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00:00:06This morning is coming,

00:00:09Your lips will come,

00:00:11We'll come,

00:00:13We'll come,

00:00:14We'll come,

00:00:14We'll come.

00:00:20This morning is coming,

00:00:23This morning is coming,

00:00:34We'll come.

00:00:35Good morning,

00:00:36Good morning Pakistan,

00:00:38How are you?

00:00:40Good morning Pakistan,

00:00:40You are all right?

00:00:41Today is the first day of the week,

00:00:44And I'm going to share a little something from you,

00:00:47Now you can see it,

00:00:49It feels very good,

00:00:50Look at the screen,

00:00:52Yes,

00:00:53Now, I'm going to show you something on the screen.

00:00:56It's connected with a pair.

00:00:58They say that people are very shocked.

00:01:02They are buying a new shirt or fashion.

00:01:05They also look very good in the desert.

00:01:07So please, let me see.

00:01:10I didn't see you.

00:01:13My team is doing something technical.

00:01:16Why is that happening?

00:01:18I was going to share with you.

00:01:21I was going to want to share with you.

00:01:22I was going to share with you.

00:01:23The same thing,

00:01:23I'm going to share with you.

00:01:28I'm going to share with you.

00:01:33How are you doing?

00:01:36I'm going to share with you.

00:01:40So basically the statement piece made for runway and said that this is for daily wear.

00:01:53So the first impression was that wow, it's different, it's different, we've never seen it.

00:02:01The first impression on you is this.

00:02:02But if you use this practical use, you can change how human is wearing it.

00:02:06For beauty, it's quite a bit.

00:02:09Practically, you can wear those shoes.

00:02:12You can go and go.

00:02:15The garbage and the paper is, you can save your shoes.

00:02:21But if you don't want these shoes, you don't go.

00:02:27Where the furniture is in the house, it's your first house.

00:02:36so practically basically a big no, so many things in life are good to see, but when you practically apply

00:02:49it, you can understand that oh my god, this is wrong, and this is wrong,

00:02:58so if you do your error then don't forget your error to get the error.

00:03:08and if you catch a mistake, then you will get the error to get the error.

00:03:20Besides, children who make it together with their children,

00:03:25that the children and their families have seen them

00:03:28on the side of it, why are them all around?

00:03:30The children of parents, it's why they say they make it together,

00:03:33because they don't want to die that their children to repeat.

00:03:40They must all of their children

00:03:41lose their parents,

00:03:44which is basically an investment.

00:03:46because they have all the things that bear them.

00:03:51So they want to know why we don't have a child in that problem,

00:03:54which we already have come to.

00:03:57And sometimes they don't listen to their children.

00:04:00And when they get lost,

00:04:02they remember their children's story.

00:04:06They understood that this friend,

00:04:09this business,

00:04:11this profession,

00:04:12this girl,

00:04:15these girls,

00:04:17they don't have to do their hair.

00:04:17They don't have to accept their hair.

00:04:24So it sometimes takes a while to listen to their children.

00:04:26They say they are right.

00:04:28They are our own,

00:04:29our own good relationship.

00:04:31They can't think about it.

00:04:34So,

00:04:34basically,

00:04:36we are the great celebrities and celebrities here.

00:04:41We will share our mistakes.

00:04:42We will share our own stories and share them with you and we will not repeat those mistakes.

00:04:50But who has the mistakes of those mistakes that we have done for a while is that this is not

00:04:54the case of God yet?

00:04:57Why not we have the experience of this experience?

00:05:01We will not make the mistakes of our children and our children.

00:05:03We will share our stories with you and we will share some mistakes.

00:05:07I will forgive you, God forgive me, I will not do that again.

00:05:12After a short break, let's take a class. Good morning Pakistan.

00:05:25Welcome, welcome back. Good morning Pakistan.

00:05:28So, today you have a different panel.

00:05:32We will see you in the morning.

00:05:36Today we will see you in the morning.

00:05:40This is also a month.

00:05:43When you call it, you will see you.

00:05:45And then on the other side is my Atiyah Khan.

00:05:49As-salamu alaykum.

00:05:50Atiyah is the first time of my show.

00:05:52Yes.

00:05:54And you also have a little bit of work.

00:05:58They have a lot of work.

00:05:59They have worked so much.

00:06:00They have worked so much.

00:06:02No, they have worked so much.

00:06:04No, no, no.

00:06:04I talked about them.

00:06:06They have worked so much.

00:06:08They have worked so much.

00:06:08And we were fans.

00:06:10I started with modelling.

00:06:12So, we have a role model.

00:06:15Yes, how do they work?

00:06:17They have worked so much.

00:06:18But they have worked so much.

00:06:21So, you will ask.

00:06:23I have been interviewing for a couple of years.

00:06:25I think that now, because in the 90s,

00:06:27that time, the publications were reduced.

00:06:32The channels were reduced.

00:06:33So, the work was a lot of visibility.

00:06:38Yes, exactly.

00:06:39And our next guest is Sabrina Nathir.

00:06:42As-salamu alaykum.

00:06:43How are you?

00:06:44All right, how are you?

00:06:45All right, how are you?

00:06:45All right, all right.

00:06:47We will share our mistakes.

00:06:51Wow.

00:06:51We will share our mistakes.

00:06:54We will not repeat.

00:06:55But because you and Sabrina are here,

00:06:59I have a lot of questions.

00:07:00I will tell you about it.

00:07:00So, people can know about it properly.

00:07:05We'll go to it.

00:07:07We will know about it.

00:07:08How did it happen?

00:07:09How did it happen?

00:07:11How did it happen?

00:07:12How did it happen?

00:07:16So, I started modeling in the late 80s,

00:07:20early 90s.

00:07:23But in 21 years,

00:07:27I decided to go behind the camera.

00:07:31Okay.

00:07:32I mean, before that,

00:07:33I worked on the production.

00:07:34I was in the audio-visual department

00:07:37at Sasa advertising agency.

00:07:39That was a top agency.

00:07:41But I decided that

00:07:44now I won't come in front of the camera.

00:07:46Because there was a lot of confusion

00:07:47with clients and others.

00:07:49That you can do modeling,

00:07:50you can produce,

00:07:51you can do direct.

00:07:52So, I was like, you know,

00:07:54I have to make the distinction.

00:07:56Now I'm behind the camera.

00:07:57Yeah.

00:07:58So, in 21 May,

00:07:59I was in full-time direction

00:08:02or production

00:08:03in the production.

00:08:05Yeah.

00:08:06And I was completely

00:08:07in front of the camera.

00:08:10And I was completely

00:08:12in front of the camera.

00:08:35I love that.

00:08:36I love that.

00:08:36You have a lot of commercials.

00:08:38I love that.

00:08:41I love that.

00:08:42I love that.

00:08:43I love that.

00:08:44I love that.

00:08:45I love that.

00:08:46I love that.

00:08:48But you think that

00:08:49when you're 16-17 years old,

00:08:52you get so much visibility,

00:08:55so by the time you're 21,

00:09:00you have a hard time

00:09:03because you need the same

00:09:03It is not easy.

00:09:04The same thing is the same.

00:09:05Yeah.

00:09:06Yeah.

00:09:07Overwhelming.

00:09:07I agree.

00:09:08Because whatever your mistakes

00:09:09and whatever you're doing,

00:09:11it makes the world rules.

00:09:14I agree.

00:09:15You know what I mean?

00:09:15You are not allowed to grow up

00:09:19as normally.

00:09:21You have to be very careful.

00:09:27But at least we were lucky that social media didn't have.

00:09:31Oh my God.

00:09:32So many children who come to young age in showbiz,

00:09:37their mistakes are in the world.

00:09:40And they have just a chance,

00:09:42either they will become or they will become.

00:09:45There are so many beautiful children in industry

00:09:48which are the mistakes that will become from that age.

00:09:53But there was a lot of hair on them.

00:09:56That they will be this or that.

00:09:57So we opened up a lot of good faces.

00:10:00That they were going on a boom

00:10:02and then they were like a girl.

00:10:05Right?

00:10:06I agree.

00:10:07It's sad.

00:10:08So it's difficult.

00:10:10I think to have so much fame at a young age

00:10:14and to handle it is difficult.

00:10:15Yes.

00:10:16And the other thing, I felt boring.

00:10:18TV piano?

00:10:20I mean, in front of the camera,

00:10:22I felt more interesting behind the camera.

00:10:26Because in front of the camera,

00:10:28your role is very difficult.

00:10:30And you are dependent on everybody else

00:10:33for the final product.

00:10:35When you are behind the camera,

00:10:36when you are producing or directing,

00:10:38then the entire project is under your control.

00:10:41Captain of the ship.

00:10:42Yeah.

00:10:43Domination.

00:10:44It's not that.

00:10:45You can produce your vision.

00:10:47Yes.

00:10:47Rather than trying to fit into somebody else's vision.

00:10:50Right.

00:10:50Yes.

00:10:51Exactly.

00:10:52So that's why you are behind the camera.

00:10:53Then again,

00:10:54you have answered your answer.

00:10:55On screen.

00:10:56In the meantime,

00:10:57you have a little commercial.

00:10:58Yes.

00:10:58In the meantime,

00:11:00when I was divorced,

00:11:02then I bought some projects again.

00:11:05because obviously,

00:11:06financial,

00:11:07you know,

00:11:09let's quickly earn some money.

00:11:11So,

00:11:12at that time,

00:11:13I had some major campaigns

00:11:16about mobiling and more.

00:11:18Okay.

00:11:19So,

00:11:19that was my comeback.

00:11:21Which was,

00:11:22I think,

00:11:22in 2000,

00:11:25something,

00:11:267,

00:11:268,

00:11:27or something like that.

00:11:27Your mistake,

00:11:29which you gave our team,

00:11:31wrote in it,

00:11:31let's see.

00:11:32Early marriage.

00:11:34It's not bad.

00:11:35No.

00:11:36Early marriage is your mistake.

00:11:37I understand.

00:11:38It's not a mistake.

00:11:39It's not a mistake.

00:11:42It's not a mistake.

00:11:43It's not a mistake.

00:11:44It's not a mistake.

00:11:45It's not a mistake.

00:11:46If you don't get married in your 19-20s,

00:11:49then there's something wrong with you.

00:11:50How many years did you get married?

00:11:52My first marriage was at 19.

00:11:55Not bad.

00:11:56Wow.

00:11:56But then I was divorced at 21.

00:11:58Oh.

00:12:00And that's why you said,

00:12:01I don't want to stay on the screen.

00:12:03Exactly.

00:12:04Privacy.

00:12:05Exactly.

00:12:06Your whole life.

00:12:07Yes.

00:12:07As if they wrote it,

00:12:09I'll take my pictures.

00:12:10Then I'll say,

00:12:11my problem is,

00:12:12I'll talk from the morning.

00:12:14I'll talk from the morning.

00:12:15Look,

00:12:16I have no problem.

00:12:17I have no right.

00:12:18I have no right.

00:12:19I have no wrong.

00:12:19I will talk.

00:12:20Some faceless or baseless people

00:12:22who put my pictures

00:12:24and write their thoughts.

00:12:25At the morning,

00:12:26I've seen this picture.

00:12:27Someone has written on their thoughts.

00:12:30I have written on my thoughts.

00:12:32And it's quite wrong.

00:12:34What was the picture?

00:12:35It was so wrong.

00:12:35I was written on the picture,

00:12:35that I am saying,

00:12:36I am saying,

00:12:37I am saying,

00:12:38I am saying,

00:12:39What a fake profile is very bad.

00:12:43But this is, I have like 6-7 fake profiles.

00:12:48Fake profiles are something different.

00:12:49But they are pretending to be you.

00:12:53Now what do you do?

00:12:54I made a picture of that person.

00:12:57I made a picture of that person.

00:12:58Oh my god.

00:12:59I don't have to take it from the picture.

00:13:01I'm going to get a picture.

00:13:03That's why I made a picture of that person.

00:13:06Yes.

00:13:07Now you have to do it.

00:13:08Please, Pika Act,

00:13:10put it in the picture of someone's wrong.

00:13:12I agree.

00:13:13I agree.

00:13:14That's true.

00:13:15That's true.

00:13:16Anir Kapoor has a case in court.

00:13:18I have to do this case.

00:13:19Rightly.

00:13:20Yes.

00:13:20If we have our rights,

00:13:21if we have our pictures in social media,

00:13:23we have to use it,

00:13:25we don't know if we have to die.

00:13:26We have to write AI videos.

00:13:29Yes.

00:13:32I am with my friends.

00:13:33I am wrong.

00:13:35Okay.

00:13:36Anyways.

00:13:37Early marriage.

00:13:37First of all,

00:13:37Atiya's first mistake,

00:13:39which you would like to say,

00:13:41I don't have to do it again.

00:13:42Value of money.

00:13:43Yes.

00:13:44So, you know,

00:13:45my family upbringing,

00:13:50never given the importance of the money.

00:13:54I mean,

00:13:55never said that,

00:13:57yes,

00:13:58the money is also important.

00:13:59Come out.

00:14:00Save.

00:14:01Think of the future.

00:14:03The money was never discussed.

00:14:05It was never a consideration.

00:14:06Like,

00:14:07I see a lot of people that I know,

00:14:11yes,

00:14:11we have to get married with Amir.

00:14:12We have to secure it.

00:14:16At that time,

00:14:17it was very strange.

00:14:18It was very bad.

00:14:19Now,

00:14:20I think there is some logic behind this.

00:14:23Because,

00:14:24these are the hard facts of life.

00:14:26And,

00:14:26I think,

00:14:28that my parents should tell me this.

00:14:30I should know this.

00:14:31So,

00:14:32everything was creativity.

00:14:33And,

00:14:33everything was,

00:14:34you know,

00:14:35bohemian.

00:14:37Practical side of life,

00:14:40we have never given any attention and attention.

00:14:43Maybe,

00:14:44because,

00:14:44in your mind,

00:14:46yes,

00:14:46parents,

00:14:47father,

00:14:48you will see,

00:14:49you will see,

00:14:50you will see,

00:14:51but,

00:14:52you never,

00:14:53you know,

00:14:55prepared for the reality,

00:14:56what if you have to take care of yourself?

00:14:58Exactly.

00:14:59I agree.

00:15:00Because,

00:15:00in life,

00:15:01no one doesn't know,

00:15:02any time,

00:15:03you don't know,

00:15:04what is next,

00:15:06in your life,

00:15:07next year,

00:15:08next month,

00:15:09next day,

00:15:09next day.

00:15:10So,

00:15:11at least,

00:15:11some time,

00:15:11a lot,

00:15:11you will see.

00:15:14we are thinking,

00:15:14that we will think,

00:15:15that we will be strong,

00:15:15our father,

00:15:18our father won't win.

00:15:20Then,

00:15:21our father won't win.

00:15:22So,

00:15:22we think,

00:15:24what do we know,

00:15:25tomorrow,

00:15:26what do we need to do?

00:15:30Exactly.

00:15:30this is a tragedy.

00:15:32Because,

00:15:32I earned a lot at a very young age.

00:15:35But,

00:15:35the fact that I want to invest it,

00:15:38it is a long term,

00:15:39it is not that,

00:15:40we are spending our money, we are living with a yashii

00:15:45not thinking of the future, not planning

00:15:49even as a woman, I need my own

00:15:52but I will tell you something, I think

00:15:54what you are talking about, I am thinking

00:15:57but another side I have understood

00:16:00that in Karachi

00:16:01or if you understand that

00:16:04the city of Sindh is the Karachi

00:16:08there is a different perspective

00:16:10but here there are many multicultural people

00:16:14from different places, very good families

00:16:17so they thought that

00:16:20the education is important and the education is important

00:16:22so I think they have never put our commercialism into it

00:16:26I have started acting and modeling

00:16:31and we have done well in commercials

00:16:35so we will never learn financial management type

00:16:40but I have seen that

00:16:41it was a bad thing

00:16:43so they have never valued this thing

00:16:45so they have never thought that

00:16:47we will make a career

00:16:48but at that time it didn't happen

00:16:51but I have seen that

00:16:52at Punjab site

00:16:53this is a lot of learning

00:16:54that the children are suffering

00:16:56so they are losing their money

00:16:57so they have to make their assets

00:17:00make their family

00:17:01make their own assets

00:17:01you know

00:17:02they have to take a house

00:17:03and take a house

00:17:04and take five men

00:17:04you know

00:17:05this is a kind of a thought

00:17:06so I think that it's a culture

00:17:08I think I think it's a culture

00:17:09this is a good thing

00:17:11so our culture is a little issue

00:17:12overall culture is this

00:17:13although I am with a single family

00:17:15but I am with a single family

00:17:24Let me tell you, the awareness, in that time, it was not that.

00:17:29No, no, no, no, no.

00:17:30Now, as parents, we have to add to our children,

00:17:34that by value for money,

00:17:38whether they are a girl or a girl,

00:17:40if you are young, now you can see,

00:17:42many children don't have to do a job,

00:17:45they have to become a business man.

00:17:46They have to say,

00:17:47that we will do 9 to 5,

00:17:49we will do something else,

00:17:50we will do something else.

00:17:52So, today, Gen Z's are interested in business,

00:17:58in entrepreneurship,

00:18:00and this is the whole world.

00:18:02So, this is the time of value for money.

00:18:04Now, the time is changed.

00:18:06So, we have to balance our children.

00:18:09And also, because competition is so much,

00:18:11and it is so difficult,

00:18:12at that time,

00:18:14whatever you earn, you can make your house,

00:18:17you can manage your basics.

00:18:19You can manage it.

00:18:21Now, there is no problem.

00:18:22Now, the problem is.

00:18:23Now, you can check in the PTV.

00:18:24The small PTV of the check was not over,

00:18:26it was not made all things.

00:18:27Now, you are doing business,

00:18:28it is very difficult to make your house.

00:18:31Now, making your house is next to impossible now.

00:18:33Now, I think,

00:18:34if our mother has not given us to make our own house,

00:18:37so, today, if I try to make your house,

00:18:40It's not easy, not easy, I mean, you know, so you don't want to repeat your generation, but you know,

00:18:53if I had realized this 20-30 years ago, then maybe I made decisions different.

00:19:00Yes, but if you listen to the children, they can learn a lot, that we don't have to do this

00:19:09wrong.

00:19:11Now, the early marriage is written, I don't know why it is written, in which context it is written.

00:19:16They asked me, tell me, I said to them that the first thing is that I don't say any decision

00:19:22or regret, I own it.

00:19:26Yes, because at the time I made a decision, it was all right.

00:19:32With the time, when you grow, you learn.

00:19:36When you learn, your thoughts are changing.

00:19:39So that doesn't mean that if I made an early marriage, I would say that it was a wrong decision.

00:19:46It's not wrong, but not even right.

00:19:49Okay, I think I should give a little time for myself because I was 20 when I got married.

00:19:56And at that time, I had done modeling for 3-4 years.

00:19:58And you know, I thought that I was very big.

00:20:01No, I thought that I was very big.

00:20:0220 years old, I don't know why I have lost the world.

00:20:05I was very big.

00:20:06It was very big because I had decided to get married and it was not that long.

00:20:12No, no.

00:20:13It was the only thing that I had.

00:20:15It wasn't for me.

00:20:16It wasn't for me.

00:20:16It wasn't for us directly.

00:20:17It wasn't for us.

00:20:18It wasn't for me.

00:20:19It wasn't for us.

00:20:19My aunt said, I have a time.

00:20:21You can do this now.

00:20:23You can learn this.

00:20:24Yes, this is the thing.

00:20:24That's one thing.

00:20:26You don't listen to your mother's or parents.

00:20:30Then you think that you've done yourself.

00:20:34But I think that you need to give a little time.

00:20:38If you are in a career or in a study,

00:20:41you should definitely finish your study.

00:20:43You should complete your degree.

00:20:46And you should be able to take you financially.

00:20:51You should be independent.

00:20:51If you have anything that you want,

00:20:53then you don't have to ask someone to ask someone.

00:20:56If I'm tired from 16 years old,

00:20:59I feel very bad that I can tell you something that I want to pay for it.

00:21:03I can take it from my own money.

00:21:05Then I say, what do you want?

00:21:07I don't want to say anything.

00:21:09It doesn't feel good.

00:21:11So you need to have your own money.

00:21:14You need to buy whatever you want.

00:21:17I feel that I own every decision.

00:21:21Because when I did it, it was right.

00:21:24And if the result of the decision is right in the long run,

00:21:29then it's okay.

00:21:30But if you can bring more money in it,

00:21:33then you will say,

00:21:34I will say,

00:21:35at least 24-25 years old,

00:21:36you will complete your degree.

00:21:38Then,

00:21:39One more thing.

00:21:40As an independent woman,

00:21:43you should be financially independent.

00:21:46But it's your husband's responsibility

00:21:48to look after your needs.

00:21:50Yes.

00:21:52I will save you.

00:21:53Yes.

00:21:54Yes.

00:21:55Yes.

00:21:56Yes.

00:21:58Yes.

00:21:59Yes.

00:22:06Yes.

00:22:07Yes.

00:22:07So you may wanna steal the money of your customers.

00:22:17Yes,

00:22:18Yes.

00:22:19Yes.

00:22:20Yes.

00:22:30Yes.

00:22:32Detail the money of money.

00:22:37that you don't put extra burden on your partner.

00:22:42If there is a shock,

00:22:44then he will say that he will say that

00:22:46I can send you in a year for a while.

00:22:48I want to go for four times.

00:22:50Then you don't put extra burden on your partner.

00:22:52After a break, we come back again.

00:22:54And some mistakes happen at a certain age.

00:22:58Then when you get a little mature,

00:23:00they say that this was not a mistake.

00:23:01It was very good.

00:23:02We will talk about this later.

00:23:05Good morning.

00:23:11Welcome. Welcome back.

00:23:12Good morning, Pakistan.

00:23:14Today we are discussing with you

00:23:15which we will try to repeat in your life

00:23:20and share with you.

00:23:22Like they said,

00:23:24that it was a marriage.

00:23:26I felt like it was a mistake.

00:23:27I had a lot of marriage.

00:23:29I had a lot of children.

00:23:31I had a lot of my time.

00:23:33But now,

00:23:35at this stage,

00:23:36I felt like it was all right.

00:23:37I felt that it was not a mistake.

00:23:39I felt that it was a mistake.

00:24:04I was 20, right?

00:24:05Yes.

00:24:05I was 20, right?

00:24:07Yes.

00:24:08When I was 23 years old,

00:24:09my two children came to the world.

00:24:11But yes,

00:24:13again,

00:24:13the decision is better.

00:24:14You know,

00:24:15you know,

00:24:15when we are singing,

00:24:18we will be a cool dadi-nani.

00:24:21That's also cool.

00:24:21I am a cool dadi-nani.

00:24:32That's also cool.

00:24:44that was a little bit delayed.

00:24:45It was a little bit delayed.

00:24:46In the 30s,

00:24:4735 years old,

00:24:49and then they didn't get a lot of problems.

00:24:53You know,

00:24:54this new generation is extremely extreme.

00:24:57Either they are late婚,

00:24:58or they are 20,

00:24:59very early.

00:25:00class values.

00:25:01They will have love,

00:25:02they will not stop.

00:25:04They will marry.

00:25:04So, this is my father's work,

00:25:05to explain.

00:25:06As my daughter married,

00:25:08and she was only 22.

00:25:11But,

00:25:11because the girl was very good,

00:25:14her family was very good,

00:25:16there was no restrictions,

00:25:18she was going to continue working.

00:25:20So, I said,

00:25:20this is beneficial for her.

00:25:22So,

00:25:23I think,

00:25:24with her situation,

00:25:24with her merits.

00:25:26If someone is making a decision,

00:25:29and you are looking at red flags,

00:25:31you know,

00:25:31that this will be a problem.

00:25:35So,

00:25:36this is the thing that parents have to analyze.

00:25:37Because,

00:25:39we think that young children will be immature,

00:25:43or they will be so forced.

00:25:45We were.

00:25:45At that time,

00:25:47we were very immature.

00:25:48We didn't know the world.

00:25:50Today,

00:25:50the generation that I am looking at,

00:25:53are very sensible,

00:25:54very mature,

00:25:54very logical.

00:25:56the world is also open.

00:25:57They have more awareness.

00:25:59It is so easy.

00:26:00It is so easy.

00:26:01We didn't know,

00:26:02where to go out of Karachi?

00:26:03Yes.

00:26:04Where to go out of Hyderabad?

00:26:05Yes.

00:26:05And,

00:26:06what do we do?

00:26:06What do we do?

00:26:07What do we do?

00:26:08That,

00:26:08that,

00:26:10that,

00:26:11that,

00:26:12that,

00:26:13I have,

00:26:14a lot of free shoots.

00:26:19I did a lot of free shoots in modeling and they told me that you will get exposure and I

00:26:29did it and the other models

00:26:31and the other models are free. We are free. I was laughing at that.

00:26:38Now we get the money for shoots. No, but the other model was getting paid good money.

00:26:44We are getting the money. We are getting the money. I am your friend. I will do it again.

00:26:50And the budget is getting the money for others.

00:26:54I have become too nice.

00:26:55I have never met you. You will have a mistake.

00:26:57I have said that regret and I want to fix it.

00:27:00Because no one is your friend. You have to earn money. I work. I should respect it.

00:27:06This is what people understand.

00:27:09Exactly.

00:27:09I have heard a lot of fun from someone.

00:27:12If you have a friend with a friend, you will eat what?

00:27:15So many friends say, come on, you don't see your money. You see your relationships.

00:27:21Give and take.

00:27:22Yeah, you have a best friend.

00:27:23If you have worked in free, that will also work in your business.

00:27:29I do not do that.

00:27:31But a lot of people, especially when you become a celebrity,

00:27:34a lot of people come and give us our shout-out, our Vogue.

00:27:38I was a friend of your childhood.

00:27:40Look, my mother knows you. I am like, yeah, but I also work.

00:27:43This is our profession.

00:27:44Yes.

00:27:45This is our profession.

00:27:47I think sometimes you compromise.

00:27:48Why not so much?

00:27:49Because it's a quality project.

00:27:52And you want to be associated with that.

00:27:54Yeah, if it was Vogue, I would love to go.

00:27:55Exactly.

00:27:56Look, I have really liked such projects.

00:27:58It was good for me to be quality projects.

00:28:00But if someone is doing this,

00:28:02if someone is calling me and saying,

00:28:04this project is the biggest director of Pakistan.

00:28:08This project is the biggest heroine of Pakistan.

00:28:11The biggest writer wrote that you have budget.

00:28:15Exactly.

00:28:16No, but if it's like an art film or, you know, experimental,

00:28:20some new people are trying it out.

00:28:21They genuinely don't have a budget.

00:28:23Look, if an artist has a character.

00:28:24I don't want to do it now.

00:28:25If you have a character, you might want to do that.

00:28:30No shock.

00:28:32Now, you have become Fazeelah Kazi.

00:28:34Sorry.

00:28:34Now, how many people will make it?

00:28:36I mean, what exposure will they give you?

00:28:38I feel like, he is giving you to God.

00:28:39When I was in childhood, I would be like,

00:28:41no, no, no, no.

00:28:42I didn't want to do it.

00:28:43So, look, you can learn from this mistake.

00:28:45Yes.

00:28:46But I was never afraid of that.

00:28:47Okay, let's go to the next mistake.

00:28:49I have a problem.

00:28:50I have a problem too.

00:28:51I have a problem too.

00:28:52Next mistake.

00:28:53Don't follow your gut feeling.

00:28:57Oh, fair.

00:28:58Yes.

00:28:58This is your picture.

00:29:00It's in your picture.

00:29:01It's in my picture.

00:29:03So, basically, I noticed that,

00:29:05that when I have not followed my gut feeling,

00:29:08or not given importance,

00:29:11it's a mistake.

00:29:13I agree.

00:29:13Because,

00:29:14your initial gut feeling,

00:29:16in any situation,

00:29:18or in any person,

00:29:19it's always true.

00:29:21True.

00:29:22So,

00:29:24many times,

00:29:25you have to second guess.

00:29:26You have to make excuses.

00:29:28You have to make excuses.

00:29:29You don't understand the logic.

00:29:31Why am I being uneasy?

00:29:33Why am I saying this gut feeling?

00:29:34No, this is not right.

00:29:36But in hindsight,

00:29:37you get to know that,

00:29:39yes,

00:29:39I should have followed my gut feeling.

00:29:41Yeah, fair enough.

00:29:42True.

00:29:42So,

00:29:42you have to know that in your life,

00:29:46and then,

00:29:47you have to stop that mistake?

00:29:50Well,

00:29:51a lot of times,

00:29:52it's very late.

00:29:54You know what I mean?

00:29:55Time goes through.

00:29:57Like,

00:29:58I think,

00:29:58when you're choosing a life partner,

00:30:00this comes into play.

00:30:02A lot.

00:30:03You know,

00:30:04initially,

00:30:04you get to know,

00:30:05there's something missing,

00:30:06there's something wrong.

00:30:08But,

00:30:08there's so many other things.

00:30:10Sometimes,

00:30:11sometimes,

00:30:12there's logic too.

00:30:13Sometimes,

00:30:14the other person is pursuing you so much.

00:30:16You feel wanted,

00:30:19somebody is really pursuing you.

00:30:21You know what I mean?

00:30:21So,

00:30:21you start to justify it.

00:30:23Exactly.

00:30:24the red flags don't look at it.

00:30:26Because,

00:30:26the red flags,

00:30:27you put on the red flags.

00:30:28Initially,

00:30:29you get to know it.

00:30:30You get to know it.

00:30:31But,

00:30:32the other person

00:30:34starts to convince you.

00:30:35Then,

00:30:35you start to convince yourself.

00:30:36You start to convince yourself.

00:30:38and then,

00:30:39you lose touch with your inner knowing.

00:30:41Right.

00:30:42And, I think,

00:30:42that's really dangerous.

00:30:43You feel like this is not right,

00:30:45but,

00:30:45you know,

00:30:46justify it.

00:30:47You feel like,

00:30:49it will be temporary.

00:30:50So,

00:30:50I think,

00:30:50we can do this.

00:30:52Human nature.

00:30:52Just not for the life partner.

00:30:54Everything.

00:30:55Friendships,

00:30:56people,

00:30:57situations.

00:30:57You give a chance.

00:30:59I think

00:31:00that

00:31:01you do this.

00:31:03One time,

00:31:05one time,

00:31:05another time,

00:31:06another time,

00:31:06just think about it.

00:31:08One time,

00:31:09give a chance to say,

00:31:10it will be wrong.

00:31:11Yes,

00:31:11it will go.

00:31:12Human error.

00:31:13No,

00:31:13it is not.

00:31:14One is one thing,

00:31:15that,

00:31:15one is,

00:31:16one is,

00:31:24I have to tell you, someone has asked you to do it, but you have given it, he said I

00:31:30will

00:31:30return it.

00:31:31He has not kept his life, he has forgotten it, he has gone on the side.

00:31:35Second time, he will ask you to do it, he will decide to do it, he will have to do

00:31:39it,

00:31:39he will have to do it, he will have to do it, he will have to do it, he will

00:31:49have to do it.

00:31:52I agree.

00:31:53Today, there are a lot of fun.

00:31:55You are a very bad person.

00:31:57You are a bad person?

00:31:58You are a bad person.

00:31:58You are a bad person?

00:31:59No.

00:31:59No, I am a bad person.

00:32:04I am sorry.

00:32:05I am straight away.

00:32:06I have told you first, you did not do that.

00:32:09One is that what is my heart?

00:32:11One is that I have given you to understand.

00:32:13One is that I have given you.

00:32:14I don't have to get back.

00:32:17I have given you that I don't want.

00:32:19But I see the next thing is how the next thing is.

00:32:22If the next thing is saying that I will do it or do it,

00:32:25then it is a different thing.

00:32:26That means that the person is not right.

00:32:28If I don't want, he doesn't do it.

00:32:29That means that it is the problem.

00:32:31But if the next thing is saying that I have to do it,

00:32:34I have to be very frustrated and I can't give it,

00:32:36then it is my duty.

00:32:38If I give it, I don't keep it back.

00:32:40You know, you are a good person.

00:32:42Living in a joint family.

00:32:45Yes, it was my dream.

00:32:47I love it.

00:32:49My God!

00:32:51My God!

00:32:52My heart was a good person.

00:32:54My heart was a good person.

00:32:54But because my parents had a lot of kids,

00:33:00and they had great friends,

00:33:02so we were small brothers.

00:33:03I am one, one, two brothers.

00:33:05So, I always thought that when you get married,

00:33:08it would be so good.

00:33:09We will be in a joint family.

00:33:11It will be great.

00:33:12It will be great.

00:33:14It will be great.

00:33:15So, I thought that it was a great thought.

00:33:18With the time, I got to understand.

00:33:20Because it is not necessary.

00:33:21When you do love marriage,

00:33:22you have to face a lot of challenges.

00:33:25You have to face a lot of challenges.

00:33:27And to face one and to face one.

00:33:27Because it is your own decision.

00:33:29So, it is the time to face all the adventures.

00:33:33I am going to face one and to face one.

00:33:35Then, if you have this shock,

00:33:37that I will be in a joint family,

00:33:38because I was in a family,

00:33:39it would be good and it would be love.

00:33:41But it is not possible.

00:33:43Because you are thinking about it.

00:33:45It is not that you are in the same situation.

00:33:48situation in a situation. It is obvious that children have more children in a house and

00:33:53their financial issues are also issues. So, wherever the money is reduced, there are

00:33:57risks and risks. Because it is obvious that your heart is also small. Then, if someone

00:34:03has two hands, you will see that there will be two hands. I am giving you a little

00:34:08example. It is a very practical example. So, I thought that this is a very good thing

00:34:14But I think it will happen in some times when there was love, there was love, but now it's not

00:34:21so much.

00:34:21And it was good at that time. We say it was good at that time.

00:34:23If it was less than that, then how many people are eating.

00:34:26It was good at that time.

00:34:28But I think it's not restricted to families that don't have money.

00:34:34Even if you have a lot of money, even then maybe.

00:34:37Even then there are issues. Living in a joint family situation is not easy.

00:34:42It's not.

00:34:42It means that you have problems with your family.

00:34:45You have to fight with brothers and sisters.

00:34:48You know what I mean? It's not easy.

00:34:50So living with in-laws is very challenging.

00:34:54I had this adventure.

00:34:56And I thought that my dream was that you are small.

00:34:59So everything is fantasy for you.

00:35:03But now I thought that it was not.

00:35:04And the other thing is that with the time,

00:35:08one thing I thought that when you have married to your children,

00:35:12then you have to give them a different house so that they are responsible.

00:35:18Because as long as you have to keep your children,

00:35:21and keep your children safe,

00:35:22and keep your children safe,

00:35:22then it's very difficult for them.

00:35:24They don't have responsibility.

00:35:26But when they live in a different house,

00:35:28they have to take responsibility.

00:35:29and they know that I have to give them,

00:35:32grocery, rent,

00:35:34I think an ideal situation would be that you are initially

00:35:38one or two years different,

00:35:41so that you can develop an understanding between the husband and wife.

00:35:44But I think once you have kids,

00:35:46it's amazing to have a joint family.

00:35:49Yes, you are right.

00:35:49Because then they'll take care.

00:35:51No, it's not everyone.

00:35:52Again, it's the situation.

00:35:53I think that you are going to the family,

00:35:56they are the kind of people.

00:35:57It depends on the people.

00:35:59Toxic environment is obviously.

00:36:02But if it's not a toxic environment,

00:36:04then you are saying a lot of good.

00:36:05I think what she is saying is that

00:36:07the children,

00:36:09they say that

00:36:09a whole village

00:36:10if you are a poor village,

00:36:13then their personality is different.

00:36:15But you have freedom.

00:36:16You don't have so much trouble

00:36:17that if you want to work

00:36:18or go out of the house,

00:36:20then it's not that you are going to leave.

00:36:22So this is always a need for a joint family.

00:36:24So this is always a need for a joint family.

00:36:24This is always a need for children.

00:36:26If people are good.

00:36:27Yes.

00:36:28If they don't have a toxic environment.

00:36:29I think what she is saying is that

00:36:30our ideal is that

00:36:32but a lot of times,

00:36:34you know,

00:36:35it doesn't turn out to be that way.

00:36:37I have seen a lot of people

00:36:38this arrangement

00:36:39that the children are close to them.

00:36:43They are different,

00:36:43but they are close to them.

00:36:44So what happens is that

00:36:45you have a privacy.

00:36:47Because look,

00:36:48there is a difference of opinion.

00:36:52So if they are parents,

00:36:53they will become a party.

00:36:55Because obviously

00:36:55you have a different system with your children.

00:36:58But if you are a child

00:36:59or if you are a victim,

00:37:01if you are a child,

00:37:03then you will feel bad.

00:37:04You know?

00:37:05So in a different way,

00:37:05what do you say is that

00:37:06Mia and Bibi are fighting

00:37:06like her brother and sister.

00:37:08They will fight,

00:37:09then they will fight.

00:37:10Then they will fight.

00:37:11Then they will fight.

00:37:12Then they will fight.

00:37:15Then they will fight.

00:37:16They will fight.

00:37:16I have seen a lot of times

00:37:17that if they are good in-laws,

00:37:20they will take the other side.

00:37:23My in-laws are actually like this.

00:37:25My mother-in-law said

00:37:26that you are the right.

00:37:27That is wrong.

00:37:28That is always the same.

00:37:29Some of the in-laws

00:37:30they will fight.

00:37:32They will fight.

00:37:34They will fight.

00:37:35They will fight.

00:37:37They will fight.

00:37:38Basically.

00:37:39whatever you your clients think…

00:37:41Like that you may like to fight.

00:37:45to lead your husband.

00:37:46So principal having your mother

00:37:48is only the mother

00:37:50is coming back.

00:37:51You may have wont.

00:37:52Something like your sister

00:37:54For a momentция

00:37:55without giving you,

00:37:55that it cannot create your marriage.

00:37:57You cannot create some boundary in person

00:38:08I was sharing many things with my mother, I would say that sometimes I could share everything with my mother.

00:38:14Then I would say that no, I would say that no, everything is not shared.

00:38:17Some things you can keep to your own.

00:38:19But when the maturity comes, you get to know that you don't share anything with your mother as a woman.

00:38:26Or, as a person, they share a lot more.

00:38:43I love it, this is not right, this is not right, but tea time, you have fun to tell your

00:38:57mother all about it.

00:38:58I was closer to my father always, more than my mother and he was my best friend so I could

00:39:04say anything to him but my personal experience was that my father would support me throughout.

00:39:13If I want to leave or stay, it's up to me. My house is always open, you can come back

00:39:18anytime you want.

00:39:19My mother said, no, now you have married, now you have to make it.

00:39:25You know?

00:39:26You know?

00:39:28Like…

00:39:28When I was in my house, my mother would say something like that.

00:39:33Whatever.

00:39:34What do you want to do?

00:39:35I mean, if you tell them something, you have to say something.

00:39:37You have to leave, leave it.

00:39:39But she was so understanding, because when she said, leave it, I said, what are you saying?

00:39:43Let's go, you have to tell them anything.

00:39:44No, no, no, no, no, no.

00:39:45So, in our house, everyone has all their personalities.

00:39:49So, my mother played this game, this gimmick.

00:39:52Yes.

00:39:52That if I discuss something with her in my maturity.

00:39:56Yes.

00:39:56How much water did you see it?

00:39:58Smart.

00:39:58In India.

00:39:59Yes.

00:40:00Yes.

00:40:01Good morning, Pakistan.

00:40:08Welcome.

00:40:09Welcome back.

00:40:09Good morning, Pakistan.

00:40:11So, our topic today is, what do you learn from your mistakes?

00:40:15And what you learn from your mistakes, that is an investment for you.

00:40:21But if you repeat that mistake, that is a loss of your life.

00:40:26That is the crux of my life today.

00:40:30So, we are discussing with you, what did you learn from the first mistake?

00:40:34And do not repeat it.

00:40:36So, now Sabina, it's about your life.

00:40:41Friends who don't understand life struggles.

00:40:43Friends who don't understand life struggles.

00:40:45Friends who don't understand life struggles.

00:40:46Now, you elaborate yourself.

00:40:47What does it mean?

00:40:48No.

00:40:51You are struggling in your life.

00:40:53You have some priorities.

00:40:55You know, obviously, every person who has problems.

00:40:58It doesn't mean that it doesn't happen.

00:41:01Yes.

00:41:01So, you don't have problems.

00:41:02You don't have problems.

00:41:02If it happens, it happens.

00:41:03So, some friends really need to understand.

00:41:06That we need to gain.

00:41:08If something is happening.

00:41:09You can't come to every event.

00:41:11So, I realized this.

00:41:13First, I was guilty.

00:41:14I didn't want to die.

00:41:16But I realized that my priorities are different.

00:41:19I have to do something.

00:41:20I have to do something.

00:41:20They are sitting in a well-settled life.

00:41:23So, I have done this.

00:41:25I would feel sorry.

00:41:26I would feel bad.

00:41:27I would feel bad.

00:41:28Why did I do this?

00:41:28Let me go.

00:41:29Let me go.

00:41:30Let me go.

00:41:31Let me go.

00:41:33Let me go.

00:41:35I did my parents.

00:41:37I did my parents.

00:41:38I did my parents.

00:41:38I had to get them.

00:41:39So, this is my maturity thinking.

00:41:42Yes.

00:41:43This is my why.

00:41:43You have to understand that who is for us?

00:41:46Who is for us?

00:41:47Who is for us?

00:41:47We have to invest our time.

00:41:49Parents.

00:41:49At a certain time, we invest our time in a very wrong place.

00:41:53And we invest our important moments in our years.

00:41:56We invest our time.

00:41:58We invest our time.

00:41:59That is why we invest our time.

00:41:59Validation.

00:42:00That we will come here.

00:42:01And that is not going to be finished.

00:42:03Sometimes, our daughter, mother, mother.

00:42:05It just goes on.

00:42:06Look at every year, you have to set boundaries.

00:42:10Yes.

00:42:10That I do not have.

00:42:11We have children who come to pressure, peer pressure,

00:42:14that it will be good to go here.

00:42:16I agree.

00:42:17So, the friends, the friends, the friends,

00:42:19they are a fun part of your time.

00:42:22As soon as we are mature,

00:42:24when we are mature,

00:42:25you will get to know if we are a friend.

00:42:28Who is a friend?

00:42:29Who is a friend?

00:42:30Who is a friend?

00:42:30He says,

00:42:31he does not have a friend.

00:42:32He does not have a friend.

00:42:32So, you must believe that

00:42:36I am giving you an idea

00:42:38that I have about how many years have been in showbiz?

00:42:41It has been 30 plus years.

00:42:43In 1991, I started.

00:42:45Before I was modeling.

00:42:47So, I was in 1989.

00:42:49So, I am not in any show business.

00:42:51There is no friend.

00:42:53You can say acquaintances.

00:42:55You can say my knowledge.

00:42:57They are all respectfully.

00:42:58They get to work together.

00:42:59But there is no friend.

00:43:00I cannot say that I can say my friend.

00:43:02Because a friend is the one that you meet with 10 years.

00:43:05Exactly.

00:43:07And you have to say that

00:43:08if you have any problem or any problem,

00:43:11if you have any problem,

00:43:13if you have any judgment here,

00:43:14There will be a right word.

00:43:16There will be no jealous.

00:43:17There will be no jealous.

00:43:17And with the time,

00:43:18you can see through people.

00:43:19You can understand that

00:43:20that this person is able to talk about it.

00:43:24That I am able to talk about it.

00:43:25That I am able to talk about it.

00:43:26That I am able to talk about it.

00:43:26Or I am able to talk about it.

00:43:28So, friends,

00:43:29this is fun.

00:43:31This is the scene.

00:43:32Time pass.

00:43:33This is the scene.

00:43:34I am able to talk about it.

00:43:36It is also good.

00:43:36I am too interested in that.

00:43:37But what I just never heard about it.

00:43:38And if you have good children..

00:43:40They would have a certain high support.

00:43:43So there are any friends outside.

00:43:45Who are my best friends in the show.

00:43:47They don't have children from the show.

00:43:47They both don't have the same.

00:43:48They are their brothers.

00:43:49They are their brothers.

00:43:50They are their brothers.

00:43:51They are their daughters.

00:43:53Unfortunately,

00:43:54people and men have their daughters.

00:43:57They are their male-centric.

00:43:58I worry about my brothers.

00:44:00I worry about their brothers.

00:44:07Yes, I agree.

00:44:17Sorry.

00:44:18I agree.

00:44:19I said that I'm saying that I was saying something.

00:44:23Now I'm saying no.

00:44:25No, it's not going to be a good friend.

00:44:29This is also a very big C, that every thing you don't have to tell your husband, especially young children.

00:44:39Young children have our advice, especially in your marriage, you don't have to tell your husband.

00:44:48You don't have to tell your parents, because they will go and learn.

00:44:53Your advice is to ignore the right advice. This is a mistake.

00:45:02It's kind of connected to what you were talking about.

00:45:05People have limitations, right?

00:45:09If we are taking advice from our friends or sharing it with families,

00:45:14it's not necessary that they have so much spiritual maturity that they can give you the right advice.

00:45:23Human psychology is also that you are learning familiarity.

00:45:30So you want your friends to live in that bubble, in that familiarity.

00:45:38So you have an invested interest.

00:45:41But then there are certain people who have achieved a spiritual level,

00:45:47who are in that position, who can give you a higher level advice.

00:45:54Like, I've been lucky to have a Murshid.

00:45:58You know, Sheikh Nazim from 2001.

00:46:03But there is also one of your ego's struggles.

00:46:08You know, sometimes you feel like, I know better.

00:46:13Or you don't understand logic.

00:46:15You take it lightly.

00:46:16You take it lightly.

00:46:17You take it lightly.

00:46:20You take it lightly.

00:46:23It's up to you to catch it.

00:46:25And to apply it.

00:46:29Without questioning it.

00:46:31You know.

00:46:31I think that I have taken some things that I have taken lightly.

00:46:37Which I had to take seriously.

00:46:39That advice.

00:46:40That advice.

00:46:41That advice is.

00:46:42That advice is.

00:46:44That advice is.

00:47:01That advice is not his true or friend.

00:47:04That advice is true.

00:47:05You know, he always knows that he is a mature personality.

00:47:08And when he's talking to a level of your friend.

00:47:13That advice is, you get to go through.

00:47:29If we have three people sitting here, they will be on the sofa or the person who will be.

00:47:36So, when they look at the situation outside, they don't have any emotional attachment or

00:47:43comfort.

00:47:45When we are in the situation, we have to understand that, but there are some strings attached

00:47:53in which we can't work strictly on those things, then we feel that God has given himself

00:48:00a wisdom.

00:48:02So, you have to filter the things in his work, which are fitting in his situation.

00:48:10When you read the Quran, God wants to pray that God will understand the truth and the truth.

00:48:17So, when you do a decision, the person will do this and do it.

00:48:21You will get a lot of messages.

00:48:23Yeah, that's my question.

00:48:26Where you are taking messages from, it's very important.

00:48:30That's very important.

00:48:31Definitely.

00:48:32And this is all in maturity.

00:48:35There are many mistakes.

00:48:37Young people are not mature.

00:48:39They are working in mistakes.

00:48:42It's both ways.

00:48:43Sometimes you understand yourself very intelligent.

00:48:47Exactly.

00:48:47We all know.

00:48:48We don't know anything else.

00:48:50That's also a danger.

00:48:51And the danger is that you are taking advice from everyone.

00:48:53And you don't care about everything.

00:48:56That's really bad.

00:48:57Many people say that they have to accept.

00:49:00They have to accept.

00:49:01They have to accept.

00:49:03Exactly.

00:49:04And the main motive was that you have to leave.

00:49:08You have to leave somewhere else.

00:49:10You should focus on this.

00:49:11Again, you need to know what priority you want.

00:49:15And the truth is that many people,

00:49:17like me and many people in life,

00:49:20who are you really learning

00:49:22and you get to get the right advice.

00:49:25Sometimes you work on it.

00:49:27Sometimes you don't.

00:49:28Yes.

00:49:28The one you had to accept.

00:49:30That's fate.

00:49:31Actually, many people come in a little while.

00:49:33That's fate.

00:49:34That's fate.

00:49:36Ultimately, you learn from your mistakes.

00:49:39Yes.

00:49:40You learn from your own experiences.

00:49:42And you learn from your mistakes.

00:49:43It's very difficult to learn from somebody else's experience.

00:49:48Ultimately, you have to go on your path.

00:50:19Yes.

00:50:20I agree.

00:50:25Yes.

00:50:29I agree.

00:50:30I agree.

00:50:32Yes.

00:50:37I agree.

00:50:41I agree.

00:51:08I agree.

00:51:11I agree.

00:51:16I agree.

00:51:17I agree.

00:51:19I agree.

00:51:20Because you have to learn than your mistakes.

00:51:26I agree.

00:51:27But you have to know about getting the mistakes,

00:51:27but you can learn from your mistakes and your experiences.

00:51:30But here, we experience the mistakes and their experiences.

00:51:30Practically.

00:51:31Practically, we see.

00:51:33And a lot of times, we say that we don't have the mistakes we've done.

00:51:37That our parents didn't have do.

00:51:38That is the opposite thing.

00:51:40Sometimes, parents don't see themselves whether they're doing what they're doing.

00:51:43But the other side is the child.

00:51:48It's a clean view.

00:51:50When you become parents, you say,

00:51:53I won't do the mistake that my mother had done with me.

00:51:56That's right.

00:51:57It's not that out of love.

00:52:00My mother used to be very pimple.

00:52:03My mother used to be drinking water.

00:52:07My mother used to be drinking water.

00:52:09She used to be out of love.

00:52:15She used to be drinking water.

00:52:19I just thought that this is not right.

00:52:21I just thought that this is not right.

00:52:23I always learned that I didn't have a wife.

00:52:28I was going to take my mother's hands.

00:52:30Who will I do?

00:52:32I can't do it all.

00:52:34I used to be drinking water.

00:52:37Our system is made like a special food.

00:52:44It's a lot here.

00:52:49It's a lot here.

00:52:50Exactly.

00:53:03It's a lot here.

00:53:05But they need a companion to become a good relationship.

00:53:09Mindset.

00:53:09Yes.

00:53:10Exactly.

00:53:14I love that.

00:53:17I love that.

00:53:19I love that.

00:53:34I love that.

00:53:36I love that.

00:53:38It's a lot of people.

00:53:54When I had a few people, I had a few mistakes.

00:53:58Like I had a few dogs.

00:54:00I had a few dogs.

00:54:01But when I told my son, he was running for me.

00:54:07He was kidnapping me.

00:54:08He was kidnapping me.

00:54:09He made a scene like that.

00:54:12And he left him in the streets and left him.

00:54:16That was a trauma.

00:54:18How many years ago,

00:54:20I had 10 months in my home

00:54:25that no one will work in my home.

00:54:27And I had to make my children's house.

00:54:29I had to make them myself.

00:54:30I had to make them myself.

00:54:32I had to make them myself.

00:54:34I had to make them myself.

00:54:35My son was 9 months ago.

00:54:36He was kidnapping me.

00:54:38I had a trauma in my life.

00:54:44After that, I had no full-time staff.

00:54:47And trust issues happen.

00:54:49I had to make them myself.

00:54:50I had to make them myself.

00:54:52I had to make them myself.

00:54:53So, this was a big thing.

00:54:56So, I had no full-time staff at home.

00:54:59And I would drive my car and make my food.

00:55:03And I would do everything.

00:55:06And I would do everything.

00:55:09I was too busy for all the other people,

00:55:17I was too busy.

00:55:20I was too busy.

00:55:25And I would do everything to make them.

00:55:26I was too busy.

00:55:31I was too busy.

00:55:32Yes, I was too busy.

00:55:33So, I was too busy.

00:55:34I was too busy.

00:55:35I was too busy.

00:55:36because if there is no support then you have a mother-in-law who support your mother-in-law

00:55:45or if they are healthy, they have a house on your house, their children, their body, their eyes.

00:55:53Good people, it's difficult. When we live in Hyderabad, in our Bengali, we had a lot of staff

00:55:58and we thought that this is normal, people are right. We used to call her father-in-law and the

00:56:05other children

00:56:06had a lot of people in their house, and they had a lot of drivers. They were all normal, like

00:56:12a family.

00:56:13They had their families for 30-30, 40-40. Now, if the maid comes to her and you say that

00:56:22you have

00:56:23Oh my God! Both of us were chutty and said

00:56:25Yes, it was okay, then you can keep it.

00:56:28But then the answer is that I thought

00:56:30that you better put your hands on your mind.

00:56:32So I have made a system like this.

00:56:34You better put your hands on your mind.

00:56:36I have made an American system

00:56:38that I have put everything on my children.

00:56:43I have put a machine in my kitchen

00:56:45fully automatic, put your clothes on,

00:56:47put your clothes on, put your clothes on.

00:56:48That's very good also.

00:56:49Wow, that's very good.

00:56:51And what you can do is the freezer.

00:56:53You had prepared that there.

00:56:55That's why I didn't have problems outside.

00:56:58That's why I didn't have problems outside.

00:57:00They don't have any problems.

00:57:01They don't have any problems that if someone comes,

00:57:02then we'll put it in.

00:57:03If someone comes, then we'll put it in.

00:57:04If someone comes, then we'll put it in.

00:57:07I have made a mistake.

00:57:09But I'm sorry that they're out there,

00:57:12all the clothes are on their own.

00:57:13But I have made a mistake in this case.

00:57:16Good morning Pakistan.

00:57:24Welcome back.

00:57:26Good morning Pakistan.

00:57:36Welcome back.

00:57:39Good morning Pakistan.

00:57:41Good morning Pakistan.

00:57:41Yes, it's very big mistake.

00:57:43It's my intention.

00:57:44Because now I've had a disc slip.

00:57:47And I was sitting at the scene in the shoot.

00:57:51And I thought it was a spasm for 2 months and then when I did MRI, my disc slipped.

00:58:00Because for granted, I thought it would be right.

00:58:03And whatever you eat, it's so important that you eat the right things.

00:58:09I will eat every junk because I love them.

00:58:12Sometimes people take pain.

00:58:14But the pain is an announcement that there is no pain in your body.

00:58:20So we take pain.

00:58:22Especially for women, I think our tolerance level is very high.

00:58:26If a man is something that happens, it will be increased.

00:58:30We are trained to just power through anything.

00:58:34Our least priority is our health.

00:58:37Because that is such a thing. What happened? You are sick.

00:58:39But it's important.

00:58:40I said that it was so good.

00:58:42I read it on the Insta.

00:58:43If women know that their time is this time,

00:58:47so before they go to the kitchen,

00:58:50cook their food, set everything,

00:58:54and then they say, let's go, I'm ready, let's go.

00:58:56Yes, she is an actor.

00:58:57Who wrote it? I don't remember it.

00:58:59The name of the child.

00:59:00I felt so good.

00:59:03Oh my God.

00:59:04If we know our time,

00:59:06we know that,

00:59:09we'll be ready.

00:59:13But this is not always the same.

00:59:15I have seen this zone that is not the only zone.

00:59:19For girls.

00:59:21You know, in the past, there were also these species that are in the house.

00:59:25They are flying in the house, they are flying in the house.

00:59:27That's what happens.

00:59:28I don't see it.

00:59:30There were also these species that are in the future.

00:59:33Those species exist in the past, which have no problem.

00:59:37That's very weird.

00:59:38How do they do that?

00:59:39They are crazy.

00:59:41It's a natural thing.

00:59:42The OCD is also something, right?

00:59:44I think they can compensate for a husband.

00:59:48Yeah, that's their husbands.

00:59:50That's also a nice job.

00:59:53Sometimes I feel those women are smarter.

00:59:55I would say that too.

00:59:56You know, because everything is then catered for them.

00:59:59I don't want to drive the car, I don't want to do work,

01:00:02I don't want to do food, I don't want to do anything.

01:00:03Then they're pampered.

01:00:04So, everything is done for them.

01:00:07We also become a dog and a driver.

01:00:09Because we saw that if they come,

01:00:12then they'll take the shopping.

01:00:14I've seen a lot of women.

01:00:16Yes, me too.

01:00:16They'll come to the office, they'll take them.

01:00:19How can we go? We can't go for it.

01:00:21So, that's how it happened.

01:00:22We've seen all the lives of husbands,

01:00:26children and daughters.

01:00:28And we were craving.

01:00:30Why do we go to ourselves?

01:00:31We have to go for it.

01:00:31Because it's our fault.

01:00:33We have to take everything ourselves.

01:00:34We have to take everything.

01:00:35Let's go.

01:00:36I'm in the school and we're out.

01:00:37Superwoman.

01:00:39Superwoman.

01:00:40I'm doing everything.

01:00:41I'm doing everything outside.

01:00:43I'm doing everything outside.

01:00:43So, everything is done.

01:00:46So, after that, it's been realized,

01:00:47what's happened?

01:00:48Superwoman has become a woman.

01:00:50We've given the tariff,

01:00:51we've got validation.

01:00:52Oh yes, the validation.

01:00:53Very good.

01:00:54When you're at the time,

01:00:55your home is perfect.

01:00:57Your children are clean.

01:00:58You're doing a lot of makeup.

01:00:59Makeup.

01:01:00Blow dry.

01:01:01Blow dry.

01:01:01I'm doing a kitchen clean.

01:01:03I made a lot of food.

01:01:04I had a lot of time.

01:01:05I felt like everything was perfect.

01:01:08I felt like everything was perfect.

01:01:08Oh no.

01:01:08What happened to me?

01:01:10I used to have buttons.

01:01:12Buttons on the top of the top of the top.

01:01:14I used to have to clean everything.

01:01:16I used to clean everything.

01:01:18Then I thought,

01:01:18my brain was bad.

01:01:19What happened?

01:01:20I was normal.

01:01:21I was normal.

01:01:22I was in the showroom.

01:01:24Relax.

01:01:24In Korea, there is a house everywhere.

01:01:26Where there are wet.

01:01:28There are wet everywhere.

01:01:29If there is no one place to make weak,

01:01:31then it won't come.

01:01:32You won't die.

01:01:33You might die.

01:01:33It's okay.

01:01:33These are the white people who have a problem.

01:01:37They have problems in the house.

01:01:40They are not leaving their home.

01:01:42But they have to keep the trouble with the trauma.

01:01:43Oh my God.

01:01:44This is the wrong thing for them.

01:01:49Honestly.

01:01:49I don't want to go home, I'll be fine.

01:01:51Psychologically, you say, I'll be fine.

01:01:53But health is very important.

01:01:55We should learn something from those other women as well,

01:01:57who know how to receive and to allow other people to pamper them.

01:02:03That's also beautiful.

01:02:05That's also beautiful.

01:02:06Okay, I think it's very odd.

01:02:08When my child was growing,

01:02:10when I was very ill,

01:02:13when I was very ill,

01:02:15I had such a cute bouquet

01:02:17and a teddy bear.

01:02:19I was just like,

01:02:21what happened with me?

01:02:23You weren't used to it.

01:02:26You weren't used to it.

01:02:27I thought,

01:02:28let's see,

01:02:30there's this thing,

01:02:32there's empathy.

01:02:34My mother is doing so much,

01:02:37and if she's not well,

01:02:38I should do something.

01:02:39Yes, yes.

01:02:40I'll take a chocolate,

01:02:41or my older son said,

01:02:44what would you eat?

01:02:45I like it.

01:02:48That's where you want in life.

01:02:50I appreciate it,

01:02:52because children are watching.

01:02:54Husbands have to train people.

01:02:56That's what I have to do.

01:03:00That's what I have to do.

01:03:01Don't stand in the right direction.

01:03:04This is also a very big mistake.

01:03:06One time, it's done.

01:03:07It's done.

01:03:08It's your picture.

01:03:10Yeah.

01:03:12So, that's true.

01:03:13In the game, there's timing.

01:03:15There's timing,

01:03:16and sometimes,

01:03:20you let it slip,

01:03:23you feel bad,

01:03:24but you ignore it,

01:03:26you don't stand.

01:03:29And I think that's a mistake.

01:03:31And I think that's a mistake.

01:03:32First time,

01:03:32when someone has something,

01:03:34you should take a stand,

01:03:36and nib it in the butt.

01:03:39Because it grows in the butt.

01:03:41Agreed.

01:03:42I agree.

01:03:43For example,

01:03:44if someone has a hand on the top,

01:03:52and you have said,

01:03:52first time,

01:03:52let's go,

01:03:53first time,

01:03:53then the next time,

01:03:55it will not happen.

01:03:56You have to talk about it.

01:03:57You have to talk about it.

01:04:00You have to talk about it.

01:04:00For example,

01:04:00if someone has a hand on the top,

01:04:07you have to talk about it.

01:04:12Abuse,

01:04:13hurt,

01:04:14hurt,

01:04:15any disrespect.

01:04:16Disrespect,

01:04:17again,

01:04:18another problem.

01:04:19Another problem is,

01:04:20we don't want to do it.

01:04:22That is,

01:04:23that we can feed people's ego's ego.

01:04:29Oh yes.

01:04:31Unintentionally.

01:04:31We have a training.

01:04:33We have a training.

01:04:34And it becomes so a habit

01:04:36that when we stop,

01:04:38they feel that we are doing

01:04:40a lot of things.

01:04:40As it is you.

01:04:40We have disrespected.

01:04:42At the time,

01:04:44they feel that this is the right.

01:04:46That is how it is.

01:04:47It can be late.

01:04:48We have made them.

01:04:50What is called?

01:04:51A man is the man.

01:04:52His ego.

01:04:54His ego.

01:04:55His ego.

01:04:56His ego.

01:04:56He said,

01:04:57in every relationship,

01:04:57if you understand,

01:04:58if you do it in your children

01:04:58or you do it in any relationship,

01:05:01but obviously,

01:05:01if you stay with his husband,

01:05:03if you stay with your own,

01:05:05you feed their ego.

01:05:07And they do it.

01:05:08they have a habit of eating.

01:05:10Then, if you drink them from 15-20 years later,

01:05:14then they feel shock.

01:05:16What is happening?

01:05:19One person has a habit,

01:05:20and he feels that he can't live without me.

01:05:22And then he feels that he can't live without me.

01:05:25How dare she?

01:05:26How do I say that I will stay alive?

01:05:27I will come out of you without you.

01:05:29So, we need to see that

01:05:32we need to see that

01:05:34we need to control the boundaries.

01:05:35We need to control the boundaries.

01:05:36Yes, you have said boundaries.

01:05:38Boundaries are very important.

01:05:40It's the habit of the victims,

01:05:41because we expect it from the women.

01:05:43Especially our generation,

01:05:46you are a little young,

01:05:47but we want to see films, novels,

01:05:51whatever.

01:05:52Sati-sawatri meant that

01:05:54you have to do shit

01:05:56and go to the end,

01:05:58you will get appreciation.

01:06:00And when you get appreciation,

01:06:01you will get married,

01:06:02and then you will get married.

01:06:03How true.

01:06:05After dying,

01:06:06you will appreciate it.

01:06:10What's the benefit?

01:06:11We are the only time.

01:06:13When someone dies, we will give him the award.

01:06:14Then he will give him the award.

01:06:16I said, let him die before die.

01:06:18I agree.

01:06:19What is the benefit?

01:06:20Exactly.

01:06:21If he will be alive,

01:06:21he will be happy.

01:06:22Give him the award before die.

01:06:27That is also very sad.

01:06:28I agree.

01:06:29Because if he will be alive,

01:06:31then he will enjoy his appreciation,

01:06:32his acknowledgement.

01:06:33He will enjoy his life long.

01:06:34No, he will be happy.

01:06:37But he will be happy.

01:06:38But he will do it like that.

01:06:39No!

01:06:40After dying,

01:06:43what happens?

01:06:43After dying,

01:06:44they get money,

01:06:45they get awards.

01:06:46This is very sad.

01:06:48I agree.

01:06:49Now, the next mistake is the school of children.

01:06:51Very cute.

01:06:52You are.

01:06:53You are.

01:06:53Yes, yes.

01:06:55It was that,

01:06:57I mean,

01:06:58you are young.

01:07:00Again,

01:07:01you don't know what society is going on.

01:07:03You don't have a baby in the world.

01:07:06People start to say,

01:07:07today,

01:07:07let's do it.

01:07:08Let's do it.

01:07:09Let's do it.

01:07:10Let's do it.

01:07:11Let's do it.

01:07:12Let's do it.

01:07:13Let's do it.

01:07:15Let's do it.

01:07:15What was the need?

01:07:16Well, anyway.

01:07:17I never thought that this pressure was wrong.

01:07:19So, I already didn't get hurt.

01:07:20I was just kidding.

01:07:21I was running around the school.

01:07:23Well,

01:07:31I get tired.

01:07:32I was feeling tired.

01:07:32I'm not losing my mind anymore.

01:07:33I got tired.

01:07:36I'm losing a lot.

01:07:39I am feeling tired.

01:07:40Well,

01:07:40when you have a great school,

01:07:43I was feeling tired.

01:07:45I didn't feel tired.

01:07:45It was a big American school that didn't have a uniform and the chairs were very comfortable.

01:07:54I remember that we were sitting on the bench and we were tired of being tired.

01:07:59About 3-4 years ago, I was in Ehmad class 4 and Zorin class 2.

01:08:07I felt that this was a burger school.

01:08:14Now I call it a burger, but it was a big English, thanksgiving and all these things.

01:08:23So I realized that I was going to go to the teacher and I was telling the result that it

01:08:27was very good, it was very good, it was very good, it was very good, it was very good, it

01:08:30was very good, it was very good, I was telling the teacher that I was studying maths.

01:08:33I didn't feel that maths is so good, I thought it was very good, every child is good in maths.

01:08:36It was very good in maths, it was very good in maths, it was very good in maths, it was

01:08:43very good in maths.

01:08:44So I felt something strange.

01:08:45Then my child is growing up, there is no sports, because he gave him so much comfort in young age.

01:09:19Really?

01:09:20I was very good in maths.

01:09:22So I felt like that, there was a boy school, there was a lot of sports, there was a lot

01:09:26of studies.

01:09:27But the place that you buy and you buy and you go to show off.

01:09:31So I understood this, institutions, you need to look at credibility, you need to look at the system, you need

01:09:37to look at the child's sports, mental health, physical health, all things.

01:09:41Because it is a foundation.

01:09:43Yes, there is a child in every area, you are street smart, you have to deal with people.

01:09:49It is not that if someone is telling you, you are telling me, I have told you, I have done

01:09:53this, I have done this, I have done this.

01:09:54Holy!

01:09:55So you know, I felt like this was a very good decision, the wrong decision that I had taken from

01:10:01the beginning.

01:10:01It was a peer pressure or whatever, but later I realized that this was true and I felt like that

01:10:08it was a big difference between my children's everything.

01:10:11Their massage, their social skills.

01:10:15So school is not just like that you are taking a degree.

01:10:18Personality is built.

01:10:19Absolutely, foundation is built.

01:10:21So school is basically a lot of attention to my father's mission.

01:10:26Personality and also, you know, your lifelong friendships, a lot of times they start at that age, you know.

01:10:34I still have my school friends, you know, we have a group of school friends who are with the nursery

01:10:37and still we are together.

01:10:39Yeah, and those friendships cannot be replicated.

01:10:42That was when we had nothing from that time.

01:10:44Nothing from that time.

01:10:45That's the opportunity, that's the opportunity, that's the opportunity, that's the opportunity.

01:10:51That's the opportunity to learn from parents.

01:10:52Yes.

01:10:52That's the opportunity to learn from parents.

01:10:58You know, if you are giving advice, you feel like, what do you know?

01:11:01You are a little bit like that or not.

01:11:02At a certain age, all children are like that.

01:11:04Yes, that rebellious.

01:11:04Now, I have many things that my parents, my father, mother, have felt so right.

01:11:09I was like, why did I not listen?

01:11:11You know, especially like schooling time, I was in Malaysia.

01:11:14I was in Malaysia, I was in Malaysia, I was in Malaysia, there was no strictness.

01:11:18I was in a class myself, I was like, yes, I don't want to study.

01:11:21And my mother would say that we are studying so hard and you are doing so hard.

01:11:25Now, I realized that I should have listened to them.

01:11:27Because I was studying, I would do something good, I would do something different.

01:11:32So, I feel like I have many things for granted, with parents.

01:11:35So, I feel like, yes, I have a lot of parents.

01:11:37So, I feel like, yes.

01:11:39You didn't touch me?

01:11:40No.

01:11:41My parents never touched me.

01:11:43Sorry.

01:11:44Our mother is back.

01:11:45We are so scared.

01:11:46So, I am so scared now.

01:11:48No, no.

01:11:49Until the end of the day, my mother was bad-ridden.

01:11:52No, no.

01:11:52So, I am so scared.

01:11:54I am so scared that I should have missed it.

01:11:56Yes, I should have missed it.

01:11:57Look, the child's hormones are so much.

01:12:00Oh my God.

01:12:01So, I was a girl, now I remember them.

01:12:03But now, what do they say?

01:12:04They say, I am good at that time.

01:12:06I have only done them two or three times.

01:12:10But the thing that happened to them is, they remember them.

01:12:12They remember them.

01:12:13No, they didn't.

01:12:14They had to hang out.

01:12:16They had to hang out.

01:12:17They had to hang out.

01:12:18They had to hang out.

01:12:19They had to hang out.

01:12:20It's more humiliation than the pain.

01:12:24I can't relate to it.

01:12:26But I have never killed them.

01:12:29That's also very wrong.

01:12:30It's always in a room, where they were and I were.

01:12:31They didn't kill them.

01:12:33They didn't kill them.

01:12:34No.

01:12:35It's just one or two to tell them.

01:12:37This is not right.

01:12:39You don't have to do this next time.

01:12:41What happens is that, when you have a little pain,

01:12:43the next time, they asked me,

01:12:46And then the next time, I said,

01:12:47If we did something like that,

01:12:49so you will go home and say something like that?

01:12:51I said, no.

01:12:52So, see, that happens once again.

01:12:54I don't know.

01:12:55My mother was very strict.

01:12:58And we had to hang out in childhood.

01:13:00Oh, wow.

01:13:01So, I decided that I will not hold my hands on my children.

01:13:06That's a good change.

01:13:07And basically, because I feel that,

01:13:11and maybe I went a little overboard,

01:13:13but it worked out,

01:13:14that I want to be their friend.

01:13:16Like my father was my friend.

01:13:18Yeah, I agree.

01:13:18I agree with that.

01:13:18And that if there is something like that,

01:13:20they will come to me and give advice.

01:13:22I agree with that.

01:13:22Now, you're saying that

01:13:23that we don't always give advice.

01:13:26So, it's like that,

01:13:27what did our mother do?

01:13:30They said, why?

01:13:32Because I say so.

01:13:33There was no logic in it.

01:13:35We have said that you have to believe.

01:13:37That's also wrong.

01:13:39So, now, you have to explain to them.

01:13:41You have to give them the logic.

01:13:42You have to make them understand.

01:13:44You know?

01:13:45And convince them.

01:13:47And then ultimately...

01:13:49This is the right word actually.

01:13:50Convince them.

01:13:51Because they need the logic.

01:13:53The children have more awareness.

01:13:56Even when your children are small.

01:13:59I have two generations in my home.

01:14:01One is your child's age.

01:14:03And one is your child's age.

01:14:04So, I have to do both of them in a different way.

01:14:08I can see the other people as well.

01:14:11I can stop the other people.

01:14:12But the third one,

01:14:14I say something,

01:14:14I say that you want to become a kid.

01:14:17Oh my God.

01:14:18What a line.

01:14:20So, this is the wrong answer.

01:14:22Because I need the logic.

01:14:23Because I need friends.

01:14:24If I need friends.

01:14:25I see.

01:14:26So, my children are very close to me.

01:14:27This is not my husband.

01:14:29This is not my husband.

01:14:31This is not my husband.

01:14:33This is not my husband.

01:14:34This is not my husband.

01:14:35That is, I think, the best thing.

01:14:36But it was very initially.

01:14:37That you have to tell.

01:14:39That, look.

01:14:39At the end of the day, I am your mother.

01:14:41That, if you do this,

01:14:43then something is possible.

01:14:46If you don't listen,

01:14:47that you have to tell.

01:14:48How was your mother?

01:14:49Sorry?

01:14:50How was your mother with you?

01:14:51I think she was strict.

01:14:52My mother was very strict.

01:14:53Very strict.

01:14:54So, you didn't mind that.

01:14:55I never spent a night in my life

01:14:56that I have to go to a friend's house.

01:14:57But I have to react to that.

01:15:00My mother was so strict

01:15:02that I reacted to that.

01:15:03I was very hurt.

01:15:05And I didn't want to cause

01:15:06that same hurt and pain to my kids.

01:15:08But that's so sweet of you.

01:15:09But that's so sweet of you.

01:15:09My mother was also strict.

01:15:11But she was also my friend.

01:15:13Yeah, that's the most beautiful thing.

01:15:14That's the most beautiful thing.

01:15:14How did you add these two roles?

01:15:16But they are very strong.

01:15:18They also know.

01:15:19Many people know.

01:15:20They are very strong.

01:15:21They are very strong.

01:15:21But they are also our friend.

01:15:23I don't know.

01:15:23Because this is a balance.

01:15:25I wanted to replicate them.

01:15:26My mother was very strict.

01:15:28So, I thought that something was wrong.

01:15:30That's why my kids were friends with me.

01:15:32So, I have to do everything with them.

01:15:33I don't do everything with them.

01:15:34So, I didn't do everything with them.

01:15:35So, that was a little problem with communication.

01:15:38But then I understood.

01:15:40Because when you live with a single parent,

01:15:44you understand that it is a different responsibility.

01:15:47When the mother plays both characters,

01:15:51they have more strength.

01:15:53So, I realized that.

01:15:55I understood that.

01:15:56It is not a enemy.

01:15:58This is also a fight.

01:15:59Exactly.

01:15:59I am saying that you tell many things.

01:16:01But at that time, you say that no.

01:16:03With time you realize.

01:16:04In different places, they have supported.

01:16:06Exactly.

01:16:06In this time, we shared our mistakes with you.

01:16:10And we told them that we did not repeat it.

01:16:13Thank you so much.

01:16:14Thank you so much.

01:16:14You see, very quickly.

01:16:15I don't know.

01:16:17I don't know.

01:16:17The time of life is over.

01:16:19And we don't know.

01:16:20Now, we are going to flashback.

01:16:22All the old things were happening.

01:16:24So, thank you so much.

01:16:26It was very nice to meet you.

01:16:28Thank you so much.

01:16:30We will see you in a little break.

01:16:32Good morning, Pakistan.

01:16:39Welcome.

01:16:40Welcome back.

01:16:41Good morning, Pakistan.

01:16:42Today, we are going to be meeting you.

01:16:45Shadi.org.pk.

01:16:48Mr. Muhammad Ali, CEO.

01:16:51And Mrs. Ali, Director Shadi.org.pk.

01:16:56How are you doing?

01:16:57Alhamdulillah.

01:16:58How are you doing?

01:16:59How are you doing?

01:16:59I am doing it.

01:17:00I am doing it.

01:17:00Okay, I have to ask you a question.

01:17:02The first question is that the matrimonial apps are now.

01:17:06This is a new thing in the market.

01:17:08Do you think people are more confused or are they helping them?

01:17:16Look, this is a very good question.

01:17:18Matrimonial apps actually have to make a relationship.

01:17:23But you have so many choices.

01:17:25What do you do?

01:17:27First, second, third.

01:17:29Second, third.

01:17:30So, you have to be stuck in comparison.

01:17:33And our swipe culture has finished commitments.

01:17:38Even if, if you have a normal relationship with them,

01:17:42you have to be stuck in comparison.

01:17:43Then, a week later, you have to swipe it again.

01:17:46You have to swipe it again.

01:17:47It wasn't much better than I missed it.

01:17:50That is actually a person who has lost their life.

01:17:54So, now, you have to degrade its value.

01:17:58And this is the reason why, if you look at the data,

01:18:01which is also coming from our course,

01:18:03and in the media reports,

01:18:04that our divorce ratio has increased.

01:18:06This was not the first time.

01:18:08When our families were sitting.

01:18:11And the families were sitting.

01:18:12They were doing the proper relationship.

01:18:14Now, if you look at the app,

01:18:16you have to see nature or anything.

01:18:18So, there was a lot of confusion.

01:18:21What is the difference between divorced girl and divorced girl?

01:18:37What is the difference between divorced girl and divorced girl?

01:18:56What is the difference between her and divorced girl?

01:18:59What is the difference between her and divorced girl?

01:19:30What is the difference between her and divorced girl?

01:19:32What is the difference between her and divorced girl?

01:19:40Because of her and divorced black girls?

01:19:56What is the difference between her and

01:20:01that you don't have to go first.

01:20:02So life is not going to end.

01:20:04You have to have a second chance, like,

01:20:07that right.

01:20:08You have to have a same.

01:20:09You have to have a same.

01:20:10Everyone should have to have a same.

01:20:13In the beginning, when people come to this relationship,

01:20:17they say they need a good nature.

01:20:21But later,

01:20:23physical appearance,

01:20:25cut, cut,

01:20:25these things are very

01:20:31important.

01:20:32They say they need a good nature.

01:20:36Why do you think this is a bad idea?

01:20:40This is our hypocrisy.

01:20:43In our hearts,

01:20:45in our hearts,

01:20:46in our hearts,

01:20:47in our hearts,

01:20:48in our hearts,

01:20:55we have to understand that it is a good nature.

01:20:57It is a good nature.

01:20:58There is one thing, the shape.

01:21:00The shape.

01:21:01The shape.

01:21:02The shape.

01:21:04The shape.

01:21:05The shape.

01:21:06The shape.

01:21:09The shape.

01:21:10The shape.

01:21:11The shape.

01:21:12The shape.

01:21:13The shape.

01:21:14The shape.

01:21:15The shape.

01:21:16The shape.

01:21:18The shape.

01:21:19The shape.

01:21:21The shape.

01:21:23The shape.

01:21:25The shape.

01:21:27The shape.

01:21:28The shape.

01:21:30The shape.

01:21:35The shape.

01:21:37marriage in the beginning of the marriage, don't do one-to-one decisions, so it can be

01:21:43quite revoked.

01:21:44Now, working women, is the relationship a plus or a problem?

01:21:52There are many girls who are working, working ladies, and they want to pursue that work

01:21:57or leave them.

01:21:59But is the relationship a problem for them?

01:22:03Is it difficult or easy?

01:22:04This is what we can see.

01:22:07If a woman is a working lady who wants her financial security, if she has a small amount, she wants

01:22:16to be a girl, she can be a red flag.

01:22:19In future, you will not get a break, but you will have to do it because it was your condition.

01:22:24But if you see from another perspective that a girl is very mature, or at a good age,

01:22:31she has a lot of maturity concerns, or she has a lot of exposure to a girl, social exposure,

01:22:38then she can see this thing as well.

01:22:41So, the girl, the girl, the girl and the family's understanding depends on what she wants.

01:22:47So, the girl is working or not, we have to see how she wants to balance her life.

01:22:55Because we have seen many women who have seen her career,

01:23:00who have kept her family in the second option and in the first option.

01:23:05So, we have seen such a lot of working women who have given her own private interests,

01:23:11and have to balance both things.

01:23:13So, being a woman, we have seen this thing,

01:23:15and we have seen that if we are married with a woman,

01:23:19who is a family-related relationship,

01:23:21and after the marriage of a marriage,

01:23:23she has a financial crisis,

01:23:25or in the financial stability,

01:23:27she doesn't see that balance,

01:23:30and she feels less to understand her husband.

01:23:35So, the case is the same,

01:23:37because there is a financial insecurity,

01:23:41and she doesn't have a mental compatibility,

01:23:43that it is less than me,

01:23:45it is less than me,

01:23:46it is less than me,

01:23:47it is less than me.

01:23:49So, being a lady,

01:23:51understand this thing,

01:23:52and in both situations,

01:23:54who are couples,

01:23:56they will balance each other,

01:23:58and keep understanding each other,

01:24:02so that the relationship is good and strong.

01:24:04In 35+, the relationship,

01:24:07is she late or is she normal?

01:24:10If a girl is 35+,

01:24:12what do you want to say?

01:24:14Yes, the scenario is different actually.

01:24:16If you look at boys and girls,

01:24:19it is different.

01:24:19If you look at boys,

01:24:21it will be more mature,

01:24:23financially stable,

01:24:25emotionally strong,

01:24:27but if you look at girls,

01:24:29it will be 35% late.

01:24:31in society we live normally,

01:24:34it is expected that 18,

01:24:3622, 22 and 24,

01:24:38you will get married to girl's girls,

01:24:39because it's like that,

01:24:40you have to become mother,

01:24:41to spend the responsibility of parents,

01:24:42to spend the life of her family,

01:24:43You are married to 35,

01:24:45you are married to two years,

01:24:48you have pregnant 2 years,

01:24:49then you have babies have,

01:24:50then women have a lot of health,

01:24:53and then you have a lot of women,

01:24:54And then you have not only one baby,

01:24:55but sometimes you only do two,

01:24:56but sometimes you have two to three,

01:24:56so what do you have to be born until 45,

01:24:58or 45, or 45,

01:24:59So it's very much late.

01:25:01And our families, when they come to the family,

01:25:03they say that it's more than 28 years old.

01:25:06Because in their minds, this is what happens.

01:25:09Because if a girl is 35, how much will it be?

01:25:12Minimum 40, 42.

01:25:14So they are financially stable.

01:25:15At that time, they need offspring.

01:25:17They can manage their business, their business,

01:25:20their property, their property.

01:25:22So they want to grow their growth.

01:25:23They want to grow their growth.

01:25:25They want to grow their growth.

01:25:26So in this year, they are conscious that it's 28 years old.

01:25:30So the girl is 35 years old.

01:25:33But the girls are 35 years old.

01:25:34But in our society,

01:25:35when it comes to this side,

01:25:37it happens to be late to late.

01:25:41We've seen that many people are hiding before marriage.

01:25:45If there are mental health problems,

01:25:47anger issues,

01:25:49medical history,

01:25:52behavior issues.

01:25:54People have seen as a regular marriage.

01:25:57Especially currently a range of marriages or an app.

01:26:02They all are hiding behind.

01:26:07People have to know.

01:26:07They can have a married,

01:26:08like a lord or a guest.

01:26:09A husband who has to meet a quién.

01:26:10They know that this is a problem.

01:26:13And, what's that?

01:26:14What is the case?

01:26:45and after that, that is the right thing.

01:26:48In the beginning, Mr. and Ms. Perfect,

01:26:50that we have everything we have to marry.

01:26:53We say to be transparent.

01:26:56If you become transparent,

01:26:58the other person will know that your plus point is negative,

01:27:02but I can accept it with your goodness,

01:27:05and with your other side.

01:27:08That person does it with you.

01:27:09And Mrs. often says that

01:27:12you have to try to make a perfect decision.

01:27:15If you marry an imperfect person,

01:27:18you will become perfect.

01:27:20You will be able to improve one another.

01:27:23So that is very important.

01:27:25If we talk about mental health,

01:27:29people take us from the side of the side.

01:27:33If we share some health issues,

01:27:38then we make that concern

01:27:39and we make that concern.

01:27:41We don't have anything.

01:27:44We don't have any information.

01:27:46People don't have any awareness.

01:27:47We are very upset.

01:27:49We are scared.

01:27:50But because of the fact,

01:27:51we don't have anything that we are scared.

01:27:56We don't have anything.

01:27:58We don't have anything that is so bad.

01:28:05We don't have anything else.

01:28:08that is the truth. If the relationship is not the truth, it is not the truth.

01:28:13Thank you. Thank you very much for your people.

01:28:16I have come to our show first.

01:28:22I repeat the name of your company.

01:28:24Shadi.org.pk

01:28:27Is this a website or what?

01:28:29Your name is Shadi Organization Pakistan.

01:28:34This is a website.

01:28:37We have three offices.

01:28:38One is in DHA.

01:28:39One is in Gulshan Iqbal.

01:28:41One is in Nautna Zubanbad.

01:28:42In Pakistan and worldwide, we are dealing with this.

01:28:45Thank you. Thank you so much.

01:28:47This is our show today.

01:28:49Inshallah, you will be welcome.

01:28:50Good morning Pakistan.

Good Morning Pakistan | Mistakes Not To Be Repeated Special Show | 4th May 2026 | ARY Digital

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