep
01:45exerting myself on my partner
01:49for 25 years
01:50where does this come from
01:52how does she know
01:53that this is her duty
01:55how exactly
01:57hmm
02:00who told her
02:00and if you ask her
02:03she'll have no specific answer
02:05she'll say
02:06but you know
02:06this is the way it is
02:07in the society
02:08and in the tradition
02:09yes
02:10and my mom told me
02:11and the tv serials told me
02:12yeah
02:13yes
02:13and the culture told me
02:14culture told me
02:15yes
02:15well then
02:17that's the thing
02:17and i am the sita
02:19and he's
02:19i want to
02:20i want to
02:23make him
02:23just like that
02:25none of that
02:30none of that
02:30yes
02:31see please understand
02:35this might sound a little odd
02:40if someone
02:43if you're in a relationship
02:45and that fellow
02:47forgets
02:50bless you
02:50for the sake of
02:52something worthwhile
02:55hmm
02:55don't regret that
02:57celebrate that
02:58yes
02:59yes
03:00of course
03:00celebrate that
03:03hmm
03:05don't be worried
03:07that you are
03:07no longer
03:09occupying
03:10his mind space
03:11yes
03:12if you ever
03:14if you ever
03:15read that tells
03:15of your insecurity
03:16correct
03:17yes
03:18and this insecurity
03:19becomes violent
03:20i must constantly
03:22be present in your thoughts
03:23yes
03:25you must be prepared
03:27to vacate
03:28all the space
03:29you must be prepared
03:54if a person is committed
03:55to nonsense
03:56and you say
03:56for 25 years
03:57i have been committed
03:58to this person
03:59do you
03:59see what you're saying
04:01you're saying
04:02you're saying
04:02i'm committed
04:03to nonsense
04:03hmm
04:04exactly
04:05in an indirect way
04:06yes
04:08why
04:12why
04:12you're
04:15you're saying
04:17responsibility
04:18is towards
04:20who you are
04:20you're not a
04:22husband
04:22you're not a
04:22husband
04:23or a wife
04:23or a brother
04:24or a friend
04:25or a sister
04:25or a father
04:26or some
04:26you're a human being
04:28you're a human being
04:30a fundamental
04:32responsibility
04:33is to attain
04:34your highest potential
04:35yes
04:37born alone
04:38you'll die alone
04:39yes
04:40in fact
04:43we
04:43live
04:46alone as well.
04:49You are sent off to jail.
04:51Do others accompany you?
04:53That was the question Valmiki asked.
04:56And this one question was enough.
05:01Right?
05:03He went to his wife and he said,
05:06I'm doing all these wild things,
05:09robbing people,
05:10killing them.
05:11And most of the money that I
05:16bring is used for this family.
05:21Not for me alone.
05:23So when,
05:25I'll
05:26get the punishment for
05:27all these sins,
05:29my deeds.
05:31Will you all accompany me?
05:34In a moment of
05:36rare honesty,
05:37the wife said no.
05:38Hmm.
05:41And Valmiki became
05:44Rishi Valmiki.
05:46He was called Ratnakar before that.
05:51Is that I've understood.
05:54It's between me
05:56and me.
05:56and me alone.
05:57Nobody else can walk it for me.
06:00Or even walk
06:01along with me.
06:06Yes.
06:08Are you getting?
06:09So that's your
06:10fundamental response.
06:11responsibility
06:11towards the self.
06:15And that's not the
06:16lowly kind of
06:16selfishness.
06:20Hmm.
06:21That's deep wisdom.
06:23That's the highest
06:24spirituality.
06:25To attain to the
06:25highest
06:26wisdom.
06:26highest self.
06:29And in that
06:30place,
06:31process
06:31if you get a
06:33companion.
06:34Wonderful!
06:36But it's not
06:37for the sake
06:37of companion
06:38that you walk
06:39the road.
06:39Or do you?
06:40Do you?
06:41Do you?
06:43No.
06:43No.
06:44You book a
06:44flight or a
06:45train.
06:46ticket.
06:47If you get a
06:48worthy companion.
06:50Wonderful!
06:51Otherwise,
06:52what matters?
06:56Is that the
06:56destination is
06:57right and
06:57the train
06:59doesn't get
07:00late.
07:00That's
07:01all that matters
07:01right?
07:03If you get a
07:04companion,
07:04that's fine.
07:05If you don't
07:05get a
07:05companion,
07:06even that
07:06is fine.
07:08You are
07:09open to
07:09both.
07:11Am I
07:12open to
07:12a relationship?
07:13Yes.
07:14Am I
07:15hungry for
07:15a relationship?
07:16No.
07:17No.
07:19If there is
07:19something
07:20worthwhile,
07:21the next
07:21seat.
07:24Let's
07:24try a
07:25conversation.
07:26And if
07:27there is
07:28nobody
07:28there,
07:28I'll
07:29get
07:29busy
07:29with
07:29a
07:29book.
07:31I'll
07:32get
07:32busy
07:33with
07:33a
07:33book.
07:35I'm
07:35not
07:35dying.
07:36to
07:36chat
07:37with
07:37him
07:38or
07:38her
07:39or
07:39no.
07:41I'm
07:42I'm
07:43I'm
07:44I'm
07:45I'm
07:46I'm
07:47I'm
07:48I'm
07:49I'm
07:50I'm
07:51I'm
07:52I'm
07:53I'm
07:54I'm
07:55I'm
07:56I'm
07:57I'm
07:58I'm
07:59I'm
08:00I'm
08:01I'm
08:02I'm
08:03I'm
08:04I'm
08:05I'm
08:06I'm
08:07I'm
08:08I'm
08:09I'm
08:10Most of it arises from…
08:15an ignorance of the self and the resultant purposelessness.
08:20If you have randomly boarded a train,
08:25you have…
08:25you have nowhere to go.
08:29Right?
08:31So, for the sake of entertainment,
08:34general time pass.
08:36You say, fine, there is this train,
08:37must be going somewhere.
08:39Let me hop on.
08:40Then obviously your entire purpose will be to hunt…
08:46These are my fellow passengers.
08:48Hello.
08:49Hello.
08:50Hi, Ji.
08:51So, Ji.
08:52How many babies, Ji?
08:54They…
08:55This fellow is jobless, purposeless.
08:57Nothing to do in life.
09:00So, all that he is doing is trying to form relationships.
09:06Radiate your nature.
09:09I repeat.
09:10Is the sun not related to every speck of dust?
09:15In the solar system?
09:18But the sun is not trying.
09:20That's nature.
09:23That's nature.
09:25Be who you are.
09:26Be who you are.
09:28And in that, there would be…
09:30great relationships.
09:31Even without your knowledge.
09:34Even without…
09:35Without your effort.
09:37You don't have to wait.
09:39You don't have to plan.
09:40you don't have to keep looking at your face.
09:43You don't have to keep looking at your face.
09:45shoulder, is there somebody following me? Nobody, I am still so lonely.
09:50Do you see how?
09:55Great potentials get destroyed just because
10:00your intention, your energy starts flowing in the...
10:05direction of hunting for company.
10:10It's a very cruel game that Prakriti and our bodies play.
10:15When you are at the peak of your energy,
10:20hmmm, and your intellectual prowess...
10:25that's also the time of your...
10:30peak reproductive action.
10:36Such a cruel thing to happen.
10:39So the energy...
10:40the powers that could have gone towards...
10:45building a life...
10:50go towards hunting a partner.
10:55Dic State forbid of hunting
11:01these people around the remained.
11:07Day 2
11:13Day 3
11:15Day 3
11:17Day 4
11:21Day 4
11:23Just waiting to be married off.
11:28Look at the wastage of human potential.
11:33Look at the wastage of human potential.
11:38And that's not only in India particularly.
11:43Everywhere in the world it's very common for women to give up.
11:48The higher things in life for the sake of company.
11:52For the sake of company.
11:57What are you doing?
12:27You
12:32Anything more on this?
12:37You
12:42Anything more on this?
12:47You
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