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Love & Marriage: Huntsville - Season 10 Episode 11 -
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Wanda-ful Chaos
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00:00Thank you for being willing to trust me.
00:03I'm just angry and tired.
00:04There are reasons why you're angry,
00:07and that's what we're looking for.
00:09You have to make a lot of money on this property,
00:10the one that you're going to put me on the listing for.
00:12I kind of already promised Chris.
00:14So you're just going to have to add another agent.
00:17Hello.
00:18How you doing, Miss Destiny?
00:20Beautiful.
00:21Well, thank you.
00:23Hello.
00:25Hey, how y'all doing?
00:26Destiny is walking in here with Will
00:29after a conversation we just had about Twan.
00:31So this is very surprising to me.
00:35Nell, you said keep my name out your mouth
00:38trying to make your problem.
00:40You don't have to.
00:41I'm doing what everyone else is doing, okay?
00:44What do y'all think y'all doing here?
00:48Gaze up on me?
00:49I dump your ass in that pool.
00:51You keep hollering at me.
00:53You won't dump me.
00:54Keep hollering at me.
00:56Don't keep hollering at me.
00:57I should not have said I will dunk you in the pool
01:00if you keep hollering at me.
01:01And I apologize for that.
01:03I still can't apologize, but it really hurt.
01:06That hurt me.
01:07And if I yelled at you, I apologize to you.
01:10We keep it moving
01:13All day, all night
01:16Yeah
01:17Ain't no stopping
01:18I'm dropped that
01:20We ain't stopping
01:21You know, you know
01:24We keep it moving
01:27All day, all night
01:32Yeah
01:33Yeah
01:35All day, all night
01:37Yeah
01:38Ain't no stopping
01:40All day, all night
01:42Yeah
01:43Yeah
02:13Girl!
02:14Hey, Grace!
02:15So I invited Tisha to the house so we can catch up.
02:18And I can just check her temperature on everything,
02:20because the last couple of meet-ups have been a disaster.
02:24Grace, you're welcome!
02:26You're welcome, my baby!
02:28Go with this French.
02:29Just walk, just walk, just walk.
02:31So, Nell, why did you guys leave LA early?
02:36That's none of your business.
02:37I don't owe you anything.
02:39It's so quiet in here.
02:40Where everybody at?
02:41Where's Ken?
02:43He's getting sorry back and forth to dance.
02:44Oh, he don't know the day to do these stuff.
02:46We'll be all over the place, girl.
02:47Good.
02:48I'm happy to hear y'all still a team.
02:49I was kind of concerned a little bit.
02:51Yeah.
02:52We're still working through it, because when I tell you,
02:54it has been arguments after arguments.
02:56Have y'all seek, like, outside help to help, like,
02:59communicate better?
03:00So...
03:01I'm going to therapy.
03:02Yes.
03:03That's good.
03:04So you're going by yourself.
03:05Because I'm going by myself for now.
03:06OK.
03:07Because I do feel like I need to work on me,
03:09because it's like I bottled up a lot of anger,
03:12life anger issues, and then I blow up.
03:15OK.
03:16I don't just blow up on family.
03:18It's like whoever comes into contact with me
03:20that presses the smallest button sends me over the edge,
03:24and I don't even know why.
03:26So has the therapist been helping you to, like,
03:28try to zoom in and see what is causing that problem?
03:32We're working on it.
03:33Because that's going to be better for not only your relationship
03:35with Ken, with your kids, with your friends,
03:38with everybody around you.
03:39Everybody, I do.
03:40Even with yourself.
03:41I agree.
03:42I think what this taught Ken and I, especially for me,
03:45is that we have to love each other in every season.
03:50Because you're going to have your seasons.
03:51Because we're going to have seasons.
03:52We're going to have them.
03:53Yep.
03:54But it's either we're going to, hey,
03:56let the weather take us down through there,
03:58or we're going to get through it.
04:00I have hope for y'all.
04:02As a black community, we've always, like,
04:04strayed away from going to therapy.
04:06It's like we'll pray about it,
04:07and then we try to resolve things of our own.
04:09So I think it's a good thing that Trish is going out
04:13to seek the help that she needs from a therapist
04:16who can really give her the tools to do better
04:19and be better in life.
04:20I'm just happy that you're getting the help.
04:22I think you're going to, next year, next year,
04:24we're going to see a whole different Trish.
04:25Let's see.
04:26I feel like I have to for myself, for the kids, for family,
04:30just for life in general.
04:31Speaking of family, that's what I want to come over here
04:34to talk to you about.
04:35I'm going to take a little mini trip to, um, to my hometown,
04:40to Bessemer, so I can see my mama in her food truck.
04:43So I wanted to know if you'll be able to come along with us.
04:46It's going to be this coming-up weekend.
04:49Why are you looking like that?
04:51Because we'll be in Miami for Xavier's birthday.
04:53Aw!
04:54Really?
04:55Dang!
04:56Dang!
04:57I bet you can't make it!
05:00I know!
05:01Dang!
05:02Trish!
05:03I really wanted Trish to experience Bessemer,
05:06but hey, I understand mom life, mom business comes first.
05:09So she's just going to have to miss out on this one.
05:12So you know, I haven't had a chance to talk to you
05:17since, um, we left Nell's little thing.
05:20Girl, you were so out of it at that time.
05:22I was!
05:23Mm-hmm.
05:24So at first, I thought it was fun,
05:26but then we went outside to have a conversation with Nell.
05:30I felt like I was handling the conversation well.
05:34I was, like, in my convoys.
05:36I thought you did great.
05:37Thank you!
05:38Because I was irritated.
05:39When people voice started elevating like that,
05:42and I'm already in a moment, I'm like, yeah.
05:44Nell's like, I'm over it.
05:45Yep.
05:50I said, Letitia Scott, we're about our own business.
05:54I'm just loud.
05:57I need to tone my voice.
05:59I mean, were you screaming at somebody or something?
06:01I didn't think I was.
06:02I started out very calm.
06:04They kept going, well, how are we going to resolve this?
06:07Do you have a problem?
06:08And I'm like, I don't have a problem.
06:10And then Destiny said, well...
06:11Who's saying this?
06:12Kimmy.
06:13Okay.
06:14Um, and then Destiny.
06:16Everyone's saying something at this point.
06:18And I'm like, I'm good.
06:19The two on this side got the gas, and the other two
06:21on this side got the light.
06:22Yeah.
06:23And that's the same thing, like Kimmy was saying.
06:25Kimmy was like, you just can't be yelling at me.
06:27That's the problem.
06:28Yeah.
06:29I'm happy to hear that it just wasn't me.
06:30Like, just on 20.
06:31And I'm like, what is wrong with you?
06:33And Kimmy says, don't you yell at me.
06:36Well, what do you think you doing right now?
06:39But y'all apologized and hugged it out, right?
06:42I'm cordial.
06:43I can apologize.
06:44Kimmy's apology, it was a public apology.
06:47So I did accept it.
06:49Normally, I don't do that.
06:50It normally takes more time than that.
06:52So I still have my guard up.
06:54Most definitely keeping my eye on these ladies.
06:56No, I think what happened was the whole issue about her grandbaby.
07:01You know, we did some stuff in LA.
07:03And she said that she had to leave early.
07:05I thought she said because of the delivery of the baby.
07:08He had got a call saying he needed to get back.
07:11He had baby on the way in labor.
07:13I saw that on social media.
07:15Me too.
07:16We all did.
07:17Kimmy, was you a part of that conversation
07:18when she said the reason they had to leave LA early
07:20was something dealing with the grandbaby?
07:21I felt like you said it did have something to do with you.
07:25You had to come back home for the situation.
07:27I did not tell you that.
07:29I feel like she wasn't supposed to talk about the baby.
07:33Yeah, so if you didn't say it, then how does Tisha know?
07:36Somebody had to voice it.
07:37How would I know?
07:38It didn't come out in the air.
07:39How would I know?
07:40I know all this went on with you and Kimmy.
07:43Where did it leave you and Leticia?
07:46Nowhere.
07:47She ain't talking to me and I ain't talking to her.
07:50And that's the problem with this group of ladies that I have.
07:54It's always something, but it's always pointed at me.
07:59Why am I defending myself, my family,
08:02and especially my granddaughter?
08:04I'm not gonna keep talking about my granddaughter.
08:08I mean it.
08:09But I felt like she was on 20 for no reason.
08:11Sometimes you can say things that kind of like push your foot in them out.
08:15So I believe that she said stuff and then she's like,
08:18oh, I wasn't supposed to say that.
08:19And she tried to like backtrack.
08:21But you already put it out there.
08:22So it's too late.
08:23That's what I said.
08:24Sometimes you get angry, you start saying stuff,
08:26and you don't pay attention to what you're saying.
08:28And then you start to tell them yourself.
08:29And she said she was a life coach.
08:32She needs some help.
08:34Lady needs some help.
08:36I think with myself saying Dr. Francis,
08:38it has definitely helped a lot with my anger issues,
08:40why I get angry.
08:42And I think Nell could definitely benefit from it
08:44because we have a lot of similarities on anger issues.
08:47So y'all haven't spoken to each other since?
08:49No, I got nothing to say to her.
08:51She told me to keep her on my mouth,
08:53and I'm going to say do exactly what she asked me to do.
08:56She's not the type of person I would like want to like hang out with,
08:59be around, being associated with at all.
09:02Coming up on Love and Marriage Huntsville.
09:07When Kenny comes into the picture,
09:09and the kids are saying there's a breath of fresh air,
09:12let me gravitate towards the fresh air.
09:14You're saying, wait, wait a minute.
09:15Whoa, whoa, whoa.
09:16Whoa, what about me?
09:17I've had you all this time.
09:19He just, he's the new kid on the block.
09:21I was jealous when he came along,
09:22and they started asking him instead of me.
09:24It's kind of made me feel some type of way.
09:26Wanda! Miss Wanda!
09:29Hey!
09:30Come on, girl!
09:31Yeah! You got your truck!
09:33The hose came from her spiel!
09:36Hey!
09:37On the low, huh.
09:38We got involved, baby,
09:40but we should've walked, now it's going on,
09:43so keep it on the low.
09:46We got involved, baby,
09:49but we should've walked, now it's going on,
09:52so keep it on the low.
10:01Well, well.
10:02Well, hi.
10:03How are you?
10:04We'll meet again.
10:05We'll meet again.
10:06Feel good to see you.
10:07Please, go right ahead and have your seat.
10:10Listen.
10:11Listen, sit down anywhere you want to sit.
10:13Let's get a little fancy here.
10:15Just be comfortable, okay?
10:17So I'm here at my second session with Dr. Francis.
10:20Yay, I am back.
10:21I know, right?
10:22I think I've made a lot of progress since the first time.
10:25I still have a lot of work to do,
10:27but I can already see that it's worth the struggle.
10:30Last week we did, um,
10:33we talked about your family as a whole.
10:36Yeah.
10:38And I'm trying to get to know about you.
10:42Are you ready for that?
10:44Yes.
10:45You know, I think that last session was pretty awesome.
10:51Um, I actually went to visit my mom and dad's grave for the first time.
10:55And I cried.
10:56Yeah.
10:57Trish, that's growth.
10:58It was something.
10:59I'm taking the time right now to tell you, to validate you, to let you know that going
11:12to your parents' grave site was an amazing growth piece for you.
11:18People are always growing.
11:20So the question is, who am I now?
11:25Do you have any children?
11:26Mm-hmm.
11:27I have two.
11:28Boy and girl.
11:29Boy and girl?
11:30Mm-hmm.
11:31And you were married?
11:32Mm-hmm.
11:33How'd you get along with father?
11:34No, we don't get along.
11:35So you're divorced?
11:37In the process.
11:38Mm-hmm.
11:39How long you been separated?
11:41About six years, six years.
11:44About six years.
11:45You may be separated physically, but emotionally you are still together.
11:50Well, actually, you know, the guy I'm with now.
11:53Ooh.
11:54What's your relationship like with him?
11:57I mean, we argue like in the normal couple, but we have a great relationship.
12:02What kind of relationship did you do and have with this man over here?
12:05I don't know.
12:06Kenny seems, um, you would have thought he was their dad.
12:10So he's strong?
12:11Very.
12:12That sounds good.
12:13Like every event, everything they have going on, he's there.
12:17He's there, really?
12:18Even when I'm not.
12:19Okay.
12:20Or I can't make it.
12:21He's there.
12:22So, so, so he's heavily invested in them?
12:24Oh, yeah.
12:25Okay.
12:26And because of his attachment and heavily, heavy involvement in them,
12:30what does that do for you and him?
12:33It's great.
12:34I mean, it's good.
12:35It's...
12:39I was jealous in the beginning, but yeah.
12:41You were jealous of him?
12:42Because...
12:45I didn't think they would take to him like they did.
12:48Hmm.
12:49Can you tell me what that jealousy might have looked like an experience?
12:54It was...
12:58I don't know.
12:59I...
13:00It just felt like...
13:01It was like a possession.
13:03It was my kids.
13:06So, did you get it?
13:08Did it feel like you were losing your kids?
13:10Honestly?
13:11Yeah.
13:12I did.
13:13Um, it made me happy, but then I was like, wait a minute now.
13:16Because my kids always came to me for things and always asked me for things.
13:22So, I was always the center of it.
13:25Then when he came along and they started asking him instead of me,
13:29it just kind of made me feel some type of way.
13:32So, what did you do with that?
13:36I used to make little smart jokes.
13:39But the joke, because he would see it as a joke,
13:42it would not negatively impact your relationship because it was just a joke.
13:47But you were serious about using the joke.
13:50It's, yeah.
13:52Yeah.
13:54And so, when Kenny comes into the picture and the kids are saying,
13:58there's a breath of fresh air.
13:59Let me gravitate towards the fresh air.
14:01You're saying, wait, wait a minute.
14:02Whoa, whoa, whoa.
14:03Whoa, what about me?
14:05I've had you all this time.
14:06He's the new kid on the block.
14:14Yeah?
14:15After my ex moved to Atlanta, you know, out of sight, out of mind,
14:19the kids came to me for everything.
14:21I was like the center.
14:22And then here comes Kenny.
14:24I definitely felt jealous.
14:25And I'm like, wait a minute.
14:27Wait a minute.
14:28It's been me here that's done all of these things for you guys.
14:31It's like they gravitated towards him so well.
14:35I don't have that responsibility anymore.
14:37And it kind of felt awkward.
14:39So, do you get upset with the kids sometimes because he's paying them,
14:42you know, a lot of attention and the attachment is growing here?
14:46Or do you get upset with him for being such a good guy that the children
14:51would trust him to, so that they go with him?
14:55And I don't know about you and that because you just said, wait a minute.
14:58I'm supposed to be number one.
15:00I'm supposed to be the center.
15:05After dealing with so much loss, it was hard trusting anyone.
15:08It was hard to accept help.
15:11And I think that was one of our biggest issues with Ken and I.
15:14You're really good at this.
15:22What do you think?
15:23I don't know.
15:24I'm waiting for an explanation on that one.
15:26Self-protection.
15:28Do you like nuts?
15:29No.
15:31You don't like nuts?
15:33Well, I will.
15:34Can I tell you a nut story though?
15:35Okay.
15:36Okay.
15:37Have you ever taken a good look at pistachios?
15:42So, when you take a look at pistachios,
15:44you notice that all the shells are not opened to the same dimension, the same width, the same crack.
15:53The cracks are not always the same.
15:54You know that, right?
15:55Mm-hmm.
15:56I'm wondering, you know, how painful was something in your past that made you say, I'm going to be like, here's a pistachio and I'm going to be closed.
16:09You are protecting yourself from something that happened in the past.
16:13And so he had to pay his dues to get into this.
16:19And then when he got into this, this evolved with the children.
16:24And when this evolved with the children, you started to feel like you're having another loss.
16:37My parents, it's just, I don't want to deal with any more loss.
16:40It's just, I don't care if it's death.
16:43Just, I just, that's why I just, just like to stay to myself.
16:49It took you all this time to show your vulnerability and your hurt and your pain and your disappointment.
17:02And I want to thank you.
17:03It feels like a weight lifted when I start to open up.
17:07I feel like it's really time for me to talk to Ken and make things right.
17:11Because I don't see a relationship for us in the future if I don't deal with the trauma of my past.
17:23Coming up on Love and Mary's Huntsville.
17:25Y'all both have said things about each other's husbands.
17:28Because of what her husband is saying about, he was making jokes about Marceau and Maurice.
17:34And today, 2025, I'm tired of people joking about it because it ain't funny no more.
17:38I felt like I was losing my kids.
17:42To me?
17:43Yeah.
17:44Well, how are you going to lose them to me?
17:46Y'all just pushing me to the side.
18:08Oh!
18:12This should be fun.
18:13Yep, I hope y'all enjoy the ride.
18:15It's cute in here.
18:17Road trip, bitches!
18:19Road trip!
18:21I'm super excited to bring the girls to my hometown, my stomping ground, Vescema, Alabama.
18:27Kimmy Cakes!
18:29Good morning, T.
18:30You ready?
18:31I'm getting ready.
18:32What you do with that pillow?
18:34That's what I said.
18:35She got a blanket blanket.
18:36You better put that back in the car.
18:37You ain't taking no nap.
18:38I am the person I am today because of Vescema and my community.
18:42So, I think we're going to have a good time.
18:44You look so cute!
18:46Thank you, darling.
18:47Let me put this up.
18:48Let me get this out for a second.
18:50She said, give me my pillow!
18:54They going to make me like these girls' chips whether I like it or not.
18:57I can see.
18:59Shada Claus!
19:00Shada Claus!
19:03Okay, to our first road trip with the new duo, three-o.
19:08The threesome.
19:09The threesome!
19:10The new form of threesome.
19:12We got inside a name.
19:14Kimmy, you didn't even look me in my eye.
19:16Well, who's going to look me in my eye?
19:23Okay, I feel this already, baby.
19:25What the hell?
19:26You just took it!
19:28So, my mom, you know, she started her food truck.
19:30She got it up, open.
19:31I saw those pictures.
19:32Yes!
19:33It's purple!
19:34I love it!
19:35So, we're going to go pop up and pay her a little visit.
19:38She don't know we coming?
19:39No, she don't know.
19:40It's a pop-up.
19:41I'd never think a pop-up on Wanda is doing.
19:43Well, she's going to be out!
19:44She going to be happy to see us.
19:46No, we don't want you acting up, though, Kimmy.
19:48Wanda is having her food truck soft opening.
19:52So, we're going to softly tiptoe in there and softly tiptoe right back out.
19:57This your shot.
19:58I got one already.
19:59Uh-uh.
20:00This yours right here.
20:01So, you didn't invite the rest of the ladies?
20:03Trish had to work.
20:04What about Nell?
20:05I don't talk to Nell.
20:06Why would I talk to Nell?
20:07Did you witness how she treated me?
20:09You saw her.
20:10Kimmy said she going to throw her in the pool when she was yelling at her.
20:13No, she said.
20:14My mama yelled back with her.
20:15Kimmy went for her.
20:16I can't do all that hollering.
20:17Exactly.
20:18Then that lit went up.
20:19She was like.
20:20No, and like, call it like it is, though, for real.
20:26I asked her three times to stop yelling at me.
20:29She kept saying she wasn't yelling.
20:30Even Trisha.
20:31Trisha leaned over.
20:32She was like, stop yelling.
20:33You are yelling at her.
20:34I'm telling you to stop yelling at my man.
20:35Stop yelling at me.
20:36Stop yelling at me.
20:37She didn't.
20:38I wasn't yelling at you.
20:39She did.
20:40She did.
20:41I guess y'all gaining up on her.
20:42Because people telling her to stop yelling.
20:43But no, I'm saying before that, just the simple fact that I asked her to come out and have
20:52the conversation.
20:53Yeah.
20:54You almost begged her.
20:55Damn near carried her to come outside and have the conversation.
21:00You should have been there.
21:01Maybe if we talk.
21:02I'll go with you.
21:03I'll go out here, but I'm not going to do all the arguing.
21:07I'm prayerful that's not going to be the case.
21:09I'm not going to do all that.
21:10I think for me, my energy changed when she was like, one, she said y'all were ganging
21:14up on me.
21:15What did y'all think y'all doing here?
21:16Gang up on me?
21:17Destiny said, huh?
21:18And she went, stop 1.0 and 2.0.
21:19I didn't say you.
21:20I didn't say you.
21:21I'm strictly talking about 1.0 and 2.0.
21:22Not you.
21:23Stop 1.0 and 2.0.
21:24Not you.
21:25Stop 1.0 and 2.0.
21:28I didn't say you.
21:29I didn't say you.
21:30I'm strictly talking about 1.0 and 2.0.
21:33That's my whole thing about Nell.
21:34Like, I'm not about to disrespect you.
21:35You're...
21:36You can pretty much be like my mom almost.
21:37You're not.
21:38I'm serious.
21:39I can't lie.
21:40It says in the Bible, respect your elders.
21:41Oh, Jesus.
21:42So that's what I'm going to do.
21:43I'm going to stay in the child's place dealing with her.
21:46I've said to Tisha before, I think there's something else that there's some kind of
21:49issue somewhere else.
21:50And I don't personally, I don't know what it is.
21:51I'm going to tell you what I think it is for the both of them.
21:55Y'all both have said things about each other's husbands.
21:57Because of what her husband is saying about.
22:00He was making jokes about Marcel and Maurice.
22:02And today, 2025, you know, you're going to have to do that with him.
22:05You're going to have to do it with him.
22:06You're going to have to do it with him.
22:07I'm going to have to do it.
22:08You're going to have to do it.
22:10You're going to have to do it with him, and then I'm going to have to do it with him.
22:14How is going to have this?
22:17And today, 2025, I'm tired of people joking about it
22:21because it ain't funny, no.
22:24So that was my whole thing was,
22:25I didn't even have an issue with Nell.
22:27One is a woman.
22:27I'm like, let's just stop it.
22:28You ain't got no reply to that, do you?
22:30It's weird, huh?
22:31It's not really a reply, but I'm saying that you guys,
22:33I think, feel the same way.
22:35So with you saying-
22:35But then she started it.
22:37When she gets the messiness back,
22:40then it's the problem.
22:41That's where the problem comes in.
22:42Because she hasn't even seen me yet.
22:43That's the thing.
22:44She has not even witnessed me yet be messy with her.
22:47Or she has not even witnessed me come for her yet.
22:49But I think that you let that comment go about your husband.
22:54We all had y'all conversation,
22:55but I don't know if she's really let it go.
22:57Because it's the truth for her, and that's my thing.
23:00It's a real issue for her.
23:02No, it is.
23:03It is, so don't play with me.
23:05I really don't like being the middleman,
23:08and it seems to be the running thing in this friend group.
23:10It's really annoying, to be honest with you.
23:13And I don't know how to handle it.
23:15I try my best to be as neutral as possible,
23:17but that never works.
23:19I'm the person that's in the middle of being in the tug of war.
23:22I didn't tell you this, and I should have, but I forgot.
23:26But when I met with her, she was like,
23:27she need not worry about my husband.
23:28She need to worry about that girl on that video, on that tape.
23:31Baby, I ain't got... I ain't worried about nothing.
23:33Do you see me?
23:35I see you.
23:35I ain't worried about nothing.
23:37I'm a little woman.
23:38Baby, let me tell you something.
23:39I ain't never got to worry about another woman.
23:41Ever.
23:41You know what? Let's just change the topic.
23:44I always love this view on the way to Birmingham and Bethlehem.
23:47Let's talk about the view of you and your dating life.
23:49Give us an update on that. What's going on?
23:52I have a new movie role.
23:54It's an independent film.
23:55Oh, it's a movie for real?
23:56It's a movie for real, yeah.
23:57But I have to learn how to box.
23:59And so I asked Mr. Googly Eyes...
24:02Oh, the train you how to box.
24:04Because he boxes.
24:06Sounds like God just put that together.
24:09Y'all do boxing dates?
24:10We haven't had our boxing date...
24:12A boxing session yet.
24:15Yeah, but we did...
24:15We had a business date that we talked about working together.
24:20We have an attraction to each other.
24:22We've acknowledged that.
24:23What did you and Will acknowledge?
24:25Will's nice.
24:26He's really nice.
24:27So Will get the card.
24:28It was one and done.
24:30Will what?
24:31Will.
24:32Will is nice.
24:33Like, I enjoy his company.
24:34Okay.
24:35But, you know, I know y'all joke about me, like, in my dating and your little videos
24:39of the multiple people.
24:40But, like, my philosophy is, you know, you date until you find the one.
24:44Absolutely.
24:45And people automatically assume that you, like, sleeping with everybody.
24:47No.
24:47Like, I told all of them, like, I'm not sleeping with you.
24:50So if that's what you're looking for, you got the wrong lady.
24:53That's part of why he went and got that girl pregnant, because you was that part.
24:57Be very clear.
24:58Because I was.
25:01You out here wild-dogging.
25:06Coming up on Love and Marriage Huntsville.
25:08You know, we've kind of had, you know, some rough spots.
25:12Some things that I've said in the past, like, I'm not proud of.
25:16You sound like Miss Nell over here.
25:18Oh, Lord.
25:19She got herself upset with me.
25:21The old lady now.
25:22I'm going to have to let my mama have the Miss Nell,
25:24because I'm not about to go back and forth with this lady.
25:27And you shouldn't have to go back and forth with her.
25:29Just the other night when I was driving, heard that song on the radio.
25:32Just the other night when I was driving, heard that song on the radio.
25:42I know that me and Trisha do have, you know, the things that we're going through.
25:47I know that me and Trisha do have, you know, the things that we're going through.
26:09And I'm trying so hard to kind of continue to be patient and continue to allow her to seek the help and the therapy that she needs.
26:19Because I feel like if she does that, we'll be perfectly fine.
26:22This place is nice.
26:23You finally get us, get us some date, date time.
26:26Without little people.
26:27Without the kids.
26:28I know, right?
26:28This drink is actually good.
26:30It is.
26:31Got us a great workout in.
26:32I'm sore.
26:33I think I'll have a hard time because I like to train with my people.
26:37So then I'll be like extra sore and tired.
26:39How is that going, people you were training with?
26:41We got to get our own brick and mortar for one.
26:44I've actually reached out to a couple people who possibly will do, will help us build that out.
26:49Me and Trisha, it's crazy.
26:51We're so much alike when it comes to what we want.
26:53But I think for me, you know, I feel like once Trisha actually takes all the tools that they give her,
27:01she needs to actually input them into her lifestyle.
27:04And I think we know the proper steps to take in order to be successful.
27:07I just want you to understand this too.
27:09I know we've kind of had, you know, some rough spots, but at the end of the day,
27:15I'm still here ready and rocking for you, you know.
27:19One, I want to say that I'm so proud of you because, you know,
27:23I've been preaching this therapy thing for a long time.
27:26The fact that you did it, though, like, I can't do nothing but be happy.
27:31And I know you've had a couple of sessions.
27:33How has it been going?
27:35It's been, it's, listen, it's been interesting.
27:38I'm not going to lie.
27:39Right.
27:40But I like Dr. Princess.
27:42He used the metaphor as me being a pistachio.
27:46And he said, I'm the pistachio that's still guarding and protecting,
27:51that's still closed and hasn't completely opened up to no one yet.
27:55And he was right.
27:56He told me I need to, you know, start talking to people more.
27:59Right, but you know, I'm that person you can tell, you can come to for that.
28:02Yeah, so Ken tells me that I can open up to him and, you know, come and talk to him when I have issues.
28:09I think I can.
28:10I'm not sure because that's just not something I do or have done in the past.
28:15But I'm hoping he'll be patient with me because it's very new to the both of us.
28:18Dr. Francis hit on a, like, a major part that I never thought about.
28:22I said in the beginning I was getting a little frustrated when Xavier used to call and ask him,
28:26talk to you about things that he would, you know, normally call me for.
28:29And I used to be like, wait a minute.
28:31And you were like, you would tell me, oh, he called and talked to, he called, Xavier called
28:35and told me this or, and I'm like, well, what the hell?
28:38I went from panicking, now I'm at rage.
28:44Y'all just pushing me to the side.
28:47What made you jealous of that?
28:48Like, what made that, uh, a thing, like?
28:52I felt like I was losing my kids.
28:54To me?
28:55Yeah.
28:56It's never going to be that.
28:58I don't know.
28:59Well, how are you going to lose them to me?
29:02Because now you don't go and talk to nobody but me.
29:04I understand where you come from when, you know, when you're used to being that person.
29:11That goes back to what Dr. Francis was saying as well.
29:14I've been the sole person for so long.
29:16It was definitely different because I was like, what the hell is happening here?
29:20So I shared with Ken that in the beginning it was very hard for me to let him into my life
29:26and the kids because I've always been their go-to person, like, there's always been me, me and the kids, and it was just not normal for me to see them run to someone else other than myself.
29:38And I think that was just also a part of me protecting my heart and the kids' heart because we've been through a lot in the past, and I didn't want them to go through it again.
29:46At the end of the day, we just have to be more, you know, conscious of what we're doing.
29:51Like, when we do have a disagreement, it's not turning into a big fight.
29:55I don't see myself doing nothing but life with you, you know.
29:59I might have my moments where I say opposite, but you know it's just frustration, and that's something that I also have to start.
30:05You know, I have to say, like, some things that I've said in the past, like, I'm not proud of and I apologize again.
30:12Ultimately, I'm happy.
30:14Me too. Very.
30:15Coming up on Love and Marriage Huntsville.
30:23Latisha said, tell Latisha to get my mother's name by her mother's mouth.
30:29I think you could have left that part out.
30:30I'm going to have to let my mama have them as nails.
30:32This bitch is crazy as hell.
30:41Wait a minute.
30:42Wait a minute.
30:43Look at Wanda's truck.
30:50We're here.
30:51We're in Bessemer.
30:52And look at this.
30:54I'm just so happy that my mom stuck with her dream of starting this food truck.
30:59Here go my truck, y'all.
31:00Look at it.
31:01Oh, my God.
31:02Don't be talking.
31:03Don't be laughing.
31:03I take this very serious now.
31:05Is that truck working?
31:07Does it run?
31:08Yes.
31:09You can start it up right now.
31:10For her to start this business at her age, that's something to be celebrated.
31:17I'm so proud of her.
31:18And I'm so happy for her because she did it.
31:20And I'm so happy for her to be here.
31:24And I'm so happy for her to be here.
31:27And I'm so happy for her to be here.
31:29Come on, girl.
31:32Yeah, you got your truck.
31:34The hose came from Highsville.
31:36I'm so glad to see y'all, though.
31:41I like your truck, Wanda.
31:42Well, thank you.
31:43Congratulations.
31:45We're about to order.
31:46Yeah, we're about to order.
31:46I want the loaded chicken potato.
31:48I want steak.
31:49Steak.
31:50Medium.
31:51Medium.
31:52Don't cook my steak all the way to the belt.
31:54Babe, you don't know.
31:55You're in decimal.
31:56We do everything wrong.
31:58You pick it.
32:00Because I don't want my steak cooked like a belt.
32:03It's not going to be cooked like a belt.
32:05It's going to be cooked like steak.
32:07Okay, that's what I want.
32:08All right, y'all.
32:09Give me a minute.
32:10I'll be back.
32:11Okay.
32:11She said, let me go sit down.
32:13I'm always nervous when they come to meet Wanda.
32:17That's just keeping it real.
32:18Because you just never know what's about to pop off.
32:23I'm excited that Wanda is opening up her food truck.
32:27That is where my excitement begins and ends.
32:31Everything else is sheer nerves.
32:34Hey, mama.
32:35Give me a hug, girl.
32:37Give me a hug.
32:40Look at you.
32:41Come on.
32:41Give me some fun.
32:43Yeah.
32:44Are we going to say grace?
32:45I already blessed the food.
32:46Amen.
32:47Lord, we thank you.
32:48Amen.
32:48Thank you, Destiny.
32:49You're welcome.
32:51Y'all blessed the hands that fed you.
32:52That's right.
32:53Very pretty picture of you on the truck.
32:56So have you had it out and about?
32:57Like in town?
32:58This is my very first day.
33:00Yay.
33:00This is a great location, too.
33:02So how was the ride here?
33:04It was good.
33:05We had some good conversations.
33:06Oh.
33:07What's happening about me?
33:09You know.
33:09It's always about you.
33:11I'm going to.
33:11It's always about you.
33:13I can't believe y'all talking about me.
33:15So I got to talk about y'all damn asses then.
33:17No, no, no.
33:18Speaking of, everybody want to talk about our group.
33:21You sound like Miss Nell over here.
33:23Oh, Lord.
33:24She got herself upset with me.
33:25Who?
33:26Miss Nell.
33:27Nell who?
33:28The flexure lady.
33:30The old lady Nell.
33:31Yeah, and that's why I came to you.
33:33Because I'm like, I'm not getting my mama to talk to her.
33:35Oh, hell.
33:36Wait a minute.
33:36Because I can't deal with it.
33:37Now do your what, girl?
33:38OK, let me tell you what happened.
33:40Please tell me.
33:41So what happened was her husband said something about our husbands.
33:45And I told her.
33:46I was like, it really played an effect on my marriage.
33:49Overall, what I was saying is that I cannot argue with this lady because she's more of my mother's age.
33:56And she's an elder.
33:58And you know what the Bible said about your elders.
34:01No, you know what your mama said about the elders.
34:02OK, not your definition, but the Bible.
34:04OK.
34:05You respect your elders.
34:07So your days won't be cut short.
34:08Well, you've been trained that way.
34:10Exactly.
34:10So I was like, I'm going to have to let my mama have to Miss Nell because I'm not about to go back and forth with this lady to get my days cut short.
34:16And you shouldn't have to go back and forth with her.
34:17I think that Tisha suggesting her mom and Nell talk is a horrible idea.
34:25Very, very, very horrible idea.
34:27Because Nell and Wanda both will pop off.
34:31And I just don't think it's a good idea.
34:36Ooh, girl, you made me.
34:38My nerves, my blood pressure up now.
34:40F***.
34:41Y'all, wait, I'm coming back to Huntsville.
34:43Wait, I'm coming back to Huntsville.
34:44Nell want to insert herself in my child business?
34:49Baby, you ain't nobody counsel.
34:52You ain't nobody instruction.
34:53You ain't, you can't even keep your own marriage together.
34:56While he stepped out on you, while you worrying about what Monso and the rest of the people are doing,
35:02I don't think I'm going to talk about is mine.
35:04You put my child in your mouth, now it's time for me to come and talk with you about yours.
35:10When I'm coming back to Huntsville, I need to know.
35:12And it's time, you ready to drive to Huntsville?
35:14Okay, I'm coming.
35:15Do you think it's really necessary for them to have a conversation?
35:17Oh, hell yeah, it's going to be necessary.
35:19It was necessary for her to step to my damn daughter.
35:22The thing is, she didn't say it to Tisha, she said it to her.
35:25We thought everything was fine.
35:26She stepped to Destiny, so that's not how she's talking about.
35:27Also, you with the bone carrier.
35:29Oh!
35:31No, no, no, they carried their own bones before I even got in the picture.
35:34But she said she told you, and you told Tisha.
35:36No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.
35:38No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.
35:57Miss Wanda, you know I adore you, but please stop.
36:00Please.
36:02Ain't that the part calling the kettle?
36:03They had their own issue, and apparently they resolved it,
36:08but when I talked to her, I didn't know that they hadn't moved forward.
36:12And when I brought it to her, she was like,
36:13we already talked about this, and we're supposed to be good.
36:16And Tisha said, tell Tisha to stop to get my mother
36:19by her mother out.
36:21I think you could have left that part out.
36:23That's what she said, though. Isn't that what she said?
36:24I'm just saying in front of Wanda.
36:26I see what Tisha's doing.
36:29She's, you know, sending Wanda to do her life work.
36:31That's not even a conversation to be had.
36:34It's just not.
36:34It's kind of like sicking your dogs on somebody.
36:37Bad idea.
36:38Horrible idea.
36:40So that was the whole thing.
36:41I don't know what she want from me.
36:43She felt like me and Kimmy wasn't being transparent,
36:46because when she was asking us about the whole interview situation,
36:49I was like, I said what I had to say on my social media page.
36:53How do you two ladies feel about what Martell said about your husband?
36:58Me and my husband did a live,
36:59and we absolutely discussed how we felt about it.
37:02So if you want to know how I feel about it,
37:04I'm going to watch the live.
37:05I just want to know, what do you feel about it?
37:09About what?
37:09About what?
37:09About this .
37:10About ?
37:13This went to this live out here about Maso and Maurice.
37:20What do I feel about the ?
37:22Yeah.
37:23What do you feel about her?
37:24I know you've seen it.
37:25You never replied back to it.
37:27You never said anything.
37:28So I just want to know, what's really going on?
37:30We don't care.
37:31That, um, that, that, that, that, talking to you.
37:33Okay.
37:34Babe, I'm talking to you.
37:35No, I don't give it any energy.
37:38I didn't see the whole thing,
37:39because I just felt like it was ridiculous.
37:43But I would have took it in consideration.
37:45I was like, well, damn.
37:47This bitch says she had it in the butt,
37:49in the mouth at the same time.
37:51Why do you repeat me?
37:52Because it happened, right?
37:53So what you feel about her, baby?
37:55You're just disgusted.
37:55I told you what I feel.
37:56You don't like what I feel.
37:57I don't believe that lady.
37:59I don't know who she is,
38:01and I don't know where she came from,
38:02and I don't believe the lady.
38:05You didn't conversate with Maurice about it,
38:07after you heard about it?
38:08No, I did.
38:08I said, do you know her?
38:09Like, who is she?
38:10You actually believe it?
38:11You don't believe it.
38:11No, I don't.
38:12If a bitch come to me and says something happened,
38:15I'm not going to sit down and not take in consideration
38:17what damn just would say it.
38:19You believed her?
38:20It's a certain thing.
38:21But Wanda, there's been many times
38:24I've said very plain,
38:27I think that people can cheat.
38:29I don't have any issue with knowing that men,
38:32women, whoever, can cheat.
38:34That no, ma'am.
38:37Absolutely not.
38:38At this moment,
38:40Wanda is acting like a certified blogger,
38:43and I would assume part of being good at this
38:47is moving on.
38:49I've not done anything,
38:51haven't done anything,
38:51don't intend to do anything.
38:53You never showed me I did anything.
38:54Let it go.
38:55For real.
38:56This is one of them on-the-chin moments, ain't it?
38:58You got to go like this when you say it to Destiny.
39:01I take it on the chin.
39:03Take it on the chin all the time.
39:04Call it what I'm the I want to call it,
39:06but I'm just telling y'all, young girl,
39:07don't be going around here
39:09saying that y'all don't believe
39:10what these folks be saying.
39:11Y'all got to take it into consideration.
39:12So you believe everything somebody said?
39:14Hell yeah, that ain't with my husband today.
39:16Hell yeah.
39:16And that's probably why.
39:17Hell yeah, that really ain't with him.
39:19And if it look like he'll do it,
39:21he did it.
39:22I think Kimmy is in denial.
39:24I think Kimmy, like,
39:25I don't give a what's going on.
39:28I really think that.
39:29I think Kimmy, like,
39:30I'm down with my man no matter what.
39:34Wanda, nobody believes her.
39:36Nobody.
39:37I don't know.
39:38Millions, steels, and millions, y'all.
39:39Listen, we got here to support your food truck.
39:42I appreciate it.
39:43But since y'all came all the way from Huntsville,
39:45and I haven't talked to y'all in a long time,
39:47I just wanted to know what really was going on.
39:48Mom, we don't care.
39:50Mom also said he don't care.
39:51I said I don't care.
39:52My Reese didn't ever say he didn't care.
39:54We can speak with everybody when we say we don't care.
39:56We want our refund.
39:57We didn't come here for that.
39:59Give us our money back.
40:02Oh, Lord.
40:03We're here to support my mom.
40:05And instantly, she's like,
40:06I got words for y'all.
40:08Like, can we just have a good day to eat a nice potato
40:10and have a moment and pay you and then leave?
40:15Not the mess today.
40:17Kind of bezeming with this .
40:19I'm going to tell you something.
40:20If a man come to you
40:22and he don't give you a straight answer,
40:24he damn did it.
40:33Next on Love and Marriage Huntsville.
40:35How do you think he going to get you a man
40:36if you ain't checking him?
40:37I know that's your standard, but I have a standard.
40:40I think that would be an issue
40:41with women trying to hold out with a man.
40:44So you just think that every woman
40:46that goes on a date with someone
40:47should just be sleeping with
40:48everybody they go on a date with?
40:50It's different.
40:51You say, oh, let's have a party.
40:52Yeah, you have a good time.
40:54But when you say dinner,
40:56it's a little more intense.
40:58We absolutely have to hold it.
40:59Okay.
41:00Well, let's have it.
41:01Let's do it.
41:03See how this goes.
41:04I'm an open book.
41:05Are you?
41:06100%.
41:07So you have four children
41:08and you've never been married.
41:09Why haven't you been married?
41:11All Chris said was,
41:13he explained it.
41:14It was a question that dad said.
41:15I asked him.
41:16Now you're back on dad.
41:17So I was like, what the hell?
41:18What the hell is doing a motherfucking lot?
41:21And that happened to be me.
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