Lena Paul_ Mature 😻 Is My Favorite!

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00:00a little sexy no i never wear lingerie i'm generally like we have sex but i'm not much

00:05of a sexy what are you talking about like competent confident women that are like in

00:13control of what they're doing like that is the definition of sexy go on and like you're

00:21fucking hot and stuff there's that too like i've seen i've seen your news not that i went looking

00:25i went looking but so uh yes we made like a date night out of it and it was actually really great

00:34because i had never like been sexy for him before i'd never like put lingerie for him before and

00:40like how long have you been together over three years and you never wore lingerie for him no i

00:45never liked it i honestly i never i just felt i just felt silly in it i felt like an imposter

00:51it felt like something that my models wear i don't do that like i'm not it is so hard to

00:58separate yeah lingerie from work lingerie feels like my work uniform yeah to some degree yeah i felt i

01:04felt like an imposter i felt kind of embarrassed and i was like you know i'm gonna look like i'm

01:09trying to be you know trying i'm trying too hard like this isn't right for me but it's so funny

01:16because like we're we are flooded with all of this media right of like women looking effortlessly

01:22sexy yeah but you and i know yeah how many fucking hundreds of hours of man work went into that yeah

01:28from the all of the procedures that like the maintenance procedures that she gets done to all

01:34of the pre-planning of those photos to the retouching of those photos to the distribution of those photos

01:38like everything in it is effort the effort is making it look effortless yeah and you can imagine

01:46i mean you know with how meticulous i am about shooting content of other people forget it when

01:50it's me baby that is really hard and also like it's someone else doing it yeah so like there's not

01:57a professional that's what i was about to say like i don't think he's probably a pro so there's that

02:01other side of it like my boyfriend takes all these photos of me and i'm like don't you dare post

02:06those yeah like i have a brand yeah right sorry i can't i can't say that sentence without laughing

02:14but it's true like no it's we're so hard on ourselves nothing is good enough for my face

02:20like nothing yeah so but i have to say like he's really learning like i teach him stuff like i'll

02:26take this shot and i'll be like okay this you need to shoot it this way and this is why and so like

02:32and he's like actually picking up and got a good eye so i was impressed so so and he loves you so

02:38like when you love the subject it's kind of like when you love who you're cooking for there's just

02:42like an extra x factor that goes in i don't know have you ever loved somebody that you photographed

02:47no it's it's different no it's not i mean not in that way i mean i've never not like have you done

02:55like portraiture though like yeah i've shot like portraits of like my boyfriends or whatever i actually

03:00shot a great picture of my boyfriend um yeah for his uh like headshots work headshot yeah so i mean

03:06yeah but it's different like when you love the person you're you're photographing you see them

03:11in a different way yeah but yeah but that's exactly how it was so i was like sexy for him i like put on

03:17this show and like i'm a hair and makeup done which he never got so like for him it was like really a

03:22treat and exciting we rented like this nice hotel room and then we just had like fucking amazing sex

03:26and he was like i love this this is great like you're like i never get to have you like this

03:32oh my god so it was actually like a really it was really good for our relationship and so i think

03:36we're gonna try to do it like every few months oh my god and like yeah and he's totally you know i

03:41love that i love that so much so it actually like worked out nice it's just and also too like and i

03:47don't want to be an ageist because i i hate it when other people do this but you know how like

03:51you make exceptions for everybody else but like for yourself it's always like there's no excuse

03:57but i feel stupid like being like 41 and like trying to do you're 41 i am no way you're not 41

04:05i am okay firstly all right like why do men get to be sexy into their 50s and 60s like my mom would

04:13still jump sean connery's bones if she had the option i mean frankly me three but like bro why

04:20do men stay fucking until they're like literally so old that they can't even move and we suddenly

04:29stop being sexualized around like late 30s early 40s because i'll tell you exactly why because for men

04:38usually the attractiveness is all about power right and for women the attractiveness is about youth

04:43and fertility specifically fertility honestly the it's true it like it is true because we don't

04:49we only see like one facet it's like that exactly that's if you're only looking at things in a multi

04:55in a one faceted way like very like close-minded kind of narrow yeah scape but i think that the

05:02changing landscape of like porn like we were talking about with you know the milf brand being so huge

05:08we're seeing that and mature i was just reading no i was with you when i was reading pornhub insights

05:13actually we were reading the the pornhub insights blogs which to anybody listening i super recommend

05:18it's like a really it's safe for work you can go to the pornhub insights blog and it's really

05:23interesting just to read like what actually people are beating off to yeah the top searches for this

05:28year it's and in the top five was what aliens um it was aliens asmr um mature not milf mature

05:41uh these were the top like the ones that had made like huge trending gains they weren't necessarily

05:46like the top rank like the top ranked was like japanese hentai lesbian milf yeah um all of like

05:54the standard categories but those were like the ones that made like huge gains over the course of this

05:59year um but yeah no i i think that i'm really fascinated by women who like there's something really

06:09magical i think about turning 40 or so because you're liberated from a lot of those expectations

06:14that are put on youthful women of how you have to act and how you have to be like i love women

06:20from the ages of like 40 to 60 because somewhere in that span of time they just give fewer and fewer

06:26fucks like they really stop giving a fuck and like men stop relating to them and immediately through the

06:33lens of like sexualizing them so like you have this strange freedom at times of like not being

06:39instantly sexualized you can just be a person first as opposed to like a potential sexual conquest

06:45this is so true because it's it's funny i've noticed as you know i've gotten older that i

06:53am definitely hit on a lot less oh yeah like wolf whistled on the street and that kind of stuff and

07:01yeah i don't really need i don't feel like i really need to worry about men like trying to

07:09fuck me all the time yeah like it's tiring in your use yeah and the thing is is that's weird is i kind

07:16of feel like i look better now than i did when i was younger thank you only because when i was in my

07:2220s i was like a raging alcoholic and i don't know if you've ever seen pictures of me in my 20s

07:27yeah i look really bad my face is like really bloated and i'm like i look terrible i'll show

07:32you some photos of blood so so it's interesting but i think that there's so i think it's not even

07:38just like the attractiveness but i think like youth may be the idea of some kind of corruptible

07:45innocence or some kind of vulnerability vulnerability that that you know certain more predatory men

07:51obviously not all men there's a lot of wonderful men out there but are attracted to that right and

07:57i think it also like you can get even more psychological it can even be about like

08:01the age at which you stopped maturing mentally there can be that sense of like you know these

08:06are my golden years and so when i think about like these prime sexual experiences that i had it was all

08:12with women who sort of like looked like that um there's that sense like i just find that

08:17i don't want to shit on on a blanket shit on like a group of people like your kink is your kink

08:24whatever but you know when i see the um the prevalence of like the teen genre at times i look

08:32at it and i'm just like explain to me 55 year old man in 200 words or less exactly what it is about

08:42this that you find appealing because i find as i get older that the demographic of what i find

08:48attractive skews but also that my relationship to like say god so you know the the shoot that you

08:57and i had where like the girl looked at me not the one yesterday but like the one where the girl

09:01looked at me and she's like my prom was six months ago oh wait yes and no i don't remember off the top

09:09it was it was the it was the nightmare one it was the oh yeah yeah forget that one yes i know what

09:15you're talking about yeah and like she'd never been with a woman and all of that stuff and like i really

09:19had to go into this headspace like a very predatory headspace to be able to do this like i had to

09:24think of her as this like thing that i was going to devour in order to be able to like get into a

09:32place where like i could actually fuck her like there was very much that like power dynamic that had to

09:38come into play for it to be something attractive to me like anytime that i have to fuck somebody born

09:43after the year 2000 like i'm just i'm just like okay we're gonna think some stuff that we're not

09:49gonna analyze too deeply for the next hour and 45 minutes and uh we can unpack this in therapy later

09:55this is just i'm just doing whatever i need to do to get through the scene yeah and like to be able

10:00to deliver a convincing performance and you sort of have to go into this alternative headspace

10:04and like doing that has made me understand what men find attractive about teens like i've looked at

10:11this and i'm like wait i'm actually turning myself on here oh my god this is this is like the fuck these

10:17are the the strange parts about doing porn is that you kind of have to find something attractive about

10:22every person that you're with if you really care about your job and like really care

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