00:00My boyfriend kept cheating on me and I stayed with him.
00:02I still love him.
00:03You get away with something, you keep doing it.
00:05I found out he started cheating when I first got his phone password.
00:08All these girls started popping up.
00:10And I was like, well you can f*** off and you can get out of the club now.
00:13People really want me to leave Dan.
00:16This guy needs therapy. Mentally destroyed that gorgeous girl.
00:19I think it's actually really sad how little she respects herself.
00:22This guy is a minus one at best, girl. He's gaslighted you.
00:26My mum's coming over today and we're going to have a conversation
00:29about Dan's cheating. I don't know what she's going to say.
00:32Was it scared?
00:33I'd like to ask Dan what his feelings are in the future
00:36moving forward with my daughter.
00:38I used to feel anxious going into town
00:41because there was a club called Vanilla.
00:43I think when it's so late you end up getting proper messy
00:46and that's when you used to go wrong.
00:48So I was 15 and we met three friends.
00:55You were going out with my mate, weren't you, before?
00:59Yeah.
01:00Who I knew and I remember messaging him saying
01:02you better keep her away from me.
01:04A couple of weeks later when he broke up
01:05I started dating her and then kind of got with you, didn't I?
01:08Here we are.
01:09I think it started going wrong when I turned 80
01:14and I started going out properly, going out with my boys.
01:18And I wasn't old enough to go out.
01:20And you wasn't old enough to go out.
01:21It used to be stay at home and wait for you to come home
01:24after you'd obviously done the day out.
01:27I remember one time where you were at
01:29and I said to Dan I'll pick you up at like two o'clock
01:32and he wasn't outside the nightclub.
01:35I came in in my slippers and pyjamas and I was like,
01:37And then you saw some girl talking to me.
01:39And I was like, you can f*** off and you can get out of the club now.
01:42I think it just like, that's when the trust started to go I think.
01:47I've probably found out he started cheating when I first got his phone password.
01:52Yeah.
01:53All these girls start popping up and then I think that's when you found out I was actually cheating.
01:56Yeah. At first I think it's a shock because you think, well, like it's meant to be your loved one
02:03and then they're just doing you dirty behind your back.
02:05I didn't think it was hurting me.
02:07In the end you do put your back up to it and you're like, I'm not going to show him any emotions.
02:11I know, because I was getting away with it.
02:13You get away with something, you keep doing it.
02:15But that's why I think I kept doing it.
02:16I think the turning point was going on Bad Boyfriends on that show.
02:20Yeah.
02:21And Dan just like being told by every other person in that villa.
02:24Or even being told by that I was very close to somebody in the villa.
02:26And he's a loud lad, but he said, you're worse than me.
02:31We're going to read out some of the hate comments that people think on our relationship.
02:35People really want me to leave Dan.
02:38So this one says, this lad is an absolute idiot.
02:41Mentally destroyed that gorgeous girl.
02:43Our generation is gross.
02:45This guy needs therapy.
02:46There's clearly underlying issues that he just masks with all .
02:50Unfortunately, she's in love with him.
02:52He uses attention from other girls to make him feel good.
02:54He needs actual help, which is true.
02:57Because you have had therapy since.
02:58Yeah.
02:59I've tried to talk about my emotions a lot more.
03:03Why can't she see him for what he is and walk away?
03:06That boy is never going to change.
03:08I think it's actually really sad how little she respects herself.
03:11And seems like a very sweet girl with low self-esteem.
03:14He's gaslighted you.
03:15At the start, it made me feel like absolute ****.
03:18All their opinions did get on top of me, like, oh, you shouldn't be with her.
03:22Or even walking through town, it would be like, I don't like you, but I love you.
03:28Comments like that will upset me and **** me off.
03:31There are some good ones.
03:32Someone said people can change.
03:33He's changed for his girl.
03:35You're amazing.
03:36Always remember.
03:37We've all been that angel.
03:38You'll see the light because it's always shining on you.
03:41Give the boy a chance.
03:42Use your work if he's changed.
03:45You get negative comments.
03:46You get good comments.
03:47I said you need to ignore the hate and just get on with the good.
03:50My mum's coming over today and we're going to have a conversation about Dan's cheating
03:54and how much it really affected me.
03:56I don't know what she's going to say.
03:58I'm a bit scared.
03:59I don't know how she's going to feel.
04:02Do you think she believes you're faithful now?
04:04She'll find out.
04:05Yeah.
04:06Always going to have slight reservation naturally because leopards and spots.
04:11I'd like to ask Dan what his feelings are in the future moving forward with my daughter.
04:16Hi.
04:17Hey.
04:18How are you?
04:19Good, you?
04:20Yeah, good thanks, baby girl.
04:21How's it going?
04:23You okay, Dan?
04:23I'm all good.
04:24Good.
04:25So what have you two been up to then?
04:27Just on your socials, no doubt.
04:29Yeah.
04:30How's that all going?
04:3123.5 minutes?
04:3323.
04:35That's amazing.
04:36God, how the dynamics of that have changed from Dan having all the followers.
04:41So how do you feel you guys are getting on now then, strength-wise with your relationship
04:46and everything to where you were before?
04:47Not better.
04:48Yeah, better than before.
04:49Yeah.
04:50It's what it needed, totally.
04:51It's what Dan needed.
04:52He needed to kick up the backside.
04:53Yeah, right.
04:54And I've only been telling them that for the last four years, but, you know, and saying
04:59don't you ever jeopardise the relationship and stuff and it's had to take you watching
05:02yourself back on TV to be the wake-up call.
05:05Yeah.
05:06Yeah.
05:07And you could have lost her.
05:08I think it was the best thing that happened to our relationship.
05:09Well, the whole nation don't think we should be together.
05:11No.
05:12But some of them do.
05:15I think the concern for, obviously myself, naturally, but for the whole nation is how
05:20are you going to move forward with this?
05:22Obviously, together, if you're going to have a future together, what happens if you have
05:26children?
05:27Like you said to each other, we want to be together, we want to get that happy family.
05:32Yeah.
05:33So.
05:34But then you've got to prove that as well, though, because trust takes a lot of building,
05:38doesn't it?
05:39Yeah.
05:40How's your trust issues going to be?
05:41Because trust is obviously earned and built.
05:44Well, yeah, but it builds over time, doesn't it?
05:47And I think it's already come a long way from what it was.
05:51So, but it's this one's choice at the end of the day.
05:55Yeah!
05:56You know, you've been together for such a long time for a reason.
06:01And obviously Ellie's still with you for a reason.
06:03Yeah, if you see something, obviously.
06:05Yeah.
06:06Because it's easy, too easy just to chuck it away.
06:08I don't think anything else can break us.
06:10As they say, there's no future in the past, is there?
06:12Definitely not.
06:13So I just think you're lucky to have another chance, Dan, and for Ellie to work at it.
06:18Yeah, Dan.
06:19To appreciate what you've got and don't ever jeopardise it again.
06:22Last chance scenario.
06:23Literally last chance.
06:25Last chance scenario.
06:26I would be hopping, running, legging down the road, mate.
06:30And then skipping and then jumping.
06:32I think my ego took over my life.
06:34Yeah, I was obsessed with going out and meeting other girls.
06:36I think it's definitely all I want in this relationship because she helps me a lot.
06:42She helps me keep grounded.
06:44She's always there for me and that's what you want in your partner.
06:47I used to check Dan's phone all the time.
06:49I always used to check it.
06:51So he used to be asleep and I used to crawl across him and then get his phone.
06:55I think Dan knows his boundaries now.
06:57So not talking to girls, not messaging girls.
07:00He doesn't ever go out without me anymore.
07:02We've been through some real tough times as a family and he's really, really helped through that.
07:07He's a supportive partner.
07:08So what advice would you give to another woman's partner who might be cheating on them?
07:13I'd tell them to leave.
07:14If now Dan did that, I'd be like, do not f*** off as far away as me as you can.
07:20So build yourself up strong enough and then leave.
07:23If Dan cheated again, I'd honestly swear on my whole entire life, on my mum's life, I'd be gone.
07:29That I don't deserve that level of disrespect again.
07:32Our relationship works because the respect we have for each other now is totally different.
07:36Coming out of that villa has actually changed my mind and actually showed me that I've actually got somebody in front of me
07:40who actually wants to put some effort into our relationship and me.
07:44How has Ellie changed my life?
07:46I think, you know, seeing the good in me.
07:49Don't judge a book by its cover.
07:51You don't know what's gone on behind the scenes of all these TV shows.
07:56So yeah, to the haters, here we are.
07:58Who never thought that we weren't together, we are.
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