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B.a.y.l.e.n O.u.t L.o.u.d Season 3 Episode 2
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00:00We're eating for food at the wedding, but the dogs are in cars.
00:05Our wedding is literally right around the corner,
00:07and we don't have anything to show for it besides choosing the venue.
00:12We've done zero.
00:13Are you confused as to everybody else's division of labor with giving us responsibilities?
00:19Sammy had a responsibility for the bachelor-bachelorette party,
00:22and it didn't end up working that way, and now I don't even know if she's coming.
00:28If I'm your maid of honor, I wish then I could have, like, planned the trip with you.
00:32Colin reached out three times. I reached out.
00:35Did she ever contact me and say, hey, I want you to plan my bachelor-bachelorette party?
00:39No.
00:39Get in touch with Austin, the best man, and figure it out.
00:43No.
00:43I just can't. I can't go.
00:47Welcome to Hapati!
00:52Take a dick, Bo!
00:54What'd he say?
00:55Can you say it again?
00:57The girl say, take a dick, Bo.
01:01I'm sorry.
01:03Hey, can I talk to you real quick?
01:04Ah, sure.
01:05As much as I try to stay out of sister drama,
01:09Sammy didn't just drop the ball.
01:11Sammy never even picked it up.
01:14I think it's really gotten to the point where Baylen needs to...
01:19She needs to make a change.
01:36Hey, now.
01:39Oh!
01:46That's Austin.
01:47We are in Asheville, North Carolina
01:49for our joint bachelor-bachelorette trip.
01:53I'm so excited to just relax.
01:55I've already told him, I'm like,
01:56we can't be doing, like, college s***,
01:58like jumping off the tables and stuff when we're drunk, okay?
02:00We can't be doing that. That's how people die.
02:03Rombastic side eye, criminal offensive side eye.
02:07Rombastic side eye.
02:10Yeah, I really wanted to talk to you about, like, Sammy and everything
02:14because for the past few months,
02:17Vaylin has really tried to get Sammy to plan this
02:21and she just hasn't been there for her
02:23and then all of a sudden we find out that she's not going to come here.
02:26So my concern is that Sammy's not going to be able to
02:30fully uphold her duties as a maid of honor.
02:33I mean, if you remember years ago,
02:37a piece of advice that I gave you was, like,
02:40expectations and communication.
02:42Those are, like, the two biggest things.
02:44A lot of times we kind of have expectations in our head
02:48and think that sometimes people are supposed to read that
02:51or, like, know what that is.
02:53So I think that's the biggest thing is, like,
02:55Vaylin communicating her expectations
02:57of what exactly she wants from her maid of honor.
03:01Yeah, I agree with you.
03:03I just feel like something bigger needs to be done.
03:07Well, I think it's, you know, it starts with the conversation.
03:13Mm-hmm.
03:14Seeing what Vaylin and Sammy have been kind of going through,
03:17it really helps me appreciate the kind of relationship
03:20that I have with my sister.
03:23She's somebody that has helped me
03:25and pulled me out of some, like, really dark times.
03:28Growing up wasn't the easiest for me.
03:30I struggled with emotions,
03:34and I felt very lost.
03:37But my sister would pull me back to reality
03:39and let me know that, you know, everything's okay.
03:43If it wasn't for her, then I wouldn't be with Vaylin
03:46because I wouldn't know who I am
03:49or I wouldn't even be here today.
03:50So I can't really put it into words
03:52how much she means to me.
03:54So there's actually something else
03:55that I wanted to talk to you about.
03:57Okay.
03:57So for the actual wedding,
04:00I'm going to have Austin give his speech,
04:03but I also want you to give a speech as well
04:05since you're my sister.
04:07Get to writing.
04:08Oh, my gosh.
04:09Colin, I'm, like, sweating now.
04:11Like, you just induced so much anxiety.
04:13Oh, my God.
04:15When Colin asked me to give a speech at the wedding,
04:17it was definitely unexpected.
04:19He knows how much I hate public speaking,
04:22so this is going to be a challenge for me
04:24to kind of take that on,
04:26but also very honored that he feels that strongly.
04:30Ooh.
04:32Wow.
04:36I mean, Colin's just, he's my younger brother,
04:38so just taking on that big sister role
04:42and always just looking out for him
04:44in every single way,
04:46like giving him advice
04:47and helping him through the stages of life.
04:49It's just special.
04:52Love you, bud.
04:53I love you.
05:09All right, got a big breakfast to cook for the girls.
05:11It's the last day at the rental.
05:14Today's plan is the guys are cooking breakfast
05:16for the girls, playing games, and then pack.
05:20What's up, guys?
05:21What's up, Bert?
05:21Hey, how's it going?
05:22What up, Bert?
05:23Hey, good morning, brother.
05:24My brother, Bert, was able to make it
05:26for part of the party,
05:27which I'm so excited about.
05:28He flew in last night
05:29because he had some delays getting here.
05:32Ready or not?
05:33Here you come, mother f***er.
05:35We're putting all this into one thing?
05:37Two cups of water.
05:38Yeah.
05:39Well, we might have to do separate.
05:40What's up?
05:41Hey!
05:42Hey!
05:44We made the aprons.
05:45Colleen did.
05:46Oh, I love it.
05:48My sister.
05:48How do you feel about making them?
05:49They're so good.
05:51I almost drew a line.
05:52I was like, look, I'm your sister.
05:54I don't know if I can do this.
05:56It should have been a little bit lower.
05:57Oh!
05:58I'm just kidding.
06:02Okay, who is making us mimosas to start this off?
06:06That's Colin.
06:07I like my mimosa with the orange juice.
06:11Rick, I'm so glad you were able to make it.
06:12Of course, Bay.
06:13I love you.
06:14Love you, too.
06:16I just arrived to Asheville.
06:17I live in Tampa, so I had to catch a connecting flight.
06:20There was a little bit of some hiccups there,
06:22and it made it a little bit more difficult for me to make it the day before.
06:25And I know there was some other people who weren't able to make it at all,
06:28like Sammy, with her anxiety of flying and things like that.
06:31It's just too much for her at that point.
06:32So I think Bay and Colin could have picked a little bit more of a convenient location.
06:36I mean, they have to come five, six hours themselves.
06:40All right, on your left.
06:42Oh, wow.
06:44Wow.
06:44Anyone else?
06:45How's the food, guys?
06:47Delicious.
06:47It's good.
06:48Is it good?
06:49Our pancakes are good.
06:50Are they actually?
06:51Because I feel like it might be undercooked.
06:54They're a little squishy.
06:56The food is questionable.
06:58I think my pancake's raw, but no complaints.
07:02I'm very grateful that the men are making us breakfast.
07:05Let's do a cheers.
07:07God damn!
07:08We really hope everybody had a great time this weekend.
07:11Everyone can suck at ****.
07:13Here we go.
07:13Cheers.
07:14Cheers.
07:15Did they have it in Colin?
07:16I'm holding it.
07:17Look at her.
07:18Put it on here.
07:19Put it again.
07:19Who's the bartender?
07:21I had to have it on here.
07:38I'm going to miss this place.
07:40Since my conversation with Colleen last night, I have just been thinking about the role of maid of honor.
07:48And it's really important that Balen hears what I have to say.
07:53So last night I talked to Colleen.
07:55I pulled her aside and I asked her.
07:58You sucked Austin's ****.
07:58I asked her to say a speech at our wedding.
08:01Yeah.
08:01She is my sister.
08:05And...
08:06She's a huge part of your life.
08:08Yeah.
08:09She just...
08:17I wouldn't be here if it wasn't for her.
08:21Yeah.
08:21She's pulled me out of so many dark spots throughout life.
08:26And to have someone in your corner like that, that you can count on, just means the world.
08:36And so that's why I want her to be able to just talk about our relationship that we've had and
08:44built and grew throughout the years at our wedding.
08:50I love the idea of Colleen giving a speech at our wedding because I know how much Colleen means to
08:56Colleen.
08:56It's just true, unapologetic love that he deserves.
09:02She's your rock.
09:03We both have one sister.
09:05And so I know how much Sammy means to you.
09:09And the fact that these past few months have been so hard and you've just been so heartbroken about it,
09:15it's hard to watch.
09:18So I just...
09:21With Sammy as the maid of honor, there are some things that need to change.
09:30Colleen is the type of person to hold a grudge.
09:32So I'm very nervous to know what he might suggest about Sammy.
09:38Hmm.
09:39Bitch.
09:41So what are you suggesting?
09:46I just want to know why you couldn't be there.
09:50I didn't know I had to re-explain that.
09:53Like, I don't know.
09:55You guys did choose a very remote place for your wedding.
10:00The fact that a third of Baylen's bachelor-bachelorette party was not able to make it.
10:06If that same scenario happens for the wedding, Baylen would absolutely be devastated.
10:18With Sammy as the maid of honor, there are some things that need to change.
10:25Dick!
10:28Are you saying she shouldn't be my maid of honor?
10:35No, that's not what I'm saying.
10:38What I'm saying is, I think you and her really need to sit down and have a face-to-face
10:42conversation
10:43with each other.
10:44There needs to be expectations, and there needs to be communication of what those expectations
10:51are.
10:53And I know you don't like confrontation.
10:55I know you try to avoid it.
10:57I can't avoid this conversation.
11:01I don't like confrontation or having hard conversations, because that's how I was programmed and built.
11:06So, I just don't like it.
11:10You can carry that inside.
11:11Okay.
11:12And I love you.
11:13I love you, too.
11:14And I know my sister is very strong opinionated, but this conversation cannot be avoided.
11:21So, we're going to have this conversation one way or another.
11:24All right.
11:25Let's go finish packing up, okay?
11:26Will you get that for me?
11:27Yep.
11:29I don't want to leave.
11:31I know.
11:57Now that we're back from our bachelor-bachelorette party, I know that I can't put off the conversation
12:01that Colin's been wanting me to have with my sister, Sammy, because the tension is just
12:05going to keep building between us, and it will never get resolved.
12:08Sammy sucks a lot of s***.
12:15It's going to be good.
12:17What are you doing?
12:18What are you doing?
12:19More skin.
12:19Oh, okay.
12:21Well, I just wanted to call you because it's been a couple days since the bachelorette trip,
12:26and I just want to know a little bit more from your standpoint so I can understand why you
12:36couldn't be there.
12:37I didn't know I had to re-explain that.
12:40I couldn't be there because of my anxiety, my emotional health, my everything.
12:47There was an airport for me to fly into within two hours.
12:51I don't know.
12:52I don't know, like, had the longest f***ing days.
12:56The first thing I wanted to do.
13:00Like...
13:01It's okay.
13:02So, of course I wanted to be there.
13:04It just...
13:05Suck f***.
13:06I just couldn't.
13:08I just don't want to dwell on it.
13:09I don't want it to seem like I'm, like, bashing Balen.
13:11I'm not dwelling on it or anything.
13:12It was both of our faults, and I completely acknowledge that.
13:15It's just hard with my anxiety and OCD and traveling, and it's really an inconvenience
13:19for anybody to travel, of course.
13:22It was just a mess.
13:23It's just a mess.
13:25But also you chose a place in the middle of bum f***ing nowhere.
13:29Nobody had any idea of how to get there.
13:32But really...
13:33When you're a maid of honor, too, and then it's, like, around the corner and emotions
13:37are heightened, like, yeah, um, you know what I mean?
13:40I just think their issue was us not communicating properly and me not completely...
13:48Goddamn!
13:51Telling you what I want from you as a maid of honor, which, that's my fault.
13:56We're both kind of on the same wavelength here.
14:00Like, we both just really messed up.
14:02I do want to help you clear up some things, and I made a list to help you understand kind
14:08of what role you have.
14:10To continue not having miscommunication with my sister, Colin suggested that I lay out
14:16expectations for Sammy moving forward, and I did that.
14:20As my maid of honor, here's the list.
14:23So before the wedding, help coordinate the bridal shower, attend dress shopping, be the main point
14:29of contact for my bridal party, suck a d**k, keep the bridal party on...
14:34Take that off the list.
14:38I ain't got no no man.
14:40Share schedules, payment deadlines, and outfit requirements.
14:44Confirm travel plans.
14:46Be in charge of fixing my train at the ceremony.
14:48Make sure my dress and veil look perfect walking down the aisle and hold the bouquet during vow.
14:52Walk down the aisle before the bride.
14:54I don't know why that's on there.
14:55I d**k hope so.
14:56Okay, my feet, where are you getting this off of?
14:59I went to Google because, you know, I'm a first-time bride.
15:03I don't really know what you're supposed to do.
15:05Oh my Jesus.
15:06She's like, walk down the aisle before me.
15:09Well, no, b**k, bae.
15:10I hope I'd walk down the aisle before you.
15:12Like, she's like, take my flowers.
15:15Bailen, oh my gosh.
15:17But also, now I know I'm the middleman between her and all these bridesmaids.
15:21They're not my friends or whatever, but like, b**k, I'm in charge.
15:23Like, I gotta text all these girls.
15:25I don't even know their name.
15:27It's gonna be a s**t show, but it'll get done.
15:30I'll send you the list, but I feel like this call was great, and I love you so much, and
15:36you mean so much to me.
15:37You're my only sister, and nothing will break us.
15:42I know, but I love you too.
15:43Okay, have a good night.
15:45Love you, bye.
15:47I know Colin's nervous that Sammy can pull this off, but I've definitely laid out the
15:52guidelines of what I need from her and my expectations.
15:55So, for all of our sakes, I want Sammy to really shine and prove everybody wrong.
16:03So, I just wanted to, like, just let you know, like, from me and Sammy that we're both
16:08sorry for putting you in the middle.
16:09I don't mind being...
16:10Are you okay?
16:13We're six months out, but I'm having really bad second guesses about it.
16:19I know it's coming out of the blue, and Colin might be a little bit upset.
16:22Colin!
16:23What the f**k, Bailen?
16:43I love everything about Christmas.
16:46I love going shopping and decorating and all the traditions that come with Christmas.
16:51I love Christmas.
16:53Felice, snobby dick-off.
16:56Hi.
16:56Hi.
16:57How was your ride share?
16:58You dropped me off the block away.
17:00I didn't know where to look for you.
17:01But it's fine, because we're only 20 minutes away from where I live, so...
17:04And I wanted to come here for so long.
17:06Okay.
17:07And so, oh my God.
17:07Mom, I'm getting that.
17:08Okay.
17:09I'm getting that.
17:10Let's focus.
17:11I asked my mom to come to D.C. to the Christmas holiday market so we could do a little
17:15bit
17:16of shopping and to let her know kind of how the call with Sammy went.
17:20Okay.
17:23I did it.
17:24What?
17:25I called Sammy.
17:26Oh, God.
17:27I just wanted to know why Sammy couldn't make the Bachelor bachelorette trip in Asheville.
17:34Just help me understand better.
17:36Hi.
17:36What can I give for you?
17:37Can I get hot chocolate with a lot of whipped cream, please?
17:40A lot of whipped cream?
17:40Yeah, you got it.
17:42I'm going to do the same.
17:43Awesome.
17:44Yeah.
17:44Here you all are.
17:45Thank you so much.
17:46Of course.
17:47We got napkins there for you.
17:48Okay.
17:48Woo-hoo.
17:49God damn.
17:52Bald bitch.
17:53See, I waited.
17:54I waited.
17:54He walked by.
17:55He walked by.
17:56You did a good job.
17:57I delay my tics in a lot of scenarios so I don't hurt other people's feelings.
18:01I will either lower my voice and say it, or I will wait and then say it when they're
18:06not there.
18:08No, but there's no lie that there's been a lot of things that have been going on in
18:11Sammy's life, and I wanted to just get on the same wavelength with her, and we're both
18:16sorry for putting you in the middle.
18:17Oh, my gosh.
18:18You guys are fine.
18:20I don't mind being...
18:21Are you okay?
18:22Yeah.
18:23Mom?
18:23Okay.
18:23Okay.
18:24Take your gloves off.
18:25I'm going to go grab some napkins.
18:27Do you guys have any napkins I could use really quick?
18:30Thank you so much.
18:31When I have the hot chocolate in my hands, I get the urge to squeeze it, and it goes everywhere.
18:37Usually when things like this happen to me in public, I get kind of frantic and don't
18:41really know what to do because it's kind of, like, low-key embarrassing.
18:46Can I have some light?
18:48Yes, please.
18:49Oh, sure.
18:50Woo-hoo-hoo-hoo-hoo.
18:52Thank you so much.
18:53You're fine.
18:53Did that warm you up for a second?
18:55Kind of.
18:55No, kind of.
18:56But now it sucks because now I don't have gloves.
18:59Um...
18:59Want some gloves, too?
19:00No, no.
19:01No.
19:02A lot of shops.
19:02I bet you we could buy some.
19:04Yeah.
19:04God damn.
19:05Thank you so much.
19:06You're very welcome.
19:06I appreciate you a lot.
19:07I hope you guys have fun here.
19:09You too.
19:09You want me to keep these?
19:11Yeah.
19:12Okay.
19:12Oh, my God.
19:12What a blessing.
19:14Okay.
19:14I am used to people laughing or staring or being mean to me behind my back, both in person
19:20and on social media.
19:24So it makes me emotional because it's not every day that somebody else takes their time to
19:28help me.
19:31There are a lot of good people out there, like a real lot.
19:34It means a lot to me to know that people go out of their way to help me, especially strangers.
19:38So, oh, look at ornaments, ornaments, get an ornament, get an ornament.
19:45Oh, what did, um, I could get this for Colin.
19:50Oh, my gosh.
19:54You could.
19:55Let's look at all of them first.
19:57So, um, what more did Sam have to say about the bachelorette party?
20:03Basically, that the location was terrible.
20:05It was, quote, unquote, in bumf*****.
20:09Oh, she says bumf*****, okay?
20:11Yeah.
20:12Which is fine.
20:13Colin's friend Mark couldn't come because of that exact same reason.
20:18It's good to know that, though.
20:20It's good to know that, like, moving forward.
20:22Moving forward, like, I hope that it doesn't play out the same way in regards to the wedding
20:31because you guys did choose a very remote place for your wedding.
20:36Beautiful, but remote, and it does have...
20:39Sorry, I'm just going to step away from that.
20:40Okay, step away.
20:40We can move a little bit.
20:41It does have some of the same issues for people getting there.
20:49To be brutally honest, Baylin's chosen wedding venue is completely unideal.
20:55The nearest international airport is two and a half hours away.
20:59It's up a mountain, so there's some shuttling.
21:02You have to get the catering up the mountain.
21:04There is a lot.
21:06Oh, my tutti!
21:07Okay, the tutti's good.
21:10We got tutti?
21:10The tutti's good.
21:11I'm not sure that she's totally hearing my questions or concerns, but the fact that
21:17a third of Baylin's bachelor-bachelorette party was not able to make it.
21:21If that same scenario happens for the wedding, Baylin would absolutely be devastated.
21:27There are consequences for any big decision because it can backfire if you're not thinking
21:33things through.
21:42Little does everyone know they're all getting cussed out.
21:46Cheers.
21:47Cheers.
21:47Great to see you guys again.
21:49Tonight, we're meeting with our wedding planners.
21:51Yeah, so there is something that we did want to talk to you guys about.
21:56All right.
21:57All right.
22:00All right.
22:01All right.
22:04All right.
22:05All right.
22:06All right.
22:19I'm going to...
22:21You know I'm not the best at ice skating, so I'm going to give it my try.
22:27If I fall, I fall.
22:29Tis the season for wieners, little baby wieners.
22:33After hearing my mom's concerns about the wedding venue, I need some time to really process
22:38it all.
22:39And the D.C.
22:40Holiday Market really put me in the spirit for Christmas, so we're meeting up with Bechner
22:44and my mom to go ice skating.
22:46I got these heavy duty skates.
22:50I really enjoy starting traditions with you during Christmas time, but I do have a lot
22:55of triggers around the holidays when it comes to my tics.
22:58Santa.
22:59Santa.
22:59The Grinch.
23:01The Grinch.
23:02Hate, hate, hate.
23:02Double hate.
23:03We're not going to go through the list.
23:04Ho, ho, ho your ass back and slay, you fat-ass bitch.
23:08That would be about Santa.
23:10Merry weenie.
23:12Are you excited?
23:13I am excited.
23:15I used to love skating as a kid.
23:17It used to be my favorite thing to do.
23:19Especially when all my friends, we would all meet up and go to the skating rink on Fridays.
23:24Thank God there's not a lot of people for me to run over on accident.
23:28Okay.
23:29F*** them kids.
23:31I've only been twice in my life.
23:34I can go pretty fast until I hit a wall or something to stop.
23:38I can go fast until I hit a wall.
23:40I can't stop.
23:42I kind of like these though.
23:44These got like heel support.
23:47Colin really needs to redeem himself.
23:49Colin!
23:50After his attempts at sports.
23:54Place the fingers behind the back.
23:57What?
23:59Boom!
24:03I hope he's better at golf.
24:07That's in the water.
24:12What's your favorite Christmas song?
24:15I like Rudolph.
24:16Rudolph the red-nosed reindeer.
24:18Had a little wavy wiener.
24:21Pew pew!
24:22Mother f***!
24:24Oh no.
24:26I shot Rudolph.
24:28Sorry.
24:29I was trying to hold that in.
24:30Yeah, it wasn't going to work out.
24:32Sorry guys.
24:32I did not shoot Rudolph.
24:35Oh, here they are.
24:37Hi!
24:38You look cold.
24:39Yeah, we're quite freezing.
24:41Okay.
24:41My toes already feel hardened in here.
24:43Hey, you see this rail right here?
24:44The penguin is waiting for me.
24:46And you are going to be living there.
24:47You're not much of an ice skater?
24:49That rail?
24:49I skated like two years ago.
24:51It's going to be your best friend.
24:52Who is going to be the best skater?
24:54My mom is going to be the best skater.
24:56Yeah, probably Julie.
24:57Yeah.
24:57She's skated the longest.
24:59Are you guys ready to start skating?
25:01No.
25:01I have to pee.
25:02I'm so excited.
25:03The only time.
25:04When I was in seventh grade, I did attempt a triple sal cow from Christy Yamaguchi.
25:10But I did go down and, like, break my wrists.
25:13Don't try it today.
25:14Not today, though.
25:17Okay, everybody start slow.
25:19All right.
25:20Oh, look at Baylen taking off.
25:21All right, Baylen.
25:22Hold up.
25:23Hold up.
25:23Oh, gosh.
25:24Wait, stop leaving.
25:25Stop leaving.
25:27Colin, don't leave me.
25:29Oh, my God.
25:33Bitch.
25:34Bitch.
25:35You're a motherfucking broke-ass motherfucking bitch-ass motherfucking broke-ass motherfucking
25:38bitch.
25:41Little does everyone know they're all getting cussed out.
25:44Oh, my God.
25:45Oh, this is nice.
25:46How about Colin get up there?
25:49Oh, because he's got the penguin.
25:50Do you want one?
25:51No.
25:52Who is trying to like it?
25:54Definitely everyone.
25:56Just Spectre and Colin.
25:59Oh, my gosh.
26:00Baylen almost fell with Frosty.
26:02Can you do this?
26:05No?
26:05What does this stick to here?
26:07Like, if I was playing baseball right now, I'd be winning, of course.
26:10We're going to have to put in a-
26:12Those are two different sports.
26:12We're going to have to put them in some hockey classes.
26:14I just need a couple times more of them.
26:16A couple times.
26:17A couple years.
26:23Are you okay?
26:24Okay, guys, it's time to go.
26:26Everybody's going backwards now.
26:27I'm just now getting the hang of it.
26:28Come on now.
26:32Ice skating was so much fun, but after what my mom told me at the D.C. Holiday Market, I
26:37still
26:38have to process and think about our venue before going and bringing it up to Colin.
26:43Colin!
26:43Feels good to have my feet back.
26:45Once a winter.
26:46That's all you need for skating.
26:49Only once a winter.
26:50Colin is opinionated and very strong-headed, so I don't know what I'm going to do.
26:57Take a dick.
27:13Suck it.
27:17Are you excited to put up the Christmas tree?
27:19I am.
27:20This is our first year putting up our own tree, and we decided to put the Christmas tree
27:25in our bedroom this year because any way that we're able to prevent the dogs from knocking
27:30or kicking or peeing on our Christmas tree, the better.
27:33It's very pink.
27:35Very pink.
27:36Are your parents for just eating the tree from you?
27:40Which of you would pee on the Christmas tree first?
27:47You know I'm bad at doing this, right?
27:50It doesn't take technique, babe.
27:52Yeah, it does.
27:54So I did talk to Sammy, and it was a good conversation.
27:57It was a very much needed conversation, as much as I was scared to have the conversation.
28:03I gave Sammy a list of maid of honor duties, and moving forward, me and Sammy are going to
28:08have better communication.
28:10I mean, I'm glad to hear that Sammy and Valen were able to talk, and I hope that, you know,
28:17there can be better communication.
28:19That's why you be waiting for us.
28:20I honestly have no idea if everything will be smooth sailing from here or if it will kind
28:28of crumble again, but time will tell.
28:32There we go.
28:34Looks good.
28:35Okay, now let's put the lights on.
28:37Pink lights for a pink tree.
28:40You little dick.
28:41This is the season for Wayne is.
28:44It's so exciting to know that this is our last Christmas, but also very cherishing.
28:50It ain't no last Christmas.
28:51I'm not dying.
28:52No, I just, I just didn't finish.
28:55Like, I want to just cherish it.
28:57It's our last Christmas we have together before we're married.
29:00And then we have every Christmas together, guys.
29:04Yep, there she be.
29:06Okay, now we have the ornaments.
29:09Okay, I'm going to give them to you, you're going to put them on the tree.
29:12Okay, we have an ice cream cone.
29:14Do we not have any ornaments that are, like, sentimental to us?
29:17Yeah, a pretzel.
29:18Okay.
29:19Colin was decorating the tree, but with the decorations.
29:22There would be no tree.
29:24Colin doesn't really like to buy stuff, so.
29:26There would be no decorations on there.
29:28Yes, there would.
29:28There would be lights.
29:30There just wouldn't be 18 donuts on there.
29:32This is sentimental.
29:34It's our favorite food.
29:35What?
29:36Cotton candy.
29:38We have ranch, because we brought ranch to London.
29:42Santa.
29:43Oh, hold your ass back to the damn sleigh.
29:46We have an alpaca.
29:47We have another alpaca.
29:48We have maybe another.
29:52I think we have enough alpacas on the tree already.
29:55There's already three.
29:57Wait till we have a yard.
29:58There'll be 18 blow-up alpacas in the front of it.
30:01Oh.
30:02Oh, I can promise you that's a yes.
30:05I didn't make that purchase.
30:06Sorry, that's fraud.
30:08This one's sentimental.
30:10Our first Christmas engaged, 2024.
30:12Oh, sorry.
30:16So there's something I want to talk to you about.
30:19I was talking with my mom at the market when we went about going on our bachelor-bachelorette trip
30:24and finding out that there's a lot of people that can't go because of the location.
30:27Have you given it a thought that maybe our location's in a bad place for our wedding?
30:34I don't think it's in a bad place.
30:37Every wedding is not going to have everybody show up.
30:40I mean, there's a lot of variables that go into it, like going back from what Shannon said
30:45forever ago with us being venue broke.
30:48I fell in love with the wedding venue as soon as I saw it, but I've just been doing a
30:53lot
30:53of thinking about what my mom said because it's in such a remote location.
30:56And if history repeats itself and people don't show up to the wedding the same way they didn't
31:02show up for the bachelor-bachelorette party, it'd be very disheartening.
31:06And plus, we have to pay travel fees for the caterers and all the vendors because it's so remote.
31:11I decided that I would bring it up to Colin now because it's laying on my heart and I
31:17want to be able to tell him before it's too late.
31:23What if we change our wedding venue?
31:29What the f**k, Balin?
31:31We're six months out from our wedding date.
31:34I already am feeling like we're behind on all of this wedding planning.
31:40And now Balin's like, hey, what about changing our venue?
31:43We've already put a deposit down, but yeah, sure.
31:46Let's just start over.
31:47Yeah, let's start over.
31:59What if we change our wedding venue?
32:04We're six months out from our wedding.
32:07I know it's coming out of the blue and Colin might be a little bit upset.
32:10Colin!
32:12But my main priorities right now is to make sure that we have as many people there celebrating
32:17us on our wedding day as possible while totally not blowing our budget.
32:24If we had it at a different place where everything was on site, we wouldn't have to pay for transportation.
32:30I mean, I don't know.
32:32There is that other outdoor, indoor wedding venue that's closer to us that might work.
32:39Oh, it's like romantic.
32:42This is sick.
32:43This is insane.
32:44So we do all kinds of things.
32:45We have a late night bites list that has chicken and waffles.
32:48It has cupcake bar.
32:49It has the fry time.
32:50For our guests, where is the closest place for them to stay?
32:56Here.
32:58There's an airport an hour away instead of two and a half hours away, and it's an international airport.
33:04But at the end of the day, like...
33:05We're six months out.
33:07Yeah.
33:07With a date already picked and a venue already picked.
33:11Yeah, so...
33:12But I'm having really bad second guesses about it.
33:16Talk to the wedding planner.
33:17That's all I gotta say.
33:34Are you excited to meet Shannon and Chris?
33:37Yeah, I'm excited to see them.
33:39Yeah.
33:39Really cool.
33:40Got a lot of stuff to talk about.
33:42Tonight we're meeting with our wedding planners.
33:44And there's still a lot of stuff that we have to lock down for the wedding.
33:47And now we have to ask them if we can change our venue on top of everything else.
33:51I've been thinking about it, and I definitely see Baylen's point regarding the location.
33:56So I definitely want to get Shannon's perspective on the whole change and everything.
34:02Hey guys!
34:03How are you?
34:04Hey.
34:04It's nice to see you.
34:05You're too.
34:06You look so cute.
34:07Oh, thank you.
34:08We ordered some food.
34:09I hope that was okay.
34:10Yeah.
34:10Food is always fine.
34:11I mean, we order drinks because that's always fine too.
34:14So...
34:15Cheers.
34:16Cheers.
34:17Great to see you guys again.
34:19Are Baylen and Collin really need to be with wedding planning?
34:23No.
34:24Six months out?
34:25Absolutely not.
34:27We like to have most of the logistics figured out by now, but there has not been a ton of
34:33progress made with Baylen and Collin since the last time we saw them.
34:37They haven't been doing a whole lot.
34:39It makes us feel a little bit nervous.
34:44Let's get into it because we've got a lot of things to do in a short period of time,
34:49right?
34:50Really, we have to kind of take care of all of our guests because this essentially is
34:54a destination wedding.
34:55We have all of these aspects that we need to worry about, the transportation, the hotels.
35:01We've definitely locked in your hotel box.
35:05So we're ready to start moving on transportation.
35:07Get all your guests from the hotels up to the wedding venue.
35:12So Shannon and Chris start talking about all the stuff that they've been doing behind
35:16the scenes and just internally for, I don't know about you, but for me, I'm sitting there
35:21and I feel like...
35:22F***ing guilty.
35:23I feel guilty.
35:24Yeah.
35:24They're sitting here saying, hey, we've done all this and then we know that we're about
35:28to ask them to basically scratch all that and restart.
35:31So obviously the next biggest dick, the next biggest vendor we need to get squared away
35:40is catering.
35:41Yeah.
35:42So there is something that we did want to talk to you guys about.
35:46Okay.
35:47We want to see how you guys feel about a venue change.
35:53Venue change?
35:57All right.
35:59Wasn't expecting that.
36:00Right.
36:00Yep.
36:01Okay.
36:02We are shocked hearing about a venue change.
36:06Most clients absolutely do not change their venue six months out.
36:11After talking with a few friends...
36:14After our bachelorette trip.
36:15Yeah, that weren't able to make it to the bachelorette trip, where we're having our wedding at is kind
36:23of a far distance for a lot of people to travel.
36:25A little too remote.
36:25And with the closest airport being two and a half hours away, makes it not easy.
36:30Right.
36:31With the remote location, we've already started to see some challenges as we've been beginning
36:36to plan.
36:37But we are six months out from the wedding.
36:40Most venues are booking two years out.
36:42So, this could be challenging.
36:45So, before touring this seclusion, we actually toured another outdoor indoor wedding venue.
36:50They have on-site stays for our guests.
36:52So, it's kind of like a compound.
36:54They have in-house catering, which I know would make it a lot easier on you guys.
37:00The only caveat to it is that it's farther away from my family.
37:05That's a tough situation, of course.
37:07The other kind of sticky situation is the venue that you've already put down a pretty
37:13big deposit on.
37:15Yeah.
37:15We're just going to lose doubt on it.
37:16I'm going to tell you, that's going to be gone.
37:18Yeah.
37:19Yeah.
37:19So, we have to kind of look at if this place has dates available.
37:23And then what's the pricing?
37:25If we did end up changing the date, we would also have to look at our schedule to make sure
37:29that we are also still available since we're six months out.
37:32Yeah, because we have no idea.
37:33Yeah, that's smart.
37:35A venue change would be an absolute scramble.
37:39We've got a big, you know, to-do list potentially ahead of us.
37:43And we need to just kind of dive in and figure out if we're moving forward.
37:47So, our game plan will be that we'll reach out.
37:50We'll see if there's any dates available for you guys.
37:53Okay.
37:54Thank you so much.
37:55Yeah, thank you.
37:55I mean, guys, six months.
37:57To basically restart.
38:02Leaving this meeting, I am extremely anxious to know what is to come because there's a
38:07lot of unknowns and a lot of things that could go wrong.
38:10We want our dream wedding so badly, but we're going to be lucky to even get a wedding at
38:14all at this point.
38:20I love Christmas.
38:22Ho, ho, ho.
38:23Your ass back to the sleigh, you fat-ass bitch.
38:25Wanted up?
38:26Why do you have to call Santa a fat-ass bitch?
38:28Ho, ho, ho.
38:29Yourself back to the sleigh, you fat-ass bitch.
38:32I have no idea.
38:33Tonight, I'll bring him back in with me for a little top-secret mission.
38:37Oh, those are shiny.
38:39Looks like a choker.
38:42Okay, wait, okay, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.
38:45What's the matter?
38:46We have some very important news that we need to tell everyone.
38:50Oh, my gosh, is it another surprise?
38:52What bomb's about to drop?
38:53What are we doing now?
38:55Here we go.
38:57F***.
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