You thought your patience was noble. You called it loyalty, love, maybe even destiny. But the truth is—they never signed up to grow. And deep down, you knew that.
This piece is for every soul that stayed too long, hoping for someone to change, while they never even tried. It’s time to stop waiting—and start choosing yourself.
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00:00The most dangerous part of holding on is that it starts to feel noble, like loyalty, like love, like maybe just maybe you're the one exception who will rewrite their pattern.
00:16But the truth is you're not in a relationship. You're in a waiting room waiting for a version of them.
00:23They've never committed to becoming and calling it patience when it's really self abandonment with a halo on it.
00:30You've built an altar out of their potential, but potential is not a promise.
00:35It's a projection. It's what you see in them, not what they see in you and certainly not what they're showing up as.
00:45So ask yourself, what part of you is so terrified of letting go that you would rather be bread crumbed than brave?
00:55What childhood version of you still believes love is something you have to earn by shrinking?
01:01Because the heartbreak isn't that they won't choose you. The heartbreak is you keep choosing them over you.
01:08You are not too intuitive. You're just too forgiving of red flags you color in as sunsets.
01:14So this time, instead of waiting for closure, be it. Instead of decoding mixed signals, decide.
01:22Instead of proving your worth, protect it. There's a difference between fighting for love and fighting for a fantasy.
01:29And when you're the only one swinging, that's not connection. That's codependency, camouflage as hope.
01:37Let them go. Not because they're the villain, but because you finally stopped playing the role of the one who waits to be chosen and choose yourself instead.
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