00:00The deeper the lovelessness, the more lavish the wedding is.
00:04Think of the various ways in which everybody uses money to compensate for the real thing.
00:10The father won't give daughter the right kind of education.
00:13He withheld funds, so he sends her off with a load of dowry.
00:18Read somewhere that how to know your partner is cheating on you.
00:22If your husband suddenly starts bringing you expensive gifts,
00:26that's a sign he might be now involved somewhere else.
00:31It's funny. It's a cosmic joke.
00:35The extent to which man goes just to defend the inner hollow,
00:41just to protect the inner slavery.
00:45The problem is you'd still not be contented.
00:48You'd still be as miserable within, as hollow as you always were.
00:53It won't help go for the real thing.
00:56Can there be an inner richness?
01:04And can you be inwardly rich without being inwardly free of the world?
01:14I'm asking you.
01:15And what can all your external riches give you if you are inwardly still dominated
01:27by frameworks that somebody put into your head?
01:32You are rich but within the framework.
01:37And the framework came from somebody else.
01:40You are still a slave.
01:42Maybe a rich slave.
01:44And rich only within the framework.
01:47I'm not saying the poor ones are any better.
02:00They are poor slaves.
02:03You have rich slaves, you have poor slaves.
02:06But where is freedom?
02:10The more the internal hollowness, the internal insecurity, the more the need to ostentate,
02:28the more the urge to demonstrate that you have actually raised a head, the deeper the lovelessness,
02:52the more lavish the wedding is.
02:55The more lavish the wedding is.
02:57Think of the various ways in which everybody uses money to compensate for the real thing.
03:01Think of the various ways in which everybody uses money to compensate for the real thing.
03:03The father won't give daughter the right kind of education.
03:06The right kind of education.
03:08Think of the various ways in which everybody uses money to compensate for the real thing.
03:26The father won't give daughter the right kind of education.
03:32He withheld funds.
03:39So, he sends her off with a load of dowry.
03:47Love was missing, so dowry is present.
03:51Had you really loved her, you would have spent that money in her education.
03:58When it came to education, you said, no, no, no, you go to some random college in the village or in the town.
04:04Just somehow get a degree and get married off.
04:10And when it came to the wedding, an entire truckload of things were dispatched with her.
04:21See how money is being used to compensate for lovelessness?
04:30Read somewhere that one of the signs, it was a very general kind of article, how do you know your partner is cheating on you?
04:45Hmm?
04:46The kind of random spicy pieces that mediocre news websites publish.
05:00So, one of the telltale signs they said, and the article was targeted at women.
05:07If your husband suddenly starts bringing you expensive gifts, that's a sign he might be now involved somewhere else.
05:22All of a sudden, he has started bringing you jewelry for no reason or something or whatever, or lingerie, whatever, for no reason and expensive stuff.
05:47This is a sign that he is now cheating.
06:09It's funny.
06:11It's a cosmic joke, the extent to which man goes, just to defend the inner hollow, just to protect the inner slavery.
06:31Somebody becomes the world's richest man, somebody becomes the world's most powerful man.
06:41Hitler, you know he was trying to be an artist.
06:45He went to Vienna.
06:50And then he became the world's most powerful dictator, ahead of Stalin actually.
06:56He was rejected both times from there.
07:03He used to sketch and I suppose paint or something, figure out.
07:09Where the young man, he wanted to enroll in some arts course and the university rejected him, not once but twice.
07:26And then he said, I'll make up for it.
07:30This entire world is unjust, not just this university.
07:36And because the world is unjust, I'll dismantle everything.
07:42He could have been some kind of a semi-decent artist, you know, sign boards or something, flower pots.
08:00That was his calling.
08:10Or the rear of trucks in India.
08:18That was the only little thing that the fellow wanted.
08:20Let me do this.
08:28And then see the extent to which he went to compensate.
08:46Somebody will become the richest, the most powerful, something, something, something.
08:58Somebody ran a confectionery shop, it didn't do well.
09:04So he said, okay, I'll show you what I can do.
09:11So he became the biggest bully in the district.
09:16All that he wanted was that, you know, some sweets that he makes.
09:21People buy them and give him some money, some appreciation.
09:26But nobody came to his sweet stalls.
09:33So he became the Muslim man of the area.
09:50The problem is, you'd still not be contented.
09:56You'd still be as miserable within, as hollow as you always were.
10:04You can burn as much money as you want.
10:09You can splurge and demonstrate to the entire universe.
10:15Won't help.
10:26The eyes would still keep begging.
10:31See, I demonstrated so much.
10:33Can you give me a little?
10:36Yeah, nod of acceptance.
10:39Please, one nod of acceptance.
10:42The rich man is begging to the beggars.
10:44See, I displayed so much wealth.
10:47Please get impressed.
10:49Won't you?
10:51Please?
10:52Micro, nano, some teeny-weeny approval from anybody?
11:02Go for the real thing.
11:12Inequality, that is not the fundamental problem.
11:26The fundamental problem is the framework itself.
11:33A framework in which you cannot be successful without being ahead of the world.
11:42That's the framework.
11:45The framework says, your success will always be with respect to others.
11:50Which means, if you are ahead of others, then you are successful.
11:53So, your success in that sense is defined by your location with respect to others.
11:58The framework is the problem.
12:01Real success is when you drop the framework, you kick it away, you transcend it.
12:08That's real success.
12:19My success is my alone.
12:24Independent of the world.
12:30It doesn't depend on the worldly currency.
12:37It doesn't depend on worldly sanction.
12:41It doesn't depend on worldly approval or remembrance.
12:47My success is a totally independent thing.
12:57Mine alone.
12:59My self-worth, my self-respect do not come from others.
13:14I do not have a reflected consciousness.
13:26I do not look at myself in the eyes of others.
13:31I am a mirror to myself.
13:44I don't require others to describe me.
13:46Yes, you are welcome to give me feedbacks.
14:01But you are not welcome to give me identities.
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