Good Morning Pakistan | Bilal Qureshi | Uroosa Qureshi | 15 December 2025

7 weeks ago

Host: Nida Yasir

Guests: Bilal Qureshi, Uroosa Qureshi

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Transcript

00:00:00That time is back to me

00:00:05This morning that comes to your eyes

00:00:10You'll come to your eyes

00:00:13You'll come to your eyes

00:00:20This morning that comes to your eyes

00:00:26It's a great song.

00:00:56Asalaam Alaikum, good morning, good morning Pakistan.

00:01:25What are you doing?

00:01:27How are you?

00:01:28It's okay, it's a fun life.

00:01:30It's a little cold in Karachi.

00:01:33You're wearing warm clothes.

00:01:36It's a cold clothes.

00:01:38It's a cold clothes.

00:01:40So that's why I keep a shawl.

00:01:43That's why I remove the shawl.

00:01:47So today, we're not talking about cold and warm.

00:01:51We're talking about the basic stages of life.

00:01:56Sex bear said that seven stages of men.

00:02:00It's been talked about our program.

00:02:04But today, we're talking about seven stages of life.

00:02:08We're trying to discover those stages in your marriage.

00:02:13We're trying to discover them.

00:02:15And from this stage, you'll feel that if you have married two or four or six,

00:02:25then you'll understand that you're on stage.

00:02:28And you can relate to that.

00:02:30So if we start the first stage, the first stage is the expectations stage.

00:02:43And there are also love-families.

00:02:45There are also dreams, and fantasy.

00:02:48Because we can see that.

00:02:50We can see, especially, girls,

00:02:52or tell us,

00:02:53you need to wear lipstick,

00:02:54you need to wear red,

00:02:55you need to wear it after marriage,

00:02:56you need to wear it after marriage,

00:02:58you need to wear it after marriage.

00:02:59Everything, everything,

00:03:00you need to have a marriage after marriage.

00:03:01I feel like we're going to fantasy world.

00:03:04We need to have everything on the planet,

00:03:06and we'll do everything in the same place.

00:03:08So, the first stage of marriage is whether a girl or a girl is the expectations stage.

00:03:16The second stage is the adjustment stage.

00:03:22Where the habits, the massage, the clothes and the routine are different.

00:03:30Our mother's house is not like this, our mother's house is not like this.

00:03:35Our mother's house is not like this, we are not like this, we are not like this.

00:03:42So, the girl and the girl can basically know each other, whether they have to ask each other or whether they know each other.

00:03:50But knowing each other is a different way.

00:03:54And the second stage is the adjustment stage.

00:03:57In the sense that you look at each other's right.

00:04:01In the sense that you look at each other's right.

00:04:03In the sense that you look at each other's right.

00:04:04But the actual person looks at each other's right.

00:04:08The third stage is the adjustment stage.

00:04:16In which you look at the small things.

00:04:20It's very big.

00:04:21It's because it's a big.

00:04:23It's a big difference.

00:04:24Because this seems like a person's life under one roof.

00:04:26If you look at each other's right.

00:04:28It's like 저희가 when you look at each other's right.

00:04:29So, the other stage is lapping each other.

00:04:30The third stage is the biggest.

00:04:31It's a big difference.

00:04:32This is the third stage.

00:04:33The third stage is the most dangerous stage.

00:04:35There is no difference between between the two different stages.

00:04:37or it's going down or it's going down.

00:04:41At this stage, you have to take a lot of patience with your work.

00:04:46If you have to build a real life and you have to build a real life,

00:04:50then you have to give a lot of tips that we will give you in today's program.

00:04:56After that, the fourth stage is the main stage.

00:05:03You have to struggle with your career.

00:05:05If you have a girl or a girl, you have to build a house,

00:05:10you have to build a finances, your children,

00:05:14you have to look at schooling,

00:05:16you have to look at a second,

00:05:18you have to look at a relationship.

00:05:20This stage, there is a lot of rain.

00:05:25A good, bad, every kind of time you have to do it.

00:05:29If you don't have to adjust,

00:05:32or you don't have to adjust,

00:05:35then it becomes very difficult,

00:05:37because there are many things going on in this stage.

00:05:41Then, the next stage is the maturity stage.

00:05:45When you look at the maturity stage,

00:05:47when you look at the stage, you have to look at it.

00:05:50You have to look at it.

00:05:51I had so much bigger than this.

00:05:54This is the thing.

00:05:55This is the way, this is the way.

00:05:56This is the way.

00:05:57There is no big thing.

00:05:58The majority stage is the way you realize.

00:06:00The way you realize,

00:06:17Weis versa, BVB says that she has to be able to get out of our house, our children, our children, our children and our children.

00:06:26She also sees many positive points.

00:06:29And the majority of this happens is that you can get closer and closer.

00:06:35And you can get closer and closer.

00:06:38Because in the majority of this stage you can feel like you have a decision that made you wrong.

00:06:42This is not the partner that you want.

00:06:46So this person can think and women can think so. So this maturity stage is very dangerous.

00:06:54If I say that this is a kind of thaga, which we often say that it can be broken,

00:07:03such as there are many blood relations, whether you look good or bad, you don't have to talk about it,

00:07:09you don't have to talk about it. This is a very difficult relationship.

00:07:17That you can discuss everything from that.

00:07:20If you are inside or outside, you will know your partner properly.

00:07:26After a short break, come to these stages,

00:07:30so that you will be a little easier in your life.

00:07:34This is your stage. Good morning Pakistan.

00:07:39Welcome, welcome back. Good morning Pakistan.

00:07:52Today, I have a guest who took me to flashbacks.

00:07:56When my new show started,

00:07:59in the beginning of the day, they did a lot of shows.

00:08:03And after such a gap, when it came, I went to flashbacks.

00:08:08When there was a surprise,

00:08:1010, 9, 8, 7, 6.

00:08:12Now, I don't know if it was a surprise,

00:08:15because I had to understand my dream room.

00:08:18So today, I am meeting you.

00:08:21I am meeting you.

00:08:22You will see me in the show.

00:08:24You will see me many days later.

00:08:25You will see me here.

00:08:26A very sweet couple.

00:08:27And the story of stages,

00:08:28they are all over.

00:08:30Come on.

00:08:31Welcome.

00:08:32You both are very talented in your field.

00:08:34But now, the female actresses are a mother's role.

00:08:39And the baby's role.

00:08:41And the baby's role.

00:08:42And the baby's role.

00:08:43And you will see them all over social media.

00:08:45And you will see them all over the whole themes.

00:08:49And enjoy.

00:08:51So, let's meet Bilal Qureshi and Aroosa Qureshi.

00:08:55Assalamualaikum.

00:08:56Assalamualaikum.

00:08:57Assalamualaikum.

00:08:58How are you?

00:08:59Absolutely, TikTok.

00:09:00MashaAllah Bilal,

00:09:01we have to give you a happy one.

00:09:03We say that if you want to see

00:09:05that the girl is so happy,

00:09:07then you will see her face,

00:09:09body language and physical appearance.

00:09:12So, it will be successful.

00:09:15You have given us the same girl as before.

00:09:17One time, you will see me.

00:09:19I will say my mother.

00:09:20I will say that after two children,

00:09:22this is like this.

00:09:23Please, betcha.

00:09:24Please, betcha.

00:09:26This is the same thing.

00:09:27Someone is like me.

00:09:28What happened?

00:09:29You are not eating.

00:09:30No.

00:09:31After two children,

00:09:32this is a coincidence.

00:09:33After two children,

00:09:34you have married.

00:09:35Exactly.

00:09:36MashaAllah, MashaAllah,

00:09:37Aroosa,

00:09:38such as such.

00:09:39If I release the old clips,

00:09:41then you both are exactly the same.

00:09:43Well, thank you so much.

00:09:45And first of all,

00:09:46it's an honour to come back to my Sussaraal.

00:09:48Because I genuinely think that

00:09:50when I come to Good Morning Pakistan,

00:09:51this is my Sussaraal,

00:09:52because this is my big sister.

00:09:54I mean,

00:09:55I have many sisters.

00:09:56I am Punjabi,

00:09:57so I am a Punjabi.

00:09:58But who is a woman?

00:09:59Your sister is a sister,

00:10:00and my sister is a sister.

00:10:02Wow, wow.

00:10:03This is my sister.

00:10:04With Yasir brother.

00:10:05Okay, okay.

00:10:06So, that is my daughter.

00:10:07That is my sister.

00:10:08That is my sister.

00:10:09I have always met in Good Morning Pakistan.

00:10:11And it's great pleasure.

00:10:13And we missed you as well.

00:10:14It's been a long long time.

00:10:16Five years, probably.

00:10:17At least.

00:10:18At least.

00:10:19At least five years.

00:10:20And,

00:10:21in Good Morning Pakistan,

00:10:22I don't think that

00:10:23we've been enjoying the show.

00:10:25So,

00:10:26as you said,

00:10:27we also feel like

00:10:28we're in our house.

00:10:29No,

00:10:30even Good Morning Pakistan,

00:10:31it's very close to our heart,

00:10:32because our marriage was very simple.

00:10:34Yes.

00:10:35And the celebration,

00:10:36it was here.

00:10:38Exactly.

00:10:39So,

00:10:40now,

00:10:41mashallah,

00:10:42you guys are two children.

00:10:43Seniority.

00:10:44No,

00:10:45no,

00:10:46we have two daughters.

00:10:47That's what we try to do.

00:10:48That's what we need to do.

00:10:49That's what we need to do.

00:10:50When we have two big children,

00:10:51we have two daughters.

00:10:52Exactly.

00:10:53That's what we need to do.

00:10:54That's what we need to do.

00:10:55Exactly.

00:10:56That's what we need to do.

00:10:57Exactly.

00:10:58Exactly.

00:10:59Exactly.

00:11:00Inshallah.

00:11:01So,

00:11:02one is Ruhan.

00:11:03Suhaan.

00:11:04Suhaan.

00:11:05Suhaan.

00:11:06Suhaan.

00:11:07Suhaan.

00:11:08I remember.

00:11:09I remember.

00:11:10Suhaan.

00:11:11Suhaan.

00:11:12I remember.

00:11:13Suhaan.

00:11:14Suhaan.

00:11:15Suhaan.

00:11:16Suhaan.

00:11:17I remember.

00:11:18Suhaan.

00:11:19Suhaan.

00:11:20Suhaan.

00:11:21Suhaan.

00:11:22I remember.

00:11:23Suhaan.

00:11:24Suhaan.

00:11:25Suhaan.

00:11:26Suhaan.

00:11:27Suhaan.

00:11:28Suhaan.

00:11:29Suhaan.

00:11:30Suhaan.

00:11:31I remember.

00:11:32Suhaan has never appeared on national television.

00:11:35on national television. But when it was three months ago,

00:11:38Good Morning Pakistan came.

00:11:40So, Puppu also loved us.

00:11:42Puppu also have a great memory.

00:11:45He was a cat, right?

00:11:47And he remembered that the show was finished.

00:11:49And Nidha also ran away.

00:11:51This is a great incident which I would like to hear

00:11:54in our hearts freeze.

00:11:56I don't remember you too.

00:11:58When we were on our way back,

00:12:00a girl ran away from the train.

00:12:03He said,

00:12:05I didn't give her love.

00:12:07So, Nidha,

00:12:09with a great love gesture,

00:12:11it was very sweet.

00:12:13That was very kind of you.

00:12:16So, how old are you?

00:12:18Nine years.

00:12:20And Roman?

00:12:21Four years.

00:12:22So, how old are you going to school?

00:12:25No, no.

00:12:26So, Suhan today has a paper of Urdu.

00:12:28So, you all pray and pray in Urdu.

00:12:31So, she is an amazing mother.

00:12:33I mean, I have to say.

00:12:34So, she is an amazing mother.

00:12:35I mean, I have to say.

00:12:36So, she is an amazing mother.

00:12:37I have to say.

00:12:38Ruman is not going to school now.

00:12:39So, you are not going to school now.

00:12:41she is not doing.

00:12:42So, you are not wearing her hair,

00:12:43so, she is not wearing it.

00:12:44So, she is not wearing it.

00:12:45My parents don't wear it.

00:12:46So, she is not wearing it for the school.

00:12:48So, you are not wearing it for 4 years?

00:12:50Your mother is wearing it for the 18 months.

00:12:51So I am going to tell you my entire Pakistan side.

00:12:53Our experience is the best so far in terms of that.

00:12:57We thought that when our child is 7 years old, we will send a school.

00:13:01Seriously?

00:13:02Seven years.

00:13:03Sohan, when he is 7 years old, we have sent a school.

00:13:06And what did he do with that first?

00:13:07He goes to school, his criteria is that he takes two classes in 7 years.

00:13:13So, before he goes to school, go home and go to school.

00:13:16That's a different thing.

00:13:18But we have done schooling in the morning.

00:13:20That's what we have done in 7 years.

00:13:22So, that's why he is now mature enough in terms that he enjoys his schooling.

00:13:28Burden.

00:13:29Every day, he takes a shower in the morning.

00:13:31It's cold.

00:13:32I remember that in our school, we have a lot of burden.

00:13:35And it has become a pattern.

00:13:37And he enjoys it.

00:13:38So, in my opinion, in life, those things like...

00:13:41It's a great experience.

00:13:42So, if we start with schooling, then go to our job and profession,

00:13:46we enjoy what we do.

00:13:49So, you are successful.

00:13:50Really cool.

00:13:51So, 7 years old is the best age.

00:13:53So, you have also thought for romance.

00:13:55Yeah, exactly.

00:13:56K-7.

00:13:57Yes, yes.

00:13:58So, how do you do home schooling?

00:13:59Actually, both of them are their academy.

00:14:03So, did they go to the academy?

00:14:05Yes.

00:14:06Which kind of academy?

00:14:08It's a GEMS academy.

00:14:09Lahore is in Lahore.

00:14:11There is a person who prepared us.

00:14:13So, my sister is their academy.

00:14:16So, Suhaan would go there.

00:14:17As for romance.

00:14:18As for romance.

00:14:19As for romance.

00:14:20So, they are like playgroups?

00:14:21No.

00:14:22They are only playing.

00:14:23They don't play.

00:14:24It's just a little time.

00:14:25One or two hours of session.

00:14:26It's like a school.

00:14:27It's like for entry test.

00:14:28It's like for entry test.

00:14:29It's like for 2-3 years.

00:14:30It's like for parents to prepare.

00:14:312-3 years.

00:14:32They do prepare.

00:14:33And then in two classes.

00:14:34They are going to test.

00:14:35If they pass.

00:14:36Oh!

00:14:37Oh!

00:14:38It's so good.

00:14:39So, in 7 years, they didn't get tired.

00:14:41They told me that they had to go to school.

00:14:43Now, I'm going to sleep a little.

00:14:45I don't know.

00:14:46I don't know.

00:14:47I don't know.

00:14:48I don't know.

00:14:49I think that when school is gone,

00:14:50you have more responsibility.

00:14:51I think that I can make lunch boxes.

00:14:54I can make myself.

00:14:55Oh!

00:14:56So, when school does it,

00:14:57they have to sit right in the morning.

00:14:58So, I think when school starts to get your daughter,

00:15:00it's easy to get.

00:15:01Easy to get.

00:15:02But then, like my mom says,

00:15:03hey, the next week,

00:15:04she is on days!

00:15:05I'm saying that I'm going to talk about the age of the child.

00:15:07I feel like my mom and dad

00:15:09both love with everyone with their children.

00:15:11But, when the dad's a few weeks later,

00:15:14mom is not even a few weeks later.

00:15:16So, it means that mom is always bigger.

00:15:19You can understand how to travel from school?

00:15:22We said that this is the time of school, how can we travel?

00:15:26That's what you understand.

00:15:28No, there are parents and puppies.

00:15:30They say that they don't go away.

00:15:32No, sometimes you travel with children too.

00:15:34That's not the time of school.

00:15:36Actually, whenever there is an event,

00:15:38when we get any opportunity,

00:15:40we do that.

00:15:41Because I believe in making memories.

00:15:43So I say that,

00:15:45we can make memories with the kids,

00:15:47so that if we don't have any time,

00:15:49or unfortunately,

00:15:50there will be a time phase.

00:15:52So at least, we can tell that

00:15:53when we were able to do it,

00:15:54we just try to make it all the best for you all.

00:15:57So I feel like we should make memories.

00:15:59So after having a shift in Lahore,

00:16:01because many actors have shifted from Lahore to Karachi.

00:16:04I am the same thing.

00:16:06I have shifted from Lahore to Karachi.

00:16:08So what is that?

00:16:10Did you lose in your work?

00:16:12Very low.

00:16:13A 90% loss.

00:16:14Because obviously,

00:16:16they have to provide

00:16:18traveling and accommodation,

00:16:20and all that.

00:16:21So you also know,

00:16:22channels and production houses.

00:16:24There are a lot of losses,

00:16:25and the work is slow too.

00:16:27But then,

00:16:28that is,

00:16:29my priority is that,

00:16:30I had to move.

00:16:31That's when a romance was born.

00:16:33Because here,

00:16:34we used to live alone.

00:16:35Begum and Sohan.

00:16:36So,

00:16:37if I went to the shoot at night,

00:16:38they are all alone in an apartment.

00:16:40and my heart was

00:16:42like the demand.

00:16:43So in Lahore,

00:16:44there are houses,

00:16:45and my mother,

00:16:46and my family,

00:16:47and their parents,

00:16:48and their families,

00:16:49and their families.

00:16:50So,

00:16:51if I am out of 2 months,

00:16:52I am shooting at Karachi.

00:16:53So,

00:16:54we are all relaxed.

00:16:55And then,

00:16:56the second thing,

00:16:57that the schooling,

00:16:58that the school is one of Lahore.

00:16:59It is not in Karachi.

00:17:00So,

00:17:01it is not in Karachi.

00:17:02That is the reason.

00:17:03Exactly.

00:17:04If you do so,

00:17:05you are in Karachi

00:17:07while you are in Karachi

00:17:08as well,

00:17:09do you survive too?

00:17:10I can not survive as a baby.

00:17:11But I cannot survive without your baby.

00:17:12I do not.

00:17:13I do not.

00:17:14Do you have to say true?

00:17:15I do not.

00:17:16Do you have to say true?

00:17:17Yes, true.

00:17:18Yes, yes.

00:17:19I cannot survive without your baby.

00:17:21I cannot survive.

00:17:22Yes,

00:17:23I am veryleny.

00:17:24I am a heart devotee-

00:17:30and I am a mother.

00:17:31We are both crazy parents.

00:17:32I am very upset, especially I am very upset.

00:17:40So now someone says that if you try for a girl, then I don't say anything.

00:17:44I was watching a lot on social media.

00:17:49She told me that I was married in a big wedding.

00:17:52She told me that she was the first baby and the other.

00:17:56She told me that I was married in a big wedding.

00:17:59So I realized that she is a small family.

00:18:03That when your family is growing, you have to be a person outside.

00:18:08Yes, it is.

00:18:09Exactly.

00:18:10When you find your friends in your family, there is nothing like that.

00:18:13Because the time, the energy, the money you spend on your family,

00:18:17it's always worth it, it's never wasted.

00:18:19Friends outside or outside, we also do a lot of gathering.

00:18:23But we both are social.

00:18:25When we live in Karachi, if we were to go somewhere,

00:18:27if we were to go somewhere, we would have to be a problem.

00:18:29That we don't have to worry about it.

00:18:31Now we don't have to worry about it.

00:18:32We both left in Lahore and left.

00:18:34I know that they are comfortable.

00:18:35Even when I go to Dhyal, they are happy.

00:18:37Even when I go to Dhyal, they are happy.

00:18:39Because they get unlimited TV, unlimited candies,

00:18:43and they get all the food that I have at home.

00:18:46Tell me about the bangles.

00:18:48How are you feeling?

00:18:49No, I am serious.

00:18:50Tell me about it.

00:18:51How are you feeling?

00:18:52There was a lot of struggle.

00:18:53I said, I don't feel it.

00:18:54But they are feeling it.

00:18:55Because today, the trend is on the full sleeves.

00:18:58Tell me about it.

00:19:00I don't wear it.

00:19:01I don't know.

00:19:02Do you say that it is good or not?

00:19:06Do you say that it is good or not?

00:19:07Do you advise?

00:19:08Do you tell me about it?

00:19:09But I go to the same page and say that it is good.

00:19:10You know, the advice is on the other hand.

00:19:11But who is listening?

00:19:12Who is listening?

00:19:13I don't do it.

00:19:14No, I do not only do it.

00:19:15No, I don't do it.

00:19:16I'm listening and listening.

00:19:17No, I'm listening.

00:19:18I was listening to them from here.

00:19:19I'm going to go to shopping.

00:19:20I was going to speak first.

00:19:21When they came first, I would say,

00:19:23I was going to tell them.

00:19:24I remember.

00:19:25I would say, before I was talking.

00:19:26but I would listen to them.

00:19:28You have confidence now.

00:19:30I have more confidence.

00:19:31I have more confidence.

00:19:32Like when kids are growing,

00:19:33they are automatically.

00:19:35Exactly.

00:19:36Look, I have lost my laptop so kids are going to die and you will have confidence.

00:19:42Oh, good thing. I will hide my mobile laptop.

00:19:45What training are you getting?

00:19:48Today, we talk about stages.

00:19:50The stage of marriage, the first year of marriage.

00:19:53Let's go to flashback.

00:19:55But we are going for the first year of marriage.

00:19:58Yes, yes.

00:19:59Seriously?

00:20:00You guys, the first year of marriage, were working together.

00:20:04How did you get involved?

00:20:06Now, we will be honest.

00:20:09No, we always say the truth.

00:20:11Once upon a time.

00:20:13Once upon a time.

00:20:14Once upon a time.

00:20:15I was a man of a man.

00:20:17I was in my hair.

00:20:19We were shooting in Kassim Park.

00:20:21A.R. White Digital project.

00:20:23My family loved me.

00:20:25I told myself that the actors are coming.

00:20:28When a girl looked at her, she was wearing her shoes.

00:20:31She had a shirt on a brown shirt.

00:20:33Oh, oh.

00:20:34It was beautiful.

00:20:35What buttons looked at?

00:20:36That's also the same.

00:20:37What?

00:20:38That was all.

00:20:39No, but unfortunately, I told myself that this girl is your daughter.

00:20:43Oh!

00:20:44So, she said that she had fallen into her arms.

00:20:49We are all asleep and we will be alone.

00:20:51I said, oh.

00:20:52Oh, oh, my son.

00:20:53What is that?

00:20:54Mashallah, jazakallah.

00:20:55Well, in that project, we became a husband-wife, so when we became a husband-wife, I personally felt that we were not doing a husband-wife, but we were doing a husband-wife.

00:21:07So, in that project, I proposed to them.

00:21:10Okay, in that project, I proposed to them.

00:21:12What do you have to waste time?

00:21:14What do you have to do to impress them?

00:21:17Impress them that they don't need to do effort.

00:21:20What do you have to do to impress them?

00:21:25One minute, thank you.

00:21:28We always quote that when Nidha asked if you were impressed with them.

00:21:35So, I said that they didn't drink cigarettes.

00:21:38In your show, after marriage, I told you that my wife said that they didn't drink cigarettes, so that's why I got married.

00:21:45So, all smokers, you cannot have a pretty wine.

00:21:48They also wrote stories.

00:21:50They also wrote stories.

00:21:51When they told me to impress them, I said,

00:21:54Miya Ji, how do you see the girl's eyes?

00:21:57Do you remember the hair, the brown color, the buttons?

00:22:01Do you remember the hair?

00:22:03Do you remember the hair?

00:22:04Actually, it wasn't the hair.

00:22:05It wasn't the hair.

00:22:06It wasn't the hair.

00:22:07Then, I said, I said,

00:22:09When we were doing the hair, we were doing the hair.

00:22:11I said, you were getting a lot of shareef recently.

00:22:14I said, shareef is the one who is the one who is the one who is the one who is the one.

00:22:16If you don't have shareef, then you're just flirt.

00:22:18I'm a shareef.

00:22:19It was smooth, smooth, smooth, smooth.

00:22:20You told me.

00:22:22Yes, now we have smooth, smooth, smooth.

00:22:25We'll talk about that.

00:22:26That is when the first conversation happened.

00:22:28It was before marriage.

00:22:29We're still on stage, we have a first CD.

00:22:31Yes, it was smoothly.

00:22:32It took like one and a half years ago, we had a project in 2013 and in 2015 we had a wedding in 2015.

00:22:45And there was no problem with society?

00:22:50It was a problem with society.

00:22:52No, in the beginning it was like we are Punjabi, we are Sindhi.

00:22:58So maybe it happened a little bit.

00:23:01But at the end we both are Qurayshi.

00:23:04We don't need to change their surname.

00:23:06But I often say that let's change the trend.

00:23:10That we call Mr. and Mrs. Qurayshi.

00:23:12So now we call Mr. Qurayshi.

00:23:15So we can do it.

00:23:17Such as there are no hurdles.

00:23:19And yes, when they made tea in the first time when I went to their man's house,

00:23:24I thought that I should marry or not.

00:23:27Why did you make tea?

00:23:28I didn't make tea.

00:23:29I didn't drink tea.

00:23:30I didn't drink tea.

00:23:31As I always say, I didn't drink tea.

00:23:34I didn't drink tea.

00:23:35And I am a tea lover.

00:23:37So then I just thought that one time I had to do it.

00:23:40But then I learned how to make it.

00:23:41Now you make it good.

00:23:42Yes, it's like that.

00:23:43So now we will go to the break for the first year.

00:23:46Absolutely.

00:23:47Okay.

00:23:48After marriage, we will cover all the stages.

00:23:50Where are you going to get married?

00:23:52How many years have been married?

00:23:5310 years.

00:23:5410 years.

00:23:55You have reached 10.

00:23:56You have reached 10.

00:23:57It's been 20 years.

00:23:5820 years too.

00:23:59Okay.

00:24:00So after a break, we will talk about the stages.

00:24:05What are their experiences?

00:24:07And they shared a first experience in this segment.

00:24:09They shared that they have 7 years to school.

00:24:12They have given us a lot of tips.

00:24:14Good morning Pakistan.

00:24:25Welcome.

00:24:26Welcome back.

00:24:27Good morning Pakistan.

00:24:28And today we are with Rusa and Bilal.

00:24:31We will talk about different stages of life.

00:24:34On the previous segment, we have talked about the stage before marriage.

00:24:38Now, Aagia Ji, the stage after marriage.

00:24:40There is different stages of life.

00:24:42Different stages of marriage.

00:24:43Different stages of marriage.

00:24:44I am saying that, I am saying that,

00:24:46No, no, but I'm saying that this is a big problem, the marriage is a big test today.

00:24:52Let's see, what happens if we pass or fail?

00:24:55No, no, why?

00:24:57Mashallah, you'll pass.

00:24:58When we pass, we'll pass.

00:25:00Inshallah.

00:25:01So, the first year of marriage.

00:25:03Yes.

00:25:04First, tell me, Urusa, the first year of marriage.

00:25:07The first year of marriage.

00:25:09The first year of marriage.

00:25:11In the beginning, I didn't have a lot, but I was a little scared.

00:25:14That's what our society has changed, restrictions are changed.

00:25:19In the beginning of the month, I didn't have any change.

00:25:23What changed?

00:25:24That's how I sleep, I'm going to shoot, I'm going to get up.

00:25:28So, it was beautiful.

00:25:30After that, I conceived it in the first year.

00:25:34I love that.

00:25:35So, it was a pregnancy.

00:25:38For my first anniversary,

00:25:41I guess, six, seven months, I was pregnant.

00:25:44Yeah, mashallah.

00:25:45So, it was beautiful.

00:25:46Yeah.

00:25:47When they said they didn't have to change,

00:25:49they didn't have to change their surname,

00:25:50they didn't have to change their surname.

00:25:51Yeah.

00:25:52So, that's why we just feel like home.

00:25:54You were in Karachi, right?

00:25:55We were in Karachi, right?

00:25:56We were in Karachi, right?

00:25:57We were in Karachi.

00:25:58We were both working.

00:25:59We were both working people.

00:26:00We were both acting.

00:26:01We were working.

00:26:02We were both acting.

00:26:03We were working.

00:26:04We were working.

00:26:05We were working.

00:26:06When we were home,

00:26:07we made food together.

00:26:08We made food together.

00:26:09Oh, good.

00:26:10I used to chop and cut the tomato pie.

00:26:12And everything.

00:26:13Because Arusha didn't have to eat food.

00:26:15It was 50-50.

00:26:17Yes, it was food.

00:26:18Yes, it was.

00:26:19So, we were together.

00:26:21Because while doing and cooking and all,

00:26:23we used to do the whole thing.

00:26:24And then we used to eat on a plate.

00:26:26Yes, we used to eat on a plate.

00:26:27We used to eat on a plate.

00:26:28And then when I was in Karachi,

00:26:30I shifted the plates.

00:26:32I didn't know them.

00:26:33Look, I had two loved ones for your hands.

00:26:37You know?

00:26:38So, you used to eat on a plate.

00:26:40And...

00:26:41When was that?

00:26:43I didn't remember that.

00:26:45No, definitely.

00:26:47It was definitely built up for the first year.

00:26:50There are fights.

00:26:51All goody-goody.

00:26:52I want to clear this here.

00:26:54People understand that we never fought.

00:26:56We never fought.

00:26:57We never fought.

00:26:58We never fought.

00:26:59We never fought.

00:27:00We never fought.

00:27:01I think we will fight.

00:27:03I will tell people that we fought.

00:27:05We all fought.

00:27:06We all fought.

00:27:07No such thing.

00:27:09So, the first year,

00:27:11basically, my show's topic is that

00:27:14your personality changes in these stages.

00:27:18It's true.

00:27:19It's true.

00:27:20It's true.

00:27:21It's true.

00:27:22It's true.

00:27:23It's true.

00:27:24It's true.

00:27:25We are all right.

00:27:26True.

00:27:27True.

00:27:28that we have made such a big deal.

00:27:31That's right.

00:27:32Because when there was a fight, there were very long-term fights.

00:27:35That's right.

00:27:36But now it's a fight.

00:27:38Now I'm going to tell you.

00:27:40When we came here,

00:27:42there was a confirmation of it.

00:27:45We were in the mall.

00:27:47We were sitting in the car.

00:27:48We were both in the mall.

00:27:49So before we went to the mall,

00:27:50there was a fight.

00:27:52I was going to say that we didn't come.

00:27:54We didn't come.

00:27:56We were only in the mall.

00:27:58But that was our memory.

00:28:00After we fought,

00:28:01we went on shopping.

00:28:03We went on the mall.

00:28:04We had been in the first year

00:28:07that if we were angry,

00:28:10I would be to be silent.

00:28:12Now, two or three months.

00:28:14Or six months.

00:28:16But then I thought

00:28:18that it's going to be my anger.

00:28:20I will not be the one out of my anger.

00:28:22But then I said,

00:28:23I can be angry.

00:28:25So I will give him the fight for me, then I will also give him the angry bird.

00:28:30After that, there was a phase that came to understand the person.

00:28:34But now he knows that it's okay, he can also be angry.

00:28:39Now he knows that Bilal will be angry with the situation.

00:28:44If I trigger him, then he will be angry with the situation.

00:28:47I think that marriage is something, it's a 24 hour relationship.

00:28:51It's like time limited, it's like time limited, but marriage is a 24 hour relationship.

00:29:00We must be together, we must be together, but we are mentally connected.

00:29:05And I think this is the only relationship with which we are answerable for anything.

00:29:09They can ask anything, your partner can ask anything.

00:29:12So we need to do that value and respect.

00:29:14And as I always say that the first relationship of the kainate is husband and wife.

00:29:19So it's a very precious relation.

00:29:21And a lot of people when they ask me to marry me, I say,

00:29:24It's a great relationship, it's a great relationship, it's a fight.

00:29:27It's a great relationship, it's not a dangerous relationship.

00:29:31So in the first year, as we have fought, we have fought, we have fought.

00:29:36What were your expectations?

00:29:38If I ask for people's questions, I have to ask them.

00:29:40I was expecting Sohan.

00:29:42And I said,

00:29:44I would be very upset,

00:29:46I'm scared.

00:29:48At the beginning, I love my eyes,

00:29:50I'm scared, I'm scared,

00:29:52But the next year I've never had enough power.

00:29:54So I said,

00:29:56At the beginning, I have never been upset,

00:29:58Now I'm scared.

00:29:59But I can't say anyone,

00:30:00I'm scared, I'm scared.

00:30:01I'm scared.

00:30:02But no,

00:30:03No, no. Alhamdulillah, if we talk about good or bad, then I'm 70% bad.

00:30:08I'm not bad.

00:30:11What do you say? I'm wearing a special dress, this is always right.

00:30:17I'm watching you.

00:30:19Always right.

00:30:20Cute.

00:30:21When I conceived Sohan in the first year,

00:30:26when I was married or the first year, there was a discussion that you won't do or you won't do it.

00:30:33No. Career-wise, there was such a verbal conversation.

00:30:35No, no. He always wanted to do it.

00:30:38It's my choice.

00:30:40I'm a fussy mother and I'm lazy.

00:30:43So I'm not.

00:30:44Aiza Khan inspires me.

00:30:47But I can't do it. I'm not multi-talented.

00:30:49Aiza was too young.

00:30:51She had a gap for a few days.

00:30:55In fact, when we were in the morning at the hotel,

00:30:58there was a woman who was very cute,

00:30:59if she was watching too.

00:31:01So I thought, sorry, I'm not bothered.

00:31:04No, no, no. It's all fine.

00:31:07Why don't you do that?

00:31:08You don't do that.

00:31:09So innocently, she asked me.

00:31:11I said, who?

00:31:12I was asleep.

00:31:13I said, who am I to stop her?

00:31:16Why do you say that?

00:31:17I've never stopped her.

00:31:18That's her, I'm going to ask her.

00:31:20But they asked and talked to us,

00:31:23just like very, understanding yourself,

00:31:25with a big ownership.

00:31:26So I want to tell everyone,

00:31:28that there's an impact on the people,

00:31:30that if your wife doesn't work,

00:31:32then you think that your husband has made it.

00:31:35I think that today's generation,

00:31:37like Gen Z, not before Gen Z,

00:31:40they have so much sense and courage

00:31:42that they celebrate and appreciate each other's success

00:31:45and their passion, if they want.

00:31:48But the choice is all hers.

00:31:50She is, like, her mom,

00:31:52she is always happy.

00:31:54She is always happy.

00:31:56She is always happy.

00:31:57It wins above all.

00:31:59So that's why she is like,

00:32:01Sohan, Roman, Sohan, Roman.

00:32:03That's her choice.

00:32:04All, all.

00:32:05Because I've also had to go through this phase,

00:32:07when I was acting.

00:32:09So I was going to act on the set,

00:32:12and my child is at home,

00:32:14so my heart is like this,

00:32:15like someone has taken it.

00:32:17So that's what I felt good,

00:32:19acting,

00:32:20that makes me feel bad.

00:32:22That's why I was a child.

00:32:24When I was living with a child,

00:32:25and I didn't work,

00:32:27and then after a few days,

00:32:28I was a little bit depressed.

00:32:29I left my job.

00:32:31So I felt like a beach path,

00:32:33so I changed my career.

00:32:35And then, good morning, Pakistan is the history.

00:32:38Yes.

00:32:39No, seriously, we'd like to appreciate you on that.

00:32:44So many channels, so many shows,

00:32:45so many hosts came,

00:32:47but mashallah, mashallah, mashallah,

00:32:48you rocked, and you're still rocking.

00:32:50This is a big thing.

00:32:51Consistence, and all that.

00:32:52I just thought that my child is in school,

00:32:53so I'm here.

00:32:54And that's the house,

00:32:55and that's the house.

00:32:56And now,

00:32:56but this was a smart move.

00:32:59Yes.

00:33:00In the drama, we also had a mother,

00:33:01daughter, daughter, and daughter.

00:33:02And here, you know,

00:33:03some people take you as a sister,

00:33:05some people take you.

00:33:06Yes, that's what I'm saying.

00:33:08My sister's really.

00:33:09So, that was a smart move.

00:33:11So, good morning Pakistan.

00:33:12When we go to Nida Yasir,

00:33:13we'll have Arusa Tureshi,

00:33:14which we'll do.

00:33:15Done.

00:33:16Don't say anything.

00:33:17Yes, that's the thing.

00:33:19This is the thing.

00:33:20You can sit behind and talk to yourself.

00:33:23We'll train.

00:33:24You can train.

00:33:25I'll train.

00:33:26Nida Yasir is the one.

00:33:27No.

00:33:28So that's your turn.

00:33:30No, I will do my job. My second job is now 4.5 years old, so I will do my job.

00:33:41So that means that you come and come and come?

00:33:43Yes, now it is now in Lahore.

00:33:45Because the 7-year-old children are important.

00:33:48Yes.

00:33:49Now they are going to school, mashallah.

00:33:52If you don't mind.

00:33:54I have listened to Meulana Tariq Jameel,

00:33:58that in the first 10 years,

00:34:00give a lot of devotion, love, love, respect and care,

00:34:04that you will do all your life.

00:34:06So it has become a base?

00:34:08There was another great saying,

00:34:10that in the first 7-year-old children,

00:34:12you become an uncle and you become an uncle.

00:34:15Then in the 7-14-year-old children,

00:34:17you become an uncle and become a uncle.

00:34:20Then in the 14-20 years,

00:34:22you become an uncle,

00:34:23you become a friend.

00:34:24He or she, your son,

00:34:25so that in the 21 years,

00:34:26he or she is ready to conquer the world.

00:34:28So that pattern in my mind,

00:34:30was these things.

00:34:31Yes.

00:34:32So for 7 years,

00:34:33I have become a uncle,

00:34:34and I became a uncle,

00:34:35so the wife says,

00:34:36I will also become a uncle.

00:34:37Yes, when will he become?

00:34:38Yes, when will he become?

00:34:39No, he is an amazing father.

00:34:41He is an amazing father.

00:34:42He is a big expert.

00:34:44Proudly.

00:34:45And I always say,

00:34:46you are being a uncle.

00:34:47Yes.

00:34:48I am happy.

00:34:49I am happy to be.

00:34:50So now,

00:34:51let's get married.

00:34:52Three years later.

00:34:53Three years later.

00:34:54Yes, yes.

00:34:55Actually three years later.

00:34:56Yes.

00:34:57The happiness all about.

00:34:58So how are we?

00:34:59Yes, I am happy.

00:35:00So now,

00:35:01we come to divorce?

00:35:02Three years later.

00:35:03Three years later.

00:35:04Three years later.

00:35:05Yes, yes.

00:35:06Actually three years later.

00:35:07Yes.

00:35:08The happiness all about.

00:35:09Sohan was in your life.

00:35:10Yes.

00:35:11Sohan was in your life.

00:35:12Well, when a child is a parent,

00:35:13it is not a parent.

00:35:14It is a parent.

00:35:15It is not for parenting.

00:35:16There are little things about the child's,

00:35:17which are big.

00:35:18The God that was special.

00:35:19God is special.

00:35:20He got a hard work.

00:35:21He got a hard work.

00:35:22He got to go to the hospital.

00:35:24He got to the hospital.

00:35:25He got to go to the hospital.

00:35:27I will give you an example, our experience is that when Sohan started moving around and crawling around and all that,

00:35:35we have disposed our bed.

00:35:37We have disposed our mattress on the ground and we have disposed our bed so that we don't fall down.

00:35:42And second, we have covered all the switch holes and the switch holes.

00:35:47It's protective.

00:35:48So our house was like that we had to shift.

00:35:52We didn't have any decoration piece.

00:35:55We didn't have a mattress on the sofa.

00:35:59We didn't have a mattress on the sofa.

00:36:01We didn't have a new parent.

00:36:03We didn't enjoy the process.

00:36:05We didn't enjoy it.

00:36:07We didn't enjoy it.

00:36:08My romance fell down.

00:36:10That's why my romance fell down two or three times.

00:36:12Sohan never fell down.

00:36:14If you say that the kids have roughed up,

00:36:16then you thought that we made it more.

00:36:18No, no, no.

00:36:20MashaAllah, our mind is roughed up.

00:36:22Yes, it's roughed up.

00:36:24But this is one of the tips that when she was young, she was doing crawling.

00:36:30That's when we were full of our house.

00:36:32Because the kids fall down from bed.

00:36:34They don't do anything.

00:36:36You have to be very conscious in that.

00:36:38And we felt so blessed.

00:36:40And we felt so blessed.

00:36:42We were reading, reading, reading or reading films.

00:36:48And we felt so blessed.

00:36:50And we felt so blessed.

00:36:52Yes.

00:36:53Oh yes.

00:36:54100%.

00:36:55100%.

00:36:56Yes.

00:36:57100%.

00:36:58Yes.

00:36:59100%.

00:37:00Yes.

00:37:01Yes.

00:37:02Yes.

00:37:03Yes.

00:37:04Yes.

00:37:05Yes.

00:37:06Yes.

00:37:07Yes.

00:37:08Yes.

00:37:09Yes.

00:37:10Yes.

00:37:11Yes.

00:37:12Yes.

00:37:13Yes.

00:37:14Yes.

00:37:15Yes.

00:37:17Yes.

00:37:18Yes.

00:37:19Yes.

00:37:20Yes.

00:37:21Yes.

00:37:22Yes.

00:37:23Yes.

00:37:24Yes.

00:37:25Yes.

00:37:26Yes.

00:37:27Yes.

00:37:28Our couple has a lot of compatibility, the main point is that we both don't have so much concern.

00:37:40They say that mother is watching.

00:37:42But we both are equally concerned for children.

00:37:46And you guys have a hook, a hooping point.

00:37:50You have to keep them together.

00:37:52There are other things.

00:37:54But this is one thing to think about children's privilege.

00:37:57The only thing I have changed, they have changed.

00:38:01The only thing I have changed, the only thing I have changed.

00:38:05I have changed so much.

00:38:07I remember that if I had three years ago, I had a habit of changing the habit of father's house.

00:38:12Then I would say that father will change the diaper.

00:38:14Especially the number two diaper.

00:38:16The father will change the diaper.

00:38:20I would say that the mother will change the diaper.

00:38:22It's one thing that you enjoy.

00:38:25It's the most important thing.

00:38:26Because our people don't do this work.

00:38:28I don't know.

00:38:29It's a big deal.

00:38:30It's a big deal.

00:38:31It's a big deal.

00:38:32It's a big deal.

00:38:33It's a big deal.

00:38:34It's a big deal.

00:38:35It's a big deal.

00:38:36It's a big deal.

00:38:37It's a big deal.

00:38:38It's a big deal.

00:38:39And that's how it's been,

00:38:40Your idea,

00:38:42It's a big deal.

00:38:43It's a big deal.

00:38:44Yeah.

00:38:45I don't think it's true, people say that people die in Pakistan.

00:38:49I would like to say here that in a human life,

00:38:55when it is not capable of having a safe and safe place,

00:39:00all that needs to be done,

00:39:02at that time, the mother and father are devoted to him,

00:39:04no one can give you a devotion in the world.

00:39:07And this is not our fault.

00:39:10And as you asked, being a man,

00:39:13I feel like gender is not something.

00:39:16Yes, gender in terms of that mother has been born.

00:39:19That's why mother is a good and good.

00:39:22But father, I think,

00:39:24in my opinion,

00:39:25in my mind, in my mind, physically,

00:39:27no one should be able to do that.

00:39:29Sometimes it will be picked.

00:39:30The child who sees it,

00:39:32I don't know.

00:39:34No, it's not their father or their brother.

00:39:36I don't know.

00:39:38We all believe parents,

00:39:40their children, their own knowledge.

00:39:42I mean,

00:39:44I can do anything for this.

00:39:45That's the feeling.

00:39:46So,

00:39:47it doesn't have to be practical.

00:39:49Now,

00:39:50people say,

00:39:51no,

00:39:52no,

00:39:53no,

00:39:54no,

00:39:55no,

00:39:56no.

00:39:57But you enjoy it.

00:39:58I love it.

00:39:59I love doing it.

00:40:00I love doing it.

00:40:01I love it.

00:40:03I love to do it.

00:40:04I love to do it.

00:40:05But,

00:40:06I have to keep their thoughts as well.

00:40:07If I listen to them,

00:40:08I will be like,

00:40:09that's why.

00:40:10That's why.

00:40:11I love it.

00:40:12Because it's a lot of

00:40:13like,

00:40:14you know,

00:40:15you know,

00:40:16I'm scared.

00:40:17I was scared.

00:40:18Like you said,

00:40:19you know,

00:40:20when the child was born,

00:40:21I was just born.

00:40:22No,

00:40:23no,

00:40:24no.

00:40:25It's not a day.

00:40:26It's a little time,

00:40:27but I was conscious.

00:40:28I won't be wrong.

00:40:29Well,

00:40:31there is a lot of

00:40:32that there is a lot of

00:40:33like,

00:40:34yes,

00:40:35the baby has worn porous

00:40:36a little bit.

00:40:37But she says,

00:40:38what do I say?

00:40:39I don't have to do it.

00:40:40I don't have to do it.

00:40:41We go outside,

00:40:42they are not their children.

00:40:43My daughter is not their children.

00:40:44We are hanging around.

00:40:45Maybe it's malls,

00:40:46maybe it's outstation,

00:40:47a picnic point

00:40:48or holiday.

00:40:49Now,

00:40:50if we both try to play

00:40:51and get it back,

00:40:52I always say,

00:40:53if you have the duty in the house,

00:40:54then I'll go out.

00:40:55If you have more duties,

00:40:56the people will say

00:40:57what will I say?

00:40:59I've seen a lot of girls.

00:41:01I've seen a lot of girls.

00:41:03It's good to become a girl.

00:41:05If you become a girl, you will be able to govern the world.

00:41:07You will become a girl in the world.

00:41:09If you become a girl, you will become a girl in the world.

00:41:11If you become a girl, you will become a girl.

00:41:13We have no more nannies.

00:41:15Yes, we have no.

00:41:1724 hours.

00:41:19They both contributed to their work.

00:41:21If you are alone, you are only doing a woman.

00:41:25Then it's a need.

00:41:27Let's take it and put it in a compliment.

00:41:31I like to mention this on here.

00:41:35She is amazing in terms of diet.

00:41:39No cold drinks, no junk food.

00:41:41I don't like it.

00:41:43I don't like it.

00:41:45I have 9 years old and I have 4 years old.

00:41:47They have no cold drinks today.

00:41:49They don't know how it tastes.

00:41:51Even junk food or any sweet thing.

00:41:55Now, if we are here too.

00:41:57Let's suppose there will be some cake or cookies.

00:41:59There will be some stuff.

00:42:01So, Mahshallah, you will call first.

00:42:03Mama, I will eat it.

00:42:05If Mama says no, then no.

00:42:06No means no.

00:42:07She is the boss.

00:42:08Okay.

00:42:09She is the boss.

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00:42:28So, I will start with my topic.

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00:43:15So, today we have basically Bilal and Urusa.

00:43:20But their stage is now for 10 years.

00:43:23The stage of marriage which we are discussing today.

00:43:26And many days later we have come.

00:43:29So, we have started with a flashback.

00:43:32And MashaAllah, Alhamdulillah, we look at this.

00:43:36That there is a lot of extreme influence in life.

00:43:40Alhamdulillah, it is not.

00:43:42Because of Allah.

00:43:43MashaAllah, life is a good journey.

00:43:46Alhamdulillah, Alhamdulillah.

00:43:48But many couples are such a way that they are tested.

00:43:53They are tested in different stages of life.

00:43:56So, I have a couple here.

00:43:58I have a couple here.

00:43:59My name is Mauz Ansari.

00:44:00And Saira Ansari, 25 years ago.

00:44:02MashaAllah.

00:44:03MashaAllah.

00:44:04And in their lives, the graph is like this and this came.

00:44:08And in that, there is a difference between the other people.

00:44:12Many people, if they are wrong with their parents, they are leaving their parents.

00:44:16If they are wrong with their parents, they are leaving their parents.

00:44:18If they are wrong with their parents, they are leaving their parents.

00:44:20If you live with them at that time, then the marriage will be more than 25 years later.

00:44:25True.

00:44:26So, what is the story of your parents?

00:44:28If I ask you about the stages of your parents.

00:44:30I think starting, when I was married, he was working there.

00:44:35So, I was married for 4-5 months.

00:44:40Then I went there.

00:44:43But within 3 months, there was no issue of contract.

00:44:48And that job was done.

00:44:50And now, there was a new marriage.

00:44:52Yes, there was a new marriage.

00:44:53And when I went there, I conceived also.

00:44:56So, when we came back, I was expecting them.

00:44:59And it was not a job at that time.

00:45:02So, that was a financial challenge.

00:45:06That was the beginning of the marriage?

00:45:08Yes.

00:45:09The first stage.

00:45:10We were saying that we were saying that we were saying that.

00:45:11So, we were saying that we were saying that we were saying that.

00:45:15But otherwise, I started the work.

00:45:18I started working.

00:45:20I was studying in business.

00:45:21So, you were pregnant.

00:45:22You also had a child.

00:45:23You started the work.

00:45:25So, that was a fantasy year.

00:45:27It was a struggle for you.

00:45:28Yes, it was a struggle.

00:45:29Exactly.

00:45:30And then, it was a tough pregnancy.

00:45:35It was a tough pregnancy.

00:45:36I had a lot of blood pressure.

00:45:38I had a lot of swelling.

00:45:39I went to study.

00:45:41I studied in business.

00:45:42I had an MBA.

00:45:43So, at that time, I was a permanent faculty.

00:45:45Now, I was visiting and I was in different colleges.

00:45:48But, it was a lot of swelling.

00:45:50It was a lot of swelling.

00:45:51Yes.

00:45:52It was tough.

00:45:53Yes.

00:45:54Then, it was a little bit of time.

00:45:56But, it was a little bit of time.

00:45:57It was a little bit of time.

00:45:58But, at that time, you didn't have a job.

00:45:59Yes.

00:46:00Yes.

00:46:01Yes.

00:46:02Yes.

00:46:03Yes.

00:46:04I was pregnant.

00:46:05You did not have a lot of aí.

00:46:06You were friends.

00:46:07Yes.

00:46:08Yes.

00:46:09Yes.

00:46:10You didn't have a lot of work.

00:46:11But, one of the times in that period was a tough time.

00:46:14My daughter's name was, Pa.

00:46:15And, after that, in some months, he was in development only.

00:46:17Yes.

00:46:18I was very happy with the career.

00:46:19Yes.

00:46:20The challenge was that I was doing the work and we wanted to do it.

00:46:24Then I wanted to see how to manage my mother and everything.

00:46:28My mother was also my mother.

00:46:30Our families were very supportive.

00:46:32But they were separate.

00:46:34They were separate.

00:46:36So managing the work was definitely a challenge.

00:46:41That both are working and the children have to manage.

00:46:44Both are working and both are working.

00:46:47This is also very important.

00:46:49Did you not work for the shop?

00:46:51Yes, it was very important.

00:46:53Then Behral managed well.

00:46:55I was very good at home.

00:46:57My family is very good at home.

00:46:59She was very good at home.

00:47:01She was very good at home.

00:47:03She was very good at home.

00:47:05My mother was also very good at home.

00:47:07We managed to manage it.

00:47:09Then, if I am going to get further,

00:47:12then the things settled.

00:47:14But the second time,

00:47:16it was 2007, I think.

00:47:18My daughter, Maryam.

00:47:20And when she died in five months,

00:47:23then she died.

00:47:25It means that there was another hurdle.

00:47:27And it was a big,

00:47:28it was a big blow.

00:47:30Because,

00:47:31when she didn't have three months,

00:47:34then she was poor.

00:47:35We were able to take her.

00:47:37and then she died.

00:47:38And everything.

00:47:39Lose motions,

00:47:40cystic fibroses.

00:47:41So, when your second son died,

00:47:44that time,

00:47:45so,

00:47:46so,

00:47:47and she died in many years.

00:47:48And she died in her.

00:47:49And the other people were close.

00:47:50And the other people were close too.

00:47:52And what happened to you?

00:47:54My daughter is close.

00:47:55We are close.

00:47:56We are close.

00:47:57I had a lot of loss from my son.

00:48:02She was 5 years old.

00:48:04Yes, she was 5 years old.

00:48:06So that was a loss which was very important.

00:48:09Emotional support.

00:48:12First, financial support came.

00:48:14Then in the next stage, emotional support came.

00:48:17This was a very big loss.

00:48:19And if you don't have a relationship,

00:48:21it's very difficult to get rid of these things.

00:48:24So that was a big challenge.

00:48:27After Mariam, 2 years later,

00:48:32I have two daughters now.

00:48:35In that time, the trauma was that

00:48:40I didn't get any wrong.

00:48:43It was a tear bed.

00:48:45It was a genetic disorder.

00:48:50It was a pneumonia developed.

00:48:53So, in my mind,

00:48:55I didn't have to give top feed.

00:48:57So, I didn't have to give it to me.

00:48:59I didn't have to give it to me.

00:49:00I didn't have to give it to me.

00:49:02I didn't have to give it to me.

00:49:03You have to get scared.

00:49:04You have to get scared.

00:49:05So, it was a very challenging period.

00:49:08Because I was working,

00:49:09but I was visiting.

00:49:11So, it was easy for me.

00:49:13To go home, to go, everything.

00:49:15Everything.

00:49:16But I...

00:49:17I mean, it was just a lot of pride

00:49:19that I didn't have to give it to me.

00:49:21And I'm not saying that

00:49:23if you give it to me,

00:49:24it's a wrong thing.

00:49:25You have to give it to me.

00:49:26Especially, if you suffer from trauma,

00:49:27it's a long time.

00:49:28It's a long time.

00:49:29And even when we get out of mom,

00:49:30it's a long time.

00:49:31We don't have to give it to you.

00:49:32So, it's a long time.

00:49:33Just the long time.

00:49:34Let's give it to me.

00:49:35Even if you stay on the same time for us.

00:49:36And the need for the best of mom.

00:49:38And I would like to clear that no one has said that no one has said it, but it's just something that you don't have to keep on our side.

00:49:52At that time, doctors told me that it was not because of a feeder or anything, it was a genetic disorder,

00:49:58because it didn't digest enzymes and everything, but it was a tough period.

00:50:08So, life was still this and this, but when did it get smooth?

00:50:12After that, they say that it's a lot of money, it's a lot of money, it's a lot of money, it's a lot of money.

00:50:20I think after Maryam, our financial draft, opportunities, a lot of things.

00:50:28Inaya, masha'Allah, there wasn't any disease, it was a lot of money.

00:50:33Alhamdulillah.

00:50:34Allah has balanced a lot of things.

00:50:39Allah has balanced a lot of things.

00:50:42I mean, normal bukhar, khansi, nasla, that's a different thing.

00:50:45But, like with the digestion, which I felt a lot, there wasn't any major issue.

00:50:51So, you're married for 25 years?

00:50:52Yes, 25 years.

00:50:53There's no doubt.

00:50:54There's no doubt.

00:50:55There's no doubt about emotional and financial.

00:50:57No doubt after 5 years, after 5 years, it's a doubt.

00:51:00After 40, it's also naughty.

00:51:03Oh, yeah.

00:51:04That's true.

00:51:05What do you say? Mid-age crisis.

00:51:07Nowadays, 40 is a new teenager.

00:51:09Alhamdulillah.

00:51:10No.

00:51:11I said, Sarah has been very talented.

00:51:12She took us from the beginning.

00:51:13And now we've been full of 25 years.

00:51:14So, they've been very talented in every stage.

00:51:16And financially and emotionally.

00:51:18No, this is not naughty after 40?

00:51:20No.

00:51:21It's not a problem.

00:51:22It's not a problem.

00:51:23It's not a problem.

00:51:24It's not a problem.

00:51:25It's not a problem.

00:51:26They don't check their phone.

00:51:27Yes.

00:51:28It's not a problem.

00:51:29I don't know.

00:51:30But, I don't know.

00:51:31But, I don't know.

00:51:32I don't know.

00:51:33But, I don't know.

00:51:34I don't know.

00:51:35But, I don't know.

00:51:36But, I don't know.

00:51:37I don't know.

00:51:38I don't know.

00:51:39I don't know.

00:51:40I don't know.

00:51:41I don't know.

00:51:42I don't know.

00:51:43I don't know.

00:51:44But, I don't know.

00:51:45I don't know.

00:51:46But, 40 is naughty.

00:51:48It's not gender specific.

00:51:49Yes.

00:51:50Oh.

00:51:51Oh.

00:51:52My God.

00:51:53I'm checking your phone.

00:51:54My husband's family is very fond of women's work.

00:51:57My husband is very fond of women's work.

00:51:58And, our husband is very fond of women's work.

00:52:03Because, my husband is very fond.

00:52:04And, his family is a thing that has to be very fond of men's work.

00:52:06So, there's many different things.

00:52:08All praise.

00:52:09This isn't happening in our stage.

00:52:10But, I want to tell you a very good time.

00:52:11I want to give a good time.

00:52:12I want to tell you quickly. Last year was Eid. When I woke up at Eid, the left side of my face was completely paralyzed.

00:52:22I mean, I don't smile from here. So it was a very tough one. It was Bell's palsy.

00:52:28It was a cranial nerve. If it was damaged.

00:52:33That's why your system breaks the whole circuit.

00:52:37I knew that my dad had happened a few years ago. When I went to the hospital, I knew that there was a lung infection.

00:52:44That's why I was scared.

00:52:47Actually, there can be a lung infection. It's an idiopathic disease.

00:52:52Sometimes there's no reason for it. Sometimes there's a BP shoot.

00:52:56Sometimes there's swelling here. So the instructions can't reach.

00:53:01So that's a very tough situation.

00:53:04The eyes blinked. The smile on both sides. The eyes blinked. The eyes blinked. The eyes blinked. The eyes blinked.

00:53:09And my job is to speak.

00:53:12You?

00:53:13I have to study in colleges. I have to study in my YouTube channel.

00:53:16I have to do counselling.

00:53:18So how are you doing?

00:53:19I think in March?

00:53:20Six months ago.

00:53:21Five to six months ago.

00:53:22The ability for six months.

00:53:24So that's the reason why you are telling yourself that your life was destroyed.

00:53:27You were ficoucate.

00:53:28The only film could become their life for you.

00:53:29Definitely.

00:53:30That's the story.

00:53:31That's the issue.

00:53:32That's the story.

00:53:33That's the right.

00:53:34That's their support.

00:53:35All the family would agree to me.

00:53:36Airlines, family, everybody.

00:53:37Everything.

00:53:38It's the first thing.

00:53:39You are a life partner.

00:53:40All of you are a ímportant.

00:53:42It's the one that you are a very important part.

00:53:45I used to drink water, otherwise it would be drooled.

00:53:50It is called a lakwa type.

00:53:53So your life is greater than events.

00:53:57Basically, the life of marriage or your life, there are events.

00:54:04That's true.

00:54:06When you look at the machine, when it's like this, it's like this.

00:54:10When it's like this, it's like this.

00:54:13So heads off to you guys.

00:54:15MashaAllah, for 25 years.

00:54:16In your life, there are financial problems.

00:54:20Yes, yes, yes.

00:54:21These are all things that come.

00:54:22And our life is also a hot day.

00:54:23Exactly, yes.

00:54:24Alhamdulillah, I am very blessed and lucky.

00:54:27If I don't have any projects like this,

00:54:30or there is a gap in time,

00:54:33she is very positive in terms.

00:54:35We are a big Allah-Tawakkar people.

00:54:37This is our father's side.

00:54:39So we are never into that.

00:54:42We are not a bad person financially.

00:54:44Alhamdulillah.

00:54:45But she has a strong will.

00:54:47I always encourage.

00:54:48Will power is strong.

00:54:49Yes, very strong.

00:54:50I am a weak person.

00:54:53I am a weak person.

00:54:54Yes.

00:54:55We say that we are strong.

00:54:56But innerly, I think that woman is stronger.

00:54:59No, my belief is that if something is bad,

00:55:05then there is no problem.

00:55:07This is my firm belief.

00:55:09I am a weak person.

00:55:10It is my belief.

00:55:11And in my marriage,

00:55:12Allah has said that

00:55:14my belief is that

00:55:16God has seen me in front of me.

00:55:18That's what I am more than the best.

00:55:20He has been stronger.

00:55:21So we are both a patient,

00:55:24we are panic.

00:55:25We are panic.

00:55:27I think that marriage is a kind of relationship with compassion.

00:55:29It's not happening but that's happening.

00:55:32Actually our life we have made so fancy.

00:55:36I am just talking about this.

00:55:38We are very social.

00:55:41That we are pressure on.

00:55:43That we have these cars and these.

00:55:45We are not.

00:55:47That we have diamonds.

00:55:48Not at all.

00:55:50We don't have any materialistic approach.

00:55:52We don't have it through that.

00:55:54Why are you saying?

00:55:56Because I think there is a great harm in life.

00:55:58And when you have to live for people you are wasting your own life.

00:56:01We have a couple who have lost our account at a good time.

00:56:06And then when there comes down, they have nothing.

00:56:10It's not a good time for them.

00:56:13You have to pay off your daily income.

00:56:15So, this is my right budget.

00:56:17Do you wanna sell it?

00:56:19We are celebrities.

00:56:21But we are 70% off.

00:56:23My wife didn't allow me to go regular and go to school for children.

00:56:27It doesn't matter how much it is.

00:56:29But we don't allow them to wait for sale.

00:56:32It's a good move to do.

00:56:34It's a good move to do.

00:56:36It's just that it's not a disease.

00:56:38It's not a disease.

00:56:39It's not a disease.

00:56:41It's a disease.

00:56:42Yes, it's a disease.

00:56:43It's a disease.

00:56:44If it's not a disease, then your life will go through every budget.

00:56:50Exactly.

00:56:51And then you won't come down.

00:56:52Because you have kept it for a month.

00:56:55Yes, yes.

00:56:56Now you will go to extra money and credit.

00:56:58Because people have so much colourful life and show-off life.

00:57:03And they are wanting to wait for sale.

00:57:05Yes, just true.

00:57:06You know, I would say that husband and wife should not burden on each other.

00:57:11Because it's not that you did or you did.

00:57:15It's not that you did.

00:57:17It's not that you.

00:57:18It's not that you.

00:57:19It's not that you.

00:57:20It's not that you.

00:57:21Yes.

00:57:22It's not that you are a bad guy.

00:57:23It's not that you are a bad guy.

00:57:24It's not that you should.

00:57:25Yes.

00:57:26We can say that we can sing songs for you.

00:57:29For the last years they have been playing songs for you.

00:57:33I can sing that Indians will not allow.

00:57:35That's why I can sing.

00:57:36Pakistani, now we can sing a song.

00:57:38In the eyes of my eyes.

00:57:41I am a ten-tenant.

00:57:44What do you think, if you've been 10 years old,

00:57:48what do you think?

00:57:50What do you think now?

00:57:52What do you think now?

00:57:54You have to be a target.

00:57:56Like, I and Yassir,

00:57:58we have a target in every stage of life.

00:58:02I think if you've made a target,

00:58:05then you will go back to that.

00:58:09This is a great fun to tell you.

00:58:11You will have 25, you will be 23-24,

00:58:15we will be 10 years old.

00:58:17My grandmother has made me 3 phrases in 10.

00:58:20One, I can do it.

00:58:23One is fifty-fifty and one is not able to do it.

00:58:27What I have not been able to do it is that my home.

00:58:30A woman wants to secure her home.

00:58:33She says that my home is my home.

00:58:35Inshallah, I will make it.

00:58:37But I have not been able to achieve it.

00:58:39But I don't have any pressure or any negativity.

00:58:44There is also encouragement that we will do it.

00:58:46We can and we will.

00:58:47The other thing is fifty-fifty.

00:58:49That is what I have told.

00:58:51I am very conscious that I have junk food.

00:58:54I don't eat anything outside.

00:58:56I don't eat any other things.

00:58:57It is fifty-fifty.

00:58:58I always believe and listen.

00:58:59I always control.

00:59:00I always cheat.

00:59:01And one thing is that,

00:59:02Alhamdulillah,

00:59:03I always say that I have five times to pray.

00:59:06I always say that,

00:59:08Alhamdulillah,

00:59:09I always say that,

00:59:10I am not a liar.

00:59:11But I am not a liar.

00:59:12So,

00:59:13If a woman has these three statements,

00:59:15which is very genuine and pure,

00:59:17then the person will feel your happiness.

00:59:19No.

00:59:20There is no doubt.

00:59:21Like I said before,

00:59:22that,

00:59:23Mia and Bibi,

00:59:24this is the only relation,

00:59:25which is 24 hour relation.

00:59:26Okay?

00:59:27When you have any problems,

00:59:29any problems,

00:59:30any problems,

00:59:31then the only person,

00:59:33you can completely,

00:59:34100% rely.

00:59:35If you think,

00:59:36others,

00:59:37take care of their problems,

00:59:38their home,

00:59:39this is ownership.

00:59:41So,

00:59:42when you own it,

00:59:43you just glow and grow.

00:59:44Exactly.

00:59:45And then,

00:59:46we think,

00:59:47we think,

00:59:48for the first time,

00:59:49we think,

00:59:50for the first time.

00:59:51And,

00:59:52I tell them,

00:59:53that,

00:59:54when the kids grow up,

00:59:55and when we grow up,

00:59:56then,

00:59:57we have to be like this.

00:59:58We have to be like this.

00:59:59Yes.

01:00:00And,

01:00:01I tell them,

01:00:02you don't want to leave your soul.

01:00:03So,

01:00:04after a break,

01:00:05we'll see Good Morning Pakistan.

01:00:17Welcome,

01:00:18Welcome back.

01:00:19Good Morning Pakistan.

01:00:20So,

01:00:21we'll talk about the different stages of marriage.

01:00:23And here,

01:00:24Bilal and Urusa

01:00:25are

01:00:26for their lives.

01:00:28And,

01:00:30we're getting tips from you.

01:00:32And,

01:00:33there are many couples,

01:00:34who have become a couple,

01:00:36or have become a couple.

01:00:38Because,

01:00:39it's often that,

01:00:40when you look back,

01:00:41you say,

01:00:42it's wrong.

01:00:43It shouldn't happen.

01:00:44That's right.

01:00:45Every couple,

01:00:46because,

01:00:47you don't learn from the mother's back,

01:00:48but they become a parent.

01:00:49They become a parent.

01:00:50In the first child,

01:00:51in the second child,

01:00:52they become a little repeat.

01:00:53That's right.

01:00:54So,

01:00:55if I ask you back,

01:00:57you think,

01:00:58you can't tell us,

01:00:59you can't tell us,

01:01:00or you can't tell us,

01:01:01so it's better.

01:01:02Okay.

01:01:03The couple is mature,

01:01:04and grow together.

01:01:06The wrong ones are the most,

01:01:08the wrong ones are the most.

01:01:09Yes,

01:01:10we've been 10 years old.

01:01:11We've been 10 years old.

01:01:12We've been 10 years old.

01:01:13We've been 10 years old.

01:01:14We've never been mature.

01:01:15But,

01:01:16I think,

01:01:17I think,

01:01:18that's the most,

01:01:19the most,

01:01:20the most wrong people,

01:01:21the worst kids,

01:01:22the worst kids,

01:01:23the worst kid,

01:01:24and the worst kids,

01:01:25and the worst kids,

01:01:26that's what I have never done.

01:01:27Okay.

01:01:28I don't know my mother or my daughter when our fight has happened.

01:01:32I didn't do that.

01:01:33Because in the end, you have to come back.

01:01:35So why do you come back?

01:01:37Why do you go back and go back?

01:01:39So that's what I have done.

01:01:41That's what I have done in my family.

01:01:43And as we say in Quran-e-Pak,

01:01:46Miha and Bibi is another dress.

01:01:48You believe that the best part of our couple,

01:01:52there is no doubt that family, friends,

01:01:55no doubt,

01:01:58no doubt,

01:02:01I can share and say,

01:02:03I can't say this.

01:02:05I will witness that

01:02:08that I have never seen a negative thing

01:02:11or something like that.

01:02:13Same goes with her.

01:02:15They have never done their family in their circle.

01:02:17I have never done that.

01:02:19Saira is our mutual.

01:02:21My sister is Saira in our house.

01:02:23She is our mutual best friend.

01:02:26She complains her about me.

01:02:29I complain her about her.

01:02:31So this is our girl.

01:02:32They are both.

01:02:33They are working on a referee.

01:02:36It's true that.

01:02:38True that.

01:02:40True that.

01:02:42True that.

01:02:44True that.

01:02:46True that.

01:02:48True that.

01:02:50I'm saying that if Mya, Mya,

01:02:52is that they have a different band.

01:02:54If they are not happy about their wedding,

01:02:56they have a different person,

01:02:58they have to be that one person.

01:03:00I mean,

01:03:02if you are looking for one person,

01:03:04that you can become.

01:03:06I feel like Nidaphi, it is not only love, it is not only care, it is not only respect.

01:03:13When these three parts come together, then you can have a successful marriage.

01:03:17Respect is the first of all, and it is mutual.

01:03:19When I asked them and asked them, they said,

01:03:22this is good, you and your family are good.

01:03:26And the credit goes to them.

01:03:28We have to lose their relationship with their husbands.

01:03:33And then we say that they don't go to the house, they don't sit.

01:03:38Because we have done this ourselves.

01:03:40So if I tell you to go back and see them, what do you think?

01:03:44You have done a wrong job?

01:03:46No, I think I have done a lot of mistakes.

01:03:48I am not a mistake.

01:03:49It is definitely a mistake.

01:03:51But the best quality of her, as a person,

01:03:56they have to forgive them.

01:03:58So if you have to forgive one another,

01:04:01and clean your heart,

01:04:03then your life is very good.

01:04:05Because no one can give a guarantee,

01:04:07that there are no mistakes.

01:04:08And in our case, definitely,

01:04:09I have a lot of mistakes.

01:04:10I have always believed that their heart also had to do something.

01:04:13And Nidaphi, actually,

01:04:15I have put their password on the phone.

01:04:18What is wrong?

01:04:20If it starts with a mistake,

01:04:22then I will open the door.

01:04:23Yes, it is necessary to know.

01:04:25Yes, it is necessary.

01:04:26I will not remember the first time.

01:04:28But in the beginning,

01:04:29when I came to the hospital,

01:04:30I told you to know the password.

01:04:31Yes.

01:04:32I told you to know the password.

01:04:33I told you to know the password.

01:04:34No one has to know the password.

01:04:35But then,

01:04:36I told you to know the password.

01:04:37But then,

01:04:38God told you to know the password.

01:04:39Then,

01:04:40what is the password?

01:04:41What is the password?

01:04:42My boss,

01:04:43there are two things like that without life,

01:04:44one is a wife and one is a Wi-Fi.

01:04:46The two are active.

01:04:48So,

01:04:49I told you to know the password.

01:04:50In the last year,

01:04:51the Uru Sahi says,

01:04:52that we should know the password.

01:04:53Yes.

01:04:54Because it seems to be a password.

01:04:55No one has to know the password.

01:04:56No one has to know the password.

01:04:57No one has to know the password.

01:04:58No one has to know the password.

01:04:59Exactly.

01:05:00No one has to know the password.

01:05:01No one has to know the password.

01:05:02No one has to know the password.

01:05:03We have to know the password.

01:05:04Yes.

01:05:05Yes.

01:05:06And some of the wifes are also very fussy.

01:05:07If your wife talked to someone,

01:05:09or your husband,

01:05:10or made her hand in a hand,

01:05:11or even hug,

01:05:12so they also complain.

01:05:13Then,

01:05:14if they could have a complaint.

01:05:15Or,

01:05:16if you sometimes have to come to dinner with your friend,

01:05:18then,

01:05:19it's not a big deal.

01:05:20Yes.

01:05:21Actually,

01:05:22I have a lot of girlfriends.

01:05:23I mean,

01:05:24there are girls and friends.

01:05:25Yes.

01:05:26If there are friends,

01:05:27then they are good.

01:05:28But,

01:05:29if there are friends,

01:05:30No, no, no, no.

01:05:32If you have a company,

01:05:34they told me that if you want to marry,

01:05:36then someone is not an Ameer.

01:05:38I also told Yasser,

01:05:40someone who is a Ameer,

01:05:42you have to do it.

01:05:44I have to do it.

01:05:46I told him that if you want to marry,

01:05:50then you have to find them

01:05:52or my own value.

01:05:54So, how many Ameer than a Khawateen

01:05:56you can try.

01:05:58This is the film, it's God.

01:06:00It's God.

01:06:01It's not God.

01:06:03God forgive me.

01:06:05I'm saying that you're a baby, you're a new,

01:06:07so you're a happy and blessed life.

01:06:09Absolutely.

01:06:10So we've learned two things in this segment.

01:06:12One is to check a little bit.

01:06:15It's not so bad that it's going to hurt.

01:06:17But you have to check a little bit.

01:06:19And you don't want to leave the bell like that.

01:06:23Bell.

01:06:25That's right.

01:06:26And what do you want to say?

01:06:28You want to leave the bell.

01:06:30You want to leave the bell.

01:06:32You want to leave the bell.

01:06:33God forgive us.

01:06:35But the people don't forgive us.

01:06:37And this is why our whole world,

01:06:39there is so bad and bad.

01:06:41So let's leave the bell.

01:06:43Because I want to say here,

01:06:45there's a great work in my life.

01:06:47That's what I've said.

01:06:49I've said to them,

01:06:50I've said to them,

01:06:52I've said to them,

01:06:54I've said to them,

01:06:55I've said to them,

01:06:57I'm going to leave the bell.

01:06:58So to teach me songs.

01:06:59Why did you do that?

01:07:00Why do you did it?

01:07:01Why did you do it?

01:07:03You both go together.

01:07:04Why did you do it?

01:07:06Why did you do it?

01:07:08We did it.

01:07:09By thinking,

01:07:10God asked us to make us that

01:07:11why did you do it?

01:07:12That's something we won't have to do.

01:07:14And three words that you've held in your life.

01:07:16We have a couple of times,

01:07:19Sayed Rashid Ali and Sayed Farhana.

01:07:23They have been married for 37 years.

01:07:26As-salamu alaykum.

01:07:28Come and sit.

01:07:30As-salamu alaykum.

01:07:32As-salamu alaykum.

01:07:34As-salamu alaykum.

01:07:36How are you?

01:07:38How are you?

01:07:40As-salamu alaykum.

01:07:42As-salamu alaykum.

01:07:44As-salamu alaykum.

01:07:46How are you?

01:07:50We have learned a lot from you.

01:07:52They have also.

01:07:54Yes, yes.

01:07:56Tell us about your marriage stages.

01:07:58After 37 years,

01:08:00do you feel good?

01:08:02You feel good.

01:08:04You say that children

01:08:06you feel good?

01:08:08Yes.

01:08:10When she married in 1988.

01:08:12So, mashallah, next year

01:08:14our son came.

01:08:16Alhamdulillah.

01:08:18After 9 years,

01:08:20we have been very good.

01:08:22In 1995, we got a son.

01:08:24So, in 1997,

01:08:26I was doing a job

01:08:28that was dissolved.

01:08:30After that,

01:08:32we had a little pressure

01:08:34financially.

01:08:35But,

01:08:37we had a golden shake end

01:08:39that I was made

01:08:41before.

01:08:43Oh.

01:08:44Alhamdulillah.

01:08:45So, it was a place?

01:08:46Yes, it was a place.

01:08:47So, I made a double story.

01:08:49Okay.

01:08:50So, the cost of the kitchen

01:08:52that was...

01:08:53It was a place.

01:08:54It was a place.

01:08:55It was a place.

01:08:56After that,

01:08:57I started a job.

01:08:59I had two kids.

01:09:01I had to study.

01:09:03I had to study.

01:09:05Yes.

01:09:06So, I got a small job.

01:09:08But, I couldn't get a level.

01:09:10Okay.

01:09:11I was struggling.

01:09:13I was struggling.

01:09:14I got a good job in 2006.

01:09:16I got a good job.

01:09:17Yes.

01:09:18But, in this period,

01:09:1919...

01:09:22How many years?

01:09:23Yes.

01:09:24It was a difficult period.

01:09:25How many years?

01:09:26It was about 57 to 2006.

01:09:27Now, we are doing math.

01:09:29It was about 97.

01:09:30Okay.

01:09:31Yes.

01:09:32It was about 96.

01:09:33Like 9 years?

01:09:34Yes.

01:09:359 years.

01:09:36Yes.

01:09:37But, in this period,

01:09:382001,

01:09:39my child,

01:09:40who was older,

01:09:41died.

01:09:42Oh!

01:09:43Oh!

01:09:44Six years.

01:09:45In this period,

01:09:46they had pancreas.

01:09:50Pancreas?

01:09:51Yes.

01:09:52My pancreas.

01:09:53Oh!

01:09:54Oh!

01:09:55Oh!

01:09:56Oh!

01:09:57Oh!

01:09:58Oh!

01:09:59Oh!

01:10:00Oh!

01:10:01Oh!

01:10:03Oh!

01:10:04Oh!

01:10:05Oh!

01:10:06Oh!

01:10:07Oh!

01:10:08Oh!

01:10:09Oh!

01:10:10Oh!

01:10:11Oh!

01:10:12Oh!

01:10:13Oh!

01:10:14Oh!

01:10:15Oh!

01:10:16Oh!

01:10:17Oh!

01:10:18Oh!

01:10:19Oh!

01:10:20Oh!

01:10:21Oh!

01:10:22Oh!

01:10:23Oh!

01:10:24Oh!

01:10:25Oh!

01:10:26Oh!

01:10:27Oh!

01:10:28Oh!

01:10:29Oh!

01:10:30Oh!

01:10:31Oh!

01:10:32Oh!

01:10:33Oh!

01:10:34Oh!

01:10:35The Chinese people eat more than me.

01:10:39Did you get a job when your daughter got involved?

01:10:42No, at that time I didn't have a job.

01:10:44I didn't have a job for the finances.

01:10:46Yes, at that time.

01:10:48But I supported my family.

01:10:52And at the beginning, we didn't know that it was a joint family.

01:10:56How did the child grow up? We didn't know that.

01:11:01One of the things that happened is that when my job finished,

01:11:06I had a small job.

01:11:08At the end of the year, I got a good job,

01:11:11and we will be stable again.

01:11:14MashaAllah.

01:11:15But in the court period,

01:11:18there was a problem.

01:11:20Covid, Covid.

01:11:22When Covid started.

01:11:24At the place where I was working,

01:11:26it was a private job.

01:11:28They sent me my mail.

01:11:30No.

01:11:31So you tell me,

01:11:32do you have a job?

01:11:33No.

01:11:34No.

01:11:35I didn't have a job.

01:11:36So you were a housewife.

01:11:37And you were in 37 years.

01:11:39We were in the same way.

01:11:40In 2006, Covid was very good.

01:11:43We were stable.

01:11:44What happened in Covid?

01:11:46In Covid, I tried to do the job,

01:11:49but it was on the other side.

01:11:51He said,

01:11:52you are working on the level.

01:11:54We cannot keep you on that level.

01:11:56Yes.

01:11:57As a food inspector.

01:11:59I was a rice expert.

01:12:01I bought whole Pakistan.

01:12:03But when I came in private,

01:12:06the state said,

01:12:08what I want, I will do.

01:12:10I said, I will not do that.

01:12:11I will do that in Pakistan.

01:12:13What the truth is.

01:12:15What the truth is.

01:12:16What the truth is.

01:12:17In Pakistan,

01:12:18we used to do blood.

01:12:19After that,

01:12:20it was not good cooking.

01:12:21Yes.

01:12:22Now,

01:12:23we came back again.

01:12:24Yes.

01:12:25Yes.

01:12:26In Covid,

01:12:27when the job started,

01:12:28after that,

01:12:29we had a little hard period.

01:12:32After that,

01:12:33our children told us that

01:12:35I had a good cooking.

01:12:36Yes.

01:12:37So, the children said,

01:12:38let's start cooking.

01:12:39Yes.

01:12:40So,

01:12:41we started cooking as a home chef.

01:12:43Yes.

01:12:44Alhamdulillah,

01:12:45we have been 4 years old.

01:12:46We have been 4 years old.

01:12:47We are cooking.

01:12:48Yes.

01:12:49We have been selling our children.

01:12:51We have been selling them.

01:12:52Yes.

01:12:53We have been a couple.

01:12:54Only they are not.

01:12:55This is so good.

01:12:56Everything is done.

01:12:57Yes.

01:12:58No.

01:12:59No.

01:13:00No.

01:13:01No.

01:13:02No.

01:13:03No.

01:13:04No.

01:13:05No.

01:13:06No.

01:13:07No.

01:13:08No.

01:13:09No.

01:13:10No.

01:13:11No.

01:13:12No.

01:13:13No.

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01:13:15No.

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01:13:17No.

01:13:18No.

01:13:19No.

01:13:20No.

01:13:21No.

01:13:22No.

01:13:23No.

01:13:24No.

01:13:25No.

01:13:26No.

01:13:27No.

01:13:28No.

01:13:29No.

01:13:30No.

01:13:31No.

01:13:32No.

01:13:33No.

01:13:34No.

01:13:35No.

01:13:36No.

01:13:37No.

01:13:38No.

01:13:39No.

01:13:40No.

01:13:41No.

01:13:42No.

01:13:43No.

01:13:44No.

01:13:45No.

01:13:46No.

01:13:47I am sorry, I am impressed with all of them.

01:13:52I am impressed with all of them.

01:13:57What is the love of Allah?

01:14:00How can God do something wrong with all of them?

01:14:03It's strange that we are telling the children of the older people.

01:14:06But it's not good.

01:14:08But it's really good.

01:14:10We are talking about the people.

01:14:13So you basically do cooking, and how do you do it together?

01:14:19We both go together. Before we started with the start, we went together for two years.

01:14:25I used cooking, we used food in the shops.

01:14:29In the walls, in the market, and then our houses started.

01:14:33Then there were little gifts that people came together.

01:14:37I would like to say that in the set of our dramas, we made food.

01:14:43So please consider that the people have so much experience.

01:14:47And the need for their love and love.

01:14:50So please, good morning Pakistan's team, take their contacts.

01:14:55We also had a number for them.

01:14:58Farhanaz Kitchen.

01:15:00I'm doing the name of them.

01:15:02Farhanaz Kitchen.

01:15:04Farhanaz Kitchen.

01:15:06Farhanaz.

01:15:07Now, you two kids?

01:15:08I'm four kids.

01:15:09Okay, maşallah.

01:15:10Maşallah, I've been married for three kids.

01:15:12She's a little girl in the final BBA.

01:15:15My grandma will probably be in the final.

01:15:18Maşallah.

01:15:19After that, she has to do a mask.

01:15:21Inshallah.

01:15:22So, you guys have been in 37 years.

01:15:24Very good.

01:15:25You've seen one of them.

01:15:26I've seen one of them.

01:15:27I've seen one of them.

01:15:29I've seen one of them.

01:15:30I've seen one of them.

01:15:31How can I fight?

01:15:33Hmm.

01:15:34I've seen one of them.

01:15:35But I've not fought.

01:15:36I've never been taking that but I didn't get that.

01:15:37No, I haven't been.

01:15:38I've never been around.

01:15:39She's never even hanging on my mother's home.

01:15:40No, you're sorry.

01:15:41You'll never see anyone.

01:15:42No, I'm sorry.

01:15:43Nope.

01:15:44No, I have no idea that she's ever found in the film.

01:15:46No, I haven't seen anyone else.

01:15:48I haven't seen anyone anymore.

01:15:49It's also happening.

01:15:50No, no, no.

01:15:51It's an opinion.

01:16:21If they like red and I like black, then I say that red is bad and black is good.

01:16:26This is unethic.

01:16:28If you like red, then go with red.

01:16:31I like black.

01:16:32They should agree, compliment and honor.

01:16:37It's okay.

01:16:40But the white, the white, the white, the white, the white, the white, the white, the white.

01:16:55People, the circle, the family, the white.

01:16:57People, the white, the white, the white.

01:17:00So after a break, we're watching this.

01:17:03We talk about stages of life.

01:17:06Now we're going to discuss the stage after 10 years.

01:17:11You're going to have three stages.

01:17:1210, 23, and 37 years.

01:17:15Oh my God.

01:17:16Oh my God.

01:17:17What?

01:17:18I don't know.

01:17:20Today we're going to do it.

01:17:21Today we're going to do it.

01:17:22No, we're going to do it.

01:17:24God never will.

01:17:25God never will.

01:17:27I'm going to ask you on the break.

01:17:30Now we're going to fight on the break.

01:17:32I'll ask you on the break.

01:17:33I'll ask you on the other stages.

01:17:35Good morning Pakistan.

01:17:36Good morning Pakistan.

01:17:45Welcome, welcome back.

01:17:47Good morning Pakistan.

01:17:48Bilal and Urusa today we're going to talk about different stages of marriage.

01:17:55different stages of marriage.

01:17:56How many years ago?

01:17:57We're going to be mature.

01:17:58Now we're going to be mature.

01:17:59Now we don't matter.

01:18:00Now we've been mature.

01:18:01Now we don't matter.

01:18:03I didn't feel like that.

01:18:05I didn't feel like that.

01:18:07I didn't feel like that.

01:18:08It's too early.

01:18:09Now we matter.

01:18:10Definitely.

01:18:11Definitely.

01:18:12And what do we need to be mature?

01:18:13I mean mature is boring.

01:18:15Marriage is mature.

01:18:16Marriage is mature, yes.

01:18:17Yes, you are saying that, as I said before, the anger was out of control, the anger was out of control, the anger was out of control, now it is a cool work.

01:18:27Like the begum tells me to make a six-pack, so I say to make a six-pack, you don't want to be my begum.

01:18:33Why would I do so much effort? That's the kind of matureness we have.

01:18:38By the way, the marriage is a very big brother. My friends and friends, I feel very small.

01:18:48My sister, Ikra, married in the night.

01:18:51We are talking about thirty-seven years, twenty-three years, twenty-five years, ten years.

01:18:54I want to give a special celebration of Ikra and Ikra.

01:19:01Good morning Pakistan, we're giving you a special celebration here.

01:19:07I want to tell you that I have a great scene with many of my children

01:19:12who are my children and my mother.

01:19:14So I will be my children and my mother.

01:19:16Because yesterday I was married so I was married.

01:19:18But today I am married so I am married.

01:19:20So that's the way.

01:19:22So many blessings for every couple who are going to marry.

01:19:26The season is a season.

01:19:28And there is a genuine reason.

01:19:30So this is that we are going to marry.

01:19:32And we are going to be happy and respect, love and care.

01:19:35So I don't think that it's been a lot of 10 years.

01:19:38But now it's not so much time.

01:19:41And the example is that yesterday I have put mehndi.

01:19:45So I forgot to write a name.

01:19:48So they didn't write a name.

01:19:50And then I was like, I forgot something.

01:19:53And then I was going to write a name.

01:19:55And then I didn't have any rings.

01:19:58I didn't have any silver jewelry.

01:20:00And then I got a B letter.

01:20:03And then I got a heart.

01:20:06So we are not mature.

01:20:07And we are so happy to be mature.

01:20:10Okay, I have noted that

01:20:11Mashallah, Mashallah,

01:20:13what your happiness is,

01:20:14you share it on social media.

01:20:16Like the year has gone,

01:20:17the anniversary has gone,

01:20:18or some event,

01:20:19or Eid.

01:20:20There are all kinds of clothes.

01:20:22The clothes are stitched.

01:20:24The color combination.

01:20:25That's all their credit.

01:20:27I was very passionate about it.

01:20:30I always thought that

01:20:31when my family will be,

01:20:32my husband will be,

01:20:33we will do this.

01:20:34The credit is that

01:20:35I do a lot of effort.

01:20:36Because there is no brand,

01:20:38I don't see the same family wearing.

01:20:41Inshallah, very soon we are going to start.

01:20:43We are thinking about it.

01:20:45We are thinking about it.

01:20:46Family wearing is the same.

01:20:47Because a lot of people ask me

01:20:48how to customize,

01:20:49how to do it.

01:20:50We have to do a lot of effort.

01:20:51Yes.

01:20:52Many people have said this

01:20:54that you don't share your moments

01:20:56and all that.

01:20:57So I say,

01:20:58that God's love,

01:20:59that the happiness is growing.

01:21:02That's why I am growing.

01:21:03And somehow,

01:21:04on social media,

01:21:05definitely,

01:21:06it's our social responsibility

01:21:08to spread positivity.

01:21:09If it's our work,

01:21:11if it's a good message,

01:21:12then why not?

01:21:14Because,

01:21:15my personal purpose is to save the memories.

01:21:19Yes.

01:21:20That when we are old,

01:21:21like today,

01:21:22we have Sohaan,

01:21:23that when it started to be a memory,

01:21:25you know,

01:21:26some time,

01:21:27hardware,

01:21:28copy,

01:21:29print,

01:21:30all things are gone.

01:21:31But,

01:21:32once it's on social media,

01:21:33you hit it and it comes on.

01:21:34Yes, exactly.

01:21:35So I am trying to save the memories

01:21:36on that purpose.

01:21:37But,

01:21:38people love so much.

01:21:39And,

01:21:40I really like to thank you all

01:21:41that our family,

01:21:42the most common comments are,

01:21:44Masha Allah.

01:21:45So I love you for that.

01:21:46It doesn't have negative comments.

01:21:47Because,

01:21:48Allah's name,

01:21:49as much praise and mercy are,

01:21:50so what is it?

01:21:51But,

01:21:52in Allah's name,

01:21:53I love to do it.

01:21:54I mean,

01:21:55I am very passionate about it.

01:21:56You know,

01:21:57the family should rock.

01:21:58Not that I rock,

01:21:59or she rock,

01:22:00or he rock,

01:22:01or something.

01:22:02You know,

01:22:03we rock.

01:22:04I don't believe in me,

01:22:05I believe in we.

01:22:06Masha Allah.

01:22:07So,

01:22:08all the creativity,

01:22:09you think.

01:22:10Yes,

01:22:11yes,

01:22:12yes.

01:22:13And,

01:22:14then,

01:22:15you work to make clothes.

01:22:16No,

01:22:17it's not mine.

01:22:18It's mine.

01:22:19It's mine.

01:22:20It's mine.

01:22:21It's mine.

01:22:22It's mine.

01:22:23It's mine.

01:22:24It's mine.

01:22:25It's mine.

01:22:26It's mine.

01:22:27It's mine.

01:22:28It's mine.

01:22:29It's mine.

01:22:30No,

01:22:31no.

01:22:32No.

01:22:33because you can wear,

01:22:34it's mine.

01:22:35No,

01:22:36no.

01:22:37I know.

01:22:38It's mine.

01:22:39Look,

01:22:40she's lost but her mom.

01:22:41No,

01:22:42never.

01:22:43No.

01:22:44No.

01:22:45They...

01:22:46Because someone said,

01:22:47that I'm honest,

01:22:48you have a way.

01:22:49No.

01:22:50That's what I don't know

01:22:52about.

01:22:53You have a family,

01:22:54but these people are like

01:22:55a couple of activities.

01:22:56For all,

01:22:57you put someone on your time,

01:22:58your money,

01:22:59So it's never wasted.

01:23:00Okay, a very important question.

01:23:02As a couple, how do you decide to keep a spark in your life?

01:23:07Hmm, that's good.

01:23:08Because you've been 10 years old and sometimes you've got to take another person for granted.

01:23:14So how do you keep a spark?

01:23:16What tip is that?

01:23:17Yes.

01:23:18Yes.

01:23:18Yes, yes, yes.

01:23:20Tell me.

01:23:21Because if I ask a lot of people to go on vacation, do it, do it, do it.

01:23:25But everyone has budgets.

01:23:27But everyone can't go on vacation.

01:23:29Conditions are good.

01:23:30Okay, let's go on vacation.

01:23:33And there are other things that can keep a spark in our life.

01:23:37I guess the reason for our life is a spark.

01:23:41Because a lot of people who are in their bachelor's life, they start to miss their responsibilities.

01:23:48What are the responsibilities?

01:23:50I have a friend circle, I have a friend circle.

01:23:55So that's not in them.

01:23:57When we married, I told them, why don't you go to friends?

01:24:02You go to your life and do it.

01:24:05But they didn't want their heart.

01:24:06Today, we watch Netflix and movies and enjoy it.

01:24:12So I guess we enjoy each other's company.

01:24:15I think that spark is a friendship.

01:24:19If in a relationship, you are friends with each other.

01:24:22Because every person needs a friend in life.

01:24:25And if you get a friend in your partner or family in your family, then you don't need to go outside.

01:24:31So that spark, you have a great question.

01:24:33And this spark, in my opinion, there is no secret behind it.

01:24:36It's only that friendship.

01:24:38That we should be one of the best friends.

01:24:41I share everything with her, she shares everything with her.

01:24:44And we enjoy it for each other.

01:24:47Just one thing that I feel like.

01:24:49What?

01:24:50I don't want to go to the morning walk.

01:24:51He's a night person.

01:24:53He's a night person.

01:24:54I'm a morning person.

01:24:55I'm a early memorizer.

01:24:56I feel like I'm going to get up in the morning and jogging.

01:25:00But he doesn't go.

01:25:01So you sleep at night or you also go to the night?

01:25:03I don't sleep because of his reason.

01:25:04But I like to wake up early and sleep early.

01:25:08Morning.

01:25:09And get up in the morning and jogging.

01:25:11So he doesn't do that.

01:25:12But if he doesn't go outside, he doesn't go outside.

01:25:14I'm a night person, I'm a night person, I'm a vampire.

01:25:30In a way that I'm a night person, I'm a vampire.

01:25:33So this is a difference.

01:25:35But that's the thing that we can adjust happily.

01:25:38And if there's no issue or ego, it doesn't do much.

01:25:42Now he's a 7-year-old, when he's going to school,

01:25:45then he'll take his duty, he'll go out in the morning.

01:25:48No, I've given him a duty for his first year.

01:25:51Because I'm very conscious, we are parents.

01:25:53So the first year he'll go to school, how will it happen?

01:25:56So I've given him a duty, alhamdulillah.

01:25:58And now I've seen Smooth, I think it's the thing.

01:26:00But when the romance will grow,

01:26:02then we'll go more on honeymoon trip.

01:26:04The kids are growing themselves.

01:26:05But you'll start doing some good projects.

01:26:10Inshallah.

01:26:11Inshallah.

01:26:12Now, see, it will be clear that

01:26:14Mya didn't have a lot of fun.

01:26:16What was my purpose?

01:26:17My, Mya was my purpose.

01:26:20My purpose is going to go.

01:26:21Thank you, thank you.

01:26:23Thank you very much for coming to you.

01:26:26For so many years,

01:26:27there was a craving for you to meet people.

01:26:30That's how it was.

01:26:31We always say something about you.

01:26:33We always say, artists are strong.

01:26:36So I and Begum always say that we're going to a lot of morning shows.

01:26:39And we've seen the hosts.

01:26:40Everything is very good.

01:26:41Respect to all.

01:26:42But the genuineness of you,

01:26:44that if you break on the screen,

01:26:46it will always be the same.

01:26:47But we were talking.

01:26:48It's very good about you.

01:26:58That's so good about you.

01:27:00And the second thing is that you have mentioned your father and he will say my great salam.

01:27:05Because I remember that as an actor, there was a huge award for me that he gave a father to me that I am a fan.

01:27:12So I don't forget that moment, so he will say my great salam.

01:27:14And my mother will say that you have great salam.

01:27:16Because my mother came to you in the morning show.

01:27:19So mashallah, the way you are doing it, Allah will give you a lot of blessings for your family and for your children.

01:27:25You have also done parenting, but today we both have learned a lot from you.

01:27:30Because when our children come to us, we have to be a teenager and all that.

01:27:33So this is the learning, you know, it's everyday.

01:27:36They keep going to the table, keep learning.

01:27:38Exactly. Thank you so much. Thank you.

01:27:41So this was our show today. Inshallah, you will be able to join us tomorrow.

01:27:44Good morning. Good morning, Pakistan.

Good Morning Pakistan | Bilal Qureshi | Uroosa Qureshi | 15 December 2025 | ARY Digital

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