00:00I'm building my polygynous kingdom with my two queens and my three kids.
00:04This is my first wife, and this is my second wife.
00:09A real man only needs one spouse.
00:12What would grandma think about this situation?
00:14Therapy for all, especially for the children.
00:17How did you feel when I told you that we have a second wife?
00:23Do you want any fruit, Yahweh, with your chicken and waffle?
00:27I'm Yahweh Kenanaya.
00:28I'm Yahweh Majesty.
00:30And I am Yahweh Rolesee.
00:32And we are poly parents with three kids.
00:35And they're all named Yahweh.
00:36Yahweh the ruler is the firstborn.
00:38He's three years old, and then the twins, we have Yahweh Yahweh, and we have Ba'i Yahweh.
00:45And they're both two years old.
00:48I would describe my relationship as oneness.
00:51As far as like a label, I would just say religion-y.
00:54You know, it's one man, one king, and multiple women.
00:57I think with polyamory, it's more open to more than one male, or maybe more than one female.
01:04I like the concept of one man, one king, and then multiple women.
01:10It gets the job done, you know.
01:15Who cooks the best?
01:16Mom or Yahweh's mom?
01:17Who cooks?
01:18Um, yeah, mom.
01:19Hey!
01:20What's up?
01:21Majesty is a shelf, so she has a very delicious place.
01:28We both chefs.
01:29Yes!
01:30Majesty and I have been together for over 15 years now.
01:35We met through high school.
01:37It was pretty much high school sweethearts, and pretty much love at first sight.
01:41Yeah, it's been a while, yeah.
01:43Long time coming.
01:45When you met Kananiyah, how did you feel about dating a married man?
01:51Well, at first, I didn't know he was married.
01:55I was talking to him when I was seeing him online.
01:58I met Yahweh's royalty through Snapchat.
02:01He told me about polygamy, and I didn't know what it was.
02:04I just had to go on dictionary.com and see what it is.
02:08Did Yahweh's Majesty know from the start about royalty?
02:13No, she didn't know from the start.
02:15I didn't tell her right away, simply because I tried to build a connection first with the person
02:21to see, like, okay, now I can tell them it's a good time now.
02:25When he told me that he was dating someone, my first reaction was, you know, of course I wanted to
02:32know who.
02:33Here you go, Yahweh.
02:34And here is Yahweh's place.
02:37What do you want to sit, Yahweh?
02:40Oh, you're welcome.
02:43So I moved in officially after two years of dating.
02:47A lot of men, you know, that haven't done it or haven't tried this type of lifestyle should try it.
02:52Especially if we have children, it's definitely a benefit because of teamwork.
02:56The male figure as a role model, then you have two queens, two mothers to be a role model.
03:02Don't get no better than that.
03:04Put together the cards that match.
03:06Find all the ones that match.
03:08The dinosaurs.
03:09Good job.
03:10You see?
03:11Alright.
03:11I would say my parenting style would be more so discipline, yeah.
03:16Discipline.
03:18Structure.
03:19Structure.
03:20Organized.
03:20Just making sure that the children are, you know, well-mannered.
03:25I definitely believe it's important to be the strong male role model in the house.
03:30As a man, as a father, we have a duty and a responsibility to uphold and keep.
03:36It's very important to spend time with my son because I'm his role model, you know.
03:42I'm his hero.
03:43He look up to me.
03:44I'm trying to raise him up to be a righteous man.
03:49A righteous Yahweh man.
03:51Even though I am the leader, I lead in the household as a man, but they also have opinions too.
03:57You know, I ask them.
03:58I do consult with them and, you know, ask them questions sometimes because, honestly,
04:02we all new to parenting, you know, all through.
04:08What is it like when you all are out in public together?
04:11Do you get stares or any type of awkward comments or anything?
04:14When we're out in public, it's like, we get a lot of stares.
04:17We got people that may be like, you know, guys.
04:19Like, they make a good time.
04:20How do you plan on explaining to the kids about the family dynamic as they get older?
04:25Pretty much we're going to keep everything the same because we all share the same name,
04:30so we always will be family.
04:32All right, so we're about to read a couple comments real quick.
04:34First one, they say,
04:36Seems wrong, just a bunch of sick, nasty people.
04:40I wouldn't ever say that about nobody, you know.
04:42I don't care what their dynamic is.
04:44Love is love.
04:45To each his own.
04:46A real man only needs one spouse.
04:50Anything extra is jealousy.
04:52If that's their lifestyle, they want to be monogamous, that's cool, you know.
04:56To each his own.
04:56What would grandma think about this situation?
04:59Therapy for all, especially for the children.
05:02We can't normalize everything.
05:05Oh, wow.
05:06My grandma would say,
05:08As long as you're happy, baby, I'm happy for you.
05:10Yeah.
05:11Okay, grandma.
05:12Right.
05:13You don't have to agree with it, but just respect it at the end of the day.
05:16The beautiful thing about our children is that they didn't have to come into a situation
05:21to where they had to adjust.
05:23They were born into the lifestyle.
05:26Like we was there from the beginning, all three of us.
05:29So as their parents, we're all they know.
05:31Yes.
05:32That's true.
05:32That's true.
05:33How did your family and friends react to the news that you would be raising a family all together?
05:38They didn't like believe that I will be in this type of relationship or stay in this type of relationship.
05:45But they are very surprised.
05:48It was more so trying to understand the dynamics because it's not what most people are used to.
05:58I love you.
06:00So good to see y'all.
06:01It's been a minute.
06:02Yes.
06:03About a year, right?
06:04All the kids.
06:07How did you feel when I told you that we have a second wife?
06:11You know, you explained it to me, but my first reaction was just like,
06:15I'm not really sure about the topic myself.
06:18My lifestyle don't don't go with that.
06:20So it was just like something new.
06:22So I just want to make sure like how you felt about it.
06:25Did you ever feel any type of jealousy bringing royalty into your guys relationship?
06:30No, it wasn't any jealousy for us.
06:33Like it was just new, like something different.
06:36Just an adjustment.
06:37She also had to adjust to us.
06:39So just adjustments, but nothing.
06:41No, no jealousy because you can't be in this type of relationship and be jealous.
06:47I guess when we first was together, like, what did you think about me?
06:51I thought that you was very nice.
06:53You were sweet.
06:53Just the same characteristics how my sister is.
06:56It's like y'all was very, very similar.
06:59Just like a best friend or somebody that just, you just get to live with them.
07:04I definitely didn't feel like you was a home wrecker.
07:06You can't win a home.
07:07No.
07:08You invited into the home.
07:09And even though it's different, it's working for you guys and that's what matters to me.
07:14What do you hope the future holds for your family?
07:16I would say the future will hold more love, you know, more understanding.
07:22Possibly another queen, you know, we'll see.
07:25It just depends, you know, how things go.
07:28Royalty and Majesty, would you guys be open to another wife?
07:31Yes, definitely.
07:33What would you say to people who question the way you do things as a family?
07:38I would say if you don't like it, do it better.
07:42Polygamy is not traditional.
07:43It's not like a traditional thing.
07:45It's completely like unorthodox.
07:48What people may see or what people may think about, you know, the sex and all this stuff.
07:53Nah, it's all about family and just lead them up the right way so they can have multiple role models
07:58in the house.
07:59A lot of us have been taught that we're supposed to be jealous of our sister.
08:03I'm here to say no.
08:04You have to genuinely want for your sister what you want for yourself.
08:08You don't have to compete when you're one.
08:13So Augie is what you're doing, too.
08:14I'm Mangie.
08:16You can tell me.
08:21I am your sister.
08:21In
08:29You
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