- 4 hours ago
Category
🎥
Short filmTranscript
00:00Tell Hope or his fiance.
00:01Maybe we should leave Marshall and Tisha alone.
00:03The four of us, we won't be in no negative space,
00:06because we won't say anything negative about each other.
00:07I have no intentions of saying anything about you
00:10that's negative.
00:11I know we talk about this wall it seems like I have built up.
00:14I can't keep getting beat over the head for I ain't do.
00:17If there's no actions taking place, it's not going to change.
00:19There has to be a change.
00:22My name is Kitsue Francis.
00:23We want to work our way through this.
00:25I think I'm a very angry soul right now.
00:28I redirect my pain from mental to physical.
00:30And because the gym does not have a way of arguing with you,
00:34it's a safe place.
00:35Sometimes he comes back home with me.
00:37You should do something else, get the group together,
00:39play some adult games, some type of adult game.
00:41Nothing too challenging is going to get people all riled up.
00:43Right. It's just fun.
00:45You know, LA was interesting.
00:47Y'all disappeared all of a sudden.
00:49And allegedly, I was told you left to go be there
00:52for your little grandbaby from Letitia.
00:54And see, that's the problem.
00:55Letitia Scott need to mind her own business.
00:57And what's going on in her life and her marriage.
00:59Your friend need to keep my family's business out her mouth.
01:04We keep it moving all day, all night.
01:11Yeah.
01:12Ain't no stopping us.
01:13Drop that.
01:14Ain't no stopping us.
01:15Drop that.
01:16Ain't no stopping.
01:17You know.
01:18You know.
01:19You know.
01:20You know.
01:21You know.
01:22You know.
01:23We keep it moving.
01:24All day, all night.
01:25Yeah.
01:26Yeah.
01:27All day, all night.
01:28Yeah.
01:29Yeah.
01:30All day, all night.
01:31Yeah.
01:32Ain't no stopping us.
01:33Yeah.
01:34Ain't no stopping us.
01:35Yeah, yeah.
01:37Ooh.
01:38Oh.
01:39Yeah, yeah, yeah.
01:41Ooh.
01:42Sweet.
01:43Fabulous.
01:44Yes!
01:45Woo!
01:46Yes!
01:47Yes!
01:48Yes!
01:49Yes!
01:50Yes!
01:51Yes!
01:52Yes!
01:53Yes!
01:54Yes!
01:55Oh!
01:56Fabulous!
01:57You look gorgeous.
01:58Come on.
01:59Hello.
02:00Hello.
02:01Hello.
02:02How many tonight?
02:03Table for two.
02:04All right.
02:05You're going to follow me.
02:06So I'm meeting up with Sharon because I have some things to tell her.
02:11The last time we talked, things were chaotic and a complete mess.
02:15Well, I only got some good news to tell her.
02:17So, can't wait to share.
02:19So, like, I feel like we have so much catching up to do.
02:22A lot.
02:23A lot.
02:24I feel like we haven't really even had a real conversation about you and Ken.
02:30Ken, he moved.
02:32He stepped away for a little while.
02:35For a couple of days.
02:37But, um, he's back at the house.
02:39I think it was so much tension and frustration and it was all the arguing constantly.
02:45Like, back and forth.
02:47Like, a lot.
02:48I think that Ken, um, brings a good balance to you.
02:52I know.
02:54I hope that you're trying to be more vulnerable with him.
02:58That's hard, but I'm trying.
02:59Good.
03:00Have you did your counseling session yet?
03:02I have started my counseling session.
03:04Oh, MG.
03:05That's good.
03:06That's good.
03:07Are you being open with them?
03:09Yeah.
03:10I was very emotional.
03:12I guess when I sat down.
03:15I knew I was going to relive some moments that I didn't want to relive.
03:19And I really didn't want to be there in the beginning.
03:23We talked about my parents.
03:25Mm-hmm.
03:26We talked about the emotional attachments that I haven't let go with losing them.
03:40Just bottling things up, you know, until it just overflows.
03:45And I do.
03:46I've bottled up a lot of anger, which comes from them not being here, too.
03:52That's a big part.
03:53A big part of it.
03:54When I can't think about it anymore, I explode on everybody.
03:59Instead of talking or crying or releasing, I go to the gym.
04:04And we done talked about some things and went through some things.
04:07And I'm like, I ain't never seen you cry.
04:10Because I hated it.
04:12I don't think anybody's ever seen me cry.
04:14I don't think my kids have ever seen me cry except at funerals.
04:17It's just showing that I'm not strong enough to be there for them.
04:21No.
04:22That's not what they're showing them.
04:23That's how I take it.
04:24I know, but it's just showing them that you're human and you have emotions.
04:29Yeah, but it's like a weak emotion to me.
04:31No, it's not weak.
04:32But it is.
04:33Well, to me, it was, I told Dr. Francis, it was like a weak emotion to me.
04:37Dr. Francis didn't tell you that was weak.
04:39I know it didn't.
04:40What did he tell you?
04:42That's part of being...
04:44Strong.
04:47I'm still not feeling that part.
04:50It's okay.
04:51It'll come.
04:52It'll come one time.
04:53Yeah.
04:54Because of that.
04:55You think I don't know that?
04:57Seriously, do you know how long we worked out for?
05:00I knew anything about you.
05:02Yeah, I don't know.
05:05I guess I don't want to get attached to people and then I lose them.
05:09I'd rather just keep my distance and keep my feelings...
05:12That's not...
05:13No, no, no, no, no, ma'am.
05:15That's not what he wants you to do.
05:17I get it, but then there's no pain in the end that I'll have to go through all over again.
05:21We're gonna have pain.
05:22We're gonna have sorrow.
05:23Those are emotions.
05:24That session was hard.
05:27It was hard reliving.
05:29It was hard thinking about it.
05:31But you definitely feel better afterwards though, right?
05:34I felt a lot better afterwards.
05:36Like after the session, the things that would have made me mad, I stopped and thought about
05:41it for a second before I reacted.
05:43Yeah.
05:44That felt good.
05:45So that's a tool.
05:46That felt good.
05:47I'm super proud of you.
05:48High five.
05:49You did that.
05:50I tried.
05:51Since my first meeting with Dr. Francis, I can say Ken and our relationship, it has progressed.
05:59It's getting better.
06:00But I think we still have a lot to work on as far as communication with each other.
06:06It feels right when I start to open up.
06:09It feels like this is the right thing to do.
06:11One thing I did after learning about the attachment and letting go, because I can't talk to them,
06:19you know, physically.
06:21So I went to their graves.
06:23I never wanted to do that.
06:24I did not go to their graves at all because I felt like I would get angry at talking to the ground.
06:33I sat there and I cried again.
06:38It was actually comforting though.
06:44I did go and visit my parents' grave for the first time.
06:48It feels like a weight lifted.
06:51I'm sure I probably should have done it a long time ago.
06:54Whew.
06:55I don't think I've ever talked about this.
07:00Ever.
07:01Thank you for sharing.
07:02I really mean that.
07:03That mean a lot to me.
07:04When I go home, I'm gonna think about it all night now.
07:06I'm gonna go home and cry, crown kids, big old shows.
07:09I'm gonna start punching holes in the wall.
07:11That is not gonna help you.
07:12It did before.
07:13It is not gonna help you.
07:14Then I used to cover it up with mirrors.
07:16Or whatever.
07:17And pictures.
07:21You funny.
07:42Welcome to Magnolia, how are you?
07:43I'm awesome.
07:44How are you doing?
07:45Good.
07:46I am Kimberly.
07:47I'm Jamie.
07:48It's nice to meet you.
07:49Hi.
07:50I think I have a little reservation for some ladies.
07:51That would be me.
07:52Perfect.
07:53Any ideas?
07:54What kind of smells you like?
07:55Um, no.
07:56We're just curious on how we get to the smell.
07:59I want to try to do as much as I can to kind of move things along with the ladies.
08:04We need to spend more time together.
08:05We need to learn each other.
08:07Understand each other.
08:08Get to know each other.
08:09And that only happens with spending time.
08:11So I got Trisha, Destiny, Tisha, and me.
08:14We're gonna make soap.
08:16I probably a pick based on colors.
08:18Cause I think some of these are...
08:19Well, you can have your...
08:20That's pretty.
08:21Hi.
08:22Hey, Letisha.
08:23It smell good in here.
08:24Uh-huh.
08:25Uh-huh.
08:26What's up?
08:27Hey.
08:28You look pretty.
08:30Well, this is nice.
08:31You look good.
08:32Me too.
08:36So we couldn't go running?
08:38You said running?
08:39Yeah.
08:40That's your thing.
08:41Kimmy is more relaxed.
08:42She.
08:43I see.
08:44Kimmy, Trish said no running.
08:46She said she thought it was gonna be some exercise.
08:48She did not think that.
08:50You didn't think that at all?
08:51I did.
08:52Why would you think that?
08:53We're gonna eat and we're gonna like sit down, have some wine, make some bath balls.
08:58I thought Kimmy would organize something active because I keep challenging her and keep picking
09:03with her about it.
09:04So I was just expecting her to be like, you know what?
09:06I'm gonna do it one day.
09:08But no, here we are making soap.
09:11I'm just gonna pass this around to each of you.
09:13So what you're gonna do, you're gonna pour this right about there.
09:17And then you're gonna pour your scent halfway and then dump both of them in.
09:23So it should be like on the 60?
09:24Yep.
09:25And that's what's gonna moisturize you.
09:26Okay.
09:27Okay.
09:28Shea butter, cocoa butter, and then a pumice oil mix.
09:32And when you add the water, that's what's gonna start to make it warm.
09:36Well, hello!
09:37Oh, hi, Slipo!
09:38Hey, girl.
09:39That's Destiny.
09:40Hello!
09:41What color would you like?
09:42Um, green?
09:43Green?
09:44Ooh, green for money.
09:46Yay, yay.
09:47Can I see what you're doing?
09:48Oh, no.
09:49It's a loss.
09:50I think I like this one.
09:51When you pinch it, it releases it.
09:52I want it.
09:53I'm so cute.
09:54I yelled.
09:55So then I put this in here?
09:56Mm-hmm.
09:57Do the oil first.
09:58She said that.
09:59Oh, yeah.
10:01It's like every time I try to get everybody together, somebody missing.
10:05The first dinner.
10:06Who was...
10:07You was missing.
10:08Nell Nell.
10:09Where's Nell?
10:10She's having her own event that she's getting ready for.
10:13I didn't invite Nell because I knew she was getting ready for her event.
10:17Fletch-tivities, and it is tonight.
10:20And I didn't want us making bath bombs to make her tardy.
10:24Oh, I thought it was because Tisha was here.
10:27What?
10:28What?
10:29What did I do with it?
10:30The shade.
10:35Coming up on Love and Marriage Huntsville.
10:38Destiny said you said keep my name out your mouth.
10:41I did say that.
10:44Hello.
10:49Where's Nell?
10:51She's having her own event that she's getting ready for.
10:54Oh.
10:55I thought it was because Tisha was here.
10:57What?
10:58What?
10:59What did I do with it?
11:00The shade.
11:01Y'all going to her event, right?
11:02Yeah.
11:03You're gonna go.
11:04You going too?
11:05Oh, yeah, yeah.
11:06I'm going Christmas by the Marcel.
11:07Marcel said he was gonna go, so I'm going with my husband, girl.
11:08Lance will probably be there, too.
11:10Ooh.
11:11Did y'all talk?
11:12Did y'all square y'all stuff out?
11:13We had a conversation.
11:14You gonna be a stepmom?
11:15No.
11:16Dang.
11:17Thank you, Chris.
11:18So, real talk, I sat and I talked with Lance about finding out about this baby on the
11:24internet, because y'all all know I did not know about a kid.
11:27I was told that I had a baby on the way, but I wasn't sure.
11:29So, I didn't know how you would react to that.
11:31And, of course, I didn't want to say anything before knowing that it was my child.
11:35Y'all saw it at the same time?
11:37We all saw it when you saw it.
11:39Yeah.
11:40And, you know, he brought up the whole googly-eyed situation.
11:43No, she's not.
11:44Okay.
11:45Y'all good.
11:46You stay close.
11:47Wait a minute!
11:48The googly eyes, smiley!
11:50And I'm like, you talking about googly eyes, and you have a whole kid that you didn't
11:54tell me about.
11:55Like, what we doing?
11:56Yeah, that's a tough stuff.
11:57So, I said, well, speaking of Twan, it's his name.
12:00Oh, you got a name now.
12:01Well, my name ain't changing.
12:04What's your name?
12:05Googly eyes.
12:06Okay, I'm sick of you.
12:07I told Lance that if he asked me out, I would say yes.
12:10And then this negro hit me with this.
12:13That's my god brother.
12:14Yep.
12:15Oh.
12:16Life just keeps on lifing.
12:19What you say when he said that?
12:20I was like, we finna keep it in the family then.
12:24I think it's humorous that Destiny just found out that Lance and googly eyes are god brothers.
12:32Like, close.
12:33Like, dudes.
12:34Like, bros.
12:35I'm gonna say that I don't think this revelation is gonna make much of a difference.
12:41I don't have a lot to base it on, but the rules tend to change when it comes to Destiny.
12:48I was like, well, I was told that he possibly was interested.
12:54And although it's been nothing but professional, he guarded my body really well.
12:59And, um, I told Lance that if Tony was interested, that I would be too.
13:04He was like, well, I mean, what can I say?
13:07I mean, I had a whole baby out here. I blessed the situation.
13:10Oh, he blessed it.
13:11Long story short, Lance thought I should talk to his mom,
13:14because she felt a way about the googly eyes still,
13:16which is why she was giving me that energy in LA.
13:19I think Nell got triggered because when I met with her and I said, you know,
13:24you told me that they left LA early because of the baby situation.
13:28Mm-hmm.
13:29And she was like, that's not true.
13:31Isn't that what she told us?
13:32What did she tell us the reason she left LA early?
13:34I didn't know why they left in the moment.
13:36I didn't know either until she came back and she was talking about the child.
13:38And she was like, that's one of the reasons they had to leave early,
13:41because they found out that she was in labor, I guess, having the baby.
13:44That's what I took from what she said.
13:46Oh, well, she said that's not what happened,
13:48because the baby was born in November.
13:49Then she remembered that it was actually October, but...
13:52Oh, wait, wait.
13:53She said the baby was born in November, but she actually remember it was October?
13:55Yeah, it's October.
13:57She definitely said something about the child was the reason.
13:59How would I even know?
14:00I don't even know nothing about the damn child.
14:03I'm just saying.
14:04Like, I don't know nothing about it.
14:05She told me.
14:06She said, Letitia Scott need to mind her mother .
14:10Why?
14:11Mind her business about what?
14:13I don't really know.
14:15Is it that, sir?
14:16It was about the comment about the signing NDAs and...
14:20That's my business.
14:21Her husband mentioned my husband.
14:22That's my business.
14:23So I did talk to her after the party, and she brought that up.
14:27She told me to go talk to Chris.
14:29It was your fashion, the way you went and talked to Chris.
14:32She was trying to explain her side of the story.
14:33She was like, when she went over there and was pointing on his face.
14:36She's all up in my husband's face.
14:38She was like, why did you say those things about Marcel and Maurice?
14:42And she just started doing this right here.
14:45She crossed the line.
14:46She went too far.
14:47Nell wants to have a problem with me.
14:49Like, I don't have a problem with me.
14:50Well, that's why I told her she should talk to you.
14:51We had a conversation already.
14:53That's where my confusion comes.
14:55Because they'll have the conversations, and then all of a sudden it's a problem with me.
14:59Right, and I haven't done anything.
15:00That's where I get confused.
15:02Her conversation was after her conversation, right?
15:04Right.
15:05It's so weird.
15:06I don't know.
15:07It was recent.
15:08I have given Nell a lot of grace.
15:10And I've tried to really put forth an effort with trying to build something with Nell.
15:16I thought like, hey, this is going to move in a good direction.
15:19Now, had I known, she was going to go back and say the things she said to Destiny about me.
15:25But you know what?
15:26She got me that one time.
15:27It would never happen again.
15:29Sometimes you got to just have a conversation with people and everybody be on the same page.
15:37Coming up on Love and Marriage Huntsville.
15:39Let the games begin!
15:43This is so funny.
15:46I told Nell we went to make balls, soap balls today.
15:48And she said, well, it sounds like y'all did something without me.
15:52I said, well, we did.
15:54I feel like y'all need to talk.
15:58No, we don't.
16:18I'm going to go.
16:19I'm going to go.
16:20I'm going to go.
16:21I'm going to go.
16:22Hello.
16:23Welcome.
16:24How y'all doing today?
16:25Hello, hello.
16:26Hello.
16:27This is beautiful.
16:28And I can't wait.
16:29We're getting ready for Fletch-tivities tonight.
16:32We're going to have all the couples begin the games together that we're going to play.
16:36I think we'll do good.
16:37We've got some very competitive people in this circle.
16:41Oh, yeah.
16:42Yeah.
16:43I'm sure we'll have a good time.
16:44I didn't know we were the first ones here.
16:47Look at us.
16:48Right on top.
16:49Hello.
16:51I love when the game gets together, especially on game night.
16:54I think Fletch-tivities are going to be fun.
16:56Just the name gets me tickled.
16:59Oh, yeah.
17:00You're low.
17:01Look at y'all doing.
17:02We're going to play some games.
17:05Not no shots yet.
17:07We're going to juggle some balls in the cups.
17:10Okay.
17:11You're having all kinds of balls today, aren't we?
17:13That's what I was going to say.
17:14What are the balls we have?
17:16Did I miss, Dr. Chesh?
17:18No.
17:20You did it.
17:21What?
17:22We had to make some show balls.
17:25You was getting ready for this.
17:27Oh, so what was it?
17:29A couples thing or a female thing?
17:33Nope.
17:34It was all the girls but you.
17:37Oh, wow.
17:38Making balls.
17:40But you was preparing for this.
17:42We're not about to say that's awkward.
17:43You was preparing for this.
17:44I'm kind of feeling some type of way about not getting invited
17:48to something that Kimmy has planned for the girls,
17:51and I'm getting left out once again.
17:54I'm kind of wondering, like, was this intentionally?
17:59What's up, Martell?
18:00What's up, Martell?
18:01Y'all looking all fancy and stuff?
18:03What's up?
18:04How you doing?
18:05You all right?
18:06What's up?
18:07Hey, what's up, y'all?
18:08Okay.
18:09What's going on?
18:10Hello.
18:11How are you doing?
18:12Mama, what up, though?
18:13Hey, lady. How are you?
18:14Can I get to?
18:15Mr. Lou?
18:16How are you, sir?
18:17What up? What up?
18:18Martell, how are you, sir?
18:19I'm good. You good?
18:20Everything's great.
18:21What up, I remember?
18:22Well, this is my first time seeing Martell
18:25since he did that little interview skit that he did.
18:29I'm here to have a good time.
18:31Marcel can be cordial with Martell.
18:33That mean I can be cordial with Nell.
18:35I'm just going to make sure I keep everybody's name
18:38at my MF mouth.
18:40What's a party without a drink?
18:43Get a couple of wangs.
18:45Who else coming from?
18:52I don't see nobody missing but Destiny and what, Lance?
18:56Oh, they coming together?
18:58I don't know.
18:59We'll see.
19:00Oh, .
19:01Do we have some more people?
19:02I don't know if they coming together or not.
19:04That's going to be tough.
19:05That's going to be tough.
19:06Okay.
19:07Destiny and Lance.
19:08They saying like they're a couple or something.
19:10She's like, she had a feeling about Destiny.
19:13Oh.
19:14Have y'all gotten past that?
19:15Yeah.
19:16What's that?
19:17Oh, okay, okay.
19:18Well damn, everybody good.
19:19I think they're neutral.
19:20I just think they good.
19:21Friends.
19:22Yeah, just friends.
19:23Yeah.
19:24Friends that ride together.
19:25Friends that ride together.
19:26Couple of events.
19:28Oh, this is a couples event?
19:31Ish.
19:32I'm the ish.
19:33I was like, Martell's not a couple.
19:36I was going to say it.
19:37No, he got a picture of him and a couple.
19:38What you got, Martell?
19:40Don't laugh.
19:41It's kind of, it's kind of corny, but.
19:45Oh, so you did bring Arianne with you.
19:50See?
19:51So it's still a couples night.
19:52Though I had my jacket zipped up, I wasn't trying to hide anything.
19:55As a matter of fact, hell, I show it.
19:58Hell, I just, it was cold, so I just had my jacket zipped up.
20:01She's covering your heart?
20:03Yeah, it was something like that.
20:05Hello.
20:06Hey, how y'all doing?
20:07Hey, how y'all doing?
20:08What up, what up?
20:09Oh, hey.
20:10I'm sorry.
20:11Yeah, I'm sorry.
20:12How you doing?
20:13How you doing?
20:14How you doing?
20:15How you doing?
20:16How you doing?
20:17How you doing?
20:18How you doing?
20:19Bessie is walking in here with Will after a conversation we just had about Tuan.
20:23So this is very surprising to me.
20:26Awkward.
20:27What up, man?
20:28How you doing?
20:29How you doing?
20:30How you doing?
20:31How you doing?
20:32How you doing?
20:33On Love and Marriage Huntsville.
20:34How much y'all know about Dustin?
20:36Good, wholesome girl.
20:37Good, wholesome girl?
20:38Yeah.
20:39That's not what I want to hear.
20:40Oh, what you want to hear?
20:42That's not.
20:43She's down for the call tonight.
20:44You got the one night to prove you're worth it.
20:48So, Nell, why did you guys leave LA early?
20:53That's none of your business.
20:54I don't owe you anything.
20:59Hello.
21:00Hey, how y'all doing?
21:01Hey, how y'all doing?
21:02Hey, how y'all doing?
21:03Hold up, hold up.
21:04Hold up.
21:05Hold up.
21:06Hold up.
21:07Hold up.
21:08Hold up.
21:09Hold up.
21:10Hold up.
21:11Hold up.
21:12Hold up.
21:13Hold up.
21:14Hold up.
21:15Will, that's my bro.
21:16We've been cool for a long, long time.
21:18So watching Will walk in with Destiny is definitely unexpected.
21:21It took me by surprise.
21:23He didn't tell me.
21:24Hey, I guess that answered that Lance question.
21:26Oop, there it is.
21:29So Will DMs me and asked me on a date, and why not bring him to game night?
21:33We have some of the same friends, and I knew the peanut gallery would be all in my business
21:39and snickering like they were, but I'm grown, and I'm single, and I can date who I want, and however many people I want.
21:48So what was so funny?
21:49They thought Destiny was coming in with Lance.
21:52And then I popped up.
21:53Yes.
21:54Okay, ladies and gentlemen, they too.
21:55They popped your stick in.
21:56How are you?
21:57How are you?
21:58This is Kiara.
21:59How are you doing?
22:00I'm here with a date.
22:01I did expect that Destiny was going to be there with someone.
22:04I thought maybe Antoine.
22:05I didn't know it was going to be Will.
22:07Is it weird?
22:08Of course.
22:09Does it bother me?
22:10Not.
22:11I don't know.
22:12I don't know.
22:13I don't know.
22:14I don't know.
22:15I don't know.
22:16I don't know.
22:17I don't know.
22:18I don't know.
22:19I don't know.
22:20Does it bother me?
22:21Not.
22:22Okay.
22:23It bothers me, but it doesn't bother me to the extent of like, it will be an issue.
22:28Nice to meet you.
22:29Hi.
22:30You look cute.
22:31Hey, babes.
22:32Lance is a lover boy.
22:33He is like always dating somebody.
22:36So I'm not surprised to see him with someone here, because he probably didn't want to see
22:40me with another person.
22:41So he had to bring a little datey date.
22:44Everyone, this game is called Flip Cup.
22:48You guys going to start on this end.
22:50You're going to flip the cup.
22:52Everyone else going to move back.
22:53Hey, can we huddle before we get started?
22:56That's on y'all.
22:57That's on y'all.
22:58Hey guys, come on.
22:59Let's huddle up.
23:00I don't know where my competitive gene comes from, but if I'm on the team, you have to
23:05know that we're going to win, because that's all we do.
23:08One, two, three.
23:09Win!
23:10Let the games begin.
23:11On your marks.
23:12Get set.
23:13Go!
23:14There we go, Marty.
23:15Let's go, baby.
23:16Somebody going to mess up.
23:17I ain't worried about it.
23:18Go!
23:19Yes, sir!
23:20Hey, go!
23:21Hey, go!
23:22Hey, go!
23:23Hey, go!
23:24Hey, go!
23:25Yeah!
23:26First rounds of games are going well.
23:40We're winning, as usual.
23:43If you look over our history, as long as I'm on the team, you want to win, put Reece Scott
23:47in.
23:48Okay, the next game is going to be the spoon game.
23:51Musical spoons, all right?
23:52Okay.
23:53Whoever doesn't grab a spoon, you're out.
23:55Y'all ready?
23:56Let's get it!
23:57On the music.
23:58This way.
23:59Clockwise.
24:00There we go.
24:05Keep it moving.
24:06Keep it moving.
24:07Keep it moving.
24:08Keep it moving.
24:09This is so funny.
24:12So who doesn't have a spoon?
24:13I know.
24:14Spoon spoons.
24:15Pump it out.
24:16You're out.
24:17Well, don't feel too bad, because I made us lose on the little beer pong thing.
24:21Oh, yeah.
24:22Y'all was losers the whole night, though.
24:25Come on.
24:26Stop the music.
24:29I don't give a damn.
24:30I need to be out.
24:31Y'all cheated.
24:32Yeah.
24:33Yeah.
24:34Scope versus scope.
24:35Yeah!
24:40So musical spoons was such a cute idea, but Marceau and Martell being the last two standing,
24:46I thought was hilarious.
24:47Here we go.
24:48Last man standing.
24:49Scope versus scope.
24:50Get moving.
24:51Keep moving.
24:52Keep moving.
24:53Keep moving.
24:54Keep moving.
24:55Keep moving.
24:56Keep moving.
24:57Let's go, man.
24:58He's such a cheater.
24:59Let's go for him.
25:00I had a spoon the whole damn time.
25:01I was victorious.
25:02And for him to pull out a spoon the same color of the spoon that I won with, you know,
25:16that's the typical Marceau.
25:17You know, people say how you do one thing is how you do everything.
25:21And him cheating in this game is very telling.
25:24I got a spoon.
25:26Which one's the real spoon?
25:28What are the freaking odds, Martell and Marceau, the last two at the table?
25:47They're very competitive.
25:49Very.
25:50We have a lot of type A personalities here as well.
25:53Fact.
25:54What's going on?
25:55How y'all?
25:56I mean, we came to an agreement.
25:57Spectre's there.
25:58We stay with them all negatively, you know, amongst us and our significant other.
26:02And I'm proud of y'all.
26:03So we agree to that.
26:04We're going to do the best with our significant others.
26:06Oh, what'd you say?
26:07We're going to do the best with our significant others.
26:08Well, I see.
26:09I'm just happy as that is.
26:10Where is that?
26:11I enjoy the piece.
26:12It's good to see Marceau and Martell getting back to a place where they can be around each other, laugh and joke.
26:19And everything's not so on edge.
26:21I can't take all the credit for it, but if they want to heap it on me.
26:27I told Nell we went to make balls, soap balls today.
26:33And she said, well, it sounds like y'all did something without me.
26:36I said, well, we did.
26:37I feel like y'all need to talk.
26:42No, we don't.
26:43Of course you do.
26:44You always say have a conversation.
26:45You always say we need to have a conversation.
26:47Well, that's conversation.
26:48We got somewhere.
26:49Did you tell your mama that I was growing smiles when I was a kid?
26:52I did not tell her that.
26:53No.
26:54Well, you came in and you said, Kiara.
26:56And I said, man, who's that?
26:57And he said, Kiara.
26:59I kept looking at you.
27:01How many years did you go?
27:02Do you know?
27:03How old are you?
27:05How old are you?
27:06Dang.
27:07Yeah, we've been there 30 years.
27:09You know, you always tell me to have the hard conversations.
27:12I have the hard conversations.
27:14So I don't know why when she met up with you, it was a problem.
27:17I honestly don't know.
27:18I honestly don't even care though, but I mean.
27:20Well, maybe it's because she maybe miscommunicated what she was trying to say.
27:26So I don't know.
27:27And that means y'all should talk about what was actually meant or said.
27:33Okay.
27:34Just for a minute.
27:35You can get some fresh air.
27:36So since Kimmy asked me so nicely to speak to Neah, I'm really going to try to resolve
27:41whatever this issue is she has with me.
27:43Now that's the plan.
27:44We'll see how it plays out.
27:46Can I interrupt y'all?
27:48I wanted us to chat if that was possible.
27:52And what are we chatting about?
27:54I know you had a conversation with Tisha.
27:56I feel like the conversation you had with her at that moment went well.
28:01But then she felt like I guess after Destiny and Trisha were talking about some of y'all's conversations,
28:08she felt like maybe that conversation wasn't as cool as she thought it was when it happened.
28:13Destiny said you said keep my name out your mouth.
28:16I did say that.
28:17And that's like tough.
28:19I said I did say that and I meant that.
28:22It would appear that nobody's interested in mending this particular fence.
28:26I picked the hardest battles apparently.
28:28What happened to make something like that?
28:30That's what I'm saying.
28:31If maybe if we talk, I'll go with you.
28:34Coming up on Love and Marriage Huntsville.
28:40We don't have to talk about my problem.
28:43Each and everyone here got their problem.
28:45Hey, Nell, let me tell you something.
28:46What is this?
28:47Oh, hell, no, no, no, no.
28:48I dumped your ass in that pool.
28:49You keep hollin' at me.
28:50You want to dump me.
28:51Let me tell you something.
28:52You want to dump me.
28:53No, no, no, no.
28:54Keep hollin' at me.
28:55Keep hollin' at me.
28:56No, no, no, no.
28:58Destiny said you said keep my name out your mouth.
29:01I did say that.
29:02And that's like tough.
29:03I can be in a room and be cordial with someone if need be.
29:07And that's just where I'm at.
29:09But why?
29:10What happened to make something like that?
29:12That's what I'm saying.
29:13Maybe if we talk, I'll go with you.
29:18So Kimmy wants me to go outside and speak with Leticia.
29:22I really do not want to go.
29:24But I go because I want everybody to be happy.
29:28I go out here, but I'm not finna do all the arguing
29:32and back and forth.
29:33And I don't want you to.
29:34Back and forth.
29:35I'm not gonna do all that.
29:36I'm not gonna do all that.
29:37I'm not gonna do all that.
29:38How much y'all know about Destiny?
29:39Good, wholesome girl.
29:40Yeah.
29:41That's not what I want to hear.
29:42What you want to hear?
29:45She down for the cause tonight?
29:47Yes, yes.
29:48This boy is a fool.
29:51You got one night to prove you're worth it.
29:56Wow.
29:57Damn.
29:58That's so up.
29:59What have you learned so far?
30:01Hmm?
30:02We all look good together for sure.
30:03Oh, yeah.
30:04I learned that I didn't know she looked that good in her body suit until tonight.
30:08I saw her before, but tonight was different.
30:15Do you guys know about each other?
30:19Who?
30:20Will or not?
30:21Yeah.
30:22All right.
30:23So I bless whatever it is that anybody wants to do.
30:27You know what I'm saying?
30:28Y'all done or y'all still dating?
30:29Who?
30:30Oh, we're done.
30:31Okay.
30:32Finito.
30:33I don't know y'all dating.
30:34I don't know y'all dating.
30:35Oh.
30:36It was a little something.
30:37That's why we're sitting there.
30:38I thought it was a little awkward.
30:39I said I was lost.
30:40I was truly lost.
30:41Yeah.
30:42As tall as you are, you didn't know you were a rebound.
30:46I wouldn't necessarily say Will is a great option to be a rebound guy.
30:51Just knowing who he is.
30:54She might want to just have a little fun for the time being.
30:57And because that's probably definitely not going to go the way she wants it.
31:03Will!
31:04I'm looking for her.
31:05I'll just look.
31:06There's no ring.
31:07100%.
31:08There's no ring fair game.
31:09I wanted us to kind of sit down because you two had a conversation.
31:12And at the end of the conversation, I was under the impression that y'all were amicable.
31:20What happened since that conversation?
31:23So Destiny, when she told you that I need to keep her mother name out my mouth, why did she tell you that?
31:29Because we were talking about L.A. and when you told me they left early to go basically for the delivery of the baby, and Nell said that wasn't accurate and that you need to keep my mother name out your mouth.
31:45So Nell, why did you guys leave L.A. early?
31:49That's none of your business.
31:51OK.
31:52I don't owe you anything.
31:53You don't, but I don't know why you're giving me this attitude because, one, I don't talk about you.
31:57I'm not giving you no attitude.
31:58I don't talk about you.
31:59I'm not giving you no attitude.
32:00Do y'all feel like she's giving attitude?
32:02I'm just asking a direct question.
32:03No, you do.
32:04You doing this and I'm doing you like that.
32:06Like I told you, my granddaughter is off limits and I meant what I said.
32:09So maybe that's why she's backtracking what she said because she did tell me.
32:12I did not tell you that.
32:13Kimmy, was you a part of that conversation when she said the reason they had to leave L.A. early was something dealing with the grandbaby?
32:18I felt like you said it did have something to do with you had to come back home for the situation.
32:24Absolutely she said it.
32:25He had got a call saying he needed to get back.
32:28He had baby on the way in labor.
32:30I saw that on social media.
32:32Me too.
32:33We all did.
32:34Don't do that.
32:35You're talking about my granddaughter.
32:36I don't care about your granddaughter.
32:37Well, that's it.
32:38You told me that.
32:39That's a mouthful right there.
32:40You don't have to.
32:41I'm just saying you don't have to curse at me.
32:42You don't have to.
32:43You don't have to.
32:44I did not curse at you.
32:45It was a figure of speech and I told her to tell what I said.
32:47You're trying to be extremely disrespectful.
32:48Keep my name at your mouth.
32:49I don't talk about you though.
32:51I didn't curse at you.
32:52Well, what the is ?
32:54And that you just cursed.
32:55This is hilarious.
32:56It's not funny.
32:57I don't like this.
32:58At the end of the day, Nell, if the situation with your grandchild was none of my business,
33:03why did you bring it up to me?
33:04You told me about the situation.
33:06I can care less.
33:07This is the reason I don't really want to have a conversation with Nell,
33:10because I am trying to talk to her.
33:12I'm being cool, calm, collective, and she's giving me bad energy.
33:16So y'all were perfectly fine until Destiny told you that she said you left L.A.
33:21because of the birth of the baby.
33:23I thought we was.
33:24Y'all were perfectly okay until that.
33:25I'm like, okay, here we go again.
33:27I didn't have that energy for you like you have for me.
33:30That's not true.
33:31So it seems like you have a problem with me.
33:33That's not true.
33:34And I don't know what it is.
33:35That's not true.
33:36And so...
33:37You just want beef with me just for...
33:38I don't want beef.
33:39Yes, you do.
33:40I haven't even thought of anything with you.
33:41You think I'm doing something and you're doing the same thing.
33:43I'm good.
33:44I'm fine.
33:45Okay, I'm good.
33:46I'm fine too.
33:47Boy, lies y'all tell.
33:48We can't resolve anything if she does not, if she can't admit to exactly what it is.
33:53Ammit to what?
33:54I don't know, Nell.
33:55That's what I'm trying to talk to you about.
33:56You keep talking over me.
33:57What is that for me?
33:58I stated where I stand.
34:00And I said, I'm not talking about my granddaughter.
34:03Other than that, I'm good.
34:04Come on.
34:05I'm good.
34:06So the boundary is set.
34:08Exactly.
34:09Okay, but then...
34:10Well, that didn't pan out too well.
34:12I don't know.
34:13Kimmy, you're the mediator, so...
34:16It's hard to mediate I'm good.
34:18I've been in a circle of friends that say I'm good...
34:21Me too.
34:22...when they not good.
34:23And we don't want history to repeat itself.
34:24It's like y'all trying to make it something that's not.
34:26Nell, you said, keep my name out your mouth.
34:29That's a problem.
34:30And I said why I said it.
34:32And it made it something.
34:33You don't act like we're trying to make your problem.
34:35And I said why I said it.
34:38Ooh.
34:39And I know Trisha's in the middle of it.
34:42I hear it.
34:43I know she in the middle of it.
34:44But when I hear the ladies outside going at it, I instantly know that it's probably Tisha
34:48and Nell.
34:49So I'm making a beeline over there.
34:51I've been thinking about it all night.
34:53And I'm going out there to make sure that my wife is calmed down and separated.
34:57I'm not saying that you did.
34:58We don't have to talk about my problem.
35:01Each and everyone here got their problems.
35:03You don't have to yell at us, though.
35:04We're talking.
35:05I'm not yelling.
35:06I'm doing what everyone else is doing, okay?
35:08No, you're not yelling at us.
35:09Do you expect me not to say nothing?
35:10No, you think I'm talking to you like you're talking to me?
35:12You're yelling at us.
35:13Do you think I'm talking to you like you're talking to me?
35:15You're asking what y'all think y'all doing here?
35:18Gaze up on me?
35:19Oh, Jesus.
35:20Victim, victim, victim, victim.
35:21I didn't say you.
35:22I didn't say you.
35:23I'm strictly talking about 1.0 and 2.0.
35:26Because I didn't see this coming from you.
35:28You're yelling?
35:29Like, really?
35:30Hey, listen, listen, let's not overreact.
35:33Hey, Nell, let me tell you something.
35:34I dumped your ass in that pool you keep hollering at me.
35:36What the ?
35:41Keep hollering at me.
35:42Hey, Nell, let me tell you something.
35:45I dumped your ass in that pool you keep hollering at me.
35:48You won't dump me.
35:49I'ma .
35:52Keep hollering at me.
35:53Keep hollering at me.
35:54Keep hiding me.
35:55Keep hiding me.
35:56Keep hiding me.
35:57You don't have to help.
35:58Keep hiding your head, dog.
35:59I'm not just trying to help.
36:00You won't dump me no with.
36:02I'll show you who I did.
36:04Stop.
36:05Who?
36:06Why are you talking like that?
36:07You're threatening me.
36:08I'm just mastering you.
36:09You're going to dump me in the house.
36:11I'm telling you to stop yelling at my ass.
36:13Yes, sir.
36:14Stop yelling at me.
36:15She didn't.
36:16She didn't.
36:17She didn't.
36:18She did not yell now.
36:19She did.
36:20Nobody's yelling, but she didn't.
36:21She didn't.
36:22You're the only person yelling.
36:23Yeah.
36:24It's bull .
36:25I don't know what the issue is with Nell and everybody.
36:27Like, I just don't know.
36:28Like, at the end of the day, Nell just need to learn how to talk to people.
36:31Don't sit there and tell somebody you're going to dump them in the .
36:34But you can't yell at me.
36:36And you can't just say what you're going to do to me.
36:38When I yell, there's a problem.
36:40When they're yelling, oh, we're not yelling.
36:42We're just talking to you.
36:44It's very much a double standard with these girls.
36:46This is crazy.
36:47So can we get back to, like, where everybody's good?
36:51Everybody's not good.
36:52That's the problem.
36:53Everybody keeps saying, I'm good.
36:54I'm fine.
36:55And you're not good.
36:56What Fletch-tivities is showing me is that the men are maintaining a cool, calm, collected
37:01demeanor as they navigate through complex controversy.
37:05And the women, well, I'll let you judge for yourself.
37:08So Fletch-tivities are over?
37:10Are we going to talk our way through it?
37:12Is this what we're talking about by Fletch-tivities?
37:14Let me tell you this.
37:15Let me tell you this.
37:16For real.
37:17My fuse is shorter than what most people think.
37:29Wow.
37:30Um, my dad was abusive.
37:35He would drink and get drunk and be loud and holler and stuff.
37:40And that never was okay with me.
37:44So after my parents got divorced, I felt like I was my mother's protector.
37:48Anybody who came around that felt they needed to yell to be heard just didn't work for me.
37:57Never has.
37:58From this size to this size.
38:01It doesn't work for me.
38:02I should not have said, I will dunk you in the pool if you keep hollering at me.
38:07And I apologize for that.
38:09However, we're not going to keep doing the hollering thing, no matter how normal it is in your world.
38:18I accept Kimmy's apology.
38:21But I really do.
38:23Because it really hurt.
38:25That hurt me.
38:26And if I yelled at you, I apologize to you.
38:31I appreciate that.
38:32It'll be a cold day ahead before I apologize to Nell.
38:35If anything, she owes me an apology.
38:38She's the one talking about me behind my back to all these ladies and is getting back to me, third person.
38:44Like, yeah, no, I'm good.
38:49Can we get a hug?
38:50Kimmy and Nell.
38:51Oh, I'm...
38:52You don't hide with me.
38:53I'm fine.
38:54I ain't got no long-term energy.
38:55Can we get a hug?
38:56Can we get a hug?
38:57Can we get a hug real quick?
38:58Yes.
38:59It's a hug?
39:00It's a hug.
39:01I don't give a hug.
39:02I don't have no big...
39:03Listen, hey, guys.
39:04This is progress.
39:05This is progress.
39:06This is progress.
39:07Hey, listen.
39:08This group is progressive.
39:09This group is progressive.
39:10You get a real progressive.
39:11Uh-huh.
39:12I'm really sorry.
39:13I was able to make up with Kimmy, um, even though I'm the person that it takes me a minute.
39:21But, uh, Kimmy apologized to me the same night.
39:25So, I felt like I need to put my big girl pants on and accept the apology.
39:32Um, she said she was sincere about it and I just have to take it for what it is.
39:36I can't do the hollering.
39:37Hollering is tough for me.
39:38I was raised in a house where my dad would holler.
39:43And it's not good for me.
39:45And so, as much as people think I'm patient, that's my trigger.
39:50The yelling, I can't.
39:51I apologize because that shouldn't have come out like that at all.
39:56It shouldn't have come out.
39:59But I think you would look cute in the full way.
40:01Your ass is going with me.
40:06I'd have pushed you and saved you.
40:08I swear.
40:09I'd have saved you and I pushed you.
40:14Next on Love and Maritonsville.
40:16Kimmy says, don't you yell at me.
40:19Well, what the you think you doing right now?
40:22She made the comment.
40:23If you yell at her again, she's going to dunk you in that pool.
40:26That mother went in that pool before me.
40:29When Kenny comes into the picture and the kids are saying,
40:33there's a breath of fresh air.
40:35Let me gravitate towards the fresh air.
40:37You're saying, wait a minute.
40:38Whoa, whoa, whoa.
40:39Whoa, what about me?
40:40I've had you all this time.
40:42He's the new kid on the block.
40:43I was jealous when he came along and they started asking him instead of me.
40:47It's kind of made me feel some type of way.
40:50Wanda!
40:51Miss Wanda!
40:52Hey!
40:53Come on, girl!
40:54Yeah!
40:55You got your truck!
40:56The hoes came from Highsfield!
41:00I felt like I was losing my kids.
41:02To me?
41:03Yeah.
41:04Well, how are you going to lose them to me?
41:06Y'all just pushing me to the side.
41:09What do you feel about it?
41:10About what?
41:11About what?
41:12About this little .
41:13About what?
41:14This went to this live out here about Maso and Maurice.
41:18Oh, Lord.
41:19Just wanted to know what really was going on.
41:21We don't care.
Recommended
21:01
|
Up next
28:30
45:35
44:08
55:57
41:24
38:41
38:09
45:37
45:05
48:33
45:06
59:00
41:26
58:07
48:54
36:42
41:56
1:37:53
53:23
1:06:47
47:56
46:45
Be the first to comment