Healing starts with a decision. 🌱 When two broken people choose to keep trying, they turn pain into purpose — and that consistency becomes destiny.
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00:00Two broken people who make a decision to do something are way more powerful than a broken person who decides I don't want to try like trying turns into training and training can change your destiny.
00:20And so I've seen it in my life. I've seen it because the reason I say get the book, because I tell you all the stuff I did like I messed up.
00:28I jacked up. I lied. I did. I had months of insanity. I did all that other stuff.
00:34But this is my motto. Progression, not perfection.
00:38If somebody sees that you are moving forward or making attempts, statistics tell us that their ability to have grace for your mistakes grow exponentially.
00:51Wow. Many times people are frustrated by the immobility of somebody or the paralyzation of somebody or the nonchalant.
01:01I don't care. I'm not doing nothing attitude. But when somebody sees somebody trying, their grace goes up significantly.
01:08What I'm saying is it can't be one sided. But if two people come together and say, you know what, we've been jacked up.
01:15We've been messing each other up. I trigger you. You trigger me. This turns into all of this stuff.
01:20We've made mistakes. We've made mistakes. We've jacked up. We've cheated. We've hurt each other.
01:24We spent money that people didn't know. Let's be real about it.
01:27Like I went on a vacation with my girls and you had no idea what was happening or where were you really out with your boys watching the game?
01:33Or were you come on like like real stuff?
01:36I have seen all of those things change when people have made a decision.
01:40Wow. And this is what I say. I think I told you earlier. It applies to so many areas of your life.
01:45When you make a decision, your decision changes into a discipline.
01:49You have to do something that's a discipline. OK, we're going to go to counseling once every two weeks or we're going to meet with another.
01:57Couple that's older than us and ask them how the hell they didn't kill each other or we're going to, you know, we need a discipline.
02:03We're going to take walks together. We're going to talk. We're going to make a discipline.
02:06But once you get that discipline somewhere around the consistency being all the time, even when you don't want to, it turns into a desire.
02:14Yes. You literally go from a decision to a discipline to a desire and that desire continued will change your destiny.
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