00:00The entire country seems angry. For some reason, the entire country seems frustrated.
00:09Persons seem to have lost the ability to regulate how they behave.
00:17Director of the victim and witness support unit, Kurt Pair, as he spoke with TV6 News.
00:23Mr. Pair said many men have been acting out, and without the necessary support systems and healthy coping mechanisms,
00:32the country is moving towards what he described as a dangerous paradigm shift.
00:37So a lot of persons are behaving how they feel.
00:41So, for example, I feel frustrated, I feel angry, and I behave in a manner that is aligned to those
00:49feelings.
00:49That's a very dangerous place for persons to function from.
00:54The counseling psychologist said underlying mental health challenges, coupled with an inability to effectively manage stress,
01:04have resulted in violence becoming an outlet for many individuals.
01:08Violence has seemed to be the way that persons have chosen to navigate relationships.
01:16Power and control is also something that I have found to be a tool used by persons to influence other
01:28persons.
01:29Mr. Pair said the desire to exert power and control over individuals often manifests through manipulation and emotional abuse behaviors
01:42that can have damaging consequences for victims.
01:45That control takes multiple forms, and that control has elements that says that, look at what you have made me
01:56do.
01:57So, because you have acted in this way, this is why I'm operating in this way.
02:02But those are very abusive forms of language that has been used by others to control persons as well.
02:09In part two of our interview, Mr. Pair outlines practical recommendations aimed at addressing these growing social challenges
02:18and fostering healthier ways of managing conflict, emotions, and relationships.
02:24Elizabeth Williams, TV6 News.
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