00:00But that's what I don't understand.
00:02Like, I look back on certain relationships where I really, I genuinely gave my best and tried and did everything and like overcompensated, like I've said.
00:11But it's like, why can't you, why can't a man in that situation that has a good woman in front of him, why can't you put that ego aside for just a second?
00:20Why?
00:20Because it's scary.
00:23Terrifying.
00:24If you're an amazing woman that's doing a lot of the great things and that means other people can see that, that means other men can see that.
00:33And I'm in competition with other men.
00:35So I need to stop you from seeing that other men can be an option.
00:40I need you to focus on me.
00:42And I'm scared because if I become vulnerable to you and let's say you like someone else or you do something with someone else and I lose you, then how am I going to live with myself?
00:51But they lose you anyway.
00:53Well, we don't expect it.
00:55And then if we do lose you on that account, then it's because of something wrong with you.
00:59Yeah.
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