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In the City Season 1 Episode 1
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00:003. Back then, I didn't think this would be what my life would look like all these years later.
00:08I might actually lose Amanda and everything that matters to me.
00:12This is a glimpse into what my future could look like, and it's lonely.
00:16Is this what I want? Like, I don't, I don't know.
00:38I can't imagine my life without Kyle in it, but no matter how badly I want to fix this relationship,
00:45I'm just not sure that I can.
00:48Something has to change, and I'm hoping that by me taking some time to myself and not going home with
00:54him, he'll realize, like, how serious I am about this.
01:00I want it in before they're gone.
01:12Bombshell news. Summer House says Kyle and Amanda have broken up.
01:16Who do you think will be the first of the two of you to start dating?
01:19Me?
01:21What was your reaction to the West and Amanda rumors?
01:24No, I don't think there's any merit to it.
01:25What was your reaction to the rumors of you and Amanda?
01:28That's a friend.
01:29Okay, that's a friend.
01:31This news rocked the Bravo sphere.
01:33These rumors are true.
01:34It's confirmed. Amanda and West are together.
01:50Hey.
01:51Hi.
01:51Still got that key of yours, huh?
01:53Yeah.
01:54Well, Miss Ryder.
01:55Hi.
01:56How are you?
01:58How's Reese?
01:59They're chilling.
02:00You eating?
02:01You're looking skinny.
02:03I mean, what do you think?
02:04I'm worried about you.
02:05I'm worried about me, too.
02:09Can you sit on your couch?
02:11Yeah.
02:12My back's been bugging me.
02:13I'm going to sit over there.
02:14You're 43.
02:15No, I pulled it.
02:16I joined a new gym.
02:17So this week we had to do deadlifts.
02:20Oh.
02:21But I know we've been able to, like, somewhat keep in touch throughout all this.
02:25Yeah.
02:25And, like, I want to be there for you.
02:27But I also want to take an opportunity to, like, clear things up.
02:31Because I look back at the summer and you looked like you were done with me.
02:34And that's what's so frustrating is, like, I gave our relationship everything I had because
02:40I wanted the relationship to work so badly.
02:43And, like, the idea of, like, not existing with you in my life was so impossible for me to wrap
02:49my head around.
02:49And it's what made it so hard to, like, call it quits.
02:54Which is why it got so f***ing messy.
02:56Because I was so afraid that once we ended things, like, we would just be out of each other's lives
03:00forever.
03:01And, like, I couldn't handle that.
03:03But I'm going to be honest.
03:05Sometimes I can pinpoint these instances during the summer and fall where I'm like, damn, she wasn't just one foot
03:10out.
03:10She was fully out the door.
03:11Like, that's how it looked.
03:12I was done to an extent.
03:15I was tired.
03:16I had nothing left in me to fight.
03:19But I was still trying to give it everything I had.
03:23Can you honestly say, though, that, like, right through Thanksgiving, for that matter, even if it was an emotional affair
03:30with West?
03:30Nothing was happening.
03:31But I hear things.
03:32I was so committed to you throughout the whole f***ing thing.
03:35And all I wanted was for it to make it work and for you to even question my, like, faithfulness
03:40in any capacity just, like, really f***ing hurts.
03:43Because that's not the type of person that I am.
03:46Like, I would step out on you or cheat.
03:48Like, I've been cheated on by you.
03:49I had a one-night stand.
03:51Kyle, you made out with someone when you were married.
03:53Says who?
03:54There's a video.
03:56Okay.
03:56My point is, I would never do that to someone else.
04:00I know you're not a bad person.
04:01I think you were reckless and thoughtless, if I'm being honest.
04:05But in all of this, I'm still trying to be a good friend to you.
04:08And I appreciate that.
04:10I mean, I worry about you.
04:11I worry about your mental health.
04:12I worry about your...
04:13Yeah.
04:13I mean, it's not your responsibility, but I appreciate that.
04:18Just know that, like, everything that happens here forward is because I care about you.
04:24It's not because I'm like, oh, maybe we rekindle things.
04:27It's because I care.
04:28I know.
04:32And I care about you in the same f***ing way.
04:35We love each other because there's a version of each of us that we both fell in love with
04:41for a f***ing reason.
04:45It just makes me so f***ing upset.
04:55Like, someone else gets, like, the version that I fell in love with.
04:57Like, someone else gets, like, the version that I fell in love with.
05:28Oh, my God.
05:30Hi, baby.
05:32Hi, Angel.
05:33Hi, Angel.
05:35Since becoming a mom, my life has been chaos.
05:40I know, baby.
05:44There is no question that this is my daughter.
05:47Are you stress eating?
05:51When, like, I give a death stare to someone, like, Gemma gives a death stare.
05:55Like, I cloned myself and then gave birth.
05:58We got to change you, girl.
06:00My friends and I are all entering a new chapter of adulthood and dealing with the big questions.
06:05But what I'm worried about is if I'm ever going to have sex again.
06:09I haven't had sex in nine months, okay?
06:11I used to shoot, like, rainbows and butterflies out of my vagina.
06:16Can you f*** me?
06:17Oh, oh.
06:23Oh, my God.
06:25You can call me Nurse Hard Palpitations.
06:27This is so odd.
06:28I probably would have had sex when I got the all-clear from my doctor six weeks after giving birth.
06:34You're, like, wrestling an alligator, girl.
06:36But then I got broken up with.
06:39And so it's been a while.
06:41A long while.
06:43We did it.
06:44I love being a mom.
06:46But I would not have been able to get through this last year without my support system.
06:52Uh-oh.
07:00I have my nanny, Liz, and I have my girlfriends.
07:05Hi.
07:06Hi.
07:07Is this brunch?
07:07I thought we were going to, like, some kind of fun.
07:10I mean, this is fun, but...
07:13Yvonne and I have been best friends for 13 years.
07:17The minute me and my ex broke up, I went to Yvonne's house, and she was, like, milking my tits
07:23into a bowl while drinking tequila.
07:26She forgot her portable breast pump at home.
07:29And I'm, like, sitting there milking her boob.
07:31And I, like, called Nick.
07:32I was, like, babe, don't come home right now.
07:34It's not a good time.
07:35Me and Nick, we went out to dinner.
07:37The wine was flowing.
07:39One of the best parts about being a parent is that you have to be a parent even when you're
07:42home over.
07:43Georgina is one of my mom friends.
07:46When I got pregnant, Georgina was the first person I called.
07:49Didn't call my happily married friends.
07:51I'm going to call a girl who had a f***ed up life.
07:54My life is a disaster.
07:56When I was 32 weeks pregnant with a toddler, a dog, and a broken ankle in New York City in
08:01the cold, my ex left, and I went a little crazy.
08:05Let's be honest.
08:06Oh, cuckoo.
08:08I'm surprised I'm not on Snapped.
08:10The world would end if men had to break babies.
08:12The world would actually end.
08:13It's important for me to show Gemma what a strong female role model looks like and to pave your own
08:19way and not rely on men.
08:22Because clearly we can't.
08:32Where were the baby needs?
08:34Where are the baby needs?
08:34I don't know.
08:35Oh, maybe down here.
08:36Are you grocery shopping with us?
08:39She loves the groceries.
08:40Does she?
08:40There's so many colors.
08:42Does Gemma ever eat this stuff?
08:44Oh, I haven't tried any of these.
08:46My dog loves them.
08:49Beef in a bag?
08:50Yeah, blended beef.
08:51Maybe she's getting a snack?
08:53Yeah, she gets snack.
08:54I don't know about all that.
08:56What are you hungry for?
08:58Yeah, that's my cute girl.
08:59Yeah.
09:00I haven't seen you in a couple weeks since we left the house.
09:03Yeah, you seemed like a little off.
09:06That weekend was a little nuts.
09:07Yeah, it was kind of crazy.
09:09I, like, didn't know what to say.
09:12Um, but I ended up staying in a hotel.
09:18Like, two nights.
09:19What?
09:21Yeah.
09:22Dude.
09:23Yeah, I didn't want to fall into the routine of going back to the apartment, diving into the same old
09:30business.
09:31Nothing ever gets discussed.
09:32Now that I'm back home, obviously we're going to couples counseling right now.
09:36But she made a comment to us in therapy where she was like, you guys hate each other.
09:42She said that?
09:43Yeah.
09:44I want some fruit.
09:46After therapy, we just, like, talked in the park.
09:49And he, like, made a comment to me, like, maybe I should get my own place.
09:55I feel stupid for wanting someone to change who has showed no hope and still doesn't understand what my issues
10:01are with that.
10:02I can't be around, in our home, around you.
10:06If it continues, how it's going.
10:07Your solution is that I should move out.
10:11What did you say when he was like, you should get another apartment?
10:14Sierra had mentioned, what if we spent some time apart?
10:17Would it be a crazy idea if you guys physically just separated for a month?
10:22Have you talked to her about being some time away from each other?
10:26Yeah.
10:28I know.
10:29Jemma has a lot to say about this.
10:31She really does.
10:32You guys haven't been partners for a very long time.
10:34Yeah.
10:34I don't know if you've ever been partners.
10:36But he has strong resentment that has built over so many years.
10:39And you guys are just now tackling that in couples therapy.
10:42But it might be too late.
10:48Coming up, in order for you to move across the entire country without a commitment such as a ring is
10:54a very big deal.
10:55I'm getting I hate men by us.
11:11It's like the perfect day for this.
11:13I'm going to like remember the first time we came here.
11:16I mean, it must have been like first our dating, right?
11:19Yeah, in the beginning.
11:20Call me romantic.
11:21You know, I love love.
11:23Wow.
11:23Oh, my God.
11:25My love.
11:27I'm just shocked how cute this outfit is.
11:30Oh, my God.
11:30Yeah.
11:31You know when it's the right one.
11:33It clearly likes you.
11:34She's a princess.
11:35She is the real deal.
11:36Out of a fairy tale.
11:39I always dreamed of like having my own Prince Charming.
11:46Like I could be with Andrea every second of the day.
11:49And I would never get tired of him.
11:51I think we're like one person sometimes.
11:56Like when we come do this stuff, it's a reminder of like why I love this city.
12:02Yeah.
12:03And I always forget how beautiful it is.
12:06Before I met Andrea, I always told my mom that I wanted to get married in Disney World at the
12:10castle.
12:11And it's just funny because I ended up getting married in a castle with a real one in Italy.
12:17It was so magical.
12:18We had so many of our friends coming to see us.
12:21We had Lindsay.
12:22We had Kyle.
12:23Kyle was there by himself.
12:25Baby Gemma was there.
12:25Yeah, baby Gemma was there.
12:27Baby Gemma was there.
12:27We found out after.
12:28But, you know, there was a rumor.
12:30Danielle got the bouquet.
12:31So, you never know.
12:32She may be next.
12:35Giving him looks and I'm giving him hell.
12:36He goes with me because I don't kiss and tell.
12:38Waving goodbye and I'm wishing him well.
12:40I'm knocking on my and I'm ringing the...
12:42You're not holding the right grip.
12:44Go, go.
12:45Over your shoulder.
12:46Over your shoulder.
12:47Over your shoulder.
12:50Oh.
12:52Home run.
12:53I quit.
12:54You look good though.
12:56I am not a tennis player.
12:57You're doing this.
12:58You think your hands are up like that.
12:59It needs to be down.
13:00It's an expensive sport.
13:01So, to get a coach this good...
13:03Like, wrap it around your shoulder.
13:04Don't just stop here.
13:05Okay.
13:06For free.
13:07For free.
13:11Owen is an amazing tennis player.
13:13And also my boyfriend.
13:14They love me.
13:15We met nine years ago.
13:17And then life happened.
13:18We went our separate ways.
13:20Had other relationships.
13:21We moved in different ways.
13:23And then rekindled.
13:24You could say you slid back into my DMs.
13:26I slid back in your DMs.
13:27I'm like sweating in places that one shouldn't sweat.
13:30I'm getting into the tennis.
13:31You have to get into my stuff too.
13:33I'll try and get more baseball games with you.
13:35It'd be nice to do a lot more things with you.
13:37Before we, you know, try to have babies.
13:42I'm turning 37 in December.
13:45I would love to have a baby by 38.
13:46I'd love to do it with you.
13:47And I want to do it with you.
13:48I definitely want to be engaged as well before...
13:53Owen and I have been together for six months.
13:55And living together for one.
13:58Look at the basil.
13:59We're going in there too.
14:00No?
14:00I don't know.
14:01You like it just with the basil?
14:02Don't go rogue, okay?
14:03I'm saying basil now.
14:04It's fast, but I feel like, you know...
14:07It doesn't feel fast, though.
14:08Once you feel like it's it,
14:09it's like you just fly headfirst in that direction.
14:11And biologically, I probably should rush.
14:14You know, I'm so excited about you,
14:16but with Lindsay, you know, it sucks
14:17because, like, she doesn't even know.
14:19She doesn't even know about you.
14:20And, like, that's so weird.
14:22Like, I would love to be able to share that with her.
14:25The last time I spoke to her was maybe four months ago.
14:28That's weird for us
14:30because we go back so, so many years.
14:32Listen, you're crushing it at work.
14:35You're f***ing sexy as f***.
14:37You're right.
14:37You're right.
14:38Your AMH level came back at 3.8.
14:40Oh, my God!
14:42I mean, I took glass to the chest for her.
14:44You're not f***ing Lindsay.
14:46You're using a lot of f***ing s***er.
14:49Like, I was just like, what did I do?
14:51I mean, I met her baby, Gemma,
14:54like, right at the beginning,
14:55and then I feel like she just kind of
14:56ghosted on our friendship.
14:58It just sucks that we have, like,
14:59such big things going on in, like, our world.
15:02And I hate that it's awkward now.
15:25Hey, what up, man?
15:27Good?
15:28Yeah.
15:28Figured it's still nice out.
15:29We'd take the...
15:30Take the outside?
15:31Yep.
15:32You got the...
15:33Black shirt, man.
15:35You got the black on black?
15:36It's New York.
15:37Kenny and I met in a very stereotypical New York way.
15:41Like, we had a lot of different mutual friends,
15:43power to guests.
15:44It's been at least 10 years.
15:45Kenny is smart.
15:46He's driven.
15:47He's connected.
15:48He is the epitome of work hard, play hard guy.
15:51I think we relate.
15:52We're both building businesses.
15:53We both also like to go out and have a drink
15:56and enjoy the city.
15:59Wait, what are you smirking about?
16:01He's a bit of a lush.
16:02But he's outspoken, and he's fun.
16:04It's hard to, like, tame that.
16:07You know what I mean?
16:07It's just part of his personality.
16:08So, what's going on with Loverboy?
16:10The last real financial update that I got
16:12was October of last year.
16:14Yeah, I've been dragging my feet.
16:16There's been so many moving parts, changes.
16:19I had to lay out five people last week.
16:20I put 500K of my own money in.
16:23I literally needed to keep the lights on.
16:25For a lot of years, Kenny worked on Wall Street.
16:28Did really, really well for himself.
16:29Growing up in the Midwest,
16:30I could have never imagined the life that I'm living now.
16:34I was never supposed to be the black guy from Michigan
16:36working at the investment bank.
16:38But eventually, 15 years later,
16:40you start to believe that you do belong.
16:42Six years ago, I ended up leaving Wall Street
16:45to start venture capital investing.
16:47I invested in Loverboy on the very first raise.
16:50There was a point where I'm like,
16:51just sell the company, like, punt it.
16:52Trust me, if I could have sold the business
16:54two years ago, I would have.
16:55I took money from friends and family.
16:58Like, at one point, I was going to give everyone
16:59a 25x return on their money.
17:0225 times their money.
17:04Now I'm basically on the financial brink of disaster.
17:08Oh, by the way, like, I stopped paying myself
17:10a salary at Loverboy.
17:11I don't think I realized you weren't taking
17:12a salary anymore.
17:13That's one of the reasons why I started DJing,
17:15to pay the bills.
17:16If I don't find a partner,
17:17either to buy Loverboy or take on our operations,
17:20we will go out of business by the end of this year.
17:23I get it.
17:24You're axed against the wall,
17:25and you've gone all in on this.
17:26But, you know, talk to me.
17:28Let's talk through the debt.
17:29Let's talk through, you know, the downsizing.
17:30Look, I appreciate your patience.
17:33It's good advice.
17:35My communication skills across the board
17:38can improve professionally, personally.
17:40It's been kind of a rough summer
17:42between my business and my marriage.
17:43It's a bit of a perfect storm.
17:45What's the latest with Amanda?
17:46When we came home from the Hamptons,
17:47Amanda spent a couple nights in the hotel.
17:50No matter what kind of stuff we've been through,
17:53we always go home together.
17:54I went home solo.
17:55And our four-year wedding anniversary
17:57is literally next week.
17:58I feel like we're living very different lives.
18:01Yeah.
18:01And we want very different things.
18:03I love Amanda.
18:04I think she's a great person.
18:05But I don't think she's ever really been able
18:07to meet you on an energetic level
18:09where you're at.
18:10Think about Friendsgiving three years ago.
18:13You gave me a similar update.
18:15Yeah, because I come solo to everything.
18:17You come solo.
18:17You always show up solo.
18:18It doesn't go unnoticed.
18:20You have to ask a question.
18:21Like, if we met right now, today,
18:23the person that I am now
18:24and the person that she is now,
18:27would we be together?
18:30Whitney wakes up.
18:31The girl's happy.
18:31Let's go.
18:32She has a love for life.
18:33She's a breath of fresh air.
18:34She's just got really good energy.
18:35I'm just going to know Whitney,
18:36but she seems awesome.
18:39I know.
18:40Cobblestone streets of New York, bud.
18:42Whitney's my girlfriend.
18:43We've been dating officially for six months,
18:45unofficially for about a year.
18:47She is a sweet, sweet angel from the heavens.
18:51Hold on.
18:52Oh, we're going to poop in the middle of the street.
18:55That's lovely.
18:58This is a massive milestone.
19:00She's moving across the country to move in with me.
19:02You're a city boy now.
19:03I'm originally from Minnesota, Midwest girl.
19:05I'm just a sucker for love.
19:07My parents were high school sweethearts,
19:09and, like, I'm somebody who is meant to be a mom and a wife.
19:12That's why I did The Bachelor.
19:14But I think I was eight out of 30 girls I lasted.
19:17I just really wanted to find love.
19:19Let's go, buddy.
19:20This is the first time I've moved across the country for somebody.
19:23It's definitely a little scary,
19:24but, like, I wouldn't be doing it
19:26if I didn't think Kenny was my person.
19:29I'm honestly, like, excited for you guys.
19:31She seems like an absolute doll.
19:32She's just always happy.
19:34Like, always, you know, positive.
19:36But, like, my biggest fear is, like,
19:38hurting her in some kind of way
19:39or, like, it not working out in some kind of way.
19:42And there's concerns, right?
19:43Like what?
19:44Like, you know, sometimes you go in a relationship
19:46and you feel this spark and this buzz and this fire
19:48where you're like, this is my person.
19:50I'm going to marry you.
19:51Yeah, instant boner.
19:52Yeah.
19:53And it's hard to know for me, like,
19:55is the, like, this is the one
19:56and I know it for sure spark there.
19:59Yeah.
20:00And so I'm trying to figure that out.
20:03It's tricky.
20:04Yeah.
20:07Coming up.
20:09Hi.
20:13Are you going to talk to her?
20:14No, I don't need negative energy in my life.
20:33Hi.
20:35Switch it up tonight.
20:36They do a tequila?
20:38Always.
20:38You got to warm up.
20:40What's up, brother?
20:41Good to see you.
20:41Stop spilling.
20:43Are you nervous?
20:44Baguera is a New York City institution.
20:46Lindsay is right there.
20:48Look at the strut.
20:49She's always basketball.
20:50She can't see me.
20:51Ciao.
20:52Ciao.
20:52Ciao, Lindsay.
20:53It's a speakeasy.
20:55You have to walk through a burger shop to get there.
20:59I love to get it.
21:00And I'm not just saying that because my best friend owns it
21:02and I maybe drink for free.
21:04Hi, guys.
21:05That spray tan looks sexy on you.
21:07It does.
21:08I see you.
21:09I used to have on my phone access to the video,
21:13the surveillance.
21:14I think you're allowed to say that.
21:18It's creepy.
21:20Okay.
21:21Okay.
21:21I did not used to have access to the surveillance camera
21:24to see if it was a good vibe and then I'd pop over
21:27and then I'd be like, hey.
21:28Is there girls there?
21:31Hi.
21:32Did you bring Gemma?
21:33No.
21:34Just kidding.
21:34So it's my baby daddy.
21:35You have a night off.
21:36Do you want a drink?
21:37Yeah.
21:37Water and a margarita.
21:39Skinny spicy?
21:40Yeah.
21:41Okay.
21:41How'd you know?
21:42I know.
21:43I need somebody to do my Botox in New York.
21:46I'm sure you got a lot of clientele in Tribeca.
21:48Yeah.
21:48Tribeca's for people who are too rich for the Upper East Side.
21:52We're all past our first year of marriage.
21:55Oh, yes.
21:56Cheers to that.
21:56We did it.
21:57A little bit over a year.
21:58So far, so good.
21:59In our friend group, there are people in all sorts of different situations,
22:02which is amazing.
22:04We met Andrea and Lexi through Lindsay.
22:07Our lives are very similar.
22:08Like, we got married within a few months of each other.
22:10We're both talking about starting families.
22:12All four of us are supermodels.
22:16Bernie told me you wanted to slice the skin.
22:18Thank you so much.
22:20Stephanie, you're the man.
22:21Cheers.
22:21Cheers, cheers.
22:24Where's Kyle?
22:25Kyle.
22:28Kyle.
22:37I know the therapist was like, let's meet tomorrow.
22:40Probably not the greatest sign.
22:42No.
22:42We're moving backwards.
22:44Her words.
22:47I'm just feeling like, almost like more confused.
22:50No, it was very evident because you're just negative the whole time.
22:53Like, everything was a but this, but that.
22:55Like, we're supposed to be doing things that are moving us in the right direction.
22:58And you have a DJ event that ends at two.
23:01You go out after.
23:02And you come home at four o'clock in the morning last night.
23:04The night before therapy.
23:06Here I am at therapy trying to make it work because I don't want to call it quits.
23:10But you're not giving me any hope.
23:14I'm, like, sweating.
23:15I need to go.
23:16You're wearing a coat in summer.
23:18It's not a raincoat.
23:27I just, like, I don't know what you want.
23:31Amanda.
23:32What?
23:33Look, you're struggling in your ways.
23:35I'm struggling in mine.
23:36Like, I just want to be happy and I want to feel like you want to be with me.
23:39I'm in therapy with you.
23:41I'm making efforts.
23:42I'm doing things.
23:43I'm not going backwards.
23:47Can we just...
23:48Can we what?
23:49Can we get going?
23:50I don't think I'm meeting you guys out.
23:52Why not?
23:53I'm exhausted.
23:54I don't want to put on a face with all of our friends.
23:56I'm going home.
23:57Okay.
24:05You know what's funny?
24:06Growing up in Minnesota, I always thought, like, New York felt so intimidating.
24:10And people are actually, like, way more open and nice here.
24:13York's the best.
24:13It's exciting.
24:14I love it here.
24:15I feel like it's also, like, kind of romantic to move to New York with your boyfriend.
24:19I'm very excited about them.
24:20Like, she's a doll.
24:21She brings the best out in him.
24:23Like, we've traveled a bunch.
24:24They don't fight.
24:25How long have you been dating?
24:26Uh, we...
24:27Our first date was around a year ago.
24:30Okay.
24:30But then we slow played it for a while.
24:34Kenny was playing around, being a playboy with me.
24:38He was.
24:39Hold on.
24:39Let me be very clear.
24:40My mother was passing.
24:42I went through a very challenging time.
24:43I maybe wasn't the best version of myself to come out of that.
24:46Sorry to hear that, by the way.
24:46And it's...
24:47I appreciate it.
24:48But, you know...
24:48What age of you is the boy stage.
24:51What age of you?
24:52What age of you?
24:53What age of you?
24:54What age of you?
25:10I think from a girl's perspective, right?
25:12It is a lot.
25:15I'll say with you.
25:16Come join us.
25:16Come join us.
25:17We're just grilling Kenny.
25:19Or, I mean, I'm grilling Kenny.
25:21Oh, my gosh.
25:22I'm saying it's a big commitment to move across the country for a guy.
25:26This is now a panel.
25:27This is a panel.
25:28This is a panel.
25:29I'm getting...
25:29No, you stay.
25:30You stay.
25:31You stay.
25:31You stay.
25:31No, no, no.
25:32Stay over there.
25:32Why?
25:33They're grilling me on you moving and, like, our relationship.
25:37I said to Kenny that in order for you to move across the entire country without a commitment
25:43such as a ring, it's a very big deal.
25:46You can't around with this, like, at all.
25:49I'm getting I hate men vibes.
25:51I'm just allergic to, like, annoying men.
25:57I'm getting I hate men vibes.
25:59I'm just allergic to, like, annoying men.
26:03You don't have to be engaged in moving together, like, newsflash.
26:06That's not what I was saying.
26:07I'm saying it's a big commitment to move across the country for a guy.
26:10If you love each other, it feels small.
26:13I only know of Kenny socially through Gavin and Kyle.
26:17So, I'm just trying to get to know you.
26:18If you feel like I'm pressing you and I'm asking very generic questions, that sounds like
26:23a you problem.
26:24In this expansive chapter of a lot happening, it's nice to not do everything at once.
26:29We know what we're doing.
26:29We're not rushing it.
26:30Are you feeling attacked right now?
26:32Well, there's a panel of people.
26:41Where's the wife here?
26:42She's not coming tonight.
26:43I don't know.
26:44What's up?
26:45Is Amanda close?
26:46Where is she?
26:46No, no, no.
26:47She, um, she is laying low.
26:49You want to grab a drink?
26:50Yeah, yeah, sorry.
26:50My mom tells me I have great nail beds.
26:53You do have good nail beds.
26:55How are you?
26:55I mean, I haven't seen you since we left the house.
26:58It's been just, like, a whirlwind of, like, mixed emotions.
27:01Amanda told me that she's sitting in a hotel for a couple of days.
27:05Yeah.
27:07How does that make you feel?
27:08Despite all the ups and downs, we've never not left the hands together.
27:12Yeah.
27:12I get more and more confused the further we get into this couple's therapy.
27:16Therapy is very confusing because you're all of a sudden unpacking years and years and
27:21years of things that you have not addressed.
27:28Hi.
27:30She clearly is able to express herself in those moments.
27:33I'll admit, I struggled all summer.
27:35Hi.
27:37How are you, baby?
27:39Hi.
27:40I'm sorry.
27:40I'm your niece.
27:41Oh, my God.
27:42I have to pee.
27:43I love you.
27:45What's going on?
27:45She likes vodka or tequila?
27:47Pee both.
27:48Both.
27:49How are you?
27:50I'm Shaggy.
27:50How are you?
27:52I'm Shaggy.
27:53I'm Shaggy.
27:58I love margarita vibe.
27:59Then you'll want that.
28:01Are you going to depart her?
28:02No, I'm just going to avoid her.
28:04I can't give any more passes.
28:05I don't need negative, competitive energy in my life.
28:10You want people around you that are celebrating you when exciting things happen.
28:15Yeah.
28:16I'm certainly not going to create space in my life for somebody who just like shits on
28:20me every chance that they get.
28:22Every year, it's something.
28:23Let me just pull it up.
28:27You have it in your phone?
28:31Yeah, I have it in my phone.
28:33Season four, Carl and I try to date.
28:36You need to stop f***ing yelling at us.
28:37You're insulting me.
28:38Talk to me like a f***ing human.
28:40Didn't work out.
28:41He breaks up with me.
28:42One week later, she's giving him a handjob in the back of an Uber.
28:46And then, do I really need to talk about the engagement?
28:49Just flashback.
28:50At this very moment, Carl's probably down on one knee, opposing Lindsay.
28:54That's so f***ed up for everything that I've done for that f***ing friendship.
28:59You're a f***ing monster.
29:00Jesus f***ing Christ.
29:01You won't be invited.
29:03No, I know.
29:04And then I'm pregnant.
29:06And she's making all these comments.
29:08I mean, we don't even live together.
29:09You don't live together?
29:10And now you guys put a baby inside you?
29:12Yeah.
29:13I just don't want it to feel like you're single momming this up.
29:17Stop f***ing on me.
29:19It's so f***ed because, like, there's a new home.
29:22Right.
29:23I've never, like, been in my life that I feel like it's such a big deal.
29:26And I'm, like, not sharing it with my once best friend.
29:30I don't even know what Danielle's guy's name.
29:32Owen?
29:33On?
29:35On?
29:36On?
29:36Your name is on or on?
29:37Oh, let's see this.
29:38Say hi.
29:39You two should say hi.
29:40I wanted to say hi, but I was wondering if maybe you might be open to, like, a lunch or
29:46a coffee next week or something.
29:50Whenever you're free.
29:51Can I think about it?
29:52I'm a little busy these days.
29:57With a newborn?
29:58Yeah.
29:58Yeah.
29:59I get it.
30:00Bye.
30:00Love you all.
30:02I don't get it, if I can be honest.
30:04There's been so many things.
30:06Carla and I got engaged.
30:07She had a freak out.
30:08Before Carla and I got engaged, she gave him a handjob in the back of an Uber a week after
30:14we broke up.
30:15Like, that's a f***ing thing.
30:16First of all, handjobs just suck at you.
30:18Fine.
30:19I'm just saying.
30:19I bet you wish you had anything.
30:21Oh, I would actually pay a lot of money for the handjob.
30:24Yeah, but you wish you had any f***ing job.
30:27True.
30:44Georgina.
30:45Hi.
30:46Hi.
30:47Hello.
30:48You guys look so nice.
30:50We'll begin to steal you.
30:51Are you coming out with us?
30:53Just come out in your scrubs.
30:54No, she needs to change.
30:55Do you even have anything here?
30:57Have you not seen this?
30:58No.
30:59Welcome to my humble abode.
31:03What?
31:04Makeup bag.
31:05Casual clothes.
31:07Black tie.
31:08Could be with heels.
31:09And in a little sterile package.
31:11What?
31:11Draws and underwear.
31:13It's so helpful having mom friends.
31:15Like Georgina, she just gets it.
31:17She has a full dermatology practice in Tribeca.
31:21All right, I'm going to have you scrunch first, actually.
31:23Good.
31:23You okay?
31:24Yeah.
31:25A lot of the days, I'm like, look how cool I am.
31:27Tribeca dorm, raising kids.
31:29Look at me.
31:30I'm doing it all.
31:31You change.
31:32We'll be outside.
31:32I need four minutes.
31:34And then the other day, my daughter, Eloise, she looks me dead in the eye and then ate dog
31:39food.
31:40So you know what I did?
31:41I looked at the nutrition facts on the dog food.
31:43Pure protein.
31:44So I was like, you know what, hon?
31:46Go f***ing nuts.
31:48Really?
31:48Oh my God.
31:49Oh my God, you look gorgeous.
31:50You look like a princess.
31:52Oh my gosh, I'm going out with the MILFs tonight.
31:54MILF City tonight.
32:04Here we are.
32:06Here, let me just tell Amanda that we are on the roof in the back.
32:10Um, I feel so bad for Amanda and Kyle.
32:14Like, it's not good.
32:15They have very separate lives.
32:17Amanda didn't pay rent for the last three years.
32:20He didn't care?
32:20No, so then he tallied it all up and charged her last week.
32:25No!
32:25No, it's just, I swear to s***.
32:26I did not.
32:27Charged her last week, so then she had to pay him.
32:29He has a spreadsheet of like all this money that I owed him.
32:32So now you owe him three years backdate on rent?
32:35I already paid it.
32:36No sweat off my back.
32:37Yeah, last week.
32:38Okay, now I know where the resentment's coming from.
32:46These frickin' bangs.
32:47Hi, guys.
32:48Wait, but they look great.
32:49I am so much trying.
32:50Oh, look at us.
32:51We're color-cored.
32:51Oh, are we?
32:52I love that.
32:53Hi, guys.
32:55I'm not going to lie to you.
32:56I was catching them up a little bit.
32:57We were talking about you.
32:59We were talking about you.
33:00Okay, as long as we said.
33:00We got it in a bad way.
33:01Okay, I have one request.
33:03Hi, guys.
33:03I have a senior sin.
33:04No, we're talking about me s*** for the rest of the night.
33:06Okay.
33:06I want to hear about your problems.
33:08I want to hear gossip.
33:09I need the tea.
33:10I need the drama.
33:11Can we talk about my plans with Nick?
33:13Well, he decided he's not ready in this moment to be a dad.
33:16Is he nervous or just not ready?
33:18Yeah, I think he's nervous.
33:19He's a great dog dad.
33:21Nick and I have a great relationship.
33:23So when we first got married, we definitely hit, like, a few bumps in the road.
33:28I was under the impression that we were going to start trying to have a family.
33:32But every time I brought it up to him, it felt like he was pushing off the conversation.
33:37I was so annoyed with him.
33:39I was like, you know what?
33:40I'm just going to go to San Diego and not tell him.
33:43I hopped on a plane.
33:46Then, like, a few days go by.
33:48What?
33:49How was your day?
33:50And this guy hasn't even noticed that I'm not there.
33:55Where's your mom?
33:56I had to show him, like, a few true crime docs after that.
33:59Because I was like, if something did happen to me, he would be the first person that would be under
34:04investigation.
34:06Babe?
34:07I'm telling you, men are always the problem.
34:09They're always the problem.
34:10And they can have babies until they're, like, 100.
34:12Very respectful.
34:13It's not you.
34:14It's not you.
34:15Just start trying.
34:16How long does semen live in your body for, like, 72 hours?
34:19Just start turkey basting.
34:21Put it on ice.
34:25What else can we fill Amanda in on?
34:27What happened at the garage?
34:29Okay, so Danielle showed up last night.
34:31Oh, yeah.
34:31Oh, my God.
34:32Okay, so this is what I heard from Katie.
34:34She's moving in with this man who's still married.
34:38What?
34:39That's why that thing went up, like, that blind item.
34:41What?
34:42What?
34:44She was talking about having kids with him in the fall.
34:47No.
34:47You're blowing my mind right now.
34:49I need you to stop.
34:50She's hypocritical.
34:51Who does that?
34:52Nice.
34:52The girls, girl.
35:09Ah.
35:10Ah, yes.
35:12Perfect.
35:13All right.
35:14Happy anniversary.
35:14Happy anniversary.
35:16Four years.
35:20Ooh, that's nice.
35:22In spite of everything that's been going down recently, it is our wedding anniversary.
35:27And I don't care if maybe the last time we went on an actual date was a year ago.
35:31Guess what?
35:32There's no way we're not doing something.
35:34You guys ready to order?
35:35Yes.
35:35Remind me of the mozzarella stick with caviar.
35:38Just the cheese and caviar.
35:39The fancy mozzarella stick.
35:41Absolutely.
35:41Oysters.
35:42And escargot.
35:43Thank you so much.
35:45I actually feel like we're in a decent place heading into this anniversary just because
35:49we've gotten some of the things off our chest.
35:51I would say we're both optimistic, which is great because that's not the case just a couple
35:56weeks ago.
35:57What do you guys have to celebrate?
35:58We're celebrating the fact that anyone that said we'd get divorced within three years was
36:04wrong.
36:04We made it to four.
36:07I know therapy hasn't been a walk in the park, but I appreciate you doing it with me.
36:12Yeah.
36:14I want to be feeling like we're moving forward in therapy.
36:17Do you feel like we're moving forward in therapy?
36:19Because I don't.
36:21After therapy, I've felt lower than I've ever felt in a really long time.
36:29And it's difficult to go back to the apartment and just like, you happen to call, let's go
36:35walk the dogs, time to do this.
36:38It hasn't been easy.
36:40But like, for me, I struggle with that a lot.
36:45It's not going the way that I really want it to.
36:47For you, I'm going to move out.
36:58I know it's our anniversary.
37:00Like, I'm not bringing this up.
37:01Like, I'm out.
37:02I'm leaving.
37:02And this isn't like a permanent.
37:03This is like a month.
37:05This is not to end the relationship.
37:08This is something I think that needs to be done to help us.
37:11I want to like date again.
37:13I want to get together and like spend time like this.
37:18And it's, it's difficult to explain.
37:21I'm not doing this to run away.
37:23I'm doing this because I want this to work out.
37:26I'm not saying this is like, we can't see each other for a month.
37:29This is like, you come to my place.
37:30I go to your place.
37:32We have movie nights and date nights.
37:34It's still spending time together.
37:37It's, it's a lot to swallow.
37:39But like, I'm trying to be like open-minded and understand.
37:42I appreciate that.
37:43Can you just promise me that if I agree to separation.
37:46It's not an agreement thing.
37:47That's my, it's a decision I'm making.
37:49If I give you my.
37:51It's not your blessing.
37:53If I'm here.
37:54I'm doing it.
37:56It's all you.
37:58I don't know if there's a playbook.
38:00I don't know how I'm supposed to feel or act.
38:02So I'm just trying to embrace this idea and be supportive.
38:06It feels extreme.
38:08And I'm not sold on this being the solution.
38:10I've never heard of a couple physically separating, but not separating.
38:15And using that as a tool to get back together.
38:19But maybe this is what we need.
38:22How are we doing, guys?
38:23Doing well.
38:24How are you doing?
38:24Great.
38:25We're just out for an anniversary dinner.
38:27Anniversary?
38:28Yeah.
38:28These are the apps.
38:29Four years.
38:29We're going to a restaurant, I promise.
38:32Congrats on the four years.
38:34It's been smooth sailing.
38:36I believe you.
38:38Does that laugh?
38:39Confirm it?
38:39No bumps in this road, I'll tell you that.
38:46This season on In the City.
38:49That guy just burp on me.
38:51Summer should be fun.
38:52Even in the fall.
38:53I could faint over Botox in my ass.
38:56In your butt?
38:56It's called Botox.
38:57I can't believe my stuff's going to be here this week.
39:00I don't need anybody questioning our relationship.
39:02Sorry that you don't like to hear the f***ing trick.
39:05I got you a little something.
39:06You know what that's called?
39:08Manipulation.
39:08You can only get pregnant for 12 hours.
39:12I thought about our conversations around having a baby.
39:17Something that I've wanted my entire life.
39:19A family that was taken away from me.
39:21I'm choosing partners that continue to abandon me.
39:25I've never been happier in my entire life.
39:27Lindsay gets the internet sleuth on my man.
39:29You're the f***ing Christ.
39:30I'm also so mad that you wore a white dress at my wedding.
39:33It's f***ing pinky, b***h.
39:35Everyone bows down to Lindsay and I'm sick of watching it.
39:38You're supposed to be my best friend and treat me like s***.
39:41Stop running your f***ing mouth.
39:42I'm going to leave right now because you're talking to a wall.
39:44I'm not a wall.
39:44You've moved your whole life here for him.
39:47I will move it right back out.
39:49Have you been lying to me for years?
39:51You're the fernie made off of f***ing hospitality.
39:52You're the f***ing hospitality.
39:53You're the f***ing hospitality.
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