00:00This is your taste she fell in love with well
00:05People judge my relationship because my husband is in prison
00:14My prison has been bought me a car
00:17Y'all be delusional as if that's being with the jailbirds
00:22My friend Janelle will be coming over and we will be discussing how she feels about my relationship
00:28What did you think? What was your like first initial thoughts? I was just like this girl is crazy
00:35Hi, my name is Jatice I met my husband will on a pen pal website and he's in prison I
00:41Met William back in October of 2022. My husband is in prison on one count of first-degree robbery
00:49Nothing in particular drew me to the website. I've always had a curious mind
00:55So I just ended up going on there one day just out of curiosity and we're just having normal conversation
01:02We're still getting to know each other. We have been together going on two years. We got married one year ago
01:08It was not your typical
01:11Proposal that any woman or a girl has imagined growing up, but it was nice
01:16It was sentimental and it definitely had a lot of meaning behind it
01:21My friend Janelle will be coming over and we will be discussing how she feels about my relationship
01:27She's pretty much an upfront person. She has no filter. She's pretty much blunt. She'll tell it how it is
01:37My name is Janelle and I've been knowing Jatice
01:40Since 2013 14, so probably about like 10 years now. I found out so she didn't really tell me
01:47I pretty much approached her and asked her because I see them on tik-tok at first
01:50I kind of was just shocked because she does spontaneous things. It's not like her doing adventurous and
01:56Spontaneous things is abnormal, but something like this was kind of like
02:00Abnormal, I guess so. Do you remember when I called you when I told you I was scrolling on tik-tok and what I seen right?
02:07I'm jelly that day. It caught me so off guard. It was like damn at that time
02:12I had just went viral so for me to pop up on your for you page. I think that was really funny
02:18I wasn't expecting nobody that I knew and was close with to be on my
02:23My life, that's why I had to double-take like
02:29That is who I think it is what was your like first initial thoughts I
02:35Was just like this goes crazy like
02:39You do adventurous stuff you are very spontaneous, but this was kind of extreme I'm okay
02:43So this is where you've been hiding that right? That's what I initially thought
02:46You know just like how you said seeing it in shows is making sure that you know
02:50It wasn't like a scam or it wasn't somebody trying to like catfish you or somebody that was trying to use you for the time
02:55Being and things like that once I start seeing like you smiling and seeing your genuine happiness
03:01I was all okay
03:01Like I gotta start talking to her about this to see like how real it is
03:05So here are a couple of the cards that came with the gifts that we have gotten me over here
03:12We have a Valentine's Day card that will send me last year. It has pictures of us
03:18It says miss you number one
03:21And these are all like things that he's like got out of magazine and stuff like that just to make the card more special
03:28He sends him like all the time and this is not even all
03:32Over here. We have three. Hello Kitty bobbleheads that he had made for me out of tissue paper
03:40My favorite gift of all time that he has gotten me is my
03:452024 Jeep Willys
03:46He's bought me my dream car that I really wanted
03:50So he bought the car back in September of last year and I had been talking about this car
03:55For months for months for months one day
03:58I came to see him and after a busy he had me go meet up with his best friend at a
04:04Dealership that he worked at and yeah, I had the car
04:08I don't know how he was able to afford the car at the same time
04:12I know my husband does have a porter job in the facility that he's currently working at if it was anything that he shouldn't be
04:20Doing he know I wouldn't allow it
04:21But for the most part I give my husband that role of being a provider and doing everything that comes with just being a man
04:29While he's still in prison today. I'm gonna call William
04:33What you been doing?
04:36Thank you for the update what did your cousin say when he found out that we was dating
04:46Why would you say you gifted me the Jeep
04:56How long did it take for you to realize that you wanted to give me a car because the car is not just a small
05:02Gift like that's something that is very big. Like nobody's just out giving people cars every day on the streets
05:19You gotta go, okay, I love you
05:29I
05:31Enjoy talking to him being able to just have these type of small interactions where he's on a video call
05:37I look forward to them because it actually feels like just a small part of him is here and he's present and he's
05:45By my side, although he's on a kiosk machine
05:49People are very judgmental and you don't ever want to put somebody in the awkward position to where they're like jeopardizing their situation
05:56Just off of like other people's opinions and judgment because we don't have to walk in your shoes
06:00I face quite a lot of judgment in the beginning and still so this day now as I continue to share my
06:07Relationship publicly. This is sad and why girls think it's a trend to do anything for followers and likes
06:15Y'all be delusional as if I think with the jailbirds
06:20They always so nice in jail and I responded back to her and I said who hurt you
06:26Being on a platform like tick-tock you really have to have
06:31For one the confidence and to the mindset that you're not gonna let nobody discourage you
06:38So outside of the circumstances and everything that's just going on right now. Can you really see yourself?
06:44You know outside of the circumstances when it hits like real life. He's home
06:48Can you see yourself like living together taking it to a long-term permanent situation?
06:54Yeah
06:55Girl, what the hell I wouldn't be doing it if I didn't see life with him on the outside
07:02I can literally have a life out here on my own
07:04I don't have to wait for him but choosing to wait for him on my own
07:09That's something that I've given my time and attention to will has definitely changed the narrative
07:16for not just myself, but I feel like a lot of other women when it came to
07:22Viewing a man
07:24Incarcerated he has so much in store
07:27That we look forward to upon his release date
07:30and that's basically just continuing everything that we have set out to do just basically having fun being adventurous and
07:39Literally exploring life for anybody that judges my relationship
07:43I would say that you just need to take the time to get to know
07:47Me get to know him get to know us as a hope you really have to make the best out of a situation like this
07:53And you have no clue of who I am who my husband is
07:57And if you really got to know me, you would know that I'm cool
08:00He cool and we just two people who just happen to fall in love while he's incarcerated
08:17You
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