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Freya Parker Took Her Mom To Vegas For Her First Scene

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00:00You were camming. How did you move from that into, like, shooting partner scenes and ultimately studio scenes?
00:06At this point, I had been researching for, like, over a year and a half about, like, porn and agents and all of that.
00:14So I knew who Spiegler was. When I went to AVN in 2020, like, I knew who Spiegler was.
00:19You're very, like, thorough, aren't you?
00:20Oh, yeah. Oh, yeah. Very thorough.
00:23And so I was, like, I remember walking to, I was on the floor at AVN, and he was, like, sitting on a couch at someone's booth.
00:32And I remember being like, Paige, Paige, look, that's Spiegler over there. That's Mark Spiegler.
00:36And she was like, I don't know who that is. Like, I'm happy for you. I don't know who that is.
00:41And so I knew who everybody was. And then it's funny enough, I met my current agent at AVN in 2020.
00:48He doesn't remember this, but I did. I went up and I introduced myself.
00:51Who's your current agent?
00:52I'm with ATML. I'm with Mark.
00:53Oh, you're with Mark. He's lovely.
00:55He's so lovely.
00:56Yeah, he's one of the best.
00:57Yeah. And shout out to Mark Schlechter.
00:58Schecter.
00:59Schecter.
01:00Schecter.
01:00Yeah, he's the sweetest, super awesome, and just cool.
01:05Yeah, he's great.
01:06And so, yeah, at that point, I had known who a couple of these agents were.
01:11I had done some research.
01:12And I was like, okay, like, maybe this is something I want to do.
01:16I mean, I've already been camming.
01:18My goal was to be behind the camera.
01:19But at this point, like, I'm just trying to pay my bills, so whatever.
01:23What did you want to do behind the camera?
01:24I wanted to direct.
01:26Okay.
01:26Like, that whole 90s era thing I went through, I was like, oh, my God.
01:31Andrew Blake.
01:32Yeah.
01:33Like, that whole entire period was just, like, crazy to me.
01:38Yeah.
01:38And I wish someone would have grabbed me by the shoulders at 19 and been like, girl,
01:42that is not the porn we're making today.
01:44I know.
01:45It is not a reality.
01:46Nobody is making...
01:47You could not sell Andrew Blake movies today.
01:50No.
01:50And no one would watch them.
01:52They'd be like, where's the POV shot?
01:54They're beautiful, but you...
01:55Yeah.
01:56No.
01:56People aren't going to buy them.
01:56There's no money in it at all.
01:58And it's devastating to me.
02:00Yeah.
02:00And so, yeah, I had so many directors that I looked up to.
02:04And so, I wanted to get into that.
02:07And then it just...
02:09I was like, whatever.
02:10You know what?
02:10This will be my break-in.
02:12I'll break in.
02:13I'll show my holes.
02:15Then maybe they'll let me hold a camera.
02:17Yeah.
02:17You know?
02:18And so, yeah, I...
02:21Funny enough, my first agent reached out to me on Instagram.
02:25And I was like, well, I see lots of girls that I know with this agent.
02:30And I don't really want to do the work and try to reach out to other people.
02:34Now, looking back, I wish I had.
02:36But I was like, it's fine.
02:38This will do.
02:39So, yeah, I...
02:41They sent over the model.
02:45What even...
02:45Would you call it a contract?
02:46It's not even...
02:47Doesn't even count as a contract, to be honest with you.
02:49But I read over it.
02:51And I signed it.
02:52And within a week, I was on a flight to Vegas to shoot my first scene.
02:55What was your first scene?
02:57Well, it was a casting couch situation.
02:59Oh, what a surprise.
03:01And I was so nervous.
03:03So, I actually made my mom buy a ticket to Vegas with me.
03:07Because I was like, girl...
03:08So, your mom knew you were getting into porn.
03:09Oh, yeah.
03:10And she was okay with it?
03:11Yeah.
03:12She was like, I saw that coming from a mile away.
03:14Because I would, like, sit there and, like, collect DVDs of, like, my favorite Andrew Blake films.
03:19And she's like, what's this one about?
03:21Like, what's in that one?
03:22You know?
03:23So, she was like, I knew that that was going to happen.
03:25Yeah.
03:26It's crazy that she came from such a strict religious background and ended up being so accepting of what you're doing.
03:31The rebellious side of her was like, gotta go.
03:35Yeah, yeah.
03:35So, yeah.
03:36She got on a plane with me to Vegas.
03:38She stayed at the same hotel as me.
03:40And then, funny enough, that shoot ended up getting pushed because first time I got tested, they lost my urine sample.
03:49And I was like, is this what to be expected?
03:53Getting into porn?
03:54Like, is this going to be regular?
03:55But, yeah.
03:58So, I shot that scene a couple days later.
04:00And she stayed with me until that was over.
04:03And then, I left right from there to L.A.
04:06And she went home.
04:07And I was like, bye, girl.
04:09I'm going to go with my life.
04:11Yeah.
04:12So, tell me about your actual first scene.
04:13Like, do you remember who it was with?
04:15Yeah.
04:15It was for Net Video Girls.
04:16Okay.
04:18They like to do new girls.
04:19Yeah.
04:19New girls.
04:20Yeah.
04:20Once again, I see so many girls playing it smart.
04:23They're like, no, I'm going to wait until Browsers gives me my first scene.
04:27I was like, dude, put me in front of a camera.
04:29Like, I didn't care.
04:32And so, yeah, I shot with Tyler.
04:35I think that's his name.
04:36Tyler Nixon?
04:37No.
04:38Oh.
04:38His name's just Tyler.
04:40Oh.
04:40It's literally just Tyler.
04:41Okay.
04:42He's like the POV dude or whatever.
04:44Mr. Lucky.
04:45Oh, okay.
04:46Some POV.
04:46Mr. Lucky POV.
04:47I think.
04:48I think.
04:49Yeah, okay.
04:49I could be wrong.
04:50Um, but the point is, is that he shot mainly POV for them.
04:55Gotcha.
04:55So the first scene was with him.
04:56It was my second time ever having sex with a man.
04:59My first time was great, but it was literally like, okay, February.
05:05So, yeah, it was eight months.
05:08I'd lost my virginity eight months prior and I had sex with one guy and I was like, okay,
05:14let's fucking go.
05:16And how did it go?
05:17Did you tell him that this was your only second time?
05:20I'm having sex with a guy, I know.
05:21I didn't even tell the boy that I lost my virginity to that I gave him my virginity.
05:26Yeah.
05:26Cause I was like, no, he can't know about that.
05:30And it was great.
05:30I loved the first time I had sex with a man.
05:33Didn't hurt?
05:34No.
05:35Really?
05:35Like, um, it was like mind blowing.
05:37It changed like the trajectory of everything.
05:39It was terrible.
05:40Really?
05:40Oh yeah.
05:41I hear that a lot though.
05:42It was really painful.
05:43Really?
05:44I bled.
05:45And the guy sucked.
05:47Yeah.
05:47I remember he kept his shirt on cause he had like pimples all over his back.
05:49Oh Lord.
05:50He was also a terrible like boyfriend.
05:52That's so sad.
05:53He was so nice to me.
05:54No, this boy was not.
05:55He did not deserve my virginity.
05:57No, he didn't.
05:57No, he didn't at all.
05:59Um, but this boy was not my boyfriend.
06:03Uh, and I lost my virginity at my stepdad's house, which is, I mean, come on.
06:09Like there's nothing more pornographic than that.
06:11But I was.
06:11Unless it was with your stepdad.
06:13Yeah.
06:13Then.
06:14Then it would be actually.
06:15Sorry for another time.
06:16Yeah.
06:17Uh, but no, I was dog sitting for him and I just, I was like, oh yeah, you can like
06:21come over and hang out.
06:22By the way, I'm not having sex with you.
06:24I told him that.
06:24I was like, we're not fucking like, that's not going to happen.
06:28Did you initiate it?
06:30I think it was kind of mutual.
06:33Like I think throughout the night we were like, okay, fine.
06:35And I had sex with him.
06:37And because I had waited so long and I was so comfortable with my own body and
06:41like, whatever.
06:43When we had sex, it was like, oh, like I was able to relax.
06:47It went in.
06:48And I remember crying because like, it was such an overwhelming feeling.
06:52Wow.
06:52Like it felt so good that I was like, there were tears.
06:56So yeah, I was just very like, whoa.
06:58That's amazing.
06:59Yeah.
07:00And then I was like, get out of my life.
07:02Don't ever do that to me again.
07:04So you didn't like catch feelings afterwards as they say you do on the first time.
07:07No, I didn't.
07:08I just caught some plan B and went about my business.
07:13Okay.
07:13So then you're shooting with Mr.
07:15Well, some lucky, some, some lucky motherfucker that shot POV.
07:21That's right.
07:21And you didn't tell him, but obviously you'd had such a good experience with your first
07:25one.
07:25Like you obviously weren't worried about it hurting or anything like that.
07:27No.
07:28And so how'd the scene go?
07:29It was great.
07:30I had practiced with a toy.
07:32Of course you did.
07:33A couple of days before.
07:34Of course you did because you were that thorough.
07:36I was like so scared.
07:37Nothing less.
07:38I was like, what if it doesn't go in?
07:40Like what if he goes to put it in and it doesn't fit?
07:43Like I was so scared.
07:44So yeah, I just, I practiced and then I went and did the scene and I think that it went
07:49smoothly.
07:51I didn't, there was a little pain after because I was like, this was porn sex we were having.
07:57So it lasted a long time.
07:58Yeah.
07:59I'd never douched before.
08:00I didn't know what a fucking douche was.
08:02Did he tell you to?
08:03Yeah.
08:03Well, here's the thing with new girls, right?
08:06It's a little like bring you a douche.
08:07And I'm like, dude, I know that you're like used to having sex with girls that like are
08:10having sex.
08:12I'm not having a lot of sex, so whatever.
08:14But he gave me this douche and he's like, this is how it works.
08:17And like, and now looking back, I'm like, fuck you.
08:20Like, don't tell me how to clean out my coochie.
08:22I get that I was like 19, but at the same time, you know?
08:25So yeah.
08:27Aside from that, it was fine.
08:30Yeah.
08:30And then how'd you feel afterwards?
08:32Great.
08:33So did you feel like this was the right choice to make?
08:35Oh, yeah.
08:35You weren't doubting your decision?
08:36Not even a little.
08:37I was like, I want to get on a plane and go to LA and shoot more porn.
08:40Like I was, I was like, it's go time.
08:42Wow.
08:42Let's do this.
08:43What, what was the thing that you liked the most about it?
08:46I think it was just very, it's something that I had thought about for so long.
08:51It was like this fantasy in my brain that was never attainable.
08:53Like it was like, oh, well, I can think that all day long, but that's not going to happen.
08:57So for me, it was like I was fulfilling something that I had wanted to do and I just got to do it.
09:04And it felt like very, like, wow, empowering and fun and cool.
09:07I was like, oh, yeah.
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