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This week on Truth Told, we debunk the stigma surrounding sex workers. This work has long been criminalized putting the individuals in the field at risk. Watch this video to better understand what it means to be a sex worker.

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Transcript
00:00Sex work is one of the few ways that women have relatively easy access to
00:07upward mobility and financial security. And I think that's why it is so
00:14threatening to conservative values or the patriarchy because it inherently
00:21destabilizes them.
00:23Sex work is one, sex work is one, women tend to do most of the emotional and
00:37sexual labor in our society and I think it's really devalued. I think that's
00:42part of the reason why sex work is so demonized. The police can't protect you
00:47if you're in a criminalized market, it just doesn't work.
00:52This industry, it's really racist, it's really transphobic, when they are walking
01:01around on the street, minding their own business.
01:06She just came and put pepper spray on me.
01:09When they leave, you better leave too, I promise.
01:13The most that police will do for you is give you a fine and if they're very
01:17generous, they'll just leave you alone. And that's like the best you can hope for.
01:22We're not the animals who they think that we are. We're not the sex worker on your street
01:26corner robbing your apartment. We're just trying to survive.
01:30Because your system does not help us.
01:39We need to discriminate because everybody's equal. Everybody should be treated equally.
01:47The most dehumanizing thing is to be criminalized for your labor and trying to survive.
01:54Perfect. Sounds great. And can't wait to see you.
02:00This reminds me of when my parents used to send these really pretty dresses to me from the US.
02:07I grew up in Honduras and kind of like a mountainous region.
02:12I had to be smuggled over the border when I was five.
02:17Growing up, my parents influenced a lot of my sexuality and the way I look at my gender.
02:23I was raised to show off my sexuality, but to not be a whore.
02:28It was hard to fit into this mold that my parents wanted me in.
02:32Because I loved sexuality and I was fascinated by it.
02:36And I feel like the more they policed me, the more it kind of drove me towards it.
02:40So for me, sex work is powerful.
02:45Nobody's been able to end sex work.
02:48Nobody has really been able to deter people away from sex work.
02:52So at what point do you sit down and say, hey, we have an issue.
02:57How are we going to address it?
03:05We want to make sure that they have the resources and are able to report violence against them.
03:11And they're never going to be able to do that if we continue to stigmatize and criminalize them.
03:15The decrim bill, what it does is change the penal code for only two of the three parties traditionally involved
03:26in sex work.
03:27There's the trafficker or pimp, the word I hate, the sex worker and the customer.
03:34So we're trying to decriminalize the interaction between the worker and the customer.
03:40But leave the penal code intact for the trafficker to make sure that they are still put behind bars for
03:48exploiting people.
03:50So you can't tell me that you're, for example, a pro-choice person who supports the rights to abortion, right?
04:00But don't support the right to do sex work when it's a person's autonomy.
04:05It's a person's body.
04:11How much I make in a year varies.
04:14Last year it was $500,000, give or take.
04:19You know, that was with me taking several months off, you know, going on vacation.
04:27It's the type of work where if you're really on top of it and approaching it as a job and
04:33as a career,
04:34I have a really good retirement account.
04:37I can probably retire younger.
04:40It's been both emotionally and financially rewarding.
04:45People like me who are white, thin, conventionally attractive,
04:50basically aren't affected by criminalization for the most part at all.
04:55Whereas people like some of my friends who might be black, might be trans,
05:02they are going to have the police throw at them whatever laws they can throw.
05:09I think a lot of the work that's being done to decriminalize sex work is really important.
05:17It's going to be absolutely necessary for our community to heal from the very real trauma that criminalization brought upon
05:27us.
05:28I'm hoping that we can move away from policing and prison and criminalization as a deterrent for, like, morality and
05:36bad behavior.
05:38Sex workers are everywhere, you know.
05:41If you think you don't know a sex worker, you're mistaken.
05:48We know it's not going to be easy and we know it's going to take a long time.
05:52We're just willing to do the work.
06:00We're just willing to do the work.
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