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00:00:11Music
00:07:12Sometimes they are doing something, sometimes they are doing something.
00:07:14So that's the same thing.
00:07:16There are two young people.
00:07:18And if they know one or two,
00:07:21they are different from living together.
00:07:24They are different from living together.
00:07:25And they are different from talking.
00:07:27People understand that
00:07:28we are a very old friend.
00:07:30We will have a very good marriage.
00:07:32But the very small thing is that
00:07:35your shared values,
00:07:38are the same values?
00:07:40Are the same values?
00:07:42They are very honest.
00:07:44And their spouse is not so honest.
00:07:48They say,
00:07:49bankers gave more money,
00:07:51just keep it.
00:07:52The other world will be destroyed.
00:07:55They are saying,
00:07:56what happened?
00:08:00So the values are the same,
00:08:03if they are the same,
00:08:03their life will go well.
00:08:05Otherwise, when the relationship is not right,
00:08:07they are the same,
00:08:09they are the same,
00:08:09they are the same,
00:08:12they are the same.
00:08:14In the beginning,
00:08:15you have to create a relationship.
00:08:17If the relationship is good,
00:08:18then the relationship is not the same.
00:08:19And to create a relationship,
00:08:21it is very important to me,
00:08:23I need to know a woman's strength
00:08:25and weakness.
00:08:27And to know a woman also,
00:08:29that this is my strength,
00:08:30and this is my weakness.
00:08:32What is my weakness?
00:08:33If I don't get a lot of time,
00:08:35I get angry.
00:08:38And what is the weakness?
00:08:40If she said something to her,
00:08:42she will get angry.
00:08:43So both of them understand the weakness.
00:08:47What is happening here?
00:08:48Because mostly in the world,
00:08:50it is happening,
00:08:51that you stay in the other's weakness.
00:08:54That it knows the weakness.
00:08:57Weakness can also say,
00:08:58you can also say,
00:08:58you can also say,
00:08:58you can also say,
00:08:59you can also say,
00:09:00you can also say,
00:09:01you can also say,
00:09:03you can twist it.
00:09:06Yes.
00:09:06Okay?
00:09:07All the struggle starts here.
00:09:09Yes.
00:09:09So you have to know the weakness,
00:09:12but it is because you need to forgive him.
00:09:17You understand that,
00:09:18in this person,
00:09:19this is a bad thing.
00:09:21Look,
00:09:21we have to know,
00:09:24if we have 10 good people,
00:09:25then there are 5 close to the bad people.
00:09:27No one will not get you.
00:09:30So one woman,
00:09:31who is a victim,
00:09:33who is a victim,
00:09:33who doesn't have any weakness,
00:09:35who doesn't have any weakness,
00:09:37who does good things,
00:09:38who does good things,
00:09:39who does good things.
00:09:40Who does good things,
00:09:43who does good things,
00:09:44who does good things,
00:09:46who does good things,
00:09:48who does good things.
00:09:50Do good things.
00:09:50.
00:09:51down to the bad things.
00:09:52I'll give you back,
00:09:52if all the people are thinking,
00:09:53that both of them are wrong.
00:09:55We're wrong.
00:09:56Both of them are wrong.
00:09:57We're wrong.
00:09:57We're to be perfect.
00:09:59You must first think,
00:10:00that every person has patterns.
00:10:03If you have some patterns.
00:10:04If you understand the patterns, then life is easy.
00:10:07I am going to put a part of your anger.
00:10:10Of course.
00:10:11Of course, of course.
00:10:12The world has told me that my mother is a dresser.
00:10:20When we were to understand this,
00:10:23the conditions were okay.
00:10:26As we thought,
00:10:28we were just saying that
00:10:30they are different.
00:10:33We want to be married.
00:10:36We want to be married,
00:10:39but when I came to,
00:10:43the world is different.
00:10:45We want to be married.
00:10:49We want to be married.
00:10:53They might not be married.
00:10:54They would leave it together.
00:10:56They might like to come into what they are doing.
00:10:57we are very good.
00:10:59We don't think that our audience is too much.
00:11:03We also think that our baby wants to go to the other people
00:11:09or other people,
00:11:10one or two,
00:11:12one or two,
00:11:13one or two,
00:11:13one or two,
00:11:14one or two,
00:11:27one or two.
00:11:36To make the same light,
00:11:43one or two,
00:11:43one or two,
00:11:43Then we start to come,
00:11:44which is an important point.
00:11:47Our social media is also a bad idea.
00:11:50The social media is now,
00:11:52a bad idea.
00:11:54No, this is not a massive amount of money.
00:11:57Now, the other part is our mutual care.
00:12:07If there are a good relationship to our family,
00:12:10then we say that we are really good for a good relationship.
00:12:13And we have a good relationship to our family.
00:12:16And we have to understand that we have to understand.
00:12:17And when we have any kind of thing we have to understand,
00:12:24Thank you very much.
00:13:08Thank you very much.
00:13:32Thank you very much.
00:19:28When one child is born and another, we all know that there will be jealousy.
00:19:34This is a human relationship.
00:19:36How do you feel about the human relationship?
00:19:39You can say that there is no feeling about jealousy.
00:19:44But the mother-in-law also comes to jealousy.
00:19:48And the mother-in-law also comes to jealousy.
00:19:53And the mother-in-law also comes to love her mother.
00:19:56This is a common relationship.
00:19:59The human nature, we also need to understand.
00:20:04Jealousy, resentment, everything is there.
00:20:07After that, the most of the girl is trying to do catharsis.
00:20:11To tell her about her heart.
00:20:13It doesn't mean that the mother-in-law comes to the camera,
00:20:17Not the parents who are walking down to the camera.
00:20:19Why do you tell me your wife?
00:20:21Why do you tell me your mother?
00:20:23Why do you tell me your mother?
00:20:24Why do you tell me your mother?
00:20:24Why do you tell me my mother?
00:20:25Why do you tell me to your calling?
00:20:28Sometimes, the child, what she says, is her daughter-in-law.
00:20:31Listen, hear it and listen.
00:20:32Listen, hear it and listen.
00:20:35And then she says, that it's a problem.
00:20:38It will help them with issues.
00:20:40After a break, we will get back to the relationship.
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00:27:01and interference is common.
00:27:04This is not the case of their first time.
00:27:06This is our common case of houses.
00:27:10I want to say something.
00:27:11Yes, please.
00:27:13You are saying blame game.
00:27:15It is not a blame game.
00:27:16It is a wrong witness.
00:27:20If you are not using that wrong,
00:27:22if you are using that wrong,
00:27:23it is wrong.
00:27:27If you are not using that wrong,
00:27:28if you are not using that wrong,
00:27:30please tell me that one mother
00:27:33has the idea that she needs to be prepared,
00:27:36to keep the house clean,
00:27:37and to make food.
00:27:39She has a lot of responsibility.
00:27:40Some of the times,
00:27:42she does not support her.
00:27:44She does not support her.
00:27:46She has a lot of love.
00:27:47However, she has so much respect for a young woman.
00:27:51She has so much responsibility.
00:27:52She has so much responsibility.
00:27:55She has so much responsibility.
00:27:59She has so much responsibility.
00:28:02took a look at the child. Now that he has a feeling that the child is
00:28:08keeping their dog. So he doesn't say he doesn't say to me. He doesn't say to me.
00:28:12He doesn't say to me. He doesn't say to me. He doesn't say to me that he
00:28:14doesn't change his dog. He doesn't change himself.
00:28:17Okay. Dr. Nausheer.
00:28:19But he has a wrong way.
00:28:21No, no.
00:28:22The dad's mindset is old school.
00:28:26Nowadays mother has a lot of nutrition.
00:28:30that she is doing it, she doesn't say she is doing it but she is doing it.
00:28:38But the parents say that the mother is not healthy.
00:28:40If the parents are saying that the mother is not healthy.
00:28:45If she is saying that the mother is saying that the mother is saying that she is a good person.
00:28:48Yeah basically.
00:28:50Then if someone says that I am sitting here and I don't need to say that the lips don't do
00:28:56it.
00:28:56you have to believe that I will be happy. I will be very happy that someone has pointed out and
00:29:03given me.
00:29:05Because my eyes are not my eyes. My other person is my eyes.
00:29:11You are sitting in front of me, you can tell me better.
00:29:14Okay? Okay.
00:29:16So, understand that someone's wrong.
00:29:21If your child is falling, what is falling?
00:29:24I'm just asking you to say yes or no.
00:29:27Good thing is not, but sometimes it is not.
00:29:30But sometimes it is not.
00:29:30Just tell me, what is the child's falling?
00:29:33I think that here is a good thing.
00:29:35I think that the husband is falling.
00:29:37If you say that you have to fall, you have to fall.
00:29:48While the child is falling, the child is falling.
00:29:50If your child is getting falling, the whole IQ system can get wrong.
00:29:58That's why the child is safe to protect the child with the child.
00:30:01So, it is that it is not safe.
00:30:02But my daughter keeps having to stop your child, or an isolated person.
00:30:07That's not safe.
00:30:07My daughter is cutting you out and isolating because she is so scared.
00:30:09It is so scared.
00:30:09Which is the dad from?
00:30:10or the father?
00:30:11The environment is disturbed by the family.
00:30:15My husband goes to a small conversation.
00:30:19I have been a example of that.
00:30:21There are many other questions in the house.
00:30:23He's scared of his own and with the store room
00:30:27it's safe side.
00:30:28The husband is in the store room?
00:30:30No, he's gone.
00:30:31The day he's gone.
00:30:35He's gone and he's sat there.
00:30:37He goes inside and locks by him.
00:30:39So I had to get out of it, so that I was going to go and get out of it.
00:30:43The actual problem was just 6 years ago.
00:30:46The child is disturbed by the child.
00:30:47Now that child is disturbed by the child.
00:30:49Now that child is disturbed by the child.
00:30:50Now that child has a mindset and set it up.
00:30:54Your mother-in-law is very close to your mother-in-law.
00:30:57Those who are looking after you are looking after you.
00:31:01Rabbi, you can also give your point of view.
00:31:03We can reduce it.
00:31:05We do not listen to you.
00:31:07Why do you have a friend with them?
00:31:09Look, some people are dominating.
00:31:11Yes, just in small things.
00:31:13The issue that I shared is that your marriage will be 10 years ago.
00:31:17Yes.
00:31:17They have this attitude for 10 years.
00:31:19It is like this.
00:31:20It is like the same thing.
00:31:21It is like the same thing.
00:31:21It is like the same thing.
00:31:22It is like the same thing.
00:31:23You have never tried to make a relationship with your mother.
00:31:27They are close to them.
00:31:28No, no, no.
00:31:30No, no.
00:31:31You don't say anything.
00:31:32I don't say anything.
00:31:33You have one-on-one terms with your mother-in-law.
00:31:36Excluding the husband.
00:31:38Yes.
00:31:38You have to sit on the side.
00:31:40Yes.
00:31:40Obviously, they are part of a family.
00:31:42Yes.
00:31:42You can avoid it.
00:31:44You can avoid it.
00:31:44There is so interference that your husband is so influenced.
00:31:47Yes.
00:31:48You have always tried to be close to them.
00:31:52Yes.
00:31:53Where did the conflict come from your mother-in-law?
00:31:56I have never tried to be able to do the work.
00:31:58As I had to admit, I used to admit that this was not going to be like it.
00:32:02It was not.
00:32:04I was like that.
00:32:05You have to ask that.
00:32:06You have to say that you have never felt the same thing when you are telling me.
00:32:08The jealousy is the factor of the person's jealousy.
00:32:12Yes.
00:32:12It is in the human nature.
00:32:15You have to be jealous often.
00:32:16Yes.
00:32:16Because it is a person.
00:32:19It is a person.
00:32:19A person.
00:32:22It is a person.
00:32:23It is a person.
00:32:24Okay.
00:32:25She has a mother who saw her daughter's daughter and she came to the mother and she came to
00:32:31her relationship.
00:32:32But she has a difference in both relationships and jealousy.
00:32:36So, you have never felt this jealousy that you share her with her son.
00:32:42So, that's why she does this.
00:32:44Or she does this.
00:32:46She does this.
00:32:46She does this.
00:32:47She does this.
00:32:47She does this.
00:32:48She does this.
00:32:49Yes, she does this.
00:32:52And she does this.
00:32:52Okay.
00:32:53And how many daughters do you have?
00:32:55Four daughters.
00:32:56So, that's all?
00:32:57Yes, it is.
00:32:58And they are all controlled under her mother?
00:33:00Yes, it is.
00:33:01Yes, it is.
00:33:02Yes, it is.
00:33:02What a mother said, that's it.
00:33:05If a mother said to me, she said to me at night, she said to me at night.
00:33:08If a mother said to me, she said to me, what would I say to her?
00:33:12I can't say anything.
00:33:14In this world, you have two.
00:33:16Either you have to fight for a full-on fight, or stand up for a difficult time.
00:33:19And then you have to fight.
00:33:21Because if you stand up for something, then your child will see it tomorrow.
00:33:25Yes.
00:33:25Like they said, you have to normalize something.
00:33:28Yes.
00:33:28The child is now passing through trauma.
00:33:31If it is growing, then at some point, it will backfire for you.
00:33:36The child will say, you are not standing for yourself.
00:33:39What are you telling me?
00:33:40This happens.
00:33:41Then you have to fight for a while.
00:33:42You are not standing for the child.
00:33:44They are so rebellious.
00:33:46Because kids are not so naive.
00:33:49They are understanding.
00:33:50They are observing the emotional intelligence in the kids.
00:33:52They are observing the kids.
00:33:54If they are growing, they can't be against them.
00:33:56My mother never stands for me.
00:33:58What will it take for me?
00:33:59If you are always living in the emotional realm, please, there is no value for them.
00:34:04You don't have to fight for your rights, you don't have to fight for your rights.
00:34:11You stand with your husband and go to the point that you don't have to ruin your life.
00:34:18There are two things that you are saying.
00:34:21I will pick from Dr. Noshin.
00:34:25Don't take everything negative.
00:34:27What do you know?
00:34:29They have so much domination.
00:34:31And domination is a person who is right.
00:34:34When they go to the same time, they go to the same time.
00:34:38In a house, the father's decision is not right.
00:34:42But the children are right.
00:34:45They go to the same thing.
00:34:47Automatically, the children and the whole family,
00:34:50and the husband's fault,
00:34:52they go to the same direction.
00:34:53They feel like we are understanding.
00:34:55Why do we listen to it?
00:34:57If the woman is listening to the house,
00:35:00there is no difference in the woman.
00:35:02Exactly.
00:35:03I'm going to ask the question.
00:35:03Do you have a question?
00:35:05The children are listening to it.
00:35:07The children.
00:35:08We are listening to it.
00:35:09The children are listening to it.
00:35:10The system is in the house.
00:35:12It's a spark.
00:35:13The woman's husband and younger.
00:35:16Yes.
00:35:17What is this kind of knowledge?
00:35:20What is it?
00:35:21There is no such a popular book.
00:35:23No, I don't know.
00:35:25It doesn't matter.
00:35:26You start with your face.
00:35:30What kind of a popular book is that you are looking for?
00:35:34You can't sit on a fence, either you will be here or there.
00:35:37There are two options.
00:35:38You are sitting and standing on your stand.
00:35:42I don't want your part of the interference.
00:35:43I thought that.
00:35:45Then you have to stand and stand.
00:35:47Then it's a big thing.
00:35:47If something happens, I will stand.
00:35:52But it will be a way to stand.
00:35:54You don't want to be angry.
00:35:55You don't want to get trauma.
00:35:57That will be a way to take yourself.
00:35:59Or you have to surrender.
00:36:02And go with your soul.
00:36:04Okay.
00:36:05This is the conclusion.
00:36:06You also give it as an expert.
00:36:09Then I will go to the break.
00:36:10So we will close this situation.
00:36:13When your husband is saying something
00:36:15that he is listening to his mother.
00:36:18You have to say one sentence.
00:36:20There is no need to be a lot.
00:36:23You don't need to be a lot.
00:36:26Because I have taken a stand.
00:36:28Whatever the matter is.
00:36:30Assertively and aggressively.
00:36:31Assertively and aggressively.
00:36:33There are no difference between kindness.
00:36:36Aggressive means that
00:36:37you have talked about fighting.
00:36:40Assertive means that
00:36:41you have created one
00:36:44and you have talked about it.
00:36:46You have talked about it.
00:36:48What you are saying is right.
00:36:50Your voice is straight.
00:36:53Slow.
00:36:54If you tell me in a voice,
00:36:56you will understand what you are saying.
00:36:58And you will not have a bad influence.
00:37:01First of all,
00:37:02you will tell them.
00:37:03You are saying that
00:37:04you are saying nothing.
00:37:06You are saying right.
00:37:07You are saying right.
00:37:10You are saying right.
00:37:11So many wonders get completely vendo.
00:37:18If one of our semblance is wrong.
00:37:22If people are wrong,
00:37:23you are saying right.
00:37:25When you hate her mother-in-law of mine.
00:37:27Now come on with a word that
00:37:29You all have to tell me that
00:37:32I know that my mother-in-law is doing this, but if they have a lot of thinking about it,
00:37:40then you tell me that my child has affected you in the door.
00:37:44And the whole situation is that you have told me that it fell,
00:37:49but that's what you told me that my mother had to fight like this,
00:37:53and she has affected me for 6 years, that she is being stopped.
00:37:56If they have so much thought that the child is falling, they will make this thing.
00:38:04That the child is traumatized.
00:38:08If they are so much understanding and bad, they will not believe that.
00:38:13If they have such a bad woman, they will not believe that.
00:38:16There is no understanding and domination,
00:38:19when they prove themselves.
00:38:23If you have a domination in your house, there will be a history of its domination.
00:38:29After a break, we are with you. Good morning Pakistan.
00:38:37Welcome back. Good morning Pakistan.
00:38:40There are many situations that you can relate to, that you can also relate to your home.
00:38:46And listen to those situations and conclusions, you can understand how to react and how to do it.
00:38:55So, I have all of them here, and all of them will help us.
00:39:00Yes, welcome back to everyone.
00:39:03I was young and I was very young.
00:39:06I was very happy to say that my home was very appreciated.
00:39:09I was very happy to say that my child was very happy.
00:39:11What do you say to everyone?
00:39:13And what happened to me?
00:39:15That I was very happy to say that my child was very happy.
00:39:15When I grew up, I was married.
00:39:16And when I was married, my wife was the same habit.
00:39:19I wanted to say that.
00:39:22But the thing in my life, I feel very degraded.
00:39:28My parents were tired of me.
00:39:31I was alone, I was alone.
00:39:34I was alone in my room.
00:39:35And I didn't talk to my own stories.
00:39:36I have to say that I am very happy.
00:39:37I have to say something about this.
00:39:38My parents have appreciated it.
00:39:39It's the truth.
00:39:41I was angry at that.
00:39:44I was angry at that.
00:39:45I was angry at that.
00:39:47I started to cry from my husband
00:39:51and cry at that.
00:39:53I have to cry at that.
00:39:54I was angry at that.
00:39:56My husband was a little bit
00:40:00and I had to throw a cup of tea and put it on the face.
00:40:03I had to throw a cup of tea and
00:40:05My husband told me that I am very happy.
00:40:08You go to my house.
00:40:09I called my house and sent my house.
00:40:11Then they sent a devil's paper.
00:40:14He sent a devil's paper.
00:40:15He sent a devil's paper.
00:40:15He said that your daughter is very ill.
00:40:17She is a child.
00:40:19She calls me.
00:40:21When I went to my house, my daughters give me a message.
00:40:25You have lost your house.
00:40:27You will have lost our house.
00:40:30That is the shock of my childhood.
00:40:31In my childhood, I was very shocked.
00:40:33I used to say that I am a child.
00:40:36You are bolded.
00:40:38Yes.
00:40:39I have been bolded.
00:40:42I have been divorced for three years.
00:40:44I am very disappointed.
00:40:46My daughters don't treat me well.
00:40:49They give me my daughter.
00:40:51In my life, everything is your child's game.
00:40:55Your child is like that.
00:40:58If your child is sweet,
00:41:14you will get the respect to your child.
00:41:16We find yourself very sweet.
00:41:21And you have the respect.
00:41:24You've been wrong.
00:41:24So you will get the respect to your child.
00:41:28have to think about it.
00:41:31This is the treatment of father's parents.
00:41:35A lot of homes have seen as if father's family,
00:41:38but daddy is also taking theangers,
00:41:43then parents have a moan to be able to
00:41:46be a person.
00:41:47To make a big deal about that.
00:41:49We've seen a lot of the drama and they've seen it.
00:41:54So when parents have not been able to see it,
00:41:58If you want to go to the other house, give me a love to give it to you and give
00:42:02it to you and give it to you, then the mother is able to do it on the child.
00:42:06So that is a balanced personality that comes in front of you.
00:42:10Please, please, take care of both of you.
00:42:14Because there is a new life here.
00:42:17They are not able to survive in the house or survive in the house.
00:42:23Yes.
00:42:23It is the same thing that when you were married, you would have to tell your parents at the beginning
00:42:31of the beginning that they are more angry.
00:42:35You are dead.
00:42:36You are dead.
00:42:36Yes, you are dead.
00:42:37Yes, you are dead.
00:42:38My house has told me that this is right.
00:42:40But this is not the right thing in me.
00:42:43What did you tell me about it?
00:42:45My house has told me that you have to go there and control everything on your life.
00:42:51I have to control everything on my life.
00:42:53But I did not control everything on my life.
00:42:55Okay.
00:42:56It is the same as I live in my own house.
00:42:58Okay.
00:42:58So did you show some self-consciousness?
00:43:01No.
00:43:01No.
00:43:03No.
00:43:32No.
00:43:43No.
00:43:45No.
00:43:48No.
00:43:49No.
00:43:55No.
00:43:56No.
00:44:03No.
00:44:04No.
00:44:07No.
00:44:19No.
00:44:23No.
00:44:24No.
00:44:34No.
00:44:39No.
00:44:41No.
00:44:42No.
00:44:42No.
00:44:42No.
00:44:42No.
00:44:42No.
00:44:42No.
00:44:42No.
00:44:43No.
00:44:44No.
00:44:44No.
00:44:44No.
00:44:46No.
00:44:46No.
00:44:47No.
00:44:48We were told that I wouldn't accept what I would say.
00:44:51Yes.
00:44:51If I could not stop with me.
00:44:54This means that the girl is a untrained person.
00:44:57Yes.
00:44:57If we say that this child is a ladla,
00:45:00we didn't train any of us.
00:45:02Yes.
00:45:03We didn't let the car break it.
00:45:05We left the car in the auto.
00:45:06Yes.
00:45:07We didn't let the car break it.
00:45:09We didn't do any service to that car.
00:45:12This is the father's son.
00:45:14Yes.
00:45:15The father's son is the one who does not break it.
00:45:17Yes, I can't do that.
00:45:21You've said that his name is your father.
00:45:23That's why I said that you can't do it.
00:45:23You've shared it.
00:45:25People who are saying what he's saying,
00:45:29he's not a mother.
00:45:31He's not a mother.
00:45:33He's trying to call it.
00:45:34He's trying to call it.
00:45:35He's trying to call it himself.
00:45:43Because he's trying to call it.
00:45:46Yeah, there are many children, and girls.
00:45:51Yes, girls too.
00:45:53Not trained.
00:45:53Yes, the love, love and love.
00:45:57What happened?
00:45:58They have no children or their end result of their life.
00:46:03Because they are friends and their friends,
00:46:06they are good friends or their colleagues,
00:46:08they are good friends or their professional.
00:46:14So, as soon as I would like to talk about my family, I would like to talk about my family,
00:46:25because of the family, my family, my family and my family, my family and my family loved
00:46:28My family, my family, my family, my family, my family, my family.
00:46:29And my family.
00:46:30I was very proud of them.
00:46:33He had told me that he came to electric chair.
00:46:35Ha ha ha.
00:46:36He said that he had a very much murdered.
00:46:38and then murdered her. She told me that my mother didn't leave me, I don't give me, I don't give
00:46:45me.
00:46:45Because my mother got me. Every little girl when I used to do my mother, my mother gave me.
00:46:54And when I gave someone to give someone to someone to kill someone, they gave me protect me.
00:46:59It was a popular one that she said that she said that I'm not right, my mother is right.
00:47:06She told me that my mother didn't leave me. She told me that if you are not trained,
00:47:16and you are giving a sweet name to my mother, then the child will create a problem for her.
00:47:25The future is wrong.
00:47:28What do you want to say?
00:47:28The first time, we always see victims, and they are telling me that I will appreciate you for that.
00:47:36Secondly, the second thing, you have removed the problem.
00:47:40Yes.
00:47:43The second thing, you have to know that you are wrong.
00:47:47You are not entitled to what you were before.
00:47:50Now you have to know that the problem is that you all have learned.
00:47:53You are wrong.
00:47:55You are wrong.
00:47:55Yes, absolutely.
00:47:56But you are wrong.
00:47:59You are wrong.
00:48:00But the second thing is that you are wrong.
00:48:04What do you want to say in your life?
00:48:06Yes, I am wrong.
00:48:09I am wrong.
00:48:10I am wrong.
00:48:10I am wrong.
00:48:11I am wrong.
00:48:11I am wrong.
00:48:12You have to do this.
00:48:13You have to do this.
00:48:23I am wrong.
00:48:25You are wrong.
00:48:26I am wrong.
00:48:26You have to do this.
00:48:27You have to go through it.
00:48:28But it is not too much.
00:48:29It is not too much.
00:48:29It is not too long.
00:48:30It is too long.
00:48:33It is just that you are wrong.
00:48:35For the rest of your life, we can do it for life.
00:48:46For the rest of your life well.
00:48:47And it is too long.
00:48:48For men and children, if you are the wrong two times, you can do it.
00:48:53So, give a place with happiness and positive you, so all your work is on your own.
00:49:00Because if you have a good relationship, if there is a good value in your life,
00:49:05if you want your brothers, brothers and sisters to live well, then you have to work on your own.
00:49:13If you feel that you are not wrong, then do a walk-out, do a good life and no regret.
00:49:19What do you think about your friends and sisters?
00:49:21Many girls like you, they want to do the right thing, but they don't have to control their hands.
00:49:29They don't have to control their feelings, their feelings, their bitter feelings.
00:49:36They know that this is a problem with them, whether it's a man or a woman.
00:49:40But they don't have to control their feelings.
00:49:44So, what should they do for them?
00:49:45What should they do for them?
00:49:47Look, if you have a person, you don't have to control their feelings.
00:49:55If you have a property problem or something, then you will go to the property dealer.
00:50:00If you have a legal problem, then you will go to the clerk.
00:50:10If you have a doctor, then you will go to the doctor.
00:50:11He will say, I will refer you to a psychologist.
00:50:16If you have a problem, then you will be aware of it.
00:50:19Because your problem is a shame.
00:50:22The people who understand the feelings and understand the feelings are less.
00:50:27The people who understand the feelings are less.
00:50:30So, it is not much like Pakistan, it is much like 4-5,000, this is not much like psychologists
00:50:35and psychiatrists.
00:50:36In the middle of this decade.
00:50:38I had a show where a nutritionist came from and told me that these people who are hungry,
00:50:46food, food, murghans, they all eat, scientifically, they are angry and aggravating their lifestyle.
00:50:55What is this?
00:50:57My food is good.
00:50:59I don't know what I'm saying.
00:51:01They told me that chicken is eating fast food.
00:51:06You eat fast food?
00:51:08Yes.
00:51:10Biryani, plow.
00:51:12Biryani and plow are a good thing at home.
00:51:15But if you are eating fast food, there are GMOs and dietitians.
00:51:23But there are things that change our hormones.
00:51:27So it comes from that anger.
00:51:30The anger comes from that anger.
00:51:32Yes.
00:51:33The anger comes from that anger.
00:51:35When I'm happy from inside, I'm happy.
00:51:38What are you happy with?
00:51:39I'm happy with the anger.
00:51:41The body is gone.
00:51:42Yes.
00:51:43If I'm happy with the anger, I'm happy with the girls.
00:51:47I'm happy with the girls.
00:51:47I'm happy with the girls.
00:51:49I'm happy with the girls.
00:51:49But when I'm angry, I don't see anything.
00:51:52And what anger comes from?
00:51:53What are you happy with?
00:51:54What happens?
00:51:55If I'm happy with the girls, I'm happy with the girls.
00:51:58Okay.
00:51:59I'm happy with the girls.
00:52:01You are financially independent, do you do something?
00:52:03Yes.
00:52:04You do your job.
00:52:05I do my job.
00:52:06I don't do a job.
00:52:07I do business.
00:52:08I do a job, I do a little.
00:52:09I do a job on the job.
00:52:24If you like to play with children, you can study in the school.
00:52:28Yes, I think.
00:52:31They will be angry.
00:52:34First of all, you need to figure out.
00:52:37Yes, I've said that I had a cup of tea and gave me a cup of tea.
00:52:42Tell me.
00:52:45If there is a cup of tea in the family, then what will the kids become?
00:52:50No, it's also the whole family.
00:52:53It happens.
00:52:54Although the cup of tea is warm and warm.
00:52:58What is it?
00:53:00First of all, why did you take a home?
00:53:02Why didn't you take a home?
00:53:04Why didn't you take a home?
00:53:07They told me that you are selfish.
00:53:10When I said something, I felt a fire.
00:53:12Why do you say that?
00:53:13If you tell me that to be selfish, when a person gets more emotional,
00:53:21then it will be selfish.
00:53:22When you do the treatment, then it will be okay.
00:53:25But people understand that if they say selfish,
00:53:28then they say other words.
00:53:30I don't know.
00:53:30You can't tell them.
00:53:32No, you don't know.
00:53:32From our side, you have to say nothing.
00:53:34To translate your emotions or know.
00:53:37Wait to ask you.
00:53:39You are happy to learn your emotions.
00:53:39So take notes, just read books.
00:53:42Little novels.
00:53:43Remember to get busy.
00:53:45That they all get in vain.
00:53:46You have anger and anger.
00:53:50You have anger and anger.
00:53:54You have anger and anger.
00:53:57You have anger and anger.
00:53:58Now I'm crying.
00:54:00When I'm in my house, I'm divorced.
00:54:03Your anger is better than crying.
00:54:06I'm crying.
00:54:07I'm not crying at night.
00:54:08Even my anger is disturbed.
00:54:11You know that I have sympathy.
00:54:13It's a good person.
00:54:13I'm crying.
00:54:14But it's a good person.
00:54:17If you're ill, you're fine.
00:54:21Don't say that.
00:54:22You need help.
00:54:24Think about anger management.
00:54:28You have anger management.
00:54:31You have anger management.
00:54:33You don't need anger management.
00:54:35You have anger management.
00:54:37I'm sad that my brother told me
00:54:40how do I keep my mother?
00:54:41How do I keep my mother?
00:54:43But my brothers tell me
00:54:45that I don't have any problems.
00:54:46But when my brothers tell me
00:54:47that I'm very problems.
00:54:49One thing I want to tell.
00:54:50The love of father's father
00:54:51cannot be the best of siblings.
00:54:53God has made something else.
00:54:56He has made everything else.
00:54:57He has put everything on the child's good.
00:54:59He has put a lid on it.
00:55:02He has made them.
00:55:03Now, the children who are special,
00:55:05how much of father is being the first child,
00:55:06how much of father does care.
00:55:08How much of father does care.
00:55:09How much of father can do.
00:55:11How much of father does care.
00:55:11You can't compare siblings to father.
00:55:14They are very different.
00:55:16They have siblings who are born with father,
00:55:17they have married,
00:55:19they have different.
00:55:21Do you have a family?
00:55:23Yes, you have a family.
00:55:25Your parents are still not strong.
00:55:26When they go to their hands, they stay in their hands, they stay in their children's lives.
00:55:33I just want to say that the children don't ever say what they do, they do.
00:55:37The children always teach good and good.
00:55:40The love of the mother-in-law is basically that their children take a discipline,
00:55:45and take a look at their bad things.
00:55:49This is not a love.
00:55:51The popular parents are wrong parents.
00:55:55Parents are not popular.
00:55:59Parents say that their parents are like this, their mother is like this.
00:56:03This means that their children are right.
00:56:05And if they are saying that their parents are very good, their mother is very good.
00:56:11This means that their children don't have to be trained.
00:56:15This means that when you have to be honest,
00:56:18you are thankful for your parents.
00:56:20The popular parents are so much.
00:56:24They are so much.
00:56:30They are so much.
00:56:32But now I'm standing up and standing up and thank them.
00:56:36They are so thankful.
00:56:37They are so thankful.
00:56:38You have to be thankful for your parents.
00:56:40Because when you are wisdom, you are so thankful.
00:56:43You are so thankful for your parents.
00:57:00You are so thankful.
00:57:01You are so thankful for your parents.
00:57:04We are so thankful for your parents.
00:57:05Now, we are basically discussing this.
00:57:07Sabine is with us.
00:57:10Sabine is with us and what situation should we share?
00:57:13Yes, my marriage was fixed with my husband.
00:57:18But it happened that my husband was involved with someone else.
00:57:23They were married with me.
00:57:26They were married with me.
00:57:27But they did my family.
00:57:30We are together with a joint family.
00:57:33I've never seen my ex-fiancy.
00:57:37I'm happy with them.
00:57:38I'm happy with my husband.
00:57:43My husband is very good.
00:57:45I've never been married with me.
00:57:50But I'm so happy with them.
00:57:53Whenever I see them,
00:57:55I'm happy with my husband.
00:57:57My husband is very good.
00:57:59My husband is very good.
00:58:03My husband is very good.
00:58:05I'm happy with my husband.
00:58:07I have been happy with my husband.
00:58:09I have been so happy with my husband.
00:58:11But I've never realized that I'm wrong.
00:58:15I get so mad at this place.
00:58:18I'm so happy with my father.
00:58:21But I do not believe my husband.
00:58:23I try to help my husband.
00:58:25When I am looking for a good life, I realized that he is in the world and has no difference
00:58:37in his life.
00:58:38Why did I not finish my anger?
00:58:40I feel like my anger has become my habit.
00:58:44I don't want anyone to get out of it, but I want to get out of it on the husband.
00:58:47I think that the person is the same.
00:58:51You are still with us?
00:58:53We are not with us.
00:58:55You can't be with us.
00:58:57When they reject the relationship,
00:59:01my father and my father have said that they are still with us.
00:59:05So they have made my marriage with us.
00:59:07But I feel like you should not be with us.
00:59:11You should not be with us.
00:59:13You are wrong with us.
00:59:17This is because there is no struggle with me.
00:59:21Everything is right.
00:59:22But when the person comes to me,
00:59:24I look at my husband,
00:59:26I think that I am wrong.
00:59:28And I am trying to change myself.
00:59:32But it doesn't happen to me.
00:59:33How did you get married?
00:59:35I am about 15 years old.
00:59:36I am wrong with you.
00:59:37My kids are still all the way.
00:59:40When I feel like my husband is in my life,
00:59:42I feel like I am wrong.
00:59:44That I feel like my husband is jealous.
00:59:47I feel jealous.
00:59:49I feel guilty.
00:59:50And I feel like if I get married for my husband,
00:59:54I feel like my husband is in my home.
00:59:58My husband is in my husband.
00:59:59But I feel like my husband is in my husband.
01:00:06I am not able to get excited about the husband's place,
01:00:08and I don't want to get upset about the husband's place.
01:00:11I feel scared myself to have a problem.
01:00:14I've always tried to do it twice,
01:00:17but it's a scene, it's been an accident and there's a guilt.
01:00:21And all the guilt are my husband's place.
01:00:24They call me...
01:00:26I don't have kids, I don't have to say that my husband is my place.
01:00:32Or I feel like I accept my house and reject me.
01:00:38And that's why I'm angry with my husband.
01:00:41Look, they will come in a few days, eat time,
01:00:46if you're living in a single house.
01:00:48Does this happen every time or ever?
01:00:51I've never seen someone in a good movement.
01:00:53I see that, they are happy.
01:00:55They are happy with me and they are jealous.
01:01:01I'm here.
01:01:03I'm here and I'm here with my husband.
01:01:05And I feel happy with her.
01:01:07My husband is very happy.
01:01:09But I feel like the rejection is my heart.
01:01:15And that rejection is still with me.
01:01:17The pain is going through.
01:01:20It's not just that it's not gonna happen.
01:01:22it is not going to heal because that is what is in front of you.
01:01:27There are times that are not going to die, but the time is going to die when they are not
01:01:30going to die.
01:01:31They are going to be happy or they will be watching their romance at home.
01:01:37Here they are good at their own family.
01:01:39The thing is, they are here and are going to be right.
01:01:42This is exactly right.
01:01:43If they are not good at their own family, then it is a natural thing.
01:01:48There is no intention of being a person.
01:01:49It is not good at the time.
01:01:50They are very good at the time.
01:01:52If they are going to be closer together because of their marriage,
01:01:57they are not good at the time.
01:01:57But if they are going to look at their marriage,
01:01:59if they are in their marriage,
01:02:02they should be right away from their marriage.
01:02:05They should be the person who reject,
01:02:09they should be the person who didn't this husband.
01:02:11They should be the person who fixed it.
01:02:12Their marriage is the person who doesn't look well.
01:02:14It's so many years.
01:02:15And if you have your father and dia for your marriage, then you just need to protect yourself.
01:02:23So, if you will die with me, I don't need to you.
01:02:32So, if you don't want to marry me, I don't want to marry you.
01:02:45They have accepted them and married them.
01:02:48They need to accept their marriage and their husband.
01:02:52They should be aware of it.
01:02:55This is wrong.
01:02:57You can tell them how you can tell them.
01:03:02The mindset of the human being makes them themselves.
01:03:07And they make them that they don't get hurt.
01:03:11They don't get hurt.
01:03:14They don't get hurt.
01:03:17They don't get hurt.
01:03:20They will make them that they will make them.
01:03:24They will make them.
01:03:26In the mind of the mind of the mind,
01:03:28it is not a shape.
01:03:31Or we can see them.
01:03:34We can see them.
01:03:37Our mind is the same.
01:03:39Our mind is the same.
01:03:42When we write the mind of the mind,
01:03:45it becomes tangible.
01:03:46It is the same.
01:03:47It is the same.
01:03:48First of all, you start writing your thoughts.
01:03:52Take a book and write your thoughts.
01:03:55When you write your thoughts.
01:03:56You have to write a book and write a book.
01:03:58You have to write a book and write a book and write a book.
01:03:59A short one.
01:04:00Because I had written a diary.
01:04:01The diary and the thoughts of the mind.
01:04:04I told you what happened.
01:04:06I had to write everything.
01:04:09My husband also read a diary.
01:04:11but they didn't have any reaction to me.
01:04:15They said, let's go.
01:04:16Now you get normal.
01:04:19I'm normal.
01:04:20Do you have a love for them?
01:04:25I don't understand.
01:04:26I don't like it.
01:04:27She has a love for them.
01:04:29She has a love for them.
01:04:31She has a love for them.
01:04:34She has a love for them.
01:04:38She has a love for them.
01:04:39She has a love for them.
01:04:41If there was such a situation
01:04:42that the relationship was gone,
01:04:45then they should not marry them.
01:04:49She said, I'm not going to go to the house.
01:04:52You have rejected me?
01:04:54No, I didn't do that.
01:04:56At that point, my mind came to me that
01:04:57it was rejected.
01:04:59I feel like it was rejected.
01:05:02You have rejected me.
01:05:05You have rejected me.
01:05:07Do you have a love for them?
01:05:10No, it was our arrangement.
01:05:11There was no such thing.
01:05:13After that, they did a lot of love for you.
01:05:17No, I really liked it.
01:05:19I really liked it.
01:05:21How many years did it?
01:05:22Two years ago, they didn't do that.
01:05:26They didn't do that.
01:05:27They didn't do that.
01:05:28It was just like the family.
01:05:29The family told me,
01:05:30let's go,
01:05:31let's go,
01:05:32let's take a picture of her.
01:05:34Feels like that.
01:05:35It was a lot of love for you.
01:05:37We did it.
01:05:38Did you see the red flags
01:05:40that my sister didn't like me?
01:05:44They didn't like me.
01:05:44They didn't like me.
01:05:44No, they didn't do that.
01:05:45They didn't have any positive response.
01:05:46They didn't have any negative response.
01:05:47They were normal.
01:05:49They were like,
01:05:59they are involved.
01:06:00more in the house.
01:06:02I am involved in the house.
01:06:05Mohsen Sahib,
01:06:06if you tell them,
01:06:11after marriage,
01:06:12and one year later,
01:06:14I will leave this woman.
01:06:16The family also says,
01:06:18when it's not a deal,
01:06:20what is going on with you?
01:06:22You only compare the two situations.
01:06:25They will marry you.
01:06:27Because,
01:06:28because,
01:06:28the love is not going on.
01:06:31There is an issue
01:06:33It is a very important issue.
01:06:37It is that
01:06:40a person with a friend
01:06:44who has a good relationship
01:06:45or a good relationship
01:06:47is being forced to
01:06:49his wife to leave
01:06:51her first wife.
01:06:53If it happens,
01:06:56if she is married
01:06:58if she is married,
01:06:58she wants to marry her.
01:07:00And she says,
01:07:01let me leave you again.
01:07:03She is talking about it.
01:07:05So,
01:07:05then,
01:07:05then,
01:07:06then,
01:07:10that,
01:07:10that,
01:07:10that,
01:07:15that,
01:07:23her,
01:07:27she is,
01:07:34she is going to make you
01:07:39sure
01:07:43she has to have
01:07:44some new things.
01:07:44So,
01:07:44that you have to be用 of it.
01:07:47But it is not that it has been sinked.
01:07:49But it is that the way that we have to forgive
01:07:52is the highest above that.
01:07:55Now, your investment in the way
01:07:57is not to be given.
01:08:01And why do you feel like
01:08:05that you are doing what you think
01:08:07that you are thinking about
01:08:09you are doing this.
01:08:10What are you doing?
01:08:11I don't understand.
01:08:41I don't understand.
01:09:19I don't understand.
01:09:23I don't understand.
01:09:54I don't understand.
01:10:25I don't understand.
01:10:25I don't understand.
01:10:31I don't understand.
01:10:32I don't understand.
01:10:32I don't understand.
01:11:23I don't understand.
01:11:55I don't understand.
01:12:25I don't understand.
01:12:52I don't understand.
01:12:53I don't understand.
01:12:54I don't understand.
01:13:25I don't understand.
01:13:26She said, I don't want to get married.
01:13:28That's why I don't want to get married.
01:13:32I don't want to get married.
01:13:34That's why I'm so frustrated.
01:13:35I've talked to my husband.
01:13:38I told him that this happened.
01:13:40So he's saying, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.
01:13:45I mean, he didn't give me any answers to me,
01:13:47that I'm very disappointed.
01:13:49I'm very concerned with that.
01:13:51My little girl is going to my friends.
01:13:53I'm going to my friends.
01:13:55I'm doing everything.
01:13:56My family is wrong.
01:13:58He will talk to me like this.
01:14:01But my husband is very angry.
01:14:04And I'm a child.
01:14:06I'm a child.
01:14:07I'm a child.
01:14:07I'm a child.
01:14:10My child is very upset.
01:14:12I'm a lot of tension.
01:14:14What will happen to my daughter?
01:14:15But my husband is not ready for understanding me.
01:14:18I'm so angry that I'm going to take my hands and take me.
01:14:22I'm a child.
01:14:24I'm not going to take my hands and take my hands
01:14:25and take my hands longer.
01:14:26And I'm going to take me now.
01:14:30And I'm standing here.
01:14:31I'm not looking at that.
01:14:33It's a lot of stress and,
01:14:34I'm not going to take my hands.
01:14:37Then my husband is standing here.
01:14:40Why does that mean that you can't do something?
01:14:47I'm ashamed.
01:14:49I'm afraid I'm afraid I'm not going to get tired.
01:14:50I'm not talking to my husband.
01:14:50But she isn't going to come to me.
01:14:51I'm not going to come to do that.
01:14:52you don't do it?
01:14:53they go to a shop
01:14:54their work has been reduced
01:14:58before they had a lot of time
01:14:59now they don't live?
01:15:01no, it was the beginning
01:15:02you can see
01:15:05the toxic people
01:15:08are toxic
01:15:09you have two daughters?
01:15:11yes, they have two daughters
01:15:12and they don't have a relationship with the father's daughter
01:15:16no, they are very angry
01:15:18they told me that mom
01:15:19you are angry
01:15:20you are angry
01:15:23they told me that mom
01:15:26you are angry
01:15:27this is a good answer
01:15:29if you want to be reduced
01:15:31if you want to be reduced
01:15:33you will be reduced
01:15:35you will be reduced
01:15:36if you understand
01:15:40if you understand
01:15:41that the wrong
01:15:43the wrong
01:15:43the wrong
01:15:45the wrong
01:15:46the wrong
01:15:46the wrong
01:15:50the wrong
01:15:50the wrong
01:15:50the wrong
01:16:07the wrong
01:16:09the wrong
01:16:11the wrong
01:16:13the wrong
01:16:15And the one who is listening, you will know that the two are wrong.
01:16:22Some things are coming from, but they are being given a response.
01:16:26Some things are so un-tuky, which one says, so un-tuky, that they are not giving a response.
01:16:33So this is something you can explain.
01:16:36And tell us, are there a kind of things that there is no relationship with that?
01:16:42Or is there a reality?
01:16:43No.
01:16:46Tell me.
01:16:47I was like, I was bored.
01:16:49I didn't answer the question.
01:16:50But until?
01:16:51But I also had a lot of trouble.
01:16:53I mean, what was your answer to those things?
01:16:56What was the problem?
01:16:57It was sometimes the problem that a person came to meet me.
01:17:02For a different type of person came to meet me.
01:17:04But when I was there.
01:17:06Why did I come?
01:17:07Okay.
01:17:08What did I come to you?
01:17:09What did I come to you?
01:17:09No.
01:17:09No.
01:17:10No.
01:17:11I'm not.
01:17:11I'm not.
01:17:11What's going on?
01:17:12I'm thinking about it.
01:17:13What's your issue?
01:17:14It's a little bit.
01:17:16It's a little bit of pain.
01:17:19If I was to put it on a dress,
01:17:33I was watching the suit,
01:17:35I had no idea.
01:17:37I'd like to do it.
01:17:38something is a problem at home.
01:17:44What have you replied to me during the summer?
01:17:48Because I didn't put dinner and didn't have a cake dennis.
01:17:53When they are saying why didn't leave you,
01:17:54then what would the answer be?
01:17:56I said that it has been finished so I didn't like what to do.
01:17:59It is a really good answer because I don't know how to eat food.
01:18:05I don't know what it is, but I don't know what it is.
01:18:08One thing, tell me, what is your mother, daughter, the rest of your family?
01:18:12Everyone, everyone.
01:18:13Is it their nature of the child?
01:18:15Have you ever asked about your child's nature of the child?
01:18:21I've never tried to talk about it.
01:18:24I've never given any answer to that.
01:18:27I've never said that this is the beginning.
01:18:30I've never said that this is the beginning.
01:18:32But I've never said that this is the beginning.
01:18:33When I was married, I've never said that this is the beginning.
01:18:39There's no one thing that they're wrong.
01:18:42When you're trying to talk about it,
01:18:44there's no one thing that's wrong.
01:18:46There's no one thing that's wrong.
01:18:51There's no one thing that's wrong.
01:18:53It's just like a joke.
01:18:54We also put a label on it.
01:18:56there's no one thing that you're trying to talk about it.
01:18:59There's no one thing that's wrong.
01:18:59Right.
01:18:59They're like,
01:19:01you're right, right?
01:19:03You're right.
01:19:03This is the one thing that's wrong.
01:19:05I haven't been told.
01:19:08They're as wrong.
01:19:09They're no one thing.
01:19:13If you're wrong,
01:19:14they're wrong.
01:19:22They're wrong.
01:19:23can we tackle how can we tackle?
01:19:24If they can help us, they can't do it.
01:19:27Help us.
01:19:28So, we can help them
01:19:30because we can't do it.
01:19:33We can't do it.
01:19:36We can't do it.
01:19:38We can't do it.
01:19:39We can't do it.
01:19:40We can't do it.
01:19:42So, we can't do it.
01:19:44Look at this.
01:19:45We can't do it.
01:19:48I don't know.
01:19:49I think that they don't have a relationship with a lot of people.
01:19:51This is a very good way of people.
01:19:57They can't get a relationship with their relationship.
01:20:00So how do they tackle that?
01:20:03It's a good way to get a good mood.
01:20:08Sometimes they can't get a good mood.
01:20:11Sometimes they'll get a couple of hours
01:20:14or two hours when they're going to get a good mood.
01:20:15Right?
01:20:17So you can train at that time.
01:20:20Right?
01:20:20Now you can see that you've seen a bear in the circus.
01:20:24You say, get up, he's standing.
01:20:27He says, sit down, he's sitting.
01:20:29So when the bear has the right thing in a human being,
01:20:33it's a good example.
01:20:35But what is a good example?
01:20:37First of all, you get the fear from the heart.
01:20:40Human beings are not untrainable.
01:20:43Human beings are trainable.
01:20:44And at any age of life.
01:20:47Sorry.
01:20:48کوئی بھی زندگی کا دور ہو.
01:20:51کتنا بھی کوئی انسان نہ ہو.
01:20:53اگر اس کے بیچ میں ہمیں ہمارے اندر صلاحیت ہو کے
01:20:56ہم change لائیں تو change آتا ہے.
01:20:58ایسا نہیں ہے.
01:20:59انسان اتنا ڈھیٹ نہیں ہے
01:21:01کہ وہ بالکل نہ بدلے.
01:21:03اور اپنی اولاد سے تو ہر ایک کو پیار ہوتا ہے.
01:21:06اور اولاد پیدا کر کے دینے والی جو بیوی ہے اس سے بھی پیار ہوتا ہے.
01:21:10ٹھیک ہے؟
01:21:10تو ہم جب ہم کوئی لیبل لگا لیتے ہیں نا کہ یہ شخص ایسا ہے
01:21:14تو ہمیں ایکچولی اس کی اچھائی میں سے بھی برائی دکھتی ہے.
01:21:18ٹھیک ہے؟
01:21:19اچھا اب بات یہ ہے کہ وہ آکے جو ٹوک رہے ہیں
01:21:22تو بیسیکلی ٹوکنے میں وہ چیزوں کو بہتر کرنا چاہ رہے ہیں.
01:21:26مثلا بہت دفعہ ایسا ہوتا ہے کہ ہم سائیاں آتی ہیں اور کچھ جو لوگ ہوتے ہیں وہ کچھ غلط
01:21:34بات بھی کوئی پٹی پڑھا جاتے ہیں.
01:21:36ٹھیک ہے؟
01:21:37مثلا کہہ جاتی ہیں اوہو دیکھو تمہارا شوہر کیسا ہے.
01:21:40لوگوں میں بھی تو چین نہیں ہوتا نا وہ دوسرے کے گھر کو چلتا بستا نہیں دیکھ سکتے.
01:21:45ٹھیک؟
01:21:46تو وہاں پہ میں یہ سمجھوں گی کہ آپ کے شوہر نے اگر یہ بات پوچھی مگر ابھی جو آپ
01:21:51نے بات پوچھی جرنلائز تو جس ٹائم پر ان کا موڈ اچھا ہو اس ٹائم پر آپ ان کے ساتھ
01:21:58تھوڑی سی دوستی تھوڑا تعلق پیدا کریں
01:22:00اور اس ٹائم پہ ان کو بتائیں کہ بہت سی چیزیں جو آپ کہتے ہیں نا وہ بڑی درست ہوتی
01:22:06ہیں بڑی مناسب ہوتی ہیں مگر آپ اپنا لہجہ اچھا رکھا کریں
01:22:10آپ لہجہ اچھا رکھیں گے تو مجھے بات سمجھ بھی آئے گی اور میں آگے سے میں بھی اسی لہجے
01:22:16میں بات کروں گی ٹھیک ہے مگر یہ بات کی جاتی ہے جب موسم اچھا ہوتا ہے
01:22:21جب دیکھیں ہمیشہ کنسٹرکشن کب کی جاتی ہے جب موسم اچھا ہوتا ہے کسی شخص نے کبھی بارشوں میں شروع
01:22:28کیا کام کے چلے آج ہم جو ہے دیوار اٹھانی ہے گھر کی بارش بھی شروع ہو چکی ہے اب
01:22:34ہم کریں نہیں ہمیشہ اچھے موسم کا انتظار کرتے ہیں
01:22:37اور ایسے مردوں کا ایک مسئلہ وہ بھی ہوتا ہے کہ اگر ان کی پسند کا کھانا ان کی پسند
01:22:44کی کوئی چیز بنا کے رکھ لینا
01:22:46تاکہ وہ اگر اچھے موڑ میں ہے تو پھر بات شروع کی جاتا ہے
01:22:50اور وہ اگر آپ کے ساتھ کوئی نیکی کریں یا بھلائی کریں غلطی سے بھی کر لیں
01:22:54اول تو دیکھیں کوئی انسان سو فیصد تو برا نہیں ہوتا
01:22:57کوئی تو وہ نیکی کرتا ہے تو اس نیکی کو اپریشیئٹ کریں
01:23:01آپ جس چیز کو اپریشیئٹ کریں گی وہ عمل جو ہے وہ بڑھے گا
01:23:07جس عمل کو اپریشیئٹ کریں گی
01:23:09چھوٹا سا بچہ ہے وہ کوئی اچھا کام کرتا ہے
01:23:12مثلا کچھرا اٹھا کے ڈسپن میں ڈال دیا
01:23:14تو ہم اس کو کہتے ہیں گوڈ جوب
01:23:16اب وہ اس گوڈ جوب کے لیے دوبارہ وہ ہی کرے گا
01:23:20تو اس میں یہ کہ ہر انسان کو ستائش کی ضرورت ہوتی ہے
01:23:25تعریف کی ضرورت ہوتی ہے
01:23:26صحیح ہے
01:23:27اس معاملے پر ٹھیک ہے آپ کہہ سکتی ہیں
01:23:29کہ مجھے میرے ساتھ وہ ایسا کیوں نہیں کر رہے
01:23:32مگر اصل میں مسئلہ ان کا ہے نا
01:23:34وہ آپ کو سمجھ آگئی ہے کہ مسئلہ ہے ان کے ساتھ
01:23:38اور وہ اپنے مسئلے میں تھوڑے سے بے بس ہے
01:23:41جیسے شروع میں ایک خاتون آئی تھی
01:23:43کہہ رہی تھی مجھے غصہ بہت آتا ہے
01:23:45مگر میں بے بے بس ہوں کیا کروں
01:23:46تو کچھ لوگ ان کو یہ چیخ چلا کے
01:23:50وہ دوسرے کو یہ بتا رہے ہوتے ہیں
01:23:52کہ مجھے ہیلپ کی ضرورت ہے
01:23:53دکٹر نوشین جیسے فور ایسامپل
01:23:56اگر یہی برطاؤ اگر ساس ہوتی ہیں
01:24:00اگر ان کے اندر یہ چیز ہوتی ہے
01:24:01اور اگر ان کی چار بہویں
01:24:03جو سب سے زیادہ دبنے والی بہو ہوتی ہے
01:24:05ہمیشہ اسی کو دبایا جاتا ہے
01:24:07تو کبھی کبار اب تو ان کی تو ایج پزر گئی
01:24:10لیکن جو بچیاں میں دیکھ رہی ہیں
01:24:12اگر آپ اس وقت باؤنڈی سیکٹ نہیں کرتے
01:24:14آپ کا میاں اس کو آپ کو
01:24:16غلط بات پہ بھی ٹوک رہا ہے
01:24:18صحیح بات پہ بھی ٹوک رہا ہے
01:24:20ہر وقت ٹوک رہا ہے
01:24:21اور آپ دپتی جا رہی ہیں
01:24:22ساری زندگی دپتی رہی ہیں
01:24:23تو پھر اس کی تو ایک عادت بن جائے گی
01:24:26اور پھر وہ بچی اپنی پوری زندگی روئنگ کرے گی
01:24:28اس کو یہ لیوریج دے کے
01:24:31کہ تمہارا غصہ تمہارا باہر کا بھی ہوگا
01:24:33تو آؤ مجھ پہ نکال دو
01:24:35تمہیں جو کتھارسس کرنا ہوگا
01:24:37تمہیں جو پنچن بیک بنا دو
01:24:40جو تمہیں ہے
01:24:42تو باؤنڈری سیٹنگ تو بہت ضرور ہے
01:24:44باؤنڈری سیٹ کرنا
01:24:44مگر لڑائی کرنا باؤنڈری سیٹنگ نہیں ہے
01:24:49آگے سے برابر کی لڑائی کرنا
01:24:52is not boundary setting
01:24:53boundary setting ہے
01:24:55خاموش ہو جانا
01:24:56میں نے ان سے پہلے ہی کہا
01:24:58کہ نہ تو میں آپ کو سبر سکھا رہی ہوں
01:25:00نہ جبر سکھا رہی ہوں
01:25:02اکلمندی کا تقاضی ہے
01:25:04کہ خاموش ہو جائیں
01:25:05میں ان کو وہ بات نہیں کر رہی
01:25:07جو ہمارے معاشرے میں بچیوں کو کہا جاتا ہے
01:25:09بس سبر کرو
01:25:10بس سبر کرو
01:25:11مگر اکلمندی بھی تو کوئی چیز ہے
01:25:14دانشمندی کیا چیز نہیں ہے
01:25:15اگر آپ رستے میں جا رہے ہو
01:25:17اور آپ کو لگے کہ
01:25:19سٹریٹ میں کچھ ڈاغ زدر سے ادھر پھر رہے ہیں
01:25:22اور آپ کے اوپر بھونک رہے ہیں
01:25:24تو آپ کیا کریں گی
01:25:26رکھ کے ہر ڈاغ کو سمجھائیں گی
01:25:28خاموش ہو جاؤ خاموش ہو جاؤ
01:25:30تم بھی خاموش ہو جاؤ
01:25:31آپ کا رویہ کچھ اور ہوگا
01:25:33تو بعض لوگ جو بعض انسان ہیں
01:25:36ان کے ساتھ ہمیں صاف سلام کر کے گزرنا پڑتا ہے
01:25:41وہ بہت ضروری ہوتا ہے
01:25:43اور وہ سبر یا جبر نہیں ہوتا
01:25:45وہ تو آپ اپنی ذات کو بچا رہے ہیں
01:25:47باؤنڈری سیٹنگ کر رہے ہیں
01:25:49تو باؤنڈری سیٹنگ
01:25:50بعض دفعہ خاموش رہ کے کی جاتی ہے
01:25:53وہ بھی باؤنڈری سیٹ ہو جاتی ہے
01:25:54دوسرے کو پتہ چل جاتا ہے
01:25:56کہ اس کو کوئی فرق نہیں پڑھنے والا
01:25:58میں کچھ بھی کہتا رہوں
01:26:00میری آواز بازگشت ہو کے
01:26:01میرے ہی کانوں میں آ رہی ہے
01:26:03اور دوسرے یہ ہوتا ہے
01:26:04کہ آپ اس ٹائم اس کو سمجھائیں
01:26:07جب اس کا ذہنی توازن درست ہو
01:26:12اس ٹائم پہ سمجھائیں
01:26:15یہ تھا ہمارا آج کا پروگرام
01:26:17اور اب ٹائم ختم ہو گیا
01:26:18لیکن بہت ساری باتیں آئے گیا
01:26:21بہت ساری لوگوں نے پک کی ہوں گی
01:26:22بیسکلی یہ پروگرامز ہوتے ہی
01:26:24اسی لیے ہیں کہ جب سمجھ نہیں
01:26:26آ رہا ہوتا اور آپ کبھی غلط
01:26:28لوگوں سے مشفرہ لے لیتے ہیں
01:26:30تو پھر وہ غلط مشفرے
01:26:32آپ کی زندگی کو اور بھی زیادہ
01:26:34تبہہ کر دیتے ہیں
01:26:35تو جب اس طرح کی کوئی
01:26:37ڈسکشنز ہوتی ہیں
01:26:38تو اس میں اپنی زندگی میں
01:26:41کون سا پزل کا حصہ سیٹ ہوتا ہے
01:26:43یہ آپ کو خود پتا ہونا چاہیے
01:26:45اب یہ ساری گفتگو ہوئی ہے
01:26:47اور جو بھی ریلیٹیبل آپ کی
01:26:49لائف سے کوئی بھی ایسا سبجیکٹ رہا ہے
01:26:51کوشش کریں
01:26:52وہ ساری باتیں
01:26:54اگر فلٹر کر کے
01:26:55اپلائے کر سکیں
01:26:56تو شاید اپنی
01:26:57کوالٹی آف لائف کو آپ
01:26:58بہتر بنا سکیں
01:26:59اور خالی اپنی نہیں
01:27:00اپنی اولاد کی بھی
01:27:02گوڈ مورننگ پاکستان
01:27:03خدا حافظ
01:27:11موسیقی
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