90 Day Fiancé 2014 Season 12 Episode 1

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00:00:00USA! USA!

00:00:03Original U.S.

00:00:05Yes!

00:00:05Are you a redneck?

00:00:06Do I look like a redneck?

00:00:08Yeah.

00:00:09Two, one, go!

00:00:13Nervous? We're almost there.

00:00:14I'm excited to show you New York.

00:00:15I'm a little bit nervous, I don't know why.

00:00:17New York's an incredible big, you know, it's so huge.

00:00:20This is real.

00:00:22Hey, Bibi.

00:00:23Hi, Bibi.

00:00:25Handsome.

00:00:26My fiance's name is Rito, and he's an Egyptian movie star.

00:00:30You want me to act something?

00:00:32Yes.

00:00:32Okay.

00:00:34You talking to me?

00:00:35You talking to me?

00:00:38Hey, Shay!

00:00:39Hey, ladies.

00:00:40I don't tell my fiance, Annabelle, every single thing that goes on at the parties.

00:00:45I was in bed with you when you were with Annabelle.

00:00:52I want to.

00:00:55What the ?

00:00:56I'm giving Katie a lot of slack, and that's being straight in my face.

00:01:01This is bull .

00:01:05Only God can do it.

00:01:06He gonna bring my husband to the USA.

00:01:08There's still that stereotype of Nigerians' cameras, but God literally created this man for me.

00:01:16Thank you, Lord.

00:01:18So, we are getting married tomorrow.

00:01:21Are we?

00:01:21I have a choice.

00:01:22I just wanna go back to Brazil.

00:01:28At what point do you decide something that's just not meant to be?

00:01:34Something like...

00:01:35I'm worried I'll push them away by my actions.

00:01:40Since you got to the United States, everything in our relationship has changed.

00:01:43I don't know what that means.

00:01:44It means that I'm not ready to give you an answer, and I still need time.

00:01:48I just don't know who I am right now.

00:01:50I just wanna just be honest with me.

00:01:54Jesus Christ.

00:02:05So, Marissa's on her way right now.

00:02:07Okay, great.

00:02:07Her VIP appointment's good.

00:02:09Champagne, robe, charcuterie board.

00:02:10Everything is all set.

00:02:11You're the best.

00:02:15Yeah, so I'll be there in about 10 minutes.

00:02:19Ladies, how's it going?

00:02:20Just let her know we went ahead and built some ball gowns and A-lines to make a briser

00:02:23so we work on it later.

00:02:25Awesome.

00:02:25Noted.

00:02:25Thank you guys so much.

00:02:34Hey, Shay, good morning.

00:02:35Good morning, Marissa.

00:02:37I'm Marissa, I'm 45 years old, and I currently work as the Chief Operating Officer and Executive

00:02:42Vice President at Kleinfeld.

00:02:44Hello.

00:02:45How are you doing this morning?

00:02:46Good, thank you.

00:02:47How are you?

00:02:47Good, good.

00:02:48I can play.

00:02:48Tell me what's going on.

00:02:49Alright, so today, we have a kind of busy day.

00:02:51We have 41 appointments.

00:02:53We have four Lux appointments right now, and then starting at 2 o'clock, we have three

00:02:56Platinums.

00:02:57Alright.

00:02:59Kleinfeld Bridal is an iconic wedding salon here in New York City.

00:03:03We service almost 20,000 brides per year, and everybody makes it on their bucket list

00:03:08if they're a bride to come shop us.

00:03:09But you probably know us best because it's where they shoot the famous show Say Yes to the Dress.

00:03:14Just a reminder, your meeting is starting right now, so if you want to go and hop in that,

00:03:16I'll get you back.

00:03:17Perfect.

00:03:18Okay, I'll talk to you later.

00:03:19Thanks.

00:03:20I never get tired of hearing brides say yes.

00:03:23Is this possibly the one?

00:03:24This is the one.

00:03:27I'll be in another room, and the bride won't even see me, and I'll hear somebody have their

00:03:32yes moment, and I'll be like, you know, and they don't even see me or hear me, but it's

00:03:36just like a natural like, yay, they're saying yes.

00:03:40Congratulations.

00:03:40Enjoy your moment.

00:03:41We're going to get you some champagne.

00:03:42Thank you so much.

00:03:42Alright.

00:03:44But even though I work in Bridal, my love life isn't a fairy tale.

00:03:48I was married for six years before getting divorced, and divorce left me as a single mom

00:03:53of two boys in a very high powered career with a lot of stress, so it was really hard

00:03:59to find love in my life.

00:04:00That was until I took a girl's trip to the Dominican Republic, and I met Edward.

00:04:09I was probably initially attracted to his looks.

00:04:16Edward has great lips.

00:04:19He has a great butt.

00:04:21He was working in entertainment, a hotel that I was staying at on a girl's trip, and I just

00:04:26thought he was so cute and so friendly.

00:04:30He made me feel like a beautiful woman again.

00:04:35And it's something that I hadn't felt in a really long time.

00:04:38So when somebody ignites that feeling inside of you again, you really don't forget about

00:04:42them.

00:04:43So we had an instant connection, but I didn't see it going anywhere.

00:04:46An executive from New York meets a hotel entertainment worker.

00:04:50It just didn't seem like a likely match for us.

00:04:55What, are we having a hallway meeting in here?

00:04:57Always.

00:04:57Hallway meeting?

00:04:58Yeah, I know.

00:04:58Can I be a part of it?

00:05:00A little powwow.

00:05:01I have a question.

00:05:02Yes?

00:05:03Where is Mr. Edward?

00:05:04When is he coming?

00:05:05Oh, he's coming.

00:05:06I mean, I remember all this time.

00:05:07He's coming on Sunday.

00:05:10Sunday?

00:05:10Yeah.

00:05:10Oh.

00:05:11I know.

00:05:12It was about three years in between when we first met to when we reconnected.

00:05:19I was taking a trip to Punta Cana with my girlfriends.

00:05:22So I texted him.

00:05:25I was like, oh my God, I lost your number.

00:05:27I couldn't contact you.

00:05:29I didn't know your last name.

00:05:29I've tried every social media outlet possible.

00:05:32And he was like, I can't believe that you actually texted me just now.

00:05:35Wow.

00:05:36Ever since that date, we were pretty much in a solid relationship.

00:05:40It happened really quick.

00:05:41Edward and I were long distance for two years and I visited him in DR every six to eight

00:05:46weeks.

00:05:47But it made it really hard to balance being a single mom of two boys and managing a high

00:05:52stress career.

00:05:53So eventually we made it official.

00:06:00He said, you know, do you want me to get on one knee?

00:06:03And it's like, I don't really want to have to tell you to get on one knee.

00:06:06So I was like, don't worry about it.

00:06:13Working in bridal makes you a little numb to the whole bride experience.

00:06:17And then a lot of people at work said, are you crazy?

00:06:20Like you are just as much a bride as every other person that comes in here.

00:06:24And you need to celebrate yourself.

00:06:26I feel like a doll.

00:06:28You look like a doll.

00:06:29Perfect.

00:06:30And once I got used to that idea that like, yeah, I am getting married.

00:06:34This is a special time in my life.

00:06:35I kind of embrace being a bride.

00:06:37Marissa, are you saying yes to the bride?

00:06:41Yes!

00:06:41Woo!

00:06:45Oh, I was looking for you guys. Dorothy, Caitlin.

00:06:50Hi.

00:06:51How did it go?

00:06:51Good.

00:06:52Yeah, we love them.

00:06:53How fabulous.

00:06:54When am I going to see you again?

00:06:56I don't know.

00:06:57Wait, so he's coming this weekend?

00:06:59Yeah.

00:07:00Is he freaking out?

00:07:01I don't know if he's freaking out or if I'm more freaking out.

00:07:04I mean like, I have to teach him everything.

00:07:05This person on a plane.

00:07:06I know.

00:07:07Oh my God.

00:07:08He got his body ready.

00:07:10Did I tell you about that?

00:07:11No.

00:07:12He's going to kill me for telling you.

00:07:13So he decided that before he came to the United States, he wanted to get an adult circumcision.

00:07:20Oh my God.

00:07:22Edward, since the moment I met him, has always been interested in getting his penis circumcised.

00:07:28You had to have said something.

00:07:30I didn't.

00:07:31When you saw it, did you go, ugh?

00:07:33No, I didn't.

00:07:35I didn't.

00:07:37Maybe subconsciously, he thought that it was more culturally appropriate here in the United States.

00:07:43Like, what if he goes into a locker room with some men after the gym?

00:07:46And you know, who knows why he does the things that he does.

00:07:49But, I'm, let's just say that I'm happy that he did it.

00:07:53And then, he gets the surgery.

00:07:55Everything was fine.

00:07:56He's in a little bit of pain.

00:07:57A couple days later, when he wakes up in the morning, he, they expand a little.

00:08:03And his stitches fell out.

00:08:06So he ripped open his penis.

00:08:07He ripped open his incision.

00:08:08Oh my God.

00:08:09So he had to, like, go back to the doctor, get re-stitched.

00:08:12Is it hurt?

00:08:14He's gonna find out this weekend.

00:08:15I'm gonna get a text on Monday morning and say, how was it?

00:08:19How was it?

00:08:20I know.

00:08:20Which was it? Was it better this way or that way?

00:08:23Was there a concern that might look different or like, you know, cut the wrong piece or something like that?

00:08:30Yeah, a little bit.

00:08:31But the doctor gave him the full green light to let his penis work as normal.

00:08:36So we're gonna test that out when he gets here.

00:08:39At first, I was like, we're gonna get married as soon as you get to the United States.

00:08:42But now, like reality setting in and I'm like, I really think I need to take the full 90 days.

00:08:49So when Marissa first told me about Edward, I was kind of leery.

00:08:52I'm born and bred in Brooklyn, New York.

00:08:54And, you know, I know scammers all my life, believe me.

00:08:56You really got the golden ticket. Marissa is a very successful businesswoman.

00:09:01She has two beautiful kids. She has a home in Pennsylvania, an apartment in New York City.

00:09:06I think they're living a fairytale right now. And I think when reality hits, who knows?

00:09:10Sometimes I feel like I have real life problems, like real life.

00:09:14Yes, you do.

00:09:14I have job problems. I have kid problems.

00:09:17And like, you know, he tells me about his problems and I'm like, that's not a problem.

00:09:20Did nothing compared to you.

00:09:20Like, oh, a guest was complaining about something.

00:09:23And I don't want to feel like my life is so much more important than his.

00:09:26No, no, no.

00:09:26But in a way, like, I have a lot more at stake here.

00:09:32There's a saying that goes, I don't want you because I need you.

00:09:36I need you because I want you.

00:09:39Do I need to have a man in my life to carry on? No.

00:09:43Do I need a man in my life to give me financial support? No.

00:09:48And if I ultimately feel like the relationship is bringing me more stress or unhappiness,

00:09:54then I'm going to have to make a hard decision that I probably can't move forward with the marriage.

00:10:00You know Rome wasn't built in a day.

00:10:02Yeah, I know, I know.

00:10:03What can't it be built in like 90 days?

00:10:04Fuck.

00:10:04Oh, my God.

00:10:17Hello.

00:10:25To the marina, please.

00:10:27Okay.

00:10:32I put it in here?

00:10:33Yeah, I did.

00:10:33Okay, cool.

00:10:35My name's Mallory.

00:10:36I'm 29 years old and I live in Athens, Alabama.

00:10:39And how would you describe yourself?

00:10:42Ugh, I don't know.

00:10:43I don't like talking about myself.

00:10:45Basic white bitch.

00:10:48And if you can't tell already, I'm a long way from home.

00:11:02How are you?

00:11:03Good.

00:11:04I've been traveling for, I think, over 20 hours.

00:11:08I had some coffee on the plane.

00:11:10You know?

00:11:11Extra double shot, espresso type .

00:11:13So, yeah.

00:11:14I'm ready to rock and roll.

00:11:18Are you from America?

00:11:20Yes, I am.

00:11:21Yes.

00:11:21Which country?

00:11:22I live in Alabama.

00:11:24Oh.

00:11:26My hometown of Athens, Alabama is definitely your typical southern town, which is a little

00:11:31bit redneck.

00:11:32Well, kind of a lot of redneck.

00:11:34My friends and I love to get into some crazy things for fun.

00:11:49Yeah, involves a lot of drinking.

00:11:53Look at him go right there.

00:12:02Why you come here?

00:12:03My fiance is Turkish.

00:12:05He lives here with some of his family.

00:12:08And Rosh gets to come back with me to America this time around.

00:12:13Very excited.

00:12:14Yes, that's good.

00:12:16Rosh is my fiance.

00:12:18I call him Rosh because I cannot say his name correctly.

00:12:23He's Rosh.

00:12:24And he is from Marmaris, Turkey.

00:12:30Rosh is definitely on a scale of one to ten.

00:12:32He's a ten.

00:12:33I would place him higher than that, honestly.

00:12:35Yeah, my fiance is hot as .

00:12:37Let's be real.

00:12:39And I've come here to Turkey to bring my baby back to America

00:12:43because I'm not taking any chances with him having a hard time getting into America.

00:12:53We are the party.

00:12:59Let's go.

00:13:02My name is Rashid.

00:13:04I am 29 years old.

00:13:06I am from Marmaris, Turkey.

00:13:08I am captain.

00:13:14I am the captain of the Charter boat.

00:13:16I am a captain.

00:13:17The challenges are very big.

00:13:19The train to use the train,

00:13:20the tourists are a lot of fun.

00:13:24I really enjoyed it.

00:13:33You were standing in a beautiful place.

00:13:36Yes, this is a place where Cennet is.

00:13:41Marmaris is one of the best places.

00:13:42It is one of the best places.

00:13:43Yes, it is very nice.

00:13:47Marmaris is one of the best places.

00:13:49I will leave America as a place.

00:13:51I will leave America and go to America.

00:13:51That's why I am so sorry.

00:13:53I do not see Mallory Altay.

00:13:55I am very happy to see.

00:13:58She is for me very sexy.

00:14:01I love her heart first.

00:14:03And second, I don't like skin.

00:14:06And she is skinny.

00:14:10I don't like skinny.

00:14:12She is for me very good.

00:14:14Very perfect.

00:14:16Yeah, I can say this.

00:14:19When did you see your fiance last time?

00:14:22It's been six months.

00:14:25Six months.

00:14:25Six months since we've seen each other.

00:14:27Do you want to hug?

00:14:28Yes.

00:14:29Very much.

00:14:32Almost two years ago, I went to Greece for a girls' summer trip.

00:14:37And we had a wild time.

00:14:39And that's how I ended up meeting Rosh.

00:14:42One day, I am on the baths.

00:14:45I take my phone.

00:14:46And I saw Mallory like, who is this?

00:14:49I, red side, touch.

00:14:52What is this?

00:14:53Spike.

00:14:54I did spike.

00:14:55And after half hour, she spiked me and we match.

00:15:01Some dude that I just hung out with, he catched my drift afterwards.

00:15:06He French braided my hair.

00:15:07I was too blind to see.

00:15:10But I definitely planned on Rosh just being a one night stand and that I would go back

00:15:15to America and I would never hear from him again.

00:15:17And what happened?

00:15:18I guess Rosh just fell in love with me the minute he laid his eyes on me.

00:15:23Baby, I'm a girl, Rosh.

00:15:28Will you marry me?

00:15:33What?

00:15:36Will you marry me?

00:15:41She said yes.

00:15:42I start to cry and she hugged me and don't cry because I love you so much.

00:15:50I love you so much, Mallory.

00:16:03There are a lot of what ifs running through my mind right now.

00:16:06You know, what if he hates America?

00:16:10What if he hates Alabama?

00:16:13What if he has a horrible time trying to find a job?

00:16:16So I'm scared, but I'm really happy.

00:16:21You know, because this is the beginning of us never being apart ever again.

00:16:26Like we're closing that chapter of long distance in our relationship,

00:16:29which is something that I think is so beautiful.

00:16:31Keep on, keep on fighting.

00:16:35Keep on, keep on shining.

00:16:39My love!

00:16:42My love!

00:16:44I scribbled him!

00:16:46I scribbled him!

00:16:49Keep your light, keep your light shining.

00:16:55I want y'all to continue to pray for me

00:16:57because I know he's going to bring my husband to the USA.

00:16:59Don't mess us up!

00:17:00At the age of 12,

00:17:01I finally realized that God was speaking to me directly.

00:17:05He told me I will have a marriage.

00:17:08I was asking God, where's my husband?

00:17:11God said,

00:17:12Maka, Nigeria.

00:17:13Every prophetic word you spoke of my life is coming to pay!

00:17:17Thank you, Lord!

00:17:21Hey!

00:17:22That's a great glory was!

00:17:24Oh, yeah!

00:17:25If you live in Baruca, we probably met up, had a beer.

00:17:28You're always going to catch me having some fun.

00:17:30So you're saying you wouldn't give up all the partying for Annabelle?

00:17:34Do you think I would?

00:17:35No, I don't.

00:17:36In your opinion?

00:17:36Okay.

00:17:37I'm not, I'm not gonna.

00:17:40Jesus, take me to the higher ground.

00:17:43You lift me up and I am heaven.

00:17:49It's something she got in her spirit for God to do and the devil tell her it ain't gonna happen.

00:17:53But the Lord says he wants you to embrace her.

00:17:56Thank you, Lord.

00:17:56Because that anointing of the breaking.

00:17:58Thank you, Lord.

00:17:58That's what I need you for.

00:18:00That anointing of the breaking.

00:18:02Hey!

00:18:21I'm Aisha Montgomery.

00:18:23I'm 38 years old and I'm from Alabaster, Alabama.

00:18:26That's Jesus' name you pray.

00:18:28Thank you, Lord.

00:18:29I am Pentecostal.

00:18:31You know, you have other churches where you're gonna sing hymns or there's more to do, you know.

00:18:36But in my church, we get down.

00:18:39You got all that money and you still man.

00:18:42You got the mansion and you still ain't happy.

00:18:46But my church is in the Lord.

00:18:49Thank you, God.

00:18:51As a Pentecostal, we believe the entire Bible, so we still believe people do miracles.

00:18:56And God gives everybody a gift.

00:18:58And God has given me multiple gifts.

00:19:03I feel like I'm a little blessed.

00:19:05Glory!

00:19:06At the age of 12, I was just in a store and I remember God stopping me and he said,

00:19:14listen.

00:19:15So I'm in the middle of the store and I'm just listening to the music.

00:19:19And then the Holy Spirit said, this will be the next song that comes on.

00:19:24So I'm waiting for the next song to come.

00:19:26And then it came on.

00:19:27And it was what God told me.

00:19:31Literally, I was in the middle of that store, shocked, listening to this NSYNC song.

00:19:36I could not believe it.

00:19:37I knew this song before this song came on.

00:19:40And a voice told me, and it wasn't like an audible voice.

00:19:43It was like a knowing.

00:19:45And then my pastor, he confirmed.

00:19:48He's like, you know, you have a prophetic gift.

00:19:51I finally realized that God was speaking to me directly.

00:19:55It was like my aha moment.

00:19:56Like, it made sense.

00:20:00God didn't fill you up for your journey.

00:20:02But he told me the reason he didn't take you out, because her prayers brought you out.

00:20:06He come out!

00:20:13Now, when it comes to talking in time, it's a heavenly language.

00:20:16So it's a language that I'm speaking that God understands, but the devil doesn't.

00:20:22It's almost like if you're going to war, like, you might write stuff in a different code.

00:20:27Thank you, Lord.

00:20:29Y'all got to stop, because we got to go on a testimony, shall we?

00:20:33Praise the Lord, everybody.

00:20:34Praise the Lord.

00:20:35Praise the Lord, everybody.

00:20:37Let me tell you, Apostle.

00:20:39Uh-huh.

00:20:39I'm going to try not to cry.

00:20:40Oh, my God.

00:20:41Every prophetic word you've spoken of my life is coming to pay.

00:20:45Thank you, Lord.

00:20:46Praise God.

00:20:47Praise God.

00:20:48Because I know I used to worry.

00:20:50It's one petition I put before God.

00:20:53And it was very special to me.

00:20:55And I've been waiting ever since I was 16 for God to answer this prayer.

00:21:00Lord, like, when are you going to bring my husband?

00:21:02And it was just not coming.

00:21:03It just seemed like it just was not coming.

00:21:06And it just finally happened.

00:21:07He told me I will have a marriage.

00:21:11December 2023, a notification came across my screen that's like, here comes the bride.

00:21:16And I was just like, okay, Lord, I got you.

00:21:20February, God said, get ready.

00:21:25March, I was asking God, I was like, okay, Lord, where's my husband?

00:21:30He said it's not, he's not close.

00:21:33So, I knew I had to do something different.

00:21:35I had to widen my search.

00:21:37Abroad, maybe.

00:21:39And within two weeks, we matched with each other.

00:21:41Isn't that cute?

00:21:44Maxwell is my fiance.

00:21:46He's 28 years old, and he's from Akka, Nigeria.

00:21:48Hey, sweetie, how are you doing?

00:21:51You know you love my dimples, so I just want to show it to you.

00:21:57When I saw him on the app, he was cute.

00:22:00He has the cutest little nose.

00:22:02Like, I love his nose the most.

00:22:05And from the jump, Maxwell was speaking the language of Asha.

00:22:09He is the male version of me.

00:22:12Like, we both love business.

00:22:14We both love the Lord.

00:22:15We're both family-oriented.

00:22:18It's like God literally created this man for me.

00:22:22I couldn't have dreamed it even better.

00:22:24But I feel like if somebody came to me literally and said that they were dating somebody from Nigeria,

00:22:32me, Asha, would say, you're probably getting scammed.

00:22:35So I knew that I had to meet him one-on-one and see him face-to-face to prove

00:22:40that this is legitimate.

00:22:45My friend and I flew to Nigeria.

00:22:47She was actually going to meet Maxwell's friend, Silas.

00:22:51Like, Silas was always over Maxwell's house.

00:22:55So he's like, will you hook me up with one of your friends?

00:22:58And I was like, yeah, I'll hook you up.

00:23:00And since everything was going so well for me and Maxwell, we decided we wanted to introduce our two best

00:23:05friends to each other.

00:23:06And so, like, when I got there, to be honest, I feel like everything happened the way it's supposed to

00:23:11happen and it could have been better.

00:23:13It was the time of our lives.

00:23:16And on the third night, while we were in Lagos, all of a sudden, Maxwell's best friend, Silas, proposed to

00:23:21my friend.

00:23:22You know what? I thought they were crazy.

00:23:25I really did.

00:23:26And so, I'm sure Maxwell was like, well, I'm going to propose to Asha tomorrow.

00:23:30And so, we were at this restaurant.

00:23:36My plate was covered up, his plate was covered up.

00:23:38So I was like, maybe they're just keeping the food hot.

00:23:40And then as soon as, like, he lifted the plate, it was like, will you marry me?

00:23:43Oh, baby.

00:23:46I feel like there's still that stereotype of Nigerians being scammers.

00:23:56But when I tell you every prophecy and every word lined up, Maxwell is the man I have been waiting

00:24:03for.

00:24:06I just want y'all to pray for me because my fiance, he goes for his interview to get his

00:24:10visa to come to the USA.

00:24:14That's prophetic.

00:24:16So I want y'all to continue to pray for me because there's one song in my spirit.

00:24:20Because I know he going to bring my husband to the USA.

00:24:23You got that beat.

00:24:24Don't mess us up.

00:24:25Don't mess us up.

00:24:29Don't mess us up.

00:24:31Don't mess us up.

00:24:32Don't mess us up.

00:24:35Don't mess us up.

00:24:37Don't mess us up.

00:24:39Don't mess us up.

00:24:41Don't mess us up.

00:24:42Don't mess us up.

00:24:43Don't mess us up.

00:24:44Don't mess us up.

00:24:45Don't mess us up.

00:24:46Don't mess us up.

00:24:47Don't mess us up.

00:24:49Don't mess us up.

00:24:50Don't mess us up.

00:24:51Don't mess us up.

00:24:52Don't mess us up.

00:24:55Don't mess us up.

00:24:56and my best friend dating two best friends and getting engaged at the same time people in my

00:25:01circle definitely think Maxwell is a scammer but I know for a fact that Maxwell was brought to me

00:25:06by God I have no doubt in my mind and if you got God on your side what could go

00:25:11wrong

00:25:31I walk in like how do you do I need a little liquor with me just to set the mood

00:25:35and I don't mean to be rude or even act a fool I just do a little better with an

00:25:39attitude so

00:25:39Shay that's a great story list oh yeah hey Shay hey ladies time for some beer and barbecue

00:25:50I'm Shay I'm 54 years young I'm from Quilt City USA Paducah Kentucky

00:25:56sup I'm a realtor I've also got my principal auctioneer license 700 now 89999 I've got nine

00:26:03I've got a thousand back here there's about 11 11 11 12 12 12 12 13 boom so it's sold

00:26:10you can bring your friends

00:26:14if you live in Paducah you probably know who I am we probably met up had a beer

00:26:18hi how are you how are you good how are you it's always five o'clock somewhere so you're always

00:26:24going to catch me having some fun

00:26:33I think women are just drawn to him

00:26:38Shay's a little flirty at times with some girls maybe a kiss on the cheek hugs you know those kinds

00:26:45of things

00:26:47I mean if he were single I might consider dating him

00:26:52it ain't a cookout unless we'll get it on us

00:26:58how is it

00:27:01I bet Annabelle in there never had barbecue like this before

00:27:06Annabelle's my fiance

00:27:10she's 54 years old and she lives in L.O. City Philippines and she arrives in America in just a

00:27:16few days and I cannot wait absolutely cannot wait I'm counting the minutes

00:27:20I'm gonna follow wherever you go

00:27:22we met through it my friend Greg

00:27:24he's here six months and he spends six months a year in the Philippines with his wife

00:27:30his wife and Annabelle are like best friends and they just decided that we would be a good match

00:27:36and he introduced us on a video call

00:27:38I turn around I've got a Filipino girl in my face

00:27:41and say hi you know and I say hi and

00:27:45Annabelle's just kind of looking at me like

00:27:47and I'm like so you don't understand me and she's like

00:27:51and then I'm like Greg this girl don't even speak English

00:27:54and she's like just kidding

00:28:00after that call we started talking every day

00:28:03I think it was you know a godsend thing

00:28:12it wasn't anything I was looking for

00:28:15but she's such a sweet caring person that God knew I needed that

00:28:19and it didn't matter if she was across the street or across the world

00:28:23and it just so happened she's across the world

00:28:25miss you baby love you good night

00:28:28night

00:28:30when is Annabelle coming?

00:28:31just a few days she'll be here soon

00:28:33a few days I can't wait

00:28:34yep yep

00:28:36about 10 or 11 months after our daily talks

00:28:39I finally decided I'm going to the Philippines

00:28:45the first night where you know I'm bored

00:28:47it's been a long trip

00:28:48and she goes you feel like getting some to eat

00:28:51are you hungry?

00:28:52and I'm like let me get a shower

00:28:53and then you know I'll get dressed

00:28:55and let's go get some dinner

00:28:56so I get in the shower

00:28:57and I turn around

00:28:58and Annabelle's right there at the shower

00:29:00I'm like can I help you?

00:29:03oh I was just going to come in and scrub your body

00:29:06I'm like what?

00:29:08so she takes her clothes off

00:29:10and climbs right in the shower with me

00:29:12and like give me the soap

00:29:14she's scrubbing every inch of me

00:29:16she's going into crevices

00:29:18I didn't even know I had

00:29:21so after that she trimmed my toenails

00:29:23and I've still got to show her

00:29:25that I keep my toenails clean now

00:29:28I mean it's just crazy

00:29:29but yeah Annabelle I'm keeping them trimmed

00:29:31until you get here

00:29:36oh my god

00:29:40that's pretty well sealed the deal

00:29:41I proposed to her like a couple days later

00:29:45I guess it's easy to get comfortable with somebody

00:29:48after they scrubbed your butt cheeks

00:29:51where's the beer card at?

00:29:53I don't know

00:29:55we're about to have to find it

00:29:57I just think Annabelle's going to calm him down a bunch

00:29:59when she gets here

00:30:01calm me down?

00:30:02you know she always tells me like

00:30:03drink moderately

00:30:04and how many beers you had?

00:30:06and I'm like

00:30:07I usually tell her about a third

00:30:08you know if it's been a dozen

00:30:09oh it's like three or four you know

00:30:11she said it was over when she gets here

00:30:13but I think she does it more

00:30:15just to kind of keep me honest to say

00:30:17like don't get too wild

00:30:18but she told you no more?

00:30:21over the years like

00:30:22about every time I'm at a party or the bar

00:30:24hey oh Shay

00:30:27we're not doing that

00:30:28I don't care Annabelle we'll see

00:30:29call you when I get home

00:30:32when we're partying

00:30:33I mean sometimes it gets a little bit wild

00:30:35and things happen that

00:30:36you know

00:30:37may be a little out of line

00:30:38in some people's books

00:30:39but

00:30:40you know

00:30:40kind of like Vegas

00:30:41what happens at the lake

00:30:42stays at the lake

00:30:43so why does everybody

00:30:44got to know everything?

00:30:46when she calls

00:30:47it's like

00:30:48who's that with you?

00:30:49how many people's with you?

00:30:51you know

00:30:51I got to pan the camera

00:30:52and I think she worries about me

00:30:54that's why she gives me

00:30:55a little bit of the issue with

00:30:57hey

00:30:57I don't want you doing it as much

00:30:59so you're saying

00:30:59you wouldn't give up

00:31:00all the partying

00:31:01and the lake

00:31:02and all of that

00:31:03for Annabelle

00:31:06if it came down to it

00:31:07do you think I would?

00:31:09no

00:31:09your opinion?

00:31:09I don't

00:31:12obviously I don't tell Annabelle

00:31:14every single thing

00:31:15that goes on

00:31:16at the parties

00:31:16there's been things

00:31:18that I didn't mention to Annabelle

00:31:20since we've been together

00:31:21since we've met

00:31:22it's just things

00:31:23I don't feel like

00:31:24you know

00:31:25why should I bring that up

00:31:26and just start something

00:31:27but people in Baruka

00:31:29they like to gossip

00:31:30I mean you hear about it

00:31:31I see it

00:31:32you've got the Facebookers

00:31:33a lot of them like to talk

00:31:35and she finds out

00:31:36from someone else

00:31:37you know

00:31:38it would just be a big mess

00:31:40she said

00:31:40are you going to give it up?

00:31:42no I'm not

00:31:42I'm not going to

00:31:44either she's in

00:31:44or she's out?

00:31:46yeah she's in or out

00:31:49it'll all work out

00:31:50but no

00:31:50I'm not going to give her it up

00:32:00I've been traveling

00:32:01around the world

00:32:02for the past three years

00:32:03living a carefree

00:32:04nomadic lifestyle

00:32:05I was a little bit crazy

00:32:07the past two months

00:32:08I like kissed people

00:32:10while drunk again

00:32:11did you tell Josh about this?

00:32:13no

00:32:29currently it is five minutes

00:32:32until we land

00:32:33and I'm feeling tasty

00:32:36show me that you want me

00:32:44I'm Katie

00:32:45I'm 26

00:32:46and I'm from Portland, Oregon

00:32:48I'm back in America

00:32:51and I'm trying to find my bag

00:32:53I miss the carpet

00:32:54it's classic

00:32:56it feels like it's been so long

00:32:58well it kind of has been so long

00:33:01I've been traveling around the world

00:33:02for the past three years

00:33:04living a carefree

00:33:05nomadic lifestyle

00:33:07I definitely had a hope

00:33:10don't tell my grandma

00:33:13no

00:33:17but now I'm back

00:33:18in my hometown of Portland

00:33:19and I'm going to be

00:33:20settling down

00:33:22so in love

00:33:23with procrastination

00:33:24like in Gaston

00:33:26no direction

00:33:26try so hard

00:33:28to find a distraction

00:33:29look around now

00:33:30look around now

00:33:32frozen by indecision

00:33:34lacking her spot

00:33:35no intention

00:33:36look around now

00:33:38look around now

00:33:40hello

00:33:44it's been so long

00:33:48what really like drove me

00:33:50to travel the last few years

00:33:51is I'm a really impulsive person

00:33:53and I get a bit bored with routine

00:33:58for example

00:33:59my friend told me about this program

00:34:01where you could pet sit around the world

00:34:03in exchange for free rent

00:34:04and then I signed up the next day

00:34:06and I was like

00:34:06okay this is what I'm doing

00:34:07when my lease ends

00:34:08in like a few months

00:34:09sorry my boob got really itchy one sec

00:34:12wait so when's Josh coming

00:34:14oh he's coming tomorrow

00:34:15and then like

00:34:16what are you guys

00:34:16just like plans

00:34:17when he like comes in

00:34:18actually

00:34:19it's kind of a secret

00:34:21so you can't tell Josh

00:34:22Josh is my fiance

00:34:24and he is British

00:34:29stereotypical British man

00:34:31he's a bit reserved

00:34:32but what I love about Josh

00:34:34is that

00:34:35like I feel like

00:34:35he doesn't judge at all

00:34:37because I have OCD

00:34:38and he really understands

00:34:40like my quirks

00:34:41and like my personality traits

00:34:44tell me the whole story

00:34:45of how you first met

00:34:46really are you sure

00:34:47you want to hear that

00:34:47yep

00:34:48okay

00:34:50so I was pet setting

00:34:52in the UK

00:34:54and occasionally

00:34:55I would swipe on Tinder

00:34:56and the first person

00:34:58who responded

00:34:58was this guy named Dave

00:35:01and he said

00:35:02I'm hanging out

00:35:02with some friends

00:35:03want to join us

00:35:04and that was perfect for me

00:35:06me and Dave

00:35:07like went on a little date

00:35:08we were taking tequila shots

00:35:09we were hitting it off

00:35:10we were making out

00:35:11I had like met

00:35:12some of his friends

00:35:13that night

00:35:13including Josh

00:35:15but then later on

00:35:17in the night

00:35:17Dave got kicked out

00:35:18I called Josh's

00:35:19other friend hot

00:35:20I made out

00:35:22with his other friend

00:35:22I tried to make out

00:35:23with his best friend

00:35:24but he had a girlfriend

00:35:26and then I asked Josh

00:35:27to make out

00:35:28and he said no

00:35:29you just made out

00:35:30with at least

00:35:30two of my friends

00:35:32um no

00:35:33I have this video

00:35:34of me being really drunk

00:35:35in the bathroom

00:35:35there's this other cute guy

00:35:38with long hair

00:35:39I forgot his name

00:35:41but

00:35:42but

00:35:43I want him

00:35:45our clothes

00:35:46there was this guy

00:35:46being creepy outside

00:35:47and I was like

00:35:48oh can you walk me home

00:35:49so Josh said

00:35:50yeah I'll walk you home

00:35:51and then I remember

00:35:52we just like

00:35:53made out

00:35:54really like

00:35:56passionately on a bench

00:35:57and then he said

00:35:58he had to go pee

00:35:58and I was like okay

00:35:59so then I just sprinted home

00:36:01and I was kind of embarrassed

00:36:02because I had just like

00:36:03left him peeing in a bush

00:36:04and that's how I met

00:36:05my fiance

00:36:07yay

00:36:08can you have a drink

00:36:09yes

00:36:10drink

00:36:11woo

00:36:12woo

00:36:12I was like kind of lonely

00:36:14because I was solo traveling

00:36:15and I said

00:36:15hey if you're free

00:36:17this one random weekend

00:36:18you can join me

00:36:19for a pet sit in Milan

00:36:20and then he said

00:36:21okay

00:36:23I was just like

00:36:24wow

00:36:24he'll go to Milan

00:36:25for me

00:36:25wow

00:36:28we had a really great time

00:36:29in Milan

00:36:30we had sex

00:36:31a bunch

00:36:32I learned he was allergic

00:36:33to nuts

00:36:34and I shouldn't kiss him

00:36:35if I have nuts in my mouth

00:36:36not nuts in my mouth

00:36:42he's like very polite

00:36:44very funny

00:36:45more reserved

00:36:46like he wouldn't talk

00:36:47about anal

00:36:48on the subway

00:36:49that would make him

00:36:50really uncomfortable

00:36:50um

00:36:51would you talk about

00:36:52anal on the subway

00:36:53I would definitely

00:36:54talk about anal

00:36:54on the subway

00:36:56but yeah

00:36:57I just really love him

00:36:59cheers everyone

00:37:01cheers

00:37:01it's really nice

00:37:03to see you guys

00:37:04woo

00:37:04he's back

00:37:06he's back

00:37:07how do we do this

00:37:09how do we do this

00:37:10these wrong shots

00:37:12Annabelle and Sherry

00:37:14how was the trip back

00:37:15it was long

00:37:16um

00:37:17so I went from London

00:37:18to Mexico

00:37:19for my friend's wedding

00:37:20it was really lovely

00:37:21but

00:37:21oh nice

00:37:22party a little too hard

00:37:24did going to the wedding

00:37:25like make you feel excited

00:37:26or like nervous

00:37:27for your own wedding

00:37:28or was it

00:37:28yeah

00:37:28no

00:37:29it was definitely

00:37:29I definitely like

00:37:30teared up

00:37:30I started like

00:37:31thinking about like

00:37:32my vows

00:37:32when they were doing

00:37:33their vows

00:37:35I wasn't really

00:37:36thinking about marriage

00:37:37but Josh proposed to me

00:37:38uh at sunset

00:37:40on the coast

00:37:41in Turkey

00:37:43how long is the time

00:37:44around for this

00:37:45he did the classic

00:37:46proposal thing

00:37:47where you pretend

00:37:48you're taking a picture

00:37:49but you're actually

00:37:49taking a video

00:37:51I wanted to

00:37:52if you would marry me

00:37:53I didn't know

00:37:54this was coming

00:37:55and I wanted to look cuter

00:37:59yes

00:37:59I love you

00:38:00I love you

00:38:03Josh is one of the few

00:38:05people in my life

00:38:06that truly gets me

00:38:07and I'm super excited

00:38:08to marry him

00:38:09but I'm also worried

00:38:10my OCD causes me

00:38:12to make some pretty

00:38:12bad decisions

00:38:13and I'm afraid

00:38:14it could end our

00:38:15relationship

00:38:16how's it going?

00:38:17it's going good

00:38:19how stressed do you feel

00:38:21like on a scale

00:38:21of one to ten?

00:38:23um

00:38:24maybe like a nine

00:38:26that's really high

00:38:27I feel like

00:38:28uh

00:38:29I was a little bit crazy

00:38:30in the past two months

00:38:32I like

00:38:33kissed people

00:38:34while drunk again

00:38:35it was bad

00:38:37did you tell Josh

00:38:38about this?

00:38:40I apologized

00:38:4120 million times

00:38:42he was like

00:38:43this is not good

00:38:44why did you do that?

00:38:46I have intrusive thoughts

00:38:48as part of my OCD

00:38:49when I get drunk

00:38:50I really want to

00:38:52make out with

00:38:52everyone I know

00:38:53especially when

00:38:54I'm in a happy mood

00:38:55or in a really

00:38:56insecure bad mood

00:38:57I just get really

00:38:59into the moment

00:38:59and I'm like

00:39:00I think making out

00:39:01with this person

00:39:01is a great idea

00:39:02and that

00:39:04isn't always

00:39:05exciting for Josh

00:39:06especially because

00:39:08it's been a bit

00:39:09more frequent lately

00:39:10like I really

00:39:11don't want to hurt him

00:39:12I think it's more

00:39:13just like

00:39:14oh I really

00:39:14want to feel

00:39:15wanted

00:39:18I'm always honest

00:39:20with Josh

00:39:20I tell him

00:39:21every time

00:39:22that I do

00:39:23something out of line

00:39:24but he

00:39:25says he can't

00:39:27see himself married

00:39:27to me

00:39:28to me

00:39:28if I keep

00:39:28doing this

00:39:29in the future

00:39:31like

00:39:32I was there

00:39:32in your last

00:39:33relationship

00:39:33when it ended

00:39:35because you

00:39:36were making out

00:39:36with another person

00:39:38and I

00:39:38don't want to

00:39:39see that happen

00:39:40again

00:39:40and Josh

00:39:41is such a good guy

00:39:41I don't want to

00:39:42see him getting hurt

00:39:43either

00:39:43I would like

00:39:44to stop

00:39:45wanting to make out

00:39:46with people

00:39:46but I feel like

00:39:47every time I drink

00:39:48my brain has

00:39:49another plan for me

00:39:51so I'm worried

00:39:52that this is

00:39:53going to be

00:39:53a hard thing

00:39:54to give up

00:39:59I love Annabelle

00:40:01and she isn't

00:40:01even here yet

00:40:02I don't want y'all

00:40:03getting off on

00:40:03the wrong foot

00:40:04because you've

00:40:04already got

00:40:04an attitude about it

00:40:06I'm his daughter

00:40:06I'm first

00:40:08and I don't expect

00:40:09her to come over

00:40:09here and just think

00:40:10that she's before

00:40:11me and everything

00:40:12well I hope it works

00:40:13out if not

00:40:14we're going to

00:40:14have some problems

00:40:26I love you

00:40:27I love you so much

00:40:28I love you so much

00:40:29I love you so much

00:40:30too baby

00:40:31give me a kiss

00:40:32are you ready

00:40:33to come to America

00:40:33of course baby

00:40:37comfortable

00:40:37come on

00:40:38watch my hat

00:40:40don't lose it

00:40:41yeah

00:40:41don't lose it

00:40:42I cannot believe

00:40:44that it's been

00:40:46six months

00:40:47since we've

00:40:47touched each other

00:40:48when I saw

00:40:49Mallory

00:40:50I say to myself

00:40:52oh my god

00:40:53Koba is coming

00:40:54like

00:40:55boots

00:40:55hat

00:40:56Koba hat

00:40:57I feel like

00:40:59cow

00:40:59she will catch me

00:41:01like

00:41:09come

00:41:10no

00:41:11come

00:41:12I'm scared

00:41:13what if

00:41:14I fall

00:41:16I can say

00:41:17this

00:41:17this is my

00:41:18dream

00:41:18with my

00:41:19fiance

00:41:20I will do

00:41:22Titanic

00:41:22everything but

00:41:23the sinking part

00:41:24yeah

00:41:24sinking and dying

00:41:25part you know

00:41:26this is the

00:41:26very good idea

00:41:27thanks

00:41:31I'm gonna fall

00:41:32no

00:41:38baby

00:41:39come

00:41:42come

00:41:43be careful

00:41:45okay

00:41:50how do you feel

00:41:51tired

00:41:52how do you feel

00:41:53good baby

00:41:55are you excited

00:41:57of course

00:41:58of course

00:41:59I just can't believe

00:41:59that this time

00:42:00you'll be coming

00:42:02with me

00:42:03America

00:42:04America

00:42:06it'll be good

00:42:07I will miss

00:42:08on the boat

00:42:09on the sea

00:42:10in the sea

00:42:11we'll figure it out

00:42:12it's a lot different

00:42:13than Alabama

00:42:13of course

00:42:14we're a little

00:42:16further

00:42:16we're not as

00:42:17close to the beach

00:42:20Raj

00:42:20what has

00:42:22Valerie told you

00:42:23about Athens

00:42:24Alabama

00:42:24just

00:42:27redneck

00:42:29so what's

00:42:30mean

00:42:30redneck

00:42:31redneck

00:42:32is a type

00:42:33of person

00:42:33in America

00:42:34yeah

00:42:35they love

00:42:36NASCAR

00:42:37they love

00:42:38hunting

00:42:39America

00:42:40they don't like

00:42:41other country

00:42:42yeah

00:42:43I mean

00:42:45just being

00:42:45they don't like

00:42:46Muslim

00:42:48there's good

00:42:49people

00:42:49and bad

00:42:50people

00:42:50yeah

00:42:51in different

00:42:51countries

00:42:52yes

00:42:52there's good

00:42:53rednecks

00:42:53and bad

00:42:54rednecks

00:42:54do I have

00:42:55friends

00:42:55redneck

00:42:56do I have

00:42:57friends that are

00:42:57rednecks

00:42:57I mean

00:42:58yeah

00:42:59yeah

00:43:03you'll meet

00:43:04them

00:43:04eventually

00:43:05I will see

00:43:07so how do you

00:43:08feel

00:43:09leaving all the

00:43:10family behind

00:43:12this is

00:43:13very sad

00:43:14I am very sad

00:43:15about this

00:43:23but I don't want

00:43:25to think about

00:43:25this because

00:43:26when I think

00:43:26this I want

00:43:27to cry

00:43:28I know

00:43:28it's okay

00:43:29cry

00:43:30this is not

00:43:31okay

00:43:31baby

00:43:31it's okay

00:43:32this is for you

00:43:33okay

00:43:33it's okay

00:43:35but I am happy

00:43:38for I want

00:43:39to be

00:43:40live with you

00:43:41it's gonna be

00:43:42a big adjustment

00:43:44these next few days

00:43:45I definitely

00:43:46am dreading

00:43:47just because

00:43:48he's going to

00:43:49have to say

00:43:50goodbye

00:43:50to his friends

00:43:51and family

00:43:51who he's never

00:43:53been away from

00:43:54in his life

00:43:55ever

00:43:57I don't think

00:43:58I've really

00:43:58prepared

00:43:59Rosh

00:44:00for how life

00:44:01is going to be

00:44:01in Alabama

00:44:02I have very

00:44:03conservative friends

00:44:04and there are

00:44:05some that are

00:44:05super into

00:44:08the deportations

00:44:12I am excited

00:44:13I am nervous

00:44:15we'll figure it out

00:44:19he says he's ready

00:44:20for it

00:44:21but I really

00:44:21don't think

00:44:22he understands

00:44:24what he signed up

00:44:40for

00:44:41hey dad

00:44:42hi guys

00:44:43dad do you want us

00:44:44to come look at those

00:44:44clothes for Annabelle

00:44:46oh yeah come on over

00:44:47okay

00:44:47yeah I want you

00:44:48to see that stuff

00:44:50are you even ready

00:44:50for Annabelle to get

00:44:51here

00:44:51getting there

00:44:52hopefully

00:44:53slowly but surely

00:44:55we're nervous

00:44:56I know

00:44:57it's going to be weird

00:45:06yeah y'all check it out

00:45:07I mean it's just stuff

00:45:08I've been buying for

00:45:08I want y'all to

00:45:09get your opinion

00:45:10it's that stuff

00:45:11on the bottom

00:45:13I've been married twice

00:45:14unfortunately I've been

00:45:15divorced twice

00:45:16but I've got some

00:45:17great kids

00:45:18my son Hunter

00:45:19he's the oldest

00:45:19then we've got

00:45:20my middle daughters

00:45:21Abigail

00:45:21and Allison

00:45:23and then

00:45:23my youngest child

00:45:25Madison

00:45:26I'm honestly

00:45:27kind of surprised

00:45:28you did

00:45:28halfway decent

00:45:30and that's her

00:45:31shoe rack

00:45:31over there

00:45:32so she's got

00:45:32shoes

00:45:33she likes all those

00:45:34yeah

00:45:36after we got engaged

00:45:37Annabelle and I

00:45:38I started

00:45:38getting her clothes

00:45:40so she's got stuff

00:45:41when she gets here

00:45:41I'm gonna have to

00:45:43steal these

00:45:43those are too big

00:45:44for you

00:45:46Allison's always

00:45:47trendy

00:45:47and knows what's

00:45:48going on

00:45:49so yeah

00:45:49I mean

00:45:49I want her

00:45:50to wear

00:45:50kind of the same

00:45:51clothes

00:45:51Allison type

00:45:52stuff

00:45:52and what the

00:45:53other women

00:45:54are wearing

00:45:54so I got those

00:45:55at a clothes

00:45:56out sale

00:45:56in Florida

00:45:57they were like

00:45:58250 bucks

00:45:59she might not

00:45:59wear them

00:46:00but they're

00:46:00kind of cool

00:46:01looking

00:46:01I mean

00:46:02she's got

00:46:03very limited

00:46:04she's got like

00:46:04three outfits

00:46:05I mean

00:46:05there's nothing

00:46:06wrong with what

00:46:06she's wearing

00:46:07it's cute

00:46:07but she's got

00:46:08to have more

00:46:08and I just

00:46:09want her to

00:46:10fit in

00:46:11and you know

00:46:12not stick out

00:46:13I mean

00:46:14just feel comfortable

00:46:15when she's around

00:46:16people you know

00:46:17how long have

00:46:18you been getting

00:46:18all this stuff

00:46:19dad

00:46:19I mean

00:46:19two and a half

00:46:20three years

00:46:21probably

00:46:22I love my dad

00:46:23we're super

00:46:23super close

00:46:24and I even

00:46:25am his neighbor

00:46:26he bought me

00:46:27the house next door

00:46:28so that I can

00:46:28be with him

00:46:29all the time

00:46:29free rent

00:46:30free child care

00:46:31I get to keep

00:46:32up with what

00:46:32he's doing

00:46:33who he's seeing

00:46:34it's awesome

00:46:36do you ever think

00:46:37it's gonna like

00:46:37bug Annabelle

00:46:38that like

00:46:38you spend so much

00:46:39time with dad

00:46:40I don't know

00:46:40I feel like

00:46:41you're gonna like

00:46:42kind of turn

00:46:42into like

00:46:43a third wheel

00:46:43like you guys

00:46:44are gonna have

00:46:44to like

00:46:44have your like

00:46:45scheduled

00:46:46like

00:46:46time together

00:46:47and stuff

00:46:47yeah

00:46:48yeah potentially

00:46:49that's a worry

00:46:49for sure

00:46:50I don't think so

00:46:51I mean

00:46:52us going to do

00:46:53something by ourselves

00:46:53is probably gonna be

00:46:54like out of the ordinary

00:46:55she might get offended

00:46:56that like

00:46:57we are going

00:46:57you know

00:46:58well I think

00:46:59she'll just go with us

00:47:00I mean anything we do

00:47:01right but that's what

00:47:02that's what I'm saying

00:47:03is like

00:47:05I don't want her

00:47:06to go all the time

00:47:10me and my dad

00:47:10do almost everything

00:47:11together

00:47:12we go out on the lake

00:47:12together

00:47:13we drink together

00:47:14if I want to go out

00:47:15and watch the game

00:47:16on TV

00:47:16I typically call my dad

00:47:18so I'm nervous

00:47:19to meet Annabelle

00:47:20I hope she knows

00:47:22that I'm his daughter

00:47:23I'm first

00:47:24and I don't expect

00:47:25her to come over here

00:47:26and just think that

00:47:27she's before me

00:47:27and everything

00:47:29all right

00:47:30I have to go

00:47:31love you babe

00:47:32I guess I'll get back

00:47:32you'll be seeing Annabelle

00:47:33I guess I will

00:47:34I'm excited

00:47:35all right

00:47:35Annabelle

00:47:36let's see if

00:47:37Abby was like

00:47:38humming your tree

00:47:38about that

00:47:39I know

00:47:40I mean she's right though

00:47:41I mean it is

00:47:42going to be different

00:47:42you need to also

00:47:44you know

00:47:45cut her a little bit

00:47:45of slack

00:47:46you know

00:47:46I've never like

00:47:47talked about a woman

00:47:48like this

00:47:49and you know

00:47:50I love Annabelle

00:47:51she isn't even here yet

00:47:52I don't want y'all

00:47:53getting off on the wrong foot

00:47:54because you've already

00:47:54got an attitude about it

00:47:55well I hope it works out

00:47:56if not we're gonna have

00:47:57some problems

00:47:58we're not gonna have

00:47:59any problems

00:47:59okay we'll see

00:48:00I think I hear the dog

00:48:01barking

00:48:02is someone coming over

00:48:02I think that might be

00:48:04Nicole

00:48:04why is she here

00:48:05I have no idea

00:48:06I'm sick of her

00:48:07pulling up like that

00:48:08Annabelle's about to be here

00:48:08that can't be happening

00:48:09well I'll go see

00:48:10what she wants

00:48:11that's

00:48:11geez

00:48:12it's been going on

00:48:13way too long

00:48:13that's ridiculous

00:48:14I know

00:48:15let's see what she wants

00:48:15I don't know

00:48:17Nicole is ex-wife

00:48:19number two

00:48:19and she's the mother

00:48:20of my youngest child

00:48:22Madison

00:48:23it's not unusual

00:48:24for her to come by

00:48:24time to time

00:48:25but anytime then

00:48:26Nicole or

00:48:27together

00:48:28you know

00:48:29it's just not good

00:48:30it's bad

00:48:39hey

00:48:40hey

00:48:40what's going on

00:48:45my dad remarried

00:48:46after my mom

00:48:47to Nicole

00:48:48and it was

00:48:48an absolute

00:48:49show

00:48:50as long as he

00:48:51living a normal

00:48:52happy life

00:48:53I think that

00:48:53she's always going to

00:48:54be in the corner

00:48:55like trying to ruin it

00:48:56somehow

00:48:56someway

00:48:57always

00:48:58the rumors

00:48:59the rumors

00:48:59I heard

00:48:59I guess

00:48:59are true

00:49:00that Annabelle's

00:49:01coming

00:49:01yeah

00:49:01getting close

00:49:02so it's been a few days

00:49:05what's up

00:49:06what you need

00:49:08I was going to see

00:49:08if I could talk to you

00:49:09in private for a minute

00:49:10you know

00:49:11she's just trouble

00:49:12but I haven't been

00:49:13completely honest

00:49:14with Annabelle

00:49:15about everything

00:49:15with Nicole

00:49:16so unfortunately

00:49:17Nicole's got dirt on me

00:49:19and she's

00:49:20just can't wait

00:49:20to spill it

00:49:22oh my lord

00:49:42he is not going to feel

00:49:44good about the twin

00:49:45size mattress

00:49:46I've had it since

00:49:47like the days of the

00:49:47dorms

00:49:49it has a bunch of

00:49:50stains

00:49:50but I feel like

00:49:51they're my stains

00:49:52so I'm not that

00:49:52grossed out by them

00:49:53ah

00:49:54no we can just cuddle

00:49:55we can cuddle

00:49:56on the twin mattress

00:49:57I like it

00:50:08oh I don't wear this

00:50:10it's been about

00:50:11three years

00:50:11since I've properly

00:50:13been able to access

00:50:14all my things

00:50:15they're all in a

00:50:15storage unit

00:50:17some of the boxes

00:50:17are like really

00:50:18organized

00:50:18and then some

00:50:19are just like

00:50:19random

00:50:20yeah

00:50:20oh this box

00:50:21is sketch

00:50:21there's like

00:50:23beams

00:50:28keyboard

00:50:30olive oil

00:50:33or just like

00:50:34random

00:50:36Josh is not

00:50:36prepared for living

00:50:37with my chaos

00:50:39Josh is flying

00:50:40to America tomorrow

00:50:41and I promised

00:50:42I would handle

00:50:43the whole

00:50:44getting an apartment

00:50:45for us

00:50:45I said don't worry

00:50:46about it

00:50:47I'll take care

00:50:47of it babe

00:50:48so I think

00:50:49he's expecting

00:50:51to come to America

00:50:52tomorrow

00:50:52and like

00:50:53see our new apartment

00:50:55what is the apartment

00:50:56like

00:50:56we don't have

00:50:57an apartment yet

00:51:02it's really important

00:51:04for me to find a place

00:51:05before he gets here

00:51:05because I could

00:51:06literally like

00:51:07live out of my car

00:51:08for like a day or two

00:51:09and I'd be fine

00:51:09but he like

00:51:11is like oh

00:51:12like even like

00:51:13one night of discomfort

00:51:14for him

00:51:14it's like

00:51:14kind of an issue

00:51:16sometimes I say

00:51:17I'm gonna do stuff

00:51:18and then

00:51:20I

00:51:21I don't do it

00:51:22exactly to his liking

00:51:24and sometimes

00:51:25it's just me

00:51:26being lazy

00:51:27or procrastinating

00:51:28but other times

00:51:29things just get

00:51:29really complicated

00:51:30because of how

00:51:31my mind works

00:51:32I have like

00:51:33severe

00:51:34or extreme OCD

00:51:36I tend to get

00:51:37consumed by

00:51:38little details

00:51:39and then

00:51:39something big

00:51:40like finding

00:51:41an apartment

00:51:41falls through the cracks

00:51:44and I definitely

00:51:45have always had it

00:51:46like I remember

00:51:46having it in preschool

00:51:48and I went to therapy

00:51:49and I was officially

00:51:51diagnosed with OCD

00:51:52in middle school

00:51:54so my OCD

00:51:55makes it hard

00:51:56to get

00:51:58the big tasks

00:51:59done in my life

00:52:00because I'm like

00:52:01focused on all

00:52:02the little details

00:52:02or I'm like

00:52:03double checking things

00:52:04a hundred times

00:52:05checking the

00:52:06door handles

00:52:07on the car

00:52:08to make sure

00:52:09it's locked

00:52:09I checked the stove

00:52:11about a bajillion times

00:52:12before I leave the house

00:52:14I like to check my teeth

00:52:16and make sure

00:52:16they're not chipped

00:52:17I memorize how they look

00:52:18so I just double check

00:52:19to make sure

00:52:20they look the same

00:52:22so all these things

00:52:23take time away

00:52:24from like

00:52:25focusing on a bigger task

00:52:28I hope Josh

00:52:29isn't upset

00:52:30because that was like

00:52:31the one thing

00:52:32I feel like

00:52:32he needed from me

00:52:34because I was like

00:52:35oh yeah I promise

00:52:36I'll figure out the apartment

00:52:37you don't have to do anything

00:52:38because I know the area

00:52:40I'm going to play

00:52:41in the apartment

00:52:41but we don't have

00:52:43an apartment yet

00:52:43because I'm bad at planning

00:52:46but I did

00:52:47I tried

00:52:47I really tried

00:52:48I hope he sees that

00:52:50my OCD

00:52:51has definitely

00:52:52messed up

00:52:53my relationships

00:52:53in the past

00:52:55it's definitely

00:52:56the main reason

00:52:57why my long term

00:52:58relationships

00:52:58didn't work out

00:52:59and I can't let that

00:53:00happen with my

00:53:01relationship with Josh

00:53:03at first

00:53:03he was really

00:53:04understanding

00:53:04and he was just like

00:53:06go to therapy

00:53:07and stuff

00:53:08and it's fine

00:53:09and now it's getting

00:53:10to the point

00:53:11where he's very

00:53:11disappointed in me

00:53:12so Josh is really

00:53:14understanding

00:53:15but I'm worried

00:53:16that he'll be

00:53:17less understanding

00:53:18when he lives

00:53:20with me

00:53:20and all my chaos

00:53:2124-7

00:53:22and now as soon

00:53:23as he gets off

00:53:24the plane

00:53:24I need to tell him

00:53:25that we're homeless

00:53:29Josh is a really

00:53:30understanding guy

00:53:30but even the most

00:53:31understanding person

00:53:32would lose their

00:53:33over that

00:53:43I'm not worried

00:53:46about that

00:53:46the only thing

00:53:47that I'm a little bit

00:53:47concerned

00:53:48to be honest

00:53:49with you

00:53:49is Michael

00:53:50I've been divorced

00:53:51for six years now

00:53:53a dad that has boys

00:53:55is always going to

00:53:56feel a little threatened

00:53:57when a new man

00:53:58comes into

00:53:59the life

00:54:00if Michael

00:54:01comes in

00:54:02with anger

00:54:03or aggression

00:54:03it might turn

00:54:04into a disaster

00:54:09I'll be up for playing

00:54:11fun and games

00:54:13and make it spee-ee

00:54:15oh yeah so easy

00:54:17even if it isn't

00:54:19keep it easy breezier

00:54:21and make it spee-ee

00:54:24that I'm just

00:54:25I'm just

00:54:26I'm just

00:54:26Hello Marissa

00:54:27How are you?

00:54:28I'm good

00:54:29How are you?

00:54:29If you need anything

00:54:30please let us know

00:54:31Congratulations

00:54:31I'm humorous

00:54:33uh

00:54:50Hi

00:54:51Can you hear me?

00:54:52Yeah I heard you

00:54:53Okay

00:54:54Hi

00:54:56How was your day doing?

00:54:57It was busy

00:54:58I haven't spoken to you

00:54:59all day

00:55:00Oh my god

00:55:00Oh no

00:55:01It's a long day at work

00:55:02but it's like a really

00:55:03pretty like summer day

00:55:03in New York

00:55:04so it's like

00:55:04this is what you get

00:55:05to experience soon

00:55:06You see it?

00:55:08Yeah

00:55:08It's a big building

00:55:09Really nice

00:55:10It's a big building

00:55:11I don't think

00:55:11that you're used to this

00:55:14My biggest concern

00:55:15about Edward

00:55:15moving to the United States

00:55:16is a little bit

00:55:17of culture shock

00:55:17I'm a little

00:55:18I'm a little concerned

00:55:19First of all

00:55:20you've never been

00:55:21on a plane before

00:55:23It's a lot of things

00:55:24that I don't know

00:55:24I was trying to Google

00:55:25you know like

00:55:26what I'm supposed to do

00:55:27like

00:55:28I think that it's kind of cute

00:55:32that Edward really doesn't

00:55:33have any experience

00:55:34in anything outside

00:55:35of his country

00:55:36and you know

00:55:37the fact that he has to

00:55:38like Google

00:55:38how to get through

00:55:39an airport

00:55:39or Google

00:55:40like what you have

00:55:41to put in your bag

00:55:42or what you can't

00:55:42put in your bag

00:55:43but it does concern me

00:55:45a little bit

00:55:45that he just doesn't

00:55:47have the same type

00:55:47of life experiences

00:55:48that I do

00:55:49Here's a good example

00:55:50When I would go

00:55:51to visit Edward

00:55:52in Punta Cana

00:55:53and we stayed at a hotel

00:55:55I hadn't even realized

00:55:56that he had never

00:55:57even experienced

00:55:58being a guest at a hotel

00:55:59he's only just worked

00:56:00at them his entire life

00:56:02It's you know

00:56:03vast differences

00:56:06Before we even get to that

00:56:08because I don't want

00:56:08to forget

00:56:08because you know

00:56:09I forget everything

00:56:09in like a second

00:56:11um

00:56:11How's your penis?

00:56:13How's your penis?

00:56:15Are the stitches healed?

00:56:16Like did the doctor

00:56:17clear you for the flight?

00:56:18Do you know what's crazy?

00:56:19I would see

00:56:20I would see my doctor today

00:56:21when I was walking

00:56:22in the street

00:56:23The doctor yourself?

00:56:24Like good

00:56:26Yeah

00:56:27He's saying

00:56:27he's asking me

00:56:28how is your penis

00:56:29and everything

00:56:29and I was like

00:56:31It's just typical

00:56:32typical conversation

00:56:33How's your penis?

00:56:33Well he's my doctor

00:56:34you know

00:56:35I'm like

00:56:36what's funny

00:56:37because he was in front

00:56:38of everybody

00:56:38and everybody was

00:56:39you know

00:56:39like

00:56:39I feel like

00:56:42maybe we are gay

00:56:44or things like that

00:56:44I don't know

00:56:46My penis

00:56:47is supposed to be ready

00:56:48for next week

00:56:49because my life

00:56:50depends on this

00:56:51My life depends on it

00:56:53My life too

00:56:54it's two people's lives

00:56:55affected by this

00:56:56not just yours

00:56:56I'm not worried about that

00:56:58The only thing

00:56:59that I'm a little bit concerned

00:57:00to be honest with you

00:57:01is Michael

00:57:04I've been divorced

00:57:05for six years now

00:57:07It's taken a few years

00:57:08but my ex-husband

00:57:09Michael and I

00:57:09have really developed

00:57:10a strong relationship

00:57:12and we're really good

00:57:13at co-parenting

00:57:14but

00:57:15a dad that has boys

00:57:17is always going to feel

00:57:18a little threatened

00:57:19when a new man

00:57:20comes into

00:57:21the life

00:57:23I know

00:57:24that he's very

00:57:25protected

00:57:25with his kids

00:57:26and I feel like

00:57:28Michael can feel

00:57:29that I'll try to steal

00:57:32the love

00:57:33of your kids

00:57:36I think that

00:57:37we all could play

00:57:37a really important role

00:57:38in their lives

00:57:39and I don't want anybody

00:57:40to feel threatened

00:57:40by like you know

00:57:41one another's

00:57:42interaction with them

00:57:45There's still

00:57:46some forms of resentment

00:57:48some forms of animosity

00:57:49some disappointment

00:57:50and that's why

00:57:52I have never

00:57:53brought another man

00:57:54into my parenting

00:57:56relationship before

00:57:56and I've explained

00:57:57this to Edward

00:57:58that if Michael

00:57:59comes in with anger

00:58:01or aggression

00:58:01please don't respond to it

00:58:03because it will not

00:58:04make the situation better

00:58:05Now

00:58:05I've said this to Edward

00:58:07many times

00:58:07Will he listen to me?

00:58:09I don't know

00:58:12You're going to meet Michael

00:58:13you know

00:58:14like pretty soon I think

00:58:15because he's like around

00:58:16all the time

00:58:16I think that we have to have

00:58:18like a serious conversation

00:58:19and you and him

00:58:19have to put your

00:58:20like boundaries in place

00:58:22like what would upset him

00:58:23or what would upset you

00:58:24I know that I'm a person

00:58:26and I have a good part

00:58:27and I love Cole

00:58:29and I love Derek

00:58:30and I just need to show that

00:58:34I think when Edward

00:58:35and Michael

00:58:35finally have

00:58:36the talk

00:58:38I am a little concerned

00:58:40emotions are going to flare

00:58:42people are going to get

00:58:43territorial

00:58:43protective

00:58:44protective

00:58:44if that happens

00:58:46Michael will

00:58:47you know

00:58:47get very upset

00:58:48and aggressive

00:58:49and it might turn

00:58:50into a disaster

00:58:51and it's going to be

00:58:52very hard to repair

00:58:53after that

00:58:57you look upset

00:58:59well

00:59:00it's okay

00:59:15so I'm making cake pops

00:59:17and I think I'm going to make them

00:59:18red and blue on the inside

00:59:20for America

00:59:22normally I wouldn't be this messy

00:59:23or maybe I actually probably would

00:59:25but

00:59:34wait why is this backwards

00:59:36do you understand

00:59:37this

00:59:39in no world

00:59:40this is right

00:59:40maybe if I go in front of a mirror

00:59:41or something

00:59:43oh yeah

00:59:43look

00:59:44I'm Erica

00:59:45haha

00:59:46Josh arrives today

00:59:47and I got us a hotel room

00:59:49because I definitely didn't want

00:59:50our first night together

00:59:51to be sleeping on an air mattress

00:59:52in our friend's house

00:59:54I don't think he'll be expecting a hotel

00:59:56I think he'll either expect the apartment

00:59:58magically to appear

00:59:59and be done

01:00:00which unfortunately isn't the case

01:00:02or something

01:00:03like less comfy

01:00:06even though it's not ready to move into yet

01:00:09the big news is

01:00:10I actually signed a lease

01:00:11on a new apartment

01:00:12so I looked at a couple of photos

01:00:14of the apartment online

01:00:16but I haven't seen it in person yet

01:00:19so it could be crazy

01:00:20like I don't know

01:00:21what it's going to look like inside

01:00:24I'm nervous

01:00:24because I feel like

01:00:25I haven't seen him in a bit

01:00:26and I'm worried he'll be jet lagged

01:00:28and I really want to have

01:00:29like a good

01:00:30you know

01:00:30fun kind of night

01:00:32but I don't know

01:00:33how to say that correctly

01:00:35but yeah

01:00:38my sex life with Josh

01:00:39has been a little bit

01:00:41dull

01:00:44and we're not having sex enough

01:00:47I told him to get condoms

01:00:49I just said

01:00:49oh can you pick them up

01:00:50I forgot

01:00:51so

01:00:51I did that

01:00:53because I was like

01:00:53oh I want him to

01:00:56like

01:00:57think about it

01:00:58at least

01:01:00I'm worried that moving in

01:01:01with Josh

01:01:02will not improve our sex life

01:01:04he's super British

01:01:05and super reserved

01:01:07so he tends to avoid

01:01:08conversations about sex

01:01:09it just like doesn't

01:01:11come up as much

01:01:12no not

01:01:13sorry that sounds sexual

01:01:14oh

01:01:15it drives me crazy

01:01:16because I'm the exact opposite

01:01:18and I'm very open about sex

01:01:19so I know we have to get

01:01:21on the same page

01:01:21before we get married

01:01:27oh

01:01:28no

01:01:31that's okay

01:01:32Josh won't eat that one

01:01:37I think

01:01:38the thing I'm looking forward to

01:01:39the most

01:01:40when I see Josh

01:01:40is giving him a kiss

01:01:42I want to make out

01:01:43for like 10 minutes

01:01:45but he hates PDA

01:01:47maybe we'll save that

01:01:48for the hotel

01:01:48I'm so excited

01:01:50I will give you

01:02:00cool

01:02:07cool

01:02:26okay

01:02:27it seems like he should be here

01:02:28like any minute or something

01:02:33yeah

01:02:33I'm excited

01:02:34but I'm stressed out

01:02:35because I just want him

01:02:36to appear as soon as possible

01:02:38he's going to freak out

01:02:39when he sees this

01:02:42well at least he'll spot me

01:02:44probably

01:02:48we've waited for this

01:02:49a long time

01:02:50we literally waited

01:02:51over a year

01:02:51for the visa

01:02:52to be approved

01:02:54where is he

01:03:01I know

01:03:03I know

01:03:03I'll see you

01:03:04soon

01:03:05I'll find my way

01:03:08to you

01:03:09I'll never give you

01:03:13a damn

01:03:17this is love

01:03:21how are you

01:03:21this is weird

01:03:22I haven't seen you in a minute

01:03:24this is love

01:03:29this is my fiancé Josh

01:03:30and he's from

01:03:31can you say it first

01:03:32really fast and I'll copy it

01:03:33Cambridge, England

01:03:35Cambridge, England

01:03:37can we make out

01:03:43for four minutes

01:03:44four minutes

01:03:56hey

01:03:58when I see Josh

01:03:59I want to make out

01:04:00with him for a while

01:04:00but it felt like

01:04:02only four seconds

01:04:04I've never been

01:04:06super hot on PDA

01:04:09I just feel self-conscious

01:04:10like not always

01:04:11but

01:04:13I don't think

01:04:13I'm the only person

01:04:14who's like that

01:04:18do you want to make out

01:04:19for four minutes now

01:04:21I actually

01:04:26can I put the hat on you

01:04:28come and see

01:04:31it's Uncle Sam

01:04:32I don't know

01:04:33I forgot who Uncle Sam is

01:04:34actually

01:04:35but he's like

01:04:36an American icon

01:04:37from the past

01:04:38or he's a fake person

01:04:39I don't know

01:04:40I'm not sure

01:04:42so I got us a hotel

01:04:43for the night

01:04:44and

01:04:45the apartment

01:04:46got approved

01:04:46nice

01:04:47we might have to wait

01:04:48a few days to move in

01:04:49sure

01:04:50but for tonight

01:04:51and maybe tomorrow night

01:04:53I have a hotel

01:04:54and then

01:04:55I have some

01:04:56sexy red lingerie

01:04:58for tonight

01:05:02lingerie in the airport

01:05:04do you want me to put it

01:05:05I mean it looks lovely

01:05:08are you excited

01:05:09I can't wait to like

01:05:10wake up next to you

01:05:11every day

01:05:12I feel like

01:05:12now we're moving in

01:05:13together

01:05:14I don't super know

01:05:16what to expect

01:05:16we are really different

01:05:18we're like so contrasting

01:05:19you're quite chaotic

01:05:21and wild

01:05:21and lovely

01:05:24we're choosing to be together

01:05:26because we love each other

01:05:28it just feels like we fit

01:05:34aww

01:05:35do you need help

01:05:35caring stuff

01:05:36I'm good

01:05:38no I'll just like

01:05:39try not to hit my face

01:05:40with the balloons

01:05:40I love those

01:05:42do you want to make out

01:05:43for four minutes now

01:05:48I was in bed with you

01:05:50when you were with Annabelle

01:05:51it's not going to happen

01:05:52when she's here

01:05:53why is it okay

01:05:54that it's happened

01:05:55for this long

01:05:56that she's not here

01:05:58this is her

01:05:59last ditch effort

01:06:00to try to screw things up

01:06:02again with Annabelle and I

01:06:03you do know

01:06:04when she gets here

01:06:05I'm going to talk to her

01:06:06if he thinks that

01:06:07I'm not going to tell

01:06:07Annabelle all the dirt

01:06:08all the things

01:06:09that I know about him

01:06:10he's wrong

01:06:24what's up

01:06:24what's your name

01:06:26I was just wanting to see

01:06:27if I could talk to you

01:06:27in private for a minute

01:06:29sure

01:06:40what up

01:06:43so

01:06:45Annabelle's coming

01:06:45right

01:06:46few days hopefully

01:06:48you do know

01:06:49when she gets here

01:06:50we are actually

01:06:50going to have a conversation

01:06:51like I'm going to talk

01:06:52to her

01:06:53there's no way

01:06:53around that

01:06:56my marriage

01:06:57to my ex-wife

01:06:57Nicole

01:06:58it only lasted

01:06:59four weeks

01:06:59and her relationship

01:07:00was volatile

01:07:01because I mean

01:07:02she did a lot of things

01:07:03I didn't agree with

01:07:04and I guess I did

01:07:05a lot of things

01:07:05she didn't agree with

01:07:06so we weren't really

01:07:07like a match

01:07:09for a relationship

01:07:10she's a mother

01:07:11of one of my children

01:07:12so I don't know

01:07:12I mean she'll always

01:07:13be around in some capacity

01:07:14but she's very jealous

01:07:16and vindictive

01:07:17and doesn't really

01:07:19want me with anyone

01:07:19but I guess her

01:07:23okay so

01:07:24are you going to like

01:07:26what are you going

01:07:26to talk about

01:07:27she needs to know

01:07:28the things I think

01:07:29about Angie

01:07:30she needs to know

01:07:30about the things

01:07:31that you've said

01:07:32to me

01:07:34what about Angie

01:07:35to me it seems

01:07:37that you are

01:07:37like having some

01:07:38kind of relationship

01:07:39maybe it was just

01:07:39physical or whatever

01:07:40the case may be

01:07:41so are you

01:07:42I have not cheated

01:07:43with anybody

01:07:45and definitely

01:07:46not Angie

01:07:48Angie is my good

01:07:49friend Greg's daughter

01:07:53it ain't a cookout

01:07:54unless we get it on us

01:07:55she got recently

01:07:59divorced

01:08:00me and her

01:08:00just kind of

01:08:01hit it off

01:08:01as friends

01:08:02and heck

01:08:03you know

01:08:03Friday nights

01:08:04we might go

01:08:04catch a band

01:08:05and catch dinner

01:08:06but it's just

01:08:07a good friendship

01:08:09I think Nicole

01:08:10is just trying

01:08:11to get under my skin

01:08:11she sees that I'm happy

01:08:12and probably thinks

01:08:14this is her

01:08:14last ditch effort

01:08:16to try to screw

01:08:17things up again

01:08:18with Annabelle and I

01:08:19so in your opinion

01:08:20flirting and telling

01:08:22people things

01:08:23that would obviously

01:08:25upset Annabelle

01:08:26is okay

01:08:27that's not cheating

01:08:29you know

01:08:29that's

01:08:31everybody's perception

01:08:32is different

01:08:34he led me on

01:08:35for years

01:08:35and then

01:08:36we got together

01:08:37and we got married

01:08:38and that ended

01:08:39very quickly

01:08:39and he

01:08:40come to find out

01:08:42he was talking

01:08:42to Annabelle

01:08:43while we were married

01:08:44and if he thinks

01:08:45that I'm not going

01:08:46to tell Annabelle

01:08:46all the dirt

01:08:47all the things

01:08:47that I know about him

01:08:48he's wrong

01:08:49with Angie and Shay

01:08:50I saw it with my own eyes

01:08:52something's not right

01:08:53with that situation

01:08:54and I don't want

01:08:55Annabelle to

01:08:56make the commitment

01:08:57and walk down the aisle

01:08:58without her knowing

01:08:59these things about him

01:09:01I don't believe

01:09:02that you have told her

01:09:04most of the stuff

01:09:05that you do

01:09:05I mean like

01:09:07we've been out before

01:09:07and you're drinking

01:09:09and she calls

01:09:10and of course

01:09:11the camera goes this way

01:09:12where she can't see me

01:09:13and like you know

01:09:14I just feel like

01:09:15that's very very unfair

01:09:16for her

01:09:18anything that you

01:09:19know I've done

01:09:19is not like

01:09:21you know

01:09:22it's like

01:09:23if we go out

01:09:23and have a few

01:09:24too many beers

01:09:24I might like

01:09:25you know

01:09:25say something vulgar

01:09:26or pat on you

01:09:27or something

01:09:28but I mean

01:09:28it's not like

01:09:29I'm like

01:09:29I'm gonna rip

01:09:30your clothes off

01:09:31or anything

01:09:32there's no way

01:09:33I'm gonna stray

01:09:35even if I drink

01:09:36too much

01:09:37you know

01:09:38yeah

01:09:38I may flirt

01:09:39but that's the extent

01:09:40of it

01:09:41and that's my personality

01:09:46I'm not gonna be like

01:09:48oh

01:09:48let's sneak around

01:09:49the corner

01:09:50and give me a kiss

01:09:52or something

01:09:52it's not gonna happen

01:09:53when she's here

01:09:54okay so why is it okay

01:09:56that it's happened

01:09:56for this long

01:09:57that she's not here

01:09:59because she's 8,000

01:10:00miles away

01:10:01Shay

01:10:01I was in bed with you

01:10:04when you were with Annabelle

01:10:07and she called

01:10:08and I answered the phone

01:10:10yeah we went to a concert

01:10:11or something

01:10:12yeah

01:10:12we were in the same bed

01:10:13together

01:10:14yeah I remember

01:10:14and after that incident

01:10:17I mean Annabelle

01:10:18didn't talk for a while

01:10:18you know

01:10:19she had to kind of

01:10:21cool off

01:10:23so there was a situation

01:10:24a few years ago

01:10:25between Annabelle

01:10:26and Nicole

01:10:26and it wasn't good

01:10:28after Nicole

01:10:29and I divorced

01:10:30we were actually

01:10:31out of town

01:10:31several of us

01:10:32five or six people

01:10:33we had a few hotel rooms

01:10:34and drank too much

01:10:36she took me

01:10:37to the hotel room

01:10:39I got in bed

01:10:39still in my clothes

01:10:41passed out

01:10:42and then

01:10:43I just remember

01:10:44I'm in the bed

01:10:45with my clothes

01:10:46still on

01:10:47and

01:10:49I've got a phone

01:10:50poking in my face

01:10:51with Annabelle

01:10:53crying

01:10:54and I've just

01:10:55kind of

01:10:56woke up enough

01:10:57to see Nicole

01:10:58holding the phone

01:10:59and

01:11:00she was just

01:11:01doing it

01:11:01to be vindictive

01:11:02and break me up

01:11:04and it just made it

01:11:05really tough

01:11:06on our relationship

01:11:06early on

01:11:09so I mean

01:11:10you seriously

01:11:11are adamant

01:11:12about talking to her

01:11:13yeah that's definitely

01:11:14happening

01:11:14she needs to know

01:11:15what she's signing up for

01:11:16I don't want her

01:11:16to make the same

01:11:17mistake I did

01:11:17especially coming

01:11:18from way over there

01:11:18ours is completely

01:11:19different

01:11:21I mean

01:11:22it is what it is

01:11:23but I don't want

01:11:25you coming back here

01:11:25and doing it

01:11:26so

01:11:28just figure it out

01:11:29I mean

01:11:29I'm definitely

01:11:30going to figure it out

01:11:30well

01:11:31you know

01:11:31there's no trespassing

01:11:32I don't want you

01:11:33back here

01:11:35she's going to

01:11:36understand

01:11:36who you are

01:11:37by the time

01:11:38I get done

01:11:38so I mean

01:11:39there's plenty of people

01:11:40that can contradict

01:11:41you on that

01:11:42so I'm not

01:11:42there's plenty of people

01:11:44who can also say

01:11:44they've seen me

01:11:45with you

01:11:45and the way

01:11:46you act with me

01:11:47you just need

01:11:47to go on home

01:11:48I can't deal with it

01:11:49no problem

01:11:49just expect

01:11:50that when she's here

01:11:51we're going to have

01:11:52I just can't deal

01:11:52with it anymore

01:11:53okay well

01:11:54see ya Shay

01:11:55whatever

01:11:58I'm scared

01:11:59that if Nicole

01:11:59gets to her

01:12:00before I explain

01:12:01some of this stuff

01:12:02she may want to

01:12:03head straight back

01:12:04to the Philippines

01:12:06but I worked hard

01:12:08to get Annabelle

01:12:08to trust me again

01:12:09and I'm not going

01:12:10to let Nicole

01:12:11or anybody else

01:12:12ruin it

01:12:12just because

01:12:13she's jealous

01:12:16good lord

01:12:38the blood of Jesus

01:12:41the blood

01:12:42the blood

01:12:43the blood

01:12:44the blood

01:12:44The blood, the blood, the blood, the blood, the blood, the blood, the blood, the blood, the blood, the blood.

01:12:49Thank you, Lord.

01:12:51Thank you, Lord.

01:12:56Thank you, Lord.

01:13:03Grace and mercy, Heavenly Father.

01:13:06Amen.

01:13:08Thank you, guys.

01:13:09Bye.

01:13:10Bye-bye.

01:13:10Love you.

01:13:13So, Asha, tell me what's going on.

01:13:17Basically, today, Maxwell went in with his best friend, Silas, for their K-1 visa interview.

01:13:24Maxwell got called up first.

01:13:27The interviewer approved for his visa.

01:13:31He came outside.

01:13:34He took a picture of it.

01:13:35He showed it to me.

01:13:36He called me, just excited.

01:13:39Next thing I know, he was like, baby, let me call you right back.

01:13:43I got to go back into the embassy.

01:13:44I was like, okay.

01:13:46Then he sends me another picture.

01:13:49And in this form, it's saying that he had been denied.

01:13:54And so, of course, he's bawling.

01:13:56I'm hardly able to get him to answer the phone.

01:13:58So when he does answer the phone, he starts explaining to me that when his best friend went in for

01:14:05the interview, his term,

01:14:06they looked at the photos and saw that me, him, and my best friend and his best friend were in

01:14:14the same pictures.

01:14:15And with that, they decided that it looks like fraud.

01:14:19And so then, not only that, he yelled at them and told them, not only am I going to file

01:14:26this under fraud, but I'm also going to ban you from the U.S.

01:14:33I am completely blindsided.

01:14:37I never in a million years, the thought never crossed my mind that he would get denied.

01:14:45I felt like God was on my side and he would get approved.

01:14:49But Maxwell getting banned is beyond words because that prevents Maxwell ever applying for any visa or ever coming to

01:14:58the U.S., ever.

01:15:01I don't know how the devil snuck in, gave my fiancé a visa in his hand, let him walk out

01:15:10the door with the visa,

01:15:12let him celebrate for 0.2 seconds, and then tell him to come back in and give it back.

01:15:17And I cannot understand it.

01:15:19We've just been, you know, praying.

01:15:21Not only have we bombarded heaven, but we've literally bombarded that embassy because I told Maxwell, I said, listen, do

01:15:28not leave that embassy.

01:15:31I said, you talk to whoever you got to talk to to get inside that building.

01:15:35You know, explain yourself, what is going on.

01:15:38And there was a security guard kind of was going back and forth to the point to where the people

01:15:43inside the embassy got tired.

01:15:45And they're waiting to be with the agent again right now.

01:15:48But I know one thing.

01:15:50He got to leave with that darn visa.

01:15:52And that's for sure.

01:15:56Lord, I ask that you protect my future husband, Lord Jesus.

01:15:59These are the prayers that I ask in our petitions.

01:16:01I put before you, Heavenly Father.

01:16:03I ask that you do it right now, in Jesus' name.

01:16:07Amen.

01:16:08And thank you, Lord.

01:16:14Literally, I am terrified.

01:16:16It's terrifying that one person could say one thing, and then that's my life.

01:16:22That's my future.

01:16:24I would lose the love of my life.

01:16:30Okay, this is Maxwell.

01:16:34Okay, sweetie, what did they say?

01:16:37Yeah, so we just came out of jail now, right?

01:16:41Can you hear me, baby?

01:16:42Okay, I'm listening.

01:16:44The man called us.

01:16:45You're no longer banned.

01:16:46The ban has been lifted.

01:16:47The ban has been lifted.

01:16:48We're no longer banned.

01:16:49We should go continue our relationship and apply for the spousal visa.

01:16:54Do you understand?

01:16:55And for the K-1, there's nothing that can be done.

01:16:58So he won't let us get the K-1?

01:17:00No.

01:17:03The only thing he could do was take out the ban.

01:17:06I'm not accepting it.

01:17:08I'm not really accepting it.

01:17:09That ain't sitting right with me.

01:17:10I don't want to let the K-1 go because I don't want to start over.

01:17:14The spousal visa take a longer time.

01:17:16That's the problem.

01:17:16Like, that's not fair.

01:17:19What about the appeal?

01:17:20He is like, we can't appeal his decision.

01:17:25I'm going to talk to an attorney because that's not right.

01:17:30You know what I'm saying?

01:17:31If he made a mistake, we need to talk to an attorney and see what they can do.

01:17:35They have definitely messed with the wrong woman because, you know, I feel like looking over my life,

01:17:44God has not denied me anything.

01:17:46And Maxwell and I, we're destined to be together.

01:17:50Let me just call my family and come take this to them.

01:17:53Okay.

01:17:54All right, sweetie.

01:17:56Ain't that a mess?

01:17:58I am 100% going to do everything in my power as long as it is in the will of

01:18:06God to get Maxwell to the USA.

01:18:09You can be the king.

01:18:10You can be the president.

01:18:12You can be whomever you think you are.

01:18:15But you're not more supreme than God Almighty.

01:18:22This season on 90 Day Fiancé.

01:18:25You ready?

01:18:26Let's see it.

01:18:26Come on.

01:18:27I have my circumcision.

01:18:28I'm ready to be an American now.

01:18:36You want to feed him?

01:18:37I'm afraid they bite me.

01:18:38I'm a city girl from Sao Paulo.

01:18:42Animal crap is not my .

01:18:48It has a rear wash pulsating action.

01:19:01You're not sure if you want to log on me or not.

01:19:05I just don't want to close off all my experiences.

01:19:08Katie wants to talk about openness so close to the wedding day.

01:19:12What the is that about?

01:19:13I really, really want to make out with people.

01:19:15Then what do we do?

01:19:17That's concerning.

01:19:21It's the second time getting married.

01:19:23If you are not certain, do not get married.

01:19:26I love Edward, but I have started to question whether this is the right situation for me.

01:19:32I'm sorry for you once born like this.

01:19:34This is so sad.

01:19:36Do you really want to spend your life with me?

01:19:37Do you really want to get married?

01:19:39In Brazil, it's so easy.

01:19:40But I'm fighting so much here.

01:19:42I'm tired.

01:19:44Oh, my God.

01:19:46Are you happy when you see him?

01:19:49You're the one I'm marrying.

01:19:51What is this issue?

01:19:53In Turkey, we don't be friends, ex-boyfriend.

01:19:58Don't call my fiance, never.

01:20:01Get the off my tailgate.

01:20:05Motherf***er.

01:20:07People are like, who is this person?

01:20:09You might be like a mail-order bride.

01:20:12People saying about me?

01:20:14Well, I mean, it has come up.

01:20:19I don't want to listen to your crap.

01:20:25I'm just frustrated.

01:20:27I'm just frustrated.

01:20:28For what?

01:20:28You can f*** that slut in Egypt, but you can't be compassionate with me?

01:20:32Get out.

01:20:34F*** you.

01:20:35You should push me too far.

01:20:36It's finished.

01:20:37It's over.

01:20:38I'm done with the whole f*** thing.

01:20:40He's going home.

01:20:44I'm done with the whole f*** thing.

01:20:45I'm done with the whole f*** thing.

01:20:46I'm done with the whole f*** thing.

01:20:48I'm done with the whole f*** thing.

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