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00:00Beating Mother Jo.
00:02Oh, you're joking.
00:03No.
00:04Every day you have to talk to your mom.
00:06It's ridiculous.
00:08Oh, if you're worried about that,
00:09why are you worried about your $20,000 debt that you had?
00:12Things are clearly not going well,
00:14and there's something that I need to talk to Dylan about,
00:17and I think it might make it worse.
00:20How long would it take if we did file the partnership papers
00:24for me to be able to work?
00:27Eight to seven months.
00:28Yeah, it's a long time.
00:30That's a long time.
00:31If you're married, there's no problem.
00:34Jonathan and I have talked about getting married,
00:36but there is no way that it was going to be as soon as tomorrow.
00:41Well, I think at the end of the day,
00:42it's something to think about
00:43so we can be together in the end.
00:48I don't, like, think I love you anymore.
00:54Nothing could have prepared me for those words.
00:56That's the saddest part.
00:59There was no fight.
01:00No.
01:01Your fight's just begun, sir.
01:03I think you should have a talk with her.
01:09Oh, my God, let's get up.
01:13This is not the way I want to start my weekend wearing.
01:17I do feel dizzy and weird.
01:22I told you so many times,
01:23we even be careful when we have sex.
01:26Are you telling me that you're pregnant right now?
01:28Yes, and I have a text.
01:30I don't know, but I'm not scared.
01:55Maybe we could take a look at the possibilities.
02:02After tennis, Batia and I had a big fight
02:05about my relationship with my mum.
02:07I don't want the constant stress and the arguments,
02:10so I told her I can sort of meet her halfway
02:13with some boundaries,
02:14but my mum's going to be a part of our lives,
02:18so Batia needs to stop letting it get to her so much,
02:22you know?
02:25G'day, mate.
02:26How you going?
02:26How the bloody hell are you?
02:27Well, a long time, mate.
02:29It's a strong hand trick you've got there, mate.
02:36After you, come on, sir.
02:37All right.
02:39Ever since Batia arrived in town,
02:41like every day,
02:42she keeps asking me,
02:43when are you going to propose?
02:45G'day, guys.
02:46I'm here to get a ring polished.
02:48Certainly.
02:49So today I'm going with my buddy Chris
02:51to a jewellery store.
02:52To get the engagement ring
02:55that I gave Batia shined up
02:57so that when I'm ready to propose,
03:00it looks brand new.
03:02Beautiful.
03:03You like that, do you?
03:04Family allure?
03:05Eh, not quite.
03:07He did actually give it to
03:09his partner.
03:12Yes.
03:12Before, and then he took it back.
03:14That's right.
03:15Yeah.
03:15It's a complicated relationship.
03:20The first time I proposed to Batia,
03:23it was very lacklustre.
03:24You know, we were in bed,
03:26it was Christmas morning,
03:27and I just slipped the ring on her finger,
03:28and she said yes.
03:30I mean, I feel like
03:32that's got a bit of history behind it.
03:34Are you sure you don't want to look at other rings?
03:36No, I don't.
03:37There is so much history
03:38and so many memories.
03:40So, like, it still has a sentimental value.
03:42I definitely don't want to trade it in.
03:44You don't want to trade it in?
03:45Definitely not.
03:46Perfect.
03:47And then, uh,
03:50give it a clean and polish.
03:51Perfect.
03:52Go grab a coffee.
03:53All right.
03:55After I proposed,
03:57we'd be breaking up
03:58every three or four weeks.
04:00And, um,
04:02at one point,
04:02Batia's spending got so bad,
04:04she started selling all her jewellery
04:07just to fund her shopping habit.
04:09And I thought,
04:11she's going to pawn that.
04:13So,
04:14I took the ring back.
04:15She saw that as, you know,
04:16we're no longer engaged,
04:18which is fair enough.
04:20Okay.
04:21So, the ring.
04:22Yes.
04:23Ten years ago,
04:24you gave her the ring.
04:25And you've been holding on
04:26to that ring ever since.
04:28Yeah.
04:29You haven't proposed to her again?
04:32No, because I'm,
04:33I'm trying to fix all these issues.
04:36I don't know, 12 years.
04:37I feel like if you haven't
04:38fixed something after 12 years,
04:40how many more years
04:41is it going to take for you to fix?
04:45I'm not giving up.
04:47Hmm, okay.
04:49I'm just worried
04:49about the personality clash.
04:51You live together in Thailand.
04:53Yes.
04:53So, what happened there?
04:54Why,
04:54why did that not work out?
04:57In the beginning,
04:57it was magical.
04:58And then after a while,
05:00she was miserable,
05:02I wasn't giving her enough money,
05:03and she just,
05:05she just hated it.
05:08I just thought she would be happy
05:10living that life,
05:13that retired...
05:14Lifestyle.
05:14...beach lifestyle.
05:15But she,
05:16that wasn't enough for her.
05:18And her life has been
05:20fast-paced.
05:22Fast money,
05:23fast living.
05:24How is she going to be happy here?
05:26Long term.
05:28Honestly,
05:28think about that.
05:30She's in a foreign country.
05:31She's got no family
05:32or friends here.
05:34She's just going to be
05:35happy,
05:36hanging around
05:36in Launceston.
05:39But the thing is,
05:41there's a certain limit.
05:42You can't do that
05:43all your life.
05:43You know,
05:44she's approaching...
05:45An age.
05:46An age.
05:47She's getting older.
05:48She can't live that
05:49fast-paced life forever.
05:51I don't know.
05:52Once you're used to something,
05:53it's hard to,
05:54to change,
05:57you know.
05:58I've known Dylan
05:59always to be pretty stubborn.
06:00Like,
06:01he won't change
06:01what he eats,
06:02for example.
06:03It's only chicken and rice.
06:04I tried to get him
06:04to eat a cookie,
06:05wouldn't even need a cookie.
06:06I mean,
06:07he's pretty stubborn.
06:07He won't,
06:08he won't change anything.
06:09So,
06:09I'm worried that
06:10Dylan's stubbornness
06:12is causing him
06:13to live in a family.
06:13fantasy
06:14and not deal
06:15with reality.
06:16I don't think
06:17a ring on the finger
06:18is going to be
06:19the thing
06:21that fixes everything.
06:22I love her.
06:24I just can't
06:25see myself
06:25with anyone else.
06:27I'm not saying...
06:27I'm not even attracted
06:28to anyone else.
06:29I just want her.
06:31Look,
06:32I'm only saying
06:33this because
06:34I care about you
06:36as a friend.
06:38I love Patia.
06:40I know she makes
06:41you very happy.
06:41but
06:43your idea
06:44of happily ever after
06:45is a bit delusional.
06:49I don't think
06:50you've really thought
06:50about the long-term plan.
06:55Chris's concerns
06:56are valid.
06:57Patia and I
06:58still have a lot
06:59of issues
06:59to work through.
07:00but I am feeling
07:02optimistic about
07:03the future
07:04with Patia.
07:05She's come to Australia
07:07and she's given it
07:08a good go
07:08and she's trying
07:10to resolve things
07:11with my mother.
07:12So I think
07:12that's massive, really.
07:14I feel like
07:14it is different now.
07:17Think about it.
07:18I'm confused.
07:43Are you telling me
07:43that you're pregnant
07:44right now?
07:45I can't be.
07:50Holy
07:51this stresses me
07:53out right now.
07:55You don't know
07:56how I'm scared
07:58and stressful I am.
08:01I didn't expect
08:02you to say
08:04that you actually
08:05think that you're pregnant.
08:05I really like
08:12so scared about
08:13if he's positive
08:14because if I have a baby
08:16like I need
08:17to have a spellability.
08:20Stability is the only
08:21thing that I really
08:22ever wanted.
08:24I'm talking about
08:25you don't give it to me
08:26so how are we
08:27going to get
08:28our children
08:29to the war
08:30when you and me
08:31fighting all the time
08:32when you
08:33cheating of me
08:34like how?
08:36I hope that we
08:37can work on
08:38this relationship
08:38but right now
08:39I'm not confident
08:40that we're working.
08:41We talked yesterday.
08:42Hey, like,
08:43are we compatible?
08:44Can we not fight?
08:45And all we've done
08:45is continue to fight.
08:48Who made the fight today?
08:50I didn't try
08:50and fight today.
08:51I said please.
08:54I don't want
08:55to argue.
08:59Do you want
08:59to go try this?
09:00No.
09:02Leave me alone.
09:04I want to know.
09:11I don't know.
09:22You think I'm happy?
09:25Like, you know,
09:26there's a situation
09:26I should be happy.
09:28You look at me happy.
09:30Let's please try
09:30and be happy about this.
09:31Please.
09:32Can we take the time?
09:32See, you think I am like,
09:33you're going to change
09:34your emotions so easy.
09:35Like, how I can
09:36be happy if I am
09:38two days
09:39to supposedly
09:40get married.
09:41If you are pregnant
09:44and we're going
09:49to have a baby,
09:50then this means
09:51that we're having
09:52a family, Madeline.
09:59Can we please
10:00take this test?
10:01No.
10:01Please.
10:09Please, Madeline.
10:10I am not ready
10:23to get the text,
10:26but it's something
10:27like I have to do.
10:30I need to know
10:31what is going on.
10:32This is a good
10:40opportunity for you
10:41to show me
10:42that you're ready
10:42to really take
10:43a serious step.
10:45If you wouldn't
10:46put a ring on my finger
10:47today,
10:48in a sense,
10:48you're not in love
10:49with me.
10:49Like, you're in love
10:50with also an idea.
10:51I feel like this is
10:52a test if I'm actually
10:54wife material or not.
10:58You broke his heart,
10:59Ressa.
11:00You might think
11:01that it's done,
11:01with he wonders
11:03whether you just
11:04need some time.
11:06I know.
11:27Such a beautiful beach,
11:28huh?
11:30It is really pretty.
11:32It's been a few days
11:33since Jonathan and I
11:34have met with the lawyers
11:35and found out that
11:36the fastest and easiest
11:37way for me to stay here
11:38is to get married,
11:40and we're still kind of
11:41processing that information.
11:43I don't think your leg
11:44can support me.
11:45Oh, really?
11:46Come on.
11:47I've been eating a lot.
11:49Yeah?
11:49I don't want to step
11:49on your shoe.
11:50Let's go.
11:51Ow!
11:52I thought giving up
11:53everything and moving
11:54to another country was a lot,
11:55but adding this on top of it
11:56is like, bang.
11:58Do we miss the sunset
12:00or is it just cloudy?
12:02It's a bit cloudy today.
12:04Anyway,
12:05me and Maria are going to
12:06have meatball night tomorrow.
12:08What does meatball night mean?
12:10Are you going to actually
12:11go to a restaurant
12:12and eat meatballs
12:12or are you going to like...
12:13It's just like a girly,
12:15fun night.
12:16Like, it's just where
12:17we can just act stupid
12:18and be in meatballs.
12:19Go to dinner,
12:20have a drink.
12:22Okay.
12:22And be...
12:22It's called
12:23a meatball night.
12:23One drink.
12:26Have a drink.
12:28Maria is my best friend
12:30on the island.
12:31Jonathan doesn't like
12:32when I go out with Maria
12:33because we like to drink.
12:36We like to be stupid.
12:38We like to randomly karaoke.
12:39We like to, like,
12:40climb palm trees
12:41and just do
12:42really harmless things.
12:45With that being said,
12:46if I'm being unrealistic
12:48about something
12:49that happened with Jonathan,
12:50Maria is always the one
12:51to reel me in
12:52and be like,
12:53don't put up with it.
12:54And I think that
12:56makes Jonathan a little nervous.
12:59I don't know
12:59where we're going
12:59to go to dinner yet.
13:00Maybe one of our
13:01go-to spots.
13:04Yeah, well,
13:05we'll find a spot
13:06where we can go to dinner.
13:08Well, I think
13:09me and Maria
13:10are just going to go to dinner
13:11and then...
13:12I'm not going to go?
13:14That's why
13:14it's a meatball night.
13:16Oh.
13:18We were going
13:18to invite you afterwards.
13:20Well, no,
13:22I don't want you
13:23to be, like,
13:24worried about it,
13:25you know?
13:26I know, but
13:26I have a lot of worries
13:27when Maria is here
13:29because when you guys
13:30get together,
13:30it's a real get-together,
13:32you know what I mean?
13:33You guys go all out.
13:36Yeah, but I think
13:37I've chilled out a lot.
13:39Maria,
13:39I met a few years back.
13:41We had the same friends,
13:42you know,
13:42we'd hang out sometimes.
13:44When I introduced Chloe,
13:45they clicked automatically.
13:47It was like the next day,
13:48Chloe was telling me,
13:48I'm going to hang out
13:49with Maria every day now.
13:51The thing about Maria
13:52is that she works abroad,
13:53so when she comes
13:54to Ruby,
13:55she only wants to look
13:55for a party,
13:57you know,
13:57and I don't like that at all.
14:00Now that, you know,
14:01you're living here
14:01on the island and stuff,
14:02this is a good opportunity
14:04for you to show me
14:05that you're mature
14:06and ready
14:07to really take
14:08a serious step.
14:10You know,
14:10I'm not going to go out
14:11and, you know,
14:12go dance on top of the bar
14:14and, you know,
14:15be crazy.
14:15Like, that's not something
14:16that's respectable
14:17from either of our parts.
14:18Like, I wouldn't do that.
14:20I just don't want you
14:21to want to change,
14:22like, so much about me
14:24to the point where, like,
14:25like, if you wouldn't put
14:26a ring on my finger today,
14:28in a sense,
14:28you're not in love with me.
14:29Like, you're in love
14:30with also an idea
14:31of what, like,
14:32the future can look like
14:34when you have to be
14:35okay with me now also.
14:37Okay.
14:37It's just, um,
14:42I'm used to you
14:43when you're going out
14:43and going heavy.
14:44You know what I mean?
14:45Right, and I think
14:46that's more vacation mode.
14:47Okay, so just,
14:48I want to see
14:49how this mode's going to be,
14:50okay?
14:51So this is the opportunity
14:52to show me, like,
14:52what kind of mode
14:53you're in, okay?
14:55Okay.
14:58I know Jonathan
14:59doesn't like
15:00that I like to go out
15:01and have drinks,
15:02but I feel like
15:03this is more of a test
15:04if I'm actually
15:05wife material or not.
15:06Now that we're
15:07talking about it
15:08more and more,
15:09I can't really tell
15:09if Jonathan wants this
15:10or not.
15:11I feel like he's
15:11throwing up all these
15:12little, little roadblocks
15:14and, like, high obstacles
15:15that I can't jump over
15:18to stall the process.
15:20You're going to let me
15:21live a little.
15:22Okay.
15:23Understood.
15:24Just don't go too crazy.
15:25Okay?
15:26You're not going to go
15:26too crazy.
15:27I'm still a little
15:28crazy.
15:29You are.
15:30Very crazy.
15:30I'm going to 1 to 10.
15:329.
15:32I wouldn't say that
15:33about you.
15:33What would you say
15:34about that?
15:3510.
15:36You're so bad.
15:4510.
15:4611.
15:4712.
15:4813.
15:4913.
15:5014.
15:5115.
15:5215.
15:5316.
15:5416.
15:5516.
15:5616.
15:5717.
15:5816.
15:5916.
16:0016.
16:0116.
16:0217.
16:0317.
16:0417.
16:05I was able to fall asleep, but I did wake up a few times.
16:13I was just kind of, like, spiraling about everything that happened.
16:22The other night, I ended my engagement with Matthew,
16:26and slipping the engagement ring off my finger
16:31made the breakup feel very real to me.
16:35And I am filled with immense sadness because an engagement is a promise,
16:42and I am breaking a promise, and that doesn't feel very good.
16:47Matthew's dad has texted me and wants to talk with me.
16:53I feel really nervous about it because I don't know how he feels about the breakup.
16:59It's going to be difficult because I know it's going to be emotional,
17:03but I really do hope that the conversation ends amicably.
17:11Matthew's parents were so excited for me to move and to join the family,
17:15and it really makes me feel guilty.
17:22I just thought we'd, um, just catch up with each other because obviously a lot's happened.
17:29and I just want to try and find out what...
17:30where you are.
17:31I just want to try and find out what...
17:32where you are.
17:33because I can't understand what's happened,
17:34and I just want to try and find out what...
17:35where you are.
17:36because I can't understand what's happened, and I'm struggling to put it together.
17:43Matthew's isn't...
17:44Matthew's isn't...
17:45I've never seen him like it, Greta.
17:46And I'm worried about him because...
17:47he loves you.
17:48I know.
17:49He does.
17:50And you broke his heart, Greta.
17:51Literally.
17:52And you broke his heart, Greta.
17:53Literally.
17:54That's, like, the worst part about all this,
18:00to find out what...
18:01Where you are.
18:02Because I can't understand what's happened, and I'm struggling to...
18:05to put it together.
18:08Matthew's isn't...
18:09I've never seen him like it, Greta.
18:12And I'm worried about him because...
18:13he loves you.
18:14I know.
18:15He does.
18:16And you broke his heart, Greta.
18:19Literally.
18:21And that's, like, the worst part about it all and that's why I was, like, struggling
18:25so much because, like, I, like, really don't want to hurt him because it's so difficult
18:33to explain.
18:35I did love him so much and I was so excited to talk to him all the time.
18:40I was so excited to see him.
18:42And so I'm confused, like, why I don't, like, feel like I love him.
18:50I'm, like, in love with him.
18:51Is that because you've had so much happening in the last few months?
18:55You forgot how to live almost, haven't you?
18:57Because you've been studying, studying, studying, studying.
19:01I mean, I know that there was a shift because I felt like we were not evolving into people
19:08that were still compatible with each other and I wish, like, I could change my feelings.
19:15Because, like, he's a great person.
19:20Like, he, like, I respect him so much.
19:23He's, like, helped me so much in life.
19:25Like, I truly just, like, only want him to be happy.
19:28He wonders whether you just need some time because you, don't forget, you've just traveled
19:33across halfway over the world.
19:35You've probably not slept properly.
19:37He's prepared to give you your time and your space.
19:39Yeah.
19:40What worries me is that you've not had time together.
19:43You've not been on your own.
19:45So, yeah, you might think that, yeah, it's done and you say it is.
19:49But let's be honest, it's only been four days.
19:51There's not been given a chance to go any further because...
19:56I know it seems, like, sudden and I know this just sounds, like, crazy, but I just know
20:01it in my instinct, like, that, that, like, he's not my person.
20:07It's such a shame, you know.
20:11And, like, my honest truth, which, like, you can accept or not, I just, like, no, I can't
20:17make him happy.
20:20And I just, like, hate that I did this to you guys and you guys, like, welcomed me with
20:23open arms.
20:24Like, it really meant the world to me and, like, thank you because...
20:28It did, too.
20:29We loved you, Greta.
20:30Yeah.
20:31And we really fought a lot of you.
20:39I do think I've got clarity from Greta.
20:42I don't think there's any hope for Matthew and Greta at this stage.
20:48I don't understand it.
20:49I can see she's rationalising it in her mind why she's doing it and she's justifying it.
20:55But I'm the one who's got to pick up the pieces with my son.
21:00Matthew's always loved you and he always probably will for a long time, still to come.
21:07I just wish I had a different hand in it.
21:11Yeah.
21:12I'm nerding my life.
21:16Take a dex of Brena.
21:20We're struggling to cross the finish line on us getting married, let alone starting a
21:26family together.
21:27I'm really so scared.
21:29I don't want to be here.
21:39I never in my life take a dexter of pregnant, and I never think I'm going to be like this.
22:09I'm scared of this.
22:18I mean, we're struggling to cross the finish line on us getting married, let alone starting
22:23a family together.
22:39What do you want to be?
22:48Honestly, I think like right now, the right time for us to have a baby?
22:55Probably not.
22:56But it's something that I want with you.
22:59You are the person that I want to be the mother of my children because I love you.
23:05And I think that you would be a very good mom, whether it's now or in five years, it's not
23:10going to change how I feel.
23:20What does this mean?
23:26Usually this says pregnant or not pregnant, a smile or a sad face or something.
23:31It says one line.
23:32What does one line mean?
23:33Negative.
23:34This is negative?
23:35That is the result.
23:38But you should be crying.
23:48You don't cry.
23:49That you're negative or positive?
23:51Negative.
23:52It doesn't change how I feel.
23:57I love you and I want this relationship to work.
24:02Yeah, me too.
24:03But in the same way, I don't trust you in anything and I'm really so scared.
24:12I just want you to be happy.
24:15And I don't know that I can make you happy.
24:17I try really hard and I feel like I fail all the time.
24:20You try so hard.
24:21But what about the conversation today?
24:24The love of the hotel we're talking about, we shared too.
24:28This is going to be my name.
24:31Okay.
24:33Like one day, we're going to have to share everything.
24:36We have a company together.
24:37We have business together, everything.
24:39And later, no, I don't want to share anymore.
24:42The company is both of us.
24:51In your mind, everything is morning.
24:53I don't care about money.
24:56Other than the fact that-
24:57Don't!
24:58Other than you-
24:59Every single day mention money.
25:01Every single day mention-
25:02No, you don't push any money in this project.
25:05You don't pay anything.
25:07You never bother me.
25:09I value everything that you do.
25:12But the fact of the matter is, I try as much as I can to provide for you.
25:18And if you would let me be a man and make manly decisions, I'd really appreciate it.
25:26I don't ask much of you.
25:29Just let me do what I need to do to make our dreams a reality.
25:35I know I am not perfect, I know I am a difficult person, and I know I have so many things to do well.
25:56But I just love everything you've been doing for me.
25:59But at the end of the day, I really love you, Luke.
26:05I know you do.
26:10And I love you more.
26:12One of my biggest problems in this relationship is always he show me I don't trust him in anything.
26:24So I really push so hard to push my name on, like, the property.
26:31Because I don't know if in the future he's going to have to change the woman or change me,
26:35and what are they going to have to do?
26:37But when I tell him, maybe I think I get pregnant, and he reaction like,
26:43no, I really want a family with you.
26:45It may make me more comfortable about everything's going to be good,
26:49and I need to trust him.
26:52I just want you to be happy.
26:57And I'd like for us to be happy together.
27:03Damn.
27:14This is not the first night we met.
27:16I know.
27:17Are you glad I'm not in the business anymore?
27:19Absolutely.
27:20If I'm being honest after being here, sometimes I miss it.
27:23I want to go back home for, like, six months and dance that debt off.
27:29You only just got here.
27:31The way we move is six, so call a doctor.
27:40And all the beating fire needs some muscle.
27:43Step back it back, I need some more to go.
27:46Wow.
27:48Oh, oh, this is how you do it like a bro.
27:59Hey, hey, hey, hey, hey.
28:00All righty.
28:01Look at that.
28:03I've been here a couple of weeks, and I've been complaining about how there's nothing to do here.
28:07here but tonight Dylan's taking me to a strip club. I'm excited because that's
28:14more my vibe. I had no idea Tasmania had a strip club. There's nightlife here in
28:20Tasmania. Something that's open past 10. OMG.
28:25My love for you has brought me up. My love for you has brought me up.
28:35You think you can do that? Definitely not.
28:37I feel like this is even like the first night we met. I know, right? Except you're wearing
28:44a little bit less than what you're wearing now. I know, more clothing. This is awesome.
28:49It's a great club. G'day, g'day. Hey beautiful. Oh my gosh, she's hot.
28:55She's definitely good with the pole. You're loving this, aren't you?
29:00I do.
29:02Giving your element. This is the happiest I've seen you since we got here.
29:05Shut up.
29:06Seriously. Shut up.
29:07I have everything we've done.
29:09Yeah, babe, you know why I love it?
29:11Why? Tell me.
29:12This is my life. I've been doing it for 37 years. It's like my second home. You know what
29:17it's like to perform.
29:18I love it.
29:19You feel good. You get all the, you know, the compliments is awesome.
29:23It's just an adrenaline rush. Yes, exactly. Are you glad I'm not in the business anymore?
29:28Absolutely.
29:29Why?
29:30Well, even though, you know, you were happy doing it and it lit you up, it's still not
29:36my favourite thought to have you dancing naked for other guys. It's not my favourite thing.
29:42But you know it's just work.
29:44Yeah, I'd rather you do a different job.
29:48I get that he doesn't like me being around other men, but it's just a job and the money
29:54is fantastic. And if I'm being honest after being here, sometimes I miss it.
29:59It's going to be hard for me not making this kind of money. You know, I'm going to be totally
30:06relying on you.
30:08Yeah.
30:10It makes, it scares me sometimes.
30:12I'm just going to have to look at, you know, some of the luxuries that you enjoy in Dallas.
30:18You know, all the online shopping and the excessive spending, that's going to have to stop.
30:23Do you worry about the financial stuff? You're worried about the money, the debt.
30:30So, I just think I want to go back to the States, home for like six months and dance that
30:40debt off. Then you won't have to worry about paying that off. Would you be okay with that?
30:46I don't like that thought, love. You only just got here and you're talking about leaving
30:51and going back to dancing. To be honest, I know that it's fun for you and I dance too,
30:59but like, I don't dance in a champagne room with just me and another person.
31:05No, I work with another girl. I'm off on stage.
31:07But I work with another girl. It's always me and another girl.
31:10Sometimes you don't. But the thing is...
31:1290% of the time, maybe.
31:13Okay, well, 10% you don't.
31:15Very rare.
31:16It bothers me a little bit.
31:18Sorry.
31:21Even though, you know, we're both strippers, it's a very sensitive topic and makes me look
31:27like a hypocrite. But I feel like it is different in a way. I'm up on stage with a room full of
31:34women. But with Patias, she goes out, she finds a guy and then she takes him back to a VIP room.
31:41I know they're both entertainment. They're both stripping. It's both a transaction, but they're two
31:48different things. And so I don't like the thought of Patia going back to dancing. It kind of feels like an
31:54excuse just to leave Tasmania. It's like, this place sucks. It's too quiet. I don't want to be near
32:00family. So I'll just go back and dance in the US. Maybe Chris's concerns are valid.
32:06Maybe Patia is not going to change.
32:09I just sometimes don't think that I'm enough for you.
32:13I know that I'm enough, but sometimes I think that you're addicted to that lifestyle,
32:19that easy, fast money. And that's kind of what I'm scared of because I retired you in Thailand
32:26and you were just completely bored.
32:27I was bored. All you talked about the whole time was going back to dancing.
32:31I did. I did. I thought I was going to get a ring there and you didn't give it to me.
32:35And I was like, you know what? What's the point? I'm done.
32:38If you really love me, you should just stick by my side no matter what.
32:44Listen, part of a problem in the past was because you didn't want to commit.
32:49So once you get a ring, like everything's magically going to change, you're going to become...
32:53It's not going to magically change. It's going to make me feel better.
32:57It's hard to commit to you if you can't commit to us being together.
33:03Hey, I want to commit to us being together. I love you.
33:06You're not committing. You're just like running off to dancing already.
33:09Put a ring on it.
33:12I want this to work, but Batia is saying she wants to go back to the US.
33:18Thailand is kind of still in the back of my mind because she left me.
33:24If things get tough, is Batia just going to leave?
33:28I just want to know that you're going to stick by me no matter what.
33:32You marrying him is the worst idea you've probably ever had.
33:42Before, it looked so bad.
33:44It still is.
33:45In the year that they've been together, I think Johnny has cheated on her.
33:49Probably every week.
34:01You're touching all of me, all of me.
34:06Life is getting hard enough, let's get away.
34:10We're chasing some race.
34:14Don't hit me with your car.
34:16Please.
34:17Or do.
34:19Bye.
34:19Girls night, girls night.
34:33My best friend Maria is finally back in town.
34:35And we're going to get dinner with our other friend Kamilah.
34:37And I'm so excited to just have some girl time.
34:40How are you, Pookie?
34:41You look fabulous.
34:43Oh, Pookie.
34:43They are my go-to girls to talk all my relationship gossips.
34:48They know everything from the highest high to, like, the lowest low.
34:53Did you guys get wine?
34:54Did you order anything?
34:55We're already starting with tequila.
34:57Yeah.
34:57Oh.
34:58Between my mom cutting me off financially and everything that's going on with Jonathan,
35:03I think we have a lot to catch up on.
35:06I actually haven't seen you.
35:07This is so funny.
35:08And the last time I saw you-
35:09I barely saw you.
35:10You were six, so I-
35:12And then my phone broke.
35:12I got a new phone.
35:14Do you have a plan in Aruba?
35:15No.
35:16Oh, wow.
35:17Haven't gone that far.
35:18I got a plan with my mom now instead of my, like, own, because she has the business one,
35:23so I can, like, internationally-
35:24Oh, I have the same.
35:25Roam it up.
35:26I have the same, yeah.
35:27But my mom said, you know, I'm not going to keep, you know, financing your journey.
35:34She was like, I'm not.
35:35Like, which is understandable.
35:37But now, it's like, if my mom's not going to help me out, we can't keep going to dinner
35:43every single night like we were when I was here.
35:46Which is thousands and thousands of dollars at this point.
35:50Can Jonathan give you that?
35:53No.
35:54No.
35:54He can't give me, he cannot give me the financial aspect that I'm used to.
35:57He can't.
35:57No.
35:58And he knows that.
35:59It's going to be a lot harder.
36:02Are you willing to risk that?
36:05It's a lot.
36:06It's going to take a lot of work.
36:08I'm okay with that.
36:10I want to do that because I know at the end of the day, like, I do want to be happy with him.
36:14I want us to work.
36:16How long has it been?
36:18Not even a year or a year?
36:19It's been a year almost now.
36:21You have love goggles on.
36:22It's going to be a year.
36:24You're in the honeymoon phase.
36:26I wish I could rip him off your face.
36:28I want us to work.
36:32I want to build something together.
36:34I want a work permit.
36:36So we went to our first appointment with an immigration lawyer.
36:39What happened?
36:40Well, the easiest way for me to be legal is to get married.
36:48Do you want to marry him?
36:55I do.
36:56I really do.
36:59Chloe, no.
37:02You marrying him is the worst idea you've probably ever had in your life.
37:08You see yourself long term settling down with him.
37:11But you find out about a random girl every single week.
37:14He wants a relationship while he's out cheating.
37:18I remember that day that we were at Clubhouse and he said he was at work all day.
37:24And his co-workers were like, Jonathan didn't work today.
37:29It wasn't his location at Jolly Pirates because Kaner has his phone.
37:38There's definitely been a few other times where I've questioned where Jonathan was,
37:43what he was doing, where I thought something was going on.
37:46But a lot of the times I couldn't prove it.
37:49So I understand their side, but I feel like since I've been here,
37:53that Jonathan is being faithful.
37:56I feel like before it looked so bad.
38:00Like it was bad before.
38:02That's like, you see, you're making an excuse for him again.
38:05I don't want to make...
38:05It looked so...
38:06No.
38:06It was bad.
38:07It still is.
38:08I think we're moving in a better direction.
38:13Like, I think we've had growth, but no.
38:15Like, our...
38:16So he has been cheating?
38:19Lately, no.
38:20But what's changed?
38:21I mean, is he just lying better?
38:27Chloe has talked about marrying Johnny before, but I never thought it was actually serious.
38:33Because everybody on the island knows that Johnny has a reputation with girls.
38:38He's proud to have a lot of girls on him.
38:40I think it feeds his ego.
38:43In the year that they've been together, I think Johnny has cheated on her.
38:46Probably every week.
38:49You know what he's doing.
38:50You know what he's doing, you know?
38:52Like...
38:53Are you willing to put up with that?
38:55Is this...
38:56No.
38:56Right.
38:57So this is the person you want to marry?
39:00What I am baffled about is that you're just okay with what he says.
39:05Okay.
39:06I love you.
39:07I want to marry you.
39:08How about you don't cheat on me?
39:12What would it take for you to be like, okay, actually, I'm going to take my best friend's
39:17advice, my mom's advice, everybody else's advice that this is a bad idea.
39:23If something were to happen, I would pack my so fast.
39:28Just prepare yourself.
39:29That's all I'm saying.
39:37Next time on 90 Day Fiancé, The Other Way.
39:46Hearing from Anthony and from my mother, she focused too much on career.
39:51The thing is like, we still need to provide and pay the bills.
39:54We're not rich.
40:04How you doing?
40:05Good.
40:06This is Madeleine.
40:07Hi, Madeleine.
40:08Madeleine calling the wedding off three, four times.
40:11I mean, that's not a very good indicator going into a marriage.
40:16You're going to be marrying my son.
40:17But the three weeks that he's been here, it's hard.
40:22Is this really what you want?
40:26You haven't really changed doing what you do.
40:29You're going to do anything.
40:30It's just a matter of time until he just does it again.
40:33Like, it's a habit.
40:34You didn't physically do anything.
40:36Exactly.
40:36You should not have messaged another girl.
40:38I didn't messaged another girl.
40:41I'm not getting into this.
40:46I just feel like it's one thing after another.
40:49And your mom is complaining about how I do things.
40:53I can't live like this.
40:54I knew that it's going to be hard for Jenny because my mom has a list of expectations for everybody in the house.
41:07I can't take this anymore.
41:08There's no making this woman happy.
41:14Someone needs to put her in her place.
41:15She's not going to be a place.
41:17She's not going to be a place.
41:18She's not going to be a place.
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