Good Morning Pakistan | Susraal Ka Trauma Special | 8 October 2025 - video Dailymotion

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00:00:00What is the night that came here?

00:00:09I wanted to smile.

00:00:11I wanted to smile,

00:00:12and I wanted to smile now.

00:00:16I wanted to smile in your face with an eye.

00:00:22It's a night that came here.

00:00:24It's a night that came here.

00:00:30.

00:01:00As-salamu alaykum, good morning, good morning Pakistan.

00:01:20What are you doing? How are you doing?

00:01:23Your daily life has started.

00:01:25And it's the same thing in the morning.

00:01:27It's the same thing in the morning.

00:01:29It's the same thing in the morning.

00:01:31I was thinking, what do you need to make recipe today?

00:01:36Because, no, no, shock has become.

00:01:39This is what I want to eat.

00:01:41And as parents, it's not the same thing.

00:01:45We want to give the children what to do.

00:01:48Whether they have emotional needs, physical needs,

00:01:51whether they have money.

00:01:55But the parents want their children to be better.

00:02:00And if they have a phone to come,

00:02:02especially if they have a daughter,

00:02:04if they have a daughter, they can't do it.

00:02:07They can't do it.

00:02:09And they can't do it.

00:02:10So, the children are lovingly.

00:02:13They look like their children.

00:02:15But they have a soft corner.

00:02:18Especially in their hearts.

00:02:21And they go to the university, college, school.

00:02:27Every moment, sometimes they protect them.

00:02:30They protect them.

00:02:31And they protect them.

00:02:32And they protect them.

00:02:33And they're getting them out,

00:02:34and they're not sleeping.

00:02:36Or they're leaving you out.

00:02:37Or they leave you alone.

00:02:38And they go to college, university, school.

00:02:40And they leave you with your clothes.

00:02:41And all your children,

00:02:42all your parents,

00:02:44all their children's responsibilities.

00:02:45They're getting them.

00:02:46And they're asking them,

00:02:47So this is comfort, this security, these parents give their parents to their children.

00:02:58And in many different things, they take steps of understanding.

00:03:04There is a baby, there is a baby, there is a baby, there is a baby.

00:03:07And there is a lot of fear.

00:03:09But sometimes the desperation is that marriage is good.

00:03:14People say marriage, family, marriage, they come true.

00:03:18And there are many kinds of fight.

00:03:22Those kids that love their children and camarader lining up our hues of sacrific蘭,

00:03:25books of friends, parents, parents and parents get attention to them.

00:03:31But it is it is this way they need to keep their parents because they are young.

00:03:35They leave themselves with their kids.

00:03:37Take them back.

00:03:40People need to go with them because пом prescriptions should have birds.

00:03:42but when you give a lot of children to protect your children, when you are wrong, you are wrong,

00:03:51you are wrong, you are wrong, you are wrong. And in such a situation, children go through the confidence

00:03:59that you have given them, where the love you have given them, where the love you have given them,

00:04:05where the love you have given them, where all the love you have given them. Why?

00:04:12Because those rights that are wrong in the world, they don't do anything against them.

00:04:22They don't do anything against them. You are zero. We have done a lot of things with you.

00:04:28They don't do anything against them. They don't do anything against them.

00:04:33If you have a situation, you are not educated, you are not at home, you are not at home,

00:04:40all the other things are perfect. So wherever you are, you will be able to get traumatized.

00:04:46And so many children have seen such a lot of children,

00:04:49which were the same as the children of their children, when they were married,

00:04:54and when they were married, they were able to get them into a situation.

00:04:59So today, basically, we are going to show up on that.

00:05:15We are going to show up on that.

00:05:17We are going to show up on that.

00:05:19We will show up on that.

00:05:21extreme

00:05:25jewelry

00:05:27jewelry

00:05:29jewelry

00:05:31beautiful

00:05:34but

00:05:36if the

00:05:38choice of your daughter isn't

00:05:40so

00:05:42that is the entire life

00:05:44only with the

00:05:45underlays

00:05:46of

00:05:47As Walidane, when we select good clothes, good materialistic things that are best, then why not Sassaral?

00:06:04Because our marriage is not from a girl, it is from a house.

00:06:08Good morning Pakistan.

00:06:09After break, stay with us.

00:06:11We will save our children.

00:06:13Good morning Pakistan.

00:06:23Welcome back.

00:06:24Good morning Pakistan.

00:06:55I don't know.

00:06:56I don't know.

00:06:57I don't know.

00:06:58I don't know.

00:06:59I don't know.

00:07:00I don't know.

00:07:01I don't know.

00:07:02I don't know.

00:07:03I don't know.

00:07:04I don't know.

00:07:05I don't know.

00:07:06I don't know.

00:07:07Why do we keep the culture on our own society?

00:07:10I don't know.

00:07:12I don't know.

00:07:13I don't know.

00:07:14I don't know.

00:07:15I don't know.

00:07:16I don't know.

00:07:17But I don't know.

00:07:18I don't know.

00:07:19I don't know.

00:07:20I don't know.

00:07:21That's why you use this culture of our own culture.

00:07:24When we are different, we are different.

00:07:26We do not know.

00:07:27So why do we do our society in our society?

00:07:32So today's program is a open-up and my guest list with us.

00:07:37I'm going to introduce myself to you.

00:07:38Welcome to Ghazala, Ghazala Javed.

00:07:40As-salamu alaykum.

00:07:42How are you?

00:07:43God bless you.

00:07:44God bless you all.

00:07:46God bless you all.

00:07:47Amen.

00:07:48And then my guest list is Faheemah Awan.

00:07:51As-salamu alaykum.

00:07:52How are you?

00:07:53How are you?

00:07:53That's right.

00:07:54And it's obvious that both of them have a very important expert.

00:07:58If we are here and there,

00:08:02then what's the brain or the science or their study?

00:08:05They take us a little direction in the right direction.

00:08:08And give you some guidelines.

00:08:10So welcome Dr. Sana Shamim, who is a clinical psychologist.

00:08:14Welcome to the show.

00:08:14Assalamu alaykum.

00:08:15Assalamu alaykum.

00:08:16How are you?

00:08:16I'm fine.

00:08:17How are you?

00:08:18Absolutely.

00:08:18That's right.

00:08:19Today's topic, which I have told you before,

00:08:21that trauma, which our children are going through,

00:08:26their personality changes.

00:08:29Maybe because of the bad news,

00:08:31or the bad news,

00:08:33or the bad news that they are calling,

00:08:35or the bad news,

00:08:37or the bad news that they are suppressed.

00:08:40So a child is sending a child to her own personal life.

00:08:44Yes, I think that when I saw my daughter, when I was born, I was happy when I was born and I was born here.

00:08:58So, you never feel that it is our life and we will be able to move forward, move forward.

00:09:10so when she sees a wedding, she sees a big smile.

00:09:17We will be prepared, wearing clothes, and going to the same way.

00:09:22We have also put a lot of children in our hearts.

00:09:25We don't wear lipstick.

00:09:26She will wear lipstick.

00:09:28She will wear lipstick.

00:09:29She will wear lipstick.

00:09:30She will wear lipstick.

00:09:31She will wear makeup.

00:09:32We can't wear lipstick.

00:09:33When we get married, we say everything.

00:09:36We are putting it in the fantasy world.

00:09:41That it will be married.

00:09:42And the other thing you add is that,

00:09:45whatever you want to do is your husband.

00:09:47And when the husband cannot give time,

00:09:49then what happens?

00:09:50What does the time give?

00:09:52Because he has different connections.

00:09:54So, I said, what to do with him.

00:09:58So, we gave the fantasy world itself.

00:10:01Who does that because of the birth of a girl,

00:10:03or those films,

00:10:05or the magazines,

00:10:06the books, the digest,

00:10:07stories,

00:10:08those films that you can see make them grow.

00:10:10So, what's the importance of her?

00:10:11It's all.

00:10:13What is theンレョigai's life?

00:10:14And how important is Nidak.

00:10:16To prepare a girl,

00:10:17to have kids to have me on these hands.

00:10:20And so,

00:10:21because when she doesn't have the opportunity,

00:10:23in a bubble,

00:10:24that's also incredible.

00:10:26She also puts a teacher over time.

00:10:30It is growing up now. It is growing up in small-sized years.

00:10:34There is a way to grow up.

00:10:36The girl will grow up in the face.

00:10:39People say that the girl is young.

00:10:46One thing is 100% right.

00:10:50When you have a little age, 20, 20, or 18 years old,

00:10:57when she sees a new place, she is scared.

00:11:02She is so scared that she is not a parent with her.

00:11:06She is not able to take her stand.

00:11:08That's why now the married people are mature.

00:11:13She has become a career.

00:11:16She has become a career.

00:11:18She has become a career.

00:11:20She is doing everything.

00:11:22She feels good at home.

00:11:24She feels good at home.

00:11:26We are working women.

00:11:28We are all working women.

00:11:29But we are taking her home.

00:11:31But when she goes there,

00:11:33she has 24 hours of comparison,

00:11:37with the married people,

00:11:39she cannot do this.

00:11:43Especially, I say,

00:11:45they have 100 problems with her.

00:11:46Who is not allowed to go.

00:11:49They are not allowed to run with her.

00:11:51They are not allowed to have anything.

00:11:52Even if it is a family.

00:11:54She is a child and has a family

00:11:55and is not allowed to get her home.

00:11:57She doesn't have a family.

00:11:58She doesn't want to go out here,

00:11:59and she doesn't want to go out here.

00:12:00And that she doesn't want to go out here.

00:12:01She doesn't want to get her home.

00:12:02foreign

00:12:30So every time you control yourself, there is a lot of anxiety inside it.

00:12:37I would like to ask Dr. Sahib, if you have different cases for therapy, psychologists,

00:12:43you are aware of it. So, what do you want to do with these things?

00:12:48Basically, today's topic, I am going to tell you about the meaning of trauma,

00:12:55I am going to add that trauma is not just the person who feels it.

00:13:03There is also a trans-generational trauma.

00:13:06I also have such children, such young girls,

00:13:09who are taking their own mother's trauma.

00:13:12Most of the time, children of school and university,

00:13:16we also have a little probing with them,

00:13:19knowing that their father was very bad with their mother,

00:13:23and their mother was very happy with their mother.

00:13:26And because of their personality,

00:13:28we are seeing a lot of changes in their generation.

00:13:32Okay, so you are saying this trauma is genetic,

00:13:35that the genes are the genes,

00:13:37the genes are the genes,

00:13:38from the mother to the child,

00:13:40from the child to the child.

00:13:41Absolutely.

00:13:42But these are so good things,

00:13:43that it is so good to break,

00:13:44that it is for therapy,

00:13:45that it is for you.

00:13:46The children also know this,

00:13:48but sometimes people don't know this,

00:13:51that they are passing through.

00:13:53And so we are highlighting it,

00:13:56that if you feel as a boy, as a girl,

00:14:00especially, I say to everyone,

00:14:02that they need therapy,

00:14:04so please love yourself and go to therapy.

00:14:09This is the same therapy,

00:14:11or mental health,

00:14:13that is the same problem,

00:14:14which is probably something else,

00:14:15in the past.

00:14:16And that is also the problem,

00:14:17when you have to check for such a child,

00:14:19it is an issue that you do not be the same,

00:14:21for example you can do,

00:14:22the doctor to get a doctor.

00:14:23And since you have to get a doctor,

00:14:24it is also an issue.

00:14:25Mental health is serious.

00:14:26In this case,

00:14:28that you are listening to your child,

00:14:31that you have to make a good luck,

00:14:33and take a look for your self-for

00:14:40So this is why it is a mental illness, a mental health problem, right?

00:14:46If you say that a psychiatrist has to go,

00:14:50then people think that we are blind,

00:14:53we are blind, we are blind,

00:14:55so this should be clear that every person has a need.

00:15:01And is there a mental health problem?

00:15:04Yes, everyone has.

00:15:05I mean, a lot of people have talked to them,

00:15:07that we have to eat roti bags,

00:15:09but we have to go to our life.

00:15:11This is what they say.

00:15:13That we don't know about mental health.

00:15:15This is what disease is.

00:15:17This is what disease is.

00:15:18We just have to go to our stomach.

00:15:19They say they have to go to our stomach.

00:15:21They have to go to our stomach.

00:15:22But because you are in prison,

00:15:24there will be a lot of people there.

00:15:26Yes, absolutely.

00:15:27You face them,

00:15:29who are not very Amir and Kabir,

00:15:31and have to relate to a lower middle class.

00:15:34I have two types of experiences,

00:15:37that there is a different population in junia.

00:15:39And in private clinics,

00:15:40there are a different population in junia.

00:15:42In junia,

00:15:43people come to the junia when you have physical symptoms.

00:15:46Oh, okay.

00:15:47You start studying the exam,

00:15:48you start studying the child,

00:15:49you start in the late,

00:15:50you start in the late,

00:15:51you start in the disassociation,

00:15:53they start in the first time,

00:15:54and they start to study the junia.

00:15:56You start doing the junia?

00:15:57They start doing the junia and then come here.

00:15:59Okay.

00:16:00You start doing the junia,

00:16:01you start doing the junia,

00:16:02When you go to 4-5 people, you don't have any benefit, someone told you to go and show your name, there are psychiatrists, psychologists, just check them out.

00:16:12And what are the extreme symptoms? Do they have seizures?

00:16:17Yes, they have seizures. It's like it's like it's like it's a whole time, it's a whole time, it's a whole time.

00:16:22But no one has to do something with his MRI, it doesn't happen.

00:16:26Nothing doesn't happen.

00:16:27The other one is a headache.

00:16:28Every time he has a headache, he has a headache.

00:16:30He has a headache, he has a headache, he has a headache.

00:16:32This is the dissociation of his body.

00:16:34And we are saying that this is the drama.

00:16:36And this is the drama.

00:16:38Because that girl I have, when she was married,

00:16:40she took it after her marriage.

00:16:43They didn't do it before.

00:16:44She said, she went to the house, she went to the house.

00:16:46But after that, when she got married,

00:16:48she took it after her marriage, she took it again.

00:16:52So, these lawyers who are in the social economy are low,

00:16:58they are coming from this way.

00:16:59And those who are hired, they say,

00:17:01I'm sitting here, talking to everyone,

00:17:03and all my friends don't come from me.

00:17:05They are coming from different ways.

00:17:08For example, I am, I feel good.

00:17:11I am alone in shock.

00:17:12But I don't have so much fun there.

00:17:14And I don't feel like it, that I am sitting there.

00:17:17Again, the other kind of dissociation.

00:17:19I am there, but I don't feel I am here.

00:17:21I don't feel I am here.

00:17:22Hmm.

00:17:23So, these all things are different,

00:17:24different dynamics.

00:17:25In this case, no one knows exactly

00:17:27that it is my parents or my mother's trauma.

00:17:30They don't know.

00:17:32When they come and then we go through

00:17:34the case in history,

00:17:35the child and history,

00:17:36and all the dynamics of the house,

00:17:38we meet with parents,

00:17:39we know that the mother and father are sitting there,

00:17:41and the mother are talking.

00:17:42They are talking, father,

00:17:43stop me and tell me.

00:17:44Before I talk.

00:17:45I mean, the mother is saying,

00:17:47and snubbing it.

00:17:48Exactly.

00:17:49Let me tell you.

00:17:50Literally, it is also like,

00:17:51hold on,

00:17:52hold on,

00:17:53tell me.

00:17:54If she is in clinic setting,

00:17:55she is not able to stop her.

00:17:56What do you think?

00:17:57How much do you stop at home?

00:17:59Oh, so you observe all the things.

00:18:01Yes, all the things.

00:18:02And it is very common.

00:18:03I think that the mother is still in our home.

00:18:04Yes, absolutely.

00:18:05That you will never know anything about it.

00:18:06Yes, exactly.

00:18:07So if she is being at home,

00:18:08we will always have the friends

00:18:09who are doing a family home.

00:18:10They are doing,

00:18:11and the people who do it,

00:18:12are just doing the family home.

00:18:13They're doing it.

00:18:14They are doing it.

00:18:15They are doing it.

00:18:16And all the things about the spouse

00:18:17and the children,

00:18:18is not saying.

00:18:19At some point,

00:18:20they become very well-educated by the children.

00:18:24And the children have all been well-educated.

00:18:26And some children have all these matters.

00:18:28They have all these skills.

00:18:29That children have all these skills and children

00:18:30that are not lavabes and girls.

00:18:31She thinks that she doesn't have the courage to do our own.

00:18:38And children are also stressed and the trauma of children.

00:18:44Sometimes they say that you do not do this and I am not.

00:18:48She says that your mother doesn't accept your mind.

00:18:51You understand that we are not the need for the need for the body.

00:18:54But your body is so stressed and that you have the need for the body.

00:18:58but when you go to a psychiatrist, when you start talking to a psychiatrist and you take classes for a few years,

00:19:08then you get to know how much your body was in stress and how much you are relaxed.

00:19:15My daughter was a friend who wrote a book, all the children, school and all the other.

00:19:24She said that there is something on it.

00:19:28Why is that?

00:19:30It was a lot of morning, it was cut, it was cut, it was cut, it was cut, it was done,

00:19:36it was done.

00:19:38The doctor said that we don't know, we need to go to normal doctors.

00:19:44Then the doctor said that there is something on it.

00:19:49It was a long time.

00:19:52But at the end, the girl is a psycho.

00:19:58When she sleeps in the night, she gets cut and kills you.

00:20:04She is a medical doctor.

00:20:08She didn't have any bonding in her parents.

00:20:11She is a struggling and she is a stress.

00:20:13When she comes in the night, she doesn't do anything.

00:20:14She gives it to the night and gives it to her mother.

00:20:16The mother gave it to her mother.

00:20:18She gave it to her mother.

00:20:21It means that there are many things.

00:20:24Let's do our topic.

00:20:25And who is it?

00:20:27Who is it?

00:20:28Lubna.

00:20:29You should tell Lubna?

00:20:31My husband and Eric Nunn are my husband and I don't have anything else.

00:20:43My husband and my husband are my husband.

00:20:46My husband and my husband are my husband.

00:20:50My husband and my husband are my husband.

00:20:55I told myself that I will go alone.

00:20:58You know how to take that away.

00:21:11And I did not like this.

00:21:17He started taking care of my husband and my husband.

00:21:22What did you think of the name of the father?

00:21:24She didn't sit and I didn't have photos and pictures.

00:21:28When I was up at the morning, I would have made a big mouth.

00:21:32I don't even know that this will happen.

00:21:34She is not a bad person. She is not a bad person.

00:21:37She is not a bad person. She is a bad person.

00:21:40Yes, that's right.

00:21:42When I was up at the morning, she said,

00:21:44You have been sleeping at night.

00:21:46What did you say to me?

00:21:48I said, I don't remember that.

00:21:50I said, I don't remember that.

00:21:52Then she told me that you told me that you don't have food.

00:21:56I said, this is a bad person.

00:21:58She said, I am not a bad person.

00:22:00She said, I am not a bad person.

00:22:02I am not a bad person.

00:22:04The first impression is like that.

00:22:06She took it like that.

00:22:08She took it like that.

00:22:10She didn't say anything like that.

00:22:12Do you give it to your husband or not?

00:22:14No, she is listening to the daughter.

00:22:16She says, she can manage everything like that.

00:22:18If she comes to the husband and the other us.

00:22:20She took it like that.

00:22:22She says, she is at home too.

00:22:24How often comes home?

00:22:25She always comes.

00:22:26For a few days after a few weeks,

00:22:28it makes no change.

00:22:30It makes no change.

00:22:32Yes, it makes no change.

00:22:34She stays a good person.

00:22:36Yes, we can't do that.

00:22:38fourth country

00:22:41and the world has become more

00:22:44so the world has become more

00:22:47so you can see that you have to talk more

00:22:50and keep going

00:22:51and keep going, you can see

00:22:54and keep going

00:22:57and keep going

00:22:58and keep going

00:23:01and keep going

00:23:04She said, what are you doing?

00:23:06I'm going to go and see.

00:23:08What are you doing?

00:23:10What are you doing?

00:23:12What are you doing?

00:23:14Why are you doing this?

00:23:16This is not the same.

00:23:18If I had changed something from my own,

00:23:22then I would keep it there.

00:23:24Don't change.

00:23:26I will take a break.

00:23:28I have to ask you,

00:23:30when you understand ourselves,

00:23:32whether it's a person's nature,

00:23:34if it's a person's nature,

00:23:36and it's a person's nature,

00:23:38does it get a satisfaction?

00:23:40I've heard it a lot.

00:23:42In my life,

00:23:44either a son or a nun,

00:23:46or a woman or a woman

00:23:48who gives a situation to people.

00:23:50It's a healthy feeling.

00:23:54Is this a problem?

00:23:56We will go after a break.

00:23:58Good morning, Pakistan.

00:24:01Welcome back! Good morning Pakistan!

00:24:05So, wihtje, ha일 we go talk about

00:24:10that trauma which等等 children willove care

00:24:13or children's parents and concierge

00:24:17and after divorced and vie

00:24:20these personality stop BLACKologie

00:24:23We have been sent to our daughter to her,

00:24:26and we have been sent to her,

00:24:28but we all have vanished,

00:24:29and then we have been exhausted.

00:24:31So, let's talk about that.

00:24:33Before we go to the break,

00:24:34I said that there are many personalities

00:24:37that have fun with others,

00:24:39keep their shoulders up,

00:24:41keep their shoulders up,

00:24:43they have a saddest satisfaction.

00:24:46First of all, let's say,

00:24:48why is this happening?

00:24:50There are two major things.

00:24:52We say that we have a defense mechanism,

00:24:54like displacement.

00:24:56If I can get out of a strong person,

00:24:59then I can get out of a weaker person.

00:25:01For example,

00:25:03if we have problems in our house,

00:25:05then I can't do anything there.

00:25:07So, I will displace it to her.

00:25:09The other thing is,

00:25:12reinforcement.

00:25:14Now, when she is doing it,

00:25:16my husband is also saying that

00:25:18there is no problem,

00:25:20I can't do anything there.

00:25:22Plus, his mother-in-law is saying that

00:25:24my daughter is a child,

00:25:25and she is tired.

00:25:27So, the woman,

00:25:28the woman,

00:25:29the woman,

00:25:30the behavior is also reinforced.

00:25:32If she is wrong,

00:25:33she doesn't say that she is wrong.

00:25:35She doesn't say that she is wrong.

00:25:37If she is wrong,

00:25:39she is wrong.

00:25:40So,

00:25:41if she is in early age,

00:25:42we say that

00:25:43that the personality is now

00:25:44become the part.

00:25:45If she is not in early age,

00:25:46just for example,

00:25:47after 23,

00:25:4823,

00:25:4922 years,

00:25:50these are all things

00:25:51that have been started,

00:25:52then there are no traits.

00:25:53There are some features

00:25:54that come and can go.

00:25:56But,

00:25:57when she is in early age,

00:25:58there are some other things

00:25:59that have been

00:26:00reinforced,

00:26:01displacement,

00:26:02and this is the same way.

00:26:04So,

00:26:05they become a part of the personality,

00:26:06which you are saying,

00:26:07they become sad.

00:26:08And,

00:26:09what happens?

00:26:10One more thing is,

00:26:11the other thing is,

00:26:12the other thing is,

00:26:13the other thing is,

00:26:14the other thing is,

00:26:15the other thing is,

00:26:16the other thing is,

00:26:17the other thing is,

00:26:18the other thing is,

00:26:19that,

00:26:20I mean,

00:26:21something is being a part of the

00:26:22family.

00:26:23That's what we do,

00:26:24it is why it is the person

00:26:25who,

00:26:26made us so bad,

00:26:27as a part of it,

00:26:28yes,

00:26:29and how it is the person

00:26:30who made us know

00:26:31that we have not

00:26:31a part of it all.

00:26:33This is,

00:26:34it is all the person

00:26:35who is up to this person,

00:26:36who is the person

00:26:37who is the person

00:26:38who has married

00:26:39and many people

00:26:39have and many people

00:26:40who have married,

00:26:42and many people

00:26:43who have married

00:26:43after the person

00:26:45because it was good for a big age, but it didn't get married for any reason.

00:26:53So, he realized that the toxic environment, I created myself.

00:27:01And that's why his brother and his family was raised.

00:27:05Because he is the daughter of the house.

00:27:07And he gave him a sacrifice for the house.

00:27:09And he didn't get married.

00:27:11So, all the sympathy was seen in the house.

00:27:13So, that's what the point of the house was,

00:27:15that the house is coming from home.

00:27:19And when they come from home, they go to the house.

00:27:21So, his friend said, stop it.

00:27:22And they tell them that they see that there's a toxic environment.

00:27:26So, the situation on his toxic environment is where he is.

00:27:29Where is he going to go?

00:27:30It's a lot of times, we keep the mother's fingers to let them.

00:27:34And we say something about her,

00:27:35so, my mother is going to go there and go and go and vent.

00:27:40So, if we keep the mother's fingers to vent.

00:27:42If you want to get a heart and toe, or to feel you want to think of,

00:27:46but the one who is having that abit,

00:27:47do you want to go to the bottom room?

00:27:50Exactly.

00:27:50We are going to go there.

00:27:52You will泡, like this,

00:27:53put a heart, set down, want to go there.

00:27:55If you want to go to the bathroom,

00:27:57but you have to go there the toxic attitudes

00:28:00that you can see in your body,

00:28:03you have to take yourself from your body

00:28:05and you are giving yourself a problem.

00:28:06And your brother says that you have to do it.

00:28:08Do it a bad, bad.

00:28:10So you are giving that toxic environment to your mother.

00:28:14This is the mistake of the women.

00:28:17Look, there is a cycle going on.

00:28:19Sometimes when the mother comes to bed,

00:28:23sometimes the mother says,

00:28:25you are not here.

00:28:27Sometimes it is like this.

00:28:29So the important thing is that

00:28:31our mindset is to change it and to improve it.

00:28:38Because the mother knows that

00:28:40that my mother is wrong.

00:28:42No matter how much the mother is wrong.

00:28:46Yes.

00:28:47Because the mother knows that

00:28:49every mother knows that my daughter is wrong.

00:28:53No, no, no woman is not a woman.

00:28:55She knows that my daughter is wrong.

00:28:59She is saying that my daughter is wrong.

00:29:01But because she is a daughter,

00:29:03she is going to give the daughter.

00:29:05she is arguing that she has gone

00:29:10and she guarantees that she is wrong.

00:29:12Because she to exchange for her,

00:29:14she can get a little help.

00:29:16So here she makes her daughter

00:29:17she understands that

00:29:19my daughter is wrong.

00:29:21She understands that

00:29:22that my daughter is wrong.

00:29:23And that she can always say

00:29:24that my daughter is wrong.

00:29:25Even the mother has got problems.

00:29:26She's right.

00:29:27I think the daughter was wrong.

00:29:28She completely deserves it.

00:29:29That's right.

00:29:30in the way that I can give my son to my son to be happy.

00:29:34I can give a son to my son to be happy.

00:29:36I can give a son to my son to be happy.

00:29:38If my son to be happy, I will be happy.

00:29:40If my son to be happy, I will be happy.

00:29:42So this is all my fault.

00:29:46This is all my fault.

00:29:48It's not just that we say it's just gestures.

00:29:51For example, ignore it, talk about it.

00:29:54If you look at it, you can see it.

00:29:56Or you can see it.

00:29:58I have a very tightness of the world.

00:29:59Many people think that it is good to take a look.

00:30:01Why not even give a hand?

00:30:02Yes.

00:30:03I have a very strong attitude.

00:30:06Yes, I know.

00:30:07Yes.

00:30:08I have a very strong attitude.

00:30:10Many people think that it is good to take a look.

00:30:13I have never put your hand up.

00:30:14Exactly.

00:30:15They are not upset.

00:30:17But they are not watching the world.

00:30:20I'll add that quote, trauma.

00:30:23People say that it is aggressive.

00:30:26when you are doing something, you are living at home, you are living at home, you are living at home.

00:30:30This is not a physical trauma. This is a psychological trauma.

00:30:35Yes, which is the emotional distress that gives you so much relief that doesn't come.

00:30:42Then it disrupts its functioning. Then it comes out of its diseases.

00:30:46And then after that, when it comes out of its physical health,

00:30:49when it comes out of its physical health, when it comes out of it,

00:30:53then it comes out of its mental health.

00:30:58All of them can conceive not to get into it,

00:31:02because they are so stressed.

00:31:04They think that we have stressed it,

00:31:08that their mental health is so bad that their joy is not to conceive.

00:31:12They think they are more than hearing about their kids.

00:31:16They can't get into it, they will not to get into it,

00:31:18they will not be able to do it.

00:31:20I am going to say that I have a bad feeling.

00:31:23But when I was doing a family,

00:31:27I had a good family to make a good food.

00:31:31When I was in the house,

00:31:36I had a lot of food,

00:31:39I had a lot of food,

00:31:41I had a lot of food.

00:31:43I had a lot of food.

00:31:45I had a lot of food.

00:31:47I had to tell you,

00:31:49I had a lot of food.

00:31:51But when people get any of their food,

00:31:54they don't have any food.

00:31:57Sometimes I have to eat them.

00:31:59So I had to drink the food.

00:32:01And I have to drink them.

00:32:03So I can't drink them.

00:32:06So I can't eat this.

00:32:09When I have to eat,

00:32:11I have to eat them.

00:32:13When I have to drink them.

00:32:15I have to drink them for many years.

00:32:18can't we can't do that I can avec this as much as a panic

00:32:23person who likes a panic

00:32:25that you can't think you can't speak

00:32:27drama's

00:32:45That day I realized that my food was lost.

00:32:50Let's move on to Sana's side and where is Sana's side?

00:32:56Hello, Sana. What's your name?

00:32:59My trauma is different.

00:33:02A small child gave me a child.

00:33:06How old are you?

00:33:07How old are you?

00:33:08I was 12 years old.

00:33:09Oh my God, what does that mean?

00:33:10When I married, we had a joint family.

00:33:14Then my wife told me to be a child.

00:33:17Because they don't have a child.

00:33:19But you will not go anywhere.

00:33:21I will take a house in a village.

00:33:23I have taken a house in a rent.

00:33:25But they gave me a child as a cameraman in my house.

00:33:32Now they come, sit, observe everything.

00:33:36They go and tell me.

00:33:38I am so grateful.

00:33:40I will not eat good, I will not eat good.

00:33:43Because I know that I will go there.

00:33:45Everything will go there.

00:33:46And the mind of that 12-year-old,

00:33:48He is a child.

00:33:50He is a child.

00:33:51What will he do?

00:33:52What will he do?

00:33:53God forgive me.

00:33:54He will be a different thing.

00:33:56Now in their lives.

00:33:58When I know that I am so thankful to my aunt,

00:34:00my aunt even tells me.

00:34:01He says,

00:34:02The child has done the same things.

00:34:04The child has done the same things.

00:34:05Now when I talk to them,

00:34:07I sometimes have to understand them.

00:34:09I am going to get to learn from them.

00:34:10I am going to get to learn more.

00:34:11I do not feel as if you are working with me.

00:34:13What are you doing with me?

00:34:14I am going to understand.

00:34:15I am going to understand the story of children.

00:34:16I have never told you anything.

00:34:18He said,

00:34:19And he said, no, the child will not talk about it.

00:34:21He saw it.

00:34:22Now I'm at home.

00:34:25I've become famous in all places.

00:34:28This means that this is a very bad person.

00:34:31Now, as much as I try to do,

00:34:33I don't get the comfort of it.

00:34:35Now, when I'm telling the child,

00:34:38he says, control it.

00:34:40We will control our children's treatment.

00:34:43We are not doing treatment.

00:34:45Now, my husband, my daughter,

00:34:47my husband, my daughter,

00:34:49my daughter,

00:34:50I'm separate.

00:34:51I'm not in the comfort of it.

00:34:53But I'm not in the comfort of it.

00:34:55Now, what can I do?

00:34:57So, your husband is fighting,

00:34:59telling them about it?

00:35:01I want to clear my husband,

00:35:03but he will control me.

00:35:05He says, no, my brother will come.

00:35:07He will do it.

00:35:09You understand this.

00:35:11But how do I understand?

00:35:13My husband,

00:35:15he tells me.

00:35:17He comes to the office,

00:35:18he starts.

00:35:19After that,

00:35:21when I go to the house,

00:35:22I tell him,

00:35:23I haven't done anything.

00:35:24I'm talking to my mother.

00:35:25So, you feel a justice.

00:35:27A justice.

00:35:28And as a victim,

00:35:30you are sitting in the house,

00:35:32you are doing a good job.

00:35:36I write out a lot of work with a man.

00:35:37I know a man who reads a lot of things.

00:35:39Now, when you're familiar,

00:35:40you're a kid,

00:35:41you have a food.

00:35:42You have a child.

00:35:44You areuter.

00:35:45And you don't get dressed in hands.

00:35:47Then you don't want your kids.

00:35:48I can't tell you anything.

00:35:49You come to my house.

00:35:50Sit, sit, come.

00:35:51But you go to my house,

00:35:52you're like one or two.

00:35:53And they start around with it?

00:35:54And it's like the ego.

00:35:56They say,

00:35:56that the child isn't saying like,

00:35:59don't be a child.

00:36:05Talking about looking at the beautiful kids.

00:36:08There may be little children.

00:36:12One También's конц Title Meant,

00:36:13the girls who lived inxtures are partners.

00:36:17Instead, I want to聞いて that.

00:36:19I suppose, theatre of girls is to give their Andrew and group

00:36:23to speak with the children.

00:36:25They can plead for the first to no inhale.

00:36:29I like that.

00:36:31But I like that.

00:36:34I like that.

00:36:36I like that.

00:36:41We're laughing, but you see that.

00:36:48You can create a different image.

00:36:51You can be a girl, a boss, a fool or a cheater.

00:36:55If you have any image, then you bully the whole family.

00:37:00In college and university, you don't bully.

00:37:03You're at home.

00:37:04First of all, you're at home.

00:37:07But one thing that I would like to say,

00:37:12that your life will go through.

00:37:14You have to go through.

00:37:23But you have to go through.

00:37:28You have to go through.

00:37:31My confidence is zero.

00:37:34I feel like I have problems with my parents.

00:37:38Now, if I get loud, they say,

00:37:41they say, you don't speak.

00:37:44You know, the truth is that you're already getting rid of.

00:37:48You have to stop the child's office.

00:37:50You say, she won't come.

00:37:52You don't come.

00:37:53You have to come.

00:37:54All of them come.

00:37:56You have to stand.

00:37:58But that's the most important thing.

00:38:00You don't come with parents or the other.

00:38:02You won't come with the best idea.

00:38:04Because the only thing comes with them.

00:38:07You also feel like I have a camera,

00:38:10They are under surveillance, so what happens when I think about everything I am thinking about, do I or not do it?

00:38:18There is uncertainty in my own home.

00:38:20I am talking to my mother, I am talking to her.

00:38:23She will go and tell her.

00:38:25Today, my mother has talked a long time ago.

00:38:28Today, there is a pizza online.

00:38:30People are separate, they can ask for something.

00:38:33They are fighting at home.

00:38:35Here, there is a pizza.

00:38:38I am talking to my husband.

00:38:40I am talking to my husband.

00:38:42People are normal.

00:38:44I have done that for two years.

00:38:47I am talking to my husband, I am talking to my husband.

00:38:51I am talking to my husband.

00:38:53If I am loud, I am blind.

00:38:55I am blind.

00:38:56My confidence is zero.

00:38:58This is your experience of daily.

00:39:01You will stand and stop the conversation.

00:39:06I am blind.

00:39:07I am blind.

00:39:08I am blind.

00:39:09I am blind.

00:39:10If you are blind, you will be blind.

00:39:12But your life will be very smoothly.

00:39:14You have to break it.

00:39:15You will only stand and stand.

00:39:17We need to stand and be.

00:39:19No, you shouldn't come to my house, you're sick, you're sick, you're sick.

00:39:25Or you're sick, you're sick, you're sick.

00:39:28Eat it, I have no idea.

00:39:31My whole problem is that you don't look at me.

00:39:34And if you keep keeping, don't tell me.

00:39:36And so why my level is gone, in the past,

00:39:41so I'm telling myself to take a break into my mind,

00:39:44what will happen to me, what will happen to me, what will happen to me, what will happen to me

00:39:49and if I share it with my husband, this is my husband, you stand up to me

00:39:54I will see my rent, I will see my house, I will see my rent, I will see these things

00:39:58Look at a certain age or a certain time, when everything happens to me, a woman is like

00:40:05no one is lying about me, he is lying about me

00:40:08I damn care, a time comes in life

00:40:13you become so calm, you become so calm, you become so calm

00:40:16that you don't have to worry about me

00:40:18How do you take the time quickly, that life is easy?

00:40:21When the time comes, it gets disturbed.

00:40:24I say that if you feel like one thing, one thing to do, and take a stand,

00:40:30that the child also hurts, that you don't feel good,

00:40:34that if the child comes and comes with someone else,

00:40:37or if the child comes and comes with someone else,

00:40:39so that you don't feel bad,

00:40:41that you think you don't have to go away from that first step,

00:40:45you don't need to reach there

00:40:47I don't even think that I have to worry about it

00:40:49because my child has changed my father

00:40:50Now, of course it is my cousins,

00:40:53what will the impact on her?

00:40:55Or he will learn this,

00:40:56or he will be scared,

00:40:58or will be scared or cry,

00:41:00and he will not be able to say anything,

00:41:01and if he is saying, he will be surprised by that it is wrong

00:41:03We are going to take a break and we are going to see Good Morning Pakistan

00:41:08Welcome, welcome back, Good Morning Pakistan

00:41:17Today we are discussing that the trauma that people often give the name of the drama

00:41:24Why is this a drama, this is like this

00:41:26We are going to be a witch, a witch, a witch, so when you are saying a witch, the witch is gone

00:41:40She is a witch, she is a witch and she is a witch

00:41:44You are going to be able to feed her and laugh and play with her, she is so good

00:41:51So I would say that if the girl is traumatized, I think the biggest concern of the house is the biggest concern of the house.

00:42:05Because she brought her to her daughter to keep her daughter.

00:42:09If the house is good, my two daughters are married.

00:42:14I mean, I have,

00:42:16Alhamdulillah, Allah Ta'ala,

00:42:18for a million, million thanks to the older and the smaller ones,

00:42:22I have seen such a long life.

00:42:24It's so love, so love,

00:42:26that they share their stories with me.

00:42:28They won't tell me,

00:42:30because they will not know what their mother will tell us,

00:42:32because they will understand their stories.

00:42:34They will understand their stories.

00:42:36They will understand their stories.

00:42:38If they understand their stories,

00:42:40they will understand their stories.

00:42:42They say that it's a very big drama.

00:42:44When you are watching the drama,

00:42:46it's a real thing.

00:42:48Think about what you are saying about the drama.

00:42:50When you have watched the drama,

00:42:52it was a real thing.

00:42:54You are saying that it's a real drama.

00:42:56Absolutely.

00:42:58Soji, I have here.

00:43:00Tania.

00:43:02Assalamualaikum.

00:43:04What do you say?

00:43:06I'm going to tell you that I'm going through a lot of trauma.

00:43:08I'm very depressed,

00:43:10I'm crying,

00:43:12I'm crying,

00:43:13I've gone through the nights.

00:43:14I'm in love marriage.

00:43:16I have two children.

00:43:18I started working with a husband to support them.

00:43:20But I was living in a joint family.

00:43:22So, the guests and the owners

00:43:24have started to work on my office.

00:43:26I'm going to work,

00:43:27I'm going to work,

00:43:28I'm going to make food,

00:43:30I'm not going to eat food.

00:43:32And now, the kids are blaming me,

00:43:34How can kids eat all the food?

00:43:36They are doing all the work.

00:43:38This was a journey of life.

00:43:40I realized that my husband got married.

00:43:42After my office,

00:43:44they go to their second wife.

00:43:46Through the children,

00:43:48the second wife asked them

00:43:52if they were wrong.

00:43:54They didn't admire that.

00:43:56They didn't admire that.

00:43:58When they understood,

00:44:00they said that they would not live with me.

00:44:02Now, the children in this house

00:44:04are most likely to hold their hands.

00:44:06The other wife and the other wife

00:44:08who married me,

00:44:10I don't know how to handle these things.

00:44:12I was in my home.

00:44:14I was in my home.

00:44:16I was in my house.

00:44:18I didn't know how to handle these things.

00:44:20Then I was in a husband and two children.

00:44:22They are spending their lives.

00:44:24The children are spending money with me.

00:44:26I am doing a job.

00:44:28I am also doing a job.

00:44:30and I don't understand how many people are living in their lives.

00:44:34Now, when you pay for your own money,

00:44:37you also have to live in your own homes.

00:44:40Why do you live in your house?

00:44:42Why do you live in your house?

00:44:44I want to give you a suggestion of what to do.

00:44:47When you pay for your children,

00:44:50I don't see your children.

00:44:52If you support your mother's house,

00:44:55you also have to pay for your children.

00:45:01I was learning about school.

00:45:03I was learning about school.

00:45:05I'm tired, I'm not going to school,

00:45:07I'm giving money, I'm giving money.

00:45:09I'm making food, but I don't have anything for me.

00:45:12You're asking for yourself,

00:45:16why do you give this privilege?

00:45:19Because you give this love,

00:45:22love, love.

00:45:24When they smile,

00:45:26the love is your life.

00:45:29It's mixed with your love marriage.

00:45:31After that, it was her love marriage.

00:45:33What are you waiting for?

00:45:37How much will it happen?

00:45:39In that case, everything will be fine?

00:45:41That it's two kids too.

00:45:44There's nothing about love.

00:45:45It's a practical life.

00:45:46Now, you must think for your children

00:45:49and strive.

00:45:50If you think for your children

00:45:52leave her home and leave her mother and give her money.

00:45:55This is a good thing, you are independent.

00:45:57You are confident, independent.

00:45:59I do. I do. I do.

00:46:00You are still working on the job.

00:46:01You are in a drama, you are not sleeping in the night, you are not sleeping in the night.

00:46:05You know, God gives you the opportunity.

00:46:08He shows you how it is going with you.

00:46:13So it is possible that this is your destiny,

00:46:16that you have to go further.

00:46:17Your career wise.

00:46:19And all of these things are happening with you.

00:46:22Sometimes people don't see these things.

00:46:23Years and years.

00:46:24Why is this happening at home?

00:46:26I was a good girl, a good wife.

00:46:28But I am so good and I am so good.

00:46:31And then I am so good.

00:46:33And then after that,

00:46:35I realized that the alarm has shown you.

00:46:38That you focus on yourself.

00:46:40Look at your children.

00:46:41Because we did love marriage in the beginning.

00:46:44We were very good.

00:46:45We were very good.

00:46:46We were very good.

00:46:48But it was very good.

00:46:50Because I was so good.

00:46:51It was like,

00:46:52I was so good at the time.

00:46:53Because I had a lot of love marriage in my mind.

00:46:54That your husband will have a better chance.

00:46:56He will be able to fulfill your dreams.

00:46:57And the other people were very good.

00:46:58And then,

00:46:59I was so good at that time.

00:47:00And I was so good at that time.

00:47:01That was all.

00:47:02You know your parents?

00:47:03Yes.

00:47:04Yes.

00:47:05Your mother gave your support.

00:47:06You know everything.

00:47:07Yes.

00:47:08You should have to have a difficult task.

00:47:09What do you say?

00:47:10I was very young, when I was 17 years old, I was 17 years old.

00:47:16What did you say about your parents?

00:47:20My parents didn't trust me, but I didn't trust my parents.

00:47:26At that time, the decisions were a little immature.

00:47:30My parents were just following me.

00:47:34They said they were right.

00:47:36They were right.

00:47:38How old are your parents?

00:47:40My husband was 3 years old.

00:47:42I've seen a lot of this.

00:47:44When they are young age, they are young age.

00:47:48After a certain mature age, they don't like their love.

00:47:55They are not mature.

00:47:57At that time, they have married in maturity.

00:48:01But if a child is not mature, then they say,

00:48:04they are not my favorite.

00:48:06In addition to that, the other thing,

00:48:08the case is that,

00:48:10I feel that there is no need for your earnings.

00:48:14But God has shown you a path.

00:48:18Because if your husband can take another baby,

00:48:20then you can take another baby.

00:48:21Yes, of course.

00:48:22That means, God has shown you,

00:48:24that the growth is for you.

00:48:26Yes.

00:48:27At that time, you understand the pros and cons,

00:48:30and then try to make the pros and cons.

00:48:32Then try to make the pros and cons.

00:48:34I always say,

00:48:35you need to understand the pros and cons.

00:48:37If you have a support system,

00:48:39then be sure.

00:48:40But that is true.

00:48:41But you have a support system,

00:48:42that says,

00:48:43yes, yes, then we will manage.

00:48:44You have a lot of resources.

00:48:46Without any doubt,

00:48:47you will be stable,

00:48:49so you will be stable.

00:48:50But children are little.

00:48:51It is often like women who understand that they have a lot of blood to the house,

00:48:58and they say that they have a lot of blood to the house.

00:49:02They don't say that they have two children.

00:49:05They don't have two children.

00:49:07They will be able to get married.

00:49:10And they will be married.

00:49:12One thing I want to tell you is that when you go to work,

00:49:16you love your in-laws and love them.

00:49:19They know that they can be married.

00:49:22They tell me,

00:49:23it's like a 9.

00:49:24She told me that it's like a mom,

00:49:27this way I go home.

00:49:29When my child told me,

00:49:31my child told me that she told me,

00:49:34she told me like,

00:49:35she told me,

00:49:36what she told me.

00:49:38She told me that she had a little bit.

00:49:40I was afraid that I would have to go home and see everything.

00:49:44But I was living with my aunt here.

00:49:47So now I have to decide what I want to do now, I don't understand what I want to do now.

00:49:53I will tell you that I don't feel so big for this thing now.

00:49:58So it means that when you get married in a small age, you are doing everything in your life.

00:50:04You are managing good, but you are more in the practical life.

00:50:09You are doing good jobs, you are doing good, everything.

00:50:13But when you get a little practical, you are thinking that you don't regret it.

00:50:17As you have given a little space, before you take a step, when you take a step, you go to the separation.

00:50:24Then you get a lot of problems in your mind.

00:50:28And then you get to know that you give time to what I want to do.

00:50:33Because we have all the limitations, no one can do it.

00:50:36And everyone can manage it alone.

00:50:39When we give someone to someone, we are different.

00:50:43Everyone can't manage it alone.

00:50:47And the most important thing is that your wife has done anything with you.

00:50:52But also, women are involved in that person.

00:50:56If they are involved, if they love them with them,

00:51:00If they love them with them, then you can't teach them the rules.

00:51:04Because you will be able to do it with them.

00:51:06And your husband loves them.

00:51:09Yes, loves them.

00:51:11They love them.

00:51:12They love them both.

00:51:13They love them both.

00:51:14They love them both.

00:51:15They love them all.

00:51:16They love them all.

00:51:17No.

00:51:18They love them all.

00:51:19They love them all.

00:51:20I don't have a mortgage for them.

00:51:22It is not my best.

00:51:23No one else can't give out of your money.

00:51:24Even if you're living on rent to home,

00:51:25then I'll go for a rent too.

00:51:26Even if we're living on the home,

00:51:27I'm also going to rent it.

00:51:28Yeah, I get everything right.

00:51:29But my belief in this country is that,

00:51:30I think you are already over mature.

00:51:32I do this too.

00:51:33Even if you do this too.

00:51:34If you pay this too.

00:51:35If you pay this too,

00:51:36there's no rent to rent.

00:51:38I'll let you pay it.

00:51:40I have been given to your children from school, so you need to have a lot of money by law, because it is the right to give the children's rights.

00:51:52So you can take them from their children.

00:51:55Because that's why there are children, their baby is still keeping them.

00:51:59You have no responsibility for them.

00:52:01It's a very important thing.

00:52:03You have to keep responsibility.

00:52:05Like you said,

00:52:07there are many people in the kitchen

00:52:09who are happy to do it.

00:52:11They are working on the kitchen.

00:52:13There are many people in the kitchen

00:52:15who are in the kitchen

00:52:17who are in the kitchen

00:52:19and who are in the kitchen.

00:52:21I'm satisfied.

00:52:23Sometimes I have to tell you.

00:52:25I've told you,

00:52:27I've joined back in industry.

00:52:29I've told you,

00:52:31you don't have to take all of your responsibilities.

00:52:33Sunji,

00:52:35this is your fault.

00:52:37You are saying that

00:52:39we don't have to do any work.

00:52:41If you have a child,

00:52:43my daughter and my daughter,

00:52:45this is your responsibility.

00:52:47I earn,

00:52:49but I don't do all of my finances.

00:52:51I don't do all of my husband.

00:52:53I don't do all of them.

00:52:55I don't do all of them.

00:52:57I don't do all of them.

00:52:59I mean,

00:53:01you have to plan things.

00:53:03If women and women are not,

00:53:05women are not doing all of them.

00:53:07This is human psyche.

00:53:09If someone takes a burden,

00:53:11we make it a mess.

00:53:13We put everything on it.

00:53:15We do all of them.

00:53:17We do all of them.

00:53:19This is human nature.

00:53:21We set the boundaries.

00:53:23We set the boundaries.

00:53:25We do all of them.

00:53:27We do all of them.

00:53:29We do all of them.

00:53:31We do all of them.

00:53:32I should say,

00:53:33I can say,

00:53:35I can say,

00:53:37I have to be a child.

00:53:39I don't have to leave.

00:53:41I don't do all of them.

00:53:43You can take responsibility for your child.

00:53:45I don't have a job, but you will tell your husband that I will do this and you will do it and I will live in the same way.

00:54:02I left the job and resigned.

00:54:05When I realized that something will not happen, then I joined again.

00:54:10When I left the job, I decided to take some money and take some money.

00:54:20But it was totally coming to me.

00:54:23You can't notice for the kids.

00:54:26Why not?

00:54:27You have to give the children's rights.

00:54:30Because all the children are facing me.

00:54:33I have depression.

00:54:35I don't have a lot of life.

00:54:36I don't have a lot of school.

00:54:38I don't have a lot of activities.

00:54:42I would say that when we have to take a decision, we will see the next experiences.

00:54:49I would say that you will see all the things that will happen.

00:54:54What will my benefit?

00:54:56What will it be?

00:54:57What will it be?

00:54:58What will it be?

00:54:59When you see everything, the weight is properly, then you will have to take your decision.

00:55:02You need to take your decisions.

00:55:03You need to take your decisions in your job, or go for a different.

00:55:06You should have to take your decision without you.

00:55:09And I don't have to tell you that you are not sure.

00:55:11You have to take your decisions.

00:55:12You are not sure.

00:55:13I have to tell you the pattern.

00:55:15Because you are young.

00:55:16For example, you don't live in the husband's house.

00:55:18If you are going to take a decision in the future, then you will make a decision making.

00:55:22The decision making should be made.

00:55:24For all these things we are wise with age. Our wisdom doesn't come directly with age.

00:55:31We learn to eat and eat and eat and eat.

00:55:34We don't have hair in the water. Our parents often say we don't know what to do.

00:55:41We don't understand this.

00:55:44Now we understand.

00:55:46We don't understand.

00:55:53We don't understand.

00:55:55Why do we emphasize that we don't want to marry children?

00:55:59Or children who are married in 17 years,

00:56:02they have fought so much.

00:56:05This is important.

00:56:07We don't want to marry children.

00:56:10We try to keep them in our show.

00:56:16If you want their education and independence.

00:56:20If you want any other person,

00:56:22if you want any other person or a poor girl,

00:56:26you don't know what time comes to the poor.

00:56:29They should stand on their shoulders.

00:56:31They should have such a degree that when the time comes to the work.

00:56:34I don't say that we should do the work.

00:56:36That is a must.

00:56:37But when the time comes to the work,

00:56:40they should have so much respect,

00:56:41so called education,

00:56:44and be able to guide themselves.

00:56:46They should not have historically on their own needs.

00:56:47And people shouldn't have to be refused should знаю.

00:56:50Just as they have such a charismatic role.

00:56:52When we don't justify the rights-

00:56:53their own children.

00:56:54Our children don't exist anymore.

00:56:56independent

00:56:57that when you are married, you are married to your daughter, your daughter, your daughter

00:57:02will not be married.

00:57:03You are wrong.

00:57:04You are wrong.

00:57:05You are wrong.

00:57:06You accept your marriage.

00:57:07I will second my brother.

00:57:08I remember my daughter as a child.

00:57:11I was in my ninth grade.

00:57:13They told me to go to the salon.

00:57:16I told him to go and go and go and do not.

00:57:19I told him to go and do not.

00:57:21I sent my link to my daughter.

00:57:23I met Abila and Rubina.

00:57:25I started a career of acting.

00:57:27I learned a skill in that time.

00:57:29If a child is not good in studying, they learn skills.

00:57:32It's a lot.

00:57:33We don't have to learn.

00:57:34We don't have to learn.

00:57:35We don't have to learn.

00:57:36Okay.

00:57:37If they don't have to learn the skills,

00:57:38don't do it,

00:57:39let them know a little bit.

00:57:41After that, they learn a skill.

00:57:43They are more talented in studying.

00:57:45They are not good in studying.

00:57:46They are more good in studying.

00:57:48If there is something that happens,

00:57:50we can have a skill in studying.

00:57:53We can have a skill in studying.

00:57:55Our children are standing on their shoulders.

00:57:57They are not on their shoulders.

00:57:59They are not on their shoulders.

00:58:00After a break, we will have to go.

00:58:02Good morning Pakistan.

00:58:04Welcome. Welcome back.

00:58:06Good morning Pakistan.

00:58:07So, today we are discussing how to prevent children's trauma.

00:58:11We are discussing how to prevent children's trauma.

00:58:15Basically,

00:58:16we are discussing so many things.

00:58:18But if I ask you,

00:58:20how to prevent children's trauma?

00:58:24What will they be doing?

00:58:26What will they be doing?

00:58:27I have a very good question.

00:58:28When you talk about that,

00:58:30what to learn about children's skills,

00:58:32I have to add one thing.

00:58:34Adaptation.

00:58:35What is it?

00:58:36If it is necessary to earn,

00:58:38then,

00:58:40do it.

00:58:41Do not go as to my self,

00:58:42what's it?

00:58:43What is it?

00:58:44Do not go as to it.

00:58:45If you think that

00:58:46at this point,

00:58:47the earning of the opportunity,

00:58:48then go for that.

00:58:49If you think that at this point,

00:58:50I have to add more that

00:58:51my identity is missing.

00:58:52Then,

00:58:53do not go as to it.

00:58:54Because,

00:58:55if you think that

00:58:56I have to be doing that,

00:58:57my identity is disturbed.

00:58:58Because,

00:58:59when you need to decide,

00:59:00always help you.

00:59:01In the future, you will get the chance to get the chance because you have a tendency to go

00:59:06there.

00:59:07So, you need to look at your mental peace and think that if you are sitting at home,

00:59:12if you are making a new relationship, you are making a new relationship, you are getting

00:59:19a new relationship, you have to give a new relationship to your career, so that you have

00:59:26you're built. You're built. You're built. You're built. And you're built. And after that,

00:59:30that's my upset. My relationship, my wife and my wife and her partner, and everyone,

00:59:36my now I'm just adjusted. Now I'm about to think about my career.

00:59:39The other thing is that you don't know what you're making for your life. So you don't

00:59:46know what you're making. So you don't know what you're making. Even if you're getting

00:59:51into your own life and you're getting away from here and going to the evening, you're

00:59:53If you can see them in the morning, go to sleep, sleep, dad, you can't get the jelly from the house, you can't get the mix up.

01:00:00And you can see how you are so jolly, how you are so happy, you can feel like you are going to feel like you are going to love it.

01:00:08How much you love for them, how much you can do it. These are just telling you the time.

01:00:13So if we interrupt it in a sentence, we need to know what is best time for you.

01:00:24In this case, you have to talk about what time you have to talk about.

01:00:30This also matters.

01:00:31If someone has beaten you or said something wrong, you have to answer your timing wrong.

01:00:43What time do you have to answer that question? What time do you have to know? What time do you have to set boundaries?

01:00:50Then if you know this, how easy it will be to get to the kids.

01:00:54We get to know that we get to the maturity. We get to make a big deal.

01:01:00Why did we get to the answer? Why did we get to the answer?

01:01:04Why did we get to the answer?

01:01:05In adaptation, you will know what to do.

01:01:09I have done a campaign with every client.

01:01:13I always work on mindfulness.

01:01:15I feel that before marriage, you have to take some sessions and therapy.

01:01:20And pre-marital counseling.

01:01:22Exactly, it is very necessary.

01:01:24Besides that you go to Rangun and cook Chinese rice,

01:01:30that you can learn from YouTube.

01:01:33You have to take some courses for a long time.

01:01:39It is very necessary.

01:01:40You have to take some short courses for children to understand.

01:01:44Because in relationship, if you are the first child,

01:01:47you have to train how to be a child.

01:01:49You have to train how to be a child.

01:01:51You have to train how to be a child.

01:01:52You have to train how to be a child.

01:01:54And then you have to learn how to get an adaption.

01:01:55It is very difficult to learn how to get an adult.

01:01:56Then you have to learn how to learn how to get an adult.

01:01:58So, what happens in which one thing you can get to be an adult?

01:01:59How can you learn how to get an adult's adult?

01:02:00Yes, I am.

01:02:01I am.

01:02:02I am.

01:02:03I am.

01:02:04it's just a little bit.

01:02:06I think it's a little bit.

01:02:08I don't know.

01:02:10It's a little bit.

01:02:12It's just a little bit.

01:02:14It's a little bit.

01:02:16I think it's a weird thing.

01:02:18I can tell you.

01:02:20Learning is not a good thing.

01:02:22You can learn everything.

01:02:24You don't have any questions.

01:02:26You can check the whole calculations.

01:02:28You can check the whole science.

01:02:30You can give exercises to do.

01:02:32It is a formulation.

01:02:34Whatever we use, they are evidence based.

01:02:37I know that there is no harm.

01:02:39It is necessary.

01:02:41Every person has NLP.

01:02:43The kids, the people,

01:02:45everyone has done it.

01:02:47Because if you look at the education system,

01:02:50which we have studied,

01:02:52and we have been doing it,

01:02:54the system of studying has changed.

01:02:56The kids have gone to A, B, C, D, A, B, C.

01:03:00That is why the science has changed.

01:03:03With a lot of techniques,

01:03:05they can keep your mind in control.

01:03:09And if young children,

01:03:11especially young age,

01:03:13who have been married today,

01:03:15they have a very important counselling.

01:03:18If they are ready,

01:03:20they can bear all the burdens.

01:03:26If you say that exercise,

01:03:29your body is strong.

01:03:32So basically,

01:03:33this exercise,

01:03:34which we call marriage counselling,

01:03:37they will be so strong,

01:03:39that they will be so strong.

01:03:41That they will be so strong.

01:03:43One more thing,

01:03:44I would like to say,

01:03:45in terms of the marriages,

01:03:46if you feel more than happy,

01:03:50in terms of the family,

01:03:51people who don't want to divorce them,

01:03:54let them take care of the care of the family.

01:03:55And then a long time,

01:03:56I do need to help them.

01:03:57We have such short marriage.

01:03:58We have such big marriage.

01:04:00We have such a short marriage.

01:04:02Like,

01:04:03you don't want to look likedad.

01:04:05We want to be very short marriage.

01:04:06But we have such a long marriage.

01:04:08We have such a long marriage.

01:04:10So the other people who go,

01:04:11people who are so happy and are so happy that they give so many prayers.

01:04:18I also have the idea that the judge said that you should take time in time and the judge

01:04:24said that I will suggest you to take the therapy first.

01:04:28This is a very good idea that we don't have time in law but it's good to give time in

01:04:34which we have a little bit of time and we have to talk about it but now they have

01:04:38to take the therapy first. So I have to say that you should go and do a couple counseling

01:04:44and then you know that what you will decide again is that there are no regrets.

01:04:50So when you go to marriage counseling, couples, do you have to put together

01:04:54or do you have to do different sessions?

01:04:58There are theories, for example, the first session is put together

01:05:02and we observe all the things. There will be a lot of fights.

01:05:06There are rules.

01:05:08You have to say that! You have to say that!

01:05:10We have to say that as a couple counseling,

01:05:12we have to teach family therapy.

01:05:14We have to teach family therapy.

01:05:16So we have to learn how to manage this.

01:05:18First we have to make rules.

01:05:20Boundaries, like I said.

01:05:22Boundaries are made.

01:05:24When you turn your turn, I will listen to it.

01:05:26You have to say that my attention will remain there.

01:05:28I will not see you.

01:05:30You have to do everything with the work, love, love and love.

01:05:34And then they cooperate.

01:05:36Look, you understand it.

01:05:38People understand it.

01:05:39That's why after adaptation,

01:05:40I added communication skills.

01:05:42Okay.

01:05:43Okay.

01:05:44Okay.

01:05:45Okay.

01:05:46Okay.

01:05:47If I say that economically,

01:05:48it will come to the budget for couples.

01:05:51Okay.

01:05:52It's not very expensive in counseling.

01:05:54In other words,

01:05:55the rates of counseling are different charges.

01:05:57But I say that

01:05:58that is the decision of life.

01:05:59If you look at it,

01:06:00it's expensive.

01:06:01It's expensive.

01:06:02It's expensive.

01:06:03It's expensive.

01:06:04If you look at it,

01:06:05it's expensive.

01:06:06It's painful.

01:06:07igen Rudy is 70% because of it,

01:06:09but people also do this and their lives.

01:06:14Rather their lives matter.

01:06:15But they don't makan,

01:06:16it's expensive.

01:06:17I can say no.

01:06:18They come to humans.

01:06:19Look,

01:06:20if they don't work properly.

01:06:29You take your ass tooday.

01:06:31If they're at these things

01:06:32I can speak to,

01:06:33they get to aime now,

01:06:34and he is not able to do it.

01:06:37He will not be able to do it.

01:06:39Do you see it?

01:06:41Yes, it is.

01:06:43The person is often in the same way.

01:06:46But the person has a wife and she wants to be in the same way.

01:06:49Then he is on his face.

01:06:51And this is it.

01:06:53Even if someone wants to be in the same way,

01:06:55then I have one client.

01:06:57One client, a son came from 17-18 years.

01:07:02and he says that when I come to counseling, my father says that there is not a little difference, I will go and talk with him.

01:07:09Five minutes after the counseling is finished, he goes out and he goes out, and he goes out and goes out,

01:07:14I go out and talk to him that he's the other session because he's the other one.

01:07:18People don't give a little time to go to this way.

01:07:22They are so much prompts.

01:07:24I will go out and tell you the counselor.

01:07:26What happens in his head is that the teacher's role.

01:07:29Then we tell you that if your parents have any advice,

01:07:33first we will see what conditions are, so don't worry about it.

01:07:35So they have to do so much.

01:07:37When husbands come to take their hands, they come alone.

01:07:41If they say that their wife has mentioned this,

01:07:44he will do so much or so.

01:07:47It will be my matter.

01:07:48Because he wants this, that my thing is right.

01:07:51This is just one place where they are going to take their hands,

01:07:54and the other place is also disturbed.

01:07:57Some people come to me,

01:07:59they have a client and they have said,

01:08:01that my workplace and life is very disturbed.

01:08:05The rest of them are all set.

01:08:07They came to themselves and said,

01:08:09okay, but how will we talk about the rest of them?

01:08:11That means, the problem was in the house.

01:08:13But there was a disturbance,

01:08:15there were thoughts in the workplace.

01:08:17There was no focus, there was no concentration.

01:08:19After all these things,

01:08:21they thought that they didn't help me,

01:08:22and then they realized what thoughts came from.

01:08:24It's related to the house.

01:08:25After going out,

01:08:27it's a guilt that I didn't do well with my wife.

01:08:29She thought it was my fault,

01:08:30I didn't listen to her.

01:08:32So it's not the right thing,

01:08:33that everyone is not so incensitive.

01:08:35But what is it that we don't have to talk about?

01:08:38We don't have to express ourselves properly.

01:08:40We don't have to express ourselves properly.

01:08:42We don't have to express ourselves properly.

01:08:44Let's move on to the next question.

01:08:47Yes, Saima.

01:08:49Assalamualaikum.

01:08:50Assalamualaikum.

01:08:51I am a person,

01:08:53I want to get out of this trauma.

01:08:56I am passing through this trauma.

01:08:58Because my own person has prepared me

01:09:02such a way to do

01:09:04because my husband

01:09:07has been with me.

01:09:09If my husband has been with me,

01:09:11he has handled my daughter.

01:09:14When he left me away with my husband

01:09:16I am in the kitchen,

01:09:17while I am in the kitchen,

01:09:19they say to me that

01:09:20that they must wear so much

01:09:22and put so much lime in the kitchen.

01:09:23And if the husband came to the house

01:09:25from the office,

01:09:26they put her onto the house.

01:09:27They will throw her in the house.

01:09:28They won't go inside the house.

01:09:29Because we have a small child,

01:09:30who are taking the smoke?

01:09:31Because when we have children at home,

01:09:32they are taking the smoke?

01:09:34They are taking the smoke,

01:09:35and they are taking the smoke.

01:09:37They have made these so-called power and have made them a lot of water.

01:09:42They will will all be cut and thick and cloths.

01:09:45They only hold their hands to their kitchen.

01:09:48If they go to the kitchen, they will have to take you to the kitchen.

01:09:51I will put them in a hot water and put them in a hot water.

01:09:54I will fill you with oil.

01:09:56You get a clean glass of water and you will put 100 bottles.

01:10:01My husband sold 80% money for my house.

01:10:05I gave 20% of the money for the children's education.

01:10:10Then they had to raise their money.

01:10:12And then, I don't think that there will be a lot of money.

01:10:16I've never thought that I would call my parents.

01:10:19No, no, no, I don't need to call it.

01:10:20There will be a lot of money.

01:10:22Now, I'm eating food.

01:10:24There's a man who's coming.

01:10:25You take it and make the roti.

01:10:28This is the way that my husband can do it.

01:10:30Now, there's some time.

01:10:32There's been some time.

01:10:33I've been taking out my father's son.

01:10:36Now, the two of them are my father's son.

01:10:38My father's son.

01:10:39With his son, it's very big.

01:10:41We've been making his son.

01:10:43Now, they don't carry it.

01:10:44So, I've got married to my son.

01:10:45Now, my father is the same son.

01:10:47And now, I need to knock out his son.

01:10:48I'm doing it for my father's son.

01:10:50No, I'm saying this is great life.

01:10:53I've seen that sometimes.

01:10:55I've seen that as well.

01:10:57Please take it up.

01:10:58Please take it up soon.

01:10:59Please take it to the same time.

01:11:00Please take it up soon as fuck.

01:11:01Do you know what you're doing?

01:11:02Yes, I am going to leave this trauma.

01:11:04Do you feel that you are wrong?

01:11:06Yes, I am wrong, but I can't leave it.

01:11:09Where she is going to be right, I can't leave it.

01:11:12It's just a sign.

01:11:14Do you think you are a good person?

01:11:16No, I am not going to leave it.

01:11:18What do you do with the advice?

01:11:20I will give it advice.

01:11:23What do you do with the advice?

01:11:25How do you get it from this trauma?

01:11:27The biggest thing is that they know that they know.

01:11:30They don't know that they are traumatised.

01:11:33Yes, absolutely.

01:11:35The best thing is that you know,

01:11:37and you also know that it is coming out.

01:11:39Okay?

01:11:40How is it coming out?

01:11:41This is important.

01:11:42First of all, I will tell you,

01:11:45I will say that there are so many things,

01:11:50and the things in the sky,

01:11:52so I think that obviously,

01:11:54to call the social media,

01:11:56to call the social media,

01:11:58I will say that the gas is not going to be used.

01:12:01And the gas is not going to be used.

01:12:03Please tell me about your husband,

01:12:05how are you going to behave?

01:12:07My husband,

01:12:08when I'm with my husband,

01:12:10they will be right.

01:12:11But when I come with my mother and sisters,

01:12:13and I have a different type of mouth,

01:12:14the main type of mouth is a mouth and mouth.

01:12:17I don't have any trouble for my mouth,

01:12:19but my three mouth is the three mouth.

01:12:21that is the same thing.

01:12:23That is the same thing.

01:12:25That is the same thing.

01:12:27That is the same thing.

01:12:29He is asking you

01:12:31that the two of them are living in the same place.

01:12:35How is your relationship?

01:12:37How do you ask?

01:12:39It is the same thing that we love and we are not.

01:12:41They have done a team up.

01:12:43They have not married.

01:12:45They have not married.

01:12:47They have not married.

01:12:49We will come to a break

01:12:51and then we will discuss them.

01:12:53Good morning Pakistan.

01:13:01Welcome back.

01:13:03Good morning Pakistan.

01:13:05Today we will talk about the trauma

01:13:07and what bears our children.

01:13:09Especially after the marriage.

01:13:11Here is the trauma.

01:13:13Before the break

01:13:15the trauma that we are living in a toxic place.

01:13:19The whole life of the trauma.

01:13:21She has in six months.

01:13:23The trauma that we have had and team up.

01:13:25They are struggling to work on.

01:13:27And it is bitter.

01:13:29These problems are so difficult.

01:13:31That was the whole generation.

01:13:33They are dealing with the parents.

01:13:35It has become a generation and they are doing the same behavior and they have realized this thing, but they want to get out of it and that's why we asked you, Dr. Tanah, what do you want to do?

01:13:50First of all, I would like to say that this is your insight, that you have thought that this is coming in.

01:13:58That means, again, that you don't want to get out of it, okay?

01:14:03The other thing is that when we look at our roles and the other roles, like I was a witch, I was a witch.

01:14:10Whatever you don't like to do with it, that you don't want to do such a witch, you have to focus on those things.

01:14:19It's easy to say, I know, but when you do it, it's difficult.

01:14:23That's why your health is very important.

01:14:26It's just our physical health, this is our emotional health.

01:14:33It's our emotional health.

01:14:35It's our damage, trauma, emotional, and it's the thing that we have to make it.

01:14:40It's our behavior.

01:14:42It's our behavior.

01:14:44So, you can see here that there are different things that you can do with your health.

01:14:50It's our behavior.

01:14:51Like for example, if you like to do something, because you look like a baby, you will have to do something in your work.

01:14:57Now, if you like to do something, then do it so that you feel good.

01:15:02So you stay busy, right?

01:15:03Yes, absolutely.

01:15:04And then you will not study in those things.

01:15:06Like I said, you are busy, so you will not study in those things.

01:15:09Those things you feel like I am doing with your baby and you don't like it.

01:15:14Yeah, it is a pattern of transformation because we call it generation to generation.

01:15:21This generation to generation transformation.

01:15:25If you do something that makes you happy to do something, then you will look at it.

01:15:28Now, you will see this way.

01:15:31But you will also be clean yourself, you will also be clean yourself in your own environment,

01:15:36you will also be clean yourself, you will also be clean yourself,

01:15:38and you will also be an activity that you will also be busy,

01:15:41And after that, your attention will be so much there, and if it will be, then you have to change your role.

01:15:47If I was in this place, then what did I want to do?

01:15:50That's what I wanted to do.

01:15:51There is a formula that you can do with action and reaction.

01:15:57It can be that you were so violent, that you were so violent, that you were so violent,

01:16:02because you are a male, and you are a male, but then when it floods, then you will take the entire house.

01:16:11So it will take you away from your son to your husband, because you will not escape,

01:16:16it is not that your life is so violent.

01:16:20Now it will come to you, that you will regret,

01:16:24that if your child has taken your hands to a child,

01:16:28Why would the girl go to her mother and take her home to her mother, which is a combined family system,

01:16:36she is getting clean. Why would the girl go to her mother?

01:16:41And the other thing is that you will also get happy.

01:16:45And when these things happen, when they told her that she will not get clean,

01:16:50then you will say that neither I got to be happy nor I got to be happy.

01:16:54So this is the point where you have to look at this.

01:16:57I have to look at this.

01:17:02How is your mother?

01:17:05My mother is very good.

01:17:08You have told me that I am going to be negative.

01:17:12But your mother is very positive.

01:17:16When she is very positive,

01:17:19you have to look at this.

01:17:20And then you will remember that when I was talking with my mother,

01:17:27I was doing this and I was doing this as well.

01:17:30So now you are the ones who can change.

01:17:35Dr. Sanna, a very important question is, how do people do your positive?

01:17:41They know that this has gone towards negativity.

01:17:44What is a way to do your positive?

01:17:47When you have negative thoughts,

01:17:50you are saying that it will be appreciated,

01:17:53it will be appreciated,

01:17:56or in your mind,

01:17:57how do one person do your positive?

01:18:00Absolutely.

01:18:01I will give this message to everyone.

01:18:03Generally, I will ask.

01:18:04Absolutely.

01:18:05There are three things.

01:18:06It will be easy to remember.

01:18:07Self, self, self.

01:18:09First, self-awareness.

01:18:12What are you talking about?

01:18:14What is the problem?

01:18:16If I am a child,

01:18:18but where is the problem?

01:18:22If you have a self-awareness,

01:18:24you should also change yourself.

01:18:26And when you need to know the problem,

01:18:29you will identify the problem.

01:18:31Then you will find the solution.

01:18:33You have to blame others.

01:18:36Another thing.

01:18:37Self-care.

01:18:38Self-care, it is not only that we will wear our own suit,

01:18:41and you are ready.

01:18:42Self-care is also our internal clothes.

01:18:44How much of me time?

01:18:46How much of me time?

01:18:47I will give you a lot of time.

01:18:48I will give you a lot of time.

01:18:49Me time is more than me time, because they are watching TV, they are watching TV, they are watching me time, they are watching me time.

01:18:56Yes, but this is me time is healthy or not.

01:18:59I have said that what is the problem that is due to the fact that they are watching TV.

01:19:04They are watching TV and they know that they are not going to do all the work,

01:19:08and when they are doing it, they don't have to do it, so they have to watch it.

01:19:12They have to get the meme mix.

01:19:14These are the same things.

01:19:17If you have self-awareness, then you will get better.

01:19:21And if you have self-care, then you will get power.

01:19:24Self-care is not just physically.

01:19:27Emotionally, spiritually.

01:19:29Why don't we go outside, walk in the park, go outside, go outside.

01:19:33Allah has given us the sea when you want.

01:19:37These are all things that we have internally.

01:19:40As we connect with nature, we feel better.

01:19:43I feel better.

01:19:44I will wind up the program, but first of all, I will say that today's topic was

01:19:48that children are traumatized.

01:19:52So, the mother-in-law also thinks that if the child is married,

01:19:56then your plan is finished.

01:19:58But I feel like the mother-in-law is not finished until their plan is finished.

01:20:03And they feel that if their child is traumatized,

01:20:08then they are not finished.

01:20:09Many mothers do not want to hurt themselves at all.

01:20:11Many are not really happy.

01:20:12Everyone should get hurt.

01:20:13They don't want to have to hurt themselves.

01:20:15It is not that they are not guilty.

01:20:17They don't want to hurt themselves.

01:20:18They don't want to hurt themselves at all.

01:20:19They don't want to hurt themselves at all.

01:20:20They might not want to hurt themselves at all.

01:20:21But if you feel like the child is a fool,

01:20:24and that is your job for help,

01:20:27then as a father-in-law,

01:20:28I will say to you that to die is not our sentence that go and go and go and go and die.

01:20:38And the children are dying because of depression.

01:20:45And this is what is happening in a lot of times.

01:20:48So please, that is what you have done in your life.

01:20:53that you will keep a lot of questions and you will also live in all your life.

01:20:59Don't let your children go to your children. They are so difficult. They are so difficult.

01:21:05So you will not be able to throw them in the middle of their children.

01:21:09So maybe they will not want anything from their parents.

01:21:13So you will keep their questions. And if they are not happy,

01:21:17then you will save them from suffering.

01:21:21Thank you so much.

01:21:53This was our show.

01:21:54Remember in prayer.

01:21:55Inshallah you will have a chance tomorrow.

01:21:57Good morning Pakistan.

Good Morning Pakistan | Susraal Ka Trauma Special | 8 October 2025

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