00:00If you're a woman and you've never broken up with a man and a man has always broken up with you,
00:04you have got this all wrong. If a man is the one filing for divorce, if the man is the one
00:09breaking up with you, that means you have no deal breakers because men never really break up with
00:14women. Instead, what they do is start acting really bad, treating you like shit and hoping
00:18your self-worth will kick in and you will leave. They only break up if they've met another woman
00:23and that other woman is putting pressure on them to be with them. So they have to break.
00:26How you convince yourself you're too weak and you can't leave a man is not because a man,
00:30you love him too much and so on and so forth. It's because as a person, you haven't been committing
00:34to your promises. You tell yourself, oh God, I can't take this anymore. I'm going to leave him.
00:38But you don't actually follow through. And you don't stick to the promises that you make for
00:41yourself. You start to see yourself as weak. You start to see yourself as independent. And as a
00:47result, you're more likely to lose your identity and stay codependent in your relationship.
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