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In the City Season 1 Episode 2
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00:00Casual clothes, black tie, and in a little sterile package.
00:04Bras and underwear.
00:07Black shirt, mama.
00:07It's New York.
00:08I've known Kenny at least 10 years.
00:10We had a lot of different mutual friends.
00:12I'm just gonna know Whitney, but she seems awesome.
00:14Growing up in Minnesota, I always thought, like, New York felt so intimidating,
00:18and people are actually, like, way more open and nice here.
00:21She moved around the country before the ring.
00:23You can't around with this.
00:25I'm getting I hate men by her.
00:26I'm just allergic to, like, annoying men.
00:29I would love to have a baby by 38.
00:31I'd love to deal with you.
00:32She's moving in with this man who's still married.
00:35You're blowing my mind right now.
00:36I need you to stop.
00:38I don't even know what Danielle's guys need.
00:39On.
00:41I was wondering if you might be open to, like, a lunch.
00:43Can I think about it?
00:44I'm a little busy these days.
00:46I know the therapist was like, let's meet tomorrow.
00:49We're moving backwards.
00:50I'm gonna move out.
00:52And this isn't permanent.
00:53This is, like, a month.
00:54I've never heard of a couple physically separating
00:56and using that as a tool to get back together.
00:59But maybe this is what we need.
01:08New York is a hustle, baby.
01:10All you do is hustle in the city.
01:15This is a New York moment.
01:19I've heard before from an agent of mine about the 11.
01:23The angry 11.
01:24So, scrunch your eyebrows together for me.
01:25So, those are the 11s.
01:27Do you see the number 11 in between your eyebrows?
01:29I see a lot of 11s.
01:30Kyle gets Botox.
01:32Kyle's nine years older than me.
01:33You're right.
01:43Can a guy pull off a mock neck?
01:45Probably not, right?
01:46No, you can, for sure.
01:47This is badass.
01:48Yeah, it looks really, really elevated.
01:50It's really, really nice.
01:51These are all the new sweatshirts with the embroideries.
01:53Is it still time to just have Amanda weigh in?
01:56Today?
01:58Um, I'll go next door.
02:05Is this the best way to pack shoes?
02:07I don't even know.
02:09These are good.
02:11Should we go say hi to mom?
02:14Look who I found.
02:16Hi, Miss Ryder.
02:18What you doing?
02:20Trying to pack some of this shit up.
02:24This has got to be the most organized closet in the house.
02:27I'm organized.
02:28It's just the stuff that I don't know where to put.
02:30I just don't know where to put it.
02:33I like these.
02:35Oh, but I need the black ones also.
02:38After dropping the news to Kyle and, like, making the decision to move out, I feel lighter.
02:42I feel good about this decision.
02:43I feel like this could be what we need to potentially save this relationship.
02:47Are you going to have enough stuff where you're going to need, like, a van or a truck or what?
02:52I don't have any idea.
02:53Maybe we can pack up your car.
02:55I mean, it's not going to be a crazy amount of shit.
02:58It's like a month-long vacation.
03:00Are you going to, like, surprise me?
03:02Like, you're going to keep your cane just, like, pop in?
03:04Or how does that work?
03:05Yeah.
03:06I'll just show up at 4 a.m. and wake you up like you do to me all the time.
03:11Do you not want me here?
03:12I feel like you're more excited for me to be here.
03:16That's the opposite of how I think this has felt.
03:18I think you're...
03:18I mean, we're trying to figure this out, right?
03:20Spending some time apart, but, like, courting each other and dating again.
03:25We knew something drastic needed to happen.
03:28I don't think we knew what.
03:31Therapy wasn't necessarily giving us everything we needed.
03:35Look, I think that there was a side of me that I felt like we could have kept on continuing
03:39and playing this, like, broken record.
03:42So I give you props for confronting this, like, head-on.
03:45Oh, I need these sneakers, too.
03:46Just in case I need to run away.
03:49Run away from your own problems.
03:50From you.
03:52Wow.
03:53Okay.
03:54Harsh.
04:09There's so many dudes.
04:10Yo, that's why we get the hot girls here.
04:12Is it always like this?
04:13Like, this busy?
04:14Thursday through Sunday, it's awesome.
04:16Yes, it's awesome.
04:17It's such a vibe.
04:19Oh, my God.
04:20Congratulations.
04:21I'm, like, really excited.
04:21What is the accomplishment?
04:23I wanted to be in the hospitality business before I even knew it was a business.
04:27I remember having a party in high school, and the neighbor came over the next day and alerted me that
04:32he was going to tell my parents.
04:33And then before he left, he said, but I'm not going to lie, you threw a great party.
04:37I told my assistant, yeah, I'm going to go meet up with my friend Gavin, and I was, like, telling
04:41her about you.
04:41But she asked if we ever hooked up, and I said no.
04:46Oh.
04:47I thought you were going.
04:50You thought I was going in for the real thing.
04:51I was, like, oh, s***, it's happening.
04:54Me and Gavin have known each other many, many years.
04:57I met him through Kyle.
04:59We were both in hospitality.
05:00He's the perfect amount of fun, flirty, messy.
05:04Like, I enjoy Gavin's vibe.
05:06I love the short kings.
05:09I'm making you laugh.
05:10And I love that you get messy.
05:12Like, we were giggling when we were talking to Kenny and...
05:15So much.
05:16And I was, like, yes, Gavin, yes.
05:17Tune him to Gavin.
05:18That's what they call me.
05:20I'm getting grilled over here on relationship.
05:22This is now a panel.
05:23This is a panel.
05:24This is a panel.
05:24I'm getting grilled.
05:26Wait, so, okay, Kenny.
05:27What is his deal?
05:28Because I don't really know Kenny or Whitney.
05:30Yep.
05:31He was, like, kind of treating me like I'm some sort of, like, man hater just because I was taking
05:35his girlfriend's, like, perspective.
05:37In order for you to move across the entire country without a commitment such as a ring, it's a very
05:43big deal.
05:44You can't around with this.
05:46I'm getting I Hate Men vibes.
05:47What you're saying is probably true, and he knows that, and he wants to, like, discredit you.
05:52Oh, you think I'd rather know it with him.
05:54Kenny is my best friend.
05:56He can dish it out, but he can't take it.
05:58I can't believe my stuff's going to be here this week already.
06:01I know.
06:01We really need to figure out where it's going to go, mister.
06:05I know.
06:06I think I have 30 boxes coming.
06:09I have my workout outfits.
06:11I have my seasonal stuff.
06:12I have my coats.
06:12I have boots.
06:13I have a billion things.
06:14I'm not really an outfit repeater.
06:16I might have to turn that second bedroom into more of a closet.
06:22I'm down to let you do your thing in the second bedroom, but I want it to still also be
06:26a guest room.
06:27Like, if your sister comes into town and DJ, like, Gavin has stayed in that room a million times.
06:31Yeah, we kicked Gavin out.
06:32Finally.
06:33Gavin's done.
06:34My apartment's virtual, and Gavin's always had a code.
06:36Gavin used to just show up.
06:38He would walk in, and he'd be like, hey, and I'm like, hey, and then we'd hang out.
06:42It was kind of like he lived there, even though he didn't, but that has changed.
06:48It's a lot of respect for me, too.
06:50What if I'm not walking around naked?
06:51Like, Gavin can't just, like, walk in.
06:53He came home one time, and we were, like, hooking up on the couch.
06:58And I'm like, no mask on the code.
07:00How are you feeling with your adjustment to the city?
07:03It's been really nice, but I think I am, like, missing that, like, girl time.
07:07It's just weird, like, trying to make new friends, like, at this stage in life.
07:11Yeah.
07:12You know?
07:12I did go to get a pedicure with Danielle the other day, which was nice.
07:16Oh, man, finally.
07:18Penny, like, this woman is amazing.
07:21Aw, could you have known him a while?
07:22Yeah, through Gavin.
07:23It was really nice.
07:24We're just starting to get to know each other, and I actually learned some things about her relationship that I
07:29didn't realize.
07:30I thought her and Owen had been together a really long time.
07:32Okay.
07:33And they started officially dating in, like, April, and he's been in the process of a divorce, which, you know,
07:40can linger.
07:41And she was kind of saying, like, it was amicable.
07:45But then she found out about me, and I think that it has not been as friendly.
07:51When did that relationship end?
07:53I can't remember exactly, but she did tell me that he had been kind of checked out of that relationship
07:59for a while.
08:00Sounds like overlap.
08:03What do you think about Danielle's boyfriend?
08:06Do you want to get to know him, or no?
08:09I think it's weird for me to, like, want to get to know him and then, like, not really talk
08:12to her.
08:13I'm just sort of, like, playing the avoiding game at the moment.
08:16He didn't tell me where to be at the year, so, you know.
08:20Oh, my God!
08:21Hi, the boss!
08:22Can we reach up?
08:23Can you get over there?
08:24How are you?
08:25How are you?
08:26It's been, like, three years.
08:27It's a baby.
08:28She's amazing.
08:29Thank you for asking.
08:30My next question was, whose side are you on?
08:35That's not going to work.
08:36I don't want to say, like, I had a falling out with Danielle.
08:38I just, like...
08:39We don't need to talk about...
08:41I just don't need it in my life.
08:43Yeah, yeah, yeah.
08:43I don't even want to relive those things.
08:45That's the thing.
08:46In the past.
08:47I got to get back there.
08:48Good seeing you.
08:49Wait, Robert is the chef.
08:50Did you not know this either?
08:51I was like, is this going to be a problem?
08:53I feel like there's a lot...
08:55No, no.
08:56I don't know.
08:57Yeah, there's, like, a lot of history between Danielle and I.
09:00At least once a year, she does something, and I've given her pass after pass after pass.
09:05She, like, asked me to go for a coffee, and I was like...
09:08Well, that's good.
09:08Is that, like, an olive branch?
09:10I am way more picky about who I give my energy to these days.
09:15Well, I feel special then.
09:17Yeah, you're fine.
09:18That's wild to me.
09:19You've got Danielle that is dating a guy, and the guy's still married.
09:23Lindsey, who had a baby with a guy after, like, two months.
09:27And Lindsey's interrogating me about us moving in together after hanging out for a year.
09:33And her and Gavin were, like, laughing and making a joke of what I was going through with my mom.
09:37And, like...
09:37Gavin said something?
09:38Yeah, he was making, like, f*** boy comments.
09:41The stages of grief.
09:43Anger, pain, f***ing around.
09:48Just really rubbed me the wrong way.
09:50If anybody in this scenario knows what I went through and could have my back, it would be Gavin.
09:56Last fall, we found out that my mom had stage four cancer, and it was out of the blue.
10:03I struggled to even talk about my mom still at this point.
10:06We were just very close.
10:08It was a really difficult period.
10:11Whitney and I were dating, but, like, I just felt like I wasn't in the place to be what she
10:17deserved in a relationship.
10:19And we broke up.
10:20Sometimes it's going to happen in dynamics of, like, best friends and someone getting in a relationship when another one
10:25isn't.
10:26Does he feel like you're not spending as much time with him?
10:28I don't know.
10:28And that's why he's, like, saying these comments.
10:30He's just so bad at using his words that it's, like, I would never know until something blows up.
10:37Coming up.
10:37There are times where I think a man has already given up, and now she's telling me she wants to
10:41move out of the apartment.
10:42Dude.
10:51I am now the queen of a castle if you want to move with me.
10:59You know, girlfriend.
11:03Hi.
11:05Hello.
11:06Guess who's here?
11:07Here.
11:08Your friend, Gemma.
11:09It's Ellie.
11:10Is that your friend?
11:11I literally came straight from the office.
11:12Mommy smells like Botox.
11:14I came straight from work.
11:15Hi, Ellie.
11:15But I did remember.
11:16I did remember the hand-me-downs.
11:18You got some baby Louboutins in there, actually.
11:21You gave me a baby Louboutin?
11:22Yeah, you agree with that.
11:23This is why we love Eloise's hand-me-downs.
11:25Yeah.
11:26Do you want water or anything?
11:27Wine is good.
11:28Okay.
11:30Well, one of those days, I see.
11:31Yeah.
11:33There was, like, a first aid kit for mothers.
11:35A bottle of champagne would be in there.
11:37I don't know how any parents do it sober.
11:39I put Gemma to bed, and I'm, like, wine.
11:41Yeah.
11:42Like, I smell it, and I feel better.
11:43You're dealing with things that are just so insanely stupid.
11:46The other day, my son and my daughter were painting, and I'm, like, doing the dishes,
11:50and I pop out, and I'm, like, why is it so quiet?
11:52And my son painted his penis blue, which was shocking because green is his favorite color.
11:58I know this is non-toxic, like, organic paint, but, like, probably not good for your scrotum.
12:04I look at you having two kids, and I think I might just be one and done.
12:08One and done.
12:09You did it right.
12:10Honestly, like, I don't know how I would have gotten through without you.
12:15You would have been fine.
12:15No, I wouldn't have.
12:16I don't have any, like, other friends that are in similar situations.
12:19Over summer, no one f***ing knew about anything I was dealing with that was, like, very serious, like, legal.
12:26No one at the f***ing summer house is going to understand.
12:30Like, nobody has kids.
12:31What is going on with mediation?
12:34I don't know.
12:34How is he with that stuff?
12:36Like, do you agree on anything?
12:38Like, school-wise, at least?
12:39Well, we agree on a lot.
12:41It's amazing that you're supposed to play in 18 years and, like, now.
12:45My baby daddy and I are near the end of mediation for Gemma, and it's been an up-and-down
12:52rollercoaster.
12:53You know, we are making decisions that are very impactful on Gemma's entire future.
12:59So, the sooner we can get through all of the legal stuff, then the easier it will be.
13:06And hopefully, that document is just in a drawer somewhere and doesn't have to ever be taken out.
13:12It can sit in the bottom drawer of my nightstand next to the condoms that are never used.
13:17That's the hope and dream for the agreement, not the condoms.
13:20I wanted, at one point, when I was still hoping it would work out, to put into the custody agreement
13:24that we all had to hang out with each other one time per week for at least three hours.
13:27I wanted to force family time.
13:30This lawyer, he was like, you can't force somebody to hang out with you.
13:35My relationship with my ex is in a good place right now.
13:38Obviously, it's taken a lot to get here.
13:39This is the guy who moved out on me when I was 30 weeks pregnant and had a toddler to
13:44raise.
13:44But I've made a conscious effort to put aside the hatred, focus on what's going to be best for my
13:50kids and for my own health.
13:52It's better than planning to buy a voodoo doll and stab it every night.
13:56I choose civil and friendly over voodoo doll.
14:00Although, you know, that's still in the back of my head.
14:02Did you do a poopie?
14:05No.
14:06Okay.
14:07Is it mine?
14:08Do you smell poop?
14:08No, no, no.
14:09She farts a lot.
14:23All right, all right.
14:26Always night.
14:27Always night.
14:27I know.
14:28What's up, D?
14:28How we doing, Kenny?
14:29How you doing, brother?
14:30Hey, bro.
14:31Here he is.
14:32What is going on?
14:33Is this f***ing real?
14:35We have good taste.
14:36Good taste.
14:36That's what it is.
14:37Gav, you want a shot and a beer?
14:38Come on.
14:38You know that's my drink, bro.
14:40It is.
14:40Friends that drink together stay together, all right?
14:43Boys night.
14:44Yeah.
14:44Oh, you guys just rip one?
14:45Rip the slide.
14:46Oh, my goodness.
14:47Drinks on the house tonight, right, Gavin?
14:49Yes.
14:49Exactly.
14:50My man.
14:50Has Whitney witnessed a boys night?
14:52Whitney has witnessed too many boys nights.
14:54That's the problem.
14:54I've had nights, but I've been pretty good.
14:56Clean my act up.
14:56Did she get after it?
14:58Whitney has an altered ego.
14:59Oh.
15:00Named Claire.
15:06How is that going, actually?
15:08She has a really, really, really good friend group in L.A.
15:11She's got to have a good one in New York, too.
15:12I know.
15:13It's just difficult when you are trying to introduce your girlfriend and have her welcomed by a group
15:17of girls, and there's one girl that's, like, kind of causing all this drama.
15:21Last time we were here, Lindsay was, like, hammering me.
15:24I'm like, Lindsay, we don't even know each other.
15:26You're coming in hot.
15:27And I was, I was...
15:28Were you poking the fire?
15:29I was poking.
15:29We had Kenny in, like, a nice situation.
15:31I know Kenny can handle it.
15:32I'm saying it's a big amendment to move across the country for a guy.
15:36This is now a panel.
15:37This is a panel.
15:38This is a panel.
15:39It came across very judgy, and then she was making comments about, like, all men and
15:43this and that.
15:44She just came across the wrong way.
15:45You think she was projecting or just, like, asking from a good place?
15:47It was either projecting.
15:49No, no, no.
15:49I will say I think she was just trying to be a girl's girl.
15:53You rubbed me the same way, honestly, that you rubbed me that night, where it was, like,
15:55it was a dog pile.
15:57Lindsay has her little crew, her little minions, and for some reason, you're, like, standing
16:02over there with Lindsay.
16:03I'm not happy with the way that went down.
16:05You gotta have your boy's back.
16:08Gavin is used to Kenny being in a relationship, but he's used to Kenny probably having issues
16:13or being unhappy, and, you know, Gavin's there for him, like, oh, let's go have a boy's night.
16:16I don't think Gavin's used to Kenny in a relationship happy, and I think that's what we're dealing
16:22with here.
16:23Like, Gavin thinks he's about to lose a boy.
16:26And maybe I'm being overly protective, overly sensitive.
16:28You have every right.
16:29Dude, you love this girl.
16:31Always defend your woman.
16:32Lexi's been great, by the way.
16:34She loves, she loves Lexi.
16:35Lexi's been very, like, she reaches out, she's welcoming, let's grab brunch, let's do this.
16:42How are you feeling?
16:43I mean, moving in together is a big step.
16:45Totally.
16:46I feel like it'll just take some time, but it's, like, an exciting chapter.
16:50I feel like we're in a really good place.
16:54Oh, my God, this is chaotic.
16:55I know, like, this is really crazy.
16:57I've never seen so many fire trucks.
17:00To the chaotic New York life.
17:02Literally welcomed in New York.
17:05We're doing a kind of welcome to New York party.
17:08That's nice.
17:09Obviously, we're boys, and we spend time together, and I want her to feel comfortable and welcome
17:13in this group.
17:15I mean, listen, Amanda and I have been going through a lot, and so she's probably...
17:18I've said that.
17:18She's almost been in, like, a no new friends headspace.
17:22You know, I'm team Amanda and Kyle.
17:24I mean, listen, I'm trying to be receptive and open-minded about the kind of drastic measures
17:29that we need to take to try to figure out if we're meant to be.
17:34There are times where I think Amanda's already given up, and she's just waiting for me to
17:37do something stupid so she can officially end it, and now she's telling me she wants to
17:41move out of the apartment.
17:42Dude.
17:43She keeps talking about, like, this is for a month or two.
17:47Yeah, listen, Kyle, bro.
17:49I think that speaks for itself.
17:51I am team Kyle and Amanda, but I'm also team Kyle, and I'm team Amanda, if they're not
17:56team Kyle and Amanda.
17:59You need to take the space and see how that feels, and maybe it feels great for you.
18:06That sucks, let's be honest.
18:20Whoa, that was way too much.
18:23I haven't, like, celebrated someone moving to New York in forever, it feels like.
18:27I know.
18:28My life the last year has been so ultra-serious, and I almost feel like I'm coming out of the
18:34other end.
18:35Now I can have fun.
18:36That's all I'm interested in.
18:38It's called self-love, and you deserve this.
18:40It's time to have fun.
18:42It's not always easy to get a night out on the town like I used to.
18:47Yvonne and I are hospitality girls.
18:50When I was 23, I was running the entire city, opening a club, restaurant, hotel, lounge,
18:54bar every single month.
18:56Between the two of us, you really had an all-access pass to the city.
18:59I love Yvonne so much, I just wish that she would remember that I'm a mom now.
19:04Are you going to be around around, like, 11?
19:06No.
19:07Can you come and meet me for a glass of wine?
19:09I have a baby.
19:11She's like, Yvonne, I'm a mom.
19:13Sometimes she says yes, though.
19:15But, like, that's the time she gets activated.
19:17There is a brand-new restaurant opening tonight.
19:20Oh, my God.
19:21So excited for tonight.
19:23I'm actually surprised Kenny invited me.
19:25Andrea was telling me this week, he's like, yeah, Kenny doesn't really like you.
19:29Because you pressured him to propose.
19:31I was like, what?
19:33What are you wearing tonight?
19:34I think I'm going to wear this brown cocktail dress.
19:36That's hot.
19:37I think I'm going to do this linen.
19:39I think I'm going to do the black-on-black with the T-shirt.
19:41I think you're going to love this space.
19:43It's the Campbell Building up in Grand Central.
19:45I know you don't like to go above 14th Street, but, you know.
19:48For you, I'll go anywhere in Manhattan.
19:50Maybe not Brooklyn.
19:52Maybe it's just, like, here's this party that I'm throwing for you, so you forget about the
19:56lack of closet space that you have in my apartment.
19:59So when's my party?
20:01You're not getting a party.
20:02Do you think we'll ever get to the stage where I don't just have, like, one little closet
20:06and then your stuff isn't, like, in the living room?
20:08I don't want this out here either, but I have a lot of jackets.
20:12I mean, closet space in New York is hard to come by.
20:15You've been here for about two months, right?
20:16I know.
20:17I feel like I can graduate on to a little bit more space.
20:20I think I've been pretty generous.
20:22Yes.
20:23Anyway, how are you feeling about tonight?
20:25Because you haven't seen Lindsay since you got turned down by her for your date.
20:30Yeah, turned down is the right word.
20:31Just, like, I guess I'm nervous, I'm anxious.
20:34There's tons of history there, so, like, you know.
20:36Yeah.
20:37It makes it a little heavier, but I'll figure it out.
20:52I've never been here.
20:54Hi.
20:55Can I get you started with a drink?
20:57I think I'm going to start with an espresso martini.
20:59I think we're around here.
21:00That's what I was going to go with as well.
21:02Okay.
21:02Done.
21:02Perfect.
21:05Oh, they're here.
21:06Hi.
21:07Hey.
21:07How are we doing?
21:08Good, how are you?
21:09I'm good.
21:10You look beautiful, man.
21:11Good to see you.
21:12Hi.
21:13Hi, how are you?
21:13Good, how are you?
21:15Good to see you.
21:15How are you?
21:17Are you guys, you look sharp?
21:20Hi, everyone.
21:23Hi, thank you for having us.
21:25Hi.
21:26Welcome to New York.
21:28Good to see you.
21:29How are we doing?
21:29Good to see you.
21:30Where's Kyle?
21:31He had to drop something off for work, and so I just came up with Katie.
21:35Hi, Kevin.
21:36It's so good to see you.
21:38Too long.
21:38It's been too long.
21:40Too long.
21:40Welcome to New York.
21:41You look beautiful.
21:42How was your anniversary?
21:43We had, like, a really nice time at dinner and breakfast and salad.
21:46Okay, good.
21:47But, um, I told Kyle that I'm moving out.
21:55Oh, my God, you did.
21:56But then I explained to him, I'm going to find somewhere, like, temporary.
22:00Like, we're not separating.
22:01We're not calling off the relationship.
22:03Like, we're still going to see each other dating.
22:05Like, we're going to have to make efforts with each other.
22:07I was so nervous to say something to him, but he took it so well.
22:11He did?
22:12Yeah.
22:13Like, something just has to change.
22:15He's like, I don't think it's, like, the worst idea.
22:17Like, it's...
22:22Um, but, yeah.
22:26Hey!
22:29Flirting versus charming.
22:31Charming.
22:32Where am I at?
22:33Wait.
22:34Returning.
22:36Don't f***ing kiss my girl.
22:38That was a little s***.
22:41Nice to meet you.
22:42How are you?
22:43Hi.
22:43How are you?
22:44Good to meet you.
22:45Nice to meet you.
22:45I got ready at the office today.
22:47I used a laser hair removal to shave my legs.
22:50I was like, you know what?
22:51I don't have time to go home, so this is what it is.
22:53Yo, how we doing?
22:54How you doing?
22:55How you doing, guys?
22:56What up?
22:56I wanted to say hello to the ladies.
22:58Who is that?
23:00What perfect timing?
23:01You know, suave with the hair.
23:03This is my little surprise for Lindsay.
23:05What did he just say?
23:07No!
23:08Frank!
23:10Come meet the ladies.
23:11This is Lindsay.
23:12Hi, Lindsay.
23:13Hi, Lindsay.
23:13Frank Costa.
23:14Nice to meet you.
23:14Nice to meet you.
23:15You guys were at my wedding.
23:17Oh, that's right.
23:18Oh.
23:19If I think two people are amazing and they're single, I try to get them together.
23:23And Frank remembered Lindsay.
23:25He remembered exactly the dress she was wearing that night.
23:28I thought she was wearing red.
23:30I thought she was wearing green.
23:31And Frank knew, and I did it.
23:32And he's a great looking guy, and Lindsay's great looking, so I think it's a good match.
23:37I can see some steam.
23:39Yeah.
23:40Coming in.
23:41Where are you from originally?
23:42Michigan.
23:43Moved to New York, started a milk and dairy company.
23:47Milk and dairy.
23:48Frank is so f***ing hot.
23:50But I don't like to party party.
23:52Do you?
23:52Those days are long gone.
23:54I have a 10-month-old baby.
23:56She's, like, the most perfect baby on earth.
23:58It's been a while since I've gotten, like, flustered like this.
24:03I'm going to run to the restroom real quick.
24:05I'll be right back.
24:06I'm, like, sweating a little.
24:07I think Andrea brought this guy to introduce me to, and I'm drinking an espresso martini and eating cheese and
24:14meats.
24:15And I'm, like, I need to go to the bathroom and, like, spray something in my mouth.
24:19Can I see?
24:22Oh, yeah, you're good.
24:24Hi!
24:28Hello!
24:29How are we doing, love?
24:31How are you?
24:32This is a lot.
24:33How are you?
24:34Good to see you.
24:35Good to see you, homie.
24:36How are you?
24:36Good.
24:36Good, good.
24:37Thanks for having us.
24:38Absolutely.
24:39All right?
24:39I want to get a cocktail.
24:41What are you drinking?
24:42Hi, Lindsay.
24:43Prosecco.
24:43Prosecco.
24:44Oh, hi.
24:46How are you?
24:47Good, how are you?
24:49Okay, so, can you order a drink?
24:52Yeah, now I need one.
24:53Now you need one.
24:54Yeah, I get it.
24:54What is going on right now?
24:56Yeah, tell me what's going on.
24:57Danielle just showed up and gave me a kiss on the cheek to say hi.
25:04Like, what?
25:05She stiffed me for wanting to go out for coffee and a chat, and now she can't even, like, say
25:10two sentences to me.
25:11It just feels like I'm a stranger to her now.
25:14It just sucks.
25:15What is happening around here?
25:16Next time.
25:17There is so much for me.
25:19She's so s***.
25:21She looked at me, and she was just, like, cold and nice.
25:23It makes me so sad.
25:33This is Jackson's best friend.
25:35Is it your dog?
25:36Yeah.
25:36Okay.
25:36Oh, we're homies, bro.
25:38Eddie's got the f***ing best hair in New York.
25:39Did we give you a mullet?
25:40He's on his symptoms.
25:41Well, you said back the mullet, right?
25:43Yeah, I did.
25:44That was an era.
25:45Kyle just keeps walking right past me.
25:47Does he even know that I'm here?
25:49Kyle used to be a little more fun with a mullet.
25:51Now he's, like, you know, growing up being...
25:53Don't tell me, Nick.
25:54There's a man.
25:54I've got to say hi.
25:57This place is busy.
25:58I know.
25:59Why did you say hi to me?
26:00I guess I walked by you.
26:02I heard your voice right behind me.
26:04I said, oh, Kyle's here.
26:06I walked in.
26:07I could feel the vibrations in my chest of you talking.
26:09I said, Mike, I think Kyle's here.
26:11You know, Amanda, she's moving out, but we're not separated.
26:14We're just creating separation.
26:16But it's confusing.
26:17This is foreign territory.
26:18I don't know how I'm supposed to act.
26:22Did you feed the dogs?
26:23Yeah.
26:23Did you take them out?
26:25No.
26:26It's still hard to believe this is happening.
26:31Hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey.
26:33I wanted to give a toast to Whitney.
26:36Whitney, we're all here as, you know, her welcome to New York.
26:39She is the best person that I know and the best person in my life.
26:42And I'm so excited to be dragging her across the country to New York.
26:48On the subway.
26:48We took the subway today for the first time.
26:52She's an amazing woman.
26:53Go, Whitney.
26:55Go, Whitney.
26:56Go, Whitney.
26:57Love you.
27:03Katie, I like that green on you.
27:05Thank you, honey.
27:05Green's my favorite color.
27:07Oh, thank you.
27:08It's my son's favorite color.
27:09Is that right?
27:10He's obsessed with it, though.
27:11It's really weird.
27:11Green shoes, green socks, green underwear, green shorts, green shirt, green jacket, green hat.
27:16That's adorable.
27:17I love that.
27:18It's a lot of laundry.
27:19You want a drink?
27:20Yeah.
27:22Did you and Lindsay get the lace memo?
27:24No.
27:25This is a line.
27:26Not a line.
27:27We don't talk, so how would we?
27:29Can I steal you for a minute?
27:30Yeah, 100%.
27:31Fill me in on the tidbits, because I've got a bone to pick as well.
27:35I was joking, because in an alternative universe, you and Lindsay would have coordinated a little lace.
27:40I miss you.
27:41I didn't mean to, like, be insensitive.
27:43Owen!
27:44How are you?
27:45Good to see you.
27:47I'm trying to broker a common ground.
27:51We're too close-knit for there to be awkwardness.
27:54Clearly not.
27:55Just confront her now and squash it.
27:57You own it.
27:58She owns it.
27:58She literally texted me that summer, and she said, you said something punchy.
28:02The beach was harsh.
28:04I mean, we don't even live together, let alone...
28:06You don't live together?
28:07No.
28:08You don't live with this man?
28:09No.
28:09And he has put a baby inside you?
28:11Yeah.
28:11And now she has all sorts of opinions about how you've carried yourself.
28:17Like, Lindsay, I don't want to say the word slut, but she has opinions on your behavior.
28:25Before Pearl and I got engaged, she gave him a handjob in the back of an Uber a week after
28:30we broke up.
28:31The word boy crazy has come up.
28:35Are you kidding me?
28:37What's that?
28:37Are you out of your mind bringing this to me?
28:40Don't freaking shoot the messenger.
28:42F*** that.
28:44Now, all of a sudden, that I'm in a serious relationship, you have this laundry list of issues with me
28:50about guys that I've dated?
28:53I mean, to call me boy crazy, like, I wouldn't be pointing in this direction.
28:59Like, girl.
29:01What did you think was going to come from that, Kyle?
29:03There's no chance I'm going to go over and be like, hey, can we have a conversation?
29:05I'm so sorry about everything.
29:07No thanks.
29:09How's my skin?
29:11Excellent.
29:11You're tan, which means you're out in the sun without sunscreen, but I'll let it pass.
29:15Yeah, it looks great for 45.
29:16So you're good.
29:17Really?
29:18It's 99% genetic, honestly.
29:20My job is the 1%.
29:21Okay.
29:22Okay.
29:22Can we talk?
29:23Can we talk?
29:25Yeah.
29:25First of all, lovely party, lovely speech.
29:29Thank you for coming.
29:30Well, thank you for inviting me.
29:33I did hear, like, you felt grilled by me at the Garrett, right?
29:38That's correct.
29:39Felt like you weren't grilling me, interrogating me.
29:43Was it just me?
29:45You were recruiting people.
29:46I did recruit people.
29:47You were, like, literally, like, come over here.
29:49I was just asking you questions, because that's how you get to know somebody.
29:52This is who I am.
29:53Like, I just, and I question everyone in my life.
29:55I'm a very curious person, and I want to get to know everyone's interpersonal relationship.
30:00I wish it felt genuine like that.
30:04Do you think that that line of questioning was normal, and that everyone's pulling in and
30:09It's normal in my life with all of my friends.
30:11Was normal, isn't it?
30:12Well, I love that for you and your friends, because it seems like you have a lot of disagreements
30:15with a lot of people.
30:16It's just, like, drama, drama, drama, and it feels like it's just, you're creating these
30:20narratives that just are, like, unnecessary.
30:21No, I call out facts, and I'm sorry that you don't like to hear the truth.
30:25You're grilling me about moving a girl across the country after knowing her for a year.
30:29You had a kid with a guy after f***ing two months.
30:32Right, so what's the problem about that?
30:34The problem is don't project your insecurities on my relationship.
30:37I'm not.
30:37It feels like you are.
30:48You're grilling me about moving a girl across the country after knowing her for a year.
30:52You had a kid with a guy after f***ing two months.
30:55Right, so what's the problem about that?
30:57The problem is don't project your insecurities on my relationship.
31:00I'm not.
31:00It feels like you are.
31:01You're telling me that you and your personal life and the fact that you had this relationship
31:07with this guy and you have a child has nothing to do with the fact that you were grilling
31:12me on my commitment level.
31:14It sounds like you're judging me.
31:15No, I just don't need to be pressing on my commitment level.
31:17Ken, he acts like he knows who I am and he doesn't know s***, but I know narcissistic
31:23men and that's what he's giving right now.
31:27So, Whitney, good luck.
31:29You just asked me about bringing someone across the country without a ring.
31:32I'm like...
31:32No, I didn't.
31:33What I said was, and maybe you're not f***ing remembering, is wow, she moved across the
31:38country for you without you putting a ring on her finger?
31:40That shows commitment.
31:43That's a normal occur.
31:43No, it's not.
31:44I have multiple girlfriends that would never do that without a ring on their f***ing finger.
31:48That's a you thing.
31:50Oh, they're still going.
31:51I don't really want to step in because...
31:52I know.
31:53I feel like you were like, it's other people's problems online.
31:56I obviously want to stand up for my relationship and that's why I stepped into that conversation
32:00at the garraway over there.
32:01But I don't think she's questioning your relationship.
32:03I think she wants the best for you and I think she's trying to protect you.
32:08Why is she trying to protect me, like, when we know what we're doing and that's, like,
32:13our...
32:13Lindsay, she's just like Mama Bear.
32:15Yeah.
32:16Just her personality.
32:17I just think you have drama that follows you around everywhere you go.
32:21Like, I don't have time for drama.
32:23I don't care for that.
32:24You're in the middle of a fight with me in the middle of Whitney's Welcome to New York party.
32:28Is that dramatic?
32:32You're the one fighting with me.
32:34Okay.
32:37Thank you for inviting me.
32:38I'm glad you came.
32:52Two bedroom, that was my, uh...
32:54This is nice.
32:54...highly requested.
32:56Primary's this one.
32:57Okay, perfect.
32:58That's where you're going to be spending all your time.
33:01Potentially.
33:02You got a great soaking bath.
33:03Oh, wow.
33:05Oh, my God.
33:05No, it's a pool.
33:07Wait, this is a hot tub.
33:08I'm bringing Gemma to bathe in your cup.
33:11Oh, Gemma wants bath time.
33:13She's going to splash around.
33:14I'm trying to find somewhere that's, like, furnished, month-to-month, outdoor space, pet-friendly,
33:20with a doorman.
33:21And it has sunlight.
33:23Good-sized primary.
33:25Yeah, and good lighting.
33:26My bedroom right now faces, like, a brick wall, so it is a dungeon.
33:32I want to wake up with the sun beating on my face, where I leave my house in the morning
33:36and I have sunburn.
33:38All right, and then there's the second bedroom.
33:40Oh, my God.
33:41Also gets really great light.
33:42You get a little bit of a water view here, too.
33:44Beautiful.
33:44Yeah, this gets really nice, like...
33:46More closets?
33:47More closets.
33:48This would be my closet.
33:49Like, a cloth-office, you know, closet-office situation.
33:53I've never lived by myself before.
33:54The last apartment I looked for before moving in with Kyle, our budget was, like, next to
33:58nothing.
33:59We were looking for, like, a two-closet apartment, you know?
34:02Not even a two-bedroom.
34:03Just, like, give us two closets.
34:05Oh, look at all the wine.
34:06Is the wine available for grabs?
34:09That's the selling point for me.
34:11I'll let you guys chat.
34:12Okay, thank you so much.
34:14All right, have a good one.
34:15Thank you so much.
34:17I mean, it's a cool view.
34:18It's really nice.
34:20Have you talked to your parents at all about any of these?
34:23Not yet.
34:24Oh.
34:26I don't want to make them worried.
34:28I get it, yeah.
34:29Especially at this point right now.
34:31And, like, we're really on that brink of, like, will they, won't they?
34:34I hate change so much.
34:37When I was younger, I handcuffed myself to our cast-iron railings in our house because
34:43my parents wanted to get beautiful, new, solid wooden ones.
34:47And I did not want them to change them.
34:49But at this point, whatever I'm doing has not been enough, and I need to make a bigger
34:55change.
34:55That's scary.
34:56I just want to be happy.
34:57I just want to be with someone that, like, adores me.
35:00He needs to just, like, understand that you're going to f***ing lose her if you don't get
35:03it together.
35:07All right, Ryder.
35:08I heard you ate bread out of this trash bag.
35:11I know.
35:12You're like, if it's this low, it's fair game.
35:14Not anymore.
35:17All right.
35:20Hey.
35:21Kyle Cook.
35:22I love when you use my first and last name.
35:26Well, fancy hearing from you in the middle of a work day.
35:29I know.
35:30I know.
35:30How are you?
35:31How is surgery?
35:32How's recovery?
35:33You know, I'm doing well.
35:35And Dad got precancerous melanoma, and he's having that dugout tomorrow.
35:39What the f***?
35:40We're looking to 2026 to be a big comeback year.
35:45All right.
35:46Same.
35:47Same for you?
35:48Oh, yeah.
35:49Yeah.
35:49This was a rough one.
35:51I've been open to you guys about the business front and, you know, some of the challenges
35:55a man and I have had.
35:56We had a pretty rough summer.
35:58I told you bits and pieces of that.
36:01Yeah.
36:02And kind of been in this place before where, even if we have a good summer, it quickly
36:07slips into us living kind of two different lives.
36:11Like, we don't do anything together.
36:13I mean, like, I'm like, pickleball, kickball, traveling.
36:16Like, oh, tell me what you want to do.
36:19She wants to go shopping.
36:20You know?
36:21You're going to marry me.
36:23That's just weird, Moth.
36:26A man and I were like, all right, what are we going to do differently?
36:29And I, and her idea was some separation.
36:34Well, not like we are separated, but like, I think she needs a fresh, clean start.
36:38And I need to feel like, you know, I can walk into my home and not feel like it's as
36:43cluttered
36:44and stressful as the rest of my life.
36:46She was in the mindset, like, all right, maybe we need, like, a month apart.
36:50Oh, gee.
36:51She was trying to find an apartment.
36:54Ooh, this is big.
36:58Well, we know you've been unhappy, you guys, for quite a while.
37:06And, uh, you know, I know you also have love for each other, so it's, you know, I feel so
37:11sad.
37:16I just feel guilty because in, in, in the heat of the moment, she'll yell at me and tell me
37:21I've wasted 10 years of her life.
37:24And, like, I don't really, it feels like I've tried to make it work.
37:32That's, yeah, that's not a good thing to hear.
37:37You know, but think of Dad.
37:39He was in a 10-year marriage.
37:41He knows what feeling stuck feels like.
37:46He had two kids, so it was really hard to leave.
37:49But he did.
37:50And it gave me a chance to, you know, find him.
38:02And this isn't, like, the end, but it, it does feel like a huge, drastic move.
38:09I know.
38:10Like, I'm, it's just, it's been a tough year.
38:17I feel sad for you both.
38:21I want to be with you.
38:24You have the keys to my heart.
38:27It's about time you get the keys to my apartment.
38:31You're coming out and supporting Loverboy means the world to us.
38:35Will you marry me?
38:37Yes.
38:38So Kyle thinks he may or may not have COVID.
38:41No.
38:43We can't catch a break with this f***ing wedding.
38:47We can make it through this.
38:48I feel like we can make it through anything.
38:50You never gave up on us, on our love, and I promise to do the same.
38:55I can't wait to spend a lifetime loving you.
39:02There was a period of time we were building a life together, building a business together.
39:07Yeah, I just never thought I'd be sitting here alone.
39:13I just feel like a failure.
39:16You know, I, I think you can't, you can't look at yourself as a failure.
39:22The key thing is, sweetie, we want you happy.
39:31Next time on In the City.
39:33Look at us.
39:34This makes me so happy right now.
39:36Guys gotta eventually just like chill out, all right?
39:38Wes has been fighting for this his whole life.
39:41So you're a master in the streets, but how are you in the sheets?
39:44Yeah.
39:46That was a joke, by the way.
39:47So I finally found a place.
39:49It is a year-long lease.
39:52Kenny told me, sometimes I worry if you don't have that spark.
39:55You've moved your whole life here for him.
39:57And like, I will move it right back out.
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