00:00He will wrong you and won't rest until he knows that you're questioning yourself.
00:04There are moments where he knows he is wrong, but he will purposely try to make it seem like you're wrong so that he doesn't have to deal with accountability.
00:13Love without accountability is a form of leverage, and he's trying to hide behind your empathy.
00:18And because you are considerate, because you put others' needs as a priority, and you try to understand how someone can be affected with genuine concern, he knows that about you.
00:30He knows that you care, and he tries to use that as a way to escape his own issues.
00:36It's almost like looking at the lesser of the two efforts.
00:39I can either learn and grow on my own, or I can look to her to take all of the blame, which takes me out of having to do any work, and I'll just leave her to take care of it.
00:50This just leaves you in the position to keep replaying the arguments in your head, wondering if you were the problem.
00:56It's not guilt that's speaking to you.
00:58It's emotional whiplash.
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