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90 Day Diaries S08E01 (2026)

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00:31We have a really big secret that we have been keeping from everyone, and that is we are pregnant with
00:39baby number four.
00:40Kobe and I are going to tell the kids the big news.
00:44What big news, Mom?
00:45It's all right.
00:48How are things with Dallas?
00:49Could be better.
00:50Me and my partner, Dallas, we've been together for almost three years, but I can't shake the feeling that something
00:58else is up.
00:58It's like 3.15 in the morning, and Dallas is parked down the street again.
01:03Is he cheating?
01:04This just feels like torture.
01:07These are the options.
01:09Let's see what Ashley thinks.
01:11Ashley, I need your help.
01:13Man, she has no idea what's coming.
01:15Look at that.
01:16I'm about to propose for Chantelle this weekend.
01:19I am so nervous.
01:21I just hope she says yes.
01:22Chantelle, I really, really gotta say this.
01:28We're on our way to our gate to go to Juarez.
01:31We started the visa process for Armando and Hannah to move to the United States, and they finally have their
01:37interview date.
01:38How'd it go?
01:40Something that we weren't expecting just happened.
01:44What was I doing?
01:47No, because at the mosquito center.
01:50Okay.
01:53Matt's mom and I don't have the best relationship.
01:56This woman is very detrimental, so I really want to prove that this is a new version of Jasmine, but
02:03whatever I do, she finds something wrong about it.
02:07Why do you keep leaving me alone with your mom?
02:10This is quite a moment for me.
02:12I'm gonna lose it.
02:14It's been a long day, long night, fighting through.
02:17I'm saying, hey.
02:19Uh-oh.
02:20It's getting serious here.
02:21Megan's got a baby coming, and I have doubts about being a father, so I'm getting the paternity test.
02:27Swallowed.
02:28Big, sure.
02:29100%.
02:29You're a sadistic person.
02:39Give me your love, give me your love.
02:46Kelly, we're giving your mom a baby.
02:50You will like this, and I will look so good.
02:54Yeah.
02:55My name is Jasmine.
02:56I'm 39 years old, and I'm from Panama City, Panama.
03:00This is our daughter, Matilda.
03:03She's eight months old.
03:04And I am Matthew.
03:06I am 37, and I'm from Michigan, but now I live in Florida.
03:15I like how it feels, baby.
03:18Almost my whole life, I have a struggle with alopecia areata, which is an autoimmune condition, and it causes bald
03:26patches on my hair.
03:27After I have Matilda, they were multiplying by the day, so I made a very drastic decision, which was to
03:37shave my head.
03:39Mat even shaved his head as well.
03:42He has more hair than I do.
03:44Just to prove to me that he desires me, and he loves me regardless.
03:49Oh, no, sure.
03:50He's the pretty best.
03:52But once, after being excited about it and feeling so loved, my second reaction was like,
03:59Dude, he's ugly.
04:01Dude, he's ugly.
04:01With that hair.
04:03But I'm loving it.
04:06Every four to five days, I shave my head, and it includes every time I massage.
04:14So, I wake up happy when it is shaved my head.
04:18Okay.
04:21Okay, you know.
04:24Massage.
04:26Massage.
04:28See?
04:28The hair goes, but the attitude is not.
04:32Yeah.
04:33Comes for free hair, no?
04:35Yeah.
04:35Here we go.
04:37My nighty day begins with Gino.
04:40We met on a sugar baby side.
04:44He was very handsome, and it was instant love.
04:47So, I moved to the United States.
04:49Baby!
04:51No more!
04:52Woo-hoo-hoo!
04:53Oh, my God!
04:55Ninety day later, I married him.
04:58Te amo, te amo?
05:00Te amo muchísimo.
05:04Then things started to go down the drain.
05:08He denied me of intimacy.
05:12I'm so desperate, you know, to have some sort of validation from you, like you actually
05:17attracted to me, like my husband doesn't make love to me.
05:20We received therapy, and we both agree on having an open marriage.
05:26I decided that I want to go forward with it.
05:29Is it a yes?
05:30I need to take action.
05:32Yes.
05:33Matt was the person that we selected to be part of our open marriage.
05:37He was just supposed to be a buddy, just to have sex with me.
05:45But my husband got super jealous and accused me of cheating on him, which is not true.
05:52The phone records are showing you having this relationship with Matt four months before
05:56I agreed to open marriage.
05:58Because you didn't want to drive me to the gym, Matt offered himself to drive me back
06:03and forth, and I have to call him like, hey, are you going to the gym?
06:07Yeah.
06:07Come pick me up.
06:08I don't want to hear your explanations.
06:28I love you.
06:31I love you.
06:33I love you.
06:35I love you.
06:39Because honestly, he was just used for sex, but that was before, baby.
06:43I still use him for that, but now I also love him.
06:48We have another big change coming here soon, too.
06:52Are you pregnant?
07:01Yes, we are on our way to our first house, officially homeowners.
07:08I'm so happy.
07:09I can't believe it.
07:11Please pinch me.
07:12Pinch me.
07:12This is not true.
07:13Oh, you are driving.
07:14Don't worry.
07:14I pinch myself.
07:16I fell in love with this house.
07:18Unfortunately for Matt, it went, you know, above the budget that he proposed.
07:26But I told him, is this or nothing?
07:29Right, my love?
07:31Dino taught her well.
07:35We are here.
07:40This is like the most beautiful house.
07:44These are happy tears.
07:47A kiss.
07:53Okay, Matilda, are you ready?
07:57It's happening.
07:59You ready?
08:00I love this right here, too.
08:02I love these tiles.
08:03Everything is perfect.
08:04So beautiful.
08:07Coco, this is our house.
08:14This is your castle, my princess.
08:19This house is perfect.
08:20And it is exactly what I wanted.
08:23It feels like the home where I want to grow up our family.
08:28Open the door, baby.
08:30This is one of my favorite parts of the house, the pool.
08:34And it's beautiful.
08:37And I have a fence.
08:39So I can do skinny dipping in the pool.
08:42And my neighbors are not going to see me.
08:45Matilda.
08:46Ah, she's happy.
08:49She loves the pool.
08:51You have to drink those blushes.
08:53Yes, okay.
08:54I'm going to show you the kitchen.
08:57It's so beautiful.
09:00Look at it.
09:01I want to live in the kitchen.
09:04I want to let you know that this is my hosting era.
09:11And I want to host our family for Thanksgiving.
09:16Uh, have you ever hosted a Thanksgiving dinner?
09:20Like, have you made a turkey?
09:21Have you carved a turkey?
09:23I have seen turkeys.
09:26Matt is a very traditional father.
09:29And he is very fixated into me being the traditional housewife.
09:35And I have had to change the way I dress.
09:38I cannot show up like cleavage.
09:41All the sexy, slutty clothes from Daddy Jasmine are gone.
09:46And I'm just baking, cooking, and cleaning every freaking day.
09:51I feel like I went back in time.
09:54Instead of turkey, could it be chicken?
09:58No.
09:59It has to be a turkey.
10:00What do you mean?
10:01It's Thanksgiving.
10:02They are not going to notice.
10:03There is a difference between turkey and chicken.
10:05No, it's just the size.
10:08No.
10:10I was vegan for 12 years.
10:12But when I got pregnant, Matt didn't want me to follow my vegan lifestyle and diet.
10:18He's like, you have to eat meat for the baby.
10:20So I was like, you know what?
10:22Whatever, I eat meat.
10:23And I'm eating meat now.
10:25I'm a carnivore.
10:27My mom's going to want turkey.
10:30Because it's Thanksgiving.
10:32I'm going to make the turkey.
10:37Mom's mom and I don't have the best relationship.
10:40This woman is extremely religious, very judgmental.
10:46Mom, I lied about us being engaged.
10:50I wish you guys do the right thing to be saved in God's eyes and not to go to hell.
10:57I know, Mom. I know.
10:58It's okay. It's okay.
10:59Relax, Mama. Relax.
11:02She looked at me like I'm Jezebel, the woman that is responsible for dragging his innocent baby, Matt, to hell.
11:11And I really want to prove to his family that this is the new me.
11:15This is a new version of Jasmine.
11:17So if I have to cook a turkey, host Thanksgiving, and have his family for a few days, which is
11:25a lot,
11:26.
11:27it. I'll do it.
11:28I suck it up and put on a happy face.
11:33Wow, you're pretty sexy when you know what you like.
11:36Oh, you don't know.
11:37You don't want to stop me like a turkey, but don't your turkey. Stop.
11:41Stop.
11:46Stop.
11:49Stop.
11:49Stop.
11:54Well, I'm dressing very pretty to make dinner and bake bread before Matt arrives.
12:00But all I do is to talk to baby and my dog.
12:04So I need some human interaction.
12:05I'm going to call my sister while I do some baking.
12:09My sisters are my best friend and I talk to them every single day with no exceptions.
12:31I have two sisters, but Suelen is the closest to me. She's literally my soulmate. She knows me better than
12:40I know myself.
12:41I have to cook for Matt.
12:45You know that he doesn't like to buy food on the street. When he comes from work, I have to
12:50have the food ready for him.
12:53Are you happy? Are you happy like that?
12:57Sometimes.
12:57Sometimes.
13:00He doesn't want me to put my clothes very provocative.
13:05And now that we move, he's going to be reviewing my closet and he's going to see what clothes I
13:10can use right now.
13:13Well, as your sister, I'm sincere. I don't like it. I'm not sure how to control your clothes.
13:20Matt.
13:21Matt no va a aceptar tener como una mujer, madre de su hija, una mujer que no es sumisa.
13:31Jasmine y la palabra sumisa juntas no van. Él te controla.
13:38Ay, niña, pero lo que pasa es que él es de Romania. Entonces ellos tienen esas ideas conservativas.
13:46Siento que si no me comporto así, su mamá va a ir y le va a buscar una mujer romaní
13:54que le va a dar lo que yo no le puedo dar.
13:57Y no quiero que sea un patrón.
14:00Aquí no es que no quieras perder, es que tú no pierdas tu esencia.
14:06This is nothing I was in the past.
14:09Reaching differently, speaking differently, hosting, cooking, baking, cleaning, serving
14:14him, you name it, is something that I have never ever done for anyone, but he is my person
14:21and I really want to prove to him and to his family that this is the new me.
14:25This is a new version of just me, but on the other hand, I feel like I'm not being true
14:31to myself and I'm like holding with big chains and bits inside of me and it's becoming harder
14:42and harder for me to have her, you know, contained inside of me and it scares me.
14:50Te amo mucho y te quiero despedirme de verdad.
14:54Niña, me tengo que ir porque ya los niños se miran a la plaza.
14:56Sí, te quiero mucho. Salúdame a los niños. Te amo.
14:58Te amo, niña.
14:59Besito.
15:00Chao.
15:02Ay, ay, ay.
15:15Normally, I pick the kids' clothes out the night before, but it was a crazy night last
15:20night, so we're running behind, very, very running behind, so.
15:25I'm Lauren.
15:27I'm 37 years old and I'm from Hollywood, Florida.
15:30And I'm Alex and I'm also 37 years old and I'm originally from Nofa Galil, Israel.
15:37My goodness.
15:39Whoa, whoa, whoa.
15:39Look at this.
15:41This is what I walk down to.
15:43Cheap out.
15:44They have all the fun and I'm the one that has to go do all the work.
15:49So nice.
15:51Our 90-day journey began on a birthright trip in Israel.
15:56I was the staff leader.
15:58I was the medic.
15:59And he didn't do anything.
16:01After a year and a half of dating, we went through the K-1 visa process and we got married
16:06here and in Israel.
16:10We waited a few years and then popped out a few kids back to back to back.
16:16And here we are 10 years later.
16:20Come here.
16:21What is that you're doing?
16:22And why are you eating cheese?
16:23No cheese right now.
16:24What?
16:25No after brushing.
16:27You know the rules.
16:28Our three kids are five, four, and three years old.
16:40And Alex still to this day never gets their name right on the first try.
16:44I get confused.
16:47We got to go.
16:48I'm leaving.
16:49Dima's leaving.
16:52No, I'm going to go to action.
16:53This house is such a mess.
16:54Okay.
16:55Life right now is pure chaos.
16:58Close the door, please.
16:59One, two, three, quickly.
17:00Being a mom is amazing, but I also want to feel productive and have a career outside of
17:05being just a mom.
17:07So with the kids getting older, I've started to slowly kind of go back to like my roots
17:12and marketing, advertising.
17:14I have a few clients, but I'm always trying to expand and get more.
17:18But it is challenging building this career again.
17:22Let's go.
17:23Let's go.
17:23Oh my God.
17:25Go to the car.
17:26Son of a dead lizard.
17:31You guys are crazy this morning, huh?
17:34Do you think you were a good, great accent for Ema?
17:37No.
17:38Okay.
17:38Well, at least you're honest.
17:42Oh, okay, guys.
17:43You're going to be quiet, okay?
17:46Hello.
17:47Hi, honey.
17:48Hi, Auntie Rona.
17:50Hi.
17:51Are you with the kids?
17:52I sure am with the kids.
17:53Okay.
17:54I have some really exciting news.
17:56Are you ready?
17:57The beauty brand that you've been working with for the past couple months.
18:01Uh-huh.
18:02They are planning a really big Mother's Day campaign.
18:06Really?
18:07And they want you to be the face of it.
18:10No.
18:11Really?
18:12Yes.
18:13Availability.
18:14Hold on one second.
18:15Let me pull over for a second.
18:18I'm going to talk to Auntie Rona now, okay?
18:21Okay, tell me.
18:22So here's the deal.
18:23They want you to be the face of the Mother's Day campaign, and they want the kids involved.
18:32Interesting.
18:33This is the vision.
18:34You are a busy mom.
18:36Get ready with me in the morning to leave the house.
18:39I don't have more than 30 seconds to look like a human being before I run out of the house
18:44and we see the kids.
18:45And you grab the kids and go.
18:48I love that.
18:49Yeah, yeah.
18:50That's the realness, though.
18:52That's, like, the reality, right?
18:54I would really love to film a little sizzle reel just that we have in our back pocket.
19:00Okay.
19:01You know, I've worked with Rona a lot in the past.
19:04She's also one of my best friends.
19:06So when she comes to me with this amazing opportunity with a client that I know and I've had an
19:13ongoing relationship with, like, they know my family, they know my kids.
19:16So it really does make it appropriate to do a Mother's Day campaign around me with the kids because I'm
19:24just a mom when they go.
19:26Listen, I'm for it.
19:28I just have to get Alex on board with it.
19:31Okay, perfect.
19:32Let me know when and I'll make myself available.
19:35This is so perfect.
19:36But Alex has always been against the kids participating in stuff on social media.
19:42He thinks that they're too young.
19:43They don't understand it.
19:44But the reality is if they don't want to do it, they're not going to do it.
19:48So I definitely think that I can get him on board with them being a part of the campaign.
19:53All right.
19:54I will talk to you later.
19:56Bye, honey.
19:56Love you.
19:57Bye, guys.
19:57Bye.
19:59Bye.
20:00Bye.
20:00Bye.
20:01Bye.
20:01Bye.
20:07Hello.
20:08Hi, guys.
20:10Hi.
20:11Hello, hello.
20:13Auntie Rona is here.
20:15Oh, I love you.
20:15We're going to film some stuff while Alex is not here.
20:18Hi, my husband.
20:20So after thinking about it for a little bit, I've decided that I'm just going to go ahead and
20:25shoot the sizzle reel behind Alex's back.
20:28Alex is at work right now, and I know if I ask him first, it's going to be an immediate
20:33no.
20:34Hi.
20:35This is a big opportunity for the kids if they want to explore this kind of job in the future.
20:39And it can also help with their college funds, too.
20:42So I'm just going to ask for forgiveness before permission.
20:47Um, so explain to me, like, what is a sizzle?
20:51I mean, essentially, I'm just going to take a few videos just getting a feel of the kids'
20:57personalities so I can take this over to my clients and give them something that they
21:01can get a feel for each one of them.
21:04Okay.
21:04Like their energy, their personality.
21:06Exactly.
21:06All right.
21:08You want to give it a try, ma'am?
21:09Are you ready?
21:11Here's the thing.
21:12I know my husband like the back of my hand, and I know that if he sees the sizzle and
21:18he
21:18sees how happy the kids are and how much fun they're having, like, he's definitely going
21:22to be on board with them being a part of this campaign.
21:25I just, I have to get this video done first.
21:28Oh, you're on your bench.
21:30Move over.
21:31How many people can we fit in here?
21:33Oh, there goes my mirror.
21:34What we're going to do is we're going to get mommy ready, okay?
21:38So, wait, when I'm going to step out, you're going to brush your hair, okay?
21:41And you're going to say, mommy, let's use this beautiful purple serum.
21:46Can you say serum?
21:47Serum.
21:47There you go.
21:49She's in.
21:50Okay.
21:53Rona walks in, and the kids are going crazy.
21:56Like, they're so excited, but you can see that they're so tired, and I'm a little nervous
22:01to see how it's going to go today.
22:03Ashley, you can give me the headband.
22:05Can you give me the serum?
22:06Okay.
22:06Can I have the serum?
22:07I'll open it.
22:08No, you can't open it.
22:09I can open it.
22:11And who's going to put a headband on my hair?
22:12Okay.
22:13Okay.
22:13Because I have it.
22:14Okay.
22:15He's taking the brush that you just broke.
22:18Oh, there goes Emma's phone.
22:20It's here.
22:21This video, so far, it's not going well.
22:26What are you doing in there?
22:27I'm directing you.
22:29I'm telling you what to do.
22:29Oh, you're putting me in jail?
22:30Getting ready with me.
22:31Why are you putting this on?
22:33Oh, I've got to put you down.
22:34Can you give me another thing?
22:35I think next time we film, we'll film after nap time, and they'll be a little bit more focused.
22:41Oh, do I need one more thing?
22:42Go ahead.
22:43Go ahead.
22:43Put it on.
22:44Go get ready with mommy.
22:45Now you're super beautiful.
22:47Now I'm super beautiful.
22:49The kids were a little slap-happy, but you could see that they were having fun.
22:54It wasn't forced.
22:55Like, they were genuinely enjoying themselves.
22:57So I will take this as a win.
23:00Did you like it?
23:01Yeah.
23:01Who do you think did the best?
23:02Yay.
23:03And now the reality is, is I have to tell Alex about this, and I don't know how he's going
23:08to take it.
23:09I don't know if he's going to be more angry that I did it behind his back.
23:13I don't know if he's going to be more angry that there's this video now.
23:15Like, I don't know.
23:18All right.
23:18We did it.
23:19It's a wrap.
23:35I know I need to come clean to Alex about doing the sizzle with the kids.
23:39I'm hoping that he'll be open to the idea of them potentially doing campaigns, but I'm
23:45nervous to tell him.
23:47I don't know how he's going to react.
23:48It's always been a hard note from him, and I'm hoping that changes, and I can use these
23:54clips and this video to show Alex that the kids love it, and that that can kind of move
24:00us into the next phase of my job and even work for the kids.
24:06What's going on?
24:07We had a crazy day with the kids, and they're all not fitting, so I figured, let me just
24:13take a minute for myself.
24:15That's amazing.
24:16What do you do?
24:19Basically, a company that I've worked with in the past reached out because they want
24:26me to be the face of a Mother's Day campaign, but they want the kids involved.
24:35Look, I don't know.
24:37I'm not for it right now.
24:38They're on TV from their birth.
24:41I'm not sure I want to have them involved.
24:44They're in it already enough.
24:48Well, Rona came over today, and we filmed content with the kids.
24:57I'm really mad at you doing it while I'm at work.
25:00You understand?
25:02It's behind my back you're doing this stuff.
25:05Rona has a pattern on when she feels like I might say no to something, then she just does
25:11it, and it's just sneaky to do it that way.
25:13I mean, it's, you know, it pisses me off.
25:16Hear me out.
25:17It's not, I hear you out.
25:19There's nothing to hear out.
25:20Listen, if they don't want to do it, I'm not going to be...
25:23No, that's for sure.
25:24You're not going to force them.
25:26That's for sure.
25:27Bye.
25:27Rona, when I try to say a sentence, you need to shut up.
25:49You gave me the chance, so now I'm over you.
25:55I am on my way to get my hair and makeup done for my celebratory single AF boudoir photo
26:00shoot.
26:01I decided to do something that is totally out of character for me because it's a new
26:06me, a new life, a new everything, so I just wanted to test my boundaries.
26:13My name is Ariella.
26:15I am 34 years old.
26:16I'm from Princeton, New Jersey, but I currently live in Las Vegas, Nevada.
26:20I'm a little bit introverted, so for me to do a boudoir photo shoot is a little bit
26:23a little out of my comfort zone, but it's just going to be like hanging out with friends
26:28with a camera.
26:29And a little less close.
26:30Yes.
26:31Ooh.
26:32My 90-day journey began seven years ago when I met Binnie in Addis Ababa, Ethiopia.
26:39When I first saw Binnie, I thought, wow, he's really good looking, but I can't necessarily
26:45always trust my own judgment because I have terrible eyesight.
26:50But we quickly fell in love.
26:52I got pregnant, and we decided to do the K-1 visa so we could move together to the United
26:58States.
27:00Arie, Arie, that's for you.
27:02Welcome to the U.S.
27:04And then 90 days later, we got married.
27:07With I and F, you see what?
27:10It all happened so quickly.
27:12It was a whirlwind, but there was some infidelity on his part.
27:18Multiple infidelities.
27:20We thought that trying couples therapy at a resort would help.
27:23You betrayed me.
27:25You lied to me.
27:27I can't keep it inside anymore.
27:29You came for fixing this relationship?
27:31I came to tell the truth.
27:31You came for fixing this alone?
27:33I thought we would come and you would tell the truth.
27:35I don't swear on my son's life, not like you.
27:39you.
27:41I was committed to doing everything possible to fix our marriage, but unfortunately,
27:46Binnie wasn't.
27:48Well, my hair already looks amazing.
27:52I mean, really.
27:54Currently, Binnie and I are separated.
27:56We are living in different apartments, living different lives, but we are still married
28:01because Binnie refused to sign the divorce papers, and he refuses to talk to me about
28:08it at all.
28:10We're done.
28:12Wow, wow, wow.
28:13This is some of your best work yet.
28:15I feel like it's a cross between a Swedish swimsuit model, a mermaid.
28:21What do you think?
28:22I don't know.
28:23All of it, girl.
28:24Yeah.
28:25But as soon as Binnie signs these divorce papers, we will be exes.
28:29And I am so ready to start my life as a single person.
28:35In celebration of my single AF-ness, I'm wearing whites as I'm getting unmarried.
28:41Exactly.
28:42After years of being cheated on, my self-esteem took a major hit.
28:45I didn't feel worthy of love, and I just don't want to feel that way anymore.
28:48Okay, let's get it.
28:57I am ready to feel confident and to be better and stronger.
29:08I am ready to start diving back into the dating world.
29:21I am ready to start diving back into the dating world.
29:34I am ready to go on my date, which sounds so weird and feels so weird.
29:41I literally could not decide what to wear.
29:44And this is what happened.
29:45So tonight, I'm going on a blind date, which was set up by my rabbi of all people.
29:50I have somebody in mind that you might like.
29:54He's here in Las Vegas.
29:55Okay.
29:56Yes.
29:58And I don't really know what to expect.
30:01What do people do on first dates?
30:03Like, are people kissing on first dates?
30:05Like, what is expected on a first date?
30:07I'm just, like, second-guessing my clothes, my hair, my shoes, everything.
30:12My anxiety is just through the roof.
30:14I just want to be me, right?
30:17Because if someone's going to like me, they're going to have to like me for me.
30:21So here goes nothing.
30:28I'm a nervous wreck right now.
30:30What if me and this guy have nothing in common?
30:33What if I say the wrong thing?
30:39Hi.
30:40Nice to meet you.
30:44Ezra, he's good looking.
30:46He's cute.
30:47He is, um, very tall.
30:49I mean, everybody's very tall to me, but he seems pretty tall.
30:56So, first...
30:57You should probably open this door, right?
31:00It would be impressive if you could do it upside down.
31:03It would be impressive if I could read upside down.
31:05How are you?
31:06Good, how are you?
31:07Wonderful, thank you.
31:08Do you guys have any questions on menu?
31:10We're in a tourist place.
31:11I mean, I feel like you have to go with a birthday.
31:14Okay.
31:14Perfect.
31:15Thank you so much.
31:17You look really nice.
31:20I changed so many times.
31:22I wasn't sure to lay out with you.
31:24That's nice.
31:25Why are you doing this?
31:26It's the first date.
31:28Yeah.
31:28I haven't been on a date since I don't even remember.
31:32So, now I'm realizing, like, oh, no.
31:36I don't know what to do.
31:38Is this your first date since the divorce process?
31:47I haven't even kissed anybody since I broke up with my ex-girlfriend.
32:04So, a year plus.
32:07I was just very open about his life, his past, his everything.
32:12It's not often that you meet somebody like that, and it puts me at ease.
32:16But I am worried that once he finds out that I'm not officially divorced, he's going to see
32:21it as a red flag.
32:25Actually, I do have to mention something.
32:28Oh, got it.
32:29Kat's out the bag.
32:29Let's hear it.
32:32Well, I'm not actually the first date.
32:36Okay.
32:37In the process?
32:38I mean, I haven't submitted the paperwork yet, but I have a lawyer.
32:42Okay.
32:43And apparently it's very quick to get a divorce later.
32:52I was divorced, and when I first started dating, my marriage wasn't finalized yet, either.
33:02I was nervous from here, though.
33:04I really wanted to get to meet you.
33:06Me, too.
33:07It was fun.
33:08You're very easy to jump to.
33:12So, am I allowed to ask if you would go on a second date with me if you had the
33:16option?
33:21Yes, it was definitely a very good date.
33:23I would do it again.
33:25To have a guy interested in me and interested in hearing what I have to say, I feel hopeful,
33:33happy.
33:34I'm so glad I put myself out there.
33:39I have such a good time.
33:43I didn't realize how much I missed this.
33:46I'm happy.
33:48And I can't wait to see what happens next.
34:03I just...
34:05Is there a lunch and shower?
34:07Yeah, I can't wait.
34:09Matt's family arrived and I haven't slept because my mom didn't tell me that they were
34:17coming at 6 a.m. Like the last time that we talked, he told me that they were going to
34:23come at 4, around 4 today. So I have the whole day to organize everything.
34:33It's so frustrating. Matt's family just arrived. It's Thanksgiving Day. They are drunk in their
34:39suitcases, yelling, arguing about each other. They woke up the baby. They woke me up. It was like
34:46actually the horror Thanksgiving version. You know, like literally I was invaded in my house.
34:55And no, I haven't told Matt about the turkey yet.
35:00I'm going to show you what the I thought it was a turkey. It's not a turkey.
35:05And why they put this thing in a turkey?
35:12Like this a turkey. I thought it was a turkey. It's not a turkey. It's like a turkey.
35:25I saw a turkey. I saw like a lot of people were grabbing it. And I saw it like, it
35:30was a turkey.
35:31And it was like, look, it looks and everything. It has a tail.
35:35Who said what's the head?
35:38It's a hat.
35:41I'm happy Thanksgiving.
35:44Everyone.
35:45Can I make myself a coffee?
35:47Yeah.
35:48If you want, I can make it for you.
35:51You want me?
35:53Okay.
35:54I really hope that things go smoother during the day
35:58because my anxiety is already over the roof
36:03and I just don't want to have a first Thanksgiving.
36:09They overflow a little bit the cup in my cup.
36:14This is too much coffee.
36:16Oh my gosh.
36:17Okay, give me, give me this.
36:21Before it gets safe, because it would.
36:25My mom and I don't have the best relationship.
36:29This woman is extremely religious,
36:32very judgmental.
36:34And she disagrees with everything I do,
36:37the way I dress,
36:38the fact that we're not married,
36:40that we're having sex,
36:41that we have Matilda.
36:42Whatever I do,
36:44she finds something wrong about it.
36:52No, because then the mosquitos enter.
36:56I'm outside.
37:00No, and the air conditioner then goes out.
37:03Okay.
37:04I have so much pressure to make things work.
37:09And I'm not feeling well after Matt's family invasion.
37:15All I need is for her to get the heck out of my way
37:19and let me do my thing.
37:21Is that too much to us?
37:23No.
37:25Close the door, please.
37:27Yeah, what's up?
37:29And lock it.
37:30Okay.
37:30Your mom is gonna come.
37:31Okay.
37:33Why you keep leaving me along with your mom?
37:37What do you want me to do?
37:38You've complained about this in the past, too.
37:40I don't know what you want me to do.
37:41You have to take care of her, Matt.
37:42This is way too much for me.
37:44You know how she is, Matt.
37:46Don't pretend.
37:48She's only seen my mom a couple times, right?
37:50And you already know you were there.
37:52It's just annoying.
37:53You know what she's asking this morning?
37:56If I have sex with you.
37:57If I'm taking very comfortable.
37:59I know. She likes to ask those things.
38:01Like, how is she asking, like, if we have sex?
38:04Like, what do we...
38:05I mean, we live together.
38:06We have a daughter.
38:07I mean, we just bought a house.
38:10This is a holiday, and I'm trying to keep it together.
38:13So, to avoid arguments, because I'm gonna lose it.
38:17I am asking, you know, to leave me alone with her.
38:20That's all I'm asking.
38:22Like, I know my mom could be extra and annoying.
38:26I know my mom can be difficult, but I love my mom,
38:29and I don't know how to explain it to Jasmine that she's just an old person.
38:34Like, have some patience.
38:37I don't know why everything has to make your blood boil, you know?
38:41I'm sorry, I'm not perfect.
38:43My family's not perfect.
38:44I don't know what to tell you, so...
38:47But you want me to be perfect, then.
38:49Okay, do you want me to watch her while you start cooking, or what are we doing?
38:53Just as a matter of thought, I didn't buy the turkey.
38:57You're joking.
39:01Honestly, I'm not surprised.
39:04What do you mean?
39:05I'm not surprised.
39:06I knew it.
39:07I knew you were gonna say something.
39:08Oh, I forgot the turkey or something.
39:10Yeah.
39:10I don't know.
39:11I can see.
39:12I didn't do it in part four.
39:15So I won the Thanksgiving.
39:17No, but at least be in a nice mood.
39:20Like, can we at least be in a nice mood?
39:26Dude, Jesus Christ.
39:27We could live in a mansion and have everything.
39:29You should be like, eh, about something.
39:31Just behave.
39:32Behave.
39:34There's no reason to be crabby.
39:36It's Thanksgiving.
39:51Listen, if they don't want to do it, I'm not gonna be...
39:53No, that's for sure.
39:54You're not gonna force them.
39:56That's for sure.
39:57But...
39:57I'm also not gonna...
39:58Lauren, when I try to say a sentence, you need to shut up.
40:02I just told Alex that I shot some content of me and the kids for a potential Mother's Day campaign.
40:09This is a big opportunity for me.
40:11And to have the kids involved with it, like, I think this is the perfect fit.
40:15And I was really hoping that he would be more open to it, but it is not going well.
40:22I have clearly taken on the role of momager.
40:26And if I am able to fully pursue being this momager and this agent for our family...
40:32You and your momager.
40:33Be momager.
40:34The kids is a different story.
40:37Well, I filmed some stuff with them.
40:39I know you filmed some stuff with them.
40:41You told me you filmed the drone.
40:43I know you did already something.
40:45It's okay, should you?
40:46You can show me, but it doesn't mean that we're gonna use it and take this campaign or whatever.
40:50Okay.
40:51Understand?
40:52I understand.
40:54All right, so show me.
40:55What is it?
40:55Okay.
40:56I'll put on a TV for you.
41:02Whoa!
41:04I'll make you both want to put in here.
41:06Oh, they're good in here.
41:07So, wait, when I'm gonna step out...
41:09You're gonna brush your hair.
41:10Okay.
41:11Here we go.
41:13Look at how much fun you're having.
41:15Serum?
41:16I'm in a dopey dopey.
41:17You can't see all of them in here.
41:21They're having fun.
41:22I'm not begging them to do it.
41:27This is what we do.
41:29You make your video, cut it together or whatever.
41:32We'll show it to the kids.
41:35And we'll tell them, hey kids, do you want to get in more videos?
41:40But if they say no, that is it.
41:44Right.
41:44Not a problem.
41:47This whole social media thing is gonna be an ongoing thing, I'm sure.
41:50But what bothers me more is that we're not on the same page.
41:54So moving forward, we gotta be a team in this.
41:57You're right.
41:57Moving forward, I will be better at that.
41:59It's just that this could be huge for my career.
42:06But for what it's worth, I will never force our kids to do something they don't want to do.
42:11I promise.
42:12You all right?
42:14Yeah.
42:16All right, Yala, I'm going to change.
42:20Fuck you.
42:22Well, I think that went well.
42:24Here's the thing.
42:27Ema gets what Ema wants.
42:29Good morning.
42:30How you doing?
42:31Good morning.
42:32Glad to be back in San Diego.
42:34Bring your AK.
42:36Gino style.
42:42Oh, my God.
42:50Here we go.
42:52Time to get ready.
42:53Today, I'm going on a date with Stephanie.
42:57Yeah!
42:58I hope I don't blow it.
42:59I would love to worship you.
43:01And on that note...
43:04They have a gigantic man-child bitching at me.
43:09I'm sick of being belittled and taking advantage of.
43:12So, I'm going to have to decide if I want to stay in this marriage or not.
43:16I think you take me for granted.
43:17I've spoiled you.
43:19No.
43:20All right, Tiona.
43:21I hate him.
43:22I hate him.
43:23I want to get married in Florida so my friends and family can go.
43:27He's like, oh, I want to go to Aruba.
43:29I want to go to Turks and Caicos.
43:30So, not only does my fiancé, Phillip, want a destination wedding.
43:35He also wants it to be a dry wedding.
43:37I'm not allowed to have fun or drink with my friends.
43:40Well, I don't want to see you embarrassing yourself.
43:43You always go out and stuff.
43:45When you go meet with your friends, you come home at 3 a.m.
43:48I don't want you to boss me around every day and tell me what to do.
43:50I don't like the way that you are at continuous election man.
43:53I feel like a prisoner in my own home.
43:55So, I don't know how much longer I can do this.
43:58I'm over it.
44:02Before Matt's mom left, she handed me this envelope.
44:07Dear Jasmine, I cannot give you and Matt my blessing.
44:12All of this could have been avoided if Matt had chosen a remaining girl.
44:17Matt's mom is getting on my last nerve.
44:21And these words, they cut like knife into my heart.
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