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The mental burden. Yes, that's a recurring problem for everyone.
00:05
I was thinking of women, especially with their to-do list, who take care of the family,
00:10
children, their job, being a good wife, being perfect,
00:15
but there are also men, who are very pressured,
00:18
under pressure from performance, and therefore a big mental burden.
00:21
I would say, a little bit, a welcomer already.
00:26
I think, there are periods in my life when there is a lot to do.
00:31
And that's true, that's reality.
00:33
So we're not going to do like, "Oh no!"
00:35
So do with what you have, what you have.
00:38
Then there are the principles of time management,
00:40
which are to be structured, disciplined, everything that is management of priorities,
00:44
what is the most important for me, the to-do list,
00:47
so that's structure, to bring a little structure.
00:50
Then, a little two, I think what will help is to make an alternation
00:54
between activation times of tasks, and then in a second time,
01:00
alternate, as they do at school, between recreation times and activity times.
01:06
And so, leisure time, resourcing time,
01:10
but a resourcing, it really has to be experienced as a time that does us good.
01:14
Because we can say, "Oh yes, so I'm going to do some shooting,
01:17
by getting out of work, "it's experienced as another performance.
01:21
So it's not going to help, it's not a real resource.
01:25
Recreation times, it must really be times where I'm in contact with my needs and my desires,
01:31
and it really does me good, it feeds me to do that.
01:33
And I'm going to feel it, how I'm going to feel it,
01:35
because my body is going to tell me that it does me good.
01:38
It's not the idea that I'm doing only,
01:40
it's because my body is really going to let me know that this is a real resource.
01:46
Because it follows the intrinsic biological rhythms of the individual,
01:49
which are times, as we see in breathing, inhale, exhale.
01:53
We can't always be in inhale, otherwise we're in apnea.
01:56
So there is inspiration, activation times,
01:58
I generate Matutuise tasks and moments where I really exhale.
02:04
I relax, I take time for myself, even silence,
02:08
things that really resource me, relax me.
02:11
So you have to find this balance between thought and the sensory world,
02:17
which is the world of the five senses.
02:20
First, go back to yourself and ask yourself,
02:23
"What would I want now? What would do me good if everything was possible?"
02:29
That's the question.
02:30
"And if everything was possible, even if I'm at work, I'm in Reunion, I'm at the supermarket,
02:34
what would do me good if everything was possible?"
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