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It can be very hard to imagine a way forward during scary times, but My Neighbor Totoro reminds us that we can always find a light in the darkness. When faced with what feels like insurmountable...
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00:00It can be very hard to imagine a way forward during scary times,
00:04but My Neighbor Totoro reminds us that we can always find a light in the darkness.
00:09When faced with what feels like insurmountable odds,
00:12doubt can start to creep in. About ourselves, about our abilities, and about our futures.
00:17My Neighbor Totoro provides a simultaneously whimsical and honest look at how we can keep hope
00:22in the dark times, and work on figuring out how to build a brighter tomorrow together.
00:27Thank you!
00:30My Neighbor Totoro finds sisters Satsuki and Mei moving into a new house with their father.
00:35Their mother has fallen ill,
00:37and so they've moved to be closer to the hospital she's staying at while she recovers.
00:41This isn't the first time their mother's illness has caused her to have to stay in the hospital,
00:45which leads to the girls having to deal with opposing feelings,
00:48believing that she'll be okay as she has been the times before,
00:51but also worried that this time will be different and worse.
00:56This is just like last time. They said Mom just had a little cold,
00:59and she'd be home in a few days.
01:01What will we do if she dies?
01:02Satsuki!
01:05Maybe she's dead already.
01:06Processing our feelings, especially as children,
01:09can be incredibly difficult, especially under these kinds of circumstances.
01:14Mei, we just have to wait a little longer.
01:16No!
01:19You want her to die, Mei? Is that what you want?
01:21No!
01:22No!
01:23On top of her concern for her mother, Satsuki is also upset by the fact that all of the adults
01:28around her seem to be lying to her, hiding the severity of the truth in order to shield her from
01:33it. They think that hiding things from her will make it easier for her to cope, but it actually
01:38just makes it more difficult for her, because feeling like everyone is lying to her about something
01:43so serious only makes her feel like things are flying even more out of her control.
01:47Did something happen to her, Dad? Do you think she's okay?
01:50Let's not worry. I'll call the hospital and then I'll call you right back, okay?
01:55Having to deal with things outside of our control can be difficult and even scary.
02:00In Satsuki, we can see how the pressure of that fear, if bottled up,
02:03can lead us to lashing out at those closest to us,
02:06since we can't figure out how to go after the actual problem.
02:10You're such a baby! Just grow up!
02:15She's so mean!
02:18Mei, being the younger sibling, has to deal with a similar but separate issue,
02:22feeling like no one believes her because she's so young.
02:26When she first sees Totoro, she's convinced that no one believes her.
02:30Quit laughing! I really did see Totoro! I'm not lying!
02:35Because people often seem to be covering up truths or only providing partial information
02:40to her and her sister, on a subconscious level, she's come to feel like everyone else must also
02:45think that she's doing the same thing, even when she's telling the truth.
02:49In tandem to the girls' growing frustrations, however,
02:52we also see the importance of the community around them, big and small.
02:57Mommy, do you like haunted houses?
02:59Of course! I'll have to get better soon so I can meet some ghosts.
03:03Their father does his best to keep them from despair, pointing out the positives when they come,
03:07and their granny is there for support too.
03:09We also see the more whimsical elements of their world come out to provide support as well.
03:14Totoro appears to them in their times of need to deliver some much needed levity and joy.
03:19And even the tiny suit sprites play an important role,
03:22reminding the girls that magic, and helpers, can exist even in the darkness.
03:26Normally you can't see soot gremlins, but every once in a while,
03:29when you go from a bright place to a dark one, you can catch a glimpse of them.
03:32In My Neighbor Totoro, the suit sprites disappear after they decide that the family is nice,
03:37and so leave the home to them.
03:38We were given an even better understanding of the suit sprites when they appeared again
03:42in 2001's Spirited Away.
03:44Don't need any help, the face is full of shit.
03:47I just cast a spell on them and I've got all the work as I need.
03:51Here, we can see that even though they're small, they can have a big impact,
03:55and provide important assistance to Shiro on her journey.
03:58A pervasive theme throughout the film is the fear of being abandoned.
04:02The girls' main initial worry is losing their mother.
04:05May, the doctor said that mom's not doing well, so she doesn't get to come home this weekend.
04:12No fear!
04:13But their fear grows as they hit new obstacles,
04:16and feel like they might be losing even more people they love.
04:19When their dad is late to pick them up, they fear that he'll never come,
04:23until Totoro appears and reminds them that not all is lost.
04:27And Satsuki has to deal with the fear of losing the person closest to her,
04:30her sister, when May runs away and cannot be found.
04:34I shouldn't have yelled at her, this is all my fault.
04:36When you feel like you've been abandoned,
04:38it can seem like the walls are closing in and you've run out of options.
04:41But thankfully, Satsuki remembers that she doesn't have to go through this scary time alone,
04:46and turns to her community for help.
04:48Let me in to see Totoro. May's lost. It's getting dark.
04:52And she's out there all alone. Please let me in to see him. It's an emergency.
04:56The film doesn't shy away from the harsher parts of reality to sugarcoat things,
05:00in the same way that just because they're children,
05:02that doesn't mean that Satsuki and May aren't having their own full experiences of pain and fear.
05:08And that is integral to its true message,
05:10which is about how important it is to figure out how to confront that darkness and find a way to overcome it.
05:16Everybody try laughing. Then whatever scares you will go away.
05:21But Dad, I'm not scared.
05:24What? I'm not scared.
05:25And importantly, the film makes it clear that this is a group effort.
05:29How we can find hope and courage not only within ourselves,
05:32but in those around us and even the world at large.
05:35Totoro isn't a magical, wish-granting being.
05:38He doesn't swoop in and fix everything for the girls.
05:41You must have met one of the spirits of the forest.
05:44That means you're a very lucky girl, but you can't always see the spirits.
05:49You can only see them when they want you to.
05:51Instead, he brings them some levity and provides them with some new avenues for dealing with obstacles,
05:56reminding them that even though they can't always fix everything,
05:59looking at situations from new angles can make them a little less frightening
06:03and make it easier to figure out a solution, or if nothing else, at least find a moment of peace.
06:09Everything must be okay.
06:11Real life doesn't always have a happy ending, wrapped up in a neat bow.
06:15But we can take some important lessons from My Neighbor Totoro.
06:18The movie is interested in unpacking how important it is to feel your feelings,
06:22to let yourself feel them as they come, even if they're dark or negative,
06:26so that you can work your way through them.
06:28Our problems aren't childish and we shouldn't be told to just suck it up and deal with it.
06:31The problems that affect us and the feelings that we have about them are real,
06:35and trying to sugarcoat it or pretend that we can easily get over it if we bottle things up
06:39will only make things worse.
06:42The girls act so strong, but I think it's been harder than they let on.
06:45Especially Satsuki. She tries to act so adult.
06:48Building up our bonds with those closest to us, the people who really care about us,
06:53can help us all find paths out of the darkest moments.
06:56Throughout the film, we see how hard it can be to work through difficult times together.
07:00Everyone is trying to protect everyone else's feelings,
07:02while also barely being able to deal with our own.
07:05And this can create distance and even resentment.
07:08But even though we can't fix everything all at once,
07:10we can find bright moments along the way that steal us for the road ahead and keep us going.
07:25Even when the difficulties we're facing seem insurmountable,
07:28and the odds stacked impossibly against us, we can work together to find solutions.
07:33Oh, don't be sad. Granny's here to help.
07:36The road ahead may not be easy, and we'll encounter obstacles that might seem impossible to overcome.
07:42But with our own courage and the strength of our community,
07:45we can overcome the challenges we face and begin working towards a better future.
07:50I thought I saw Satsuki and Mei smiling at us from up in that tree.
07:54It sounds crazy, but maybe you did. Look at this.
07:56From mommy.
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