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On this episode of Strong Opinions Loosely Held, our host, Elisa Kreisinger explores how women's rights are still being taken advantage of. From equality in the workplace to women getting sued for excluding men, she is taking on all of it. Press play on this week's SOLH to get her perspective!

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00:07Oh my god this story is killing me. There's a group of men's rights activists suing women's
00:14organizations for meeting without men and it's threatening the financial stability of those
00:20women's organizations. One of those organizations was Ladies Get Paid. Claire Wasserman started
00:25Ladies Get Paid because I was really upset that 60% of today's college graduates are women but
00:31actually less than 22% of us are making it past middle management. And then I realized that money
00:44really is at the end of it and I also realized that none of my girlfriends and I were talking
00:48about money and we needed a place to talk. Claire hosted events for women all over the country to
00:53talk about how to negotiate salaries and eventually close the wage gap. One member of Ladies Get Paid
00:59left an event and successfully negotiated an $11,000 raise. Another member of Ladies Get Paid negotiated
01:06a $15,000 raise. Ladies Get Paid grew to reach over 30,000 women across the country. So you hosted
01:14an
01:15all-women's event? So all of our events were for all women. Now they're not. The reason that I made
01:20our events for female identifying and non-binary people only is because the premise of everything
01:26that we talk about are basically really sensitive, vulnerable, intimate issues that we experience
01:31at work as women. And it just was like if we had men in the room how could we possibly
01:35feel
01:36comfortable enough to share these intimate details about our life, you know? Especially talking
01:41about harassment. Sexual harassment, assault at work. I did not even consider it to be sexual discrimination.
01:47Claire was sued for violating the Unruh Civil Rights Act, which I had never heard of before. But I'd also
01:53never heard of a woman being sued for gender discrimination against a man before. So I reached
01:59out to Claire's attorney, Megan Caesar Eastman, to find out what was going on. Megan is based in
02:05California, so I called her in the one place I knew we would not be sued for excluding men from.
02:10The
02:11women's bathroom. Hey, Megan. Hi. Thanks so much for chatting with me today. Thank you for having me.
02:18Okay, so can you tell me a little bit about the Unruh Civil Rights Act? So the Unruh Civil Rights
02:24Act is one
02:25of California's civil rights laws, and it prohibits businesses from discriminating in the provision of
02:31services to those different protected categories. How is it used in a new way in this Ladies Get
02:42Paid case? Ladies Get Paid, the company, is an organization dedicated to bridging the equality
02:49gap between men and women in the workplace. They decided to hold some meetings. They made a decision
02:54to exclude men to create a safe place. There were a few men that attempted to come to these meetings
03:01who were part of a national men's rights organization. They were denied entry and then
03:07subsequently sued. Ladies Get Paid for gender discrimination. The purpose of this law, which
03:13is promoting equality among all different types of people, and is the same purpose of this organization.
03:19So it felt really inconsistent with the law's purpose. And as an attorney,
03:24is that something that you've seen happen often?
03:28These plaintiffs and this lawyer have been involved in a number of lawsuits, including
03:31numerous lawsuits targeting women's organizations. But this is the first time in my career I've seen
03:37civil rights laws applied in this way, as a sword to sort of cut down a group dedicated to women's
03:43equality rather than as a shield for a victim. So I reached out to the attorney suing Ladies Get
03:48Paid, but unfortunately he was unavailable for an on-camera interview citing a disability.
03:53But he did point out that he spent the last 15 years successfully suing over 300 businesses and
04:00organizations for discrimination against men under the Unruh Civil Rights Act. He successfully sued
04:07Club Med for not including men in a ladies-only discount and won almost a million dollars. And he
04:14successfully sued the Oakland A's for not giving men a promotional floppy sun hat on Mother's Day. And he won
04:22half a million dollars. Ladies Get Paid settled with the men's rights activists for an undisclosed amount.
04:28It's very expensive to go to court, even if you believe that you can win. In this case, if we
04:34were to lose, we
04:35actually would have to pay the legal fees of the other side. It was financially responsible to settle. As painful
04:41as that was.
04:42Yeah.
04:43Ladies Get Paid became Ladies Get Sued. The lawsuit financially crippled the organization. Until their story went viral.
04:53Claire raised $100,000 in three weeks to cover her legal fees. Clearly the case resonated with people.
05:01I think it exemplifies how threatening equality can be to groups that have historically benefited from
05:08inequality. And I think it certainly highlights the importance of people like Claire to continue to do their work.
05:14My impression and understanding is that they do truly believe in their own mission, which is that men
05:19are now being discriminated against to the benefit of women. It's kind of a shocking idea for me to hear.
05:25Megan has a point. Women are almost twice as likely as men to say that they've experienced
05:31gender discrimination at work. And over half of black women say that they've experienced at least
05:38one type of gender discrimination at work. And how could we forget that corporate America remains
05:43male dominated. Of the 500 CEOs on the S&P 500 list, only 25 are women. 25 out of 500.
05:54That's pretty bad.
05:56And not all men are bad. There's definitely a role for men in this conversation.
06:01Of course there are men who want to be allies. But guess what? Those men reach out and ask,
06:05how can I be an ally? I guess male allies don't sue organizations fighting for gender equality.
06:11Just a hunch. You know, when you come together with a group of women and you want to talk about
06:15work
06:15and money, that's political. We're more powerful and radical than we even know. And now I've certainly
06:22woken up. Everybody who interviews me gets angry emails from him. But that's not, you know, that doesn't
06:27stop me from speaking out. And I certainly hope it doesn't stop publications from wanting to write
06:31about the story. I'm really looking forward to him reaching out. I'm so excited. Well, did he reach out?
06:38Not yet, but I did ask him for his advice to young women. And he said it was to treat
06:43everyone equally,
06:44no matter their sex, race, religion, or sexual orientation. Okay, that's time. It's such a good story.
06:52I'm a fan of the story.
06:52It's been a great story.
06:54I'm a fan of the story.
06:55It's been a great story.
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