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00:12where are they where the are we going i don't see her anywhere oh manders hi i was just checking
00:22your location i always forget you have my location eating at the construction site
00:26i feel at home i have a surprise speaking of homes oh you are picking me up at my new
00:34one
00:34wait is this a new building oh it's being built no it's partly under construction i'm moving
00:41out by myself wait you're moving into your own apartment yeah like by yourself all alone
00:50starting when hopefully asap would be wonderful how do we feel
00:56proud big step yeah let's walk and talk at lunch damn i have so many questions
01:02sierra obviously has been my best friend for a few years now obsessed with that woman
01:08this is the most you'll ever see me and sierra fight oh my tit i popped her tit
01:13did you actually fill out the application by yourself yes i did everything i'm so proud of you
01:18west and i became really good friends this summer he was there for me for a lot of the kyle
01:24stuff
01:26don't say that if you want to say i'm not even chiming into the conversation
01:31then guess what stop in mountains out of molehills like this is ridiculous i'm not i'm literally
01:37just saying thank you i love you recently west and sierra have become best friends again too
01:47so i have like my perfect little trio i've got a classic scissor the pepperoni pizza and the main
01:53lobster pasta perfect thank you first of all look at us this makes me so happy right now
02:01who would have thought okay you guys gotta eventually just like chill out all right why
02:07this is my dream mine too yeah west has been fighting for this his whole life
02:14this past year west has really been there for me and like looking out for me
02:20i think we need to talk about this from now okay do you know what i mean yeah
02:30i do want to hear from you knowing what we know now yeah this news rocked the bravo sphere
02:37are true amanda and west are together how did you feel about him when you were shooting this scene
02:46was there any inkling of a crush there no this was my friend i know exactly what people are going
02:53to
02:54think when they watch this scene it's bizarre but in this moment these are my friends these are two
03:01very important people to me that have helped me get through this very weird time in my life and my
03:09relationship with kyle like i'm so happy right now
03:15where do we begin yeah you just want to tell us so i was like i think i'm going to
03:20move out
03:20and i told him this on our anniversary sweet yeah happy anniversary yeah we're not getting a divorce
03:27you're not legally separated we're not legally separating we're not single i'm sure about what
03:33kyle thinks he seemed to be prepared for it based off of a conversation you guys had on the beach
03:39yeah would it be a crazy idea if you guys physically just separated for a month have you
03:45talked to her about us taking some time away from each other yeah she said she would be open to
03:51that
03:53so he wasn't like fully blindsided and i had told him that i was like looking for places like okay
03:59this is a good thing
04:00it's going to be temporary oh thank you so much thank you so much are you cold yeah
04:10oh my god i just found this oh my god it's houndstooth
04:15what are you looking to get out of this space i just feel like we're very just like compliant
04:20i feel like right now in the relationship and like in the house complacent what's compliant
04:25well it means you have to follow rules and she's
04:29my friend is far from complacent the other week he came home at eight o'clock in the morning
04:34are you kidding me he went to like the snl after party
04:39i saw that do my office yeah oh and it literally said that someone had to like hold him up
04:44in therapy or whenever you talk to him are you ever like quit doing this or i'll
04:49leave your bitch ass yeah and then he just like fully like disregards well you were out with him
04:55sunday you didn't do anything wrong i went to bed at like 10. i saw that you guys were together
05:00i
05:00texted west i was like is kyle up he's like no he seems good and i was like amazing then
05:04he came
05:05home at 11 30 and fell asleep in the kitchen again and this was right after we had a whole
05:10conversation about it okay it's yeah like it's giving college he's 43 years old not one moment ever
05:18since i've known kyle has he ever shown signs of like chilling out i don't see it stopping like
05:26tomorrow no unless there's a threat or unless there's even a threat is not enough for him to like
05:31wake up or an ultimatum does he even want to be married i don't know i feel like that's the
05:36crux of
05:37but like my intention still even though like i'm more frustrated with him right now is that we're
05:43not single yeah we're not seeing other people we're not dating other people the point of this
05:50is for us to like get back to us because i feel like we're with each other 24 7 there's
05:56no
05:56breathing room and i felt like we really needed that are you still gonna do lover boy
06:02i mean i haven't been like that involved i'm staying out of his stuff financially staying out
06:08of it i was like financially definitely it's clear stuff bitch is it yeah you didn't sign a prenup
06:14but he took out that loan before we got married that loan perhaps but like where's he at now
06:19financially i know this was impromptu i really appreciate you joining i kind of want to just
06:23have an open conversation about like where we're at and what kind of work we need to put in to
06:29kind of
06:30get to a place where we can kind of make it through the slow months of the year we have
06:35to
06:35just continue to do a lot with a little and we are talking to partners that could buy a minority
06:41a
06:41majority stake in us but those conversations are happening way slower than i would like so just to
06:48be brutally honest right we have enough money in the bank to basically last till the end of the year
06:54we basically have to find ways creatively to get revenue up to extend the runway right when i hear
07:03my ceo say hey we're running out of cash by end of year like am i looking for a new
07:07job i can't tell you
07:08to don't go look for another job yeah i can tell you that i put my blood sweat and tears
07:16and marriage into this it's like wherever lover boy would land if it came out in the negative
07:24you could still be liable i would like to think that he wouldn't do that to me or put me
07:30through
07:30that yeah and i hear you i just think that that's a naive standpoint truthfully trying to stay optimistic
07:35because i feel like if i think about everything too much i'll cry i feel so overwhelmed and like
07:42stuck yeah that i think like that's why i'm also sort of looking forward to this move because i'm
07:48doing this to help us because we can't be stuck in this cycle we're rooting for you and we're always
07:53rooting for you
08:12hi what's up how are you how are you good to see you nice to see you you look nice
08:18thank you
08:18you do too what do you want to drink i don't know what do you want to drink will you
08:22look at me
08:23differently if i drink rose you're a rose guy i just like have this image of what a man should
08:30drink i don't drink mixed drinks never a straw very masculine and pure definitely like rose
08:36yeah well i mean as long as you don't tell anyone i won't say a word this is only my
08:42second date
08:43since my breakup
08:49this is so sad and pathetic would you like to drink i'm going to start with a martini
08:54what about you sir just give me a glass of uh rose
08:57rose
09:00luckily frank the milkman appeared out of nowhere where are you from originally
09:05michigan moved to new york started a milk and dairy company milk and dairy what'd you do today
09:13did you work out no you didn't work out what'd you do i have a 22 pound baby that i
09:20pick up and
09:21put down every single day so you worked out your biceps all the time i'm going through such
09:28serious with custody and like trying to figure out what is going to happen with your baby for the
09:33next 18 years of life did you work out today of course every day
09:40so i am not shopping for a soulmate at all
09:44i'm actually trying not to be intentional i just want to have fun laugh joke hee hee ha ha and
09:50then
09:50kiki at home cheers if my fanny is fluttering and i have the tingles downstairs that's what i'm
09:58looking for you have your milk company talk to me about how you conceptualize this it's called
10:04manhattan milk we built this home delivery business up nostalgic milk man let's play off our our looks
10:10let's play off our our muscles i like to say i got my master's degree on like the streets
10:16so you're a master in the streets but how are you in the sheets yeah i would probably see him
10:23really good clearly but like
10:27but anyways that was a joke by the way um i know the banter is definitely not there but
10:33i just think frank is so hot
10:40it just feels like a man
10:45a real man who sells milk jemma's switching over to whole milk soon so she needs milk so what do
10:54you
10:54have going on right now i mean you're a mom now seems like you're very busy yeah being a mom
11:01and
11:01managing my different business deals that i have going on like i kind of just you are right so i
11:07was
11:07a publicist for i feel like you could be like uh samantha jones
11:14minus the current sex life but yeah
11:19coming up is she eating like a cookie or
11:23probably a piece of wood is that new york kid
11:25you know carl and i dating the first time around and then a week later you give him a handjob
11:30in the
11:31back of an uber i don't think i did that though
11:36somebody's gonna love me
11:38you told me all this
11:41hang on it's still red
11:46it's okay just because they can turn this way
11:49oh but thank you for being concerned about my children
11:52as i run across with the don't walk sign
11:57all right we're almost at the park how do i look pushing the stroller it looks good on you it
12:02does
12:03i met yvonne through lindsey a few years ago i met georgina at lindsey's bridal shower and just
12:08like instantly fell in love with her
12:11you can have this one it's like twenty five hundred dollar stroller what it's like a ysl bag
12:16i would describe yvonne as a lovable airhead
12:19we can feed the pigeons it's like a endearing quality but i don't know how she's made it this
12:26far in life all right we're gonna go in there and we're gonna play in the grass
12:30are you gonna chase after mommy mommy's gonna go fast okay ready
12:35ah you're gonna get me
12:38are you gonna get me
12:39georgina is totally relaxed and chill as a mom
12:43i really do love that about her
12:45is she eating like a cookie or
12:47probably a piece of wood new york kids i don't think you're allowed to eat that
12:51i don't know what's gonna happen to her kids but it makes me feel like i have room to make
12:55mistakes
12:56why don't i trade you for a chocolate bar
13:00hey
13:00uh-oh uh-oh did we do a poopy
13:03uh-oh
13:04oh it's wet you did a peepee that's okay
13:07you're like maybe nick's right we should know
13:10what were the hardest things about being pregnant going up and down subway stairs
13:15it's like really hard yeah your boobs are humongous
13:20which i hate it and that's also when my ex and i broke
13:25up that sucked it's never a good time to have kids yeah you just have to do it
13:30i never thought i'd be like the person who was like pressuring my husband to have a baby
13:35but i come from such a big family originally from iraq
13:40my dad is one of seven my mom is one is she one of eight let me see samira amira
13:45saad
13:46surely niran sam linda my mom i'm missing an aunt
13:54oh low bean i have like over 24 first cousins so i think like popping out babies is just what
14:00we
14:01do i respect you so much like you run a full-time company you have two kids i'm somehow managing
14:08and
14:09i don't have their dad around so like you'll be fine i feel like i need you to talk to
14:13nick
14:13okay i will i mean i'm gonna talk to him also the hardest part was absolutely when i was pregnant
14:19and he was a toddler other than that having one kid is like it's doable yeah robert
14:27oh yeah good job buddy
14:37nice stuff's here oh god yay
14:41we should probably go down there is your heart beating really fast yeah
14:47oh dear god finally oh my goodness this is all hers this is all yours to the back jesus
14:56christ i'm so excited to have my stuff finally come to new york it just feels so right you can
15:02use
15:03the elevator if you need my help to make it faster i'm happy to to help out absolutely
15:10even though this has been his space it needs to become our space as excited as i am to have
15:14you
15:15move in and move all of your things in whitney is the first person to move into this space with
15:20me
15:20it seems like there's a full truckload so we're just that room by the door or even we could probably
15:26put some here too it's in a lot of ways my dream apartment i came from absolutely nothing i was
15:33raised by a single mom in a shack it was one bedroom and it was me my mom and my
15:38half brother we shared
15:39one bed this space i feel like i manifested in some kind of way no i had an amethyst years
15:51ago and it
15:52was just beautiful and then i just started acquiring crystals change your energy change your life
15:58where can i place these boxes now you can put it in the second bedroom because this is going to
16:04be
16:04my closet at least until we like figure out the closet situation you've got some room here bow
16:12what about your bike that's a good bike put it on the outside that little roof
16:18outside on the no on the fire escape no it's crazy
16:27this is ridiculous this many boxes take it back what is this what do you mean it's all my beauty
16:35products
16:36i'm going to go on to two two three four five six 26 black shirts not really an outfit repeater
16:41take
16:42it back this is wildly out of hand i'm not sending stuff back to la oh wait what is this
16:46what would
16:47we do if you didn't move three wood balls across the country how would we survive this is giving eighth
16:54grade wood shop you said you wanted this place to feel like ours i do i don't want it to
16:58feel like a
16:59wood shop we're gonna mix our decor we're gonna move the sunglasses and stuff that doesn't need to be
17:04here we're gonna make it look more we're gonna bowl this right into your game don't
17:10open deeper the garbage okay that's it yo you need you need some minions right now is what you need
17:19i'm sorry i don't have friends oh in new york oh i have a main comment you know
17:28wait i'm kidding are you okay i'm like giving up a lot to be here you're being mean i'm sorry
17:36i'm
17:36just like i'm leaving all my friends and like my life behind i feel like you could be like a
17:41little
17:41bit more supportive i can imagine that it's a big deal for you and i get that i'm sorry i'm
17:58excited
17:58about it it's just like a lot of different emotions you know i love your sculptures you don't have to
18:05love everything but just like a little compromise and just be a little nicer i know okay you're right
18:09you're right you're right you're right love you thank you
18:17coming up they have their own opinions they're their own people kenny are you okay are you on
18:23the blue right now are you seriously sniffing blue yeah i'm sniffing blue
18:44hi uh i'm meeting someone oh thank you
18:51sorry i'm late
18:54how are you i'm good i got a little nosh in case you were hungry
19:00i'm starving thanks for agreeing to meet with me yeah thanks for texting that was just like too much
19:08time is going by and i would have rather try to talk with you earlier yeah lindsey finally accepted
19:16my invitation to meet up i think that we owe it to the history that we've had to not let
19:22so much
19:23time go by where we're at odds lots been said everyone in our friend group has been chiming in
19:29just confront her now and squash it you own it she owns it i owned it you should talk to
19:36lindsey i think
19:36i'm good for tonight because i literally said hi to her tonight and she was still
19:41ice cold have a conversation with her about it and i just want to get down to the bottom of
19:47what's
19:47going on what made you say yes to danielle when she asked you to meet up i will always say
19:51yes
19:52like yeah hi um i was wondering if maybe you might be able to like a lunch or a coffee
20:00can i think
20:01about it very significant moments of my life have been shattered by my so-called best friend
20:09so i'm happy to explain to her why i'm not giving a anymore hi i'm sorry oh my god good
20:16morning good
20:18morning can i get you anything to drink something um let's preemptively order a mimosa just in case
20:26this goes south okay thanks thanks i'm not sure what is really going on all i know is that you're
20:33hurt
20:33and you felt judged by me for being a single mom no that's not it it was basically like there's
20:44always
20:45something every year that i'm like why did she do that last summer you came out a couple of times
20:50to
20:50the house and you know i've always wanted to have a baby i'm like now i'm pregnant and having a
20:56baby
20:56i'm excited to announce to the world that she's a girl and then these comments come out like i only
21:02threw this gender reveal dinner to throw it in carl's face so we're gonna do a scavenger hunt to find
21:07out the gender of my baby is she just trying to rub this in carl's face as much as humanly
21:13possible
21:13and then there was just like a couple other comments like when i was with carl i was going
21:18too fast then with turner i was going too slow you don't live with this man and he has put
21:23a baby
21:24inside you yeah and then carl and i dating the first time around and then a week later you give
21:30my hand job in the back of an uber i don't think i did that though about a month ago
21:36carl and danielle
21:37were just like hooking up in the back of the uber there might have been some over the pants or
21:42under
21:42the pants i don't know we're bringing that up like how how far back does this grievance list go
21:52god i'm carl i'm not gonna be like i didn't do anything wrong i know i've done things wrong to
21:58you and hurt you in the past but like i've been your biggest hype woman sometimes like
22:02in the world no you're right a hundred percent be like for some reason you think that i'm coming
22:08from a negative point of view and that that's on me because that's how it's come across but it's
22:13definitely not what's in my heart you and i have had this conversation before where it's like you mean
22:18well you're like i want the best for lindsay but the delivery is just like yeah 100 apologize if
22:26that's the way my tone and my message came across yeah the thing is i was right about a lot
22:31of things
22:32the ones that get me in the most trouble i'm usually right about i want to have babies with
22:36this man and he wants to have babies with me i think that you guys are moving hella fast
22:41i just don't want it to feel like you're single momming this up
22:49but i'm just gonna be a little less vocal i apologize for what i've no and i really do
22:57appreciate you like genuinely like apologizing and not getting defensive
23:05i don't know what the next step is my priority is jemma you know you're in a new relationship and
23:14i i haven't even really gotten to know owen it would be nice if you know
23:19you're open to meeting him yeah you know i do like i do want to hear about baby jemma i
23:25do want
23:25to see some updated photos like that would be nice like baby steps yeah take the words out of my
23:32mouth
23:40did you get your drinks we did we did who else is coming for brunch today i assume everyone right
23:48do i spill it out go ahead take control of me everyone's going to make a boozy brunch if you
23:56want to go never decline to brunch and that's boogie
24:03look at who it is hey how are you you look good thank you hello hello
24:13don't get up don't get up don't get up hi beautiful what's up y'all how are we doing
24:19i'm the beautiful couple you look great how are we doing is lindsay coming and did we order her food
24:30i'll go this way yeah i think it's at like the far side of the park near city in the
24:37fall
24:37it feels like we're properly back on campus hello hi come in hot you guys walk together what is
24:49happening here so let's make room for one more what the dude you guys walked in together we walked in
24:56together very interesting when it comes to her relationship with lindsay danielle is like a cat
25:04she has nine lives okay ladies let's hear it what the is going on um danielle and i got coffee
25:11we had
25:12mimosas that's why you're late we had a pretty good chat so what's our relationship status we are seeing
25:19where it goes yeah okay were there apologies and understanding yeah 100 okay well i just think if
25:27she's getting an apology maybe she could get an apology wait why does she get an apology i thought
25:35you were incredibly dismissive and like condescending
25:48if she's getting an apology maybe she could get an apology wait why does she have an apology i thought
25:53you were incredibly dismissive and like condescending because she goes in attack mode towards me every
25:58single chance i think that they do have things to talk about for sure
26:05amanda and i have so much history who do you trust the least nobody i'm gonna go with amanda
26:13wait what there's never actual beef between amanda and i it's always surrounding another issue and
26:21she's all too happy to hop on the danielle bashing train i think you should talk to lindsay we texted
26:27about the comments about the gender reveal and i said lindsay i'm sorry but you know what you're
26:34not sorry for sure but see that's a gender reveal but now it's a whole new instead of
26:41don't roll your eyes at me i can i don't want to hurt her feelings ever but she's always right
26:49there
26:49makes me feel like a piece of i came in to try to help explain the reason that lindsay was
26:55upset with
26:56you and the whole time you kept saying are you done yet are you done yet are you done yet
27:00are you done
27:00yet and then when i finally said yeah i'm done you turned your back to me and didn't acknowledge me
27:04after that and that's not the first time that has happened i wasn't attacking you i don't know the
27:09whole backstory but speaking from experience sometimes it can be a lot when like if you have
27:13an issue with lindsay you have an issue with five girls jesus this guy lindsay has her girls and her
27:22girls don't you mean the minions
27:25it's just difficult when you are trying to introduce your girlfriend and lindsay has her
27:31little crew her little minions it's amanda and it's georgina and it's yvonne
27:41every woman at this table like has their own opinions and feelings it's not like to categorize
27:47of his minions i don't even know what a minion is they go by many names dave carl paul mike
27:58oh that one is norbert he's an idiot i made a comment that when lindsay has beef with someone
28:05there's multiple girls you are recruiting your your girls i'm not recruiting people i'm sorry that i have
28:11best friends you don't know about me you don't know about amanda she's not i don't know the history
28:18between lindsay and i i'm not one of lindsay's girls yvonne's been one of my best friends for over 16
28:25years georgina started off as my dermatologist has been one of my best friends for a few years now
28:31you're the doctor minion that's not minions they're called friends kenny's about to get
28:37it's a mean girl crew and i it's not a mean girl crew they have their own opinions they're
28:44their own people let them are you okay pay attention pay attention are you on glue right
28:50now are you seriously sniffing glue what are you talking about what are you talking about
28:54together being a doll you seem wound up yeah i am because you can't yeah i am activated you want
29:01to
29:01because you're dumb just reel it in okay i'm dumb got it next is whitney one of the minions too
29:09she's
29:09kenny's minion because you won't even give her a closet it's my girlfriend oh okay but then give
29:14her a closet i want to know how you feel you're the one who has moved here and you're talking
29:20about
29:20making friends like it is intimidating like everyone has a lot of history everyone's been friends for a
29:25long time like i get that like i have really good friends in l.a and like i'm i love
29:30you trying to
29:31like you know integrate myself here and i just like want to feel welcomed i think i'm not used to
29:39this kind of cattiness i'm like if i don't want to be one of lindsay's minions am i going to
29:44fit in
29:45with the girls at some point the minions are going to revolt and when the minions revolt then there will
29:55be
29:55a new order in all of the land but for now we live under the tyranny of lindsay hubbard
30:06they have their own opinions i don't send them off to go do anything they do it on their own
30:12opinions not minions opinions not opinions opinions can we take a shot on that one i'll take a shot down
30:22jesus christ coming up kenny said that he's unsure if there's a spark between you guys i don't want to
30:32be like that like stupid girl that's like missing something oh sun feels good it's a real fall
30:48weather today so it's kenny's birthday today it's his birthday yeah we have like date night tonight
30:53oh my god i had a date on monday you did you yes with a guy i i went out
31:00with before i met my ex if i go
31:02out with somebody they have to be a quality person which is why i'm more interested in like
31:05a setup than an app i set my parameters on the hinge thing and then there were no people
31:12i was like am i that picky or is new york just done santa swiped right on me actual santa
31:18claus
31:18there was like a white beard to hear there was a hat there was hair coming out of the hat
31:23what the
31:24actual is happening i would love to be a second wife but not mrs claus anyway what's going on with
31:31you guys how was the move kenny was like i can't believe you have this much stuff i'm like i
31:36warned
31:36you yeah but he he kind of burst your bubble a little bit lexi came over and we like had
31:41somebody
31:41come measure for the closet and we kind of like surprised kenny we're on a mission yeah i know we're
31:47asking a lot from this little room hey hi this is joanie hi she is trying to help with the
31:54closet
31:54situation oh i thought why not bring in a professional to visualize what it could be you're
32:01cooking you're cooking it's your home now too yeah from what you've told me you and kenny seem to be
32:11on the same page and i want to make sure that you're not going to be blindsided or get hurt
32:16by
32:16something that i'm hearing so i feel like it's something i should bring up now because you know i
32:23want to be a good friend to you but basically andrea heard something from kyle kenny said that he's
32:34unsure if there's a spark between you guys did he say that verbatim pretty much i've been getting close
32:45with whitney and it's not something that i wanted to tell her but being a good friend i thought she
32:51should know so she's not going to get hurt kyle kept saying something about kenny's not sure about
32:57the spark kenny told me sometimes i worry if we don't have that spark you know sometimes you you
33:04go in a relationship and you feel this spark and this buzz and it's like fire and it's hard to
33:08know
33:09for me like is the like this is the one and i know it for sure spark not there yeah
33:14i'm trying to figure
33:15that out it's tricky like i don't even know what to say that's hard to believe because we wouldn't
33:26be taking the step if that was the case you wouldn't move out here and then figure that out
33:32it's like it's also a little bit like triggering for me because my last relationship
33:39i had for a couple years our relationship kind of just ended because he was just like you're just
33:47not it my ex didn't see me as a forever so hearing like oh my gosh kenny's questioning a spark
33:55like
33:55what if i'm not enough and there's not a reasoning but it's just not it i feel like there's a
34:02lot that's
34:02being thrown around um kenny he might have used the word murky to describe your relationship future
34:15what murky murky like a swamp i just think that i'm like obviously like shook don't get upset unless
34:24there's something to get upset about you go and you ask him what he said i just like i don't
34:30want to be
34:30like that like stupid girl that's like you're not missing something you know when i feel like
34:35i'm so convicted in like our relationship
34:41your person is like saying that you know it's just like it's not nice to hear
34:48you've moved your whole life here for him no i know and like i will
34:53move it right back out if that's the situation
35:01my drunk
35:09what way are we going left this way the garment district
35:13i don't know why you had to wear the same outfit as me i know i could have worn the
35:17blue but i think
35:18it's cuter than we're matching i feel like it's been a minute since we did the actual photo shoot for
35:23this collab i know well it's been a long time in the making kyle and i shot the collab over
35:28the summer with
35:29boys lie for our new shirley temple drink then we have a whole line of clothing that we're doing
35:33with them too kyle that's your wife right there she's nice hey you know she cleans up
35:39the premise is boys lie men don't kyle must put himself in the men category
35:45we definitely got the shot but he's a boy i'll probably take this off when we do the actual
35:49podcast i'll wear the t-shirt i have the t-shirt on now we're just gonna do this podcast to
35:55start
35:56teasing the drop the amount of times that kyle and i've been a really bad place and i've had to
36:00show up at a wedding together or like us weekly parties or their family event i've just had to smile
36:06through it and act like everything was fine i'm a professional at this at this point same different
36:12day speaking of things that have been a long time in the making you know that i've been looking for
36:18the department and it's just been like really difficult so i finally found a place that i really
36:24like the only issue is that it is a year-long lease
36:34all the month-to-month options they either finding a furnished month-to-month that was like dog friendly
36:41it was just becoming very complicated man that's a totally different combo have you already had to
36:48give them a decision yeah wow and i'm trying to keep an open mind but this to me starts to
36:56feel
36:56much more definitive and no longer feels temporary it feels permanent there's like a side of me that
37:05feels like i'm supposed to be fighting for you to stay but i feel like the whole idea of the
37:11separation
37:11is to like well we're not separating sorry creating the separation yes we're not leaving each other
37:21so this is supposed to like help our relationship because it's so easy for us to just get back into
37:27a cycle where we put on a face we act like everything's fine and then it starts to feel
37:32like everything's fine and then we're just back to the same old stuff again yeah i'm trying to be
37:36like supportive and i'm trying to be optimistic yeah i'm sure you're probably feeling the same thing
37:43but i i get the need to feel like you just got to put your money where your mouth is
37:46it just can be
37:47weird well what's weirder getting to the point where it's so ugly that like we hate each other no no
37:54well for the purposes of today's podcast let's keep our private matters private private all smiles
38:14are we good to start are we recording yeah okay well we're so excited to have you guys on our
38:19podcast welcome buckle up enjoy the ride and remember that boys lie is that creepy girls lie too
38:27girls lie too get out of here um so yeah we'll just get into it
38:32i love this has been like a regular spot thank you thank you so much my lady
38:49okay thank you
38:52should we get a bottle of wine are we doing like a birthday bottle i'll let you pick
38:57probably a little uh nebbiolo very nice and nebbiolo may i get you guys some sparkling
39:02still or tap water to start i'll just do still of the night that's lost so thank you so much
39:09i feel like it's been a crazy day crazy day yeah just like a crazy week
39:14what uh why what what do you got going on and welcome back to the boys live podcast a podcast
39:20where we talk about the craziest relationship stories you've ever heard and this
39:23week's theme is how do you keep a spark in a relationship like if you start to feel things
39:28swindle oh the spark if you lose a spark in your relationship like where does that like put you
39:34and like for me it's like are you bored if your spark isn't in your own relationship you start looking
39:38all swear
39:41well i just are you always supposed to have a spark with your significant other i don't think so but
39:47there
39:47was an initial spark for sure there's yeah there's yeah but it's never gonna be like the same spark
39:51that you had in the beginning phases what are you thinking i had a little coffee with lexi and georgina
40:01today it's nice good yeah but um lexi came in and like told me something that like i was kind
40:13of shocked by
40:18lexi told me that andrea did like a photo shoot with kyle and nick and like the boys were chatting
40:25and i guess like kyle was relaying information that um kyle said you told him that like a spark is
40:39missing between us
40:48next time on in the city the only thing i thought about was your conversations around having a baby
40:55like a flashback
40:56there's rumors i'm a homewrecker to hear that these things are said about me by friends that sucks
41:02are you even still in love with me i think we both want to feel but are you still in
41:07love with me
41:09the real issue is two or three guys running their mouth about my relationship oh
41:13i can't deal with a wall