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00:00:25It does not feel real that we're leaving together this time.
00:00:30Yeah, I do not cry again.
00:00:33It's okay.
00:00:34You cry.
00:00:36How do you feel about seeing your friends?
00:00:39I feel good, baby.
00:00:40They're like my best friend.
00:00:44My family and friends were happy because I find wonderful woman.
00:00:52But also a little bit much, Rashid, why you didn't find in Turkey a woman?
00:01:03Hello.
00:01:08Can you make me a friend?
00:01:11Maybe a friend.
00:01:11You're welcome.
00:01:11Oh, how are you?
00:01:14Good morning.
00:01:16You're welcome.
00:01:17How are you?
00:01:18Good morning.
00:01:19Good morning.
00:01:19Can I?
00:01:22Good morning.
00:01:23I know you're a boy.
00:01:27Humus.
00:01:27Humus.
00:01:28So this is...
00:01:29Yogurt.
00:01:30Haydar.
00:01:31Haydar.
00:01:32Haydar.
00:01:33Haydar.
00:01:34I was really excited to see all the good little Turkish food.
00:01:39I love to eat, obviously.
00:01:41But I dream of Turkish food in my sleep.
00:01:47Cheers.
00:01:49This is forever.
00:01:50Cheers.
00:01:51The only thing I haven't liked so far is the milk drink.
00:01:57May I have tea?
00:01:59Everyone in Turkey drinks it.
00:02:01I know a couple of people who drink the same.
00:02:03No, thank you.
00:02:04No, thank you.
00:02:05I think it was like fermented or something, because that was gross.
00:02:10I'm not trying to be disrespectful to his culture at all.
00:02:13That's not what I'm trying to do.
00:02:14But my god, that is nasty.
00:02:19Not nasty.
00:02:20No, no.
00:02:21It's nasty.
00:02:25Have you got all your paperwork together to go to America?
00:02:28Yes.
00:02:29Yes.
00:02:30Nothing missing.
00:02:31You've checked.
00:02:31I hope not.
00:02:32Listen, if it's missing, it's on the US government.
00:02:35You've checked.
00:02:36You're worried?
00:02:37You're the one you're afraid of?
00:02:39You're worried?
00:02:40You're worried about it?
00:02:41I'm sorry that you're your job.
00:02:41And now that if people are refusing to leave the trouble, they get off the road now, they get off
00:02:50the road.
00:02:52Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:02:53And it doesn't depend on our family,
00:02:56but it's a former former friend.
00:03:00It's a former friend.
00:03:03He's a former friend.
00:03:04It's a former friend.
00:03:07She's saying, my fiance's still a, you know,
00:03:09friends with her old boyfriend.
00:03:11Brandon.
00:03:12Yeah.
00:03:12Not an old boyfriend, not an old boyfriend.
00:03:14We didn't date.
00:03:16We didn't date.
00:03:17I have a really good friend named Brandon.
00:03:20I wouldn't say Brennan and I have dated before,
00:03:23but I think the term for our arrangement was
00:03:27friends with benefits.
00:03:29Strictly .
00:03:35But here it's like, it's not acceptable
00:03:38for Turkish men, kinda.
00:03:40I think Rosh is used to
00:03:45culturally.
00:03:47Women don't hang out with men, typically,
00:03:51but I'm gonna stand my ground and just say,
00:03:54look, you guys have your culture and I respect it,
00:03:56but it's not gonna change.
00:04:02Brandon is a good friend.
00:04:03He's, there's nothing physical there.
00:04:06There hasn't been for years, and when I was in my accident,
00:04:11and I was in the hospital, he stepped up,
00:04:15and he didn't have to do that.
00:04:18A year ago, one of my best friends, myself, her mother,
00:04:22and at the time, her seven-month-old son,
00:04:24were in a very serious and traumatic car accident
00:04:28that altered our lives forever.
00:04:31I remember everything to this day.
00:04:33We were listening to the Jonas Brothers,
00:04:36and the next thing I know, my friend Mikayla said,
00:04:40is this car coming into my lane?
00:04:45And I just remember the impact.
00:04:49I remember blacking out,
00:04:51and coming to,
00:04:55and, um, sorry.
00:04:59And, like, I just remember, like, screaming.
00:05:08They wanted to do emergency surgery on me.
00:05:11I woke up the next morning,
00:05:13and they took about three feet of my intestines out.
00:05:17In my darkest hours, Brandon was there for me.
00:05:21He took care of my dogs for me the entire time
00:05:24when I was in the hospital,
00:05:25and I didn't have to ask him to do that.
00:05:26He just said,
00:05:28don't worry about your dogs.
00:05:29I'm going to take care of them.
00:05:30So, just because Roche is having a problem with Brandon
00:05:34because of something that happened in the past,
00:05:38it's not a good reason to end a friendship over.
00:05:42Yeah.
00:05:42He's saying,
00:05:43when we are married,
00:05:44look at my partner.
00:05:52I don't like that.
00:05:58He's saying,
00:05:59when we are married,
00:06:00there will be things I don't like to say,
00:06:00I want to make sure I do not.
00:06:01I want to make sure I want to make sure I won't.
00:06:05But,
00:06:05I don't need to make sure to make sure I want to make sure I will.
00:06:07He's saying when we are married, there will be things I don't like that I'll be telling you.
00:06:13At this point in my life, I really don't want a man telling me what I can and can't do.
00:06:22I've been there before, and I just don't want that in my life again.
00:06:27I can say when I want to say.
00:06:29No, no.
00:06:30You must listen.
00:06:31No, you're not going to sit there and control me.
00:06:34This isn't Turkey.
00:06:35You're coming to America, point blank, period.
00:06:39Because you are my warrior.
00:06:41No.
00:06:41You will be my world.
00:06:43Maybe I won't be if you're going to act like this.
00:06:47I want you to give him a chance because he's going to be around a lot.
00:06:52When I meet with him, we will see.
00:07:09I see the clouds, they're rolling in.
00:07:16They hide the sign, but not my sin.
00:07:36I took a break from the office.
00:07:38I just needed to get away.
00:07:39It's definitely been a stressful day.
00:07:41Very stressful.
00:07:42I looked into changing Mito's flight because of the situation with his father, and it came
00:07:51out to be about $3,800 to change his ticket.
00:07:56I was shook because it's not doable at the moment.
00:08:01When I messaged him and let him know, he just put no comment.
00:08:08There's a very good chance that he may not be on that flight tomorrow.
00:08:29It's pretty late.
00:08:32I should be sleeping, but I haven't been doing a lot of that lately.
00:08:38We were trying to FaceTime and couldn't hear each other.
00:08:42So I sent him a message and asked him where he was.
00:08:46His response was he was home.
00:08:53I don't know if Mito got on that plane today.
00:09:02What am I supposed to do a little bit?
00:09:20There we go.
00:09:21I'm ready when you are.
00:09:23I am ready, too.
00:09:25All right.
00:09:26Come on.
00:09:26Let's roll.
00:09:28You got everything you need?
00:09:29Come on.
00:09:30Today is the day that Mito is supposed to arrive.
00:09:35He's a couple of hours out.
00:09:40And I am not even sure if he's on that plane.
00:09:44Okay.
00:09:48I tried to get in touch with Qatar Airlines to find out if he boarded the flight, got nowhere.
00:09:55I am at my wits' end and don't know what to do.
00:10:02This whole thing, baby girl, has been like craziness.
00:10:06Should we even be bothering with...
00:10:08We're going to go and we're going to proceed as normal.
00:10:12Okay.
00:10:20My mom hasn't been eating.
00:10:22She hasn't been sleeping.
00:10:23She hasn't been doing very well these past few days.
00:10:27And it's because she hasn't been hearing from Mito.
00:10:30If Mito doesn't meet my mother at the airport, I'm not actually sure how my mom is going to react.
00:10:35I'm going to assume that she's going to wind up crying, being very angry, and rightfully so.
00:10:48Yeah.
00:10:49She's not going to take it well, I don't think.
00:11:05All righty, here we are.
00:11:15Text me when you want me to pick you up, okay?
00:11:17Okay.
00:11:44These past couple of days, it's been hell.
00:11:47Is he going to come?
00:11:48Is he not going to come?
00:11:49What is my life going to look like in 24, 48 hours?
00:11:54We have dealt with so many different things this far apart.
00:11:58That now it's to the point where it's like, either he is coming over, and we are going to build
00:12:05a life, or there's no place left to go.
00:12:16I think I'm going to get sick.
00:12:25Okay.
00:12:31Okay.
00:12:33I think I'm going to get sick.
00:12:41Okay.
00:12:43Okay.
00:12:44Okay.
00:12:44Okay.
00:12:47Okay.
00:12:47Okay.
00:12:49Let's go.
00:13:28This is my miniatures.
00:13:30I like to collect tiny things.
00:13:32They are a tool for manifestation.
00:13:35It's a toilet.
00:13:36Oops, there's a poop here.
00:13:38I use the tiny to manifest big things.
00:13:41Connected with that, I always wanted to get married with a gringo.
00:13:46And, uh, Universe introduced me to Thomas.
00:13:53Do you want to just talk about, like, what's about to happen to my life?
00:13:57Whenever it gets here, we're absolutely having a man-to-man conversation.
00:14:00The only thing that is an absolute problem is if it's going to add stress to my boys.
00:14:04It's going to be both of your guys' problems.
00:14:23My name is Paula.
00:14:25I'm 41 and I'm from São Paulo, Brazil.
00:14:31I own a very successful piercing business that I started from scratch.
00:14:38Bouchoir.
00:14:39Já foi.
00:14:41Doeu muito?
00:14:41Não.
00:14:42É isso.
00:14:43I'm a boss lady, and I have a very unique way that I manifested my greatness.
00:14:58This is my miniatures.
00:15:02I love them.
00:15:03They are so cute.
00:15:04I like to collect tiny things.
00:15:07I have a full closet only for me and my tiny stuff.
00:15:14This is my favorite one because it's a toilet.
00:15:18And then when you open, oops, there's a poop here.
00:15:23I know it sounds crazy, but this is not for fun.
00:15:26This is not a silly collection.
00:15:28They are a tool for manifestation.
00:15:31To symbolize the kind of life that I want to have.
00:15:35I was manifesting an apartment.
00:15:38So I got a little salt and a little pepper.
00:15:42And I was like, I want to have one kitchen exactly like this.
00:15:46I manifest, and now we have one.
00:15:49Manifestation is a law called quantum physics.
00:15:53Everything in the universe is little particles of like atoms, protons, and everything.
00:16:00And our thoughts also have atoms and particles.
00:16:04So if you put some energy in these thoughts, you build your actual reality.
00:16:12Like, I bought a tiny couch to manifest a real size couch.
00:16:18So I used the tiny to manifest bigger things.
00:16:22Connected with that, I always wanted to get married with a gringo.
00:16:28So I wrote a letter to the universe, and I described all the things that I wanted.
00:16:34Very romantic, and a gringo, very smart, everything.
00:16:39And the universe introduced me, Thomas.
00:16:48Paul gives the universe way too much credit.
00:16:51Especially when it's me.
00:16:53Paul loves to give my credit away to the universe.
00:16:56Doesn't make sense to me at all.
00:17:01I'm Thomas, I'm 31 years old, and I live in Long Beach, California.
00:17:06I had just moved to L.A. from North Carolina days before I had met Paula.
00:17:13She's on a one-week vacation.
00:17:15We meet up at the same beach volleyball class in Hermosa Beach.
00:17:19And luckily, we're both beginners, because that's where our story starts.
00:17:23Tom, my friend, my new friend.
00:17:26Hola, como estas?
00:17:27Como estas?
00:17:28Habla es espanol.
00:17:30No, I'm from Brazil.
00:17:30I speak Portuguese.
00:17:32Portuguese.
00:17:33But I will teach him.
00:17:35The first time we met, we just, like, hit it off.
00:17:38What did they say?
00:17:39I thought that Paula and I could be more than friends.
00:17:43I will find you a Brazilian girlfriend.
00:17:45Do you want to know?
00:17:46Yes.
00:17:48But, like me, or different?
00:17:50Uh, similar.
00:17:52Okay.
00:17:53Similar.
00:17:54I was always scared to ruin the friendship with her if I was picking up on signals that just
00:18:00weren't there.
00:18:01And we kind of turned into this, like, pen pal situation.
00:18:04And that lasted for years.
00:18:05Check it.
00:18:06I miss the old Paula.
00:18:08Straight from the go, Paula.
00:18:10Chop up the souls, Paula.
00:18:12Set on her goals, Paula.
00:18:15Stop it with this old Paula, new Paula.
00:18:18I am the Paula I always was.
00:18:24At a certain point, like, I feel like something was developing that I couldn't ignore.
00:18:31And that's when I had made my move.
00:18:35I went down to Brazil and I was like, hey, Paula, is there anything between us?
00:18:39Like, I, I can, can we have, like, a romance?
00:18:42Her face, like, went white.
00:18:45Am I really listening to this?
00:18:47Like, he's really saying that he wants a romance?
00:18:50And I said, Thomas, I have a boyfriend.
00:18:52It was, like, a train wreck.
00:18:54Like, absolutely worst-case scenario.
00:18:57But eventually, Paula breaks up with her boyfriend.
00:19:00And then, I don't know what changed, but she just flipped the switch and she thinks,
00:19:05all right, let's give it a shot.
00:19:08We were best friends.
00:19:09And then overnight, we became lovers.
00:19:11Just like that.
00:19:12I mean, it was quick.
00:19:14And two years later, we got engaged.
00:19:21Happy!
00:19:22Oh, my God!
00:19:24Oh, my God!
00:19:26Oh, my God!
00:19:27Oh, my God!
00:19:28Oh, my God!
00:19:33All right, welcome to my living room.
00:19:37Paula has purchased a substantial amount of stuff online in advance of her arriving.
00:19:44This one just showed up yesterday.
00:19:46I mean, this is massive.
00:19:47I don't know what's in here exactly, but I have my suspicions.
00:19:51She loves collecting tiny stuff.
00:19:53That's what she calls it, her tiny stuffs with an S.
00:19:57It's adorable, but that's not the point.
00:19:59The point is, it's ridiculous.
00:20:02Paula and I have a lot of differences, especially around personal philosophies.
00:20:06I pretty much have a ton of steak on hand.
00:20:10I eat meat.
00:20:12She's a vegan.
00:20:13I know that when she sees this stuff, she doesn't see a food.
00:20:16She sees a beautiful cow.
00:20:20I'm completely minimalist.
00:20:22What I find scary is clutter, but for Paula, she wants every surface covered with, like, decorations
00:20:29or little knickknacks or toys.
00:20:31This is a gift from Paula called a positivity poo.
00:20:34I may be a tiny poo, but I believe in you.
00:20:36You go do your crap.
00:20:39Nice.
00:20:40I believe in magic and Thomas don't.
00:20:43But he has to learn how to use tiny stuff and magic to start to manifest together with
00:20:51me because it's the only way, as a couple, we achieve our dreams together.
00:20:57This is my couch.
00:21:00This is the best couch solution on the market, in my opinion.
00:21:03I'm not a big fan of sofas.
00:21:05In fact, I find the best part of a sofa is the laying down portion.
00:21:09I can lay down here, I can enjoy coffee, maybe on my phone.
00:21:15I mean, this is the life.
00:21:17Thomas have a horrible taste.
00:21:20The apartment is empty, there's nothing.
00:21:22He's super minimalist.
00:21:24It's horrible.
00:21:25Bad taste.
00:21:27I also have a tiny table here, which is my dining room table.
00:21:33You tuck your knees in, and all of a sudden, you're at the perfect eating level.
00:21:37I mean, I'm just in a good spot to facilitate the full dining experience in a healthy way.
00:21:43The worst is, like, how much he's excited.
00:21:47Look at this.
00:21:48Look what I have for you.
00:21:50A tiny table.
00:21:52Who wants to like a camping table?
00:21:54Nobody.
00:21:58Thomas told me to bring one bag, but it's impossible to take only one, so I'll take as much as
00:22:06I can.
00:22:07We've been engaged two years, and now we have to figure out, how do we make these starkly different lifestyles
00:22:15work together?
00:22:16I mean, the last thing we want to do is get married and then realize we were better off as
00:22:21friends.
00:22:41Derek, Cole, you guys ready?
00:22:42Your dad's going to be here soon.
00:22:46I have all your stuff in here for camp, like your water bottles and everything.
00:22:51All right.
00:22:52Oh, your dad's here.
00:22:52What's up?
00:22:53Hey.
00:23:01All right, so listen.
00:23:02Their bags are packed.
00:23:04Football equipment.
00:23:05Where's your shoes?
00:23:06Oh, yeah.
00:23:07Grab your shoes.
00:23:09Do you want to give your mom a hug before you leave?
00:23:13You better give her a hug.
00:23:15My ex-husband, Michael, is a great dad.
00:23:18I'm not going to take that away from him, but to me, he wasn't a good fit for a husband.
00:23:22Love you.
00:23:23Love you.
00:23:23Love you.
00:23:24Love you, love you, dude.
00:23:25Be a good boy, okay?
00:23:26Yeah.
00:23:28However, over the last several years, we really worked on trying to co-parent in a healthy and kind way.
00:23:36Derek, go wait in the car.
00:23:37I want to talk to Daddy for a second.
00:23:41So do you want to just talk about, like, what's about to happen to my life?
00:23:45Are you ready to talk about what's about to happen to your life?
00:23:48I mean, I'm ready.
00:23:49Listen, this is, like, a long time.
00:23:51I'm going to sit down, but, like, I'm worried about how the dynamic of our family is going to change,
00:23:56you know?
00:23:57And, like, he's going to play a role in the kids' lives now, and how does that make you feel?
00:24:03It's not something that I'm looking forward to.
00:24:06But, like, what choice do I have?
00:24:09All I'm saying is, like, you know, let's just try to keep things at peace.
00:24:14I'm going to keep it real.
00:24:17Everything so far through the whole relationship was a bit of a shock.
00:24:20First off, she didn't tell me.
00:24:21My kids told me.
00:24:23And I thought that they were completely eavesdropping and misheard the wrong conversation.
00:24:29So when I actually asked her about it, my first initial thought was protective mode.
00:24:33Who is he?
00:24:34What's he do?
00:24:35Does he have kids?
00:24:35Is he here for a green card?
00:24:37What is going on here?
00:24:39The honest question is, is he ready for everything?
00:24:43Your family's very wealthy.
00:24:45You got a million-dollar home here.
00:24:47And it can make you feel a certain way.
00:24:49You know, it just, look, I didn't feel like I fit in.
00:24:52I saw what it did to you.
00:24:54I felt like a loser.
00:24:55So I get it.
00:24:57You know, my parents are, you know, affluent people.
00:25:01They've exposed me to a lot as far as traveling, really nice vacations, beautiful hotels, things
00:25:06like that.
00:25:06So that's what I'm used to.
00:25:08I know it'll be intimidating for Edward to meet and spend time with my family because
00:25:15they're probably going to judge him and wonder what his intentions are, just like they did
00:25:18with Michael.
00:25:22Look, I have my life with my kids.
00:25:24I have my life with you.
00:25:25You're bringing somebody else in.
00:25:26I might have a little bit of an attitude.
00:25:28He's going to be spending time with my children.
00:25:31The only thing that was an absolute problem is if it's going to add stress to my boys.
00:25:35It's going to be both of your guys' problems.
00:25:40Whenever it gets here, we're absolutely having a man-to-man conversation.
00:25:43There's not a, do we need to or should we?
00:25:47It's absolutely happening.
00:25:48And I just hope that we can try to keep the peace in some way.
00:25:52He needs to not come in hot and heavy and come at me a certain way because, especially
00:25:56when it comes to my kids, I'll bite someone's face off of my kids.
00:26:01I've seen Michael firsthand when he goes off and it is very scary and it is intimidating.
00:26:06And another man will stand up to him and try to, you know, fight him.
00:26:11And that's exactly what I don't want to happen.
00:26:13Ultimately, the thing that we need to concentrate on is the well-being of the kids.
00:26:17And by having their father and their soon-to-be stepfather at odds is never going to work for us.
00:26:27Listen, it's my kids and I'm not going to f***ing go.
00:26:30And I'm not going to f***ing go.
00:27:00I want to be able to look at Katie
00:27:02and think that one day this could be someone
00:27:04that I want to have children with.
00:27:07Uh, my head hurts.
00:27:10I'm starting to think this does need to change.
00:27:31How do you feel?
00:27:32Fine. Tired.
00:27:34Tired.
00:27:35Last night very long.
00:27:36Yeah, you kept me up all night long.
00:27:38Yeah.
00:27:39And I wanted to sleep.
00:27:40Because I miss you so much.
00:27:41Yeah, I know. I miss you too.
00:27:44Don't laugh. Come on.
00:27:49When she left me, I closed my belt
00:27:53and I didn't open six months.
00:27:57I hope so.
00:27:59But, uh, last night I want to make baby.
00:28:04No.
00:28:06Don't look at me like this.
00:28:07Very, very hot.
00:28:10Get ready. Come on.
00:28:11No.
00:28:12Come on.
00:28:12Come on.
00:28:13Hadi, Hadi.
00:28:14Oh, my gosh.
00:28:16I love you so much.
00:28:17I love you so much.
00:28:20Well, I run when I walk
00:28:23And my tongue doesn't talk
00:28:25And I can't even think
00:28:28Because love is a wonderful thing
00:28:42I know. It's going to be sad, emotional.
00:28:48Yeah.
00:28:50Today we are going over
00:28:53to Rasha's sister's house
00:28:55Yes.
00:28:56Um, to say goodbye
00:28:57since we're leaving tomorrow.
00:29:00Ready?
00:29:01Okay.
00:29:02I'm ready.
00:29:05Since my family
00:29:08They can't come
00:29:09Our wedding party
00:29:11In America
00:29:12They want to do
00:29:14Turkish
00:29:15Wedding
00:29:17Traditions
00:29:19Traditions
00:29:19Traditions
00:29:20Like Turkish
00:29:21Salt coffee
00:29:23What's the salt coffee?
00:29:24Salt
00:29:25Salt in the coffee
00:29:27I put salt in your coffee?
00:29:28Yeah
00:29:47The first time I met his mom
00:29:48She was so loving
00:29:49She was so excited
00:29:50To meet me
00:29:51My mom say
00:29:54Rashid
00:29:54If you
00:29:55Make her salt
00:29:57I don't give my milk
00:30:00Huh?
00:30:01Oh
00:30:03So weird
00:30:08When the E.U. Monday
00:30:09You're traveling
00:30:11Yeah
00:30:11Yeah, about 20 hours
00:30:13Yeah
00:30:14But nice to see you
00:30:16Yeah, it's nice to see you too
00:30:17Yeah, it's worth it
00:30:18Well worth it, I promise
00:30:36For him
00:30:38Maloro
00:30:43You have to put salt in the coffee
00:30:45This is our traditional
00:30:47Well, it means good luck in your future.
00:30:50All sorts?
00:30:51The whole thing?
00:30:52What?
00:30:53No.
00:30:53No?
00:30:54Salt coffee means our life not going to sweet all the time.
00:30:59So you're saying it represents that our marriage,
00:31:04there's going to be good times and bad times.
00:31:08Drinking that nasty coffee is showing
00:31:11that you'll be able to handle the bad times.
00:31:14Yes.
00:31:14Got it.
00:31:18Chug it.
00:31:18Chug it.
00:31:19Chug it.
00:31:20Chug it.
00:31:20Chug it.
00:31:22Chug it.
00:31:23Chug it.
00:31:24Chug it.
00:31:24Chug it.
00:31:25Chug it.
00:31:25Chug it.
00:31:26Chug.
00:31:29I hope he will not get harder.
00:31:32I know.
00:31:33Not good.
00:31:35But my inside is working.
00:31:39Yeah.
00:31:41Tava gelmeyin, tamam mı?
00:31:42Okay.
00:31:43Okay, let's do it with women.
00:32:13Can you support my mother and my dad?
00:32:16I don't have a house anymore.
00:32:20I don't have a house anymore.
00:32:26February 2023.
00:32:29In Kahramanmaraş, it was very big.
00:32:34People are sad.
00:32:37The wall is on top of my dad.
00:32:40My dad was gone from the door.
00:32:48They are still in the house and in the container.
00:32:53We are now living in the house.
00:32:57We are now living in the house.
00:32:58We are living in the house.
00:33:07We are living in the house.
00:33:13We are living in the house.
00:33:15We are living in the house.
00:33:31I will not do it.
00:33:36Let's go.
00:33:37I will look at my mother's hands.
00:33:44Turkey is very important.
00:33:46A man who is making money for a family.
00:33:51But I need to buy money from Mallory.
00:33:54I haven't talked yet.
00:33:56I will tell Mallory how to get a response.
00:33:59I don't know.
00:34:01It is not fair.
00:34:02It is not fair to say.
00:34:02It is not fair to say.
00:34:04It is fair to say.
00:34:07I must help my mother.
00:34:19I just want to be on your side, but you're always, always making me sad.
00:34:29If you could shove that in a bag, that'd be helpful.
00:34:32Can I fold it?
00:34:33You don't have to fold it.
00:34:34Just shove it in.
00:34:36I enjoy folding things.
00:34:37Okay, fine.
00:34:38You pack so British.
00:34:42You're the one that makes me feel younger.
00:34:45You're the one for me.
00:34:52Do you want some water?
00:34:54Did I drink it all down?
00:34:55Okay, yeah.
00:34:57I won't go first, though.
00:34:59Ah!
00:35:02So the day is here, and Casey and I are moving out of the hotel,
00:35:05and we're going to see the new apartment.
00:35:09I've no idea what to expect.
00:35:11But Katie is worse for wear.
00:35:14She is very high over.
00:35:16And this is my welcome party, and she is in a state.
00:35:20Yeah?
00:35:22Oh, sorry.
00:35:24I punched the water.
00:35:27I'm not fully sure what to think about last night.
00:35:33I had a good time chatting with people.
00:35:34But Katie also was just, like, a bit brazenly complimentary about some of the guys she's hooked up with.
00:35:46I think there are just some things that, to me, are just so blindingly obvious about respecting a relationship.
00:35:52And I often assume Katie gets it, but I guess sometimes she doesn't.
00:36:00Was I too crazy last night?
00:36:02Like, I remember most of it.
00:36:03I just remember seeing you just go up to the bar and just, like, one to get the two to
00:36:07get the three.
00:36:08Okay.
00:36:08But they were spread out.
00:36:09Like, the first one was, like, at the beginning.
00:36:12And the second one was kind of at the beginning also.
00:36:16Yeah, I realized as a growing older I can't really do shots.
00:36:20And I think you quite enjoy doing shots.
00:36:22I like them.
00:36:23I think they kind of catch up with you the end of the night.
00:36:27I mean, we got in the cab and you were just, like, out straight away.
00:36:30I don't remember getting in the cab.
00:36:33Yeah.
00:36:33And anything in the cab.
00:36:35Or getting here.
00:36:39Was I, did I annoy anyone by being too drunk or, like, stumbling or?
00:36:42Are you worried that you did annoy someone or are you just asking just in general?
00:36:49Yeah.
00:36:51Sometimes, like, you ask 20 times.
00:36:53Yeah.
00:36:54Whether you've annoyed someone or, you know, that sort of thing.
00:36:57And I think it's slightly maybe OCD type thing.
00:37:01Oh.
00:37:01What do you think?
00:37:03No, it's definitely OCD.
00:37:04I know that 100%.
00:37:07This is one of my least favorite feelings, waking up and not knowing what I've done while drunk.
00:37:12Like, it really, like, scares me that I could have, like, offended or hurt one of my friends.
00:37:17Or Josh.
00:37:18Even if there's, like, no proof that that even happened.
00:37:21Like, my brain will just make up stuff that could have happened.
00:37:24And then I need proof it didn't happen.
00:37:27So, it's definitely, like, a really rough feeling.
00:37:32I realize you drink differently to me.
00:37:35Like, it's something to think about, like, going towards marriage.
00:37:41Like, being on the same page.
00:37:42Do you think?
00:37:44Yeah.
00:37:45I think that I wouldn't want to have a kid and then, you know, even just the first couple days
00:37:51of being here, like, if we carry on like this, I think, you know, we need to be stable before
00:37:57having a kid.
00:37:58Like, that's kind of my kind of real bottom line for that kind of stuff.
00:38:03Is that fair?
00:38:05Yeah.
00:38:06Yeah, I guess I don't have that much to stay on it right now because it feels like it's in
00:38:10the future.
00:38:12It takes a lot of energy to deal with the absurdity of your loving partner being such a ferocious party
00:38:23girl.
00:38:23And I think that as I'm starting to think about getting married, that I'm starting to think, actually, this does
00:38:31need to change.
00:38:32Ugh, my head hurts.
00:38:37I want to be able to look at Katie and think of stability and feel secure and think that one
00:38:47day this could be someone that I want to have children with.
00:38:50And so I don't know what that means if we can't get on the same page in the next 90
00:38:55days, whether we're actually as compatible as I thought we are.
00:39:05You know how chickens got a pecking order or one of them's a boss hen.
00:39:09Allison's kind of bossy and a bully.
00:39:12I can handle it.
00:39:13My daughter, Allison, she's not going to let Annabelle get between her and her dad.
00:39:22You know, it's liable to get kind of rough.
00:39:26Oh, my God.
00:39:27Well, fairly laugh.
00:39:32I'm going to let Annabelle.
00:39:42See you later.
00:39:43Do you like sexy tomas or something, baby?
00:39:45I feel like 19 years old.
00:39:48Everything works.
00:39:49Whoo!
00:39:50Chicken soup.
00:39:51Mm-hmm.
00:39:52Mm-hmm.
00:39:53Love you, my baby.
00:39:54Love you too.
00:39:57Oh, baby, if you're ready to go, all you gotta do is let me know, give me that signal.
00:40:07How have you been satisfied yourself for been two years?
00:40:13You mean like sexually since?
00:40:16Yeah.
00:40:17Well, I mean, babe, it's like, you know, me and you never like have phone sex or nothing.
00:40:23So, you know, I think Annabelle's shy to have phone sex.
00:40:29Yeah, of course I'm shy.
00:40:31And plus, you always have, you've got seven or eight people in your house, so it's not like you can't.
00:40:37They're always awake and they've become the chick if there's a weird noise coming out of the bedroom.
00:40:43Well, you want to get our day started, baby?
00:40:45Mm-hmm, I'm excited.
00:40:47All right.
00:40:48All right.
00:40:49Oh, Lord.
00:40:54Okay, let me get your dress.
00:40:57Okay.
00:40:59Mm-hmm.
00:41:03Always want to dress me, baby.
00:41:05I love you.
00:41:07Annabelle always wants to put my shoes on, my socks on, my underwear on.
00:41:12And, you know, in the Philippines, it's the way that you're going to care how to take care of the
00:41:18love of your life right now.
00:41:20Shut the door.
00:41:22Yeah, shut the door, babe.
00:41:23Mm-hmm.
00:41:25What do you think?
00:41:27I'm your fiancé or your...
00:41:29Sometimes you feel like my mommy.
00:41:33You good?
00:41:34Yeah.
00:41:36Oh, very nice here, baby.
00:41:38It's cold.
00:41:39Baby, it's not that cold.
00:41:40It feels good.
00:41:41Yeah, all right.
00:41:41We got shorts on.
00:41:43Mm-hmm.
00:41:43It's just different from what you're used to, but...
00:41:45Kentucky girl, huh?
00:41:47Kentucky American girl.
00:41:57Look at the deer right there, baby.
00:41:58There's three deer.
00:41:59Oh, wow.
00:42:00Yeah.
00:42:01What month of the deer season?
00:42:04Deer season's November.
00:42:05November.
00:42:07I've still got a lot in the freezer when we cook.
00:42:09You know, I'm going to get you a walk, and you can put, like, some broccoli and cut those deer
00:42:14steaks up in little cubes.
00:42:16You can put that over some rice, babe.
00:42:19Huh?
00:42:22For Filipino, rice is life.
00:42:25Yeah, I know rice is life, baby.
00:42:27But we have other options.
00:42:29We have potatoes and bread and onion rings.
00:42:34You know, we have a lot of different options that take the place of eating rice.
00:42:39I mean, to me, that's kind of bland.
00:42:42If I thought I'm going to eat the same thing every meal, I wouldn't even be able to look at
00:42:46rice.
00:42:48So Allison's at the house right now.
00:42:51And, you know, I told you Allison's kind of bossy and a bully.
00:42:58So...
00:42:58If she's attitude sometimes, just ignore it and leave her alone, babe.
00:43:04I can handle it.
00:43:05You know how they got a...
00:43:07Chicken's got a pecking order, and one of them's a boss hen.
00:43:09And the boss, the meanest hen that tells everybody what to do, I think you're a boss hen at the
00:43:14Philippines, ain't you?
00:43:16One of my daughters, Allison, she lives beside me with her children, and she's a total daddy's girl.
00:43:23And she's also made it known that she's not going to let Annabelle get between her and her dad.
00:43:31You know, it's going to be tricky.
00:43:32I'm a little bit, you know, a little nervous about how to handle all of it.
00:43:36You know, it's liable to get kind of rough.
00:43:40It's in the neighborhood by our house.
00:43:43I spoke Allison on the video call many times.
00:43:49I feel like that she...
00:43:53Uh, competition to her dad with me.
00:43:56See the red reflectors? That's my driveway, though.
00:44:00So, I'm nervous to meet her in person.
00:44:05Grab your purse. I'll just come back and get the bags in a little bit.
00:44:08Okay.
00:44:09And we can go on in and see the house, baby.
00:44:11Okay.
00:44:14Yeah, so that Allison's is over here, babe.
00:44:18Man, we got the gate that keeps the dogs in.
00:44:21Mm-hmm.
00:44:21Storage out there, babe.
00:44:23Okay.
00:44:24That's how you open that gate.
00:44:26Wow.
00:44:28Mm-hmm.
00:44:29Big house.
00:44:32Got your front porch.
00:44:39Oh, hey, guys.
00:44:41Oh, you better.
00:44:42Come on.
00:44:42Come on.
00:44:43Call me, Belle's here.
00:44:45Oh.
00:44:47Cruz, look at her.
00:44:49Cruz, look at her.
00:44:50Cruz, look at her.
00:44:51Stop.
00:44:53Calm down.
00:44:54It's so good to see you.
00:44:55Cruz.
00:44:56Call me, Cruz.
00:44:59I'm going to be so good.
00:45:00River.
00:45:01I mean, Cruz, just call me, Belle.
00:45:03Calm down.
00:45:03Can you give her hugs?
00:45:06No.
00:45:07Say hi.
00:45:08Say hi.
00:45:10Cruz, you believe Mommy Belle's here?
00:45:13Huh?
00:45:13Yeah.
00:45:15Well, I don't know.
00:45:15Welcome to your new house.
00:45:16I don't know.
00:45:17The kids kind of made a mess, but it wasn't like this
00:45:20when I left for St. Louis, I promise you.
00:45:24What?
00:45:25Oh, River.
00:45:26River.
00:45:27Your daughter's around to open the house.
00:45:30River.
00:45:31Yeah, she does that.
00:45:32River.
00:45:32Stop.
00:45:34Hi.
00:45:36Cruz, chill.
00:45:40When I walk in, I can't believe that it's a mess inside.
00:45:45Everywhere, the hair dogs everywhere.
00:45:48And oh, my God.
00:45:50I didn't expect this.
00:45:53It's all crazy here.
00:45:55I can't believe this.
00:45:58Mama!
00:45:59Well, she already laughed.
00:46:02Oh, baby.
00:46:12We're going out.
00:46:14It's a beautiful day.
00:46:16Let's see.
00:46:17Paula's flight is on time.
00:46:19She's halfway here.
00:46:20Only like three more hours.
00:46:23Sweet.
00:46:32The only thing this table is missing is my fiancee right here on the other side.
00:46:37That's the dream, baby.
00:46:39I want to, I want to, I want to hold up to this electric field.
00:46:49This is a little gluten-free cake I like to make for myself.
00:46:52This has beef tallow in it, so Paula probably won't be able to eat it.
00:46:56She'll probably refuse to eat it.
00:46:58Paula arrives today, and I can't believe it.
00:47:00We first met seven years ago, and we've gone through such a journey to get to this day.
00:47:07I want to show Paula how much I love her.
00:47:10I'm putting together rice, beans, tofu, and then I'll surprise her at the airport with a nice warm lunch,
00:47:15because I know she didn't get anything on the flight over here.
00:47:19It's going to be a big adjustment.
00:47:21I mean, we love each other, but we are total opposites in almost every way imaginable.
00:47:30So now, here's for the special ingredients.
00:47:35It's a pega, which means to grab, and then esposa, which means wife.
00:47:40So it means literally, like, take hold of your wife, as in, like, the spice is meant to persuade your
00:47:47wife that you're good at cooking.
00:47:49So anyways, hopefully it works.
00:47:50Hopefully that magic works for Paula here.
00:47:55I'm worried how this is going to pan out.
00:47:57I have no idea which direction this is going to go for us, but right now, I'm just trying to
00:48:02focus on her being here in America.
00:48:06And I want to make sure that this is a really memorable experience for her when she first gets here.
00:48:11All right.
00:48:13Chocolates.
00:48:15My welcome flag for my Brazilian.
00:48:37This is a trip I'm so familiar with.
00:48:39I've done this so many times.
00:48:41One time when I dropped Paula off, one of the flight attendants said something that hit me so hard.
00:48:46She said, why are you letting her leave by herself?
00:48:49And today, finally, I'm picking her up with no drop-off date.
00:48:54We finally get to build our life and be together forever.
00:49:05Are we strong enough?
00:49:08Can we make the cut?
00:49:12Can we cross the finish line?
00:49:17Make it out in time.
00:49:20Can we pass the bar?
00:49:23Can we make the grade?
00:49:26She sent me, like, the little instructions they gave her, and they said, this is a one-way visa.
00:49:32You either get married or you leave immediately.
00:49:35So I am ready.
00:49:38I am.
00:49:39It's shocking to hear them speak like that.
00:49:41But, yeah, this is it.
00:49:42It's now or never.
00:49:51We can't do anything.
00:49:56We can't be anyone.
00:49:59Oh, my God.
00:50:01Welcome to my city.
00:50:07Welcome.
00:50:38Welcome to my city.
00:50:42Thanks, amor.
00:50:43The universe has chosen you.
00:50:45But I don't think this is just manifestation.
00:50:48I put in a lot of work for this day to happen.
00:50:51Like, thanks, Thomas, for all the things you did to me.
00:50:56You did my K1 visa.
00:50:57You did all the documents and all the process.
00:51:01And I'm here because of you.
00:51:03But God first.
00:51:04Oh, my God.
00:51:04I love you so much.
00:51:07Are you hungry?
00:51:08Yes.
00:51:09OK.
00:51:10Guess what's in here?
00:51:13I don't know.
00:51:13Water?
00:51:14No.
00:51:15Feijão.
00:51:16It's beans.
00:51:17And look, I made tofu and rice.
00:51:19But where do I eat this?
00:51:21Here?
00:51:22We'll find a place.
00:51:24Who put a bean in a coffee bottle, Thomas?
00:51:28No, so it'll stay warm.
00:51:29Smell that.
00:51:31Mm, good.
00:51:33Mm.
00:51:33Can I drink the bean?
00:51:34You want to drink it?
00:51:36I'm hungry.
00:51:47Delicious.
00:51:49Nailed it.
00:51:54Oh, they are there.
00:51:56I have a bad news.
00:51:57The pink one is all broken.
00:52:01Jeez.
00:52:02Oh, my God.
00:52:02You weren't even kidding.
00:52:05So what did you pack that's...
00:52:07I packed clothes.
00:52:08Breaking this bag so bad.
00:52:10I packed clothes.
00:52:10Did you pack any tiny stuff in here?
00:52:12Yes.
00:52:13Jeez.
00:52:14I think you might have a problem.
00:52:16Like, I don't...
00:52:17Where does it stop?
00:52:18Like, how many tiny things do you need?
00:52:20They are all tools to help me, to help us, to be exactly where we are right now.
00:52:26This is an addiction that she's...
00:52:28That's gotten out of control and she's trying to find a business justification by saying,
00:52:33This is the core of success for my business and my aspirations in life.
00:52:38I'm gonna be excited to see what the IRS says when you start reporting your receipts for tiny stuff and
00:52:43say it's a business expense.
00:52:44Well, Mr. Uncle Sam, I've been manifesting quite a bit with all these purchases I have of tiny stuff.
00:52:52So they're tax deductible.
00:52:53Please, please, please make that case.
00:52:56I would love to see how your audit goes.
00:53:00Okay?
00:53:01Okay, let's go.
00:53:04Thanks, Amor.
00:53:05Here we go.
00:53:06You look handsome and you look stronger, so it's easy for you, right?
00:53:09You like to show your muscles.
00:53:32I bring a car in the parking.
00:53:36We must go.
00:53:44Ayrılık zamanı geldi ailem.
00:53:48Tamam.
00:53:52Hadi, let's go.
00:54:08When I think goodbye to my family, yeah, this is not good for me because I am very sad.
00:54:22And when we will come back again, I don't know.
00:54:32Yeah.
00:54:39When I have a girlfriend, I will keep working.
00:54:42See you next time.
00:54:43See you next time.
00:54:46Thank you, Fatiha.
00:54:52Bye bye!
00:54:52Hey Malori!
00:54:53See you next time.
00:54:55Bye bye!
00:54:57See you next time.
00:55:05I was a small child.
00:55:08I grew up with a small child.
00:55:10I always had a small child.
00:55:12I loved a small child.
00:55:15He grew up with a small child.
00:55:20It's not fun.
00:55:23It's my love.
00:55:40Let's go.
00:55:46Let's go.
00:55:54We'll meet you.
00:55:56Let's go.
00:56:06When I see Rasha's mom, Anae, crying and sobbing, it just tears me apart because the reason
00:56:17why he's leaving everything behind is for me.
00:56:22And I definitely am feeling a lot of pressure now when it comes to bringing him to America,
00:56:28and I'm just hoping that we're not making a huge mistake.
00:57:17I'm just hoping that we're not making a huge mistake.
00:57:19I'm just hoping that we're not making a huge mistake.
00:57:23I'm hoping that we're not making a huge mistake.
00:57:31As I'm waiting at the airport for Mito, I know that his flight is landed because I can
00:57:37see on the board and the luggage coming through, but I'm not even sure if he even got on the
00:57:42plane.
00:57:44At this point, I'm just hoping that he got caught up in customs or immigration.
00:57:48I'm not ready to give up hope just yet.
00:57:51I'm not ready to give up hope just yet.
00:57:54I'm not ready to give up hope just yet.
00:58:20I'm not ready to give up.
00:58:30I thought you'd learn on the plane.
00:58:47Nito, why did you decide to surprise Debbie?
00:58:50I want to surprise Debbie because she didn't look,
00:58:54she didn't see me for a longer time,
00:58:56and I want to play with her.
00:58:59And I wanted to strangle him.
00:59:03But it's okay, I'm here now.
00:59:05I'm here.
00:59:08You can't touch.
00:59:11Yeah, yeah.
00:59:15Welcome to US.
00:59:18Welcome.
00:59:23I'm here.
00:59:26In US.
00:59:28And inshallah, I will be the famous actor here in US.
00:59:33You want me to act something?
00:59:34Yes.
00:59:35Okay.
00:59:37I'm going to make offer.
00:59:40He can't refuse.
00:59:44You talking to me?
00:59:46You talking to me?
00:59:49I will be back.
00:59:54If you read history, nothing is possible in this life.
00:59:58You can do anything.
00:59:59I'm here now, so I think that's time to catch my dream.
01:00:03And of course, I'm also here to marry my fiancée, Debbie.
01:00:08I thought you weren't on the plane.
01:00:11Really?
01:00:13I was literally in the bathroom throwing up because I was so worried.
01:00:20She gave me good kiss with flavor vomit.
01:00:25No, I had mouthwash.
01:00:26No.
01:00:27No, I had mouthwash.
01:00:31I was just, hmm.
01:00:34What's that?
01:00:36Okay.
01:00:37Yeah, it was not a fun surprise.
01:00:39It was not a fun surprise.
01:00:41It's a fun surprise.
01:00:42No.
01:00:43Did you inform Wallace Mesh and Tom Cruise I'm here?
01:00:47I did, but they didn't respond.
01:00:56Let's go.
01:00:57Let's go.
01:01:04All I know at this point is that his plane has arrived.
01:01:07I'm nervous.
01:01:08Like, in the weirdest way, I'm so nervous.
01:01:12I don't know if I want to give this single, independent woman part of me up.
01:01:18But I want to take this leap of faith for us.
01:01:28Your name on my arm.
01:01:31Now we're in forever.
01:01:33It's just what I wanted.
01:01:37To make it together.
01:01:39I am taking the last few moments of my life in peace and quiet before the chaos starts.
01:01:46I woke up in the middle of the night.
01:01:49It's like 2 o'clock in the morning.
01:01:50And I just, like, said, oh, my God.
01:01:53This is, like, the last night I'm going to be sleeping in my big, beautiful bed alone.
01:01:58And I kind of had a mini panic attack in the middle of the night.
01:02:15So I'm going to make a little present for Edward because I wanted to make sure that Edward feels welcomed
01:02:23when he comes to the United States.
01:02:24And, you know, I'm not the type that's going to show up to the airport with balloons, a big, like,
01:02:28welcome to the U.S. sign or, like, stuffed animals and stuff.
01:02:31So I thought a nice gesture would be to, like, get a house key and wrap it in a little
01:02:36box so he has, like, you know, something to open, something to be excited about.
01:02:40And then it's like, surprise, you have a key to a new home.
01:02:44Does the key work?
01:02:46Well, the key doesn't actually work because everything in my entry system is digital, but it's the meaning behind the
01:02:54key.
01:02:54It's not necessarily that it has to work.
01:02:56It's just, like, now you're a part of this house.
01:03:00I never get nervous to see Edward.
01:03:03Like, this is a strange feeling for me.
01:03:05This day has been a long time coming.
01:03:08We started the process over a year ago, and I cannot believe that we are about to embark on our
01:03:1390 days together.
01:03:26We always had this, like, dream of, like, living together and having this beautiful future together.
01:03:34But I don't know if I want to give this, you know, single, independent woman part of me up.
01:03:40And so, like, it's been a struggle back and forth with my feelings.
01:03:44But I love Edward so much that I want to take this leap of faith for us.
01:03:53All I know at this point is that his plane has arrived.
01:03:57I'm really just, like, in a waiting game right now, like, waiting for him to, like, show up in those
01:04:01doors.
01:04:06I don't know.
01:04:07I don't even, like, believe that he's going to walk through the doors.
01:04:09I don't really think that this is happening.
01:04:11And I'm also, like, nervous.
01:04:14Like, in, like, the weirdest way.
01:04:16I'm so nervous.
01:04:32I don't know.
01:04:49Wait, is it really here?
01:04:51No.
01:04:54You're really here.
01:04:56I know, I know, I know.
01:04:57I feel as if they're there.
01:05:00My name is Edward, and I'm from the Dominican Republic.
01:05:04So I've never been outside my country before.
01:05:06This is my first time in an airplane.
01:05:08So I was open the window all the time,
01:05:11and everybody was like, like, what the is this guy?
01:05:15Like, close the window, you know?
01:05:16But nobody say nothing, you know?
01:05:18There was a lady, she say, like, can you please, like,
01:05:22close the window because the light, and I was like,
01:05:24oh, okay, I'm sorry, I didn't know this.
01:05:26That's your first time, fine?
01:05:27And I say, yes.
01:05:28And I say, si, I see.
01:05:30That's what she said.
01:05:32Oh, I can't believe that we are together.
01:05:35Finally.
01:05:37Oh.
01:05:41I'm excited to show them New York a lot,
01:05:43because, like, that's such an iconic city.
01:05:47It's going to be amazing.
01:05:50And Edward, what are you excited to show Marissa?
01:05:54Oh, I have something new.
01:05:56It's brand new.
01:05:59And the lady next to me, she said, you pee a lot.
01:06:01And I was like, yes.
01:06:03I was not.
01:06:04I was, you check everything, see everything is okay.
01:06:05Like, yeah, everything is fine.
01:06:09Oh, I have to give you something.
01:06:13Oh, no.
01:06:15Well, I had a ribbon on it, but it fell off.
01:06:17Oh, thank you.
01:06:18That's for me?
01:06:18This is your Welcome to America gift.
01:06:20Oh, for you?
01:06:21I need to open now?
01:06:22Yes.
01:06:23Oh, thanks.
01:06:29It's the key to your new home.
01:06:33Oh, thank you.
01:06:34Aw.
01:06:35That's so sweet.
01:06:38And this is for me to lose you or something like this?
01:06:40I suppose it would be like this?
01:06:41No, I just put it on.
01:06:45For the past two years, we've really been through a lot.
01:06:48Sometimes I think maybe going through the K-1 visa process
01:06:51is, like, intentional just to see if your relationship
01:06:54can endure the hardest moments.
01:06:56Like, so we appreciate now being together in this moment
01:07:00just because, like, it's been a long time waiting.
01:07:04And to have Edward here now just feels like probably
01:07:07one of the best days in our relationship so far.
01:07:16You're here.
01:07:17I know.
01:07:24I haven't.
01:07:28Oh, yeah, the dogs are happy.
01:07:30Oh, yeah.
01:07:30Fargo?
01:07:32No.
01:07:32I go down.
01:07:33Come over and see Annabelle.
01:07:35I go.
01:07:36Welcome to dog hair land.
01:07:49Come on, baby, let's look at the house.
01:07:51OK.
01:07:52Here's the kitchen.
01:07:53OK.
01:07:53And it's got toys all over it, too.
01:07:55Mm-hm.
01:07:56Yeah, uh-huh.
01:07:57Look how big the fridge is here, man, compared to.
01:08:00Fridge in the Philippines.
01:08:02Compared to yours.
01:08:03Dining room, baby.
01:08:04Oh, looks dirty.
01:08:06That's the oven, baby.
01:08:07You've never used an oven.
01:08:09But that's where you'll bake and.
01:08:12You never used an oven before?
01:08:13Oh, I didn't have a oven in the Philippines.
01:08:15Was it?
01:08:16They just use cooktops with gas.
01:08:18So she never used an electric top, either.
01:08:20So I'll have to show you.
01:08:22Oh, nice.
01:08:24Oh, my God.
01:08:27American home is so different from Philippines.
01:08:30It's so big.
01:08:32And she has oven in the kitchen.
01:08:35And I never had that in the Philippines.
01:08:38I like this kitchen a lot.
01:08:40You should see all the clothes Dad got you in the closet
01:08:43in his room.
01:08:44Oh, yeah, it's in the bedroom.
01:08:45We'll go look.
01:08:46Yeah.
01:08:47All right.
01:08:48Come here.
01:08:49And this is laundry.
01:08:49I'll show you in a minute.
01:08:50And here's our bedroom.
01:08:52Uh-huh.
01:08:53Hello.
01:08:55It's kind of big, like the one we stayed in last night,
01:08:57right, babe?
01:08:57Yeah.
01:08:58See the deer?
01:08:59Mm-hmm.
01:09:00All four corners.
01:09:02Oh, my God.
01:09:05Hi.
01:09:07Babe, this is a light, babe.
01:09:11There are so many dead animals in the room.
01:09:13Why there's so many dead animals?
01:09:17It looks weird, the deer, with eyes and the horn.
01:09:21Oh, my gosh.
01:09:23Against Kentucky, babe.
01:09:24Have you ever heard of a redneck?
01:09:26Nope.
01:09:27Well, I used to be a redneck.
01:09:30Still worried.
01:09:31Yeah.
01:09:33Fish, I caught in Florida.
01:09:35Uh-huh.
01:09:36I think they're gonna watch us how you're having sex.
01:09:41We'll put a towel over their head.
01:09:43How about that?
01:09:46There's your speaker, babe.
01:09:49Uh-huh.
01:09:50Nike shorts.
01:09:52Here's your bull of a watch.
01:09:54Oh, yeah.
01:09:56And then, here's your diamond earrings.
01:09:58Mm-hmm.
01:09:59Look at those, babe.
01:10:00Wow, it looks like diamond.
01:10:03They are diamond earrings, babe.
01:10:06Here's your chain you wanted.
01:10:08See how it fits.
01:10:09Mm-hmm.
01:10:12Ooh.
01:10:16Oh, yeah.
01:10:16It looks really good, babe.
01:10:18I like that a lot.
01:10:19It looks pretty.
01:10:22I'm a little shocked that my dad got Annabelle so many gifts, honestly.
01:10:25All the jewelry and stuff.
01:10:27He does not give me stuff like that, so I was a little caught off guard by that.
01:10:33You don't ever buy me anything like that?
01:10:35Are you getting plenty?
01:10:37I don't get no jewelry.
01:10:40I told my dad before she got here, if I feel like I'm in competition, then I'm sticking
01:10:47with those.
01:10:47They don't need to get married, and she needs to go back.
01:10:51Yeah.
01:10:56All right.
01:10:56Well, kids are getting cranky, so we're probably going to head on home.
01:11:00Can we get a couple of dollars?
01:11:03Here you go.
01:11:05Say thanks.
01:11:05Y'all can get you a biscuit in the morning before church.
01:11:08All right.
01:11:09Well, see you later.
01:11:10OK.
01:11:11Bye, guys.
01:11:13Whew.
01:11:14God.
01:11:16Well, because she probably didn't have any cash, and the kids, Sunday morning, they're
01:11:29probably just going to go get biscuits and stuff.
01:11:32She lives over there, baby.
01:11:37She pays.
01:11:39No, she doesn't pay any rent.
01:11:42Why?
01:11:43I mean, I just single mom.
01:11:46I mean, she's separated, and I just never have made her pay rent.
01:11:50Sounds like a free house.
01:11:54She grown a woman already.
01:11:57I understand that, but it's also my daughter.
01:12:01It should be the children taking care of the parents, not the parents who are taking care of the children.
01:12:28It's just a few dollars just to get some biscuits for the kids. I mean, just don't let it bother
01:12:33you.
01:12:36It's so weird how close Shay and Alison, because she's grown already. She asking money for her, and she always
01:12:45asking a favor.
01:12:49I don't want to be an evil stepmom, but this needs to change.
01:12:55She's a troublemaker, you know. I'm not happy about that.
01:13:02And baby, you know, when I be there, I don't work. If my mom call me like, Rashid, can you
01:13:10send me like 10,000 Turkish Lira?
01:13:14People think Americans are so rich.
01:13:16But my parents need help.
01:13:19I don't make that much money.
01:13:22Aye.
01:13:46No time.
01:13:55That's it.
01:13:56You're driving like an asshole.
01:13:58Baby, you know.
01:14:00In America, your government don't give me work.
01:14:04Six months or one year.
01:14:07Can I see your government?
01:14:10President?
01:14:12President.
01:14:14Donald Trump?
01:14:16Donald Trump?
01:14:18Donald Trump?
01:14:19Donald Trump, famous in Turkey, dance for dance.
01:14:24Yeah, the dance, the Trump dance.
01:14:26Yeah.
01:14:27Just knock on the White House door and say, hello, give me my work visa.
01:14:30Yeah.
01:14:31No, you can't do that.
01:14:33Really?
01:14:33Yeah, you can't.
01:14:35iterating.inhae.
01:14:44How are you
01:14:45feeling? I just felt
01:14:47right there. It's not
01:14:49easy, but I don't know what you're feeling at all.
01:14:53I mean, you have to leave this beautiful place to live in Alabama, you know?
01:15:07Yes, ma'am.
01:15:08Nothing that feels.
01:15:11Everything is for you, you know this.
01:15:13Yeah, I know, babe.
01:15:20So after saying goodbye to his family, our family, last night, we are now on our way to head to
01:15:28the airport and start our one of many airplane rides to America.
01:15:35Ready?
01:15:38I don't know.
01:15:43Baby, you know, when I be there, I don't work.
01:15:47I can't work.
01:15:49For a little bit, yeah.
01:15:52When I be there, I feel like pool.
01:15:55No.
01:15:55But I don't want to be this.
01:16:06And my brothers ask me, how you help mom, dad?
01:16:29But I am nervous to talk with Mallory about money.
01:16:37If after six months or three months, like, my mom called me, like, Rashid, can you send me, like, 10
01:16:47,000 Turkish lira?
01:16:49Maybe you will say, oh, like, your family, like, very poor.
01:16:54Maybe you will say this.
01:16:55But you have to ask me, we have to talk about it, because, you know, I have my mortgage.
01:17:01Yeah.
01:17:03I have, you know, my car payment right now.
01:17:06I have, you know, the bills.
01:17:09You can't just say yes.
01:17:14Why are you just now telling me that we're going to have to send money back?
01:17:23We talk with brothers about help, about money, like.
01:17:28Yeah, exactly.
01:17:29Sometimes people think, like, oh, Americans are so rich.
01:17:33But my parents need help.
01:17:53That's not how that works.
01:17:55I don't make that much money.
01:18:00Yeah, I know that.
01:18:02I mean, you can help, baby, but you don't want to help.
01:18:06I feel this.
01:18:07Of course I want to help your parents.
01:18:11It's not about that.
01:18:12I don't think you understand how much things cost in America.
01:18:16You haven't lived with me.
01:18:17You don't see what comes in and goes out.
01:18:20I mean, as soon as I get paid, boom, my money is gone.
01:18:23You say this, but I feel like...
01:18:29Oh, I'm sorry you feel that way.
01:18:31You made me this.
01:18:42Next time on 90 Day Fiancé.
01:18:46You said this was different, but where's the difference?
01:18:49I cleaned it up.
01:18:51This is a single-man house.
01:18:54I'll clean out these bags, but you just got to put your clothes in here.
01:18:58This is so tiny, Thomas.
01:18:59Are you crazy?
01:19:00You are treating me as a guest here.
01:19:02Are you really want to marry me?
01:19:04If Thomas doesn't start to accommodate me here,
01:19:07I have no problem to go back.
01:19:10I think it's going to take, like, a couple months for you to...
01:19:12Months? No.
01:19:13Maximum seven days.
01:19:19I think that's her pulling up.
01:19:23Oh, my God.
01:19:24Back-to-back world change.
01:19:27Very hot for me.
01:19:29Adjust your culture.
01:19:31I am American?
01:19:33Yeah.
01:19:34Oh, my God.
01:19:36I am here.
01:19:38Who is?
01:19:41It's Brandon.
01:19:42He's coming right now?
01:19:43Yeah.
01:19:44Really?
01:19:45What?
01:19:46This is very bull****.
01:19:48This is my house, and I am both here.
01:19:52What up?
01:19:53About time.
01:19:57Yes, Lord.
01:19:57In the mighty name of Jesus, hundred and both shitha,
01:20:00with the power of God right now.
01:20:03My friend, Patricia, she's a prophetess.
01:20:11She's been given prophetic words, and not once heaven not came to pass.
01:20:16I think, you know, a visitation will be good.
01:20:18We have to come together and be as one.
01:20:20It's necessary.
01:20:21It's vital that I go to Nigeria.
01:20:24God is going to turn this thing around for the good.
01:20:26Good damn.
01:20:27Good damn.