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GFG 7/11/23 A weekend with cousins
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00:34So you got family coming into town this weekend.
00:36Yes, I'm very excited.
00:38Some of my cousins from Chicago are coming into town to hang out with us.
00:42Okay, there.
00:43So they're coming in this weekend.
00:45Yes.
00:46So I had a question about this, though, because yesterday Heidi said, hey, I got invited.
00:53My friend who just happens to live in Chicago now is home for the weekend.
00:58And are home for a couple of weeks.
00:59And they're having a barbecue at her house on Saturday.
01:01And I got invited to it.
01:02So I think I'm going to go over there for a little bit.
01:06And my response was, no, we have company coming in this weekend that's been planned.
01:12You have to stay here and hang out with them.
01:15So she can't go anywhere all weekend.
01:17Well, like, yeah, I mean, you can go to the store and stuff, but this is what our weekend
01:22is.
01:23Our company's coming into town.
01:24So I want to know, is it okay that I'm, should she be able to go and hang out with her friend
01:30at this barbecue and kind of leave our company for a few hours on Saturday?
01:37248-398-9279 is her house phone.
01:40248-398-WCSX.
01:42Now, since Ryan omitted some details, the company's staying at your house, right?
01:46No, they'll be at my mom's.
01:47That's what they do every time.
01:49No, no.
01:50Just saying.
01:51Yeah.
01:51So they're not at your house.
01:53Right.
01:53So you're not playing host and hostess to them.
01:56You're going to see them at somebody else's place.
01:59Technically, yeah.
02:00So are you expected?
02:02I know you're going to, it's not like she's not going to see them.
02:04She just wants to dip out for a couple hours.
02:07Right.
02:07So she can go to her friend's barbecue, but you expect her to be there all weekend with
02:12the people coming in.
02:14Yes, because this is what we've had planned for three or four months.
02:17But she is going to see them.
02:18She's going to spend plenty of time with them.
02:21Right.
02:21But I mean, I don't know.
02:22I think it's kind of disrespectful that you leave the company who drove all this way to
02:28see you guys and hang out with you guys to go somewhere else.
02:32Okay.
02:33For a little while.
02:33248-398-9279.
02:35No, I'm just asking.
02:36I seriously don't, I'm trying to understand the whole thing there.
02:39Well, and you know, you've been to my mom's house enough to know the dynamic of that.
02:42When there's people over, it's like, I know you say it's not my lake and not my house and
02:47that kind of stuff, which it's not, but it's still, I play host 80% of the time when I'm
02:52there.
02:52You know what I mean?
02:53Right.
02:54Or is this, you just, you don't want to, let me, Liz will be watching Finn when you're
02:58there anyway.
02:59Oh, I don't, oh no, it's nothing to do with that.
03:01And if we didn't have anything going on, I don't care.
03:05You can go and do that.
03:06But this was something that's been planned for a while.
03:09And I just think it's like, Hey man, they're here.
03:11We don't see them a lot as often as we used to.
03:14And she saw this friend last weekend.
03:17I go to lunch with my friend Roger twice a week.
03:21I don't want that.
03:23Does that have anything to do with it?
03:24Well, she already saw her.
03:26So it's like, okay, you saw her and said hi and stuff.
03:29This is interesting.
03:30This is not, when you guys are listening, I see people calling 248-398-9279 is our house
03:34phone, 248-398-WCSX.
03:37Is it okay for Heidi to slide out for a couple hours to go to a friend's barbecue while they
03:43have company in town?
03:44Is that, did I narrow it down?
03:45Yeah.
03:46Okay.
03:46Is it okay for Heidi to slide out, to dip out for a couple hours while you guys have company
03:52in town that you've known about for three months?
03:55Yeah.
03:55It's been a big planned thing.
03:57And it's not like she's going up to Traverse City or the UP.
03:59She's just going to a barbecue for a couple hours.
04:01Right.
04:02Hi, John.
04:06Good morning, Big Jim.
04:07Hey, how's life at the break shop?
04:09Oh, just fine.
04:10Lots of cars, man.
04:12Well, there you go.
04:13Okay.
04:13So what do you think?
04:15Ranch remember when he wanted to duck out on her for the golfing while she was doing the
04:22baby shower.
04:26Oh, gosh, you're going way back.
04:27No, but it's an honest pull.
04:30Yeah.
04:31See, women don't forget things.
04:34Okay.
04:35No, I get that.
04:36That was more of a question of, I'm trying to remember back to that now.
04:40She wanted you to come to the baby shower and they wanted you to be there like handling
04:44the gifts and stuff.
04:44Yeah.
04:45And you didn't want to go.
04:46So you decided you wanted to go golfing instead.
04:48Yeah.
04:48That was, yeah, I think that was more of a question on if that's okay.
04:53So she had planned this baby shower how many months ahead of time?
04:55Probably three months.
04:57Right.
04:59Okay.
04:59Wow.
04:59Okay.
05:01No, no, I'm sorry.
05:02I love it, John.
05:05But I don't think those are one in the same here.
05:08Okay.
05:09Well, sounds pretty close.
05:11All right.
05:11Wow.
05:12Great memory, though.
05:13Thank you, John.
05:14Yeah.
05:14Remember, women don't forget things.
05:16They always find a way.
05:17That's because they're smarter than us, John.
05:19Thank you, buddy.
05:21Hi, Vera.
05:22How are you?
05:24Good.
05:25How are you?
05:25Good.
05:25Thanks for holding.
05:26Go ahead.
05:28Okay.
05:29He wants his wife to go visit her friend.
05:32He wants that because that will make Heidi happier.
05:36And if she's happier, then she'll have more to contribute to the mother-in-law and the cousins
05:42when she's around them.
05:43See?
05:44And it's not like she's going to be there for a long time.
05:47She's just going to be there for a little while, get her cup filled, be with her friends,
05:52reminisce, and come back and be a happier wife and happier to the cousins.
05:57It makes sense to let her breathe, especially since the event is at the mother-in-law's house.
06:05She needs that energy to give more energy out.
06:10Whoa.
06:11Okay, but isn't that pretty selfish that you can't be happy unless you get to go do your thing?
06:18Wait a minute.
06:19Did Ryan Logan...
06:20Hey, this isn't about me.
06:21It is about you.
06:22This is about this discussion here.
06:23Vera, do you listen to the show at all?
06:25Well, I know, Ryan.
06:27Come on.
06:29You want her just to be happy.
06:30She's in a good place.
06:31No, I have to listen to you guys.
06:32I'm listening from Lewiston, Michigan.
06:34Oh, awesome.
06:35Actually.
06:36Using our app streaming.
06:37And I really miss the Detroit area.
06:39So, no, you want her to go.
06:42I think, actually, Ryan's being a little selfish by wrangling in and controlling the situation.
06:50If he allows her to be a little bit freer and a little bit, you know, make her own decisions as to what's best for her, she might not even stay at her friends very long.
07:03Wow.
07:03She might just stay, hug her friend, get, you know, have a meal, have a drink, and then come back to her family.
07:10And then actually be more of a contributor to the conversation and be happier with the family.
07:15Okay, I see what you're saying.
07:18You guys are putting some thought.
07:19Vera, you're awesome.
07:20It's nice to know you're listening, too.
07:21Have a great day, okay?
07:23You too.
07:24Bye.
07:24Bye.
07:26I told you, dude, there's layers to this onion.
07:30Hold on.
07:32Anita.
07:34Yes.
07:34Hi, good morning.
07:35You're on Big Jim's house.
07:36Ryan's to the left here.
07:37Go ahead.
07:38Hey, I just wondered if this was reversed, and if it was Heidi's family that was coming from out of town, how would she feel about Ryan going to spend time with his friends?
07:51I can tell you right now there would be no chance that I'd get to go.
07:55Okay.
07:56That's exactly what I was thinking.
07:59I wasn't even going to bring this up, but we're in it.
08:00She's on your side, by the way.
08:01Yeah, no, I know.
08:02Yeah, Anita's on your side.
08:03I was going to bring this up, but I wasn't going to, but whatever.
08:06We're already in it.
08:07I'm going to get yelled at to begin with.
08:08Anyways.
08:09Sure.
08:10I had a possible work event on Friday night that I could have done that I waved off because these people were coming, a chance to make some money and stuff, and Heidi said, I'd rather you just not do it so that we're here when they get here and everything.
08:28So that's kind of a reverse role on it where she's going to kill me.
08:37What's good for the gander is good for the goose.
08:39Amen.
08:40Amen.
08:40Anita, you're awesome.
08:41Have a great day.
08:42Enjoy this weather, okay?
08:43You too, guys.
08:45All right.
08:45Bye.
08:47Bye.
08:48Hold on.
08:49There's email coming in.
08:50People are...
08:50Oh, jeez.
08:51We're getting hit with everything here.
08:52We've got to get ready.
08:53Let me see.
08:54Hey, Ryan, if your guests are family, then absolutely not.
08:56Heidi needs to stay at home after hosting the guests.
08:59If the guests are Ryan's friends from before he knew Heidi, then she could go for an hour or so.
09:05That's from Sue.
09:07There's a lot going on.
09:08Wow.
09:09Okay.
09:10There are a lot of people.
09:12And I mean, I know people are saying it's at your mother-in-law's house, and you know what it's like over there.
09:20And with Heidi, it's not like it's an awkward thing or whatever.
09:26But to me, she's known these people for, what, eight years now?
09:29And we've seen them a lot, but haven't been able to see them.
09:32And they had a baby, and things just work out where we haven't been able to see them in like two years.
09:36Yeah.
09:36So I'm like, man, this is a really big thing.
09:39And her friends, even the one that is in town, I think she sees more often than we get to see these people.
09:46And it's not like she doesn't like these.
09:48She's very good friends with them just like I am.
09:50Okay.
09:50You know?
09:50All right.
09:51All right.
09:51So where are you guys on this?
09:55248-398-9279.
09:57There are some strong opinions.
09:58We've got a bunch of calls.
09:59We've got to get to that.
09:59And then we've got to start tying Joel up in the bandanas in a little bit.
10:03Is she on Facebook Live?
10:04Yeah.
10:04I saw you just grin.
10:04What'd she say?
10:05Nothing.
10:05I'm deleting her comment.
10:07Was it that bad?
10:08No.
10:08It's just.
10:09Come on.
10:10You can't.
10:10She just said, I'm sorry.
10:12What?
10:13Lies.
10:13I'm guessing that's referring to the Friday night work thing.
10:16Is that what that is?
10:17Is that true?
10:18Okay, I may have exaggerated that she wouldn't let me do it a little bit.
10:21Wait a minute.
10:22Five minutes into the segment.
10:25Wow.
10:26No.
10:28Get on Facebook, Heidi.
10:29Get on Facebook.
10:30You see this?
10:31It's called a microphone.
10:31You talk into it and it amplifies your voice and sends it everywhere.
10:35Even on the internets.
10:38Everyone on hold, don't go anywhere.
10:39We're going to get to you in a minute.
10:42I really want to call Heidi right now, but I won't do it.
10:45I really want to call her.
10:47Or call your cousin.
10:48Now, did you ask your cousins Chicago if they would mind?
10:51Ah, no.
10:52I haven't even said it.
10:53They're from Chicago.
10:54They have nothing else to root for.
10:55They have no sports teams anymore.
10:57They got nothing else going on, man.
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