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00:01We are in Chelsea.
00:04She's got a little flat, she lives on her own.
00:08I am going to be staying over with Lily,
00:11which let me tell you, that would be a dream come true
00:18to every single one of her subscribers, I suspect.
00:22There'll be a lot of lads very jealous.
00:27I hope the sheets are clean.
00:40Come on in.
00:41Thanks, love. Thank you.
00:51Lily, how are you?
00:53I'm so unfit, that is so embarrassing.
00:55Nice to meet you.
00:56Nice to meet you.
00:57Oh, no, no, those stairs fucking take it out.
00:58Aren't they?
00:59Yeah, yeah, no.
01:00That's embarrassing though.
01:01Come on in.
01:02Good, thank you. How are you?
01:03Thank you for having me.
01:04So nice to finally meet you.
01:06So this is your bedroom.
01:08Lovely.
01:10This is so perfect.
01:13You can look at yourself, won't you?
01:14I can look at yourself.
01:16I'm doing anything exciting, I'll be getting literally fast asleep.
01:20It's a very small apartment.
01:22So this is my bedroom where the magic happens.
01:25I can only imagine the action this room has seen.
01:30It's seen it all.
01:31It really has.
01:32Yeah, this is like the perfect bachelorette pad.
01:35Yeah, there's not many 23-year-olds that I know that can afford to run a home in the centre of town.
01:43I guess there's not many 23-year-olds who are slotting it up like I am, so...
01:48So what's the plan for this evening?
01:52Right.
01:53Let me check the time because I have got a live OnlyFans.
01:55What time is that?
01:56It's at 8pm.
01:57How much am I allowed to see?
02:01You can see as much as you want, honestly.
02:03Great.
02:04Yeah.
02:05So you're happy for me.
02:06Free viewer.
02:07I know, I know, you're like...
02:08And I know that doesn't happen very often.
02:13What do you need to do?
02:14I need to get on like a little skimpy outfit.
02:17Yes.
02:18Some nice lingerie maybe.
02:19Okay.
02:21You know what?
02:22I'm trying to think of like what underwear I should wear tonight.
02:25I've never really worn this set maybe.
02:27What do you think?
02:28What tends to go down well?
02:30Crotchless or...?
02:31You know what though?
02:32It comes off in five minutes so they don't really care too much.
02:35I used to have the loveliest little boobs and then I had a child and I breastfed for 14 months
02:41and now they're like two empty crisp pockets.
02:43I'm sure they're stunning.
02:45No they're not.
02:46They're not.
02:47But the thing is, is that every guy is into different things so there will be so many men that appreciate that.
02:54They're out there for me.
02:55Yeah exactly.
02:56Good to know.
02:57I'll go and get changed in the other room.
03:01Okay.
03:02Give me a shout when you're ready.
03:03Well ready.
03:04Well done.
03:06First impressions like super warm, super accommodating, really up for the weekend.
03:16A very open book.
03:18The hurdle this weekend, we'll be trying to get past the I love sex.
03:23There are no downfalls whatsoever.
03:30Am I alright coming in Lily?
03:31Yeah.
03:32Come on in.
03:33Where do you want me so I'll be out of shot?
03:34Take a seat.
03:35Oh look at you.
03:36Make yourself comfy.
03:37Oh I absolutely will.
03:39Okay.
03:40Brilliant.
03:41I've been given a ringside seat to watch exactly what Lily has to do to make money on her OnlyFans site.
03:48The subscription based platform that allows her to share content with her 33,000 subscribers.
03:54I don't think I've ever had an audience for a live before.
03:57Really?
03:58No.
03:59It's so funny because I'm so used to like having sex in front of people but doing this.
04:04Okay.
04:05Just press start live now.
04:07Let's hope we've got everything.
04:10Hello.
04:11How is everybody doing?
04:15Ready for the weekend?
04:16Tim, thank you so much for $69 in tips.
04:23I love what you did there.
04:27What I hadn't understood is the tipping.
04:32So the subscribers, they'll give a tenner and she's got 33,000.
04:38So let me take off this dress for you.
04:41So that's 330,000 a month.
04:45What's so lull is I can hear the ching, ching, ching, ching.
04:52It's all the tips going through.
04:54It's my first morning sleeping over in the spare bedroom of the provocative 23-year-old adult content creator, Lily Phillips.
05:03Morning.
05:04I slept so well.
05:06Really?
05:07Truly.
05:08I did, didn't I?
05:09Yeah.
05:10I got in that bed, Lily, and I thought, oh, this is so comfy.
05:13And then I thought, oh, my God, I wonder what shenanigans have gone on in the tea.
05:18I thought, you know what, Stacey?
05:19Don't worry.
05:20She eats some freshly washed.
05:21I know.
05:23I would actually love a cup of tea.
05:25I'm an iced coffee girl, or an iced matcha.
05:30I believe that.
05:31Yeah, yeah, yeah.
05:33Lily grew up in a small village in rural Derbyshire and left Uni and Sheffields after only a few months to take up OnlyFans.
05:41But I wonder how this all played out.
05:44So you are, you are handsomely rewarded for these live streams.
05:51You're earning a fortune for arguably, some people might say, not, not much work.
05:59When I found out about OnlyFans, I was like, oh, this is great.
06:03I mean, within my first 24 hours, I had made two grand.
06:08Yeah, no, when I started that, I was like, wow.
06:11I found like a glitch in the matrix because this is just perfect.
06:14I can make money doing what I love.
06:16And presumably, you had to have the conversation with your folks.
06:22Actually, I'm not, I'm not going to continue with uni.
06:25I really want to prioritise this.
06:27I described it to them as more like glamour modelling.
06:31Obviously, they were concerned at the start, as in, are you safe?
06:34You know, as long as it's only online.
06:36Only if it's online.
06:38We've progressed slightly.
06:40Slightly.
06:46Like a few bits.
06:47Who do you think's fair?
06:48The security guards, do you?
06:51Oh, yeah. Hi.
06:56I've already seen that Lily's notoriety is driving droves of subscribers towards her OnlyFans.
07:02But I'm wondering what this means for her financially.
07:05We're going to pick up your new car, a fancy car.
07:10But you've just bought this outright.
07:12Yeah.
07:13So you don't need to get anything on finance.
07:15No.
07:16And so, are you a multi-millionaire?
07:19What's your financial position at the moment?
07:24What are you happy to share?
07:26I mean, I...
07:27What are we talking?
07:30Yeah, I mean, yeah.
07:31Multi-millionaire.
07:32Does multi-millionaire mean, like, lots of millions in the back?
07:35Yeah.
07:37Yeah, I'd say multi-millionaire.
07:39You know, I'm someone so English.
07:41I find money so uncomfortable.
07:43You find this conversation quite awkward.
07:45Yeah.
07:46Like, this is so intimate to me.
07:47I find it a little bit distasteful.
07:49Do you?
07:50Yeah.
07:51Poor-er.
07:52Yeah.
07:53Yeah, you say vulgar.
07:54I know.
07:58Wow.
08:01It's stunning, isn't it?
08:04Look at this, Lily.
08:05I know.
08:06I'm so excited.
08:07Let's go find some men.
08:08We're a damsel in shape.
08:09I literally...
08:10I can't handle this.
08:11I absolutely can't handle this.
08:12Lily, I am not comfortable with...
08:15No, Lily, I can't.
08:17I'm...
08:18Just so you're lost.
08:19Hi.
08:20Yeah, are any of you boys available?
08:22Well, I'm doing an event tomorrow.
08:25Would you guys like to come?
08:27I mean, I'm not a prude, but I feel really uncomfortable.
08:31Free sex.
08:32You can do what you want.
08:34I've got a missing one.
08:35Well, you guys are all very handsome, so...
08:38Feel free to come.
08:39So, I mean, do you know who Lily is?
08:41Yeah.
08:42What are your thoughts on what Lily does for a living and...
08:45She's going to make her money that way.
08:46Make her money that way.
08:47Yeah, it's a choice.
08:48If I was a girl, I'd do it.
08:49Would you?
08:50There's no sort of negative judgement.
08:52It's your money, your choice.
08:53If you want to do it, do it.
08:55Could you date somebody like Lily?
08:56No.
08:57I'll be honest, no.
08:58Will you struggle?
08:59Yeah.
09:00She's going to make double what you're making in a year doing that.
09:03Yeah.
09:04Depends on the way I look at it.
09:05If she looks after me, it depends, innit?
09:07Yeah.
09:08Would you struggle with the power imbalance?
09:10I wouldn't say it's power.
09:12It's just the fact, like, sharing.
09:14Yeah.
09:15It's the fact knowing what's happening.
09:16Yeah.
09:17Yeah, I get that.
09:18Lovely to speak to you.
09:20Hope to see you again.
09:21See you, lads.
09:22Take care.
09:24Thank you for your time.
09:26Lol.
09:27Lily, you are bold as hell.
09:29But I suppose you have to be.
09:31Those are the good looking boys that come to my event, so.
09:34The more the merrier for me.
09:42You won't believe this because you'll be like, Stacey, you haven't lived.
09:45I've never had sex with more than one person at once.
09:51Do you think I'm so dull?
09:52I don't think it's boring, but I think I'd feel unfulfilled if I did that.
09:58How many people have you slept with?
10:00Would you feel comfortable saying that?
10:01Yeah, I mean, a handful.
10:03How many men do you think you've slept with?
10:06I would say it's in quadruple digits.
10:09Yeah.
10:17Would you say you're in a constant state of arousal?
10:22I don't want to make any of you feel uncomfortable right now,
10:25but I would say I...
10:28Probably 95% of my time I spend thinking about sex
10:32or some kind of something to do with sex.
10:35Really, Lily?
10:36Mm.
10:37Like, just looking at people, what goes through my head is, like,
10:40I wonder what they look like naked, how big their cock is,
10:42what it'd be like to have sex with them.
10:45Wow.
10:49Although Lily continues to tell me how much she loves sex,
10:52I really do wonder if this is the main driver behind what she's doing.
10:56Let me take a few.
10:57Yeah, I'm going to take them on my phone.
10:59Yeah.
11:00Just because I zoomed in.
11:01I feel like the camera's better.
11:02This evening, I'm joining Lily and her fellow OnlyFans content creator
11:06friend Arabella for dinner.
11:08How do you know one another?
11:09How did you meet?
11:10Um, well, we got introduced through friends.
11:14And I think it's good to have people around you who also know exactly
11:18what you're going through.
11:19So then if you're, like, just having a day where you're like,
11:21oh, this is all, like, a lot.
11:22And then somebody's like, oh, I get it.
11:24I get it.
11:25I understand.
11:26So.
11:27So there's common ground, really, between the two of you.
11:29And what would you say is your motivation?
11:32I like the idea of making people happy.
11:35People having an outlet for that fetish,
11:37where they would usually feel very embarrassed for it.
11:39I like being able to help people with that.
11:42I'm kind of similar, like, I like pleasing.
11:45Even though maybe I had an orgasm that day, you know,
11:48to give someone else that is really nice.
11:50My ultimate goal is, like, I do want to be a bit of a legend
11:54in the industry.
11:55I do want to explore my king, you know,
11:57and I want to make great content.
11:59Like, why could it not be all of these reasons?
12:01People put it down to you.
12:03You're doing this because of this or whatever.
12:05So there's a lot of different factors that go into it.
12:08I suppose the reason I ask is because I think there's so many people
12:12who don't understand why women like Lily...
12:16Yeah.
12:17..are involved in such extreme events.
12:21Yeah.
12:22I really don't see it as that extreme.
12:24Really? Yeah.
12:25The event that I'm doing tomorrow and stuff like that,
12:27that to me is just, like, another Tuesday.
12:29It really is.
12:30It has just become my norm.
12:32And even before I was doing sex work,
12:34I was having sex with... having a lot of casual sex,
12:38you know, in groups and with couples and this and that.
12:41And I just don't see it as that extreme or that crazy.
12:47I think anything with women and sex
12:49and women who like sex is...
12:51It's still demonised to a certain extent.
12:53People can be all liberal, all progressive,
12:56as much as they want to be,
12:57but still everyone deep down has that internalised misogyny
13:01of women don't like sex.
13:03Like, why are people even acting like they do?
13:06I mean, Arabella, you touched there on internalised misogyny.
13:12Mm-hm.
13:13Are you... are you not complicit?
13:15Are you not part of the problem
13:17when it comes to the patriarchy
13:20and the idea that women are commodities
13:23and men are there to be served?
13:25Um...
13:26We're very lucky in what we do
13:28and the fact that we can be...
13:30people, and we don't work in studios anymore,
13:34so it's not like people just see us as objects.
13:36Like, we are actual human people and we're creators.
13:38So, like, people do see that, you know,
13:41all these stereotypes that people have about porn stars
13:43are like objects or they've got no brain,
13:47they didn't finish school.
13:48Like, you can really see that we are actually quite intelligent
13:53and we are real people.
13:54We need to stop blaming women for men's actions.
13:58Mm-hm.
13:59And that is the crux of it.
14:02Do you find it patronising when women, men,
14:06just, like, fundamentally believe that you are broken?
14:11Some people just can't compute that people would be into this
14:14and still normal and not traumatised.
14:17Yeah.
14:18How old were you, Arabella, when you first watched porn?
14:21I think about 12.
14:23Stop.
14:24Yeah.
14:25That's young.
14:26It's crazy that you're surprised at that.
14:28I know!
14:29Because I feel like...
14:30I'm sitting here, like...
14:31How old were you?
14:32I think...
14:33I think I was, like, 12, 13.
14:35I think, like, year seven at school or something.
14:38Yeah.
14:39But we didn't go looking for it.
14:41We had boys show it to us.
14:42No, we had...
14:43Yeah, I had a friend who showed it to me.
14:44And actually, I have to kind of check myself, you know,
14:46because I would like to think that, you know,
14:49I'm very open-minded.
14:51But I do find the events...
14:52I'm like, when does it end?
14:54You'll see how, like, unseedy they are.
14:56Because I think in people's heads they think they're disgusting,
14:59like, very, like, shameful, seedy events.
15:02And it's not all that.
15:03It's just, like, a community of consenting adults
15:06having a nice time together and a nice moment together.
15:10Hmm.
15:11I'm curious of your skincare routine,
15:25because I think you've got such lovely skin.
15:27I really do think you have to keep it simple.
15:29You know what?
15:30A bar of soap and lots of smoke.
15:32That's what'll do it.
15:34The thing is with Lily is she's great company,
15:39but, you know, there's a persona
15:41and there's a certain image she's trying to put forward.
15:46And I just...
15:47I don't believe that everything is as...
15:55fantastic as...
15:57as she's, you know, happy Billy.
16:01Come on, thank you so much.
16:06It's the morning of Lily's stunt.
16:10Are you off work?
16:11Yes.
16:12I've got an event.
16:13You want to come?
16:14Yeah.
16:15Hell yeah.
16:16And she's still hustling for more men to attend her event.
16:20This is the place.
16:23Let me just take a picture.
16:28I'm going to get, like, a bunch of guys
16:30and then we're going to give them oral.
16:31No way.
16:32And you invited me?
16:33Yeah.
16:34Oh, my God.
16:35It's such a pleasure.
16:36I will be there.
16:37I promise.
16:38Are you really going to come?
16:39I promise you.
16:40I give you my word.
16:41I don't lie.
16:42Are you a subscriber?
16:43Yeah.
16:44Oh, bless you.
16:45So how much are you paying a month to watch Lily's content?
16:47I don't know,
16:48because it's from my mum's credit card.
16:53What a day.
16:54What a day, innit?
16:55What a day.
16:56What a blessing, actually.
16:57What a blessing.
16:58What a great weekend for you.
17:00Exactly.
17:01There you go.
17:02All right, then I'll see you later.
17:03See you later.
17:04See you later.
17:05All right.
17:06What's your name?
17:07Adrian.
17:08Nice to meet you.
17:09I'm Stacey.
17:10Come on, here.
17:12We're going to see you later.
17:14I'll bring him as well, yeah?
17:15Yeah.
17:16Bye.
17:17Bye.
17:18Bye.
17:19Although Lily has been extremely open so far,
17:23I'm aware of her resistance to talk about any of the more
17:26difficult aspects of her job.
17:28And I wonder how much of her work and reputation impacts
17:31the people close to her.
17:33Are most of your pals now fellow Only Fans girls?
17:36No, no.
17:37I'm friends with my whole friendship from school still.
17:40Do they feel like they have to sort of defend you?
17:43Yeah, I mean, some of them don't want to be known to be
17:48friends with me in case of job opportunities.
17:52If they went into job interview and they saw in the media
17:57that they were my friend, then that just might be the thing
18:00that sways them not to get the job.
18:03It's also as well, like, they get messages saying your friend's
18:08disgusting, you must be just as disgusting.
18:10And just because we're friends that then some people in their
18:14mind think my friends are exactly the same as me then.
18:17So, the pals that are happy to be on your page,
18:23they're fellow Only Fans girls.
18:25Yes.
18:26For obvious reasons.
18:27Yes.
18:28It's like a game of two halves, truly.
18:30Your friendship group.
18:32Half of them are like, don't tag me in a million years.
18:35Yeah.
18:36The others are like, please can you tag me?
18:38I've had a small glimpse into the more shocking elements
18:41of Lily's sex work.
18:42And I remain unconvinced by her approach to normalising
18:45her own exploitation.
18:47For me, there's a distinct difference between being empowered sexually
18:57and using yourself as a vessel to encourage men to participate in a scenario that just feels
19:09so degrading for the woman.
19:14It feels so sad to me.
19:16That's how I feel.
19:18That's how lots of people feel.
19:23Thank you, really, so much.
19:25I'm really grateful.
19:26Hope you enjoyed your stay.
19:27I smell like one of those men.
19:28I have to have a shower.
19:29You don't.
19:30I can only apologise.
19:31As I leave, I wonder how long Lily will keep pursuing her controversial line of work.
19:36OK.
19:37Bye, darling.
19:41But one thing seems clear.
19:43The demands for what she's supplying doesn't seem to be going away.
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