00:01three calls and it all is all about your advice to someone who needs it from the andy summer show
00:08and our letter this morning comes from lance he didn't actually write us a letter but he did send
00:14us a dm on facebook he says i'm not big into the rumor mill and gossip but i've been hearing
00:20some
00:21things concerning my girlfriend and a friend that have riled me up already this sounds bad right
00:27uh lance writes over the weekend we were at a party having a good time and at one point i
00:33guess
00:33i went to get her a drink go to the bathroom or something but some other friends overheard this
00:38guy who i thought was cool chatting up my girl saying things like you should take my number in
00:44case things don't work out he said so i asked her about it and she laughed and said it was
00:49nothing
00:50and that he was just drunk and i'm not feeling that i feel like i should confront the guy it's
00:56not that i don't trust her it's more that he's really disrespectful so do i pull him aside and uh
01:03or just let it go either way i don't think that we should be hanging out anymore after this well
01:10having known donnie for this many years donnie what are you doing well i would never do that i would
01:16never go up to a dude's girl like that yeah but that but this has happened to me where somebody's
01:22came up to my girlfriend and and started to say negative things about me because he liked her and
01:28i immediately confronted him and was like dude what's your problem because the only the only reason
01:34i did that i wasn't trying to be like big tough guy i was also trying to make it known
01:40that i have her
01:41back and that like that's not cool in general and i want my girlfriend to know that like i'm sticking
01:49up for you i have this like and i and i don't think that's proper right and it's kind of
01:54like
01:54a sign to other guys like come on man like don't here's the conundrum in that like i see where
02:00your
02:00heart is yeah but it also from a female perspective can feel like you're defending your property right
02:08like who are you like if some guy came up to me and was hitting on me even though i
02:13was with someone
02:13else i would be flattered and i would probably behave just the way that she did like oh he was
02:17just drunk
02:18yeah i'm not taking his number i'm not calling him like you're fine just move on totally not cool
02:24for this other guy to hit on a girl who's there with a different guy but yeah at the same
02:31time like
02:32she didn't do anything she didn't follow through so just let it go yeah because it's not your battle
02:38to fight i get what you're saying andy about that and i feel like sometimes i because i've been in
02:43on
02:43both sides of this right sometimes in saying something you're doing it to defend your manhood
02:47as well like i need to be a man in front of this man i ran into with emily while
02:54we were dating one
02:54of her ex-boyfriends at a bar and he was being a jerk talking to her we were kind of
03:00in a group of
03:00like five or six people but he's like very focused on talking to her and you know she introduces me
03:06he
03:06doesn't even look me in the eye right and keeps talking to her and whatever and then kind of
03:10shoulder bumps me on his way out okay and then i realized in that very moment he's just jealous
03:18yeah because i'm married to the most beautiful woman in the world now but dating the most beautiful
03:22woman in the world what is making a scene at a bar and knowing my wife too i don't pretend
03:27to know
03:27lance's girlfriend she hates confrontation right she's like do not get involved like let them be the
03:33jerk let them be the guy talking to him like i don't need that scene surrounding me okay so you're
03:38saying don't say i wouldn't say anything yeah i haven't said anything and i wouldn't i think that
03:42is innocent he was drunk she's playing it off you should follow her lead okay well you know we all
03:47have our own opinions but what is it that you think
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