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00:00We're falling like a dream, it goes all night.
00:04I'll never let you go, I'll say you're all right.
00:09Yeah.
00:09Yours.
00:11Sucker.
00:13BMO bus ma, I suck.
00:16Are you staring at me?
00:21Dick on a dick.
00:22New year, new dick.
00:23Hey, everybody.
00:24We are made games.
00:25She got big old titties.
00:28I was officially diagnosed with Tourette's Syndrome at 17 at the Mayo Clinic.
00:34And ever since then, I've been on a journey to find ways to help my tics.
00:40We are seven months out from the wedding, and we have two different opinions sitting on this couch over here.
00:44Collin, Collin, is definitely stressed.
00:47Collin sucks a lot of .
00:48Collin sucked Austin's .
00:50Collin sucked George Washington's .
00:51Collin sucked Collin's .
00:52Collin gave Tootsie gonorrhea, Tootsie's .
00:55Collin.
00:57We've been engaged for over a year.
00:59Our wedding is literally right around the corner.
01:02And that's seven months.
01:03The corner would be like creeping up on two.
01:05We have a long time.
01:06Well, we don't have anything to show for it besides choosing the venue.
01:10We don't have save the dates.
01:11We don't have a caterer.
01:13We don't have a dress.
01:14We don't have a suit.
01:15We don't have flowers.
01:16We don't have a cake.
01:17We don't have dessert.
01:18Okay.
01:19We've done zero.
01:33You know what?
01:34Next time we go to an apple orchard, make sure I wear my stilettos.
01:38Step on the wiener, squish the wiener.
01:40You're wearing stripper heels to an apple orchard.
01:44You're wearing stripper heels.
01:46I just wanted to dress cute for our three year anniversary.
01:50That's all.
01:50Ain't nothing wrong with that.
01:51There you go.
01:52Grab the bucket.
01:53Okay.
01:53I decided to go to the apple orchard on our first date.
01:57And Colin drove like three, two, how many hours?
02:01Almost two.
02:03For me to be late.
02:05An hour.
02:06I told him I'm still at home doing my hair.
02:10He goes, okay.
02:12And you waited.
02:13You know this sweet man.
02:15It's really cool though that this time we came here three years later,
02:18they have green apples.
02:19And why did you wait?
02:21Some guys would have failed.
02:21Why did you wait?
02:24Like you were doing your hair or not.
02:25I mean, there's no point.
02:26You just really liked me.
02:27I did.
02:30Look at this one.
02:32Put it in the bucket.
02:34That's how you bruise it.
02:36I'm sorry.
02:37I'm really happy right now.
02:40This makes me really happy.
02:42We're talking about our first date.
02:43We're about to get married.
02:44It's been like so long.
02:46We were just babies when we first started dating.
02:48Like I was like super, super nervous at first.
02:51I remember holding in my tics the entire time.
02:54You were still ticking.
02:55I mean, I was still ticking, but I held in a lot of my tics
02:58because I was like really nervous.
03:00Like this man's really cute.
03:01Like I really, really like him.
03:03I just started talking to him yesterday.
03:06I was like, I have to know how this works out.
03:09I have to.
03:11God damn!
03:14Colin?
03:15Colin?
03:16Colin?
03:16Ow!
03:16Colin!
03:20I hit my noggin so hard off the tree.
03:26Oh man.
03:27And fast forward.
03:29We are three years in, three dogs in, and seven months away from our wedding.
03:37Bitch.
03:39I am excited.
03:40Dick!
03:41One of them.
03:41Our bachelor, bachelorette trip.
03:45Why are the two of you having a joint bachelor, bachelorette party?
03:49Because we're best friends.
03:51Duh.
03:51I'm just kidding.
03:52No, I feel like we chose to do a joint bachelor, bachelorette trip
03:57because a lot of our friends in our bridal party are kind of the same friends.
04:02Trick or treat, mother .
04:03Squish the weenie.
04:04Oh, look at this baby one.
04:06Little baby beans.
04:07That's a tiny one.
04:08I like tiny apples.
04:10We settled on Asheville, North Carolina because we saw this cabin
04:14and like instantly fell in love with it.
04:17It's absolutely perfect, and we wanted a destination bachelor, bachelorette trip.
04:22However, we also know the reality is there'll be people that can't show up.
04:26And that's how my friend did it.
04:28They picked where the trip was, and then the best man and the maid of honor planted the itinerary.
04:34Have you heard anything at all from Sammy?
04:37Nope.
04:38Nothing.
04:39Not even a text.
04:40Yeah, Austin.
04:41Austin never heard from her.
04:44So my best man is Austin, and Baylen's maid of honor is Sammy.
04:48We asked Austin and Sammy to coordinate with each other to plan the trip.
04:54However, Sammy's immediate response to having the bachelor, bachelorette party in Asheville wasn't really the best response.
05:02She basically said that it's a huge inconvenience for everybody.
05:06And she shut down communication probably immediately when we sent her a group text about the trip,
05:12because I think that her mind was probably already made up.
05:16Yep.
05:18My dad's bald.
05:20He is.
05:21And I know that she struggles with traveling because of her anxiety.
05:25However, she hasn't even made it clear to us if she's coming or if she's not coming.
05:30So we've had to create the itinerary for our own bachelor, bachelorette trip.
05:36I'm just really heartbroken because she's not only my maid of honor, she's my sister and my best friend.
05:42And it would hurt if she's not there. It would.
05:46But my feet hurt.
05:48Okay.
05:48And we got all the apples we need.
05:50All right.
05:50I'm glad we're going to my parents after this because I know that Sammy hasn't been talking to me or
05:56us,
05:57but I know she's been talking to my mom.
05:59So I need to talk with my mom.
06:02I'm taking a shortcut.
06:03What? Okay.
06:19What are you doing with all of these?
06:21I think I was going to randomly stand up 12 of them across the yard and just carve different figures.
06:26That's not what we're doing.
06:28The cross does look amazing.
06:30Is it completely finished?
06:31Oh yeah, it's done, done.
06:32Like you've put a coat of polyurethane and stuff on it?
06:35It has some, but I don't know how shiny they want.
06:38So we've been back from our life-changing adventure in London for about six to eight weeks now.
06:44And the moment Balen and Colin asked me to help them with some projects on their wedding, I was already
06:49in my mind building it on the plane back.
06:51We would like your help with the wedding.
06:56Yeah.
06:56Just name it.
06:57Like a cross for the ceremony.
07:00This is Al's element, so this is a win-win for Al.
07:05But honestly, since we've been back, we have heard like nothing crickets in terms of wedding planning. Like nothing.
07:13Oh my God, my feet hurt so bad.
07:16These shoes are getting thrown out.
07:18Hi, everyone.
07:20Hey.
07:20You know what?
07:21Go to an orchard in four inch heels.
07:23Do it.
07:23I can't believe that's what you wore to the orchard.
07:26Oh my gosh.
07:27I got you donuts.
07:29Two dozen.
07:30Got them for Dad.
07:32Oh, let me get one.
07:34What's up with the new hairdo?
07:36Do you miss the curls?
07:37Absolutely not.
07:38I do think this looks better on you.
07:40Yeah, it does.
07:41Yeah.
07:42And like it has more pop, so I can call myself like 5'3".
07:46Oh my God, the cross looks so good in its glory.
07:49Holy crap.
07:50If it's not big enough, your dad will make another one.
07:54I'm in complete awe.
07:55He's just so talented.
07:57I have the best dad ever.
07:59Do it.
08:00I just wish that our wedding planning could come together as easy as that cross did.
08:06Yeah, there's a lot of things I want, but we also haven't heard back from our wedding planner.
08:11We just need to get our vendors in two months.
08:14Do you know who you want for vendors?
08:16No.
08:16Do you know who the...
08:17Oh gosh.
08:18No.
08:19Like this is where we are.
08:20We are nowhere.
08:22To be only seven months away, concerned is an understatement because they don't truly understand the gravity of waiting until
08:31the last minute.
08:31This is not a school project that you can procrastinate for.
08:34So I know that she's like working on like three, four, five different things, but we just don't have an
08:40update.
08:41Just sitting back and being a spectator is difficult, but they wanted us to stay back, so we're staying back
08:47and cut your path.
08:50So now that we're on wedding topics, me and Colin have something to show you that involves the dogs for
08:56the wedding.
08:57Okay.
08:57So let's get the dogs in the backyard and...
09:00Okay.
09:00It is a surprise for the dogs too.
09:02Yeah, let's go.
09:04Boys.
09:06We're worried about the dogs.
09:08Of all the things for the wedding, that is number one on the list.
09:13We're worried about the dogs.
09:14All right.
09:15I am so excited to reveal this to my family and to the dogs.
09:20What the...
09:22This idea may be corny to some people.
09:25Are you me?
09:27Me?
09:28I absolutely love it.
09:30Little do they know what's coming.
09:38We are looking for an outfit for the bachelor bachelor party.
09:42Uh, yeah.
09:43That's a no.
09:46People are going to break your heart over and over again in life.
09:49I know you didn't expect your sister to do it.
09:51Definitely not her.
09:53It is her big life event.
09:56And to not have your best friend by your side, what could be more hurtful, really?
10:02She's my only sister.
10:04My only sister.
10:05The only one I got.
10:13Me and Colin have something to show you that involves the dogs for the wedding.
10:19All right.
10:22What the...
10:25She has a car.
10:26A kid car for the dogs.
10:29Oh my lord.
10:30The dogs are not driving these.
10:32Are you me?
10:34You need help?
10:35Yeah.
10:37These cute little pink cars will match perfectly with the dogs' outfits.
10:41I think the dogs look cute and fashionable.
10:46They're going down the aisle together in these?
10:48Yes.
10:49So if you had to guess, how do you think each of these dogs will do in the car?
10:53Terrible.
10:53I think Fluffy would do the best.
10:56I do not think Tootsie will stay.
10:57And I don't think Pumpkin will stay either.
11:00I would put my whole life on Fluffy.
11:02It's Fluff, then Toots, and a hard second.
11:04And then Gilbert, third.
11:07Pumpkin.
11:08I call him Gilbert.
11:09Why do you call him Gilbert?
11:10I don't know.
11:10He just looks like a Gilbert.
11:12Okay.
11:12Moment of truth.
11:14Guys.
11:15Guys.
11:15Oh my gosh!
11:16Tootsie's like...
11:17Fluff, keep driving.
11:19Fluff's in there.
11:20Look at one!
11:21Fluff won.
11:23She's the only flower girl.
11:24Look at Fluff.
11:25Fluff's doing good.
11:26Fluff, get it from the steering wheel.
11:26Fluff, bring me an apple.
11:28Good job.
11:30You want to race?
11:33Woo!
11:34My little race.
11:35Go fucking man!
11:36I think with a little time and work put into this, I mean...
11:39Look at him.
11:40Oh, I got my...
11:42Oh, damn.
11:44Okay.
11:44I take my words back.
11:46Um, overall, the experiment, it went.
11:49Like, if we could get a ramp for Fluff, I think she'd ride it.
11:53Ride it over the rails.
11:55I think she would go for it.
11:57But, Punky and Toots are not staying in there.
11:59No.
12:00It's not gonna happen.
12:02What an optimistic person I have sitting next to me.
12:04They're going down that aisle.
12:10Okay.
12:10Pie time.
12:12All right.
12:14I'm gonna take my shoes off.
12:15Oh, that's a good idea.
12:17Yeah.
12:17Let me throw your dog's stuff down.
12:19Okay, how many apples do we have to peel?
12:22Fluff, you're doing good.
12:23I'm gonna get a CDL license, Fluff.
12:27So we gotta...
12:27Okay.
12:28I gotta...
12:29I have a recipe.
12:30Let's just get to work.
12:34You know most stores have apple pies.
12:38I mean, yeah, but I've come so far.
12:40It's not where I want it to be, but it's where I've wanted it to be, like, since four years
12:44ago.
12:45Like, this peeler and I are about to get hands.
12:47You guys aren't friends.
12:48No.
12:48You're doing a good job, though.
12:50Because I feel like you'd be better with a plastic knife.
12:53Why don't I peel and you can cut?
12:58We'll make the process a little bit quicker.
13:01The kitchen has always been a place for me that has been filled with anxiety, but my tics have gotten
13:07better.
13:08And what I mean by that is just learning my body and learning how my tics work in different environments.
13:15So to now be in the kitchen, making things, using tools, using my hands, like, not being worried about my
13:21tics or scared about my tics.
13:22Like, it's just, like, unimaginable.
13:25Are you stressed about being so close to the actual wedding date?
13:31I'm just stressed over the fact that, like, there's just a lot of things that haven't happened or we haven't
13:36done yet and we're so close to the wedding.
13:38Yeah.
13:38Like, I know there's a lot that our wedding planner Shannon has to do, but Shannon doesn't do everything.
13:45Like, Shannon is not in control of me getting my dress.
13:49Maybe we could just do, like, a dome.
13:50We could put this one on top.
13:52So are you confused as to everybody else's, like, division of labor with some of this wedding stuff?
14:00Like, is that why you're a little bit slow to the go with giving us responsibilities or you're...
14:04Sammy had a responsibility for the bachelor bachelorette party.
14:08And it didn't end up working that way and we ended up creating our whole itinerary.
14:12And now I don't even know if she's coming.
14:17Me and Sammy are in a weird place.
14:20We've always had each other's back, so...
14:23It's just not even about the party.
14:25It's about the fact that you are the maid of honor.
14:27And that comes with duties and responsibilities.
14:30But there's also a lot of anger that I have with her not coming.
14:36Or not having an answer to coming.
14:40Suck .
14:44That sounds to me like it's a lot of miscommunication and undercommunication from what I'm hearing from both of you.
14:51Yeah, because you're in the middle.
14:52And it sucks.
14:53Because it's like neither one of us want to talk to each other and figure it out.
14:56I mean, I don't mind being in the middle, but it's...
14:59You guys both have a little bit of a stubborn side.
15:02No.
15:03Not us.
15:04But you have no...
15:05You guys have no problem each individually letting me know what the issue is.
15:11It's called talk .
15:13Talk .
15:13That's not nice.
15:15I'm just kidding.
15:16No.
15:17I don't talk .
15:18It's just...
15:19The only thing is that it's just really upsetting for me.
15:22But she's got to have some upsetting things on her side too.
15:25And that's why I'm pinching you to forcefully...
15:27I mean, I guess, but...
15:29...to just make a call and hear each other out.
15:34I hate to put it on Balin, but I really think it's Balin that needs to extend the olive branch
15:40in this situation.
15:42Because it is her big life event.
15:46And to not have your best friend by your side, what could be more hurtful, really?
15:53But if she continues to be stubborn about it, nothing is going to be accomplished.
15:57People are going to break your heart over and over again in life.
16:00They are.
16:02They are.
16:02I know you didn't expect your sister to do it.
16:04Definitely not her.
16:06I know.
16:07It sucks.
16:08It sucks.
16:10I know it does.
16:11It's not just like it's like anything.
16:12Like, this isn't like my birthday.
16:14I know.
16:16But you could only make the right decision for you.
16:18You can't...
16:19Yeah, all I know is that if she doesn't come...
16:22I'm still going to have fun with or without her.
16:24You should.
16:26I just want to tell her.
16:28That's how mad I am.
16:30Like, I'm so mad and I'm so upset.
16:33Like, I just am.
16:35She's my only sister.
16:36My only sister.
16:37The only one I got.
16:39Well, make sure you say that to her in your conversation.
16:42You see, I'm not mad at you.
16:43I'm just hurt.
16:44I'm deeply hurt.
16:52That's how I can.
16:52Yeah.
16:57I'm too mad at you.
16:57You're so mad at me.
16:57Oh, yeah.
16:58Give me...
17:00Something good.
17:02Don't make me wake up.
17:04Give me...
17:06Something good.
17:08You ready to go to your happy place?
17:10Oh, it's your happy place that I'm going to.
17:12I know.
17:12This is like my Super Bowl.
17:15It's pink everywhere.
17:17Holy crap.
17:24Welcome in.
17:26This is a shot glass.
17:27We get all the girls shot glasses.
17:29God damn!
17:32Let me know if you guys are shopping for anything particular.
17:36Our bachelorette party.
17:38Oh, so exciting.
17:39Yes, I'm so excited.
17:40That's so fun.
17:41Yes, I'm so excited.
17:41When's the big event?
17:42This weekend.
17:43Oh, my goodness.
17:44We've got to prep you up.
17:45Yes.
17:46That's why I walked in.
17:47I'm like, give me all this.
17:51After talking with my mom about Sammy,
17:54I realized that it really is very unfortunate and silly
17:58that me and Sammy have not reached out to each other.
18:01But also, I just don't like confrontation.
18:04I have this at home.
18:06So I would rather avoid the conversation about it, period.
18:10And I just really want to have a good time.
18:14So cute.
18:15Like it?
18:16We are looking for an outfit for the bachelor bachelorette party.
18:20The theme is last rodeo.
18:22And we picked it because I love that theme.
18:25Look at it.
18:25It's got a little bow.
18:26Oh, that's a good one to try on.
18:27OK.
18:28Here you go.
18:29All right.
18:29Thank you so much.
18:30I have been taking my GLP-1 for about two months
18:34because I gained 20 pounds from my medication.
18:37And it's really amazing for me.
18:40And I love it.
18:41And I've lost about six pounds.
18:42And we're trying on this one.
18:44So I do want to have some fun today.
18:46This one.
18:47I'm ready to try on some dresses.
18:49Hmm.
18:52See, look, it's got a blue bow.
18:54Yeah.
18:55Oh, I love this one.
18:57They don't have shopping carts?
18:59Who takes up the most space in the closet?
19:02I don't even get to use the closet.
19:06What is that?
19:07Colin, I don't know, but I need it.
19:09This is my .
19:13You cannot, you cannot look at me like that.
19:16You are marrying this.
19:17You knew this.
19:18You knew this from the day we met.
19:20OK, I'm going to go change.
19:21All right.
19:21Sounds good.
19:27Even in moments like this, it's hard not to just, like, adore her.
19:32Oh, God.
19:33Life is never dull with her.
19:37OK.
19:38Holy balls, man.
19:38Holy balls, man.
19:40Holy balls, man.
19:42Goddamn.
19:44Colin, you ready?
19:45Yep, I'm ready.
19:48Ooh.
19:51I like that one.
19:52Ooh, yeah.
19:52Yeah.
19:54OK.
19:54Typically, the dresses that I love, Balen hates.
19:58Why?
19:58You don't like it?
19:59It's not the best.
20:00Do a twirl.
20:01No.
20:02I only really want to see Balen in the tightest one.
20:04What's wrong with it?
20:06I'm going to go back in.
20:07OK.
20:08I mean, I like cleavage.
20:11OK.
20:11Mm-hmm.
20:12My parents are going to lose their mind.
20:15We're not 12.
20:18Here comes Santa.
20:19I'm sorry.
20:21I mean, what if we did a garter toss at the wedding?
20:24Your dad would have to sit there and watch me go underneath.
20:27No.
20:27OK.
20:28I'm going to be honest.
20:29It looked like a backdrop.
20:33We're not doing that.
20:34Well, I'm just saying, what if we did?
20:35No, what if we didn't?
20:37It's fun.
20:38It just doesn't flatter my body the way I want it to.
20:41So I'm going to go back in.
20:42I'm going to pretend like I never came out in this.
20:46Goddamn flat!
20:47Hold up.
20:48Wait.
20:48I want to come out in this, but I can't
20:49get it up past my kneecaps.
20:53Oh, yeah.
20:54That's a no.
20:55Oh, them kids.
21:04I really like that one.
21:07That's great.
21:07I'm glad you like it.
21:09Sure.
21:10Thank you for bringing me here.
21:12I really needed this motivation.
21:13Do you think we could go to the gym?
21:15Like every day, maybe three times a day, four times a day.
21:18Something.
21:19Something.
21:19Because I can't have people call me from bailing to wailing.
21:22OK?
21:22Can't do that.
21:24Why are you reading comments?
21:27Yes.
21:28When you put yourself out there on social media, you kind of expect hate.
21:32But to have comments about, like, your body, it doesn't necessarily feel the greatest.
21:39And I get a little bit down on myself.
21:43Babe, you look great.
21:46That's number one.
21:48I just wish that, you know, Baylin could see herself through my eyes and the way that
21:54I see her.
21:55I mean, she's the most beautiful woman that I've ever met.
22:07You like the disco one?
22:09I loved the disco one.
22:10This is adorable.
22:13And that's a must, right?
22:14Oh my god, I want to wear it home.
22:16I want to wear it until the wedding.
22:17Right?
22:18Yeah.
22:19It's so cute.
22:20Is everything all set for the trip?
22:23Yeah.
22:24Yeah.
22:24Other than Sammy.
22:25OK.
22:26And I don't know who's going to buy decorations.
22:28I would say just reach out to my sister.
22:32In all the years that I've known Baylin, I really haven't seen a rift between Baylin
22:37and Sammy to, like, this degree where the communication is just non-existent.
22:42Nothing's been addressed.
22:44Like, they haven't talked.
22:47Step on the wiener.
22:48Squish the wiener.
22:49Little baby wieners.
22:50Oh!
22:51I try to be as protective of Baylin as I can.
22:56But if Sammy's not going to be able to make it to the party, it's going to be really difficult
23:01for Baylin to get past this.
23:04Oh, my goodness.
23:05It's so cold.
23:09I wish then I could have, like, planned the trip with you.
23:12Sammy, what do you mean, help you plan?
23:15Colin reached out three times.
23:17I reached out.
23:19Did she ever contact you and say, hey, I want you to plan my bachelor and bachelor party?
23:23No.
23:23Get in touch with Austin and figure it out.
23:25No.
23:26I would have crushed that .
23:28I would have killed it.
23:43How many hours is the drive to Asheville?
23:45It's like seven hours.
23:47And a day!
23:50Woo-hoo, woo-hoo, woo-hoo.
23:53I'm so excited for this weekend.
23:54I have so much arts and crafts planned.
23:56I don't think you understand.
23:57I need a screwdriver in my hand and an arts and craft in my other hand.
24:01That's what I need.
24:02So you're building something and doing arts and crafts.
24:05What do you mean building?
24:06A screwdriver?
24:07No, a screwdriver, like vodka and orange juice.
24:10There you go.
24:11I'm not drinking as much as you, though, so I'll actually remember the vacation.
24:16Colin is, like, a partier by heart.
24:20Are you a lightweight in comparison?
24:21I am definitely a lightweight.
24:24Absolutely.
24:24Just remember Fluff and the pink car, and then you go and look at Balen, drunk, they're the same.
24:37What we're not going to be doing is all the things that go into this bachelorette party.
24:41We're not doing that.
24:42There'll be no little wieners, no little straws.
24:45We're not eating off a penis cake.
24:47He didn't want to bedazzle a penis.
24:49Penis?
24:50No.
24:54Colin sucks for a living in Nebraska, Omaha.
25:02It just sucks that Sammy hasn't given us an answer if she's going to be there or not.
25:07That's pretty .
25:09Knowing that I haven't talked to Sammy, I think that it's safe to say that she's not coming on the
25:14Bachelor Bachelorette trip, which is obviously heartbreaking.
25:19Woo!
25:20Get your cold cuts.
25:20Get your cold cuts.
25:21Get your cold cuts.
25:22Get your cold cuts.
25:23Where did that tick come from?
25:25I don't know.
25:26It's a meme somewhere.
25:29I'm Googling it.
25:31Oh.
25:33Guess who texted me?
25:35Who?
25:35Sammy.
25:36She wants me to call her.
25:38I'm about to my pants.
25:40I have so much anxiety.
25:45Hello.
25:47Hey.
25:48Hey.
25:50So what do you want to talk about?
25:54I just can't, I can't go.
25:57Why?
25:58There's, there's no feasible way for me to go.
26:01Like there's, there's none.
26:04If I'm like this super special important part of like being your maid of honor, I wish then I could
26:10have like planned the trip with you and be a part of it.
26:13What do you, Sammy, what do you mean help you plan?
26:16Colin reached out three times.
26:18I reached out.
26:20I was a part of no part of that process.
26:23Nothing.
26:24I got a group text just like everybody else did.
26:27Hey, this is where we're headed.
26:29This is what we're doing.
26:30Grabbing Hibachi the first day.
26:33When Baylen started planning her bachelor bachelorette party with Colin, she knew when she wanted it to be.
26:39But they didn't even have a plan of where they were staying until two weeks before.
26:45And then all of a sudden it's a group text.
26:47Hey, we're going to Asheville, North Carolina.
26:49Here's a list of itinerary and things.
26:52You guys had already bought that trip, Baylen.
26:56You had already bought and paid for that bachelorette trip.
26:59I thought she missed the N for Nashville, like Tennessee.
27:03No, Asheville.
27:05Okay.
27:06Um, let me look up an airport.
27:09Okay, there's no airport two hours away.
27:11How the are people getting there?
27:13And she was like, you just talk to everybody and figure out how they're getting there.
27:18I'm glad that you picked this place together, but there's not a regional airport within three hours of that place,
27:24Baylen.
27:25Because of my anxiety and OCD, I have a specific regimen for traveling.
27:30I only take one certain airline.
27:32I sit in a specific seat.
27:34I only fly nonstop.
27:36And if it's not on that regimen, like I spiral.
27:41None of my stuff lined up for it.
27:44I'm like, yeah, I'm not doing that.
27:46I remember.
27:47I remember talking to you.
27:48You already knew you were going to Asheville, North Carolina.
27:51Yes.
27:51And you reached out to us.
27:52Yes, because that's.
27:53That's what I'm saying.
27:54Because that's the bride and the groom's responsibility, is to pick the trip.
27:58No, it's not.
27:59I have never heard of the bride and the groom planning their own trip.
28:02They pick.
28:03Never in my life.
28:04They pick the trip.
28:06They just don't plan the trip.
28:08You did both.
28:10Yeah, because, Sammy, when we came to you and said, these are the things we want to do, nothing was
28:15done.
28:17Did she ever contact you and say, hey, I want you to plan my bachelorette, bachelorette party?
28:22No.
28:22Get in touch with Austin.
28:23No.
28:24The best man and figure it out.
28:25No.
28:26If Baylen had reached out to me as a priority and wanted to establish what she wanted to do for
28:33her, like, her bachelorette party, you know, give me a general area, what you want to do, I would have
28:38crushed that .
28:40I would have killed it.
28:42There really was things that we reached out for help for.
28:45But you're not going to turn this as, like, I'm a bad communicator.
28:49No.
28:49It's both of us.
28:50The communication has been terrible.
28:52It was poor planning, too.
28:54Like, when you pick a trip that's so far away from somebody, you can't expect everybody to go.
28:59I'm not expecting everyone to go, but I was expecting my best friend to come.
29:06And it hurts so bad.
29:09It really does.
29:21I'm sorry.
29:23Love you.
29:24Love you.
29:24Bye.
29:31I'm sorry.
29:33Sucks.
29:36I definitely have my play in this as well, but this is not going to be resolved before the party.
29:43I'm just confused on her reasoning on why.
29:48What was her reasoning?
29:49I mean, it's not all her.
29:51It's both of us.
29:52It is the both of you.
29:53But there was no attempt to plan it.
29:59So, like, from the jump, there was no attempt.
30:02It was like she already knew that she wasn't going to go.
30:28Holy crap.
30:29Look at all of the games.
30:31I'm so excited.
30:36The house is so cool.
30:38Oh, yeah.
30:40This is awesome.
30:42Sammy and I are definitely going to have to have a conversation after the weekend is done.
30:46I'm going to miss her, but I'm not going to let that stop me from having a good time with
30:49my other friends.
30:51Thank goodness all these decorations were shipped to the house already.
30:55Did y'all get any details about this weekend?
30:57I just found out two days ago.
31:00Are Bailey and Colin good communicators?
31:02No.
31:03They are probably some of the worst communicators ever.
31:07And I live in Florida.
31:09So, when I got here, I was kind of just thrown into things.
31:14Oh.
31:14Oh.
31:17Goddamn.
31:19Wait, I love you guys.
31:21This is so cute.
31:22There's Colin's horse for the wedding.
31:24Oh, my God.
31:25This is the exact horse that he will be taking to the wedding.
31:28Holy crap.
31:28Oh, my God.
31:28Wait.
31:29How was the drive?
31:30How are you guys in the suitcase?
31:32Who the room is this?
31:34That's yours.
31:35This is our room?
31:36The cabin, it's a pretty amazing place.
31:39It has about ten beds.
31:42Two hot tubs.
31:43There's food vault.
31:45I mean, there's just all kinds of stuff to do here.
31:47Wait, you need your hat, Bailey.
31:49Oh, my God.
31:50Y'all did everything.
31:51That's the cutest thing ever.
31:53Put your hats on, men.
31:55Yes, ma'am.
31:56Wait, who's here?
31:58Hi.
31:59It looks so cute.
32:02Oh, I love it.
32:04Oh, my God, you look.
32:06As you should.
32:08What's going on?
32:09What are you?
32:10What's going on?
32:12So, our bridal party is seven groomsmen and seven bridesmaids.
32:17I have Balen's brother, Burke, two friends that I made in D.C., AJ and Aiden, my friend Ethan,
32:25and then three guys that I met in the military.
32:28Walker, Mark, and Austin, who's my best man.
32:31Hey!
32:32What's up, man?
32:33What's up, dude?
32:34Oh, my God.
32:35How are you, man?
32:36How's it going, handsome guy?
32:37And my seven bridesmaids consist of my sister, Sammy, Colin's sister, Colleen, my high school
32:44friend, Kylie.
32:45Goddamn.
32:46My college friend, Kayla, and the friends I've made from D.C., Eileen, Leela, and Calebie.
32:53Unfortunately, Mark, Leela, Aiden, and Kylie were unable to make it.
32:59Hi!
33:00Oh, my God.
33:01Hi!
33:02I've got more decorations.
33:04More?
33:05More!
33:05Hi!
33:06Hi!
33:07Thank you so much for ordering all of them.
33:09Yes!
33:09They look so good!
33:10I know.
33:11Y'all did a great job.
33:12Over the last couple of months, there's been some questions about, like, what's going to
33:16happen here?
33:17What's the theme?
33:18And then Baelin reached out to me and asked me to help her kind of communicate with the
33:22girls on themes and planning and decoration and kind of what we're going to do for our
33:28side of things.
33:29Well, since everybody's here, I think it is a shot o'clock, so let's take some shots.
33:35Cheers!
33:38Congrats, Baelin and Colin.
33:46It's so hot.
33:48Oh, my God.
34:01Oh, my gosh.
34:03Are you so excited?
34:04Oh, my God, you're so cute.
34:05Hi!
34:06Hi.
34:06How are you?
34:07Thanks for coming.
34:08Oh, Barbara, my pleasure.
34:10Yeah, welcome.
34:11This is awesome.
34:13We're ready to party.
34:15you, bitch.
34:16Here they come.
34:17Three, two, one.
34:26I'm starving.
34:28I got my party dress on.
34:29It's a lot of room for hibachi.
34:32And some shots.
34:33You can put some shots in there, too.
34:35Welcome to hibachi!
34:39Good job.
34:40Okay, make a fire first.
34:44One, two, three.
34:48Fire!
34:52Peace!
34:55Okay, come on, boy.
34:57Good job, boy.
34:58Yeah!
34:59Oh!
35:03No more sake for me.
35:04Too much.
35:05Take a dick, Bo!
35:07What'd he say?
35:08Oh!
35:09Can you say it again?
35:11The girl say, take a dick, Bo.
35:16I'm sorry.
35:17So I have Tourette's syndrome.
35:19What do you mean?
35:21Do you know what Tourette's syndrome?
35:22Goddamn!
35:23Do you know what Tourette's syndrome is?
35:24I don't know.
35:25I have involuntary motor and vocal sounds that I make.
35:30So I wasn't saying anything towards you.
35:33I'm just...
35:35Okay.
35:35So do you want to do the one T for cooking?
35:39You want me to come cook?
35:40Yeah!
35:41You want me to come cook?
35:42Yeah!
35:43You want me to come cook?
35:44Yeah!
35:44Be careful.
35:45All right.
35:47Let's go!
35:48Yay!
35:50Oh, he wants us to cook.
35:52I can't get too close to the hot flames because of my tics.
35:55So I hope this goes okay.
35:58Yeah, I bet you got that.
35:59Okay.
36:00Oh, yeah.
36:01Easy.
36:02Easy.
36:02Yes, I think you have to do it.
36:04You want to...
36:05Oh, smell you?
36:06Yeah.
36:07Goddamn!
36:08You got it, Bailey.
36:09There he goes!
36:15Get up in the air!
36:17Come on, guys!
36:17Get it good!
36:18Come on, I'm up!
36:19And finish and throw!
36:21Yay!
36:24I'm having the best time at Hibachi.
36:26Bo is so entertaining.
36:28Yay!
36:30Saki!
36:31Saki!
36:32Saki!
36:33Yay!
36:35Have you ever had Saki before?
36:37Mm-mm.
36:38I've never had Saki.
36:39Saki, Saki.
36:40Saki.
36:40I've never...
36:42Saki.
36:42Never had Saki before!
36:44There you go.
36:45Thank you!
36:46Thank you, girl!
36:48Thank you!
36:49Welcome to Hapati!
36:50Yeah!
36:51Thank you, thank you, thank you.
36:52Dinner just finished.
36:53What's the plan for the rest of it?
36:54Shots!
36:55I'm doing crafts.
37:06Oh my God!
37:08It's time to bedazzle.
37:11I like it.
37:11We're gonna head with that.
37:15Thank you guys so much for being here and for bedazzling.
37:18Of course.
37:20I wouldn't have it any other way.
37:22Even though I do love every single girl that's here and I'm having a blast with them, I do wish
37:28Sammy was here.
37:29I truthfully believe from the bottom of my heart she loves me deeply, but I just won't forget the fact
37:36that she was not there for me for my Bachelor-Bachelorette trip.
37:41Hey, can I talk to you real quick?
37:43Uh, sure.
37:44My sister and I have like always been like really close.
37:47I know that I can count on her in any situation that I'm in.
37:51How's everything going?
37:54Um, really wanted to talk to you about like Sammy and everything.
37:59Yeah.
38:01But can Balen count on Sammy the way that I can count on my sister?
38:06I would say no.
38:08You know, like she's the maid of honor.
38:09Yeah.
38:10She's not here.
38:12And I see how much that affects Balen.
38:16As much as I have been trying to stay as neutral as possible, recently I've been finding myself more inclined
38:23to want to step in.
38:26Sammy didn't just drop the ball.
38:28Sammy never even picked it up.
38:31So my concern is that Sammy's not going to be able to fully uphold her duties as a maid of
38:37honor.
38:37Sure.
38:38As much as I try to stay out of sister drama, I think it's really gotten to the point where
38:45Balen needs to, she needs to make a change.
38:55well, hey, I'm happy to be able to be able to be able to be able to get back and
39:16be able to be able to work with her.
39:19I like...
39:21Dick.
39:21Nope.
39:23Colin's talking about having kids.
39:25The baby fever.
39:26The baby fever kick.
39:27I'm not even sure I can even get pregnant.
39:30We're just kind of here to get some answers.
39:32We should think about surgery sooner rather than later.
39:37Bitch.
39:38The lead up to the wedding is just going to be crazy.
39:41Time is ticking.
39:42How is wedding planning going?
39:43Haven't picked out my dress.
39:45Oh.
39:46Do you see a groom when you look in the mirror?
39:48I would have never thought that I would be married at 25.
39:51You a blackjack dealer?
39:56Can you twerk in a dress?
39:58I don't know how to twerk, but I'm going to learn.
40:01You don't want...
40:01Oh, no, you're not going to learn.
40:03Oh, my God.
40:03Do you have to do it naked?
40:04I got to go.
40:06I was thinking something more silky like that.
40:09I still have to approve every bridesmaid's dress.
40:13Bridezilla.
40:15It's kind of crazy she called you a bridezilla.
40:17I'm not going to lie.
40:19Bitch.
40:20A lot is happening.
40:21A potential move.
40:22Our wedding.
40:24Colin's new job.
40:25We're going to buy a house instead of renting a house.
40:27That's the dumbest idea I've ever heard.
40:29You have no idea what you're getting into, bae.
40:31All I want is for you to just tell me your heart and where you stand.
40:36There are some things that need to change.
40:40Dick!
40:40So what are you suggesting?
40:45We have some very important news.
40:48What bomb's about to drop?
40:52We're six months out, but I'm having really bad second guesses about it.
40:57What the , Balin.
41:00What the , Balin.